I Don't Like My Daughter's Boyfriend, What Should I Do?
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2021
- I Don't Like My Daughter's Boyfriend, What Should I Do?
Nix the guesswork and scrolling. We’ll connect you with investment pros we trust: bit.ly/3hc6Pgt
Visit the Dave Ramsey store today for resources to help you take control of your money! goo.gl/gEv6Tj
The new Borrowed Future uncovers the dark side of the student loan industry and exposes how the system is built to work against you.
Watch Now: bit.ly/3j9FOLl
Did you miss the latest Ramsey Show episode? Don’t worry-we’ve got you covered! Get all the highlights you missed plus some of the best moments from the show. Watch debt-free screams, Dave Rants, guest interviews, and more!
Want to watch FULL episodes of The Ramsey Show? Make sure to go to The Ramsey Show (Full Episodes) at: ruclips.net/user/TheRamseySh...
Check out the show at 4pm EST Monday-Friday or anytime on demand. Dave Ramsey and his co-hosts talking about money, careers, relationships, and how they impact your life. Tune in to The Ramsey Show and experience one of the most popular talk radio shows in the country!
Ramsey Network (Subscribe Now!)
• The Ramsey Show (Highlights):
ruclips.net/user/TheRamseySh...
• The Ramsey Show (Full Episodes): ruclips.net/user/TheRamseySh...
• The Dr. John Delony Show: ruclips.net/user/JohnDelony?...
• The Rachel Cruze Show: ruclips.net/user/RachelCr...
• The Ken Coleman Show: ruclips.net/user/TheKenColem...
• The Christy Wright Show: ruclips.net/user/ChristyWrig...
• EntreLeadership: ruclips.net/user/entreleader...
![Sean Rii, Karyon, Sharzkii - Taungule [My Love] (Official Music Video)](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/eJoMuypbSzQ/mqdefault.jpg)
Nix the guesswork and scrolling. We’ll connect you with investment pros we trust: bit.ly/3hc6Pgt
Dave: “Sell the boyfriend’s car.”
Hahahahaha
Sell the boyfriend
Dave “Sell the daughter” Ramsey
Love this comment
Lol
Remember the good old days, when people called Dave for financial advice
Lol
Now he gets calls for every day general life advice.
In a world of zeros, Dave's a hero.
With the way he has expanded with the different personalities, it’s obvious that’s what they want. They want to expand the scope of things, otherwise the producers wouldn’t have passed the call through.
Economical Chicken Soup for the Soul...
Caller: Dave, I just found out my daughter’s boyfriend is the Zodiac Killer!
Dave: And what is your household income?
Ha!
That's a great one.
Hysterical!
😂😂😂
This caller is beyond naïve if he thinks his daughter doesn't drink too LOL
Agreed’
daddys little girl.
@@saulgoodman2018 having a DUI is pretty indicative of a drinking problem, if nothing else not making good decisions when drinking
@@saulgoodman2018 that is exactly what that means.
@@saulgoodman2018 NO... it means you have a problem with alcohol... ALCHOLIC. But when you get a DUI... not only does not mean you are an ALCHOLIC, it also means you GOT CAUGHT.
the smile on Dave's face when he hears 'we are debt free' is priceless
My ex’s mom didn’t like me. “He’s too short” (I’m 5’7). Now I make more money than both of her parents combined, I have a clean record, I’m happily married to a way better looking girl and she’s making minimum wage & being a bum. Parents aren’t always right
@@charlesg7926 is that what is important? Looks? U said u have a way better looking girl
@@olga7193 My wife is beautiful AND intelligent :) the second one being even more important than the first
@@charlesg7926 being too short isn’t the same as being an irresponsible loser. the bf mentioned in the call need to grow a pair and men up because he is a loser.
@@dt6750 we know this how? Also apparently the daughter has dated him for years and hasn't got caught up in his troubles. Now is to late for the dad to be telling his daughter who to date!
