LET'S TALK MANNERS WITH MISS MANNERS!
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
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Hi friends!
Today's video is an informative one...discussing some MANNERS from the "Miss Manners Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior!" (1979)
We will talk about some basic manners as well as table manners, a semi-formally set table, and of course, some good, ol' blah, blah, blah!
I hope you enjoy AND learn something! I sure did!
Hugs from me to you!
Very warmly,
Jeannie
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Hey Jeannie am new here in your channel, wow am loving your voice thank you very much for that, your voice is a gift, greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷
@@leonardoangelosantos6512 Thank you and welcome!!!🙏🏼
Ohhh, Jeannie…..Please turn this video into a series……❤
Yeah that would be so cool!!😍🤩😃❤
Agreed!
I agree. 🎉
Oh yes, I could listen to this every night. ❤
It's so comforting to listen to ASMR from someone not in her 20s
Aw, thanks!😊
@@JeannieBASMRcould you do a video of table etiquette
Amen to that. I find all those young girls aren't even very good at it. I think they're overrated. I have a few asmr channels I watch and they're all grown adults. Not these 20 year olds who do inaudible whispers anf pretending to touch your face lol. So ridiculous. I just can't get into it.
Agreed. I’m 43 and prefer some of the older ASMRtists.
Exactly! A few reasons why I love Jeannie’s ASMR is she is very genuine, well spoken, always has something interesting to talk about and does not rely too heavily on role playing as many of the ASMR artists do.
I love “bringing back civility” to our society. Wonderful content.
I think this video is a great way to teach kids about manners and how to be polite happy Mother’s Day to my asmr mom
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Yes! Thank you!
I love this. Since a little girl I've always been fond of proper manners and habits. But coming from where I do. Would often be made a mockery for valuing such characteristics and working to implement them. This has not only brought such comfort. But a sense of peace to my inner child. Thank you for sharing 😌🙏🏾😌
Aw, I appreciate your words here.
My mom was raised on a farm out in Missouri and her mom (my grandmother) always made it a point for her kids to eat with good manners - All of the rules you mentioned in this video were on the list! (There were a few others as I recall...I believe you serve plates from the left and remove on the right? That might not be correct) but her point was that good manners are a mark of dignity for everyone, even if you don't make much money and are living on a farm miles away from the nearest town. She called it 'gracious living beyond the gas mains.'
I love this!! Thank you for sharing this!
I’m a new home owner and need advice about basic hostess etiquette. I know you know girl…. Please do a vid. Please!!!!!
This is on my short list of your best videos. Voice, volume, tone, everything is just so calming. Everything great about your asmr is just x10 here. Thank you!
Yay, thank you!
I could listen to you talk for hrs.. you have a great voice.
Thank you!😊
You are such a fun and relaxing person, Miss Jeanie. Truly entertaining.
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Dear Jeannie, really enjoyed this video. I often struggle with formal situations, and thanks to you, I think maybe I have a way to understand why. I believe the root cause for me is a confusion between how to behave publicly, socially and how to be authentic as individual. You made me understand the value of extending courtesy to other people with varying degrees of formality and it will change how I might handle social situations going forward. I would love it if you would talk more about social skills. Thanks for all you do.
Thank you! I will definitely bring Miss Manners back! And I’m glad you’ve got a little bit of confidence from this! Let me know how it goes!
I'm a teacher and I get anxiety attacks quite often. I'm being observed tomorrow morning at 7 am by the district school coordinator, so my anxiety is through the roof. Watching and listening to you calms me down. Thank you Jeannie. From the bottom of my jumpy heart, I am so grateful for your content.
You got this!! Just envision you real doing a rocking job!!
I keep coming back to this video, I love videos that go into etiquette and detail regarding hosting and table settings. It brings a sense of simplicity and wholesomeness back into our crazy lives. Thank you so much for this and taking the time to do it so wonderfully. You are so classy and kind ! I’m sure you throw an amazing dinner party :)
Awesome, thank you!
