Straight facts. My cut off game is tight. No narcissist or toxic individuals allowed. Family or so called friends. Keep it real with me or just keep it moving... Praise God.
People will continue that cycle forever, when you take the trash out, you don’t bring it back into your home, to see how worse it’s gonna stink ,or how much more full you can stuff it, Get Rid of it, Amen! ✝️⬅️
I have a friend who I speak to very rarely. Not because we don't love each other but because we both live extremely busy lives. Every time we speak again, it's like picking up right where we left off. Not every person that doesn't speak with you for a prolonged period of time has cut you off. We go through ebbs and flows in our life, different journeys and that's just how life can be.
YES. I started being friends with 2 different people after I cut them off because I felt like they weren’t good friends. Time passed & I thought I overreacted & I found out why I stopped being friends with them in the first place. Never again.
I'm a re-kindler, and like you said after a short while I remember why I stopped speaking to someone or sharing with someone in the first place. Then I feel stupid cause now I feel I have to continue to interact with them because I opened the door back up. I don't mind forgiving people for minor offenses but I tend to drop my defenses each time I do, good word!, thank you for sharing.:)
I seriously believe, one wrong move and it’s definitely goodbye. There is nothing sadder than rifling through the trash looking for valuables. Once you put the trash out, let the trash man pick it up and take it away.
For the last 2 yrs I have allowed a bloodline to play with me like that...I was invited to their birthday party and I went with a BIGGGG BAG of Wonderful gifts...3 wks later she wasn't talking to me...Baffled I was, last yr same thing. Don't know about this one I may still be on this earth maybe not but I won't played with under any circumstances...By the way the bloodline is a sister...Peace and Blessings Everyone...
I promised myself that I was going to put the brakes on listening to so many opinions (i.e. watching everything that comes down my suggestions feed), but I am happy that I watched this. Beautiful, peaceful, confident energy! I can tell that you're one of the awakened ones. 😊
YES. Facts...Friends family and Exs. It will happen again. It hurts but don't go back don't look back. I know people who always looking up old friends and ex men they dated. Don't dig up family you don't know. You bringing toxicity to your life. Move forward and pray.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can't stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I've tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I'm frustrated, and i don't see my life with anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can't. I don't know why I'm saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I used to see this with a Christian mindset and pray and hoping that those people who left would come back and in some cases they did (didn't work out tho) but understanding that this was a scarcity mindset and seeing that in many case they failed, I understand it's better to let go rather than rekindle those relationships & friendships and I kinda learned it the hard way.
thank you cause this person wasn't right when I was sick I had cancer he wasn't no where to help man that hurts at that time, now years past thank God I'm cancer free 🙏 💙 but he call last year around my birthday was trying to come to my fake party 🥳 I laugh and hang up ,
Factual and my cut off game with everyone now is legendary and that goes for family, "friends", and an ex. God closes doors for a reason so leave them closed 😎. PLEASE let them go and keep your peace ✌️🔑. Blessings ALL 🙏🏽
This coworker consider me as a friend… but was really using me …. She would talk about a specific coworker and had the nerve to ask me to bring her a coffee from McDonald’s. We are not that cool. Plus she tried to pull a fast one on me at work. I almost let someone take an advantage of me but caught it just in time. I no longer keep in contact through text. Always know when to cut people off.
I’ve always heard that a user will always choose the weaker vessels. I guess that’s why I’ve always had people to come and go. Once they hit that place of boundaries and I go M-I- A on them, they play different. Nah sweetheart, game over! 😂
I use to talk with this one coworker at work about the boss and things around at work. I stopped that and realize she was using me to get information out if he to run back to that person. Then come to find out, she is tight with the boss. Never trustANYONE at work. Once they get to talking about others, trust and believe… they are doing the same to you las well. I talk about other things, present moment and work.
I agree on so many levels. A lot of time God can’t bless you until you get the snakes out from around you. My door don’t swing both ways… once you’re out that’s it
So true my ex is trying hard to come back into my life and I just can’t after 2 years after he left me down bad 💔sorry you realized my worth too late ❤
Sis, let me tell you something........you just read my whole experience with this man. I because desperate very recently and reached into the dumpster for him after having discarded him 6+ months ago. I was absolutely thinking in a scarcity mindset, being impatient, not trusting the Universe would bring me a quality partner. I f**ked around and found out because of course he didn't change! I was too embarrassed to tell my friends. I feel like you read my journal or my thoughts. Thank you for this message.
