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Комментарии • 83

  • @MrYumerican
    @MrYumerican 9 лет назад +21

    "God sent her an imperfect guy kinda like he sent your wife." hahahah that was a good one.

  • @alyssam8977
    @alyssam8977 4 года назад +4

    Dated for 5 years, engaged for like 4 months. Went to pre-marriage counseling for 6 weeks. Married for 2 years now. Not always perfect, but definitely trying our best.

  • @belindagarza3958
    @belindagarza3958 5 лет назад +2

    What wonderful advice. We've been married 23 years. I would have appreciated some good advice from my parents. I was so nervous. Such a huge decision made with what limited knowledge I had. At least I got some good advice at church.

  • @ir10031981
    @ir10031981 10 лет назад +43

    if only I could find a "Dave Ramsey" woman to settle with....

    • @user-fq1tz5zp6i
      @user-fq1tz5zp6i 8 лет назад +6

      They don't exist.

    • @DebraKGWimer
      @DebraKGWimer 7 лет назад

      really?

    • @robertspencer5219
      @robertspencer5219 7 лет назад +3

      My wife is, most of the time, she still has her wants but she keeps them in check.

    • @jerseygirl0869
      @jerseygirl0869 7 лет назад +9

      Jacob Durant I'm right here

    • @joshuas.169
      @joshuas.169 6 лет назад +14

      Dave should start a dating site for FPU grads. There doesn't seem to be one.

  • @Chikou14219
    @Chikou14219 6 лет назад +25

    6 mo of dating and they're close to engagement? Is this a christin thing?

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 6 лет назад +4

      Not really.

    • @lordextravaganda
      @lordextravaganda 6 лет назад +7

      My wife and I were engaged within a month and a half. Married in 11 months. If you know, you know. The shorter the engagement and "dating" the better. Less chance for temptation. Why waste time?

    • @jennifertackett2241
      @jennifertackett2241 6 лет назад +14

      TWFodor So, once people get married, you believe there's no more temptation? Lol. You are naive.

    • @lordextravaganda
      @lordextravaganda 6 лет назад +3

      I never said that nor did I imply it. Sin is always a temptation, even in marriage.

    • @surelock3221
      @surelock3221 5 лет назад +3

      TWFodor then how is there less chance for temptation?

  • @danielcrain8510
    @danielcrain8510 5 лет назад +8

    Was engaged for two months, had no premarital counseling, and didn’t go through Financial Peas University, finances doing well, and marriage going great!

  • @eddierobles2137
    @eddierobles2137 6 лет назад +5

    Totally agree with Davis because young people lack wisdom and they need guidance . If they are sick , will get them a doctor , if I want them to be successful , we have to show them the way and then let them fly

  • @PattieM
    @PattieM 10 лет назад +5

    Looking that book up now. As we follow the path of adoption which praying we are matched with a daughter.

    • @Jeff-xy7fv
      @Jeff-xy7fv 6 лет назад +1

      I am praying for the same. I wouldn't want a son either.

    • @dardyunna3700
      @dardyunna3700 6 лет назад +2

      What was the outcome Pattie ?

    • @negan4089
      @negan4089 5 лет назад +3

      Don't you get to pick who you adopt?

  • @ir10031981
    @ir10031981 10 лет назад +1

    perhaps maybe I need to move to Nashville? somewhere in central Tennessee.....

  • @jessietorres1387
    @jessietorres1387 4 года назад +1

    I like the mentality that you own your daughter and have to give her away. That’s what I’m talking about Ramsey!

  • @aiyamariabanat
    @aiyamariabanat 5 лет назад +7

    They’re so young! Oh dear

    • @Kidsinamerica
      @Kidsinamerica 3 года назад

      The "Greatest Generation" used to marry at 18, and most of those marriages lasted well beyond 50 years.

  • @ozarked2363
    @ozarked2363 6 лет назад +23

    Judging by the comments then I guess I was out of line when I took my daughter's boyfriend to the basement and showed him my shooting trophies, gun safe, and ammo storage, and then asked him if we needed to talk about anything?

    • @maryjambor3677
      @maryjambor3677 6 лет назад +6

      My dad did that when my (now husband) met him for the first time. Except, my husband is a super gun nerd and has his own gun/ammo collection, so it wasn't threatening.

    • @jeremyvanb821
      @jeremyvanb821 5 лет назад +7

      Meh it sounds a bit like your trying to be a tough guy and seems silly

    • @jamesjhonson4568
      @jamesjhonson4568 5 лет назад +2

      I would say cool, let's go shooting.

    • @jessietorres1387
      @jessietorres1387 4 года назад

      Sounds like you don’t have confidence your daughter can’t take care of herself. Best of luck

    • @alexeivoncarstein8286
      @alexeivoncarstein8286 3 года назад

      and if you were to threaten my son with a gun youll be inviting violence into your home. cut the tough guy act

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 5 лет назад +3

    Good thing my dad isn't like the Dave's male fans.

  • @eleanor7242
    @eleanor7242 Год назад

    I thought my daughters to pick right . “ nice statement - what if the daughter had absent and non existent father ? Would she not pick well ?

  • @sebastiancorrales
    @sebastiancorrales Год назад

    what's an example of a "little boy man" ?