However it sounds like he did his job and the daughter will make the right choice. For once Dave's advice was spot on, unleash the older sister.
PS this has to be the longest ive seen Dave stay quiet without hearing any numbers or a question lol...
I was waiting for a "so how can I help you dude"
Well, he had nice fatherly voice. So comfy.
@@KrogunDK :)
@@FoxFamily0825 haha he was very patient on this one...
Well it's a serious situation really. I mean this is life altering. The odds of divorce if they say nothing is truly above 90%
This dad seems like a good dad. However, he needs to tread carefully. He can’t go in hard against the boyfriend or his daughter will blame him and will cling even tighter. Embrace the boyfriend and talk to him. Subtly find out why he dropped out of school, etc. Don’t openly show that you don’t like him. Oh, btw your daughter drinks too 🤗. Just saying.
^^ Chuckled when he said she doesn’t drink.
Over the years I have found out that the craziest partiers in college often come from the most strict/religious households.
They were shielded from “the fun” in high school. So, as soon as mommy and daddy aren’t around they go wild. At least from what Ive seen in my own experience. But hey, I could be wrong.
@@nickr8747 u def ain’t wrong, the kids try to come out n be honest, n those parents would shame em, so that’s how the sneaky kids are created, the only worse parents I could think of are the ones that didn’t let there kids sleep over or even go out with friends or even cousins at a young age, turnin then into future party animals or introverts
Edit: the introverts that can’t socialize*
@@northeast4665 yup
I have a strong feeling the reason the boyfriend dropped out of high school was because of his parents or family situation. That's usually one of the biggest reasons people, especially young males, drop out of school. I know because I was one of those people.
Facts. And often get in far much more trouble screwing up older than if they made some mistakes in teenage years. It’s hard for parents I’m sure but they should realize a too short leash backfires and often creates way more issues and trauma than intended and it’s doing the kids a total disservice than lower key more controlled mistakes in younger years ! Let them stumble!
What a stand up father. His idea to reach out to the boyfriend with the intent of supporting him is such a kind gesture. I hope it works out, but folk gotta work out their relationships on their own sometimes.
He doesn’t really have an option but to be supportive in this environment. It wasn’t long ago that he could go visit the kid with a shotgun and scare him away and protect the daughter from a loser but those days are gone.
Definitely knows not to alienate your young adults kids, or risk losing them and future grandkids for good.
He says he's a long time listener. Yet doesn't know that we Hate when they don't get to the point
Seriously. I read the entire Narnia series by the time he finished the backstory.
I even fast-forwarded a bit and he was still talking.
I bet it can be difficult to tell when you're rambling on. Especially as a guy trying to explain the entire situation. I can empathize with the dad on this.
"Influence he has over her" no sir your daughter's actions are just now being brought to ur attention
thank you for your useless comment. it added no value to the problem of the caller.
@@Ammar23217 yes it did, the problem isn't with the bf it's with his parenting
@@Ammar23217 are you the caller? 😂😂😂
@@avilla4013 no
..Im going out on a limb to say maybe shes just as lost in life as the boyfriend but dad just couldn't see his little girl as doing bad its easy to blame the bad boyfriend for her mistakes...Just a guess...
Yup this is most likely it
I remember dating a loser at 19. So glad I woke up. 🤣
DAUGHTER READ THIS 👆👆👆
Woke up to hypergamy
I know a woman in her 30's fully supporting a loser who doesn't work, plays drums and is an aspiring 'writer.' They're going on 7 years! lol
There’s nothing to handle. She’s 2 hours away. They’re not engaged. Let the relationship play out.
The girl is lucky to have a dad like this.
Enmeshed and overly involved in his adult child's life? I wouldn't call that lucky.
@@matthewgardner2144 Oh, thanks for clearing that up for me Matthew.
@@KyleJett You are welcome, sir! Anytime.
@@matthewgardner2144 What would I do without you?
