I am a very blessed woman. Every time i watch such episodes, I realize I have the perfect man. He affirms me, he adooooores me, he cleans, cooks, loves on me, wants meeee, cares about my mental health,keeps me in check. I am the babiesttttt 30 year old when around him. As Murugi says, KUPENDWA RAHA. Love you girls.
Some men are PRESSED in the comments, trust me boo, what you think is too much some men will do in a heartbeat. But fear not you'll surely find a woman who'll accept your bare minimum.
Wooow this episode called me out . I have a friend who get flowers delivered to her weekly by her boyfriend,She gets luxurious presents and as much as I'm happy for her I always tell myself aiii Kenya gani a man can do that ......now I'm realizing it's me projecting on her coz I've placed my standards so low that no man has ever gotten me a rose and seeing her get weekly flowers is a trigger coz she placed her standards super high this was a wake up call .And I'm realizing deep down I wish men treated me the same way they treat her . This was a wake up call Thank you TMI
My take out for the episode on what women really want 1) for the world to acknowledge the value women are bringing to the table ,2) one requires family commitment to support from the spouse to family members,3)to be able to hold honest conversations in all aspects of life,4)to have monetary support yes yes yes and finally,5)all the appreciation love and affection there is to be given on earth every woman wants some.... episode on fire 🔥.
It’s like these two live inside me!!!😳How everything they said on this episode resonates to a T👌👌!!!! Soul sisters for real!!!🥰🥰 I'm glad I speak to my partner about what I want without feeling the need to compromise to keep him because he wants me to feel loved and heard 🥰 Ladies, it doesn't matter how small your need is, make it known that it's important to you. 👌👌Also love yourself enough to receive love. How you allow people to treat you is a reflection of your self love 👏👌
I have never been more grateful for being late. I discovered TMI like 2-3 months ago and now i have a whole years worth of episodes to catch up on. I have never been more grateful. Keep doing this.
if they mentioned 20 things, my man is doing 17 and his scores are high!! . and the few that are not happening I can explain why, eg pesa bado hazijaingia but it's coming ❤ feeling so blessed 🎉.. I'd also like to add that men also want us to understand when they can't deliver what we really want.. give him grace. and 2 apart from doing so much /being busy bodies it's good to learn what he really wants too. There's magic in mutual understanding and recognizing each other's side of the story. So maybe the best thing you can do for your other half or relationship is understanding that they won't always deliver and being Ok with it
Absolutely loved this episode and agree entirely!❤ This is definitely what women REALLY want.💯 About the song, unfortunately, it's a nay for me as well. I used to really love how you guys would say its DEFINITELY TMI with like finality and sass. It used to give "Previously on..." when you're watching a new episode of a series - in such a powerful at the same time heart warming way.🥺 Keep doing what you do ladies; I absolutely enjoy your content and learn so much from you since I'm just 20.😇
Aaahhhhh whyyyy diiddd youuuu siittt anddd waaiiitttt😮💨😮💨wrong moveeeee.. You should have come out anddd first of alll look at theeeemmmmm😂😂ahhhh Jooaann!!!!😂😂😂
I get what Murugi is saying about bare minimums. I feel like the why is what we should not compromise on but the how we can. For example, Kabi buying Milly a range rover, the basis of that is Kabi appreciating Milly. So you should not compromise on wanting to be loved and appreciated but it can be in other forms that mean the most to both of you and that's fine. For example when Kabi and Milly first started their RUclips channel, they used to do videos of 10 things I love about my wife/husband and that was the form that the love and appreciation took at the time, now it's the gifts and that's also okay, because that's where they are in life right now. I'm saying that you should never accept the limitation on what you want but you can understand that how you want it may be limited because of kawaida life stuff - finances, family priorities, health complications etc. Sometimes we don't realize that different is not wrong or less than, it's just different. We hear at time men being told, Other men are buying houses and cars for their women, you what are you doing? And at times your way of showing appreciation is ignored because it is not as grand as men out here. And ofcourse this is not an excuse for men to do the least in a relationship but I believe the things you are talking about that women want will be excecuted differently depending on the people in the relationship - depending on how both of you give and receive love. Loved this episode and I'm definitely taking notes. Not only for a relationship but also things that other women in my life want.