I have never been a person who looked for friends, men etc. God always guided my path. There are certain friendships that can be rekindled and those that can't. That is totally up to those people involved. God is a wonderful God. If we allow him he will always guide us to the path we need to take. True friendships don't die even when they change.
When you Love ❤️ Your Self and Treat Yoursef to The Highest Power 💪🏽 NoBody Can’t Play In Your Face 😮 Remember when you Stop 🛑 Fukin With Them, Don’t Ever Look Back. A Wordddd From The Wise ❤️
No lies detected. Every time I acted in lack and let them back in i was always regretted it. You grow, mature dont look back no matter how much your circle decreases. Let em go
Thank you. New Subbie. I stopped talking to a friend years ago and about two weeks ago this person came back via email asking for my Telephone number. After not listening to my head and the Divine as they were both saying Noooooooo. I stupidly emailed her back with my New Number. And i Kid you not, After 2 verbal conversations and Text Messaging, I realised that i had made a huge mistake. I should have ignored her initial Email from Jump. I was so disappointed in myself. But Nonetheless a Huge Lesson Learned. Sending positive Vibes to Everyone. Love from London England ❤❤❤
This is true. They always show you why you stopped. I will say when both parties are truly willing to work together and improve what needs to be improved (friendships/relationships) it might be worth a shot. This though is not often.😔
It took me many years to realize this. Most don’t ever change after 17 years yeah they only change for a shot time then it’s back to the same stuff. I’m finally just working on me. An my happiness. I’m ready to be truly happy in my life. Thank you 😊 ☮️🙏🏼💛 an my peace is most important there is nothing like true happiness an peace ☮️ in your life. It’s took me many many years to see this. But gif don’t keep us in the dark forever. Thank you lord. ☮️🙏🏼💛💛💛💛
I had to learn this working in retail. People have done things that tried to walk over me and talk to me anyway. It’s best you stand your ground…. No matter what.Don’t be nobody’s fool. You set the tone.
I needed this! Been thinking hard on a cousin that I was close to, but she did hella shit to me and I ALWAYS forgave her w/o no apology from her. I did a small thing to her by accident and apologized and haven’t heard from her in a month. I’m over her ass now, don’t need her in my life! She was FAKE‼️
Some ppl change, and you're not reminded of how they used to be. I did it with two different ppl, and things are going great. But I hear you most of the time is unhealthy.
Yeah I'm over doing that. Been doing that with every body.. family friends partners.. only to end up back at square one. It ain't a match.. don't force it
My gorgeous sister this is why I never look back because once the door is closed it stays close because I come with unconditional LOVE it NOT that I don't LOVE them anymore because I do still LOVE them but my HEART is NOT too be played with this is your brother Moses build a personal relationship with the Heavenly FATHER put HIM FIRST in everything you can't go wrong
Thanks I needed that,very good advice. I'm a free spirit and that's one of things I have to work on. When God's takes someone out my life he did it for a reason.
Definitely a great message. I appreciate you & I AM PROUD OF YOU. I hope you have a beautifully blessed day full of love & blessings. Sending love & healing 💞💞💞
Some women rekindle relationships because they knew they were in the wrong in the first place. So if there former mate is willing to take them back. They are actually blessed to have a second chance.
Thank you so much for your love sista. Love you too. Thank you for sharing the strength to carry on strong. Don't spend the block yall. Learn the lesson, move on so that you don't block your incoming blessing. Keep it movin. 😅
Sis thank you for sharing this message..It educated me I was planning on taking up a dinner invitation with an old flame and unsure if they were different but something about him seemed the same and I have changed. Thank you❤
THANKS FOR THIS CONFIRMATION. TOO MANY PEOPLE LOVE TO PLAY GAMES JUST FOR EVIL 👺🐍 REASONS AND NOT REALIZING THAT THEY'RE ONLY DOING MORE HARM TO THEMSELVES 🤔💜✌🏾
Straight facts. My cut off game is tight. No narcissist or toxic individuals allowed. Family or so called friends. Keep it real with me or just keep it moving... Praise God.
Sadly,the people who say that ARE THE NARCISSISTS.
@@dragonfly4494 👈 Spoken like a true narcissist who doesn't want you to remove them from your life.