@@KyleJett Blessings to you.
Ken's facial expression while Southern Daddy rambles on nonsensically is hilarious. And he's wondering why this joker is calling a financial radio show for this crazy family non-drama.
I grew up with zero parental guidance. I've done well for myself financially and my work ethic is outstanding. Emotional not so great. This boy is a plant that survived with little to no water. I'd attempt to reach out to him, maybe he wants to do better but just needs some encouragement.
I'm surprised Dave let him finish his story. They usually cut the caller off.
It was an annoying ramble. Some people should learn to get to the point.
“And your financial question is?”
I feel for this dad because I am a dad to two teenagers myself. My feeling is that the more I try to tell my daughters what to do, the more it backfires on me and they will do the opposite. Older kids need to feel like they are making the choice, not their parents. I think all I can do as a dad is to give my daughters my opinion with good reasoning and support, and if they fall flat on their face, that's their problem. If they are to be independent adults, they need to make their own choices and live with the consequences of them. Hopefully we as parents raised them right when they show us they can make good choices and succeed off of the leg up we can give them.
Yes... " Hopefully we as parents raised them right when they show us they can make good choices and succeed off of the leg up we can give them." So true, and when they continually make the wrong decision to me it means the parents failed.
Also, I didn’t go to college but I make over 200K a year (after all expenses!). The dad is IGNORANT if he thinks that college guarantees success, or that lack of college means you won’t be successful. What’s the boyfriend’s IQ? His IQ matters 1000x more. Mine is 147. College wasn’t needed for me to be successful, I started a lucrative business
Try reverse psychology.
You sound smart. Southern Daddy, not so much.
My sister is a straight A student, perfect growing up. Always pleasing the parents. Then Was in the same boat, got with a guy on the wrong side of the track.
But you know what my parents did? After they were together? They guided both of them into a successful business. My sister and brother in law are one of the most successful people I know.
Tough one for sure - I was a little rough around the edges when I started dating my wife and I’m sure her parents were in her ear. They were from money and I was a poor kid from a broken home.
We were in high school, and I made 6.00 an hour, I had nothing to offer. I went on to get a masters degree in Economics and now make a boat load of money - she stays home with our babies. My wife never doubted me for a second.
It all comes down to the motivation and work ethic of the boyfriend. I think the dad is on the right track with offering the helping hand - id probably do the same thing.
Master's Degree > High School Drop Out. There's a difference there, don't you think?
@@MichaelJones-rn2pq Just curious. Do you have a degree? If so, what do you do for a living?
@@MichaelJones-rn2pq better not be a degree in useless arts huehue
@@MichaelJones-rn2pq I mean you can always go back to college or start college whenever you want just because the kid dropped out of high school doesn't mean he's stupid or that he can't ever progress again.
@@dedalliance1 So when is "whenever you want" going to be for this kid? Why doesn't he want to do so now? Nobody called this kid stupid, he's just making bad choices or, even worse, not making any choices, just stumbling through life without a plan.
Caller: She's strong willed.
Me: Cut off your support to her and let's see just how strong willed she is. (Do not support the BF...at all costs!)
IF the genders were reverse I guarantee you Ramsey would have said cut your son off, time for him to be man. Girls really do get coddled in this Country.
Stong will equates to - A BRAT!
@@captainsisko7629 we live in a matriarchy
If she's as strong willed as he says...sending the older sister after her will do the opposite of what they want! (Seriously, it happened with my family.) I think you're right and cutting her off is probably the only thing that might work.
I'm strong willed, but I've never been accused of being a brat. I've always had the habit of doing my home work and do the math. That's what I base my decision on and don't dare to even think about changing my mind. I was always assertive but I was never spoiled. I worked for my pennies and saved them all.
I think this is the longest I've ever seen Dave let the caller talk at the beginning of the call.
A little advice to the caller. Idk about that guy but I my self dropped out in 10th grade and now I'm doing better then alot of people that graduated.