For a man who has found his dream girl, he'll be willing to provide for them unconditionally. If they have the finances. Now that we are having a relationship edition, what of myths society expects of a successful relationship.
I thought I was the only who follows my husband without any money😂😂😂 every time we’re going together, I’m not worried about carrying my purse or a card. I just know he’ll pay. Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be?
In betweener from Kigali❤🎉i cant get enough of you queens and its so amazing how you relate to the Millys husbands 😅 sometimes i think i live in Kenya bcz of you queens😍
Waaaah! This convo is triggering for me!! I developed anxiety with my ex whenever we went out as in I always had to have money to pay for stuff even when I’ve been ‘taken out’ Now I run away from any hint of me paying for anything on a date😂
what an episode! I enjoyed every minute of it, I suggest you invite Eli Mwenda and Georgie Ndirangu to enlighten us more on what men really want in a relationship.
Yay to the song. (You guys look happy when singing it so it should definitely stay) Everyone else will just have to get used to it.😅😅 It's only in the beginning guys. I am very tagged in this episode. The limiting beliefs I have...chiiiiiiiiiillllleeeeee. Now that I'm aware of them, I can start unlearning and practising an abundance mentality. Who said I can't have it all? Absolutely no one! Loved this episode.❤❤
In an ideal world, no man would want to work either. I think no one likes to work, man or woman. We do it as a means of survival. In my humble opinion, it feels presumptuous that men love to work, they just have been conditioned to do it and do not feel comfortable admitting they would prefer "a soft life" as well
Not lyd attacking me directly when she talked about being emotionally mature also means talking directly about things that upset you ,, I'm just from ranting to my bestie😅😅this man will think that's petty... can I be petty in peace aaagh😅😅😅
Do you have a link to this episode? I need to forward it to my husband. I feel like you have spoken on my behalf (what I really what him to know) of what I REALLY want from him!!!!
1- gentlemen 2- rest Just sit down and look cute Match the energy and see where the relationship going Don't mother Say what you want a morning message
Road to 100k yeeeeh well done ladies
Thank you!
I am a very blessed woman. Every time i watch such episodes, I realize I have the perfect man. He affirms me, he adooooores me, he cleans, cooks, loves on me, wants meeee, cares about my mental health,keeps me in check. I am the babiesttttt 30 year old when around him. As Murugi says, KUPENDWA RAHA. Love you girls.
We love to hear it!🙌🏽
Some men are PRESSED in the comments, trust me boo, what you think is too much some men will do in a heartbeat. But fear not you'll surely find a woman who'll accept your bare minimum.
Spot on😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s the FEAR NOT for me…. Sprinkle sprinkle 😅
@@heart_to_heart_ lmaooo😂
😂😂😂😂 no beating around the bush.
I will forever do the bare minimum coz most of you are in relationship's just to finesse
Wooow this episode called me out .
I have a friend who get flowers delivered to her weekly by her boyfriend,She gets luxurious presents and as much as I'm happy for her I always tell myself aiii Kenya gani a man can do that ......now I'm realizing it's me projecting on her coz I've placed my standards so low that no man has ever gotten me a rose and seeing her get weekly flowers is a trigger coz she placed her standards super high this was a wake up call .And I'm realizing deep down I wish men treated me the same way they treat her .
This was a wake up call Thank you TMI
You needn't say more. Do not accept less. You are a baby gal, you risk your life to bring life to the world. You deserve more than you really think.
Men also don't want to settle for less. You should be a better woman to a man too
Nay (HELL NOO) to the singing...😄 . The first intro was perfect. Maybe because that is how we met you guys.
Yeees
@@ruo. ❤❤
💯💯
My take out for the episode on what women really want 1) for the world to acknowledge the value women are bringing to the table ,2) one requires family commitment to support from the spouse to family members,3)to be able to hold honest conversations in all aspects of life,4)to have monetary support yes yes yes and finally,5)all the appreciation love and affection there is to be given on earth every woman wants some.... episode on fire 🔥.
No to the S.O.N.G !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Say its Definitely TMI with some sass 😊😊😊
They're getting there. Baby steps🙂🙂
What women really want: to be loved fully not just desired.