@@donatapowell8143 Why would I want to be in the life of a narcissist? You trippin'.
These people always giving relationships advice but always single.. FOH..😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I bet you wear weave.. talking about keeping it real.. and always use a big word when YALL the ones focusing on bullshit and trash out here 🙄
At 53 in my experiences I have personally found this to be true majority of the time.
People will continue that cycle forever, when you take the trash out, you don’t bring it back into your home, to see how worse it’s gonna stink ,or how much more full you can stuff it, Get Rid of it, Amen! ✝️⬅️
I have a friend who I speak to very rarely. Not because we don't love each other but because we both live extremely busy lives. Every time we speak again, it's like picking up right where we left off.
Not every person that doesn't speak with you for a prolonged period of time has cut you off. We go through ebbs and flows in our life, different journeys and that's just how life can be.
@realash...I totally agree. Every separation doesn't mean there was a personal vendetta. Life will take us down separate paths and it's ok.
Yes! If God removed them, leave them where they are! I will not look back. Time moves forward and so will I 🙌🏾
Right
Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to be in my Life
This is the Powerful Truth🙌🏾
Very good advice... No matter how hard they try to come back...
That why I drive a spaceship, why? Because they have no rear view mirrors! Can't look back and I'm getting the hell away to better things!
YES. I started being friends with 2 different people after I cut them off because I felt like they weren’t good friends. Time passed & I thought I overreacted & I found out why I stopped being friends with them in the first place. Never again.
I'm a re-kindler, and like you said after a short while I remember why I stopped speaking to someone or sharing with someone in the first place. Then I feel stupid cause now I feel I have to continue to interact with them because I opened the door back up. I don't mind forgiving people for minor offenses but I tend to drop my defenses each time I do, good word!, thank you for sharing.:)
The Most High says we have to forgive but we don't have to have them around you.
Where and when
My fathead needed to hear this, so I won't be " The dog that returned to its Vomit.
I seriously believe, one wrong move and it’s definitely goodbye. There is nothing sadder than rifling through the trash looking for valuables. Once you put the trash out, let the trash man pick it up and take it away.
For the last 2 yrs I have allowed a bloodline to play with me like that...I was invited to their birthday party and I went with a BIGGGG BAG of Wonderful gifts...3 wks later she wasn't talking to me...Baffled I was, last yr same thing. Don't know about this one I may still be on this earth maybe not but I won't played with under any circumstances...By the way the bloodline is a sister...Peace and Blessings Everyone...
I promised myself that I was going to put the brakes on listening to so many opinions (i.e. watching everything that comes down my suggestions feed), but I am happy that I watched this. Beautiful, peaceful, confident energy! I can tell that you're one of the awakened ones. 😊
Exactly. Don't have to eat everything that's offered to you
I told myself the same thing I would not continue to watch these videos I would let the Lord heal me but some of them are on point
this is so on point. i had forgot about all the things that made me fall back but like you said they always show those true colors
YES. Facts...Friends family and Exs. It will happen again. It hurts but don't go back don't look back. I know people who always looking up old friends and ex men they dated. Don't dig up family you don't know. You bringing toxicity to your life. Move forward and pray.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can't stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I've tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I'm frustrated, and i don't see my life with anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can't. I don't know why I'm saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is queen stella laveaux, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Grow a pair, get your ass in the gym, start working out and focus on YOU
She’s right! Either way who cuts whom off
Never go back on any level.
People never do things just once.
Thank you!! Had a two hour conversation and felt nothing. Family, they haven't changed at all. No growth
Lol, I'm having a good time reminiscing is totally different from rekindling.
Powerful abundance mentality I love that amen sis
I used to see this with a Christian mindset and pray and hoping that those people who left would come back and in some cases they did (didn't work out tho) but understanding that this was a scarcity mindset and seeing that in many case they failed, I understand it's better to let go rather than rekindle those relationships & friendships and I kinda learned it the hard way.
It's absolutely true... Those reminders come flying through...once I'm done, I'm done.
The title was the TRUTH alone.
thank you cause this person wasn't right when I was sick I had cancer he wasn't no where to help man that hurts at that time, now years past thank God I'm cancer free 🙏 💙 but he call last year around my birthday was trying to come to my fake party 🥳 I laugh and hang up ,
Factual and my cut off game with everyone now is legendary and that goes for family, "friends", and an ex. God closes doors for a reason so leave them closed 😎. PLEASE let them go and keep your peace ✌️🔑. Blessings ALL 🙏🏽
Right -- never look back!