Let the daughter do her thing. The idea of parents ruling their adult kids life is not the right thing. Sure give suggestions but do not rule their lives!
Agree
Yeah but she spending her parents money, the daughter needs to cut off financially, then do what ever she wants
@@captainsisko7629 I can see that perspective, I just think for the longer term that if the father keeps getting involved and the daughter does not have space to grow on her own there would be long-term resentment.
Well bud, your first mistake was paying for everything for your daughter. She need to be uncomfortable in order to learn how to make it when you are gone. The other thing that I will say is I don't know the guy but I do know a couple in which she has a masters degree and a good job, he is a highschool dropout and he has his own business. He, by the grace of god, is able to provide very well for a family of four. BTW they are debt free.
Thanks Dave Ramsey, for teaching us how to have financial peace.
Lol. This reminds me of the Seinfeld episode when George was the "bad boy." Just tell your daughter you really like her boyfriend and he's he's really awesome guy.
Caller: I’m painting the dining room and my spouse and I don’t agree on the color. Can you give us advice?
Dave: sell the dining room
Parents shouldn't be paying for her life. Also she's gonna have to make her own mistakes. Nice of him to offer to support the boyfriend with GED though.
The dad is a fool about this GED thing. I think this dad just does not know what to do with the boyfriend thing and he is scared.
If you had money, you wouldnt pay for your kid’s education?
So what's the option? Daughter gets knocked up, has no education, goes on welfare? Sheesh. You're tough @KB
@@matthewgardner2144 kb is right and wrong. He is right about building character but forgot about changing your family tree. Me personally, I'm a sucker and give in to much
Oops. I clicked on a Dr. Phil video. Why did the screener let this caller through?
He takes calls on "life and money"
@@melanieb2132 This is the first time I’ve heard a full on Dr. Phil type call.
Hire a hot hot hot girl to test his loyalty and snag some videos and pics for proof ;)
But on a side note, sounds like this guy wants to convince himself he raised a great daughter just because she was great in high school, but clearly he is afraid of her making a decision whether it be good or bad, he doesn’t trust her as much as he doesn’t trust the boyfriend.
Yep. She likes losers for a reason. She’s not the angel he makes her out to be.
I've never seen Dave quiet for that long. Haha
This guy loves to hear himself talk. Get to the point!!
I hate hearing my self talk
Me: hey Dave
Dave: what's ur question
Me: hangs up
He’s long winded
He’s a nice guy wouldn’t say he’s full of himself
I went to sleep whating on him to get to his point
I'm amazed Dave let him ramble on so long
I think it is important to get a GED. It’s so difficult to get a decent job without training school or college. It seems like that would be the minimum to get many jobs.
I think my wife's parents didn't like me either. At the time I didn't much like myself if it comes to that.
After 53 years of marriage, I believe I turned out OK. People do grow up.
Befriend the kid and see what you can do, as you proposed. Of our three children, one went to the GED requirement but after the Army he got his bachelor's degree and is today quite prosperous as his graduate degree recipient siblings are.
Try the Marines. They were good for me and today I am quite wealthy with the best children and grandchildren you ever saw in you life!.
Caller: I don't like my daughter's boyfriend what should I do?
Dave: Sell him after the second after you hang up!
I have never seen Dave let someone talk so much!
Let the daughter figure it out for herself. She may resent the father for meddling in her life.
The man rambled forever. He called a radio show for advice like this LOL What a clown.
This guys needs to learn to speak concisely. My goodness!!! Spend three sentences explaining the situation and then let Dave and Ken answer
Love that Dave corrected himself to say “good dads”.
2:32 Two and a half minutes in and I’m wondering if this call is going anywhere.
That's this callers problem, he is a big talker, loves to hear himself talk and still wants to meddle in his adult daughters personal life. Disgusting.
