Why Women Disappear From Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
  • How to properly handle and respond to women whose attraction and interest is growing in you, if they start complaining or asking why they never hear from you, so you can give them what they need emotionally, and keep them chasing and wanting you more and more.
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Комментарии • 473

  • @puremaledark8305
    @puremaledark8305 6 лет назад +472

    Any woman that is “busy” is just not interested. Cause they will make time for anyone they actually like

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 года назад +13

      Pure Male
      How should you act if you meet back up after say 6 months or so and she starts talking about who she’s been dating in that time? Should you be saying you’re not interested in hearing about it, or, let her talk and act indifferent to it?

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 года назад +8

      Waterlec
      Thanks mate. I’m trying to move on, but my gut feeling is, our paths will cross again one day. I’m working on being the best version of myself for when that day comes.

    • @mountainconstructions
      @mountainconstructions 4 года назад

      So True

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 4 года назад +7

      If she wants you she will make time for no matter what..

    • @mrclapz1488
      @mrclapz1488 3 года назад +18

      I think the hardest thing watching your past lover do is go from caring about you and making time to changing and suddenly losing interest. It a tough pill to swallow knowing they changed and probably will never care about you as they did before

  • @frederickrapp5396
    @frederickrapp5396 4 года назад +84

    Never put out more energy then you receive in return, and never show her more affection then she returns in kind to you. It’s absolutely no fun to love someone, if they do not love you back.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 6 лет назад +237

    You don't have to wait for the girl.... go talk to other girls while you're giving her space.... you don't have to be in a void or isolation.... be having fun, meet new girls, do something exciting every day.

    • @taylorsampson5434
      @taylorsampson5434 5 лет назад +5

      When she said she was going away with her gfs and he blew her shit up the whole time. Instead of waiting for her to initiate contact. He turned off her attraction. She did him a favor leaving so he can learn from his behavior and she can find someone else.

    • @vanessay164
      @vanessay164 5 лет назад +1

      Truth

    • @thesauce807
      @thesauce807 4 года назад +1

      PErfect!!

    • @jj-bu6yb
      @jj-bu6yb 3 года назад +1

      Easy to say that

    • @pharezgabriel678
      @pharezgabriel678 3 года назад +2

      Exactly, that's what women do,their options are always open.We should do likewise!

  • @jolly7728
    @jolly7728 3 года назад +25

    Relationships are a lot of work on things that can go sideways in a heartbeat.

  • @mav1877
    @mav1877 10 лет назад +185

    One of Coach's best videos. A lot of men don't get this. It's not easy to maintain emotional control when you like a girl a lot. However, the same rules apply.

    • @johnhatton730
      @johnhatton730 4 года назад +4

      this is so true, sometimes we gotta learn the hard way

    • @heidibond6979
      @heidibond6979 3 года назад +5

      It definitely can hurt so much.... I once even lost 6 kilo and I took me month (!!!) to regenerate

  • @1InvisionProductions
    @1InvisionProductions 3 года назад +38

    When a girl acts like that, she’s seeing someone else and cheating

  • @DOverton252
    @DOverton252 10 лет назад +409

    when I get a decent job, I'm throwing my wallet at you. You have helped me in so many ways that I can't even explain. Respect.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  10 лет назад +156

      Tell everyone you know

    • @synon9m
      @synon9m 6 лет назад +21

      just checking in to see how much you sent Corey. your comment is 3 years old. figure by now you'd get a decent job, or at least made a little money since then? it's record low unemployment so now would be a great time to make due on that. Unless you already have? cheers.

    • @carletouk
      @carletouk 5 лет назад +7

      synon9m dick

    • @beatweezl
      @beatweezl 5 лет назад

      Word.

    • @NoFapKing
      @NoFapKing 4 года назад +29

      @@rckptt0076 Why don't you go over to his place and bring a bottle of wine you guys can talk about it

  • @Texas80
    @Texas80 5 лет назад +42

    It's so much easier to approach and meet new women than it is to chase after women that aren't interested. I've finished your book once, ready for another round of reading. I understand why you keep saying "Read my book!" The 3% Man is a great bible for dating.

