Suicide, Suicidal Thoughts, and dealing with Pain

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @MAGNAVIX
    @MAGNAVIX 9 лет назад +554

    This is instantly one of my favorite quotes ever.
    "So God, Fate, Nature, Random Chance, or whatever put your life on Hard Mode. Who gives a shit? Beat the game anyway."

    • @MAGNAVIX
      @MAGNAVIX 9 лет назад +8

      11:25

    • @Drenael_
      @Drenael_ 9 лет назад +4

      Dez Xanatos I was just thinking that same thing. Very profound.

    • @yoxxai3423
      @yoxxai3423 9 лет назад +3

      Dez Xanatos That literally made me cry.

    • @SDMF20
      @SDMF20 9 лет назад +8

      Dez Xanatos Easier said than done. If you don't lead a life of constant torture it very easy to say: Who gives a shit? With the suffering i'm going through i gladly welcome death. Unfortunately i'm only 29 years old and knowing my luck i'm going to have to wait a long time until the grim reaper comes my way. Maybe i'm going to have meet him halfway .

    • @savvaspetrou
      @savvaspetrou 9 лет назад +7

      SDMF20 Considering those words came from Boogie I think they really do hold some ground.

  • @jayj8142
    @jayj8142 8 лет назад +225

    I don't know why I'm depressed. I have no reason to be but I still am.

    • @deonwallace4109
      @deonwallace4109 8 лет назад +5

      OMG! i am feeling the same way!

    • @subway5907
      @subway5907 8 лет назад +30

      School makes me depressed.

    • @mar8014
      @mar8014 8 лет назад +15

      I know what you mean. There is a reason. Maybe you blocked it out, that happens to me.

    • @antimaterijaYT
      @antimaterijaYT 8 лет назад +2

      Please don't feel that way. There are people that love you and care about you. Speak to them about it. They WILL help you and give you a good pat on the back that sometimes can mean a world to you trust me. Out of every species that has ever walked on Earth, you were born as the most intelligent one and the most social one. And yeah, I started jogging and riding my bike. Helped me a lot. Do some sports, read some books, whatever may be your cup of tea, and you will feel much better. Hope I helped you! Cheers buddy!

    • @nejcalvoblanco
      @nejcalvoblanco 8 лет назад +5

      Who knows why you're depressed? I don't, but I know one thing: some of us have to TRY to be happy, because happiness isn't free. But if you've ever heard the phrase "the grass is always greener on the other side," then you can understand that negativity and sadness ARE free.
      Instead of saying "I don't know why I'm depressed. I have no reason to be but I still am," try saying "I know that this darkness is part of who I am, so how can I be happy despite it?"

  • @acathosh
    @acathosh 8 лет назад +35

    I've watched this video three times now...
    The reason i'm holding on is because i don't want to hurt my family or friends, but the thing he said about my life being put on hard mode in the end really cheered me up for a while.

  • @vaderanomaly1573
    @vaderanomaly1573 9 лет назад +239

    Life's on hard mode, beat the game anyway. Wise words indeed. I love you all.

    • @josephkoval5434
      @josephkoval5434 9 лет назад

      ***** I really liked that comment too.

    • @immrnoidall
      @immrnoidall 9 лет назад +2

      +Vader DICE words are just that ,words.they will not stop pain,only make you feel bad for sharing your pain with others.

    • @kit2250
      @kit2250 6 лет назад

      immrnoidall not true

    • @vaderanomaly1573
      @vaderanomaly1573 4 года назад

      @dksokfs ok

  • @TheBr00talhamster
    @TheBr00talhamster 8 лет назад +73

    How is he so composed when talking about his depression? I wouldn't be able to without crying.

    • @blaz3rin0
      @blaz3rin0 6 лет назад +17

      You kindve become a bit numb to it over time.

    • @tfgx341
      @tfgx341 5 лет назад +1

      @@blaz3rin0 💯

  • @rustymoves6989
    @rustymoves6989 9 лет назад +407

    Easily one of the best RUclipsrs I have ever come across.

    • @KikiTheHobo
      @KikiTheHobo 9 лет назад +2

      RustyMoves 69 Are you an old fan of Boogie, or are you just discovering his old videos? :) I have the same thoughts too.

    • @rustymoves6989
      @rustymoves6989 9 лет назад +6

      I've been subscribed to Boogie for a while now, and I find that his videos are inspiring to a certain degree, I mean, you see all these ultra famous RUclipsrs like Pewdiepie and Smosh, they have the fame, the money, they have everything, I feel that Boogie should be apart of that, I mean, if anyone deserves it, it would be him. His videos aren't fake or dull, but inspiring, and he says in a couple of his videos that he isn't exactly the brightest, but just from watching his videos, you can tell that isn't true, if anyone, he deserves to be one of the top RUclips channels. In my opinion.

