Dinner Etiquette 🍽️ ASMR • Soft Spoken • Gentle Proper Eating • Crinkly Shirt

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  • Welcome to our dinner etiquette lesson. Today we will learn how to exhibit confidence and excellence in every move you take at the table. You will learn what to expect from your surroundings, how to properly eat and converse during the meal. Thank you for your time.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @SwagimirPutin
    @SwagimirPutin 4 года назад +6327

    Maria, this is a bit advanced for society right now.
    We only just finished learning how to wash our hands!

  • @leeraxd
    @leeraxd 4 года назад +6817

    I’m ready to be queen of Genovia

    • @albinocyclopse9952
      @albinocyclopse9952 4 года назад +104

      Ah ha!.....I understood that reference

    • @sotxjul
      @sotxjul 4 года назад +52

      Yess!! I love Princess Diaries 💘

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 года назад +35

      Omggggg blast from the past right there haha

    • @crispykfc454
      @crispykfc454 4 года назад +3

      nah i don't get it

    • @gabriellap.7238
      @gabriellap.7238 4 года назад +12

      @@crispykfc454 it's from the princess diaries

  • @literalmonkey6535
    @literalmonkey6535 2 года назад +1384

    Me while eating instant noodles out of an plastic bowl on my couch:
    "Finally, something cultured!"

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 Год назад +3

      lol

    • @garyzod8818
      @garyzod8818 Год назад +6

      Id bet she is a harsh disciplinarian, oh my word.

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 Год назад +7

      @@garyzod8818 in your dreams maybe.

    • @calprey
      @calprey Год назад

      @@dallasdandigitalproduction393 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona Год назад +3

      @@KenzieLynn666 I’m watching this like “this is very relaxing but I don’t respect the culture of baseless banal signifiers behind it at all” like if anyone got mad at me for ever breaking the imaginary dinner choreography rules irl I’d just be disappointed in them for caring about something so valueless lol

  • @amy-bethtaylor2656
    @amy-bethtaylor2656 3 года назад +728

    If she made more of these, even if they were almost the same, I would watch every one of them. I love this.

  • @Lowback
    @Lowback 4 года назад +4647

    This is a lot to keep in mind when I eat my McDonald's

    • @MuItiASMR
      @MuItiASMR 4 года назад +52

      Or my pizza

    • @fefejewell
      @fefejewell 4 года назад +77

      These comments are giving me life! 😂

    • @nicholaskloss7198
      @nicholaskloss7198 4 года назад +22

      Lowback I hear McDonalds and Wendy’s are running out of beef. So you may just need a salad fork.

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 года назад +36

      U.K. McDonald’s are all closed. We’re all not ok. Send fries 🍟

    • @_feniks_9809
      @_feniks_9809 4 года назад +8

      Or sushi!!!!😋😋😋

  • @Blue-jo9fl
    @Blue-jo9fl 4 года назад +5769

    I love how she's doing her own thing and not following a trend like some other asmrtists.

    • @kath.andrews
      @kath.andrews 4 года назад +251

      What trend? I'm curious because I just watch Maria, Latte and WhispersRed.

    • @alejoey44
      @alejoey44 4 года назад +97

      Paul Harris they’re the same three I watch! (Virtual high five!)

    • @seoulmew
      @seoulmew 4 года назад +89

      Paul Harris like popular things to do for asmr videos, stuff that’s like a popular trigger and gets a lot of views

    • @neurotoxic6407
      @neurotoxic6407 4 года назад +243

      When you consider that many of these "trends" are things that Maria has already done...

    • @daily_gamer6080
      @daily_gamer6080 4 года назад +189

      Nearly every other asmrtist has followed HER lol

  • @JosephBrown-cw9ml
    @JosephBrown-cw9ml 2 года назад +199

    This lovely woman has saved me during, minimally, 6 dinner parties. I’m so grateful.

    • @milliedavis2987
      @milliedavis2987 2 года назад +15

      literally same, some of these tips are absolutely lifesaving

    • @jbfangirl8529
      @jbfangirl8529 7 месяцев назад +5

      You guys go to dinner parties? I need more cultured friends 😂

  • @elenastidham
    @elenastidham 2 года назад +397

    I am still not over how spot-on she is. In my first job I was a caterer, we were taught all this when we set up plates, and she even touched on not helping us when we switch plates! We appreciate you trying to help, we really do, but so many accidents happen that way and so many people would even get burns from it. We just ask you stay still :)

    • @wholelottanuts
      @wholelottanuts Месяц назад

      bro just give me my damn food and i'll eat it like a pig, who cares about etiquettes

  • @Tfisch1010
    @Tfisch1010 4 года назад +4424

    As a chef in a fine dining restaurant this is bang on. Only critique is the bread plate is way smaller, but you are obviously working with your home dishes and don't have my insane plate budget. This is so well done!

    • @ROFLitzSaur
      @ROFLitzSaur 4 года назад +25

      whats the restaurant called

    • @meghanconetta1338
      @meghanconetta1338 4 года назад +246

      As a waitress in FD I can confirm that the majority of society NEEDS this video lol

    • @Tfisch1010
      @Tfisch1010 4 года назад +331

      @@ROFLitzSaur why do you want to know where I work internet stranger

    • @abefrohman81
      @abefrohman81 4 года назад +30

      @@Tfisch1010 Yessss... tell us where you work.

    • @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979
      @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979 4 года назад +29

      Tasha Fischer So would people be judged at the restaurant if they didn’t show the etiquette like in the video?

  • @AP-pb7br
    @AP-pb7br 4 года назад +973

    The future of ASMR are soft spoken videos that actually teach you something , as simple as it may be. This was absolutely wonderful.