I let my daughter do whatever she wanted. When her marriage was on the rocks , I was able to get them to attend some counseling. Seems like they are doing good.
I wish my dad had said NO to me once or twice,saying no can be a loving thing to do .
Ngl this really feels more like a John Delony question, although Dave and Ken still handled this well - I wish they would stagger/schedule the calls so the right personality can be on to provide the right help
Split by the main show topic.
This show is finances and fixing debt.
Deloney has a show for this topic...
I'm always curious as to what their drinking in the cups?
This show has gone from being about finances to grasping at straws for things to talk about.
Great advice.
My sister married a dead beat. We gave him a lot of time because he didn't have the same up bringing as us, but even after 10 years of help and support he showed no interest in improving himself or taking some self responsibility.
Unfortunately my sister is extremely stubborn and proud and just couldn't admit she was wrong. She's basically wasted her entire youth on him now. She will never admit it but knows full well she made a terrible decision while all of her friends have progressed in life and enjoy financial freedom while she is mid 30's with nothing to show for it.
The sisters would know best lol. Sisters talk all the time. Good one Dave.
I love this gentleman! I wish people were as thoughtful or helpful to upcoming generations....
Sell the car! Seriously though, young love will not be deterred.
That daughter is spoiled. It's interesting how he talks about grades but not character.
Many years ago, I was just like the daughter in this scenario. I can tell you that the odds of the daughter and boyfriend staying together in the long term are very low. The longer she stays in college, the more opportunity she will have to make friends and build a social life outside the boyfriend. This might be enough to make her rethink the relationship. That's what did it for me. I like the idea of offering to help the bf get his GED. It positions her parents as the good guys, and it gives the daughter an opportunity to see how serious her bf really is about their future.
This is a financial advice show not Dr. Phil.
Caller: I need help dealing with my daughter's bum of a boyfriend.
Dave: What's your household income?
😂😂😂😂😂
I was just going to comment that. Lol. 😂
The fact that they think just because he didn’t finish school means he won’t earn a lot of money is BS. I’ve seen a lot of high school dropouts that made a lot of money through hustling and starting their own businesses.
That being said, this gentleman doesn’t sound like that type of ambitious person.
lol I have two young daughters so I had to listen!! Great post and advice!
lol their faces as they think "why is this guy telling us this? Where is he going?"
Ask them over for dinner, take the boyfriend to the side in another room ask 5-10 targetted questions. Then decide whether or not to say "This is my daughter, you dont qualify to marry her or be in her life anymore. Im the father, im saying this direct to your face you are a nice kid but you have very little time to go away or im going to make you go away.""" Very simple. Be the father. Be the man.
My boyfriend wasn't as bad as this guy mentioned but I dropped out of University to pursue a relationship in my hometown instead of being long distance. Best decision I ever made!
one of two things is gona happen , either this guy will get his act together , or your daughter will learn on her own accord what he really is . If he really is a bad guy , she will have discover this on her own.
@@saulgoodman2018 going to get his GED, so he can have his high school diploma , maybe getting a job instead of having it in his mind he is going to live of the kindness of some poor unsuspecting woman . which potentially what he thinks he is going to do .
@@saulgoodman2018 your right , good point , but i dint hear any where in the conversation that this guy was one of them .maybe im wrong , if i am i will be more than happy to admit it .
@@saulgoodman2018 good point, but from what i have seen , fathers generally do get along well and do like the daughters boyfriend. thou it does happen a lot were the father doesnt like the daughters boyfriend.
@@saulgoodman2018 she said she plans on making extra money to support him because she knows he won't make any money. Also he sounds abusive.
Paying for everything is a mistake. My parents only helped senior year so I wouldn't have to borrow too much. I and my friends were so proud to make our own way. This guy has no way of knowing what the boyfriend's parents have done. Also my sister would never listen to me.