  • @peterharper9703
    @peterharper9703 6 лет назад +61

    ‘Losing” someone is a BLESSING; just as “finding” and being with someone is🤔🤗

  • @theyapmap5404
    @theyapmap5404 8 лет назад +214

    You're the shit Corey. I respect the hell out of you. Wish I could tell you my last ex story, I think you'd find it very amusing and probably applaud my end reaction to date. Short story: Great hearted younger spiritual girl (5'9 gorgeous surfer type, homeschooled on a sailboat) after 17 months of instant live in lust and mutual love, I became complacent and lazy, she lied about where she was, caught her in the lie by her brother who liked me a lot for her life. Two minutes later she realized that her bro called me and said he wasn't in fact with her like she told me, she instantly called me and said "I lied". I said, I know, just drive safe and we;ll talk tomorrow. (That fucked her up mentally as I showed zero emotional interest and probably didn't sleep when she got home) Next morning i sat her down and she told me she ran into her ex from 5 years earlier and went to his house and "talked". I politely said Our relationship has run it's course, had her stuff packed with her help in less than 30 min. She was crying and wondering why I wasn't pissed or why there wasn't more drama like all the other breakups where cops were usually involved, I said "Welcome to an adult relationship" Brother showed up with his truck, we all moved the stuff out. I gave her a hug and said "Thanks for the memories" and walked away. Her brother was in tears and apologized and said he is sick and tired of her lying. Apparently she had cheated at the end of every relationship. Her M.O. She went from my bed to her ex's bed the same day (who used to cheat on her all the time and even shared her with his buddy. (impressionable experimentation at 18 apparently) Two weeks later, she was knocked up by him (not mine, menstrual at breakup thank Gods). He didn't want a baby with her, dumped her first trimester, now a single mom, dating random dudes now. Dodged a silver bullet. The pain was there, but NEVER thought about contacting her. Why give her that validation, right?

    • @AustinShowtime
      @AustinShowtime 7 лет назад +17

      WOW!

    • @victoryoroblivion9713
      @victoryoroblivion9713 6 лет назад +5

      YOU’RE the shit, dude.

    • @franciscoguardado5701
      @franciscoguardado5701 6 лет назад +2

      TheYap Map . Don’t give her another opportunity. I had a situation. I met this girl in college and she was getting in touch with me when she had questions and I was like “wow, she’s into me” but later I found out that she had two kids of a relationship she’s still in. Thank goodness I didn’t go that far with her otherwise I would’ve been involved in a fucked up situation.

    • @michealblizz5072
      @michealblizz5072 6 лет назад +8

      Bro you are my hero! Good job being grounded and not settling down for who you are! This is what men need to do.

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 лет назад +3

      TheYap Map where are you at now? How are things going for you?

  • @lf4666
    @lf4666 7 лет назад +55

    I swear whenever the "illusion of action" creeps on me I will remember your sarcasm about dying if I don't see her. then I'll see how silly I'm being and snap out of it. thanks coach as always

  • @jeffmyron3640
    @jeffmyron3640 4 года назад +24

    Everything coach Corey Wayne says is spot on. Sigh. So many rules and games to keep them attracted. It’s all so tiresome.

  • @brianolbes
    @brianolbes 7 лет назад +77

    I couldn't help but laugh at all my past mistakes, watching your videos and reading your books definitely has helped me gain insight on the wrongs I've done when it came to women in the past and I look back at it now as something hilarious

    • @whata86
      @whata86 5 лет назад

      Brian Olbes right on . I think we all have

    • @vanessay164
      @vanessay164 5 лет назад

      Same here . Hahahaha

    • @TH-cq7bj
      @TH-cq7bj 4 года назад

      Big facts

    • @63bplumb
      @63bplumb 4 года назад +5

      Brian: Just literally broke up (actually I was dumped) for all the reasons Corey is talking about! However it's so painful I'm Not laughing!

    • @marcusappelberg369
      @marcusappelberg369 3 года назад +1

      We tend to grow wise with age. :)

  • @brandon321b
    @brandon321b 2 года назад +6

    Literally while Watching this video…. I receive a text from a girl I gave space to. Felt her interest drop a little and started not being available. So I backed off. No contact at all for a couple weeks.
    It works fellas. Stay strong, stand your ground. Meet new women constantly. Be in Hunt mode. It’s THEIR Loss if they lose you.

  • @PedroMoreno-mt5uz
    @PedroMoreno-mt5uz 11 месяцев назад +3

    "Chasing the cat, and its faster than you." -story of my life before getting advice from Coach Corey

  • @jirenuniverse116
    @jirenuniverse116 6 лет назад +20

    When you have something you're passionate about to do, and you have a happy life. You'll not have time to contemplate about women

  • @mattblom3990
    @mattblom3990 6 лет назад +40

    The problem is when a woman really likes me, she verbally and explicitly asks me to be "vulnerable" with her, to drop my guard, calls me babe. But I've learned if I dare match her it's over quick.

    • @DreErdna
      @DreErdna 5 лет назад +8

      Matthew Blom exactly! Women wanna bitch us up! Check out Patrice O’Neal on that. He was an expert like Corey as welll

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 года назад +10

      I think that's s great strategy to use on women that you dont really want but they want you.
      Drive them away with the powers of the Beta FORCE!!

    • @ArisenMind
      @ArisenMind 4 года назад +1

      That shit is wild though. Men can't be vulnerable, or at least express genuine interest in women. If that's the case then all they are good for is sex and some decent outing here and there.