Omg Miss Manners give big bridgerton vibes with the ‘gentle reader’ and other way around lol
Early bird, perfect timing for an afternoon snooze. Thanks, Jeannie, you are amazing. Have a beautiful day to you and all your viewers!❤
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My dad taught me that a gentleman should always open my door and walk closest to the street when walking with me. I taught my daughters this as well. I say "please", "thank you" and "excuse me"; I send handwritten thank you notes by USPS or hand delivered myself in a timely manner and I truly believe in treating others respectfully.
Awesome dad!! 😋
I'm 100% Italian and yes the entire family eats spaghetti with a fork & spoon. It's classy. Slopping it up & turning it on a plate is looked down upon.
I will notify Miss Manners! Lol! 🍝
28:03 as an Italian I can confirm that if you were to eat spaghetti with a spoon in front of most Italians we would definitely be weirded out but on the other hand there are way worse crimes, like having pasta with ketchup😂
@@m.b.0310 This is great! Thank you! And yes - ketchup?! That is a great crime! lol!
This is so so relaxing and lovely. Jeannie you have such a calming presence its amazing. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much!
My grandmother taught me all the table setting and manners, and I appreciate it now.
Ms Jeannie, this was an awesome video! I remember some of the table manners back in the 70’s. I still use them but one of the biggest things today is no cell phones at the table. I’m sorry you couldn’t sleep with all that lightning. You always have perfect timing on the videos. Be blessed. 🙏🏼🙏🏼😇😇
Thanks for sharing this!
loved hearing you talk about the big weather ❤
I love listening to you chatting. It's so relaxing, and you have such a lovely, friendly and warm way about you. Thank you for calming me down at the end of a very busy day. ❤
You are so welcome!🤗
Thank you Jeannie! Always look forward to your videos. ❤
I would love to hear more from the Miss Manners book! So good!
She will be back! You aren’t alone in this! 😘
Your voice is amazing! It's like your mom is talking to you before you go to sleep. Thank you!
Wow, thank you!
Jeannie: pulls out fancy electric candles
Me: throws a half-dead fake tealight onto the table that i know is gonna die in fifteen minutes
Me: PeRfEcTiOn
Lol!!
Yes! Let’s bring civility, politeness, and kindness back into the world ❤
Happy Mother's Day Mama J!! ❤
Wow😻 It’s a lovely video. For someone who has no close friends like me, your honesty and friendly attitude replace it🤗 It feels like listening to a friend about interesting things in life. Thank you so much for that🤍
Thank you so much! Hugs to you! 💜💜
It was thoroughly interesting learning about the differences between European and American table etiquette. I love learning about different cultures but it never crossed my mind that perhaps it is different in the US, I couldn't imagine switching between knife and fork all the time and not using the knife to gather certain items like peas! I've learned so much about how to do things the proper way, thank you for the informative video!
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I am Italian and can confirm that we don't use spoons to eat our spaghetti 😂 lovely video, as always!
The thunderstorms in Texas are amazing! I’m in Dallas for 30 years but lived in Houston a few years back in 1980’s. Texas thunderstorms are a little crazy! And sometimes I have to take a nap too! ❤
Yes dramatic weather in Texas ! Thank you so much for sharing about weather and Mrs Manners debonair ways in a soothing voice 🙏❤😊
As an older person who was raised to have manners, I found this video very helpful and interesting. We had strict rules in my family when I was growing up. My late father who worked away from the home always felt that the dinner table was for eating and not talking. We also were not allowed to start eating until he did as he was the head of the table.
I do a lot of the things you mentioned, and also arrange my table the same way as I have done a silver service course and also work at a hotel so notice how the restaurant staff set their tables.
I agree with you that good manners seem to be lost in today’s society and that people have become “Karens.” My sister’s name is Karen but I have to say that she has all the characteristics of someone with that name as she isn’t a very nice person. My late mother always told me, “it’s nice to be important, but important to be nice.”