So true!
Great episode guys!! please invite Eli and Georgie ndirangu for the men's version of What Men Really Want... pretty please!!
I wrote this before finishing the episode, kumbe you guys had the same idea.. Yes please bring Georgie and Eli for that episode.
We hope to have them here one day!
It’s like these two live inside me!!!😳How everything they said on this episode resonates to a T👌👌!!!! Soul sisters for real!!!🥰🥰 I'm glad I speak to my partner about what I want without feeling the need to compromise to keep him because he wants me to feel loved and heard 🥰 Ladies, it doesn't matter how small your need is, make it known that it's important to you. 👌👌Also love yourself enough to receive love. How you allow people to treat you is a reflection of your self love 👏👌
We love that you related to us so much!
Nay to the song the statement gives so much sass 😂
"Is he doing too much or is your man doing nothing?"😂😂😂😂
Facts spoken💪🏽
I have never been more grateful for being late. I discovered TMI like 2-3 months ago and now i have a whole years worth of episodes to catch up on. I have never been more grateful. Keep doing this.
This is my favourite episode.. Lydia's sense of humour while shouting facts at us is an art .. beautiful ladies❤
We love to here it!
It's definitely TMIIII 🎶😄💃🏿 I love the song it is mood uplifter. I sing along to it. Celebrate you Queens #WCW❤️
if they mentioned 20 things, my man is doing 17 and his scores are high!! . and the few that are not happening I can explain why, eg pesa bado hazijaingia but it's coming ❤ feeling so blessed 🎉.. I'd also like to add that men also want us to understand when they can't deliver what we really want.. give him grace. and 2 apart from doing so much /being busy bodies it's good to learn what he really wants too. There's magic in mutual understanding and recognizing each other's side of the story. So maybe the best thing you can do for your other half or relationship is understanding that they won't always deliver and being Ok with it
Wow, uko na bro inlaw??😅
@@dorahmulinge3800 😂.. yeah but ako high school soooo
Woow I want your man
@@suelizmungai8863 too bad😅😅, acha nijipe hopes, ipo siku😆😁
Do you y'all want couple friends? Where do I apply? 😅😅
Absolutely loved this episode and agree entirely!❤ This is definitely what women REALLY want.💯 About the song, unfortunately, it's a nay for me as well. I used to really love how you guys would say its DEFINITELY TMI with like finality and sass. It used to give "Previously on..." when you're watching a new episode of a series - in such a powerful at the same time heart warming way.🥺 Keep doing what you do ladies; I absolutely enjoy your content and learn so much from you since I'm just 20.😇
TMI changed my whole mood of Wednesday 💯. I mean Wednesday has a purpose ❤❤. Lots of love Lyd and Murugi.😊
King betweeners 👑 here
And yes to that parallel episode💪
Yes!!!
I prefer the old intro
Nay to the song
Not "president Ruto" 😂😂😂😂... Lydia you're hilarious 🙌
I love the singing... please keep singing cause I definitely be singing with yall!
Aaahhhhh whyyyy diiddd youuuu siittt anddd waaiiitttt😮💨😮💨wrong moveeeee..
You should have come out anddd first of alll look at theeeemmmmm😂😂ahhhh Jooaann!!!!😂😂😂
I love the intro singing
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 it gives vibes, excitement and furaha.
Nay to the song . Old intro 👍. Nice and relatable content ❤
Nayy yo the song. 😂❤❤love you ladies
I am giving both of you such tight hugs for speaking on my very own behalf!
Everything on this episode is TRUE!
Awww! Thank you!
Giiiirls!!!!!
Today's episode point after point got me saying yaaaaasss.......preeeaaach girl....WOOORD!!
Gaad bless ya for being so loud !!❤
We love to hear it!
Me I matched the energy,,weeeh I found I was the only one energetic 😂😂
😂 😂 That's when you realize you're the only one serious in the relationship
@@joanmuthoni7558 walaii nilitoka bila kuambiwa🤣🤣
Watching TMI has raised my standards for relationships fr!💕💕 So much I've never thought of, y'all really raising standards over here!😂😂😂
Great conversation ❤. Just shared this with my brother, on how to up his game with his wife 😍😍.
