The secret to changing negative self-talk by renewing your mindset | Bruce Pulver | TEDxFlowerMound

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @marioescalante4401
    @marioescalante4401 4 года назад +201

    “Do hard things. If you do hard things, hard things become easier to do.”
    Damn, that was good.

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 4 года назад +6

      Hello Mario. Thank you. I have found this statement to be so true in my life. Trying each day to make my comfort zone being comfortable not having one.

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      @rosesecop8727 4 года назад +2

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    • @dianelefebvre7247
      @dianelefebvre7247 3 года назад

      @@brucepulver5967 p

    • @boogiedown7484
      @boogiedown7484 3 года назад +2

      Great quote to add on to it “it’s not the the nature of the task itself gets easier but our ability to do increases”

  • @tiffanyhoward9935
    @tiffanyhoward9935 4 года назад +107

    Wow! Wow! Wow! I needed this right now! I’ve been grieving the recent loss of my mother. She passed in April. Since her death, my battery has been low. Your carefully selected words have helped to recharged me. Your message has inspired me. I’m writing these words and will read them until I commit them to memory. I will use this as a compass to get back to enjoying my life. Thank you for sharing this message with the world. Words make a difference!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +11

      Thank you very much. These words are all contained in my book "Above the Chatter, Our Words Matter". I am so grateful for your kind words and so honored that these words I used during my talk have helped you.

    • @amalbahr4175
      @amalbahr4175 4 года назад +4

      Just like you drove your car the other day looking for a terrific day as you wrote, I opened RUclips looking for energy to recharge my battery and pull me out of my depression ... I listened to your life changing speech.... can never thank you enough.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +4

      @@amalbahr4175 Thank you Amal. Our words really have in impact on the direction of our thoughts (positive or negative). We can choose which habits we want to develop and how our we choose our words, especially during challenging times. Thank you for your warm comments

    • @husseinfaiz3397
      @husseinfaiz3397 3 года назад

      How are things now

  • @cokkieeaker6547
    @cokkieeaker6547 4 года назад +19

    No matter what job, which industry or what area of your life you are in now, Bruce's TEDx talk is worth listening to until the end! Words matter: Bruce added emotion to the letters and by simply changing the letters he is changing negative to positive and inspiring. Thank you, Bruce, I'm buying your book next and then I'll spread the word for others to hear you!

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад +2

      Thank you Cokkie for your wonderful, warm and positive comments and for taking the time to write them. I am grateful. Thank you for spreading the word!

  • @debraarnold3703
    @debraarnold3703 Год назад +1

    I try to encourage those that complain to me about another to see the other with compassion and empathy. "Take another tact. Maybe it's the best another can do at that moment."

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад +1

      Yes, Debra. We never know the depths from which another persons perspective, situation, thoughts, feelings and actions are coming. Sometimes just being there and being SILENT to LISTEN is the solution for the moment. Isn't it cool that SILENT and LISTEN have the same letters just rearranged?

  • @aminotmerciful4353
    @aminotmerciful4353 3 года назад +43

    "Positivity can find a solution in every problem."

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +4

      Indeed I believe it 100%. Thank you for your comment AmINotMerciful4

    • @kamsolusar8529
      @kamsolusar8529 2 года назад

      That's toxic positivity.

  • @blaisemassey5129
    @blaisemassey5129 3 года назад +16

    I'm so thankful for Ted Talks! The speakers r like the parents I always wanted. The wisdom, the insight, & the love that they all bring is wonderful. For the first time in years I'm hopeful, I feel good. Thank you so much for sharing such valuable lessons.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +5

      Blaise thank you for your comments. I agree the wisdom that can be obtained from Ted Talks is amazing. I feel so honored for the opportunity to share my life experience and the impact of the power of our words on ourselves and with others.

  • @tiarratompkins8917
    @tiarratompkins8917 5 лет назад +10

    Love! Words change lives and save lives. Sometime's we have to use those words instead of waiting for someone else to give them to us. We can change our own lives.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you Tiarra - Our Words Matter. Those we use with others and equally important, those we use with ourselves!

  • @rolettethomasjr.285
    @rolettethomasjr.285 9 месяцев назад +1

    Continue blessing the world in your mission

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you @rolettethomasjr.285. I appreciate your encouragement.

