Life is Incredibly Unfair - In Our Favor

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • Jennie Taylor is a mother of seven who suffered a devastating loss when her husband, Brent Russell Taylor, was killed overseas during a military deployment.
    Colliding into a mountain range of heartache and despair, Jennie shares the most searing parts of her journey to reclaim life, hope, and her family, and how hearing God’s voice distinctly reached her through the shattered pieces.
    Also read or watch Elder Dale G. Renlund’s talk “Infuriating Unfariness”
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  • @MovieMari
    @MovieMari Год назад +979

    "Not that everything happens for a reason, but that God can make reason out of everything that happens" -- that is a message I definitely needed to hear today.

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +60

      We are so glad that this video and message could help you!

    • @Herahottie
      @Herahottie Год назад +15

      That line stood out to me as well. Very powerful

    • @travismarin2595
      @travismarin2595 Год назад +8

      I think what you are talking about is at 9:16.

    • @dallinclark607
      @dallinclark607 Год назад +8

      I struggle with the concept of God leaving such a monumental thing up to chance.
      Personally, I don't believe that an all powerful God would leave something like that up to chance.
      Thats all the more reason to trust in God, regardless of what He sees fit to have us go through.

    • @rtharalson
      @rtharalson Год назад

      @@1Andelina1 Look at that. Bad things happen - humankind comes up with a phrase "everything happens for a reason." Then we realize how shotty it that really is and that as you said it paints god cruel - at least uncaring. So we update the phrase to he can make a reason out of everything that happens. When are we going to stop inventing god and re-inventing god and re-re-inventing god. Can't let god be a bad dude so we invent re invent and rationalize. Case and point look at all the work being done this year 2022 in the old testament come follow me to not let god be a monster. From cherry picking to rationalizing - the apologetics are laughable. Nothing convinces me more of atheism more than sitting through fast N testimony meeting and sunday school.

  • @absolutetuber
    @absolutetuber Год назад +375

    As one that used to wear the same uniform and rank I can tell you I often think of your husband ever since I first read about this story in the news. I lost many friends while I was in the service, some to battle and some to the battle within after coming home. I know your family remembers him daily, but even those of us that never knew him will ever forget his service and sacrifice.

    • @absolutetuber
      @absolutetuber Год назад +18

      @@xXVitalsXx I knew very well what I was getting into. Some of the best friendships I’ve forged in life were made with those I served with. Proud to have worn the uniform of my country and I’ll do it again if called on.

    • @steelpeart
      @steelpeart Год назад +4

      I too served for seven years in the Army and currently reside in No. Ogden and during that time. We all came out to pay our respects and it brought the community together just before Veteran's Day that year. I had two civilian friends still working as contractors out there at that time. And I also lost a long-time Army friend in Afghanistan several years prior to Brent Taylor.

    • @darlenepedersen4145
      @darlenepedersen4145 Год назад +3

      As President Russell M Nelson encourages us to invite the Lord to prevail in our lives, Christ is certainly close to your sorrowing trusting heart.
      You carry this huge mortal loss with complete trust in eternal life.
      You are so spiritually trusting and beautiful.

    • @cameronchild7102
      @cameronchild7102 Год назад +2

      I pray God bless and keep you.

    • @andriafranklin4458
      @andriafranklin4458 Год назад +1

      Beautiful

  • @user-rz8et4ry3u
    @user-rz8et4ry3u Год назад +96

    As an Australian Veteran who is LDS, I really needed to hear this today. I randomly came across this video today.

    • @Trancegirl1966
      @Trancegirl1966 Год назад +4

      Hello from Perth! I'm not a veteran but married to a former soldier in the South African Army. I hope that you're doing okay. What a great video on courage, strength and the will to move forward without our eternal companion... Regards from Perth, Western Australia 💜

    • @nancyteran5581
      @nancyteran5581 6 месяцев назад +3

      God bless you and thank you for ur service sir ☀️

  • @madmanmanx
    @madmanmanx Год назад +95

    This is the strongest, most resilient, well adjusted woman on the internet…

  • @CpbUT-
    @CpbUT- Год назад +133

    I just lost my wife of 33 years about 6 weeks ago. I was so touched by your video and cried all the way through it. There is nothing that can prepare you for the emotional devastation of losing your companion. Only faith in the savior and knowing that I'll be with her again keeps me going. Your struggles and how you have overcome them are an inspiration to me to keep moving forward. I am grateful for your example of strength and your testimony. Thank you for your courage to share this with us all. I hope it is helping so many others with their struggles as it has helped me.

