Asperger Syndrome - Clay Marzo: Just Add Water

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
  • A clip from the film "Clay Marzo: Just Add Water", where Dr. Tony Attwood and Dr. Chitra Bhakta speak about Asperger Syndrome.

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  • @ronaldderooij1774
    @ronaldderooij1774 9 лет назад +37

    "You don't suffer from Asperger's, you suffer from other people" "Don't criticize Asperger's, applaud them". That is exactly what I mean on all Asperger video comments I made. I am an Aspie too, and I suffered a lot. But the suffering did never come from myself. Never. I do not have a problem. Others have. End of suffering. I love this man.

    • @CaitlinBrooksMusic
      @CaitlinBrooksMusic 6 лет назад +3

      Ronald de Rooij I’m with you. We don’t have problems; other people have problems.

    • @tamarahughes7835
      @tamarahughes7835 3 года назад +2

      My son is also an Aspie. I applaud you. 💞

    • @ronaldderooij1774
      @ronaldderooij1774 3 года назад +2

      @@tamarahughes7835 Thanks, but no need. I had a failed marriage after 19 years. Not many friends. But I have a wonderful ("normal") son, an academic degree in political science and a successful career as a high civil servant even in international diplomacy. So yeah. It took good parents and a lot of resilliance from my side to reach that. As for parenting, My parents were raised before WW2. Very lolving, totally dedicated to me and my "normal" sister. Totally. But strict, very strict, but I had a lot of freedom at the same time. However, schoolwork had to be done, behavior had to be good, honesty was paramount and parents were above children (until about 18 years old). I don't know if that is a good recepy, but it worked for me. Hope it may help you??

  • @xotheodorexo
    @xotheodorexo 11 лет назад +6

    I have asperger syndrome and this video makes me feel nice about myself :)

  • @calbuchanan1212
    @calbuchanan1212 12 лет назад +3

    I have Asperger's Syndrome, and this obsession thing happens to me so much I hate it. Sure, I learn a lot of stuff but can't I just stick to one thing? Clay has been obsessed with surfing his entire life practically. I'm 16 years old and have no idea where I am headed. Lucky Clay.

  • @surfs2much976
    @surfs2much976 6 лет назад +7

    His story is so beautiful and inspiring, hes so good and the way his mom talks about him is amazing. People need to stop picking apart the aspects of people and just label them as a person...

  • @sbsman4998
    @sbsman4998 10 лет назад +6

    Indeed, learn to embrace solitude since it is the autistic stress reliever. Love yourself, we are indeed special. Learn to not let others "get to you" and mostly forgive them and their ignorance which may be insurmountable, love themtoo. And lastly, develop a strong uncompromising gaze, determined and willing to fight you to the ground if necessary and learn to be a man in this hard and tough world.

    • @4TheRecord
      @4TheRecord 9 лет назад +1

      +SBS “Aspergican” man Some people can others can not. It's not nice to have solitude when you don't want solitude. If you love it then there is no issue.

  • @GabrielleBryden
    @GabrielleBryden 15 лет назад +4

    Tony Attwood is my all time hero - he's done more for people with aspergers than anyone else.

  • @bass2beat1991
    @bass2beat1991 10 лет назад +5

    I just Found out on January 21,2014 that i've had A form of Autism my Whole life i'm age 22 year's old. And the Form of Autism I have is called #Borderline autism and I have a hard time meeting new people and Making Friend's I also Do Autistic Stimming , I love the Water it's fun and very relaxing for me as well. when I was a Baby I was delayed in Everything from Walking, Eating, and yes Even Talking my Speech was At a Delayed rate for 22 Months at 2 year's old, but I had thoughts and Questions Running through my Head constantly but I couldn't get them out into words I did learn to speak

  • @Fadesniper96
    @Fadesniper96 12 лет назад +5

    I have Aspergers Syndrome. I used to have trouble noticing hand signals like waving or something like that but since then I now have learnt every signal that people around me do. I try to think about the different aspects of life and everything that happens around me. I freaked out when I found out about this Syndrome when I got diagnosed but later on in life I soon realized that this was a gift.