  • @ksengupta6626
    @ksengupta6626 5 лет назад +17

    ONE OF THE BEST MOTIVATING SPEECHES I HAVE EVER HEARD. SO CLEAN AND PRACTICAL

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you K. I sincerely appreciate your kind comments.

    • @marilynbeecham3794
      @marilynbeecham3794 4 года назад +2

      I agree and it's probably the first time my mind didn't drift during a speech. I was totally inspired. Thank you.

    • @kamsolusar8529
      @kamsolusar8529 2 года назад

      Clean?

  • @achernev
    @achernev 3 года назад +2

    I’m very happy to see the talk. I lost my job one month ago and was at the same state and I also put on my phone screen saver and wallpaper I am strong and I can do it. I’m really surprised to see that the speaker has also chosen these two. What a coincidence.I definitely understand the power of the words that we are talking to us and the images we create in our minds are powerful.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +1

      Alexander. I don't believe in coincidences. I am grateful you have found your words STRONG and I CAN DO IT to help you stay positive. Thank you for your kind words

  • @consroma6067
    @consroma6067 Год назад

    I am a silent listener He don't know the strong impact of his words to my soul very inspiration it goes through my bones as I repeatedly silently listening to this inspirational speech

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад

      Thank you consro ma! I am honored that my words have impacted you AND that you took the time to post your comment! I am grateful. Stay strong (even if silent)

  • @klanderkal
    @klanderkal 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm the opposite Bruce. I became very negative and my attitude. Catastrophes started happening in my life,.. and more my negative attitude grew. I only had my great career job left... then my attitude created a foolish mistake and I lost my dream job of 20yrs. .... I tried SO hard to return.! I was given wrong information that prevented my ability to return and in lost it. I had blame, hate, regret, grief etc.... which made my situation worse. My mental and physical health declined. I have Chronic Stress, Anxiety, insomnia, and depression. My words were extremely bitter, and daily cursed myself and everyone who gave me wrong information. My situation is very serious now.... I've had many S.I. days and talked with professional counseling. Yet, still unable to accept and let it go. I started listening to podcasts like this...Im realizing, how my own negative thoughts and words, prophesied my demise. I'm totally devastated and alone. I'm just starting to think... it maybe possible, if I can somehow discipline my mind to think of positivity, aimist the tsunami of negativity that resides in my mind. It really is is a sliver of possibility. If I can just find a way, a daily formula.
    It might save my life. ⛓️🙏

    • @alanamurray422
      @alanamurray422 5 месяцев назад +1

      Your daily formula starts with going to the gym. Working out. Strength training.high nutrition. Being unconditional in your kindness to yourself and others. You have power . Go do this x

    • @klanderkal
      @klanderkal 5 месяцев назад

      @alanamurray422 Wow,. Thanks alanamurray🙌 extremely great words. And formula.
      I'm so at a loss, knowing my career job is over. I want my life back the way it was.... my future was with my job, I never wanted it to end. I loved the atmosphere, the coworkers and friends. I just loved my life so much because I had that job. The anxiety and depression I have now, is so debilitating. I barely can get up to brush my teeth. I'm in such bad shape now.
      I wish I could forgive myself .
      Unconditional kindness to myself?
      Wow,... that is difficult. I feel so upset with myself, and the guilt, regret and shame. I did many more foolish mistakes prior to loosing my job. I had quit my favorite sport, because of my bad attitude I somehow got, then I didn't visit my grandma before she passed. She had been asking to see me , and I put it off. I had invested in a stock, and it skyrocketed from $10,000 investment to $779,000!!!. It was a dream come true. My son was saying "Dad", that's the house you always wanted!!! ... I said, I know..!! I'm going to wait till it goes higher...
      The Co. Failed to submit paperwork? to the exchange?.. and it was suspended and crashed. Then, I made the foolish mistake.. and lost my job.
      The Stress was SO bad for me.. it caused insomnia and anxiety. I was falling apart mentally.... I couldn't believe how disrupted my whole life became... I just spiraled into depression. I didn't know what depression really was, until it happened to me. It really is a illness. I feel apathy, and loss of interests...and no pleasure.
      I really would like to somehow genuinely forgive myself, and start working out again, and working on my vw again, and calling up friends again, and going outside, being happy again!!!!!
      But,.. im so down on my life now, I hate what's happened to me...
      And the Anxiety, insomnia, and depression added to my losses... makes my existence horrible.
      I do like your formula! Though.
      Thanks so much for caring about me.... I really appreciate you 🙌