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +8

      Hi @Cpb UT-1850, we're so sorry for your loss. We know comfort and healing can come through prayer and by relying on Jesus Christ at this difficult time. He loves you and can mend your heart and give you peace. www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe/life-has-purpose/grief?cid=42001274

    • @sherriemota7348
      @sherriemota7348 Год назад +1

      @@churchofjesuschrist the link doesn't work :(

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +2

      Thank you for bringing this to our attention, @sherriemota7348. We have updated the link above to this: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe/life-has-purpose/grief?cid=42001274

    • @andriafranklin4458
      @andriafranklin4458 Год назад +2

      My deepest sympathies. This was a beautiful and necessary video

    • @simpsonkauri2224
      @simpsonkauri2224 Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing your stories and testimony?it's true when we faces challenges and trials in life turn to the savior and ask for help through prayers. He will help you and lift you up from sorrow and pain and abide his atonement in your life with having faith you will find peace unto your soul

  • @DarknessLiesWithin
    @DarknessLiesWithin Год назад +219

    Today is the anniversary of my dad's death. He was only 61. He will never see me married, have kids, or a million other things. I miss him every day. But so much of what was said in this video really resonated with me. Grief is such a life changing experience...Like she said, I'll never say I am happy my dad died. But I can see the growth and blessings I have received since.

    • @leswalker2639
      @leswalker2639 Год назад +15

      Rebel I can promise you with no doubt in my mind, your dad did get to see you Mary and have kids even your joy and happiness. Never believe he is not far away from you. Dying is the easy part when you live a good life in the Lord. It's the living that have to struggle so hard now to make the best of what we have. Your dad is fine and happy. Your dad would never want his kids to feel bad anymore. Your dad wants your heart to heal and see you smile again. All you need to do is give your dad a big smile and tell him you love him and miss him, in the name of Jesus Christ! Your dad will see and hear and feel your heart when you speak these things . Do this in your heart and one day you will be healed. We all will die one day, but what matters most is, you giving a piece of your loving heart to others. Remember some of your heart is part of your dad's heart also combined as one. You will find in your life of Trials and tribulations they are only obstacles just like on the freeway driving. Being grateful for these trials will no longer be a trial. They will be only Everyday activities we all have to deal with in life, The Good the Bad the Ugly days. Thank you for sharing those great words of concern. Every one of us see death a little differently. I have lost both parents and Mini others in my life. Through prayers Miracles will happen! Please be case patient

    • @perfectday777
      @perfectday777 Год назад +3

      @@leswalker2639 What you said here is true, ❤❤❤

    • @perfectday777
      @perfectday777 Год назад +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @scottcox503
      @scottcox503 Год назад +4

      Don't say that; he will see you married and have kids, if not in this life then in the one to come.

    • @lorirogers9570
      @lorirogers9570 Год назад

      Some never even had a dad in our lives
      Be joyous

  • @Sharkdog11b
    @Sharkdog11b Год назад +183

    I’m a member and an army infantry paratrooper. I feel you and I love you and I’m truly sorry for your loss. Thank you for your service ma’am. Most soldiers can only hope for a wife like you. Stay strong sister

    • @DJK-cq2uy
      @DJK-cq2uy Год назад +2

      I appreciate your love n service...but what would Jesus say about war? Just curious?

    • @thedialectic6346
      @thedialectic6346 Год назад

      @@DJK-cq2uy I'm answering as if you as sincere. I am a veteran and when I was in basic training a lot of young soldiers had this very question. I sat and counseled with a few of them. And as a result one was even baptized.
      "The Lord has said that in the last days there will be “wars and rumors of wars, and the whole earth shall be in commotion, and men’s hearts shall fail them” (Doctrine and Covenants 45:26). As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we are a people of peace. We follow the Savior, who is the Prince of Peace. We look forward to His millennial reign, when wars will end and peace will be restored to the earth (see Isaiah 2:4). However, we recognize that in this world, government leaders sometimes send military troops to war to defend their nations and ideals.
      Latter-day Saints in the military do not need to feel torn between their country and their God. In the Church, “we believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law” (Articles of Faith 1:12). Military service shows dedication to this principle.
      If Latter-day Saints are called upon to go into battle, they can look to the example of Captain Moroni, the great military leader in the Book of Mormon. Although he was a mighty warrior, he “did not delight in bloodshed” (Alma 48:11). He was “firm in the faith of Christ,” and his only reason for fighting was to “defend his people, his rights, and his country, and his religion” (Alma 48:13). If Latter-day Saints must go to war, they should go in a spirit of truth and righteousness, with a desire to do good. They should go with love in their hearts for all God’s children, including those on the opposing side. Then, if they are required to shed another’s blood, their action will not be counted as a sin."
      www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/war?lang=eng

    • @terraalbritton6405
      @terraalbritton6405 Год назад +1

      That was so kind. Thank you!

    • @whatisthat4481
      @whatisthat4481 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@DJK-cq2uy War makes him cry. Where there is creation, there is war.

    • @janetrobinson2699
      @janetrobinson2699 Месяц назад

      Thank you for your service! I hope you are equally blessed as Sister Taylor.

  • @sthiel126
    @sthiel126 Год назад +28

    Not gunna lie, I cried during this video. But, I find myself afterwards being unable to be sad. Today I met a Queen.

  • @s.a.johnson9558
    @s.a.johnson9558 Год назад +147

    That is one of the most heartbreaking and beautiful testimonies I have ever heard. I wish I had just a fraction of your strength and faith. I am in a very low point in my life's journey right now and your story was very enlightening and encouraging. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. God bless you and your family.

    • @SB-kp2gz
      @SB-kp2gz Год назад +9

      S. A. Johnson - it’s when we’re at a low point or rock bottom that we hit our knees in prayer to Heavenly Father. He hears us. 🙏🏽 God bless.