So excited for this!! Thank you!🩷 I’m having a really hard time right now, health issues and a lot of anxiety and judgement around them. But your videos help me tune it out if just for a little while💗🙏 Thanks for doing what you do! And I hope you’ve gotten some good sleep in since posting…all the best🥰🥰
Sweet Samantha I'm sending you lots of Big hugs love and positive vibes to you with cute Cuddly Koala Hugs to help you get through each day!🐨🐨💕🇦🇺🤗
@@carliejanetabone Thank you so much Carlie, it is SO appreciated!❤️🩷💗 sending positive energy your way too!🥰
@@Samantha-dv4je aww your so very welcome Samantha🥰💗You are a sweetie and I So appreciate your lovely comment too! 😘🙏 Thank you so much too! Sending lots of blesseings and possitve energy back to you too! Take good care lovely!💕💜🙏🤗
I’ve been sorely lacking in sleep lately! But thank you so much for your well wishes!! I wish YOU well, too!! 💕💜
Carlie is so sweet and caring!
Thank you for this video! I've been looking forward to it since you mentioned the book in your favorites video. I remember my mom telling me that story about Queen Victoria and the finger bowls when I was a very little girl learning about table manners. It stuck with me ... I do believe that humiliating a guest or making someone feel embarrassed by pointing out their manners in an insensitive way is the most unmannerly thing anyone can do!
Wonderful! Very glad you enjoyed!
You are so awesome, Miss Jeannie. A true gem. 😊❤
Wow, thank you! That is so sweet of you, friend!
I love this video, especially the part about how people tend to converse more than they communicate or connect with each other. I feel like I hear more exchanges between people who are more interested in being heard than they are in listening to what another person is communicating to them.
Oh, and personally, I don't know how one can successfully eat spaghetti with a spoon 🤣
It was definitely a good reminder to listen, ask questions, etc. I’ve caught myself not really listening and I’m glad when I can check my “being present” abilities.
Aw sweet Jeannie thank you so much for this Beautiful video been going through a lot past few months and your sweet comforting videos have been helping me just get through You are the Best sweetie And I pray and hope that you're Okay too sweetie you keep staying strong sweet girl 💕💕💕
You are soooo sweet!! 💜💕💜
Happy Early Mother's day! The candles you have are perfect🥰!!
Thank you! You too!
Best etiquette is to have genuine curiosity. Ask about others lives, not in cliches but genuinely. Most importantly always remember their story for next time you see them as an opener
100%!
I am italian and it depends on where you are in italy. In the south they use the spoon and it is perfectly acceptable, even traditional. Here in the north (especially here in Milan) it is bad manners, you will be judged for it, not only in formal dinners
Aha! Thank you! 🥄 🍝
I agree ! My grandma was from Abruzzes and she usually at his spaghettis with fork and spoon. I keeped this maner ❤
Hi Jeannie, I just wanted to say that I love your videos, I got here a couple of weeks ago and immediately loved your content and the way you enjoy every blah blah blah, always teaching us something new.
I see my grandma in you who was also a classic, elegant and beautiful lady that always had her hair done and wore beautiful clothes and jewelry and who also had a soft voice.
Thank you for doing this.
Thank you so much! This made me feel so good!
Thank you for your videos Jeannie! I hope you have a nice Mother's Day🌼🌻🌺
Thank you! You too!
I’ve been so busy and have not watched in a few weeks… forgot how much I just adore you! Such a great video ❤
Aww! Thank you! That’s so kind!
Happy Mother’s Day Jeannie!❤
Thank you, luv! 🤗
Another wonderful video, just love listening to your voice! Thank you🤗
Thank you so much!
Oh my goodness! My grandma gave me that book years ago. I used to be so interested in etiquette rules. How nostalgic 😌
I thoroughly enjoyed this! Really relaxing! About the eating spaghetti with a spoon, I think it depends on the person, and what part of Italy you're from. My Nono was from Sicily he always used a spoon while eating spaghetti or linguini.