😂I dont even like looking in my rear view mirror😂
This coworker consider me as a friend… but was really using me …. She would talk about a specific coworker and had the nerve to ask me to bring her a coffee from McDonald’s. We are not that cool. Plus she tried to pull a fast one on me at work. I almost let someone take an advantage of me but caught it just in time. I no longer keep in contact through text. Always know when to cut people off.
I’ve always heard that a user will always choose the weaker vessels. I guess that’s why I’ve always had people to come and go. Once they hit that place of boundaries and I go M-I- A on them, they play different. Nah sweetheart, game over! 😂
I use to talk with this one coworker at work about the boss and things around at work. I stopped that and realize she was using me to get information out if he to run back to that person. Then come to find out, she is tight with the boss. Never trustANYONE at work. Once they get to talking about others, trust and believe… they are doing the same to you las well. I talk about other things, present moment and work.
I agree on so many levels. A lot of time God can’t bless you until you get the snakes out from around you. My door don’t swing both ways… once you’re out that’s it
So true my ex is trying hard to come back into my life and I just can’t after 2 years after he left me down bad 💔sorry you realized my worth too late ❤
Sis, let me tell you something........you just read my whole experience with this man. I because desperate very recently and reached into the dumpster for him after having discarded him 6+ months ago. I was absolutely thinking in a scarcity mindset, being impatient, not trusting the Universe would bring me a quality partner. I f**ked around and found out because of course he didn't change! I was too embarrassed to tell my friends. I feel like you read my journal or my thoughts. Thank you for this message.
I have never been a person who looked for friends, men etc. God always guided my path. There are certain friendships that can be rekindled and those that can't. That is totally up to those people involved. God is a wonderful God. If we allow him he will always guide us to the path we need to take. True friendships don't die even when they change.
When you Love ❤️ Your Self and Treat Yoursef to The Highest Power 💪🏽 NoBody Can’t Play In Your Face 😮 Remember when you Stop 🛑 Fukin With Them, Don’t Ever Look Back. A Wordddd From The Wise ❤️
No lies detected. Every time I acted in lack and let them back in i was always regretted it. You grow, mature dont look back no matter how much your circle decreases. Let em go
I fully approve of this public service announcement!!! 💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
Thank you. New Subbie. I stopped talking to a friend years ago and about two weeks ago this person came back via email asking for my Telephone number. After not listening to my head and the Divine as they were both saying Noooooooo. I stupidly emailed her back with my New Number. And i Kid you not, After 2 verbal conversations and Text Messaging, I realised that i had made a huge mistake. I should have ignored her initial Email from Jump. I was so disappointed in myself. But Nonetheless a Huge Lesson Learned. Sending positive Vibes to Everyone. Love from London England ❤❤❤
I think people should do what works best for them. We are all on this journey and everyone’s path and lessons are not the same.
This is true. They always show you why you stopped. I will say when both parties are truly willing to work together and improve what needs to be improved (friendships/relationships) it might be worth a shot. This though is not often.😔
This is true in the majority of cases.
However, there are the odd few that may not fall into this category.
It took me many years to realize this. Most don’t ever change after 17 years yeah they only change for a shot time then it’s back to the same stuff. I’m finally just working on me. An my happiness. I’m ready to be truly happy in my life. Thank you 😊 ☮️🙏🏼💛 an my peace is most important there is nothing like true happiness an peace ☮️ in your life. It’s took me many many years to see this. But gif don’t keep us in the dark forever. Thank you lord. ☮️🙏🏼💛💛💛💛
I had to learn this working in retail. People have done things that tried to walk over me and talk to me anyway. It’s best you stand your ground…. No matter what.Don’t be nobody’s fool. You set the tone.
Speak on it lady, you are not lying about that. Leave that door close...Thank you for these words 🙏
Girl I already know. I’ve went 10 and 25 years without all them. I don’t need them now lmao. Straight facts sis ✅💚
I needed this! Been thinking hard on a cousin that I was close to, but she did hella shit to me and I ALWAYS forgave her w/o no apology from her. I did a small thing to her by accident and apologized and haven’t heard from her in a month. I’m over her ass now, don’t need her in my life! She was FAKE‼️
Some ppl change, and you're not reminded of how they used to be. I did it with two different ppl, and things are going great. But I hear you most of the time is unhealthy.