"Until the next triggering episode..." I'm HOLLERING! 😭
🤣😂
i dont understand why people dont like the TMI song..i loove it😫its a yeeeey
Yeeey should be
I'm actually updating my list of the qualities i want in a man,,, after watching this 😂❤❤❤❤❤
Nay for the song
Side note love the moody dark makeup on Murugi!
I get what Murugi is saying about bare minimums. I feel like the why is what we should not compromise on but the how we can. For example, Kabi buying Milly a range rover, the basis of that is Kabi appreciating Milly. So you should not compromise on wanting to be loved and appreciated but it can be in other forms that mean the most to both of you and that's fine. For example when Kabi and Milly first started their RUclips channel, they used to do videos of 10 things I love about my wife/husband and that was the form that the love and appreciation took at the time, now it's the gifts and that's also okay, because that's where they are in life right now. I'm saying that you should never accept the limitation on what you want but you can understand that how you want it may be limited because of kawaida life stuff - finances, family priorities, health complications etc. Sometimes we don't realize that different is not wrong or less than, it's just different. We hear at time men being told, Other men are buying houses and cars for their women, you what are you doing? And at times your way of showing appreciation is ignored because it is not as grand as men out here. And ofcourse this is not an excuse for men to do the least in a relationship but I believe the things you are talking about that women want will be excecuted differently depending on the people in the relationship - depending on how both of you give and receive love. Loved this episode and I'm definitely taking notes. Not only for a relationship but also things that other women in my life want.
it's definitely nay to the song.
really great episode, loved it : )
For a man who has found his dream girl, he'll be willing to provide for them unconditionally. If they have the finances. Now that we are having a relationship edition, what of myths society expects of a successful relationship.
We’ll add this to our notes
I thought I was the only who follows my husband without any money😂😂😂 every time we’re going together, I’m not worried about carrying my purse or a card. I just know he’ll pay. Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be?
That’s how it should be!
That’s okay cause it’s your husband. If it’s a boyfriend or a man you fancy carry your purse.
Nay to the song…Great content!💙
I love you guys but Naay to the song😂. The statement was powerful!
Just discovered your channel lately and I can't get enough of y'all 🥺💜🌸 really learning alot from both of you
Aaww!! Welcome to the community, in betweener. You will love it here 😊
Welcome to the Inbetweener Family!
I definitely love the song...be yourselves babes, I love that too!
Thank you for understanding!
I want a man that understands period cramps😢, no the ones that think women are pretending to be in pain whilst i am almost meeting my creator 😂😂
This😢
We all want this sis!
Yay to song and Yay to bringing Georgie!!! Lovely episode ladies❤❤ 💋 xx
Yeeeessss!
"How is that your problem? She has another one" OMGGG LYDIAAA!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God gasped for that one!!!😭😭😭😭stoooppp🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did she lie!😂
@@tmipodcastke I love me some Lydia!!!🤣🤣🤣
This episode has been eye opening.
I can't believe that I used to think that men, who do over and beyond for their women are hiding something.🙈🙈
We all need a Richard Bett in our lives (Moniques Husband)
I said it😂
Love this topic❤
In betweener from Kigali❤🎉i cant get enough of you queens and its so amazing how you relate to the Millys husbands 😅 sometimes i think i live in Kenya bcz of you queens😍
Sending love your way 🙌🏽
Nay to the song
Waaaah! This convo is triggering for me!! I developed anxiety with my ex whenever we went out as in I always had to have money to pay for stuff even when I’ve been ‘taken out’ Now I run away from any hint of me paying for anything on a date😂
😢😢I relate...so glad it ended🎉
Totally relatable....
I love how Lydia saves face on TMI tirelessly 😂😂😂 “And not to mention that…” “And this isn’t to say…” “And we don’t mean that..”😂😂😂
😅
what an episode! I enjoyed every minute of it, I suggest you invite Eli Mwenda and Georgie Ndirangu to enlighten us more on what men really want in a relationship.
I've loved this episode! Please do a men's version and bring mantalk and Georgie.