  • @skepticat8874
    @skepticat8874 9 лет назад +7

    In 1951 Esquire magazine published a short story titled “The Tyranny of Love” by Harry Kronman.
    “If you love something very much, you’ve got to go easy with it-give it some room to move around. If you try to hold it tight like that, it’ll always try to get away.”

  • @JohnDoe-ef3nv
    @JohnDoe-ef3nv 7 лет назад +39

    There needs to be sexual polarity for a relationship to work. Yin/yang , masculine/feminine.
    your job as a man is 3h- have fun- hang out, hook up- no need to bring in relationship talk.
    she stopped calling and texting so the guy tried to make up for it by calling and texting her more..bad idea. Women like to chase.
    you have to love in such a way that the person you love feels free, don't smother by contacting her all the time.
    she's been blowing you off, so you want her to contact you before you set up dates- you want her to come to you-h hey lets hang at my place with some wine

  • @nl6049
    @nl6049 10 лет назад +30

    I'm so grateful for everything you do.I just wanted to share that with you.You made my life better.Without you,things would stay the same in my life for next decade,i think.God bless you.

  • @PieterFret
    @PieterFret 8 лет назад +82

    The exact same thing happened to me! My ex was really into me until at some point I started acting insecure, clingy and generally wimpy around her. I felt her losing interest and that made my behaviour even worse.
    When we first got back together (I had already broken up with her once) she was the insecure one, telling me that I didn't initiate enough texting conversations, didn't send her enough pictures, didn't make enough of an effort to learn her language (she's a native French speaker), hadn't told her that I loved her yet. So I decided to do all those things. Biggest. Mistake. Ever. She lost respect and attraction faster than I could even realize what was going on. Before I knew it, she was suddenly never in the mood for sex anymore and started acting distant. So I decided to talk to her and basically told her I cannot be in a half relationship; it's all or nothing. She broke up with me.
    I tried to get her back after a month or so and it almost worked. We saw each other a couple of times and the attraction was clearly coming back, but the day before our date where (she had already implied) everything was gonna be okay again, she fell in love with another guy. She cancelled our date with a lie (she was 'sick' - meaning: having sex with this guy instead of me) and the next day she notified me by text of what happened. By text!
    I met her two days ago to talk and get some closure and she was extremely distant and even a little hostile. Basically, she doesn't give a damn about me anymore and is already talking about this other guy (whom she's only seen for two days before he went back to his own country) like it's the love of her life. She's talking about moving to his country and everything... Sounds crazy to me. I will never contact her anymore and judging from her attitude towards me, I don't expect to ever hear from her again. Too bad, because I really liked this girl. But I f'ed it all up myself by acting insecure and needy. Lesson learned, I'll never do that again, and hopefully I will avoid painful experiences like this in the future.
    Wish I knew about the stuff you teach a few months earlier though...

    • @HyperDangerousThing
      @HyperDangerousThing 8 лет назад +8

      you're my soulbrotha

    • @PieterFret
      @PieterFret 7 лет назад +30

      Some follow up... Like I predicted, I haven't heard from this ex again (it's been 5 or 6 months now), but I don't care. I went through a tough time after we broke up, but then I read Coach's book (and some others) and started applying my new knowledge on being alpha. It almost immediately got me some one night stands, and one of them (a hot 20 year old student - I'm 32 btw) has now been my girlfriend for the past three months.
      She's really into me and very much in love, and I believe it's all because I've been acting confidently from my center from the get go. It's amazing how attractive that is to women! She even made some remarks like 'I love how you don't always give me what I ask for, it's so sexy' or 'I like your confident, goal-oriented attitude'.
      So lesson learned, and a big BIG thanks to coach Corey. You saved my life dude!! Endless respect. Keep spreading the knowledge! I'm a better man now because of your help.

    • @AkosM
      @AkosM 6 лет назад +4

      Just curious, but do you have any updates on your ex?

    • @sondjica
      @sondjica 5 лет назад +4

      No dude... the problem was that you broke up with her first, if she loved you then, you broke her, eventually she probably started seeing you as a guy who hurt her, not a man she loves and she can trust. That's why she left some space for someone new in her life.

    • @iron-farmer
      @iron-farmer 5 лет назад +1

      Lolz sounds like her and her friends made that up lol

  • @spoonman73
    @spoonman73 9 лет назад +46

    "Chasing the cat through the neighborhood" Lmfao!
    I used to have a friend who would do that with his dog....and his women. The SOB would never listen to reason .

  • @jayslays4948
    @jayslays4948 5 лет назад +14

    "Heyy, can I come in....Hey!!" Lmao Coach you kill me

  • @2dramaNaijatv
    @2dramaNaijatv 8 лет назад +12

    corey this story is very important to always look at a woman's actions and judge her attraction level. I am on my tenth read right now.

  • @stonethrown333
    @stonethrown333 6 лет назад +9

    Corey you had me checking the door when you were knocking on your desk. You should of seen me take my head phones off to inspect. Shit had me laughing when I realized.