Enough said sad thing is one usually already know this and go against self. Speaking for self. But ty....
Yeah I'm over doing that. Been doing that with every body.. family friends partners.. only to end up back at square one. It ain't a match.. don't force it
My gorgeous sister this is why I never look back because once the door is closed it stays close because I come with unconditional LOVE it NOT that I don't LOVE them anymore because I do still LOVE them but my HEART is NOT too be played with this is your brother Moses build a personal relationship with the Heavenly FATHER put HIM FIRST in everything you can't go wrong
Thanks I needed that,very good advice. I'm a free spirit and that's one of things I have to work on. When God's takes someone out my life he did it for a reason.
Love your message. I feel this . Some people are just toxic.
Sis!! Actual factual ‼️
“Ah ha.. this exactly why…. “
I don't only respect / love what you said.. I also respect/love the way you said it.... Good luv here❤🫂..
You are ABSOLUTELY correct Luv
She’s so beautiful !! Thank you for your wise advice.. it’s been the 1,000th time I’ve took him back
Thank you for this vibrant message. I will stop rekindling old friendship Jesus Christ PAPA merci I hear your words 🙏 👋 👋 👋 👋 👋
Don't want to go back! Need a miracle 🙏 to change this situation 🙏❤😢
Whew......I felt that ! 🎯
Definitely a great message. I appreciate you & I AM PROUD OF YOU. I hope you have a beautifully blessed day full of love & blessings. Sending love & healing 💞💞💞
Some women rekindle relationships because they knew they were in the wrong in the first place. So if there former mate is willing to take them back.
They are actually blessed to have a second chance.
💯 TRUTH right there sis. Too bad it took me a few decades to realize this.❤
Facts. Went back to people who I shouldn't have. Lesson learned
Thank you for sharing..
I needed to hear this exact message...
Let go...and it's ok..
GOD is setting up everything in my favor...
Thank you so much for your love sista. Love you too. Thank you for sharing the strength to carry on strong. Don't spend the block yall. Learn the lesson, move on so that you don't block your incoming blessing. Keep it movin. 😅
🙏🏽 AMEN NO LIES TOLD!!!
That's the word ❤🎉😊
Straight truth.... They always remind you.
Seen this video pop up 3 times before watching it, reached out to someone to catch up and they said no, i shoulda watched the video.
crazy you say that because I think I did meet a quality partner and just wanted to let them know and 'no' okay bet.
Yea! facts Stop!!! You can't play those games with me anymore. Spin the block for what??? Let it go . Go ahead and leave. In Jesus Christ Name Amen ❤
No lies detected ‼️🤞🏽
Amen.🙏✝️ 🇬🇧
Them eyes!!! But speaking facts!!
Sis thank you for sharing this message..It educated me I was planning on taking up a dinner invitation with an old flame and unsure if they were different but something about him seemed the same and I have changed. Thank you❤
Omg! A right on time word! Thank you much! Fareal!❤
Amen; Let them.
I. Love your positive words.🎉❤ Thanks for that message.
THANKS FOR THIS CONFIRMATION. TOO MANY PEOPLE LOVE TO PLAY GAMES JUST FOR EVIL 👺🐍 REASONS AND NOT REALIZING THAT THEY'RE ONLY DOING MORE HARM TO THEMSELVES 🤔💜✌🏾
Going back never works...boyfriend friend or family
Whew sis you could've just called me 😂😂😂
Gotta agree with ya sista, currently going through that.
You are absolutely right 👍🏽❤️
Your video just popped up! I'm a new subscriber! 😊❤
Yup🔥 agreed 💯
BIG FACTS LOVE....Peace
I needed to hear this.
I needed to hear this!! Thanks Lady!! Holla!
On Point!!!💯
Thank you sis ❤
Thank you, I really needed to hear that.
That is so true 💯
Exactly 💯
Preach facts 💯
This is a whole damn word!
Preach Sista!!!!❤
👍🏽Well said!
❤ On time.
Yep!
I agree with your message, thank you.
Facts Amen 🙏 💗💓
Your so right
I needed this so much
Thanks
AMEN SISTER