The more you tighten your grip the more star systems will slip thru your fingers
Hopefully the boyfriend is really a good, misguided kid and all he needs is a better example of how to live (which what her family seems to be). Drugs and other bad addictions should not be tolerated. If you want to support your daughter's education, go right on ahead so she finishes but just remember that she is an adult now and can make her own choices. Hopefully you can guide her to the right path without alienating her.
Love and reason from the family that raised her cannot fix this, she needs counseling to work through why she is choosing to be with a loser. The dad just needs to hold the line and insist on her going through counseling to help her work out the issues.
“Turn her loose on her sister” 🙌🏼
My boyfriend and I met when 18/20 years old making min. Wage. Now we are almost 30/32 and about to pay off our house in a year and have our own business. People Grow together. Don't judge based on their current situation.
I’m listening to Hank explain how to hook up a propane tank.
This father seems like he's not respecting boundaries, be careful with that.
This is like a scene from The Notebook 😂 Pov of the dad 🤣
It first semester of college, I wouldn't let her come home every weekend and just make her stay at school except for holidays and just see what happens, if he is really focused and cares there are plenty of programs out there that will help you get your GED, it's just a matter of how bad he wants it. Maybe she ends up meeting someone else at college.
Love the idea, but I don't think that'd work very well with today's technology. My sister was in college halfway across the country from her boyfriend and they did video calls ALL THE TIME which caused her to neglect her homework and ended up getting put on academic probation.
God, save my kids from making stupid choices and choosing stupid spouses. Amen.
For one I don't like when this turns into a platform where folks just call in to tell others personal business. I feel like if your family (or maybe friends) who you've known for decades can easily pick a stranger over you then that should tell you who you don't want in your life or is important or not. Especially if they are introducing a bad element into it. Pull all the way back. Stop paying for everything. She's an adult. You did your job. Let the chips fall where they may. Let them live their lives away from you and you live yours without that headache.
Yeah after dedicating your the best years if your life to the most important thing in the world just give up... Great advice 🙄
Case in point: don’t judge a guy just because he didn’t go to college. His IQ is what matters
I didn’t go to college and my girlfriend’s parents told her not to date me. Now I’m 30 and I make over 200k a year, & have since I was 25 years old, & travel the world scuba diving for fun. I bet they feel foolish now lol… her current boyfriend is a hick druggie w/ min wage job- but he’s “college educated” 😂
Terrible advise. You don't completely pull out and hope your biggest investment/ offspring find the correct way. Guidance, perspective and insight is what the daughter needs.
I’ve looked for the book “Hero” can’t find it. Can anybody post the link please.
Difficult questions but Dave has daughters and he can speak through this. Helping the bf is not doing anything… he needs to have a hard conversation where he states his points to her and make her decide.
did this dad ever sit down and speak to his daughter????????? doesn't sound like it. its all his thoughts
Where do i find the book
”Hero”??
The young buck probably has a leather jacket and smokes the devil's cabbage
I’m a high school dropout too and I make more money than everyone I know that has a college degree
Stop hanging out at the homeless shelters.
Only college-degreed people who have lost their way tend to eat there.
Jake Paul is high school dropout
This is very difficult, but actually the best thing you can do is being annoyingly nice to the boy. Be exaggeratedly nice to the point that he finds it becoming annoying himself. Of course the daughter might give a fit, so be it. Parents in law that are overtly nice and interested in the relationship of daughter-boyfriend typically scares away the boy by passage of time. This works much better then trying to create a wedge between them. Learned this from a psychologist.
The father could just talk and talk like he is on this call. That would chase the guy off.
Anyone know the name of the author of the book dave referenced?
Can someone please help me with the spelling of the Author that Dave just suggested?
you can see the "please get to the point" look
I fixed something with a relative of mine. Little younger than myself, she was interested in a no good guy. Told another relative who told her that guy had dated someone else we knew. Immediately over.