    • @CaitlinBrooksMusic
      @CaitlinBrooksMusic 6 лет назад

      Empirestate96 I’m with you. I was diagnosed at about 7 years and 6 months of age, but I was in DENIAL about it until 10 years after the diagnosis. I was in 11th grade when I started coming around to admitting to my diagnosis, so I started disclosing it to my peers and staff. They were actually relieved - not alienated - when I told them. I realized that we do have qualities, and not deficits. We have difficulties, but we can work around them.
      Even though I have proven a lot of (incompetent) teachers wrong, I make an effort not to hold grudges about them and the hell they put me through.

  • @neilmcintosh5150
    @neilmcintosh5150 12 лет назад +1

    Although I'm a total fan of Tony Atwood, I have to say that when he talks about people with Aspergers not having a disability he may be trying a little too hard to be PC. It is a fact that the majority of Aspies do find it difficult to function on a day to day basis, and we should never forget that. It can also be a dangerous thing to declassify Aspies from being disabled as in turn there wouldn't be any financial and emotional support for them.

  • @alexandreesquenet3736
    @alexandreesquenet3736 10 лет назад +7

    2:22 made me cry.

  • @hyperprogressive
    @hyperprogressive 14 лет назад +1

    @katiekdb me too.. maybe I like the man who talks... he would be TOO good dad - I would always be so happy that I would cry and everything would go wrong for that.

  • @ElectricityTaster
    @ElectricityTaster 9 лет назад +3

    tfw you question your asperger self diagnosis because you aren't great at anything.

  • @aspiebear
    @aspiebear 6 лет назад +3

    A great video spoiled by a near painful noise that is likely to cause discomfort to many people that would watch this as they are on the spectrum! Many of us Aspies have sensory issues- especially with sounds like that noise.

  • @ape2212
    @ape2212 13 лет назад +2

    Becomes one with the wave...Amazing :)

  • @sleepyeyeguy
    @sleepyeyeguy 8 лет назад +7

    I suffer from other people!!

  • @jevilscientist
    @jevilscientist 13 лет назад +2

    I was diagnosed with aspergesr. I am 48. It started when I was very young. Anti-social.I was 8 and the neighborhood kids would ask if i am home.I would tell my mother,tell them I am not home.Sometimes, my mom would tell mee to go outside. I remember interacting with the kids and focus at my mom who was looking out the window at me. I only wanted to go back in the house..

  • @stuvs830
    @stuvs830 10 лет назад +2

    Lovely and affirming. That one doesn't suffer from Aspergers, one suffers from other people." Well-put. Thanks for posting this!

  • @magicaltomatoes
    @magicaltomatoes 11 лет назад +3

    Religion only works because people are afraid of dying, they welcome religion for the reassurance it brings. An aspie usually has a disconnection between emotions / critical thinking. As such an aspie can easily see through the bullshit when reading some fiction work being told as being the thruth. So aspies are usually very good critical thinkers and Atheists because of that.

  • @RocknPak
    @RocknPak 12 лет назад

    How do you know that your neurotypicality is not a disability? It is subjective. Perhaps you have a social gift, perhaps we have an intellectual gift. And maybe we are all average. I never called anyone gifted or disabled, I just stated that we need both kinds of people. Your cerebral myopia is a far more crippling disability than my Asperger's. I was diagnosed with it age seven, but am uncertain that I have it. I am who I am either way, and I am satisfied with that.

  • @RocknPak
    @RocknPak 12 лет назад

    @RussX5Z One has to realize that Asperger's is less the inability to care for others than the struggle to express that ability to care. I would not say that Asperger's syndrome has any correlation to selfishness, at least not more than NTs. While it may seem as if the man who spends his days and years indoors in the process of creation is egotistical and aloof with his introversion, without such a man you could not read this message. Such a gift is not selfishness.