It sounds funny but I love your lip smacking and the silence after you’re done with a sentence. The pause in between your sentences, then you have a lip smack. That’s what gives me the tingles. You’re so humble in your voice too. Your microphone is amazing lol 😂
I just can’t get over how classically pretty you are! ❤️
That’s so sweet!
Agree! ❤
Happy Mother’s Day my friend
I loved this video so much!!!! Can’t wait to hear about the dinner party
Thank you, dear friend! Same to you! 💜❤️💜
28,000 views as of now and I’m pretty sure I’m responsible for 20,000 of those views. I have had this video in repeat since you released it. I love it and this is definitely in my favorites. Thanks Jeannie ❤
Haha! Can I send you to watch 20k views of my other videos, too?! lol!
I’m glad you’re enjoying it. I have more “Manners” coming!
I love dramatic weather as well. Don't get a lot of it here in Phoenix, AZ. Love your channel
Thank you for uploading videos on Saturdays❤
I love that you’re doing this, Jeanne! I have that exact same book!
Wow! It’s an oldie but goodie! 😄
I love this lady. Going to sleep.
Texas thunder storms can be crazy and unexpected, lovely asmr and hope you had a wonderful mothers day weekend.
Thank you! You too!
Jeannie, this was so neat! I agree that you should treat company as nicely as possible. If I have a friend come over whom I know is a bit leary of our large dog, I’ll lock her up ahead of that person walking in, even though I know she wouldn’t hurt anybody. I just want my company to know they can relax and enjoy their stay.
As for formality, our family is Italian American and it’s impossible to keep 25 loud, boisterous people under control at the holidays. We laugh all night, console those going through a rough patch and find humor in just about anything. We love being together, but etiquette goes out the window, especially the talking while eating thing. Yes, we should probably consider dialing it back a bit. :)
Thank you for another great video. 😊
I love this! Don’t change!!
Thank you for this comforting blah blah video and for keeping me company this afternoon, much appreciated ❤
Any time, my lovely friend! 💜💜💜
Love it when you do the tapping!
My mom is Japanese and I didn’t know that in the US it is inappropriate to lift your bowl to your face to drink soup or eat bowl-type foods until I was 22! I still do it because it’s a lot less messy, and I prefer lifting my soup to wearing it 😂
Aw, I love this! Great story!
That’s the correct way to eat Japanese soup anyways 🙂↕️ idc imma pick my bowl up! My mom and gma are Japanese so I was raised this way too lol
I’m so jealous of your all-night long thunderstorm. I grew up in Florida where we got that all the time and now I’m Southern California where we get soooo excited whenever we get ONE thunderclap a year!
Yup. I totally get it!
Fantastic video. So glad to see your channel growing. Love your content.
Thanks so much!
I have this book!! Love it
I lost my wonderful grandfather on Monday and it has been a horrible week, but I knew when you uploaded a new video that it would provide comfort and a moment to calm down and decompress. Thank you for what you do for the world and the good you put out. 🩷💕
Sorry to hear that, friend! I know your memories will bring you joy in the treats to come, but it feels so sad at this time. Sending love.
22:00 as a European i absolutely use my knife to push food onto my fork, especially with the last bites. I've been taught that as a child, never really thought of it as etiquette actually but just as an easy way to get food on your fork😄
Frizz is my nemesis as well, until I got a Brazilian blowout. Lasts for months and zero frizz. It’s a life changer!
This was a fantastic upload Jeannie - I loved it!! And yes, I'd love for politeness, kindness and empathy to have a come back. I remember the days when people would offer someone who looked in more need of a seat on public transport their seat. Nowadays it rarely happens and if you do see or personally experience an act of kindness you feel stunned for about an hour thinking did that really just happen. How sad huh. We've become a very selfish and rude society but I really hope it becomes the norm again one day soon. Much love to you Jeannie for all you do for us needing soothing 💕🌈
Thank you for this! Yes, let’s bring manners back!!