    • @brock500rbh
      @brock500rbh 4 года назад

      like how to eat..... we all have this masted i think

    • @TheTonk44
      @TheTonk44 4 года назад +18

      This does take ASMR to a whole new level. Educational ASMR , what a fantastic concept!

    • @monicascorpio4287
      @monicascorpio4287 4 года назад +6

      The Best things in life are free,
      And ASMR is just that. Heaven on earth. Tremendous Maria. Thank you and Love you for touching souls in the most gentle way.

    • @hoffwell
      @hoffwell 4 года назад +7

      Agreed. I'm finished with 'cranial nerve examinations' and other such nonsense.

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 года назад +4

      @@TheTonk44 a lot of other asmrtists are already doing educational asmr (let's find out, the French whisperer, phoenician sailor, etc.)

  • @kimberlygiron6907
    @kimberlygiron6907 3 года назад +765

    I’m going to be so professional when I get back to Olive Garden

    • @gingercashcat
      @gingercashcat 2 года назад +10

      🤣🤣

    • @trenchcoats4life891
      @trenchcoats4life891 2 года назад +14

      WHEN YOU'RE HERE, YOU'RE FAMILY!
      Must be Vin Diesel's restauarant.

    • @EmeraldView
      @EmeraldView 2 года назад +8

      OMG, I'm so doing this there.
      Maybe even at Applebee's

    • @southbrazosbass244
      @southbrazosbass244 2 года назад +15

      It's funny because in some small country towns people consider olive garden to be fine dining 🤷

    • @yume.online__
      @yume.online__ 2 года назад +4

      @@southbrazosbass244 oh no. I CONSIDER OLIVE GARDEN TO BE FINE DINING!

  • @af5354
    @af5354 3 года назад +203

    before asmr was really a full fledged community, i used to watch these incredible slow and meaningful etiquette videos on youtube that were peak unintentional asmr. I haven't been able to find them, this video is a supreme treat! 10/10!!!!

  • @zazzycatlady
    @zazzycatlady 4 года назад +995

    i would love to see this evolve into a mini series. more etiquette lessons seem like such a dream! I was thinking about maria showing us how to eat the most difficult foods with proper (antiquated) grace 💓

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 4 года назад +12

      like spaghetti

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 года назад +2

      Yes!!! More please!!

    • @hoyle9986
      @hoyle9986 4 года назад +3

      I TOTALLY AGREE! Informative & relaxing!! Win win!!

    • @ahnigeogerian125
      @ahnigeogerian125 4 года назад +1

      YESSSSSS this was super interesting!

    • @Kaynotnice
      @Kaynotnice 4 года назад +4

      Agreed!!! So good!! Table manners really are a dying art

  • @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915
    @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915 4 года назад +3351

    Maria: Elegantly setting a beautiful table for a sophisticated meal
    Me: Eating ramen on my bed with a green fork

    • @ashkinstherobot
      @ashkinstherobot 4 года назад +100

      Girl I'm drinking wine and eating leftover pizza watching this

    • @plusultrafox5647
      @plusultrafox5647 4 года назад +6

      Thank you for this 😁

    • @SophieJackson1993
      @SophieJackson1993 4 года назад +22

      I’m eating toast with cheese chive spread on my bed.

    • @PixiePrinses
      @PixiePrinses 4 года назад +39

      i'm eating ice cream straight out the tub lol

    • @emiliana1767
      @emiliana1767 4 года назад +43

      I'm eating cookies while sitting on a kids chair in the kitchen in order to procrastinate from cleaning the kitchen and reward myself for attempting to clean the kitchen 👌

  • @BuzBuzxo
    @BuzBuzxo 3 года назад +282

    *All Those Years Of Watching Titanic Has Prepared Me For This Very Moment-*

    • @jackiep2948
      @jackiep2948 3 года назад +5

      😂

    • @shantinellfoster4637
      @shantinellfoster4637 2 года назад +5

      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @rachels5953
      @rachels5953 2 года назад +7

      'Just start from the outside and work your way in' has stuck with me forever 😂😂

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 3 года назад +275

    PLEASE MARIA MAKE THIS A SERIES I BEG OF YOU ! WE LOVE LEARNING ETIQUETTE AND ESPECIALLY FROM YOU QUEEN !

    • @Finn959
      @Finn959 Год назад +2

      Watch jamila musajeva

  • @BountyFlamor
    @BountyFlamor 4 года назад +276

    About what I would like to see on your channel: an afternoon tea role play would be much appreciated.

    • @Magirl-xq4hr
      @Magirl-xq4hr 4 года назад +3

      BountyFlamor oh yeah I love tea

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 года назад +1

      She has a few Tea videos. One of my fave is quite awhile ago, like 7 or 8 years ago I think.

    • @ameliethisisme
      @ameliethisisme 4 года назад +1

      great idea

    • @johneden2033
      @johneden2033 4 года назад +2

      Tea? You mean that stuff we dumped into the harbor a while back?

    • @deanwinchester2613
      @deanwinchester2613 4 года назад +2

      Yes, like a high tea role play.

  • @lpdeese
    @lpdeese 4 года назад +627

    Maria said lemme get y’all together so when quarantine is over y’all have manners 😂😂😂

  • @VenusTheShinyStar
    @VenusTheShinyStar 3 года назад +197

    This video called me a rude slob in every polite way possible but I love how calm and fancy she is

  • @tylerx8848
    @tylerx8848 3 года назад +185

    I never realized how barbaric I ate until watching this lol.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 года назад +32

      It's okay to not act like you're disarming a bomb every time you take a bite of salad.