  • @Phillip3348
    @Phillip3348 12 лет назад

    Agree Dr Attwood saying: "You don't suffer from Aspergers, You suffer from other people" Our problems mentally and emotionally stem from people's ignorance and lack of understanding of what's it like to be different. People with Asperger's syndrome should be seen as unique, a gift, not a disease or a burden to society as every one has different problems so they turn to their expert interests just to escape from the burdens and unhappiness delivered by the big wide world.

  • @geoffreyefloyd
    @geoffreyefloyd 12 лет назад

    I have aspergers and while at one time i wished i didn't have it so I could fit in with people, be popular, get invited to parties and get laid a lot...luckily I soon realized how HUGE a waste of time those things are and how gifted and special I am for being able to dedicate hours and hours to things that I have a passion for. I can safely say I'm happy being a loner and im grateful to be able to do things that few others can...including playing jazz guitar which I love, watch my video :)

  • @AussieAspie
    @AussieAspie 13 лет назад

    @PhilMyBod41 I turned it into a fight, really. Who's the one who has done nothing but sing his own praises, his fighting record, his psych problems and how he wants revenge against the world who wronged him? Yes, I got angry at someone making an all-encompassing statement about Aspergers, but it's you who've been always escalating this with talk of a physical confrontation. Goodbye my friend, I'm sick of this chest-beating exercise.

  • @AussieAspie
    @AussieAspie 13 лет назад

    @PhilMyBod41 I can assure you I sidestepped nothing - thank-you for making yourself seem like the only Aspie ever picked on or beaten up - but my abuse had nothing to do with me and everything to do with the abusers. Asperger's is not something I 'have' or 'suffer', it's WHO I AM...and I like who I am. If you or the bullies back in school don't like me, fine, but why should I rate my self-worth based on the opinions of arseholes???

  • @helimax
    @helimax 12 лет назад

    Historically accurate? Please, no offense mate but do take it somewhere else. The appeal to authority is the weakest logical falacy you can pull out in any argument.... that said I read a famous textbook written by the best and more amazily scientist/historian/surfer/artist in the world who said your historians are full of sh*t.... yes its basically the same. deal with it

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    And if any Aspie here is upset what I just sad. Don't worry because I have ADHD and I pretty much will struggle with that for the rest of my life (even though I'm on my own treatment and program). By the way I say all this because I know 2 people personally that has Aspergers and one of them happen to be a former close friend of mine.

  • @farmostaspie
    @farmostaspie 13 лет назад

    Rejection massively reduces IQ. Particularly in HFA’s. My life’s story. I have always known things I’m not suppose to know. No one taught any of it to me it’s just there. I realize now it’s an all knowing place that we are all apart of. I’m connected, your not. Why should I be belittled for something you lack?

  • @84Drumcircle
    @84Drumcircle 12 лет назад

    No real knowledge will come from anything unless you understand and comprehend on many levels what you are reading. I could disagree with every religion but be able to find truths of life in many of them. To disagree with this, in my opinion, is a form of ignorance.

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    I guess you made a good point. And I'm sorry if my comment came off a bit offensive. Anyways you mentioned cerebral myopia? Now what is that by the way? And I'm pretty sure I don't have that disability! LOL! I have just basic ADHD and a little bit of anxiety here. =)

  • @DaithiDublin
    @DaithiDublin 14 лет назад

    Dr. Attwood is very articulate about AS, but I worry about 'sexing up' the syndrome. The movie Rainman made people expect every autistic person to be a card counting genius, which they aren't. (and Kim Peek, the inspiration for the movie wasn't even autistic, he had FG syndrome)
    Attwood continually mentions Aspies having 'special interests' and being the best in the world at something and that obviously can't be true. There's more than one Aspie interested in the Titanic/Cosmology/Computers...