    • @s.a.johnson9558
      @s.a.johnson9558 Год назад +4

      @@SB-kp2gz Thank you.

    • @SB-kp2gz
      @SB-kp2gz Год назад +6

      @@s.a.johnson9558 sure thing 🙂
      I think most if not all of us can say we’ve hit a low point or rock bottom in life. Sometimes it hits more often than we would like. He hears us individually. Because He is God and all knowing and powerful. 🙏🏽 It is my prayer that you will find peace through those things that you’re struggling with.

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +9

      @S. A. Johnson, we're sorry for the challenges and hardship you face. Life can be very difficult, but we know your Heavenly Father is aware of you and loves you. You can pray to him anytime, anywhere and feel peace and comfort. Jesus knows you and your circumstances. We invite you to join us and come to know Him: www.comeuntochrist.org/contact-us?cid=42001274

    • @AlexAdam-sp5ri
      @AlexAdam-sp5ri Год назад +2

      a.s.johnson9558 As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, let me say I understand and appreciate what you may be going through. Life in these times is hard, but you're not alone.The Lord is extending His hand to you, and we too invite you to
      Come Unto Christ. ❤

  • @howgreatshallbemyjoy--hast2831
    @howgreatshallbemyjoy--hast2831 Год назад +17

    Finally! Someone who goes against the notion that life is “not fair.” My own father died at age 47, leaving my 47-year-old mother a widow with 10 children at home ages one to 20 and me in the mission field. Nine of those children went on to serve missions. All have been married in the temple. My mother is now 91 and in her 33rd year of a second marriage. And she’s happy! God bless Sister Taylor for her insight and her courage to tell this story. I’m sure Brent could not be more proud! ❤️🙏

  • @coreymcleod2899
    @coreymcleod2899 Год назад +58

    "Eventhough we want everything to happen for a reason, it's probably a better mindset to let God help make reason of everything that happens." - thank you for that🙂

  • @ZachToTheFuture117
    @ZachToTheFuture117 Год назад +58

    This reminds me of a thought that has been coming to me of late. Sometimes the tender mercies of God are tender as they are a gentle mercy; other times they are tender, more like a fresh wound. Both are necessary to experience a fullness of joy and a perfection of faith.

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +5

      Thanks for sharing, Zach!

    • @korab.23
      @korab.23 Год назад +4

      I am so glad you shared that. I have felt those tender wounds lately and I recognize they are a mercy as they have removed me from a greater pain that would come later. This was a perspective I needed to hear. 💛

  • @yznalnoing1
    @yznalnoing1 Год назад +73

    After my good husband of 39 years passed away suddenly, one of my sons gave me an analogy. He said he felt that my husband’s death was at first like looking at a handful of dirt or sand and all one could see was the dirt or sand, but in sifting through that, one could see gold nuggets. He said he felt that my husband and I were going to grow in ways we wouldn’t have if he’d lived, and that once we were together again, it would be even better than if he’d lived out his life and we’d continued on together. Although I miss him every day and still cry after his being gone 11 years, I have been SO blessed. The Lord has taken such good care of me and my children, and opened doors for me. I am so grateful for my Savior and His sacrifice, so that we can be together again. Then our joy will be so full and so wonderful!

    • @nikan7704
      @nikan7704 Год назад

      Thank you for sharing that analogy. That is beautiful. So true.

    • @sallyewilkinson
      @sallyewilkinson Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your opinion but I am not feeling this way at all I lost my husband a year and a half ago and I am still very much in the raw and thivk of things and even though it has only has only been a short time compared to you I will NEVER feel even after 11 years that I

  • @latter-daysaintpud1432
    @latter-daysaintpud1432 Год назад +44

    I had a cousin join the army after he left school. He went through his training and came back at Christmas. He was tragically killed in a car accident when the driver hit a tree head on and he was forced from the back seat through the windscreen. It was an irony. He was just 17. I am most grateful for the plan of salvation that makes everything right in the end. We will understand all things one day and weeping will turn to rejoicing.

  • @kristinanoall
    @kristinanoall Год назад +109

    Nothing like a good cry 😭 I can’t tell you what an incredible and inspiring person you are, Jennie. Everything I’ve seen you do, you do with energy, conviction, compassion, and faith. I feel so privileged to get to learn from your example. ❤

  • @jeremybabcock4287
    @jeremybabcock4287 Год назад +10

    From one who has stood in harm's way to you, thank you for sharing your husband with us. I didn't know him, but I have had the honor to serve with many like him. They are not forgotten by us.

  • @wesparkle
    @wesparkle Год назад +12

    This video could not have come at a better time of year for all those trying their best to get through the holiday season, with whatever kind of loss they are enduring, this message is so uplifting.
    Sister Taylor, The Lord is already working his miracles through you, just by you sharing your testimony, and insight on life after the death of a loved one. I will admit that one of my greatest fears is that I might someday be called upon to live a life without my husband. Your strength and fortitude will be my example if that should happen, but also in just living with the unfairness of everyday life. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your comment, @wesparkle. We are glad to hear that listening to her story could be an uplifting experience for you.