  • @DadandBubs
    @DadandBubs 4 года назад +377

    More etiquette lessons please ma’am.
    Speech, writing, introductions, etc...
    I need help being a proper human being.
    Thank you.

  • @Kaerok28
    @Kaerok28 4 года назад +783

    I’ve watched this several times now and it’s quickly become one my personal favorite videos of yours. Keep up the great work and stay safe

    • @doggooverlords3041
      @doggooverlords3041 4 года назад +10

      Same it taught me how to have a nice dinner with my imaginary friends😂

    • @karenl.281
      @karenl.281 3 года назад +2

      Same. Love ones like this. I play them while I work.

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 3 года назад +2

      i came here to make this exact comment!

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- 3 года назад +1

      I agree!!

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 3 года назад +1

      Same this is my favourite ❤️

  • @cayden9224
    @cayden9224 Год назад +80

    The amount of research that goes into these videos is insane and it just proves how dedicated she is to making good content.

  • @roxybeaudet6777
    @roxybeaudet6777 Год назад +119

    I love this vid. I come back to it often. What would also be awesome is if you did etiquette videos for different countries, because many countries have unique things that they consider to be polite/impolite and that would be very interesting and relaxing to learn.

  • @betterdaysmacrame
    @betterdaysmacrame 4 года назад +420

    Thank god, because eating is all I do these days.

    • @gabbyelaine92
      @gabbyelaine92 4 года назад +8

      emilyballcreative quarantine eating is REAL 🤣

    • @mei-lingthomas1942
      @mei-lingthomas1942 4 года назад +2

      After quarantine this is what life has come to 😂👌

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 4 года назад +1

      Same here 😂😂

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 года назад +7

      guys, how to stop?
      I wanted to be skinny this summer, but food is so tasty and I just NYAMNYAMNYAAAAAAAAAM
      don't do that to us, corona

    • @Psycho.Bengali
      @Psycho.Bengali 4 года назад +1

      emilyballcreative ahhh same I’m so fat p

  • @julianacaggiano
    @julianacaggiano 4 года назад +1012

    She reminds me of Julie Andrews as Queen Clarice in the Princess Diaries teaching Mia (Anne Hathaway) how to be a princess. And I love it!

  • @hsvlove8799
    @hsvlove8799 3 года назад +188

    THIS ladies and gentleman, this is ASMR

    • @jdovgy
      @jdovgy 2 года назад +1

      It precisely is (also omg, hello! a wild kanjagi found!)

  • @vinodmehra188
    @vinodmehra188 3 года назад +91

    4:16
    She: Would you like some bread?
    Me : Yes please.
    She puts it back.
    Me : *(embarrassed)* or maybe not.

  • @QueenofAnon
    @QueenofAnon 4 года назад +131

    this video has a similar vibe to your old towel/napkin/clothes folding tutorials, and those are my absolute favorite videos of yours to date! thank you for blessing us with knowledge, manners, and relaxation in these trying times.♥️ you are a goddess, maria! 🥰

    • @daisyblu3000
      @daisyblu3000 4 года назад

      cloud nine so true! the pace, voice level and overall gentleness and the “step/explanation” type really do bring me back to those vids. awesome as usual 💕🤗

    • @laineyerin5801
      @laineyerin5801 4 года назад

      I second this! These are the ones I still get tingles from. Thank you so much Maria!

  • @uhohitschellie
    @uhohitschellie 4 года назад +373

    The scene from Titanic where Molly Brown tells Jack to "start from the outside and work your way in" has informed my ability to use silverware in fine dining ever since. I'm very excited to have Maria teach me more techniques.

    • @uhohitschellie
      @uhohitschellie 4 года назад +41

      It also blows my mind that these videos are intended for relaxation but they should be considered actual training guides (like the towel and clothes folding, too!) because they are just so well researched and executed.

    • @kristenf8335
      @kristenf8335 4 года назад +4

      Hahaha same!!! 😂

    • @Chloe299XxX
      @Chloe299XxX 4 года назад +6

      Michelle Horn same! every time I get confused I think of this scene 😆

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 года назад +4

      Exactly what I was thinking, that scene probably taught a lot of us basic table etiquette

    • @LunaLeea1
      @LunaLeea1 4 года назад +7

      @@uhohitschellie also Julia Roberts learning to eat with fine cultery in Pretty Woman!

  • @kingworm7168
    @kingworm7168 Год назад +24

    Girly I keep coming back to this video like 3 times a week. Can we pleeeeeeeeeeeeaase please get a new etiquette video 🥹 these are so so good

  • @BryanBalak
    @BryanBalak 2 года назад +232

    Maria: We break the cookie into small bite size pieces...
    Me: Watch me fit this whole cookie in my mouth in one bite... 🍪😁

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 года назад +6

      I think breaking these cookies into 2 halves would be okay.

    • @Thiccubus
      @Thiccubus Год назад +1

      @@frankfahrenheit9537 Two halves is acceptable, anything more and you might as well smash it with a hydralic press and snort the dust.

    • @katybug6572
      @katybug6572 Год назад +5

      That’s not proper.. tsk tsk 🫵 lol

    • @ninab.4540
      @ninab.4540 11 месяцев назад +1

      Doitdoidoit

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 28 дней назад

      This comment is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @iihxney_bear3171
    @iihxney_bear3171 4 года назад +1277

    This feels like something from Princess Diaries.

    • @jackieskellie
      @jackieskellie 4 года назад +27

      iihxney_bear Maria is an etiquette coach from Genovia 😍

    • @avilestiffany
      @avilestiffany 4 года назад +15

      Luv that movie. I cross my ankles b/c of that movie lol

    • @asmrstateofmind5122
      @asmrstateofmind5122 4 года назад +2

      So classy 😍

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 года назад +1

      @@avilestiffany Hah, I cross my ankles bc of the "Phineas and Ferb" episode, when their british cousin was teaching Candace, how to behave like a lady.