  • @ArisenMind
    @ArisenMind 4 года назад +5

    I'm not saying that I disagree with corey wayne about masculine and feminine dynamics. What is frustrating is that, wanting to spend time with a woman, showing genuine interest, and wanting to be with her often, REDUCES attraction. That shit is crazy.
    So, if you're a guy who genuinely wants a woman AND enjoy her company, you can't really express your genuine interest for the woman.
    You're forced to treat her as if you aren't that interested. You can't let yourself show anything beyond mild interest. This cannot be mentally good to have to do this.

    • @raulonastool1773
      @raulonastool1773 4 года назад +2

      That's the thing man. It can't be an act. I tried that with this girl I was seeing and she caught on real quick. She can sense it. She can feel the vibe that you want her but are holding back. IT MUST BE GENUINE. That's why you need to read the book 10-15 times so it becomes second nature to you. And not only that, you must be practicing it on multiple women! Don't focus your energy on one.
      Women want to feel like you chose them, not like they're your only choice.

    • @ArisenMind
      @ArisenMind 4 года назад +1

      @@raulonastool1773 Excellent points chief. That doesn't really address my statements but I do understand where you're coming from. IF anything it only reinforces what I've stated. You can't be genuine with them as what is natural to your nature.
      You must genuinely be the guy that is disinterested.

  • @AChannelification
    @AChannelification 7 лет назад +4

    It still amazes me after 5 months of working Coach Corey's program, how much I need to learn and relearn. But I can tell you that all of this positive but seemingly illogical advice works! It's simple but hard! Just do it and you will slowly change for the better as I did.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 6 лет назад +8

    These guys fucking up wouldn't want a girl that acted the same as them. Blowing up their phone, not letting them respond, not giving space, not moving on, centering her life around him.....

    • @marcusappelberg369
      @marcusappelberg369 3 года назад

      Yes, I've been that guy and didn't like when girls did that to me.

  • @MrZluvu4ever
    @MrZluvu4ever 8 лет назад +39

    I'm a guy...always asking "When are you free?, when are you free?" is so repetitive and a turnoff...better is "I'm free Friday night, let's rock it!". Leading/suggesting is stronger than requesting/asking.

    • @HomemadeNub
      @HomemadeNub 6 лет назад +19

      I always ask "When are you free?" because if she likes you, she'll tell you (and most likely for a day way earlier than you were going to mention) and then you'll hang out - again, way earlier than if you would have mentioned a day.
      "I'm free Friday night, let's rock it!" also does not sound smooth at all.

    • @sethwatson6569
      @sethwatson6569 6 лет назад +2

      Xanivert 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sethwatson6569
      @sethwatson6569 6 лет назад +6

      Will James lol let's rock it 😂😂😂

    • @johnathan4185
      @johnathan4185 6 лет назад +4

      when are you free is better. because if you say a day like friday and not her, she could always agree to it and then call you up on the day and say some BS excuse like i forgot its was parrots birthday etc. by you saying which day are you free, or let me know when you are free, she has to check and you can presuppose that no BS will come up from her side.

    • @Axeltonn
      @Axeltonn 6 лет назад +15

      Saying "let's rock it!" Will dry up a pussy like the Sahara.

  • @jerryjones2054
    @jerryjones2054 4 года назад +15

    You have 2 options
    1. You never contact her again and have some self respect and possibly never see her again or she will contact you at some point.
    2. You continue to contact her and piss her off more and she will never see you again.

  • @jamesphilpot8709
    @jamesphilpot8709 4 года назад +3

    To be honest feel like ghosting someone that is investing there time and interest and money deserves the respect to be told by the person they want that their not interested for whatever reason

  • @Spitz973
    @Spitz973 9 лет назад +54

    C'mon man! *Coach Corey Wayne voice*

  • @kevinday8769
    @kevinday8769 6 лет назад +28

    Maybe there plenty reasons,why women would leave a guy.Some women are just careless they could leave for no reason at all.

    • @mrclapz1488
      @mrclapz1488 3 года назад +2

      True. There’s always a reason they just won’t tell you because of guilt. No one wants to be the bad guy. If you’ve ever been broken up with for “no reason” you’re one of the lucky ones who didn’t have to be humiliated and devalued to be left.

    • @kevinday8769
      @kevinday8769 3 года назад

      @@mrclapz1488 I hear you and respect your opinion but i care less if a woman leaves me.A woman isn't control of my life i am & yes i never been humiliated it really doesn't mean anything if she was no good anyways it only means something if she really loved you.

    • @mrclapz1488
      @mrclapz1488 3 года назад +2

      @@kevinday8769 I was saying that because most guys destroy themselves trying to figure out why their girl left them. Guys beg and plead until the women starts to hurt them to back off lol I’ve seen it happen before it gets ugly

  • @xSlimeWorldx
    @xSlimeWorldx 9 лет назад +19

    The faces you make on your videos are hilarious Coach lol, keep them up.