Hi, im new on your RUclips Channel ☺️ your voice is soo relaxing and calming. Just perfect for getting to sleep 😴
Welcome!! And thank you!
Thank you Jeannie for this new video ❤️
Hi Jeannie! I’m working on my last ever uni assignment and it’s doing me right in, but BOY are you getting me through! Thank you!! 🩷
You got this! YOU are getting you through, my dear! I'm happy to be in the background, luv!
Your nails on that cover sound amazing! 🤩
In Italy we do use spoons to eat spaghetti at home (not everybody, I don’t but my mother in law does), not in restaurants though.
I wish I had the “you don’t have to answer every question” years ago - I was cornered in the grocery store by an acquaintance after I had my daughter and she asked if I was breast feeding (a very guilt inducing topic for me) and I said no and talk about probing… she wouldn’t leave me alone about it - my hubby ended up intervening.
Definitely wouldn’t happen now.
We definitely learn to be stronger as we age!
Jeannie this is a wonderful idea for a video. Unfortunately I wasn’t raised in a very formal way, I come from a family of 8 and we never had a dinner table big enough for us all growing up. I’ve basically learned as I’ve got older and some of these things I never knew. I love cruises and always get a bit nervous when going to dinner about making sure I come across in the correct way with people I don’t know. I’m definitely gonna use these tips next time. My only issue is that no matter how hard I try I cannot eat my food with my fork in my left hand, I have to swap and use my right, many people have mentioned that I use the wrong hand and it always baffles me a bit why this is important? I love what you said about being silent and polite in response to confrontation, very ladylike ❤
I think just being aware, being polite and kind is the best thing!!
I wish it would Storm here Sis 🌧️☔!! Dry as a bone 🦴 here 😭 Love the candles and roses in the Background 🌹🕯️ You look really Pretty Jeannie 😍
Girl! Did you see the damage up in the Houston area from yesterday's storm?? Blew out windows, killed 4 people, and a huge mess! We're ok, praise God.
@@JeannieBASMR I'm so sorry to hear this Sis!!! I just want a small Storm 🌧️☔ still Super Dry here, I'm so Happy You guys are OK
I like your hair the way it is. It best accentuates your external features.
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Lol one piece of food at a time gives me severe anxiety 😂 ... im a slow eater n i like to divide my plate up into sections so i have an overall idea about what strategy to use to finish my food 😊
I can use both hands for cutting but primarily left handed. So, I cut with my right and eat with my left at the same time
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Hmm. I’d say take your own photos. I subscribe to Canva.
Jeannie… I loved this video. You definitely should make this a series of videos. The only thing I can add to it is that I was taught as a child even eating our casual nightly dinners at the kitchen table. We always had to ask to be excused from the table before we got up, we would say May I please be excused? Then one of my parents would say yes, you may and then that would mean you were done and could leave the table with a polite Thank you. 😊 ❤ We also said grace before every meal i usually said it because I said it the quickest way 😆 I’m gathering this is because I attended private parochial school. Though my parents were two different religions. My mother was Catholic and my father raised in the Church of England. ( they married in a Catholic Church but no mass was aloud) Today it’s is no big deal when my parents were able to get married in the church with a mass. They did on one of there wedding anniversary. I think I told everybody on the Block that my parents were getting married today. My mother was mortified.😊😅😂 of course she got over it for God sake, but it was kinda of 😄 hilarious. I was much like you as a little girl lol a lot of the things you did as a kid I did too, and I always laugh when you tell us things that you did as a child I think they are so funny. !!!😂 That’s one of the things I love that you talk about because I think of all the things I did as well 😂. I was probably like in fourth grade when I ran around the whole Block tell parents my parents are getting married today …anyway I just want to thank you so much for the refresher on etiquette and I do agree people should be more caring and concerned about their neighbor and anybody in general. I don’t like the hatred and the haters I have seen in the world today it is very saddening to me!!!! I wish it could go back to the olden days I used this terminology when I was a child. I treat others the way I would like to. be treated. The golden rule. I implanted that in my son’s brain since he was 2 years old.