    • @Gyoryabc
      @Gyoryabc 5 месяцев назад +1

      You can change the past. You must let it go So you can be present. Take it one day at a time. Make small changes to change What you shared here share to a friend. Don’t isolate yourself. Reach out to friends and find counseling. I began a recovery program for people pleasing that has helps me immensely and brought awareness to how hard I am on myself. My mind is my worst enemy. That is what I am now focusing on. Faith & friends (mostly new - since enlisted my self plus didn’t bother to make any when we moved 4 years ago) has carried me through this very difficult time. 🙏 for you and your courage to embrace life again and be joyful for each day you are given. There’s a book Making Peach with your Past. It may help you. 💖 & 🙏

    • @Lene1973a
      @Lene1973a 2 месяца назад

      ​@@klanderkalhow are you today? 🌸

    • @klanderkal
      @klanderkal 2 месяца назад

      @Lene1973a hi,.. im way worse than before. The depression got very severe. And my health declined. Lost interest in living. I don't do anything at all anymore. Im very weak, and get sick alot. I don't excersize, I don't socialize. My eyesight started to get alitte blurry,... now its extremely blurry... I don't have glasses, so my unhappiness has magnified. I feel im dying. I look dead already. Everything I enjoyed, loved about life... and my hopes and dreams are all gone. I don't like myself anymore.

  • @Onlinesully
    @Onlinesully 3 года назад +1

    yes indeed, the words and the thoughts matter a heck of a lot

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Sow AG. Yes indeed. Especially those we speak to ourselves.

  • @jjaswal
    @jjaswal 4 года назад +15

    Thanks for this Bruce! throughout this Pandemic times were tough and I realized that the words I say and use can inevitably affect the outcome of my success. Appreciate this talk!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +1

      Jaspreet. Thank you for such kind words. Yes. our words and our mindset have such a massive impact on our outcomes. Stay strong!!!

  • @igorwhite6223
    @igorwhite6223 3 года назад +1

    The character names his dad wrote were GENIUS I'd love to read his work

  • @JasminFAba
    @JasminFAba 4 года назад +6

    Wow. Very inspiring and the way he talked so calmy made it more impactful. Each words uttered mattered and always in a positive light. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk. He deserves more views!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 4 года назад +1

      Jasmin. Thank you for your warm and kind words. I sincerely appreciate you making the time to comment. Our words do matter and yours made an impact on me.

  • @malay2692
    @malay2692 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Bruce..Words can put someone down or life them up..So be mindful about what words you use when you speak to yourself as well as others

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +3

      Thank you Malay. I appreciate you making the time to post your comments. You are so correct a single word can change a life.

  • @adamalpha7881
    @adamalpha7881 4 года назад +17

    Imagine starting your day with this inspirational speech ❤

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад +1

      Thank you Adam. I appreciate your comment! Our Words Matter.

  • @jamalhamdan9170
    @jamalhamdan9170 4 года назад +1

    Positive talks ,thoughts is very powerful ,impactful and inspiring, it influence the way behave ,act and perform in our daily lives and tasks.

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад

      Jamal: Thank you for making time and effort to post your comment about positive talks and thoughts! Stay Strong and Inspired!

  • @RenyxGhoul
    @RenyxGhoul 3 года назад +5

    What an underrated piece of talk, these are really insightful! Mindset and how you interpret and approach something determines how you will walk the path.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +2

      Thank you so very much for your comments and for watching this talk. I sincerely appreciate you making the time to share your thoughts.

  • @marisamcpherson7835
    @marisamcpherson7835 3 года назад +3

    One of the best if not the best TEDX Talk. Thank you so much for this Bruce. You are amazing!

  • @MsCrytter
    @MsCrytter 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you, Bruce! I’m going to work on my words.