  • @lauriehendrix8515
    @lauriehendrix8515 Год назад +98

    Thank you for putting this video together!
    My husband, Michael, passed in June 2022. The first thing I said to my son was "Dad needed to pass to help us grow". We were stagnant in our lives, in the process of moving to another state. We had trained and prepared for new jobs while packing.
    Now, we have been given the opportunity to get into to the process of buying the same house he knew was our new house., We are starting new jobs, and methodically paced ourselves. And like you, the Lord is beside me! He lives and Michael lives on watching our family daily.
    We have been given so many opportunities for growth and service since his passing.
    The first being that early morning before his blood clots stopped his heart right at our side. Our Rescue First Responder training was not going to change the situation, but it put it in perspective. Reality is difficult, but also kind. The 20 year battle was won by Michael and our Lord was right beside him at the finish line of his life. Now he has a wonderful work to do guiding us.
    There have been happy times with sad, friendships that have grown and loneliness, but in the end, as you, the kindness of the Lord shines through with someone else serving us, giving of their own love, time, and talents.
    I have seen many afraid to speak to us, unsure of our reactions, but the majority of them are lovingly giving of themselves. And that is why we are here. To grow. Thank you for your strength and strong family military service.
    I am so blessed to have people in my life that strengthen me and my son as we continue our journey.. to the new house, and new jobs and new opportunities for service.
    Trust in the Lord, Be of good cheer . Faith proceeds the miracles. Life is wonderful!

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +13

      Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

    • @AlmaKim-im2gv
      @AlmaKim-im2gv Год назад +4

      Thank you really.

    • @MegaSnow121
      @MegaSnow121 Год назад +3

      Thank you. I needed both the video and your comment this afternoon. God bless you for your faith.

  • @heidisomstevenson
    @heidisomstevenson 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you to Jennie for sharing this. I love you for your valiant testimony and for your faith. Thanks for sharing that.

  • @pamelafitzpatrick2717
    @pamelafitzpatrick2717 Год назад +44

    I am amazed at this Sister’s fortitude!! God bless her for her hope and faith in the Saviour! Those 7 children growing up without their father! I have nothing but admiration for her! 🙏💐

  • @angelatabak5397
    @angelatabak5397 Год назад +21

    I recently lost my second child (both of my boys are now gone). I've struggled with the 'or' or the 'and' idea. Thank you for helping me understand clearly the concept of the 'and', that it is ok (and probably normal and healthy) to feel emotions and be in places that seem contradictory to each other. Thank you for being willing to share your experience on such an intimate level. Part of the 'reason' brought to everything that happens comes through the honest and vulnerable sharing of our experiences and realizing the commonalities of our shared human experiences.

    • @raihakingi6954
      @raihakingi6954 Год назад

      I’m sorry to read this sis, I hope you’ve got love & support around you, Much love to you🙏🌷

  • @sorinrobinson9237
    @sorinrobinson9237 Год назад +7

    "This will be good for you" mmmh those pure messages from God always hit the hardest. Pure truth.

  • @angelhair4617
    @angelhair4617 Год назад +6

    What amazing, inspiring perspective ❤

  • @thedebbiegordon
    @thedebbiegordon Год назад +2

    Wow! I have no words! But gratitude!

  • @OldBaldDad
    @OldBaldDad Год назад +18

    Nothing that I know hurts more than the unexpected death of a loved one. The pain is very real and valid. Yet, you begin to carry on when you start to see it as an involuntary change of plans. Blessings come as you provide comfort to those around you, who are also hurting. Healing comes as you remember and accept the Lord's help. Gratitude comes as you recognize the daily flood of blessings. And mercy is truly understood when your strength is completely gone, invisible hands support you, and divine peace fills your heart.

    • @eileenhaugen8862
      @eileenhaugen8862 Год назад +3

      I have a story very similar to that of this video. Your words spoke to me as well ❤

  • @AJRich-pw1zm
    @AJRich-pw1zm Год назад +2

    Incredible strength, mettle, and might. Thank you Taylor Family.

  • @geoffreybaker3736
    @geoffreybaker3736 Год назад +41

    Heart warming. Jennie has such spiritual maturity. She has come to know what this Telestial world offers and also demands of us. She may feel alone but she is not lonely. She has the knowledge that Brent is "alive" in Christ. Her marriage binds them both together in time and eternity. It is the season of separation that is so difficult to adjust to. God bless her and the children. With a faithful mother in Israel her children will yet rise up and called her blessed. What an example!!

  • @mattreid4246
    @mattreid4246 Год назад +6

    What a liberating and expansive realization: that I can be heartbroken and happy at the same time! Thank you so much for living with and sharing such a great perspective!

  • @lindavigil4908
    @lindavigil4908 Год назад +16

    My oldest son Kevin passed away last November 27-21. Almost one year now. When I saw your husbands face close up, I just started bawling. I had this overwhelming feeling of love and loss for him. I love you sister and your beautiful kids. Peace in Christ❤️

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +1

      Hi Linda, we're so sorry for your loss. We know comfort and healing can come through prayer and by relying on Jesus Christ at this difficult time. He loves you and can mend your heart and give you peace. www.comeuntochrist.org/beliefs/purpose-of-life/4-ways-to-cope-with-the-loss-of-a-loved-one?lang=eng?cid=42001274

  • @shivaprabu
    @shivaprabu Год назад +31

    Jesus Christ our saviour from India🇮🇳. may Lord Almighty God bless to a lot.