We will🥰
Naay to the song,yes to TMI🎉
All there are relatable to me. These are the things that I REALLY want. Great episode!
Yay to the song. (You guys look happy when singing it so it should definitely stay) Everyone else will just have to get used to it.😅😅 It's only in the beginning guys.
I am very tagged in this episode. The limiting beliefs I have...chiiiiiiiiiillllleeeeee.
Now that I'm aware of them, I can start unlearning and practising an abundance mentality. Who said I can't have it all? Absolutely no one!
Loved this episode.❤❤
Exactly! As long as we are happy!
I'll still watch whether you sing or not😊
Powerful content❤
Thank you!🔥
In an ideal world, no man would want to work either. I think no one likes to work, man or woman. We do it as a means of survival. In my humble opinion, it feels presumptuous that men love to work, they just have been conditioned to do it and do not feel comfortable admitting they would prefer "a soft life" as well
Well spoken!
Nay to the song.Buh anyway i always look forward to wednesday .I`m 5 hours ahead but tmi has taught me patience.
Without the song, there's a nice attitude😂😂.. 😊
I love chivalrous men kabisa
Yeeeey to the song . The statement is kinda boring...
Don't y'all think Murugi's close friend will feel bad when you talk about her situation as you whisper and giggle?
I'm so happy Lydia said it. Feminism is not a bad thing 💯
So true!
Murugi your make up and outfit are giving yess!!
Murugi's make up artist never misses. It's always perfect!!!
Thank you
😂 If we match energies, it's over
I wish y’all can do a girls trip to Mexico and discuss TMI . I would definitely go !
Aki i never liked my name until lyd started mentioning it so well❤❤jayne😜😜😜
Hi Jane!
Song on No song I'm still going to watch till the end..Do what feels right for you guys❤
You had me at female friend or female bestie! Red flag! Red flag! I am supposed to be the only female you confide in!
Crimson red!😂
This episode was so wholesomely triggering! 😂😩
unfortunately I'm team nay🙃 but I'm also team TMI so I'm ok with whatever
I love love the song!!! Do NOT stop
Naay to the song😒 but Yees to the great content
Nay to the song in all honesty 😊
Not lyd attacking me directly when she talked about being emotionally mature also means talking directly about things that upset you ,, I'm just from ranting to my bestie😅😅this man will think that's petty... can I be petty in peace aaagh😅😅😅
now am single sasa.... Wueeeh yaani love is out there? Where did i go wrong
loved the episode and love you beauties😅
Yeah to the song 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
This episode has really enlightened me. Thank you guys, you both look amazing. I must add Murugi looks stunning in that hair and outfit.
Thank you🥰
Naay to the song,,but we loove yall
Guys I love you but Nay to the song ladies😂 Otherwise I really really loved this episode 😍
Wooow I'm soo intrigued by every ounce of this conversation-very insightful as well as entertaining.
Good job ladies ❤
Thank you!
Do you have a link to this episode? I need to forward it to my husband. I feel like you have spoken on my behalf (what I really what him to know) of what I REALLY want from him!!!!
You can share this episode by tapping the share button!
Push presents!!! It’s a must, giving birth is a matter of life and death so yaaaas, give those presents!!💕
It’s definitely TMI🎶🎶😁😁
Sing along with us!
@@tmipodcastke Always 😁❤️
Definitely YAY to the song
Nay to the song.
Kingbetweeners 👑 Take notes 📖.
Nay to the song!!!😂😂😂
loved this episode ! please bring a man on the show to share
Standard raised.... period 😊
Yes💪🏽
Naaaaaaaaah to the song plzzzz and I usually don’t comment 🤣
Just paused to text my man!❤Also TMI ignites the feminine part of us.
I definitely love the song. It is songing...
1- gentlemen
2- rest
Just sit down and look cute
Match the energy and see where the relationship going
Don't mother
Say what you want a morning message
Naaayy to the song!
Am first OMG🎉🎉🎉🎉it's never happened before.🎉🎉Hey🎉
Tumechapwa na Man City. I'm here because I need healing. Arsenal will not kill me when you gorgeous babes are here.
The football babes have arrived 😂
I absolutely love you guys. This topic was 💥💣