The tricky thing about highschool (I am in one BTW) is that you don't get very many shots at making friends. Of all the students a smaller number of people are compatible with you. If you mess one interaction up, then news will spread like wildfire and everyone will avoid you. And whatever impression you make, it's very hard to change that. It is not do or die but rather, win or die. There is no abundance of people like we get outside of school.
Luke bro. Taking in the advice from even a few of your vids I’ve made a massive change in how I look at myself and other people- now I don’t act so awkwardly- and just not myself at all- around people my age, and I’m starting to feel like I actually can deal with situations without being extremely anxious and go into my actual personality without having a fear of being judged for it. I’m more present + more relaxed in general because I answer my pessimistic af thoughts now instead of just letting them take over my life. You’re the only guy I’ve seen that’s realises it all comes from childhood beliefs, and who actually gets to the root cause of it instead of giving you these bullshit ‘act like a confident man, have a good posture, speak clearly’ advice. I appreciate you man:)
Thank you, I’ve watched countless self improvement videos but have never changed. Your videos are different, and I’m ready to take a leap of faith into a new life. Today I started speaking louder, and it’s crazy how people listen more. You mentioned giving immediate answers, and when I do that I don’t have time to consciously speak boldly. Is this something that will get better as I speak boldly every day?
The tricky thing about highschool (I am in one BTW) is that you don't get very many shots at making friends. Of all the students a smaller number of people are compatible with you. If you mess one interaction up, then news will spread like wildfire and everyone will avoid you. And whatever impression you make, it's very hard to change that. It is not do or die but rather, win or die. There is no abundance of people like we get outside of school.
Finally someone who isn't trying to sell me something, but instead actually giving advice.
Luke bro. Taking in the advice from even a few of your vids I’ve made a massive change in how I look at myself and other people- now I don’t act so awkwardly- and just not myself at all- around people my age, and I’m starting to feel like I actually can deal with situations without being extremely anxious and go into my actual personality without having a fear of being judged for it. I’m more present + more relaxed in general because I answer my pessimistic af thoughts now instead of just letting them take over my life. You’re the only guy I’ve seen that’s realises it all comes from childhood beliefs, and who actually gets to the root cause of it instead of giving you these bullshit ‘act like a confident man, have a good posture, speak clearly’ advice. I appreciate you man:)
MUCH LOVE MAN!
i'm still struggling but your content helps so much, thank you bro
Thank you, I’ve watched countless self improvement videos but have never changed. Your videos are different, and I’m ready to take a leap of faith into a new life. Today I started speaking louder, and it’s crazy how people listen more. You mentioned giving immediate answers, and when I do that I don’t have time to consciously speak boldly. Is this something that will get better as I speak boldly every day?
Thank you so much for such helpful tips. I’m really grateful I found this channel!