    • @leswalker2639
      @leswalker2639 Год назад +4

      Hey India how's everything on your side of the world. It's good to hear from other countries. Love you all around the world.

    • @jodystimm2098
      @jodystimm2098 Год назад +2

      Prabin-----. What a cool NAME.
      May JESUS Bless you too.
      The sweetest woman I, had ever
      met was from PAKISTAN.
      I, hope someday she comes to know
      JESUS--- because I, told her#Someday
      you will be in Paradise#
      YOU, will be too🙏🙏

  • @bettyjoharrison2934
    @bettyjoharrison2934 Год назад +8

    That was beautiful and sad..at the same time❤️

  • @glennoflaria9721
    @glennoflaria9721 Год назад +12

    There is that faith to remove mountains, but there is also that faith to climb mountains. So I'm grateful for this beautiful video. It gives me hope and brightens my path.

  • @robertferrin4408
    @robertferrin4408 Год назад +16

    I"am myself a vet and have lost family & friends in Iraq (2003) and foot hood (2009) and lost more to suicide and hearing her story brings me to tears and joy for knowing that Jennie Taylor refuses to quit and keeps fighting those dark days and times.

    • @LiveHappy76
      @LiveHappy76 Год назад +4

      May God bless you, Robert. Thank you for your service. Everything I hold dear and enjoy I owe to two things: God above and good and brave men and women below. Just sent a prayer your way :)

  • @devoneybrandon5784
    @devoneybrandon5784 Год назад +1

    I love the perspective of “and”: devastated AND hopeful, etc. This rings true to me in my own trials. God bless you and your beautiful family. ❤️

  • @bettywise8170
    @bettywise8170 14 дней назад +1

    This brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing your beautiful story with us❤

  • @margenebeckstead7593
    @margenebeckstead7593 Год назад +8

    Thanks so much for this video I saw today as I have news that my brother is on a ventilator after 2 heart attacks when he was scheduled to have his leg amputated from the knee down because of a heel infection. I live the sentiment of using "and" which seems to free us to just accept the emotions, sometimes conflicting, and feel both ways. Thanks for your testimony and your honesty you share so freely. I am a therapist and I know we must go through steps of grief and healing and I appreciate that you can show us that just because we know the Plan of Salvation it still is so hard and q we can ask "how can we get through this, instead of why." Life is unfair and that acceptance can help us move forward.

    • @LiveHappy76
      @LiveHappy76 Год назад +1

      Just sent a prayer for your brother, you, and your families and loved ones.

  • @wernervanrooyen7010
    @wernervanrooyen7010 Год назад +1

    Thank u for you, your husband and children's sacrifice!!!

  • @ZurielProductions
    @ZurielProductions Год назад +7

    Wow... I really needed this, for several reasons. Thank you. ❤

  • @jessicamorrell7932
    @jessicamorrell7932 Год назад +24

    I remember when this happened and this mother has been in my thoughts often over the years - always with a prayer in my heart that she is doing okay. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with me. It means so much to me. I hope that I can one day be a fraction of the woman and mother that you are.

  • @nelliaagard258
    @nelliaagard258 Год назад +33

    I'm a Veteran as my husband. He's a Disabled Vietnam vet. I cried the day when i heard your husband passed. But your message has helped me so much fir we lost a son and i have struggled since. Your message hit my heart. Thank you... Gods Blessing to you & your family...

  • @hulaannieinspirationalhula1037
    @hulaannieinspirationalhula1037 Год назад +11

    I am a military spouse with seven children and have lost my husband another way through his addictions and a marriage of 38 years has been destroyed. It’s been a devastating loss. I can relate somewhat to your story in that I lost my husband but another way. It’s been a painful chapter in my life that I am closing now. I am moving forward with much personal growth and starting a new life. Through it all, I’m grateful for keeping Gods commandments, staying on the covenant path and falling back on my testimony. Thank you for your great example of faith and courage which continues to give us all strength to battle the storms in life with optimism and hope. There is peace in Christ!

  • @PapaKryptoss
    @PapaKryptoss Год назад +13

    Thank you sister for your strong testimony

  • @ibelieveingod5524
    @ibelieveingod5524 Год назад +8

    We thank God for Brent's life and thank Brent and you for being beautiful vessels and inspiration to the world. May God continue to bless you and family.

    • @LiveHappy76
      @LiveHappy76 Год назад +1

      Love your screen name/handle :)

  • @James-it5gr
    @James-it5gr Год назад +1

    It was an honor to be in the hanger when he was returned home. God bless our military brothers and sisters who made the ultimate sacrifice.

  • @punasautoalesatiatia4381
    @punasautoalesatiatia4381 Год назад +3

    I cried so much watching this video. My heart goes out to you and your babies. As an ex-military wife with my 2 daughter's daddy doing 2 tours in Iraq, I certainly understand the anxiety when he left during Desert Shield and again during Desert Storm. It was gut wrenching. I love your strength. I love your spirit. I love you Sister Taylor. Love and light to you and your children.