    • @PPMSwift
      @PPMSwift 4 года назад +5

      GENOVIA! THE LAND I CALL MY HOME

  • @tabbycatcrume
    @tabbycatcrume 4 года назад +717

    Is this how we eat in public? Because I can’t remember anymore...

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 года назад +18

    Not only is this helpful, but the "Always, Sometimes, Never" hand position moment gets my head tingling without fail every single time which has started to become so rare. Whatever you're doing here, keep doing it haha

  • @sylwiapro2791
    @sylwiapro2791 2 месяца назад +5

    Came for asmr. Stayed to learn how to eat a soup with a spoon. Yo, now I can do it proper, hey!

  • @labonihira
    @labonihira 4 года назад +2076

    This video feels like a subtle clap back to those crazy mukbangers 😂

  • @mariaaniag2385
    @mariaaniag2385 4 года назад +392

    Maria: eating healthy wholesome foods being elegant
    Me: eating ramen noodles with a spork

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 года назад +10

      More truth in this comment then many would admit to!

    • @kelseygirl2481
      @kelseygirl2481 4 года назад +5

      That's such a good idea!

    • @madelinetorye9967
      @madelinetorye9967 4 года назад +7

      I fail to see whats wrong with a spork. I think that is a fine idea for romen noodles

    • @jacobchesser3373
      @jacobchesser3373 4 года назад +2

      @Will Loehr this deserves to be top comment lmfao

    • @thebrisaeflores
      @thebrisaeflores 4 года назад +6

      **ever so gently, with all of the grace, taps a few drops of Tapatío**

  • @Deeeeeeeedz
    @Deeeeeeeedz 2 года назад +24

    It shook me to the core when I learned that salad had to be ✨ cut ✨

    • @moonyshowl
      @moonyshowl Год назад +1

      Honestly though, I usually just try -and fail horribly- to stuff it all in my mouth

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 28 дней назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @holasarrita
    @holasarrita 4 года назад +1253

    I knew this would be wonderful as soon as she said “derrière.”

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 4 года назад +8

      always the first thing I look for

    • @cedricdubs2143
      @cedricdubs2143 4 года назад +1

      Timelaps pls :)

    • @Ayraaaful
      @Ayraaaful 4 года назад +5

      Jhin le virtuose 1:56

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 года назад +27

      it's funny cause in French it sounds a bit rude lol you would say "postérieur".

    • @rainneko3
      @rainneko3 4 года назад +10

      2:02
      *"butt"*

  • @Marybringsgoodnews
    @Marybringsgoodnews 4 года назад +630

    “Do not put the whole cookie into your mouth.”
    😂😂😂

    • @dontknowyou2385
      @dontknowyou2385 4 года назад +2

      Mary Brings Good News :(

    • @selenabranch936
      @selenabranch936 4 года назад +17

      Maria : * gently and elegantly eats cookies*
      Me : * inhales cookies like kirby*

    • @Ashlolz
      @Ashlolz 4 года назад +4

      Well that's not very good news Mary

    • @tlmctaggart
      @tlmctaggart 4 года назад

      Is this based on Gloria Star’s videos?

    • @RebekahFerro
      @RebekahFerro 4 года назад +1

      I felt personally attacked by that one 😂😂😂

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 года назад +10

    Commenting again to say that this video must be in the Top 5 best ASMR videos of all time for me, and I've been listening/watching for nearly 10 years... It's not only the position of the microphone and the subtle rustling that makes it feel like actually in the room hearing clothes naturally move, but the soft, patient tutorial/lesson delivery that makes it the most relaxing (and educational!) thing to listen to over and over.

  • @Walker.Does.Photography
    @Walker.Does.Photography 3 года назад +209

    I can’t imagine how people are able to eat like that 😂😂😂 you need to enjoy your food comfortably without it being stressful 😆

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 года назад +90

      Rich people refuse to enjoy things comfortably

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 года назад +10

      Just do it. It is not stressful. When I see people using fork and knife
      as if they wanted to repair their car - terrible. A laugh.

    • @paolamaria399
      @paolamaria399 2 года назад +14

      It's disgusting to have a meal with someone who's mannerless. It's uncomfortable for the people aroud to watch or even to listen if they make sounds when eating or drinking.

    • @janheard3826
      @janheard3826 2 года назад +5

      @@CarlsCozyCorner Plenty of uncouth rich people

    • @soirema
      @soirema 2 года назад +8

      Its not stresfull its beatifull

  • @MsQuickSilver
    @MsQuickSilver 4 года назад +336

    This food etiquette/table manners lesson was absolutely divine, Maria. Your uniquely relaxing voice, graceful hand movements, knowledge and self-confidence, it all felt to me as though you were the teacher from Heaven. Tingles galore! Thank you and bravo for a job well done. Keep up the great work, Maria, because in these stressful times we need you more than ever. Greetings from Montreal. 😍💖🌈👍🇨🇦

    • @jeannineasselin761
      @jeannineasselin761 4 года назад +4

      Hi from Montreal !
      Bonjour de Montréal !