  • @ASDmommyof2
    @ASDmommyof2 14 лет назад

    @Tricianne7 - Its ok, embrace it. I have 2 kids with autism 1 is more server non-verbal and 1 is aspergers and 2 of the best kids in world. Each day they teach more than I can ever teach them in a lifetime.

  • @Michael-590
    @Michael-590 5 лет назад +1

    I am diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, but according to a doctor that my parents saw when I was younger, I am very borderline. I still have difficulty in picking up on more subtle forms of body language and verbal communication and I generally dislike making eye contact unless I am relaxed around someone or when I feel that it is necessary. I also have rather intense, narrow interests, and new and interesting subjects can keep me occupied for weeks or months at a time. Though they don't interfere with my daily life of course. Apart from that, a genius friend of mine commented once that I'm stupidly good at remembering things of interest to me.

  • @geoffreyefloyd
    @geoffreyefloyd 12 лет назад +1

    @GiftsofAutism yes clay rocks big time, im glad you realized how lucky we are to have researchers like Dr.Attwood telling it like it is :)

  • @Knowbody42
    @Knowbody42 11 лет назад

    You don't get to pick one thing and say "life is REALLY all about X" for *everyone*. People can and should choose their own interests.

  • @islandstarblanket
    @islandstarblanket 12 лет назад

    Perhaps that is why at 54 years old..I am one of the fastest women in the world in my age group. Now I understand.

  • @aspierants
    @aspierants  12 лет назад

    @RussX5Z - no real knowledge will come from any bible, hence reading it will not provide any one with more insight.

  • @MelyssaAKASkittlez
    @MelyssaAKASkittlez 12 лет назад

    NT's will never really understand the mind of an aspie, but they could at least try. Sadly, most don't bother.

  • @noncompliant4316
    @noncompliant4316 2 года назад

    The information was helpful, but the other 85%+ of flashing images and music/noise was immensely offputing.

  • @beefter11
    @beefter11 3 года назад

    having been in the world a good while; why would you want to be like the average human? As life goes on, you certainly do suffer from other people. The average is mundane, mediocre, conformal, apathetic, trite. Best be different, special, worthwhile, unique. Best tell those that aren't to f off.

  • @7universes
    @7universes 14 лет назад

    so people who become experts and successful at something are sick.. you fuckin kidding me

  • @Tricianne7
    @Tricianne7 14 лет назад

    this made me have tears in my eyes as my son might have this. ???????????

  • @lietajucevajceulejmi7264
    @lietajucevajceulejmi7264 11 лет назад

    Hawlly shit this is like a big commercial marketing asperger.

  • @Marty17762
    @Marty17762 13 лет назад +1

    This is Awsome!!!!! Have to have this movie !!!!

  • @thedirtysouth1122
    @thedirtysouth1122 13 лет назад

    @GabrielleBryden dot feel sorry in ways we look up at him

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 11 лет назад

    In fact its beyond the bible, its just general humanity.

  • @angelastoddard
    @angelastoddard 12 лет назад

    The Bible can help us remember that we are loved & can help us remember how to love. There are many talents; shepherding or caring for others is one but NOT the only one that is of value. We are EACH of immeasurable worth. (The rejected one is the keystone.) Be careful: The words of Scripture can be and often are used deceptively, for evil purposes. The best any of us can do is learn LOVE. Seeing through the eyes of love (analysis is a secondary, not primary, tool) is how to see clearly.

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    Huh?? You're not making much sense here. First you say you don't believe in the bible and than you go on explaining yourself about the professor and historian agreeing with jrig123's comment about the accuracy of the bible, like you find it amusing. And then you end your sentence with ... not at all??? What?? You sure have a nonsensical way of sarcasm or should I say a disagreement??

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    And if you have Aspergers you're unable to care for someone emotionally (as a whole) which can become a problem in the long run and that's the reason why many people with Aspergers struggle socially and emotionally with acquaintances, co workers, friendships, and relationships. What I'm really trying to say is people with Aspergres will pretty much struggle in the real world. I hate to say this.