  • @kellherman
    @kellherman Год назад +7

    I used to say, “life is unfair…and thank goodness!” But it’s been awhile since I’ve thought of that. I love this ❤

  • @shaunhicken
    @shaunhicken Год назад +18

    Thank you for the beautiful reminder that life is unfair in our favor. Thank you for sparking more faith in me. So many things happen that we don’t want- but God knows exactly what He is doing and exactly what we need to go through to better understand the Atonement and grace of Jesus Christ.

  • @K5RTO
    @K5RTO Год назад +6

    I've been on both sides of the bad news. There was no chaplain available that day so I had to break the news to the young Soldier's mother on my own. My job was to help her and the family navigate the DoD bureaucracy - to win the support she deserved, emphasis on deserved. There's no contract, no set time for interaction, there's just being there to help as long as they need. It doesn't take long to become part of the family, in a strange way. I helped her just as much as she helped me understand the grieving process. I would need that understanding later, at the loss of several soldiers and friends of mine.
    I am not a member but I continue to be impressed by the message of the content coming from your church. The depth you all explore in your content is edifying.

  • @imagebboy
    @imagebboy Год назад +9

    I've been through the hardest time in my life. After being raised by an alcoholic father and a neglective mother, my first wife having an affair, a botched surgery that left me half crippled... I am having a worst time NOW than ever before. I am in an explainable soul-crushing trial.
    I feel so alone. Yet, I have a good job. I have good doctors. I have good friends and family that are here for me. Most of all, I have a loving and trusting wife. The truth is, I am not alone, and God has blessed me by keeping me safe in everything else while I deal with this new overwhelming trial. I am lucky and blessed beyond belief. Even now.

    • @soundfxboy
      @soundfxboy Год назад

      John 9:3 - I think of this scripture when I read your testimony. I think the same applies to you. Whether or not your trials had to happen so that God’s works should be made manifest, but that has been the result. Your words mean that much more because of what you've been through. God bless. I'll say a prayer for you.

  • @shanecarter5271
    @shanecarter5271 Год назад +45

    The best explanation and testimony of the Plan of Salvation and the Atonement. Christ's life was perfect yet he was treated the most unfair so he could die for us. Your husband was killed unfairly but he died and gave his life for us and others. There are not many who can say they gave their life serving and gave their life in death while serving.

  • @jeffreyb.2817
    @jeffreyb.2817 Год назад +6

    As a widower with kids myself, I know the feelings.he shares. I admit, I wish I could see those special moments of help when they come, but I have to admit it's hard

  • @jadenataylor
    @jadenataylor Год назад +9

    I really needed this today. Had an unfair inner conflict due to nepotism, but after seeing this video my trails don't seem at all that difficult.

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, Jaden. We are glad this video could help you.

  • @brianwalker4297
    @brianwalker4297 Год назад +5

    I went through the same thing at the same age with the same number of children and the exact same beliefs, understanding and attitude. We don't always get to choose what happens to us and those we love. That's mortality. But what we never lose is the power to choose how we will respond. Knowing that that makes all the difference. God bless you Sister Taylor.

  • @oppositepete8342
    @oppositepete8342 Год назад +7

    As the bravery of those who give their lives in service to others should never be forgotten, neither should the bravery of those left behind. To those who Brother Taylor left behind, God bless you all. Especially you, Sister Taylor. You are a remarkable woman, indeed.

  • @stephtimms1776
    @stephtimms1776 Год назад +18

    💔❤‍🩹💖Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking experience and beautiful testimony!
    And Thank you for your family's sacrifices for freedom 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

  • @MedievalMary
    @MedievalMary Год назад +21

    What an honor to hear such a message! What an example of will and grace! Thank you!

  • @Nimbus-ex8md
    @Nimbus-ex8md Год назад +16

    God bless her and her beloved husband. This was very touching. I’m sure her husband is beyond the veil watching over them and doing what he does best, serving.

  • @mm-nt8el
    @mm-nt8el Год назад +1

    You are a great mom. Its ok to have bad days and bad moments, the simple fac that you keep going and keep trying each day is incredible. Your children are so blessed to have you!

  • @angelaferdon5956
    @angelaferdon5956 Год назад +8

    I am so sorry that you lost your husband. It must have been awful. I loved to hear your honest feelings. God bless you and your children

  • @williamk9881
    @williamk9881 Год назад +4

    Brent was a good friend from elementary through high school. He is missed, but his family’s story is inspiring.
    We miss you, old friend.
    ♥️

  • @Cobra-ky9bt
    @Cobra-ky9bt Год назад +14

    Brent was a good man from a good family. I'm so glad he had the Gospel and his family has remained so faithfuth.