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 5 лет назад +1

      One word at a time will add up to a major change.

  • @paulsumulong
    @paulsumulong 6 месяцев назад +1

    Powerful. Thank you for sharing Bruce!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 6 месяцев назад +1

      Paul, Such a pleasure meeting you this week. Let's keep growing! Grateful to have met you

  • @JennyMulksWieneke
    @JennyMulksWieneke 5 лет назад +27

    I love your message, mindset and the way you shared shifting our thinking! Thank you for a great talk!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you Jenny. Shifting my Thinking has changed everything for me.

  • @flomedel660
    @flomedel660 2 года назад +1

    Watching this video was the best way to start my day!!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 2 года назад +1

      Hello Flo. Thank you for your wonderful comment. I am grateful the video found you and had an impact. Have a great day.

  • @antonellamastrodomenico9340
    @antonellamastrodomenico9340 4 года назад +8

    Thnaks ! This is just what I needed to hear, it's one of the best speech.

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад +2

      Antonella, I am grateful my words have made an impact. Have a GREAT day and work to find and life your INSPIRED life.

  • @llvllajid
    @llvllajid 2 года назад +2

    It was really one of the best TED talks which I watched.👌

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 2 года назад

      Thank you for watching AND commenting Majid. I appreciate your kind WORDS!

  • @sandymedd
    @sandymedd 4 года назад

    Spirit guides guiding you through your words. It is in hard times that we listen.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад

      Thank you Sandy. I appreciate you watching and commenting. Yes these words were definitely handed to me over the 420 day journey.

  • @bethyoung3654
    @bethyoung3654 3 года назад +3

    Bruce, thank you for an inspiring lesson. It's very much needed for so many of us. I'm looking forward to reading your book too!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +2

      Thank you Beth. I appreciate your comment. I am so grateful this talk is helping others.

  • @Ignite370
    @Ignite370 Месяц назад

    Thank you! Always Positive mental attitude.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 29 дней назад

      Thank you. Positive attitude and possibility mindset.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад +5

    Great great talk. Gratitude n positive mindset will definitely help you reach your dreams. Very inspiring. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Arline. THANK YOU.May all your dreams come true as well.

  • @jclint1953
    @jclint1953 5 лет назад +3

    A great story and a great message! How amazing that the vision of the power of words came when you needed it. Thank you for sharing what you have learned!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 5 лет назад

      Exactly when I needed it. Life often can work that way if we let it, Right?

  • @asadnsu
    @asadnsu 3 года назад

    this is one of the best ted talks i have ever heard.

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 3 года назад

      Thank you Asad. I am grateful for your comments.

  • @letthetrumpetsound7893
    @letthetrumpetsound7893 3 года назад +2

    Love the connections and fluidity of ideas. I'm working on being the same type of speaker. Not only the delivery, but the message is awesome 🎯

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +2

      Jazz Head. Thank you and I appreciate you making time to comment. Please take what works for you from this message and PLEASE also, find and be your AUTHENTIC voice for yours. Grateful for the opportunity to share this message. Stay STRONG!

  • @epinephrinsr71
    @epinephrinsr71 4 года назад +5

    That was a quite a clever, constructive tool! It applies creativity to really change perspective. Thank you!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад

      Thank you I am grateful my message found you and you were kind to leave your comments.

  • @SpookyParanormalTales
    @SpookyParanormalTales 8 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you message.

  • @maliamoler1306
    @maliamoler1306 5 месяцев назад

    So much Love & Aloha! Mahalo for sharing and inspiring us

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 5 месяцев назад

      @maliamoler1306. Thank you for your kind words. Please, if you are so moved, share this with your community. I am committed to reaching 1 million people with the message of the power of our words.

  • @GolfingHorse1
    @GolfingHorse1 3 года назад

    Third or Fourth time listening to This TedX Talks Words are powerful !!!!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Thank you Bill. I am so grateful that this talk resonates with you

  • @System6879
    @System6879 5 лет назад +5

    Definitely going to try live an inspired life, great video. Thank you so much

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 5 лет назад +1

      Hello Rhyan: Hope your are making great progress. Thank you for your comment!