    • @sammiex3851
      @sammiex3851 2 года назад +1

      It's not the truth, I over care for the people I've been with. Its actually normal people that seem to have huge problems with how to care for others, alot of normal people seem to have this natural setting of being apathetic or harmful to others

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    @ma20101992 The reason is because human beings are meant to be social creatures. That is the norm, logically speaking. Humans are not meant to be alone and introverted. Do you know that lonely people die quicker than a person who has a healthy regular social life?

    • @toddybeer3071
      @toddybeer3071 6 лет назад

      lonely people flock to
      bibles and nonsense.
      like you 🔍

  • @aspierants
    @aspierants  15 лет назад

    unfortunately i can't. i only ripped this part after seen the movie and have no access to the movie anymore. maybe some other source can provide you with the whole film.

  • @heicKy
    @heicKy 15 лет назад

    does anyone know the name of the song??

  • @arsenelupin123
    @arsenelupin123 12 лет назад

    Sheldon Cooper?

  • @RealityMFiction
    @RealityMFiction 12 лет назад

    HAHA ROFL LMAO LOL THE BIBLE HAHAHAHA

  • @Vinhmgk98
    @Vinhmgk98 13 лет назад

    Nice vid learned mor about aspergers

  • @balloonrock
    @balloonrock 15 лет назад +1

    Thanks for posting this.

  • @xotheodorexo
    @xotheodorexo 11 лет назад

    Wait... I'm new to this video... How did a video about aspergers turn into a religious debate?

    • @toddybeer3071
      @toddybeer3071 6 лет назад

      exactly
      It happens
      every time
      🐑🐑🐑🐑

  • @aspierants
    @aspierants  12 лет назад

    @jrig123 try reading and/or listening to a respected historian like bart ehrman.
    bart ehrman is the james a. gray distinguished professor of religious studies at the university of north carolina, chapel hill, and is a leading authority on the new testament and the history of early christianity.
    you can find many debates and lectures with him here on youtube.
    he - nor many other scholars and historians - will agree with you that the bible is historically accurate… not at all.

  • @AspieAndy2012
    @AspieAndy2012 11 лет назад

    hey youtubers, if you go on google images and type in dale thomas who is an aussie rules footballer and then look up pictures of clay marzo you will see how identical they look to each other

  • @aspierants
    @aspierants  15 лет назад

    but that goes for NT's too...

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    It's not a gift, its a brain disorder/mental disabilty. It is what it is my friend.

    • @toddybeer3071
      @toddybeer3071 6 лет назад

      Russx5z...
      its 2018
      are you still
      believing in
      your opinions
      lol

  • @Nicola56
    @Nicola56 12 лет назад

    I like what Tony says here, it's about self understanding, and don't feel sorry for them applaud them : ) We are so conditioned to be and applaud extrovert traits that it's no wonder we get people being patronising toward us.

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 11 лет назад

    Yeah they sure can pick and choose what they want in life. But you know and I know that at the end of the day life "from a adult's perspective" Life as a whole is really all about PEOPLE. The truth is people are animals at the start but people are the most intelligent animals on this planet. Because MAN created almost everything on this planet.

  • @carriekelly1983
    @carriekelly1983 12 лет назад

    They are absolutely amazing to watch at work. My son has high functioning Aspergers and he is so articulate. He has coloured in between the lines at two. He makes train track circuits like an engineer. He is only 3 1/2 years old. We need Autistic peole in this world. Neorotypicals just need to find a way to understand them better. Just understanding the differences is so important for both.

  • @HorribleMuttonChops
    @HorribleMuttonChops 13 лет назад

    I've never heard anyone else other than Tony Attwood speak about ASD this way. Pretty amazing.
    "People will say 'people who suffer from Aspergers' - No, you don't suffer from Aspergers. You suffer from other people."
    "I want people to admire those with Aspergers syndrome. To say that it give syou talents. Don't feel sorry for them. Applaud them!"