    • @awesomedude6249
      @awesomedude6249 4 года назад

      Us wrestling fans don't really like Montreal. Just search up "The Montreal Screwjob"

    • @Glooomyy
      @Glooomyy 4 года назад +1

      Oh hey I'm from Montreal too!:D And yes, I totally agree with this comment💓💓 I took a nap from this video earlier and it was wonderful.=0=💤💕 Anyways, I hope you and your family are safe and doing well!💗

    • @scity3301
      @scity3301 4 года назад +2

      @@jeannineasselin761 bonjour de quebec

    • @tysmith5653
      @tysmith5653 4 года назад

      Greetings from a place near Calgary

  • @autumnangelino
    @autumnangelino 4 года назад +760

    my immediate thought was that she's eating in cursive

    • @danithefiend6167
      @danithefiend6167 4 года назад +5

      Ha! I adore this creative thought. Too cool.

    • @olgapopova5768
      @olgapopova5768 4 года назад +20

      I'm eating in comic sans then

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. 4 года назад +4

      Oh, I write in cursive now I have to stay on brand

    • @talscorner3696
      @talscorner3696 4 года назад +5

      I find this thought to be oddly accurate...

    • @Andrea-nj3je
      @Andrea-nj3je 4 года назад +2

      Autumn Angelino the fact that somebody else thought the same makes me feel so much better

  • @LizCanKnit
    @LizCanKnit 3 года назад +34

    This was great! Would love to see how drinking is incorporated. Conversation etiquette is sorely needed as well.

    • @c3ka
      @c3ka 2 года назад +3

      Conversation etiquette, yes!!! Especially in an age where we've forgotten all about articulation.

  • @Danthonyt
    @Danthonyt Год назад +36

    This is still my favorite ASMR video of all time!

  • @harisharris5902
    @harisharris5902 4 года назад +1883

    Maria is like CEO of ASMR

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 года назад +37

      Shes the queen of ASMR actually 😁

    • @Jayliah_
      @Jayliah_ 4 года назад +18

      Haris Harris Maria and Latte are the best!

    • @pvdmtubeasmr6095
      @pvdmtubeasmr6095 4 года назад +17

      More like the CTO: Chief Tingles Officer!

    • @ange1i
      @ange1i 4 года назад +2

      Haris Harris the one and only! :))

    • @zinmomo7192
      @zinmomo7192 4 года назад +2

      Yes she is! :D

  • @drdoloresmize5386
    @drdoloresmize5386 4 года назад +104

    She SETS the trends!! This one was SO lovely!! Crisp white crinkly shirt, with black pants. The black chargers, white plates, and there is not a single spot on that glass and stemware!! Your attention to detail is just exquisite!! I loooooove you doing tutorials!! Nobody is better at it than you are!

  • @amaravirtue8833
    @amaravirtue8833 2 года назад +4

    Now I'm properly prepared for Friday night reservations at Dorsia.

    • @biscatcat2409
      @biscatcat2409 2 года назад +1

      Very nice, lets see Paul Allen's ASMR table manners video.

  • @kellyshaffer6083
    @kellyshaffer6083 Месяц назад +1

    Please please please more etiquette videos! This is my absolute #1 ASMR video of all time. ❤

  • @RockyFloral
    @RockyFloral 4 года назад +150

    When I took home economics in 8th grade we had to learn table etiquette and then we went on a field trip to a “fine dining” restaurant experience and my teacher actually graded us on how we acted throughout the dinner. Many people failed..

    • @assmosis4573
      @assmosis4573 4 года назад +6

      Flora Papadimitriou your teach is a boss!

    • @avakay1
      @avakay1 4 года назад +5

      i’m did this in 11th grade!

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 года назад +2

      Lucky! My schools too broke and ratchet to be able to go to a restaurant Lol most of the children there including me are not lucky and low on money with our families and ya know.... But um ... Yeahhhh that's cool!!!

    • @nihilisticbarbie
      @nihilisticbarbie 4 года назад +1

      @@i___270___x8 there's videos on RUclips if you're genuinely interested in learning formal table manners

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 года назад

      @@nihilisticbarbie thank you 😊 ill check em out

  • @ClemiASMR
    @ClemiASMR 4 года назад +31

    One thing I love when Maria does videos like this is you can tell she has put so much time and effort into really learning about dinner etiquette, rather than just pretending for the sake of the video. She's always so committed and I love that ❤️❤️

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 года назад +1

      Tbh she strikes me as the kind of person who already knew this.

    • @ClemiASMR
      @ClemiASMR 4 года назад +1

      Jim Lee that’s true!!

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 года назад +1

      @@ClemiASMR I think you might be getting a new sub :)

  • @pamburt
    @pamburt 3 года назад +30

    Exactly how I was taught to behave as a teenager for eating out in restaurants, or if invited for a meal at someone else’s home. No, it’s not “rich people “ who try to follow these rules, it’s everyone with basic manners. Of course I’m from the UK and I’m from an older generation, so I don’t think kids are taught this stuff anymore, more’s the pity. It looks archaic to young people now but I still think it creates a good impression if you’re eating out in public (and you’re not just slumped in front of the tv eating TV dinners)! Well done Maria👍🏻

    • @dnr2089
      @dnr2089 2 года назад +1

      I’m from the uk too….in my 60s. People today haven’t a clue about table manners. I often see children being allowed to eat with their hands, and it appals me!

    • @megatronskneecap
      @megatronskneecap 2 года назад +5

      @@dnr2089 Luv, anglo saxons and tribes went around eating all sorts with hands - It's not a crime infact it's perfectly normal history. You say 'children' babies and such eat with hands because holding two bits of metal or plastic when eating is stressful.