  • @susannovello2431
    @susannovello2431 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.
    I needed to hear all of these words.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Thank you Susan. I am grateful this message reached you. Our Words do Matter. Please take whatever nugget encourages and supports your walk!

  • @temperance2580
    @temperance2580 5 лет назад +6

    This was a timely reminder. Thank you

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 5 лет назад +2

      We all need reminders from time to time!

  • @gintarejasinskaite6977
    @gintarejasinskaite6977 4 года назад

    The best speech I have ever heard !

  • @mikee1199
    @mikee1199 4 года назад +2

    One of the best TED Talks I watched. Amazing play with words.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +1

      Thank you Milos; I appreciate your kind words. Sincerely!

  • @lulahummingbird664
    @lulahummingbird664 3 года назад

    Excelllent talk. Much needed and feel revived with hope again. Deep gratitude 🙏

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Lula, Thank you. I am so grateful my talk met a need for you! I am grateful!

  • @lauraklamo3031
    @lauraklamo3031 5 лет назад +2

    Good Job Bruce!! I now have YES on my desk!!

  • @victoriatsolka4555
    @victoriatsolka4555 Год назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @ishara280
    @ishara280 4 года назад +8

    Just what I needed to hear at the moment. It inspired me to the core. Thanks a million times

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +2

      thank you ishara!. I am grateful the message impacted you! Stay strong!

    • @ishara280
      @ishara280 4 года назад +3

      @@brucepulver you are humble enough to reply all the people. That's really nice

  • @MrJoshuaValentinebaby
    @MrJoshuaValentinebaby Год назад

    Really needed this today. Thank you

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад

      Hello @wacky2backy, I am grateful if my talk reached you in some way yesterday. Thank you for your comment!

  • @pattimccrory9625
    @pattimccrory9625 3 года назад

    Fantastic...Thank you so much for the power of positive wording....awesome speaker👏🙌🏾

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Thank you Patty. I appreciate your kind comment!

  • @LisaJWood
    @LisaJWood 2 года назад +1

    Bruce, this is beautiful! I had to write it down and I WILL be sharing this, distributing this to others. :) Thank you for sharing!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 2 года назад +1

      Hello Lisa. Thank you for you wonderful comment and for sharing this with others.

    • @LisaJWood
      @LisaJWood 2 года назад +1

      @@brucepulver5967 it’s truly my pleasure!!

  • @janetdean1296
    @janetdean1296 3 года назад +1

    Fantastic. Working on putting into action.

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 3 года назад

      Thank you Janet! Keep going. You have all it talks already inside you!

  • @RAMANDEEPKAUR-zq3zt
    @RAMANDEEPKAUR-zq3zt 3 года назад

    Thank you Bruce for such an inspiring talk

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 3 года назад

      Ramadeep. Thank you. Please have an INSPIRED day today and everyday!!!

  • @tabithagunsch1600
    @tabithagunsch1600 2 года назад +2

    Hay thật sự, cảm ơn Đức Phúc mang cho mình dòng cảm xúc này!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 2 года назад

      Thank you for your comment. Please share this message with your community.

  • @peterfallon4018
    @peterfallon4018 3 года назад

    Talk’s why English’s one of most challenging languages for non-native speakers to learn

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 3 года назад +1

      Yes, Paying attention to our words with intention! The Power of our words.

    • @grotgrabinski7068
      @grotgrabinski7068 2 года назад

      No it is not. Its grammar is utterly mediocre.

  • @DiverBand
    @DiverBand Год назад +1

    Amazing!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад

      Hello Nick. Thank you for your comment. My wish is you found a word or two of inspiration.

  • @h00dh0d-4
    @h00dh0d-4 2 года назад +1

    Thank you thank you thank you!!!

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 2 года назад +1

      HuDa. You are Welcome, You are Welcome, You are Welcome!

  • @Trisha_23
    @Trisha_23 5 лет назад +3

    thank you. just what i needed to hear

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you Emily. Please share this to your community !

  • @Daviddaze
    @Daviddaze 2 года назад +1

    The greatest inspirational book in history is the bible. Basic Information Before Leaving Earth. A great phrase from it is 'renewing your mind'. Thousands of phrases from it are in daily language. Learning from history, wisdom in proverbs, realized predictions, immoral consequences, inspired messages from creator, and science facts; its all there between the pages. Forget climate change; the catastrophe is Moral Change. Its time for mom & dad to inspire their kids.