  • @NehemiahDC
    @NehemiahDC 9 лет назад +55

    Damn, this is my exact situation. I can't believe I didn't find this sooner.

  • @fernandogonzalez6140
    @fernandogonzalez6140 4 года назад +2

    What this Coach says it is so true. I naturally not obsessed about women. I have very good comunicating skills but I talk to women just to have fun. I lo to work out have an amazing son and like to do something before I sleep. So naturally I make people laugh but at the same time I get people waiting. Usually when I see my histories on FB I see that same women hitting me up a lot on dm. I don’t do it on purpose I just have things to do. You just have to focus on your self

  • @Di-sv6ri
    @Di-sv6ri 4 года назад +3

    I’m a woman and you are so right, god I wish all men would listen to you.

  • @youngwarriorpopocaca
    @youngwarriorpopocaca 8 лет назад +10

    omg the first dude was oblivious to fact she was avoiding him. unghhh that sucks

  • @jymmyjaymes
    @jymmyjaymes 9 лет назад +4

    you are spot on Corey, Kudos! Guys should listen to your advice. I never forgot the advice given to Arnold Schwarzenegger by his father (via Arnold: Education Of A Bodybuilder) "Never let them (women) know what you are thinking"

  • @jamesc4196
    @jamesc4196 7 лет назад +18

    14:25 HAHAHAHAAAH LOL, man i lost it there, shit is too relatabe and funny!

  • @4e4ehehe
    @4e4ehehe 5 лет назад +4

    '..this the futuRe?' yeS, we did this in the past to them. Their game is 'so behind the time.' thnx Corey!!!!

  • @0401412740
    @0401412740 9 лет назад +20

    Man you need a pay rise that stuff is gold...

  • @melvinpeachey6963
    @melvinpeachey6963 4 года назад +2

    Not necessarily what you look at will go away. It's what you disrespect will move away and what you respect will come to you. I learned that myself and that applys to anything in life not just girls. However coach I did the same thing with the girls thank you so much for opening my eyes. It blows my mind what you are saying

  • @miscanime
    @miscanime 7 лет назад +2

    Holy fucking hell, your quote is exactly why my last relationship imploded....daaaayum Coach is so wise...

  • @ChrisCorson
    @ChrisCorson 5 лет назад +4

    I always laugh at something in your videos. Love it. A lot of your material repeats (that's OK) so your personality quirks make it fun to listen. It teaches "don't take things so seriously".

  • @oliverallen5324
    @oliverallen5324 5 лет назад +1

    The train wreck that is a confident man becoming a needy boy is always a sad story. I wish I'd watched this back in 2012, maybe things would have been different, but now I'm using the tenants these coaches are putting forth and it's working 100%.

  • @RH-ul2bc
    @RH-ul2bc 10 лет назад +22

    Corey, great video! As a woman i have been here with guys and you are spot on. Loved the quote at the beginning too. Guys listen up :)

  • @Healthyvibing
    @Healthyvibing 5 лет назад +8

    Based on this email story I doubt that he ran into her by chance and it is more likely that he knows her run route and stocked her. 😂 The way you communicate is hilarious LOL

    • @FreeSudani
      @FreeSudani 5 лет назад

      thats funny loool ..... if he really did that then i really feel sorry for him ..

  • @imanshaf8429
    @imanshaf8429 7 лет назад +9

    10:02 -10:06 and 14:28-14:33 are godlike moments Corey. Love you

  • @ShAdOw116789
    @ShAdOw116789 9 лет назад +11

    Coach you're an awesome person! Keep doing what you do!

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei 4 года назад +10

    Man, Calculus, algebra, and chemistry are piece of cakes compared to getting a girlfriend.

    • @jeffmyron3640
      @jeffmyron3640 4 года назад

      Dario Wirtha lmao truth

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 4 года назад +3

      But on the upside, they are mostly the same. This means you have to learn the game only once. I have looked at many of my past relationships, and now I see how much alike they were. Of course I made fewer mistakes with each new relationship. This allowed me to extend good relationships and bail on the bad ones early on.

  • @kristenglamour4023
    @kristenglamour4023 3 года назад +1

    Yeah it’s really tough to Act so nonchalant when you really do care about somebody.

  • @patrick2530
    @patrick2530 6 лет назад +6

    You're so right. You always have to back off. Always.

  • @Tex200950
    @Tex200950 5 лет назад +6

    The tennis ball analogy was super funny !!!!!

  • @jorcasce
    @jorcasce 7 лет назад +6

    you should come to Costa Rica, have a conference with a couple of talks like this! This is brilliant!