  • @neonevaa7943
    @neonevaa7943 7 месяцев назад +6

    this is the first asmr video i ever watched and it was in 2019. i wanted to learn more about table etiquette and ended up here. every now and then i come back to this video especially when im feeling down. thank u maria

  • @ohokay8392
    @ohokay8392 3 года назад +1884

    me, fingers coated in Cheeto dust “do go on maria”

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 года назад +64

      Me eating takies with chopsticks" yes...how interesting "

    • @nourhanhassanzahran2385
      @nourhanhassanzahran2385 3 года назад +8

      @@someone8240 DUUDDEE😭😭💀💀

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 года назад +11

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 well, it keeps you're fingers from getting coverd in chip dust

    • @kaylyndincler6933
      @kaylyndincler6933 3 года назад +1

      Yes🤣

    • @ohokay8392
      @ohokay8392 3 года назад +4

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 he got a point doe

  • @hannylovely5
    @hannylovely5 4 года назад +542

    Me, sitting at an elegant table next to my dog during quarantine: So, Molly, please do tell me how your afternoon was. Did you say hello to the mailman again today?
    My dog, Molly: *does not care that Maria worked hard to teach us table manners and is devouring everything in sight*

  • @Phoenix-zy1cx
    @Phoenix-zy1cx 4 месяца назад +3

    I just noticed the really beautiful and subtle sound mixing in the first minute and a half. All of the ambient sounds are crisp, while the soft song slowly grows more clear yet does not overpower. It's a masterpiece of sound design.
    I think each ASMRtist develops an audio style. Yours is very distinct and cannot be imitated. I hope you are proud of your artistic sound. :D

  • @BarrocoTarot
    @BarrocoTarot 3 года назад +869

    The worst you can order is Spaghettis please don't do that if you are on a special date or try to seduce someone lol. An amazing and lovely video. It was really helpful. Thank you.

    • @leah7348
      @leah7348 3 года назад +25

      What if you twirl it up onto the fork so it's less messy?

    • @solanum6039
      @solanum6039 3 года назад +84

      @@leah7348 Spaghetti will always be messy. 😅

    • @francescoantoniocrisconio194
      @francescoantoniocrisconio194 3 года назад +61

      You guys just don't know the right technique. I eat spaghetti often and i'm never messy with them

    • @verom8657
      @verom8657 3 года назад +35

      @@francescoantoniocrisconio194 same. I'm only messy if I'm super hungry but typically dont make a mess

    • @venanciafox8765
      @venanciafox8765 3 года назад +13

      Wait, I saw this in a movie called Brooklyn with Saoirse Ronan! It CAN be done! 🇮🇹♥️☘️

  • @TomPMelanson
    @TomPMelanson 4 года назад +36

    As a catering event manager, I have to say thanks for the accuracy of this video! Once I learned how to eat with heightened etiquette, I never went back. It's second nature to me now. So glad others get to enjoy!

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker 4 года назад +2

      Tom Melanson it really is so much more pleasant for others around you, thank you for being considerate

  • @starrygrl4
    @starrygrl4 4 года назад +448

    Less than 3 minutes and I already can understand I’m doing everything wrong

    • @carladargent6209
      @carladargent6209 4 года назад +1

      Bruh same

    • @leileiX
      @leileiX 4 года назад

      Me too.. I feel bad .-. I think i'll take some notes. xD

    • @cristinarnold
      @cristinarnold 4 года назад +1

      Damn you made it to 3 minutes before realizing that! It took me .02 seconds😂💚✌

    • @user-ph1dm4hg5v
      @user-ph1dm4hg5v 4 года назад

      Doctor Who: Revolution only when you’re at an expensive and luxe restaurant, nobody eat’s like this at home with their family’s lol

    • @cypher2540
      @cypher2540 4 года назад

      It took me the hole video to understand stand I do everything wrong on the table

  • @lindaspratt1152
    @lindaspratt1152 2 года назад +92

    I so appreciate creative, realistic role-play! So tired of phony eye exams, haircuts, makeup sessions and the other usual suspects. I also don't like ASMR folks who are obviously trying hard to trigger by repeating words, tapping, unnatural mouth noises etc, it ruins it for me.

    • @columkenn
      @columkenn Год назад +4

      Mukbang are the worst

  • @aldausa
    @aldausa Месяц назад +1

    i will never get tired of this video, the "soup moment" lives in my head rent free
    tysm

  • @misskris62
    @misskris62 4 года назад +95

    Can we acknowledge that sis made a whole 4 course meal in order to make this video? 🍲🥗🍗🍪 what dedication!

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 года назад +5

      misskris62 what if she just wanted a good meal and then was like this could be content?

    • @user-pc7ih3cb4y
      @user-pc7ih3cb4y 4 года назад

      Who is sis?

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 года назад

      Евгений S she’s talking about gentle whispering

    • @47462vladi
      @47462vladi 4 года назад

      @@user-pc7ih3cb4y "сестрёнка", обращение к Марии

  • @sunshineladyxxx7975
    @sunshineladyxxx7975 4 года назад +82

    Whow, never seen such a detailled instruction for proper eating like this. This is not only ASMR but also really helpful! I learned the rules for correct eating at a fine table in my earliest childhood, but it is really nice to remember that all now. We all tend to get used to a little messy behaviour at table when we eat all time alone i think. *gg*
    Thank you so much Maria, you are perfect at anything you do!

  • @dragonnymphs5882
    @dragonnymphs5882 7 месяцев назад +3

    Black space for anyone sleeping
    Goodnight x

  • @Bellawhereyoubeenloka
    @Bellawhereyoubeenloka 3 года назад +331

    Imagine nikacado avocado trying to eat like this

    • @iiredgm
      @iiredgm 3 года назад +62

      he'd have a mental breakdown half way and start hitting the dishes with a broom while crying

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 года назад +16

      @@iiredgm and he would yell at the wait staff

    • @laurenlesley6081
      @laurenlesley6081 3 года назад +7

      Omfg don’t even get me visualising 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fha1758
      @fha1758 3 года назад +12

      Not even remotely possible for him.