  • @שחרטרונך
    @שחרטרונך 2 года назад +1

    Great lesson, I love it.

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 2 года назад

      Thank you. Please spread the message by sharing my talk with your community.

  • @vanillachaimint
    @vanillachaimint 3 года назад +11

    That balloon that has a face is freaking me out man

    • @TIL5y6H
      @TIL5y6H 3 года назад

      I was wondering if anyone else noticed🤣😭

  • @brandonkim6771
    @brandonkim6771 3 года назад

    needed this video more than anything

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 3 года назад

      Hey Brandon. I am grateful my message found you when you needed it. Have a great day and stay INSPIRED.

  • @jessebrooks1158
    @jessebrooks1158 2 года назад +1

    Wow this was awesome!!

  • @247CarlosMejia
    @247CarlosMejia 5 лет назад +2

    Your words matter! Loved it 🔥

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 5 лет назад

      Thank You Carlos. I appreciate your kind words. Yes Words are SO important to our Mindset and ultimately our outcomes.

  • @BK-vu9rc
    @BK-vu9rc 3 года назад

    huge from you Bruce. Life changing thank you

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      B K. THANK YOU. this whole experience transformed my life. Our Words DO Matter!

  • @MrHmm-cv6gs
    @MrHmm-cv6gs 3 года назад

    I have an exercise,
    Take a paper, a pen
    And start writing words, write every word what come in mind,
    If negative words out numbers positive words,
    You need to change your mind set, your dictionary, and start adding more positive words to it.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Mr. Hmm. Yes writing our words is powerful. They help us understand what words we are speaking to ourself so often. Thank you for your advice and suggestions.

  • @abetaresyla9313
    @abetaresyla9313 2 года назад +1

    I don’t know why that popped in my feed. I usually do positive self talk, sometimes I am criticized on that. So maybe just the wrong algorithms. 😇

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 2 года назад

      Hello Adetare, Thank you for your comment. I don't understand the algorithms either. However thank you for commenting on your work with positive self-talk. For me it is a journey and some days are better than others. I do look every day to find some JOY in my JOurneY!

  • @kamsolusar8529
    @kamsolusar8529 2 года назад

    This talk is why books like Toxic Positivity exist.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 2 года назад

      Kam. My intention with the idea shared is to express a starting point around the impact of the words we use on our outlook about life. The only life I can use as a point of reference is my own. Behind the message have been years of my own doubt, "lack of" and "am I enough" thinking. All of this came to my realization on the day of that personal "BAM" moment. I was likely in some ways living in a setting of Toxic Positivity. My upbringing was positive. Not perfect but positive. My work environment was full of "overcomers". Sales professionals who were successful in highly competitive sales battles. It seemed like they were just "positiving" themselves to success. I didn't understand how could they be so positive all the time when my work cycle had years of great success as well as setbacks and losses. I also realized that, conversations with myself added to the doubt. The "BAM" moment, didn't change everything for me in an instant. What I realized was that, if I wanted better outcomes, I had to begin looking at myself and my mindset separate from the circumstances which had created a habit response of negative thinking. Thank you for your comment as I can now see where, including some of the background into my talk, might have provided a wider perspective for the audience. Thank you for helping me see a blind spot, I was missing.

  • @pagusmusic6254
    @pagusmusic6254 3 года назад

    Love the positivity quote, let’s go ❤️

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +1

      Hello PaGus Music. Thank you for your comments. I appreciate you making time to leave your message.

    • @pagusmusic6254
      @pagusmusic6254 3 года назад

      @@brucepulver sure Bruce, thanks for replying! Great speech there, I really enjoyed it, I’ve been working on my motivation and renewing my own mindset so it came to my suggestions at the perfect time. I am reading ‘Talk Like Ted’ atm and watching lots of inspiring speeches, it’s my new morning ritual! Looking forward to hearing more of your talks! Take care!

  • @Throwenshapes
    @Throwenshapes 3 года назад +1

    That was great. Thank you.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Hello Totus Tattoo Thank you for your comment. I appreciate you making the time to share!