  • @TRoth858
    @TRoth858 Год назад +4

    This video hit home for me in many ways. First because I was raised a military brat, and married 2 military men. Thank you for your husband's service to our country. As well as the service you & your children gave by supporting him in his choice to join the military. My husband was retired after 24 yrs active duty. He lived 12 more yrs, and was taken home by way of an accident. I still miss him so, but am grateful that even on the day the coroner knocked on my door, my first thoughts were God knows more than I do. He has a plan, and I know He knows what He's doing. He knows that I don't like that He took my husband, but I trust Him. There have been many blessings that have come to not on my life, but to my son's life, and to many family and friend's lives. One of my biggest blessings was being sealed to my husband. When I married him after raising my son from my first husband, for which none of us were members, I had no intentions of being sealed to my second husband. I loved him dearly, but always looked at it as a civil marriage. I believe with everything in me that my husband died for me so that I would wake up and see that we were meant to be together for eternity. I prayed long and hard for the yr we had to wait, but I got strong confirmation that he was right. We did and do belong together. Had I died first, we wouldn't be sealed now. I'm sorry that you are having to go through the trials and struggles, but thank you for sharing your story, and words of wisdom. God bless you and your children always. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @euniegordon8753
    @euniegordon8753 Год назад +2

    What an incredible story of inspiration--showing such wisdom and strength despite your own devastating loss. You are truly remarkable--truly.

  • @erostucko
    @erostucko Год назад +3

    A very strong woman with a positive mindset. "Even though we want everything to happen for a reason, it's probably a better mindset to let God help make reason out of everything that happens." Amen!
    To be honest, several thoughts came to mind during the video questioning the family's choices (the necessity to go to war, obligation to family VS obligation to country, the validity of the Afghanistan war, etc.). However, I think a huge part of the lesson here is that, regardless of our choices (which will be different because everyone is different), we all have access to the healing/enabling power of the atonement. The Savior's love is unconditional and is available regardless of nationality, political beliefs, and circumstances.
    Powerful video.

  • @robertreichlein463
    @robertreichlein463 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches. I am thankful for his service. I was a combat engineer 10th mountain division and serviced 4 tours in Iraq. God is in charge. May God bless you and your family

  • @carolinadeleon5913
    @carolinadeleon5913 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story!! God bless you and your children!

  • @judyeldridge5786
    @judyeldridge5786 Год назад +1

    I remember reading about this. I am so sorry for you and your children's loss. You are right. No one has ever suffered like the Savior. I am sure that the Savior is with us always ♥️. May the Lord bless you and your family.

  • @Nat-A-lie_goober
    @Nat-A-lie_goober Год назад +228

    “Life is incredibly unfair, in our favor” is absolutely beautiful!
    I am overwhelmed with gratitude and thankful for the Taylor’s examples of Christlike attributes.

  • @ms.traceynorman2454
    @ms.traceynorman2454 Год назад

    I will pray for you and your family daily 🙏🛐🙏🛐 Ty for sharing Your Journey and being authentic It has been great help in my own...
    May you always have Our Saviors favor...

  • @reafus53
    @reafus53 Год назад +3

    I feel great satisfaction, belonging to the same "Human Family" as people like Brent Taylor and Jennie Taylor! Thanks, SISTER Jennie, for your example of optimism in the face of tragedy. Your kids are lucky to have such an awesome mom!

  • @jimmg8994
    @jimmg8994 Год назад +10

    So sad, and so uplifting at the same time.

  • @Ben9263Thurber
    @Ben9263Thurber Год назад +10

    Sister, know that you are prayed for. Your strength and your testimony will grow, even through this really tough trial. I'm unable to serve, but I do know what it's like to have your loved one, your spouse, suddenly and unexpectedly taken from you, and that you decided to keep striking forward, leaning on The Lord says so much about your faith and your strength. You're an inspiration.

  • @vanderley3
    @vanderley3 Год назад +1

    What an incredible quote I've never heard before. Life is unfair in our favor. Thank you.

  • @edransable
    @edransable Год назад +9

    Jennie Taylor, you are such an inspiration. We just don't know what challenge(s) we will be given to us in this life. Will we allow them and the Lord to grow and become what God wants us to become or will we be caught in Satan's grip and blame God for problems. Major Taylor was also an incredible example. All of us should be so dedicated to serving, to care enough make the world a better place.

  • @debfryer2437
    @debfryer2437 Год назад +11

    What a wonderful message and what a brave woman. I have come to the same conclusion. That we can be in the pit of despair and yet within that blackest hour sweet love and joy can come. God bless you and your children. Your husband was a wonderful example of devotion and heroism, courage and strength and I’m sure he is proud of all you have become. ♥️

  • @OriginalFergie
    @OriginalFergie Год назад

    Thank you, I needed this both as an exhausted dad trying to raise his son alone, and also as the traumatized son of a beautiful man who died violently at 62. Reading the comments section also helped me, thank you.

  • @Ryanhelpmeunderstand
    @Ryanhelpmeunderstand Год назад +1

    That is one of the many reasons to why God knew we would need a Savior. That is why we NEED Jesus Christ, desperately.

  • @801AlphaFoxtrot
    @801AlphaFoxtrot Год назад +2

    I'm grateful to have come across this to strengthen my testimony, Sister Taylor. As brothers in arms not a day goes by that I think of the sacrifice the women and men for us to be here.
    Thank you for your testimony Sister Taylor and a reminder that life will not be fair, but it is by far, in our favor because of the unfair life Christ had, but as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, we believe his mortal life was limited, but His sacrifice is infinite. Semper Fi Major Taylor may the gates of Valhalla welcome you.