  • @liljarvy
    @liljarvy 11 лет назад

    in the eyes of the bible

  • @barnacmongars
    @barnacmongars 12 лет назад

    I love being an aspie

  • @EasyDoesIt42O
    @EasyDoesIt42O 13 лет назад

    Anyone know the song ?

  • @patrickelliot8763
    @patrickelliot8763 4 года назад

    If only I had found my passion, my special thing. 50's and 60's just wasn't something to base a career on. I did so well in maths at Uni, but never found the same groove in IT, and while I ate actuarial exams for breakfast, I couldn't hold the concentration to function in the job, and it was the 1980s and nobody knew about ASD, Asperger Syndrome, HFA or even ADD.

  • @lucristianx
    @lucristianx 11 лет назад

    It must be my Autistic brain. But writing the story of someone rising from the dead 200 years after seems very suspect.

  • @RussX5Z
    @RussX5Z 12 лет назад

    Ha ha!! I guess.

  • @Knowbody42
    @Knowbody42 11 лет назад

    You go on making your silly assertion over and over again. If you repeat it enough times, it'll become true right?

  • @Knowbody42
    @Knowbody42 11 лет назад

    Oh, just somebody saying "yall should read the bible, then you'll understand what life is REALLY about"....

  • @martinhb12
    @martinhb12 12 лет назад

    Broken Arrow

  • @alexjack8377
    @alexjack8377 11 лет назад

    I wish I had the confidence and self-worth to beable to accept having aspergers as a gift and not a tragedy...

  • @MutilateYOU
    @MutilateYOU 14 лет назад

    I cried...

  • @trulychloe
    @trulychloe 12 лет назад

    Me too

  • @martinhb12
    @martinhb12 12 лет назад

    the song

  • @Knowbody42
    @Knowbody42 11 лет назад

    You did it again. You tried claiming "life is REALLY all about X" *for everyone*.
    No, not for everyone.

  • @tommychorman808
    @tommychorman808 15 лет назад +1

    what a great clip... Clay, you give us all hope with our boy.. Aloha

  • @bartjuhbeekmans
    @bartjuhbeekmans 8 лет назад

    Does anyone know the background music?

  • @pinecone4444
    @pinecone4444 14 лет назад

    Great informative video on autism / aspergers and Clay Marzo.

  • @LauraTeAhoWhite
    @LauraTeAhoWhite 12 лет назад

    I have aspergers, thanks for posting this and increasing awareness.

  • @barnacmongars
    @barnacmongars 12 лет назад

    Tony Attwood make a really great job about understand us

  • @donaldbrough207
    @donaldbrough207 4 года назад

    Clay’s a surf genius

  • @annetteboettner3435
    @annetteboettner3435 10 лет назад

    Bravo!

  • @jawafreak230
    @jawafreak230 9 лет назад

    Yes

  • @jasonmayne7655
    @jasonmayne7655 9 лет назад

    I suffer from Aspergers Syndrome and this video was extremely useless and quite inspirational I thought.
    Thank you

    • @zinqtable1092
      @zinqtable1092 8 лет назад

      +Jason Mayne Useless?

    • @ArcadeCabNBud
      @ArcadeCabNBud 8 лет назад

      Jason Mayne well if it inspired some one then it has use, no ?

  • @toddybeer3071
    @toddybeer3071 6 лет назад

    🏄🌅❤

  • @THEGREATMAX
    @THEGREATMAX 10 лет назад

    I've flapped my hands like that my entire life, every time I've gotten excited.

    • @kimglasser113
      @kimglasser113 10 лет назад

      WOW are sound VERY heartless...... You must be a very sad and lonely person,

    • @THEGREATMAX
      @THEGREATMAX 10 лет назад +2

      Kim Glasser I don't think I'm the person you were trying to respond to :P

    • @HereticalPuppy
      @HereticalPuppy 8 лет назад

      +THEGREATMAX lol