  • @begutsu
    @begutsu 8 лет назад +12

    LOL!! yo this is the funniest video by coach yet I been watching his videos for about a year now and he speaks nothing but the truth

  • @Bushchannel
    @Bushchannel 9 лет назад +38

    You hear all this talk about how "women want a take charge guy." Feminism has mucked things up, the opposite of a take charge guy is a submissive woman. Maybe a take charge guy would be more attracted to a submissive woman; opposites attract remember 😎
    In western culture young women are not exactly taught to be submissive, that's why I searched elsewhere for a Mrs Right. This lack of submission leads to a lot of awkward moments in a world with too many singles.

    • @godiskungen27
      @godiskungen27 9 лет назад +18

      Agree feminism fcked up it all women today fcked in the head

    • @joo7454
      @joo7454 6 лет назад +3

      It's men made, I mean women made, idea. Look at the nature, the wild lives like lions and elephants... they know exactly how they suppose to fit in that arrangement. When men, I mean women, go against the nature it always backfire them at the end.

    • @millionpianos
      @millionpianos 5 лет назад

      Bush Channel ....Man I totally agree with that. American women have the need to be in control. The true mother-nature designed role of the female in a relationship, has been killed with the feminist movement. I want to meet a girl from the Philipines. What other countries do you recommend to find girls who still like they're supposed to?

    • @DreErdna
      @DreErdna 5 лет назад +1

      Jet Helicopter they are hear in America. Just be a fuckin man and she will follow

    • @millionpianos
      @millionpianos 5 лет назад +2

      @@DreErdna Andrea. Be a fuckin man?? Really? God, thanks for that amazing brilliant advice........ nutless pussy

  • @matthewroden1996
    @matthewroden1996 4 года назад +1

    men need to pay attention to how we allow women to treat us like fools. ive gotten to where i take it personal when i behave weak,needy, around a women i like, and have started doing what Corey says. you have to value your self,believe you deserve better. love yourself

  • @Blkpll
    @Blkpll 7 лет назад +12

    Exactly. I am a lesbian (although 200% feminine looking), and I am the masculine role in my interaction with women. This shit really helped me. Thank you so much!

  • @christiansalas2878
    @christiansalas2878 5 лет назад +16

    Reminds me of my situation but i naturally had alot of this knowlegde before i ran into coachs videos. But i feel some girls no matter what dont stop the game.. In other words like he said she did all the pursueing and as soon as they see you starting to really like them they sweep the rug from underneath you and it catches u by suprise. At first they compliment you constantly then they work on breaking you down. I was stuck in that situation and would have moment of weakness then i would recenter myslf back away...then she would come chase me again ... But sooner or later i felt that it was a bubble that was slowly closing in on me.. So i pulled out completly. Im on no contact now. Maybe i was dealimg with a narcasist. She did have daddy issues and says her mom never gave her love.. i dont know ...

    • @bobos245
      @bobos245 5 лет назад +4

      Dude pretty much the same thing for me. Toward the end of our relationship, she constantly compared my actions to those of her estranged father. She broke up with me, gives me luke warm conversation, but then gets pissy when I don't call her enough, all AFTER she broke up with me. I'm starting to think these women that have abandonment issues are severely neurotic and end up creating a self-fulfilling prophecy, since subconsciously they believe they are not worthy of love, and that everyone fails them.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 лет назад +1

      Pretty much word for word describes my recent situation. Wow. The bit about pursuing, realising you like them and then pulling the rug from under your feet, is so true. Happened to me!

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 лет назад

      bobos245
      You’ve hit the nail on the head. That’s exactly what they’re like. They self-sabotage. Mine grew up without her father and she displays many traits of bpd. Extreme emotions, craves constant attention and validation, takes endless selfies, low self-esteem, insecure...

  • @MrDhurandhar
    @MrDhurandhar 7 лет назад +1

    what you say is absolutely correct.but everyone has to learn this hard way..before one acts correctly after learning the truth from coach who is really good as you are

  • @djjayem100
    @djjayem100 2 года назад +2

    Had this exact situation. its so frustrating when you understand once it too late what really was going wrong.

  • @MrProwler101477
    @MrProwler101477 7 лет назад +106

    some women are just broken deeply troubled bat shit crazy I learned the hard way take anything they say with a grain of sand.. action s speak louder than words and just walk away at the first sign of issues it will save you grief time and money..don't take any bs..

    • @TheRealBBC22
      @TheRealBBC22 6 лет назад +6

      EXACTLY my friend ex fucking actly.

    • @brianphelps7953
      @brianphelps7953 6 лет назад +2

      💯💯💯

    • @whata86
      @whata86 5 лет назад +2

      Amen. Exactly what I needed to hear right now

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 лет назад +2

      Damn right. Toxic, bat shit crazy. Internet dating is full of damaged goods when it comes to women. Red flags everywhere. 🚩

  • @jorgegranada4964
    @jorgegranada4964 4 года назад +2

    Corey, You are wise , funny and prctical. A "don't care' attitude .