  • @RichChamberland
    @RichChamberland Год назад +2

    What an amazing and wonderful testimony of our Savior! Thank you for your insights and your profound understanding of the plan of happiness.

  • @ShowYourTalent1
    @ShowYourTalent1 Год назад

    Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for your husband's service and for your testimony.

  • @patriciahelms8036
    @patriciahelms8036 Год назад +5

    Lost 2 husband's through the years under stand your loss! Heavenly Father bless you and your family 👪

  • @hughpettitt3473
    @hughpettitt3473 Год назад +4

    Thank you for sharing such a powerful story, principle, and testimony. You have amazing faith.

  • @kaylapavelka6587
    @kaylapavelka6587 Год назад

    Absolutely love the Taylor’s. I’ve helped watch their children once with my best friend at the time which was her family member. Such an amazing family!

  • @zanekerby2316
    @zanekerby2316 Год назад +1

    An extraordinary, thoughtful and powerful perspective. Thank you for sharing. I hope that God (and your late husband) continue to comfort you and your family. God bless you.

  • @phav1832
    @phav1832 Год назад

    So many people need to hear this testimony.

  • @jennifercalljc
    @jennifercalljc Год назад +32

    Thank you so much for this video. Jennie you are amazing. I have never experienced the loss of a spouse, but a loss of hopes and dreams. Thank you for reminding me of the "ands".

  • @monkstormingenuities9512
    @monkstormingenuities9512 Год назад

    I never just cry for something like this in youtube, but now I can't hold my tears... Sister Taylor, you are so brave... God bless your heart! Be strong....you actually not alone with this type of trial. Merry Christmas!

  • @lindamoses3697
    @lindamoses3697 Год назад +2

    Thank you. You can do this! I know because I had to raise 5 children alone with little or no child support with broken health. Many nights I spent long hours on my knees pouring my heart out to Heavenly Father. After the children have all been raised I can say He is the only reason that I was able to do it. By the grace of God it was done hour by hour day by day

  • @trudyappleby1622
    @trudyappleby1622 Год назад +2

    My heart goes out to this family. You certainly taught me something today. Marie Osmond posted this on her Sunday message on Facebook.
    I cried with you! I felt your pain and suffering. All I can do is pray for you all, thank you for your husbands sacrifice. Thank you for who you are, a very brave strong lady. You see the truth in life, you taught me things I needed to know! I’m thankful for you!! I pray he lord holds you and your precious family in his arms to comfort you. Families are forever. One day!
    Thank you. ♥️♥️♥️🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏♥️♥️

  • @kentuckywildcat3752
    @kentuckywildcat3752 Год назад

    God bless you Sister, thank you for this message of pure love, I testify that love has no limits in any way, it's not limited by distance, by time, it's an eternal gift from our savior that will never cease to be

  • @adniloropmaco4341
    @adniloropmaco4341 Год назад

    God is so good, Praise the Lord for the courage He is giving you daily,. Your life enlightens me, your joy of sharing is an encouragement and reminder of Jesus unfair life on earth for our salvation. Thank you

  • @AlexAdam-sp5ri
    @AlexAdam-sp5ri Год назад

    Your Grace and STRENGTH has Testified to my Soul of the
    Divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ and the Truthfulness of His Cuurch and Kingdom here on earth. May His Grace and Love continue to Bless and Comfort you and your family through this, your Great trial. ❤

  • @RUTHLEST
    @RUTHLEST Год назад +2

    Devastated an determined clearly explains the struggles I'm currently going thru ,life seems unfair at times , but with the teachings an book of Mormon things become clear , thank you for sharing your story

  • @whybia
    @whybia Год назад

    This is a healing story, a testimony of Jesus Christ and His great power to comfort His spirit children in spite of great loss in this mortality. In my case I have lost a couple of very close relatives in the past, but when my sister died last October, I began to feel and think that life is incredibly unfair... in my favor. I am happy I watched this video, it articulates those feelings and thoughts appropriately for me. Thank you Jennie Taylor.

  • @CaseyMcCoyARTS
    @CaseyMcCoyARTS Год назад +10

    Thank you so much for having the courage to share this with us. I'm sorry for your loss but greatful to know you'll be with him again one day. Thank you ❤️ for sharing

  • @vickiheath6133
    @vickiheath6133 Год назад +4

    Your testimony is so powerful. Thank you for your example. Thank you for sharing your heart.

  • @newdreamlife2946
    @newdreamlife2946 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful life you had, have and will continue to have as you keep on going. May God bless you and your children in the decisions that you continue to make for yourselves in your remaining time on this earth before you meet again.

  • @drmichaelshea
    @drmichaelshea Год назад +3

    What a blessed marriage! What a blessed home! Grief for you weighs on my heart, but gratitude bears the pain.

  • @karlam7050
    @karlam7050 Год назад

    This is one awesome woman.....Lord watch over her and her family...

  • @wendyfoster5579
    @wendyfoster5579 Год назад +2

    Beautiful insight, an amazing lady.