You’ll find sometimes members of your own family can be the worst offenders. I believe in not holding grudges and forgiveness. There is nothing that cannot be forgiven. At least not my world just can’t live like that if somebody is mean to me along the road of life, I take it in a positive way I take it as a lesson learned never to be that way to anybody else so I always turn it into a positive, and just move on and not act that way to anybody in the future that I think the best way to look at it anyway happy Mother’s Day Jeannie . You deserve it. And I hope you’re having a great day.❤❤❤Love an ☮️ Esme’
PS know I’m always dictating from my iPhone if all the spelling and wording is not correct because I would get corrected for that as a child as well. Have a great day.❤
Thanks for this, Esme!
I never forget, after coming back from my tour in Germany. I had to rewire my thought process. When i was there, men do not hold a door open for women. The man goes in first to see if it is safe for her to come in.
The weather got crazy in DFW. I remember hearing a lot of clacking and thinking "Is it raining sideways?" 😅 Then I looked outside and it was as if the sky turned into a crushed-ice dispenser. Finally started pouring rain and oof, trees everywhere got blown down. Luckily haven't seen any destruction to homes, but it was crazy. I love storms but that was a bit much. 😆
And we had ANOTHER crazy weather day yesterday! The hail was insane - huge and jagged! I thought we’d lose windows! 😳
I couldn’t stop smiling when I realized we were wearing the same pattern shirt
We need civility and manners more than ever today
How do you figure out which Item each guest brings to your beautiful gathering? Does everyone pull random items from drawing?
There are two groups I belong to. One of them, the hostess not only decides the menu, but does it all.
The second is a group in our community and the menu is prepared and all the people who are in this club are divided into groups of 4 couples. The hostess does the main dish along with a side and emails everyone what the menu is and each couple picks what they will bring, soup and bread, salad, dessert, etc. It’s a huge group and each month you are paired with a new group of 4 couples.
I hope that makes sense!
@@JeannieBASMR oh okay, makes perfect sense, that sounds like a wonderful set up. I hope you all enjoy your dinner party. Have a wonderful night!
As someone who has always hated trying to eat asparagus with a knife and fork, I’m glad to have that validation haha
welcome to spring time in texas! 😅 should only be a couple more weeks of this left
Great video! We could use more manners in society..
Absolutely!👍🏼
I am voting for the longer hair. It looks so youthful. Love your hair blonde.
I so agree with you re the "Karen" label and I have always said this too. It's nice to hear someone with the same view and thank you for inspiring me to be kind and mantain good manners even in the face of disrespect and those who are perhaps ignorant and impoilte in words and attitude. I was brough up in the 80's and 90's in the UK and my family taught much of the same table manners and general ettiquette.
For the party on the 8th of June, please can you show us how you're cooking (like your farm load bread video!)❤
I think it would be fun to have a vid where you react to something you’re not familiar with. Solely cause you seem open-minded and your reactions are so cute
That’s a great idea! Any suggestions on the “thing?”
As an Italian, I can say that, for sure, one has to use spoon eating "spaghetti allo scoglio" (seafood), I also saw them do it; thinking of this, I can say one would use spoon eating spaghetti like a container to roll them full of sauce.
I’m a California to Texas girl too! ❤ Except I went from Southern California to northern Texas haha.
Didn’t sleep all night but oh my do you look gorgeous Jeannie! We’re forecast thunderstorms tomorrow in the UK and I’m not looking forward to it 😭
Thank you! Yes, storms can be unsettling!! ⛈️
Happy mothersday Momma Jeannie❤
Thank you, Wendy!