    • @cass956_
      @cass956_ 3 года назад +2

      @@iiredgm LMAO 😂😂😂😂

  • @ac421
    @ac421 4 года назад +92

    Many people (most) were never taught how to eat this way as I think most we’re really never exposed to it. I think this video was a very good idea. Something interesting, relaxing and informative. Thank you!

  • @madina4568
    @madina4568 4 года назад +284

    She radiates sunshine, sweetness and she is just such a *Maria* . Simply We all do love her.

    • @jerrysoriano9827
      @jerrysoriano9827 4 года назад +2

      maria being maria.

    • @kazbar7611
      @kazbar7611 4 года назад +2

      I may be wrong but I thought Maria said at the start of the video, she was going to demonstrate the European and American way of eating?. But it looked to me like she ate the salad and the main course the same way. As a European I'm curious as to what the difference is?. This is not meant as a criticism, I really enjoyed the video Maria. I just wanted to know what the difference is and thought I might have missed it?.

  • @jenyakostak7639
    @jenyakostak7639 3 месяца назад +2

    Probably, the best ASMR video ever

  • @amberblanco5979
    @amberblanco5979 2 года назад +3

    She speaks 2 languages fluently.
    She makes amazing ASMR.
    She is a great mom.
    She posts great tutorials.
    What can't She do?!?!

  • @aimeephillips6571
    @aimeephillips6571 4 года назад +65

    As someone who's worked in hotel restaurants for several years, I just want to say, this was so accurate and well done! Also I'm so glad you mentioned about not moving or trying to help between courses! 🙏

  • @hugznotdrugs2
    @hugznotdrugs2 4 года назад +517

    Maria: How to be proper at the table
    Me: *nodding* in my pajamas drinking out of a Dixie cup

  • @jeannietapner5016
    @jeannietapner5016 2 дня назад +1

    Another asmr vid that's too interesting to fall asleep to as I want to watch as well as listen . Another great vid thank you Maria x

  • @truestormi8444
    @truestormi8444 3 года назад +16

    I really love this kind of asmr, where you give tingles and new knowledge to people.. thanks maria

  • @thebestyoda
    @thebestyoda 4 года назад +1439

    When you start watching this to fall asleep but end up watching the whole thing because you realise how you dont know any of this

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 года назад +4

      How do u not know any of thia i see people do it all the time and alot in movies hahha

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 года назад +3

      Accurate

    • @savagejacob6301
      @savagejacob6301 4 года назад +1

      True true

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 года назад +1

      @@evelyng.4083 I didn't just say tv hahaha just incase of others

    • @emeralddragongaming2930
      @emeralddragongaming2930 4 года назад +3

      @heleen b well not everywhere in Europe, rich countries perhaps but where I live now the main and often only tool for eating is spoon and only one for all kinds of food a and a single plate too

  • @atmydarkesthours2713
    @atmydarkesthours2713 4 года назад +356

    When you asked the “ person” if they wanted bread I really expected your husband to take it from you 😂😂

  • @robertlhamilton5769
    @robertlhamilton5769 3 года назад +26

    This is one of my favorite u-tubes. The table is elegant and so are you. You are a one woman show. You're as good as anyone on Broadway. Not hard to watch you over and over again. Take care!

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 3 года назад +1

      Do you want a date with her?

  • @chuckycarbone3295
    @chuckycarbone3295 2 года назад +16

    8:40 - 9:30 where she tastes the soup gives me the most intense tingles of anything I have EVER seen. My favorite ever asmr clip of all time. I watch it every night and it never gets old. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT THIS VIDEO

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Год назад +2

      OMG SAME really this is my favourite part

    • @chuckycarbone3295
      @chuckycarbone3295 Год назад

      @@Cerveza- She is so cute. A true artist. So tingly the eating soup. Literally never had tingles this intense

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Год назад +3

      @@chuckycarbone3295 well I don't really experience tingles but just that part I feel so much warmth and wholesomeness somehow haha

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Год назад +1

      Well through the whole vid, but especially that part

  • @jay-tr2we
    @jay-tr2we 4 года назад +1248

    Me: Interesting
    *continues to eat chips in bed*

    • @meow_bastard
      @meow_bastard 4 года назад +1

      jay stfu

    • @jamesmorris4258
      @jamesmorris4258 4 года назад +30

      I legit had a tomato fall out of my sandwich and stain my bed with mustard while watching.

    • @cblacks21
      @cblacks21 3 года назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @alyssawinters6632
      @alyssawinters6632 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣 my whole life

    • @zebrastudios
      @zebrastudios 3 года назад +1

      I'm the same 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Sangonomiiya
    @Sangonomiiya 4 года назад +1982

    This has the energy of “im Enissa Blanche and im your freestyle dance teacher” but it’s like actually serious

  • @nemisiesaidSTARS
    @nemisiesaidSTARS 3 года назад +22

    You guys ever get that feeling that you're a sleeper agent, and these recommendations aren't really "coincidental". It's almost like you're preparing for your next assignment, like I don't have the money to dine at a restaurant that follows these procedures yet here I am.

  • @KaterinaK8
    @KaterinaK8 Год назад +2

    Умничка.Весь ютюб обучили, правильной сортировки стола и правильному этикету.