  • @jasond626
    @jasond626 4 года назад +1

    Very good video.. Love your play on words.. You are right we are very much linked to words (good, bad! Can! Can't etc).
    Do you have an audiobook /videos etc? Thanks

  • @RajeshKumar-db2fw
    @RajeshKumar-db2fw 4 года назад

    Thanks Bruce !! The Words and thoughts which you mentioned are really Practical, Logical and Very Inspiring too. At First i m gonna to share this..... TO INSPIRE OTHERS and of course Apply the same to me as well. Once Again Thanks a Ton for a wonderful and thoughtful talk :)

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +1

      Rejesh. I just saw your comment. Forgive my not responding sooner. THANK YOU for your kind words.

  • @flashlife8256
    @flashlife8256 4 года назад +1

    negative self talk is the least of my worries. If my mind doesn't beat me down, my body will gladly fill the gap. Ill health offers concessions to no man.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +1

      Flash! I understand. Ill health can get us all down. Unfortunately, my father who was my inspiration of the power of my words suffered failing health at a very early age of both physical and mental failure. I pray for your health.

    • @flashlife8256
      @flashlife8256 4 года назад

      @@brucepulver I am sorry to hear about your father. Seeming as such a pillar to you, it is unfortunate and cruel that he was afflicted in such a way. I appreciate you taking the time to reply to me, your father seems to have passed on his virtue. Perhaps there is more to life than simply enjoying all its pleasures.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      @@flashlife8256 Indeed I strongly believe there is MUCH more!

  • @orenrozanski4374
    @orenrozanski4374 11 месяцев назад

    An amazing talk!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you @orenrozanski4374. I appreciate your kind words!

  • @Kenoodling
    @Kenoodling 2 года назад +1

    Thank you...

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 2 года назад

      Thank you for watching Ken!

  • @christinacimaglia4288
    @christinacimaglia4288 4 года назад +1

    I loved the ending INSPIRED message!

  • @spaxxofficial
    @spaxxofficial 4 года назад +5

    That was an inspiring talk!! Thanks. I’ll learn to talk about the good parts of my day now

    • @brucepulver5967
      @brucepulver5967 4 года назад

      Thank you Spaxx (great name). Yes I work daily to find the good nugget in each day. While not easy, so worth it go my mindset. Stay strong!

    • @ruthbarry6881
      @ruthbarry6881 4 года назад +1

      5

  • @shellonroach8093
    @shellonroach8093 Год назад

    Well done!!!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад

      @shellonroach8093. Thank you for taking the time to write your comment. I appreciate your kind words.

  • @radhikabawankar6420
    @radhikabawankar6420 3 года назад +1

    Super!! Thank you so much for such a strong message, I am already in the process of changing self talk, and I really needed this now. I am so grateful to have watched this video.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +2

      Thank you Radhika. I am grateful for the opportunity to share my story and that it had an impact on you. PLEASE keep paying attention to your words (spoken outloud or to yourself.).

  • @HeatherParady
    @HeatherParady 3 года назад +1

    *LOVE THIS! SO GOOD!*

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +1

      Heather. You are such a great inspiration to so many, ME included. THANK YOU!

  • @TuNguyen-ec9tl
    @TuNguyen-ec9tl 4 года назад

    Your words definitely..inspired!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад

      Tu, Thank you I am glad you are inspired. Stay at it and stay focused on your words.

  • @Paula-pr1bo
    @Paula-pr1bo 4 года назад +7

    His amazing made me laugh out loud . Paige turner lol x

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +3

      Glad you liked the humor. I trust the message resonated in some way as well!

  • @bemnetsileshi5222
    @bemnetsileshi5222 Год назад

    Great presentation

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver Год назад +1

      Bemnet:, Thank you for your kind comment. When awarded this opportunity to share my Idea of how a renewed mindset to focus on our self-talk four years ago. my goal was to simply talk about my experience openly and how a life challenge forced me to pay attention to my words. The talk was as much for me to seek clarity as it was to impart any special wisdom. I am still learning and I continue to seek the deeper meaning of the power of my words each day. Thank you

  • @ghazaldeeb4479
    @ghazaldeeb4479 3 года назад

    Wow the best ted talk

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Ghazal. THANK YOU. My greatest wish is that this message impacts how we use our words both in self-talk and in talk with others. Our Words Matter and make a HUGE impact on our outcomes. THANK YOU again for your your kind comment!