  • @frankies1245
    @frankies1245 10 лет назад +19

    Here's an awesome story. I was in college. Sat in class. The girl I knew sat next to me and we start talking. Told her my birthday is coming & I'm going to dinner with my best friend and family and she can join me also. SHE was the one GETTING my number and was like hell yeah that's exciting! We should Even hangout before your birthday. So I said of course let me know how your schedule is and we'll plan something together. What'cha guys think? awesome huh? We also walked around the campus and talked for half an hour about work and stuff. So much fun and laugh. Great day! She even wished me a great day today just a few minutes ago! High attraction baby!

    • @Iloveufonzi
      @Iloveufonzi 10 лет назад +1

      Keep that up ! I like that feeling that vibe when all of a sudden the girl next to u is the bomb haha. Study 2gether and shit eating out, fkng haha

    • @frankies1245
      @frankies1245 10 лет назад

      Iloveufonzi Ahah thanks bro

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 9 лет назад

      Francis S Now that it is six months later, how did it go with this girl?

    • @frankies1245
      @frankies1245 9 лет назад +2

      Kevin P were together!

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 9 лет назад +9

      Francis S that's so awesome! I recently got friend zoned so it's so nice to hear a happy story.

  • @mystuff223
    @mystuff223 6 лет назад +1

    You’re a great coach man, somehow for the past few hours I’ve been glued to your videos, truly shows how instructive they are. Keep it up bro

  • @kingslavd661
    @kingslavd661 5 месяцев назад

    I applied the no contact rule by Corey and my ex came back in about 22 days. Keep listening to this legend.

  • @boxerusx5530
    @boxerusx5530 Год назад +1

    Solution: The abundant mindset

  • @TemptedYouthMusic
    @TemptedYouthMusic 6 лет назад +7

    😂 Comedy value of your responses are gold! 😂

  • @CoolClipsable
    @CoolClipsable 4 года назад +1

    I have built for myself of starting my day by listening to one video from Coach to help shape my focus and concentration!

  • @Jonathan_Bryant
    @Jonathan_Bryant 2 года назад +1

    The best answer to almost all scenarios is simple. Do nothing and wait to hear from her. Best catch all response to when a woman is backing away or doing anything other than chasing you for indoor Olympics.

  • @rayjulian8044
    @rayjulian8044 6 лет назад +51

    A classic example of how guys mess things up.

  • @joycecorwell1484
    @joycecorwell1484 6 лет назад +22

    what if she lost attraction because she not getting what she need from the man she interested some men take you for granted an don't put you as a pority an an when your fed up your fed up an let him have all the other thing that consume his time

  • @Neon-ps6xv
    @Neon-ps6xv 5 лет назад +2

    Great job man!! I was loosing it with a girl because I was doing all the wrong shit.. its the bomb now!!

  • @King-qv1pd
    @King-qv1pd 7 лет назад +2

    14:27 Jaja Coach's face when he does the needy man. That's funny as all get out. It get's even funnier when he puts sounds to it.

  • @CoreyJonesMotivation
    @CoreyJonesMotivation 4 года назад

    Best analogy ever tennis ball Gatling gun responses and the girl just runs off the court. I think this is the best picture you've ever painted

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 3 года назад +1

    I love learning from others mistakes.

  • @patrickrempel9293
    @patrickrempel9293 2 года назад +1

    This was one of the best comedies i have seen in a while...you are fucking hilarious Corey...i have read the book 12 times now and can finally say I am probably closer to a 7% man ..not a 3% yet..but your work is second to none. Ty so much for all the work you do.

  • @anastasiast.pierre188
    @anastasiast.pierre188 8 лет назад +17

    Mate as a woman sometimes women disappear simply because a guy does not listen to her needs and address them.
    Would be good if you did a session for single parent dating

    • @Fakestockguru
      @Fakestockguru 5 лет назад +15

      Matilda Forde fuck their needs.

    • @juap
      @juap 5 лет назад +1

      Lol, fuck your needs. You Don’t disappear because of that, you disappear because u Don’t like the guy, Don’t talk shits... real man have a fucking life if you want the man u simply like him. Go with your fucking advise to a woman fórum

  • @johnsalkowski3532
    @johnsalkowski3532 4 года назад +1

    Corey this was a great video. The examples this guy presented were excellent and your advice was spot on. As I always say, prospects pursued run away! You must attract the prospect & your advice clearly illustrates that. Thank you

  • @bboy300870
    @bboy300870 10 лет назад +3

    Dude you're hilarious! I love how you don't hold back.