  • @john1425
    @john1425 4 года назад +1

    People who say they get their bibles from the value have never read the bible.

  • @EmpireTextbooks
    @EmpireTextbooks 5 лет назад +4

    Why does a financial advice show post clips such as “how to talk to daughter’s boyfriend”? Is this doctor Phil?

    • @sarrahwilson8149
      @sarrahwilson8149 5 лет назад +2

      Lol. He says if you don't like it don't listen. Do you listen to the science behind spending cash vs credit? Behaviour bad or good can be the causation of wealth. I would rather he not hold back. I need to know.

  • @samuelstrachan2726
    @samuelstrachan2726 Год назад +2

    Leave it to Dave to shill Financial Peace University when his future son-in-law is asking for his blessing.

  • @mimia3510
    @mimia3510 5 лет назад +3

    How to talk to daughter boyfriend? answer: With gun in hand lol

  • @user-ok6ef9zn4f
    @user-ok6ef9zn4f 3 года назад +1

    Marrying someone after just 6 months sounds insane to me... This is probably why the divorce rate is 50%...

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 5 лет назад

    Sorry Dave, if dad needs to do that, then why date ?

  • @marktheshark2569
    @marktheshark2569 4 года назад +2

    She should absolutely not get married at 18-19 way to young. Minimum 22 should be the earliest u get married. I think that is still to young 24-25 would be a better age since u would have a real job for a couple of years. I personally don’t want to get married until about 30

    • @user-ex3mx7hk4l
      @user-ex3mx7hk4l 6 месяцев назад

      I hope you don’t want kids if your bride is your age. As she approaches 30 she is considered high risk due to her age for complications & miscarriage. Also her fertility declines every year - and that goes double if she has possible reproductive issues from things like Endometriosis or PCOS.
      Good luck with that plan, Mark.
      👍

  • @adamsaldana5462
    @adamsaldana5462 5 лет назад +1

    I once learned that if your first two children are girls, chances are you were bad kid growing up.

    • @kristinakane7968
      @kristinakane7968 4 года назад +1

      I don't see a correlation; unless you have any credible evidence, I am going to assume you are being anecdotal.

  • @shialourdes7547
    @shialourdes7547 5 лет назад +3

    Too young to be getting serious. They need to enjoy their youth and date different types of people.

    • @alexb5275
      @alexb5275 4 года назад +2

      ktbffh 57, that sounds like something a sad person would say.

  • @hollyhocks7360
    @hollyhocks7360 5 лет назад +12

    How patronising. As a woman, daughter and a mother I decide what and when I deal with money and do not need ANY male to speak for me and my decisions.

    • @kirkmcallister2150
      @kirkmcallister2150 4 года назад +2

      If you are married then you should decide with 1 Man. If you aren't married, you should get married, because children fair far better with a Man and a Woman in the home.

    • @michaelcarrier4374
      @michaelcarrier4374 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @anne-marieobrien3349
    @anne-marieobrien3349 6 лет назад +16

    This father has no right to press this conversation on the boyfriend unless he asks for advice. It is not your place Dave.

    • @BigRed2
      @BigRed2 6 лет назад +21

      Anne-Marie OBrien Go seek help please, his daughters wellbeing is his concern and you don’t have to be asked for advice or to be mentored in order to receive it.

    • @eatpumkin090
      @eatpumkin090 6 лет назад +20

      The father has every right. Any decent parent has the right to look out for their childs well being all the way through adulthood. Quality parenting.

    • @gavinstutler2469
      @gavinstutler2469 6 лет назад +6

      Anne is a single mother. Bet on it. She has no respect for men because she's not an asset to men.

    • @grayandgray
      @grayandgray 6 лет назад +4

      It's a dynamic situation. If the boyfriend can't hack it, or dumps the daughter as the easiest response, that's good to know!

  • @marijastojanova2479
    @marijastojanova2479 2 года назад +1

    "A princess for the rest of her life??" Boy, thats prepping your daughter to be an entitled little narcissistic egomaniac. The should both treat each other with kindness, even in hard times, and know how to communicate. That whole princess-talk is why men seak for normal, confident women out of their marriage with an immature "princess".

  • @pets6659
    @pets6659 7 лет назад +6

    Over 50% marriage end in divorce in 5 years anyways best advice is get prenup so she get nothing in divorce and then we'll see how many wemen want marriage then but don't worry she stay longer enough to have 3 kids and big house and then divorce you and take half of your assets and half you income for child support for 18 years

    • @jody802202
      @jody802202 7 лет назад +9

      you will have to support your children regardless of marriage

    • @ta_reesa1251
      @ta_reesa1251 6 лет назад +6

      Wow!!! You have all kinds of drama

    • @LL-xx4iq
      @LL-xx4iq 6 лет назад +7

      Bitter much?

    • @eatpumkin090
      @eatpumkin090 6 лет назад

      Unfortunately this does happen a lot. The way you put state it sounds as though you are bitter about the subject. Use your best judgement and always use protection until you find the 'one'.

    • @sarrahwilson8149
      @sarrahwilson8149 6 лет назад +2

      Actually most divorces happen for couples that do not attend church. Dave had a video about that.