I'm going through this now with my sister. She was a good student and she did graduate college and got a job offer, but the boyfriend is a bad influence who OD on multiple occasions through my family's time in knowing him. All I can do is be blunt to her and tell her that he is Not a good influence on her but if you push too hard rebellious kids will choose the bad influence.
You are trying to guide her from getting hurt but she needs to get hurt to understand you are right
This is the most long winded caller ever lol
Willing to invite this knucklehead over for dinner and help him get his GED… you’re a decent guy. Hope things work out for you
Why call him a knucklehead? It sounds like he has had zero guidance in life judging by the caller. Maybe that’s all he needs?
THE DAD HAS THE RIGHT TO WORRY!! WE ALL HAVE SEEN THE SMART GIRL AT HIGH SCHOOL FALLING FOR THE BAD BOY DROP OUT TYPE AND YEARS LATER, THE BAD BOY DID NOT COMMIT AND OUT IN THESE STREETS DOING WHAT HE DOES BEST LEAVING THE SMART SWERT GIRL GIRL HEARTBROKEN WITH KIDS. DADS DO NOT WANNA SEE THAT HAPPEN TO THEIR DAUGHTER. AND YES, A HIGH SCHOOL DROPOUT WITH NO CONNECTION TO THEIR PARENTS AND NO PLAN IS A BAD BOY
If he doesn't accept the help. Tell her how much you love him, tell her get married to him, paying for her stuff, he can now or she can make it on her own. She won't think he's cool no more lol reverse psychology
Love how none of these southern callers ever get to the point. Bless there heart. Southern Chad she's with, sucks for Bubba.
The southerners do love a long, rambly, pointless yarn.
Friends of ours daughter was dating a man who had mental illness. They say her down and told her she wasn't going to rehabilitate him no matter how much she loves him. They are both trained counselors so they knew what they were talking about. They opposed the relationship and repeated their opposition continuously. She finally broke it off with the guy. Years later she thanked them. She was very angry at her parents when it happened but she eventually saw their wisdom. She married a great guy she met later.
Caller you're the Dad! you make the decision. If it's me I will cut off my daughter support from me take her off my Trust and let her live on her own. Until she learn that's the way it is. It's called THOUGH LOVE.
"Older sister senior in college"............................
Come on boy get to the point don't waterboard us with a story we didn't ask for but still love how the guy seems to care for his family.
Your daughter is already in love 🥰 with this young man it’s nothing you can do and good girl love bad boys 🥺😁 sad but true
Every once in a while I purposely get a traffic ticket to spark the flame with my wife.
@@wannabecarguy You are a wildman 😂
She's caught feels for the bad boy.If the parents truly feel he will not lead her down a good path they have every right to take away the car and general funding for her. No reason to be severe just lay down what the parents are thinking, father knows best he knows where to see flaws while the daughter is gushy emotional and not making good decisions for her future.
@@saulgoodman2018 because he is a high school dropout.
@@saulgoodman2018 no, but the run ins with the law, no job prospects, and convincing the girlfriend to leave her current college to relocate and be with him all paint the picture of a loser.
@@saulgoodman2018 and been in trouble with the law.
@@87handmedown bringing her down. And possibly abusive.
This boy sounds like his parents failed him, he had zero guidance. The dad’s heart is amazing to want to help the boyfriend & not completely write him off. I actually love that plan. Show him guidance…he’s still a kid. They crave it & they do better with it. Dad is incredibly smart & the daughter is lucky to have parents like this ♥️♥️
Hey, as long as the young lady is willing to work full time to complete her college degree, and support her guy, let her make her own decisions. You don't have to continue funding her education when she'd rather support someone who is not as ambitious and driven as she is. The School of Hard Knocks might be the one she needs to attend.
Dang pure wisdom 💕🤩
Someone was too strict and now, true to form, sheltering your child just makes them seek self athority in destructive ways, just like this. Your daughter isn't in love with this guy, she's in love of having self athority, far away from you. You're just reaping what you sowed