  • @ellalala._
    @ellalala._ 4 года назад +152

    María is the perfect, classy lady. Everything about her it's just delicate, feminine, calming. Not a single bad/fake vibe from her and I feel her genuine and loving personality is what makes her one of the best ASMRtist. She's always so patient and so polite, hats off to her classy ways, a true queen 👸

  • @LC-cj6cn
    @LC-cj6cn 4 года назад +301

    this was interesting to watch. as a French person I learned to never cut my salad : you fold it, because it avoids making that sound (you know what sound lol). And also I learned we are to never cross our fork and knife (whether it's on the plate itself or even on the side. just never cross them). Also when drinking wine, we ate given two glasses on feet : smallest is for the wine, biggest is for the water (because you should drink more water than wine).

    • @violet20205
      @violet20205 4 года назад +26

      Exact ! Ne jamais couper la salade !!

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 года назад +15

      Laurys C so interesting! in the united states we never learn about drinks because it’s assumed that that information isn’t necessary until you are 21, so most people have to figure it out on their own

    • @LC-cj6cn
      @LC-cj6cn 4 года назад +7

      @@colbymcarthur7871 I learned via my parents when I asked why they had two "wine glasses" but just used one.
      It shouldn't be about "it's wine glass so it's alcohol so you shouldn't know because you're a minor", because it's just explaining why the table is set that way. Also as a kid I used to help set the table for family dinners (the ones you're like 7373838 at the table lol)

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 года назад +4

      Laurys C Oh that makes sense, my family normally already has our drinks from earlier (whether water, beer, wine, etc), so we don’t usually put glasses down to set the table

    • @mam2896
      @mam2896 4 года назад +7

      True and crossing cutlery upon finishing indicates you were not happy with the meal 😅

  • @ara.4497
    @ara.4497 Год назад +2

    These etiquette rules make a lot of sense and are very respectful and caring for everyone involved in the formal dining experience. Thanks for this great surprisingly relaxing ASMR presentation!

  • @Ineke1466
    @Ineke1466 9 месяцев назад +2

    Love this❤ This is normal for me, Table manners were part of my education and I’m happy that my mother taught me these

  • @maryhaucke-davis7750
    @maryhaucke-davis7750 4 года назад +141

    I loved this Maria. It reminded me of being a little girl at my grandmother’s house. She would invite me for “tea” and taught table etiquette. I loved her lessons!

  • @havingicecream
    @havingicecream 4 года назад +49

    Honestly, it suprises me every time how Maria slips into these roles so perfectly, but is still unmistakenly Maria

  • @silentdarksar4865
    @silentdarksar4865 Год назад +6

    This looks so pretty and elegant. I have zero patience and could never eat like this. I'm like an animal and drop food down myself in a frantic enjoyment

  • @insomb
    @insomb 2 года назад +9

    Wow, I've never had an etiquette lesson on eating, this is both very relaxing and informative.

  • @jbfangirl8529
    @jbfangirl8529 4 года назад +100

    Maria can’t be human. Her talent knows no bounds and she’s impossibly lovely and kind! ❤️

  • @ShuAum
    @ShuAum 4 года назад +1599

    Thats why rich people are so slim. There are so many rules that you eat too little.

    • @mariabrant1665
      @mariabrant1665 4 года назад +109

      Table etiquette is not a rich people thing. Americans have just gotten too used to eating alone and not being taught proper manners. General table manners such as eating with your mouth closed, using your fork and knife, and not talking with your mouth full are taught in households of all social and economic classes outside of the US.

    • @henry3792
      @henry3792 4 года назад +103

      @@mariabrant1665 lol whys it always Americans this Americans that. You think mexicans eat their tacos with a fork and knife and follow this bs or Italians when eating pizza? Only snobby rich people use this etiquette for all of their meals. Common sense like not talking with your mouth full or elbows on the table is all you need. Might as well eat comfortably we ain't here for long.

    • @saysHotdogs
      @saysHotdogs 4 года назад +34

      It’s actually cocaine

    • @bigsmokeI408
      @bigsmokeI408 4 года назад +3

      Mande Gianfala shit.That actually makes a lot of sense

    • @patopurific26
      @patopurific26 4 года назад

      @Fuert NeigtWTF Men ¡

  • @tiyetiye379
    @tiyetiye379 3 года назад

    Maria, I think this is my favorite video of yours that you’ve done all year. I’ve lost count of the number of times it’s sent me off to sleep, so thank you for all the work you put into this and so many other videos!

  • @valerieholdman5760
    @valerieholdman5760 2 года назад +4

    She never ceases to amaze me😊🥰👏🏼 This was very educational. I never knew this. Plus she makes everything so mesmerizing to watch💯

  • @sydxfost
    @sydxfost 4 года назад +270

    I want to fall asleep but honestly I’m learning so much

  • @stevenandbobthedog
    @stevenandbobthedog 4 года назад +33

    I really enjoyed the "Always, Sometimes, Never" part. Kind of reminded me of when you're getting fit for glasses and the optometrist is asking "Better with one or with two?"

  • @fingergunsflowers1182
    @fingergunsflowers1182 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is so amazing and unique! Usually etiquette classes are formed as stressful and up tight environments but you’ve shown me how it’s actually a wonderful and informative experience ♥️

  • @aimeeisgoingtomars
    @aimeeisgoingtomars 4 года назад +323

    Reminds me of the times when my dad taught us table etiquette, he always said 'never meet your food when bringing it to your mouth, you're not a chicken so dont peck at it' 😂

    • @ivania.
      @ivania. 4 года назад +25

      aimée my mom would say “food to mouth not mouth to food” 😂

    • @bluesummers5051
      @bluesummers5051 4 года назад +29

      I was always taught to lean forward (like actually slouch) until my mouth was over the plate and a little beyond so that the food wouldn’t fall on the table/floor 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @krystallinum
      @krystallinum 4 года назад +9

      Maybe I am a chicken, dad.