  • @minion_mangaming3919
    @minion_mangaming3919 4 года назад +3

    me-going to the comments for the main points

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад

      Thank you for checking out the message!

  • @unzahid
    @unzahid 4 года назад +1

    powerful words.

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад

      Thank you Aashaa! Our words are Powerful. My wish is that this message provides a word of encouragement and inspiration.

  • @PickUpGemsRS23
    @PickUpGemsRS23 4 года назад

    Love this talk

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +1

      Thank you so very much! I am grateful and appreciate your kind words

  • @joaneryan9962
    @joaneryan9962 3 года назад

    Brilliant talk🙏

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Joane. Thank you for making time to post your comment. I sincerely appreciate your kind words. (even if only two words!).

  • @stefaniecarter3721
    @stefaniecarter3721 4 года назад +1

    Thats really cool. Thank you

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 4 года назад +1

      Thank you Stephanie. Thank you for watching and your kind comments!

  • @alopez0946
    @alopez0946 4 года назад

    GREAT TALK!!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Than you Alopez 09. I appreciate you watching and taking a moment to comment!

  • @yvainem7126
    @yvainem7126 3 года назад

    Wow - that was great 👍

  • @UncompressedWAVmusic
    @UncompressedWAVmusic 3 года назад +1

    Thank you. good.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +1

      Hello UncompressedWAVmusic. Thank you for commenting.

  • @abisolaoduniyi7534
    @abisolaoduniyi7534 3 года назад

    Great. Very inspired 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Abisola: Thank you I am grateful this message impacted you. stay INSPIRED, especially through the challenges! Blessings to you!

  • @joycegoes266
    @joycegoes266 10 месяцев назад

    Main next week psychiatrist ke paas jaane ki koshish karungi.

  • @HTHMTV
    @HTHMTV 4 года назад

    Inspiring!! Well done!!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад +1

      Thank you so very much HTH MTV.

    • @HTHMTV
      @HTHMTV 4 года назад

      Bruce Pulver No, thank you Bruce👆✌️😄

  • @healthsally
    @healthsally 4 года назад

    I love it. Thank you 😊

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 4 года назад

      Thank you Sally, I am grateful you enjoyed my talk about how much our words matter.

  • @susannewman8689
    @susannewman8689 3 года назад

    This was so inspiring! Thank you 😊

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Thank you Susan! I am grateful the message was inspiring to you. Our Words are SO Powerful! Yours made my day!

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад

      Susan, Thank you for your comment

  • @davidlucey1311
    @davidlucey1311 Месяц назад

    Your damn lucky pal. My mother constantly tried to make me feel guilty about being a large baby when I was born. I can only imagine the never-ending Catholic guilt trips. She would’ve laid on me if she had a heart attack.

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 29 дней назад

      Thank you for your message. Please know that you are enough and were made to make an impact.

  • @peterfallon4018
    @peterfallon4018 3 года назад

    Btw, cheesy as it may sound, every day say to myself over&over ‘something wonderful’s going to happen to me today!!’ Every day it DOES..tho also Itrains your mind to look for & identify what constitutes‘wonderful’...try it

    • @brucepulver6963
      @brucepulver6963 3 года назад

      Thank you for your comment Peter. I agree. Mindset is so important. So often we find that for which we are looking. MINDSET! Make it a great day!

  • @hanskraut2018
    @hanskraut2018 3 года назад

    When i take drugs for adhd i always vome up with a story but it seems that its just a byprodact of the i creased motivation (if the dose/med works)

  • @scharf74
    @scharf74 3 года назад

    Did his mom live for 22 years total? Or 22 yrs after his delivery?

    • @brucepulver
      @brucepulver 3 года назад +2

      Hello Nikki. She lived until I was 22 years old, passing at 53 years of age. Thank you for asking this qualifying question.

    • @scharf74
      @scharf74 3 года назад +1

      I appreciate your response! And I appreciate your Talk..!