  • @jermainelee1060
    @jermainelee1060 4 года назад +2

    Coach you are so true i chased my ex away and i continue to chase i need your book and need read it 20 times

  • @rakingleaves8500
    @rakingleaves8500 9 лет назад +14

    To a certain extent, I agree. However, it's also highly likely that after her chasing him, baking cakes, being all lovey-dovey and he playing the "James Bond mystery man" player type, she got wise and moved on. It's not necessarily a "role reversal" thing. He started catching feelings late in the game & she lost hers. She may have gotten sick and tired of doing all the work and just said screw it.. We're not always so easy to play.

    • @sondjica
      @sondjica 5 лет назад

      Good point both of you guys.

    • @iron-farmer
      @iron-farmer 5 лет назад

      Baking cakes eh. My generation has 10 years of good times then wonders why they can't find a husband when they have zero home making skills and have boffed 15 or 20 guys in their lives.

  • @directed6924
    @directed6924 4 года назад

    Your storytelling ability is second to none

  • @Turd420
    @Turd420 9 месяцев назад

    yup, what happened to me in my last relationship, but I didn't do the work to recognize what I was doing wrong until after the fact. Cant sit back in the easy seat if you want a successful relationships in life.

  • @Boletodecinecom2011
    @Boletodecinecom2011 5 лет назад +1

    Awesome advice. I'm buying the book to learn more. This stuff is priceless. Down to earth and no b.s. like other "coaches" who only tell you "mumbo jumbo" with "secret phrases" and weird and shitty stuff. Corey Wayne is "da man" on this subject. Every video is gold.

  • @brysoncaldwell916
    @brysoncaldwell916 8 лет назад +12

    "The Cat hauls ass"

  • @loslucky
    @loslucky 6 лет назад +2

    AHHHHHHHHHH! Why didnt I watch this video before my disaster. I TOTALLY did this in my last relationship. I ruined it! I started acting like the woman!

  • @roxycp6
    @roxycp6 10 лет назад

    You are fucking awesome coach! You've changed my life and I will forever be grateful! I've read your book about 3 times now I'm trying to read it 15 xs to get all this down. So far working like a charm! My woman of 5 years started blowing up my phone like back in the good ol days when we first started going out, she tells me she's madly in love. I just sit back, relax and let her come to me like a cat. Again..... You're fucking awesome coach!!!

  • @johnmora5830
    @johnmora5830 3 года назад +2

    Well I have learned this one thing the slightest amount of disrespect from any woman I'm out. Most important thing I have learned this year. And me my girl just broke up and in a way it was a blessing in disguise. She had me on edge looking over my shoulder constantly. But now a bunch of woman showing interest but only one I look at like something different it's just a lot stuff gotta change. I'm staying on my purpose and doing me for now on as always good vid. Had to add this in if a girl starts switching it up on ya and u dating end it and if u just talking and she switch it up or get disrespectful hit up another girl that appreciate your time. Listen gentleman always remember that is men gotta be honest with ourselves, woman are not what they use to be, social media dating websites and these simps got the game all messed up. Worse case scenario she belongs to the streets.

  • @ciscohour5884
    @ciscohour5884 5 лет назад +3

    We all remember the GOOD OLE DAYS!!!! Then, NEXT!!!

  • @peacefulleagle
    @peacefulleagle 5 лет назад +3

    That was the reason why I broke it off with my ex he was possessive, jealous, unsecured and boring

    • @johnmora5830
      @johnmora5830 3 года назад

      Did u do something to make him like that?

    • @peacefulleagle
      @peacefulleagle 3 года назад

      @@johnmora5830 of course not.
      those adjectives refere to trauma to his trauma possessive, jealous, unsecured and boring

  • @Overwatch9
    @Overwatch9 5 лет назад +9

    I bet that dude texted her right after seeing this video! ;D

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman3645 2 года назад +1

    She lost attraction for me and I did everything right, her ex-boyfriend showed up and that was the end of the show.... no matter what you do you can't stop that, did not chaser, told her to give me a call if it don't work out, too many emotions for her ex

  • @mihailaurentiu2024
    @mihailaurentiu2024 2 года назад

    My exact situation
    Hurts so much because I realised too late what I was doing, and I’m usually never like this, but once I like someone I couldn’t help myself but show it by being needy/desperate

  • @John-cq3hk
    @John-cq3hk 6 лет назад +1

    Ha! "Some ULTIMATE text!" This is a classic Corey Wayne video...

  • @bostoneventlighting794
    @bostoneventlighting794 3 года назад

    I just cracked up at that doggy face “Can you see me today 🐶?” 😂

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 6 лет назад +1

    "oh she's so sorry" lol fuck that.

  • @starcatcher3691
    @starcatcher3691 2 года назад

    Corey I am a woman suffering because of a man suddenly stopping talking to me after big declarations and you are making me laugh. Thanks

  • @narutoozumaki4339
    @narutoozumaki4339 7 лет назад +1

    I read ur book.. Once....thanks coach...... U helpd me a lot.... Now i see y.. Knowledge is power..