    • @xxenterprisesxx
      @xxenterprisesxx 9 лет назад +1

      agreed

    • @TheNasher1993
      @TheNasher1993 8 лет назад +1

      +RustyMoves 69 agreed.i love his videos about various issues,he pours his heart in them,he's a great human being.

    • @NolaKida
      @NolaKida 7 лет назад +1

      The best, at least personality-wise

  • @JustJordanxD
    @JustJordanxD 11 лет назад +60

    I don't see a fat sack of turd i see someone who is strong and keeps going no matter what life throws at him, he keeps going. makes people happy. makes people laugh. And gives people hope, especially in this video... i respect u so much, i look up to u. you are my hero!

  • @daithimcnally8212
    @daithimcnally8212 8 лет назад +125

    Alright, who's chopping onions in the comments?

  • @jasond1268
    @jasond1268 9 лет назад +130

    Billions of people in the world and yet people are alone.

    • @vargasisking
      @vargasisking 9 лет назад +30

      An inability to connect with any of those people around you is what truely makes someone lonely. Just because you're surrounding by a bunch of people doesn't mean you're incapable of feeling alone....the key word is FEELING alone not BEING alone, HUGE difference, please understand that.

    • @ruthjones9608
      @ruthjones9608 9 лет назад +2

      Right I'm still sad at times

    • @justsomeawesomeperson6396
      @justsomeawesomeperson6396 7 лет назад +1

      i wish people left me alone, i could use a good few months to clear my messed up mind.

  • @craigmutumbi9083
    @craigmutumbi9083 9 лет назад +70

    Dude i honestly love you .

  • @tamarat5475
    @tamarat5475 9 лет назад +20

    This was beyond inspiring. I told my mother today that I need help because I have been seriously thinking of ways to end it. I suffer from depression, and I have been through a rough past years ago, but they only reason I want to end it is because I hate my exterior. I love my inner self, I know I
    am a good person, but when I look in the mirror I want to shut myself in my room and not come out, and sometimes that's the case. I need to learn to love myself, and I'm not sure how to do that, but this video spoke to me, you spoke to me. I'm not sure if anyone feels the way that I do, but knowing I am not alone makes me want to try. Thank you.

    • @jaggerzite7208
      @jaggerzite7208 9 лет назад +1

      What are you talking about you look extremely beutiful

    • @jaggerzite7208
      @jaggerzite7208 9 лет назад

      Beautiful*

    • @tamarat5475
      @tamarat5475 9 лет назад +1

      Your kind words really mean a lot. My picture was from a time I was partially comfortable in my skin. I'm trying to re-learn to love myself I guess you could say. But thank you Jagger Zitemidway

    • @cmc069
      @cmc069 5 лет назад +1

      Tamara T It’s been a few years, how are you?

  • @mressjaybee
    @mressjaybee 8 лет назад +16

    I mainly knew you as the Francis character before which I, to be honest, at first didn't get was a fictional character. Now I know I'm late to the party, seeing how this is a 4 year old video, but I stumbled upon a Huffpost article about you and I just wanted to give my respects to you for making videos on serious topics such as this and you got my sub. Thanks for being a good guy and sharing this, there are so many people suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts but for so long it has been something that hasn't been socially accepted to talk about or to show yourself vulnerable since everybody is "supposed" to project an image of strength and well-being. It's good to see that this trend is changing and that you are a part of that change. Keep on keepin on and my thoughts goes out to anybody who is watching this because they are having suicidal thoughts, I hope you find the strength within yourself to defeat it so that the sun can shine for you again.

  • @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS
    @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS 10 лет назад +81

    I've been dealing with depression for a few months now after another episode (I've had depression affect me for about 6 years), and I've been contemplating suicide again for the last week. This afternoon was spent watching videos on depression, and as an obsessed fan of your content, it's not surprising that this video made it to me as a suggestion.
    While the other videos did their job well enough, this video has re-sparked my excitement for life and living! I can't wait to resume some more revision and get my degree!
    Thank you Boogie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS
      @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS 10 лет назад +2

      I could always use more friends! 8D
      I take it you can relate to what I said.

    • @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS
      @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS 10 лет назад

      Hmm.. don't know why your life may suck where you are, but you say an awful lot of mean things to people on RUclips, from what I can see. Do you think it could be the way you treat people?

    • @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS
      @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS 10 лет назад +1

      I can't say I know much about American politics (borderline nothing in fact), but just the thought of living in an area with so many racists and discriminative people, literally makes me feels sick!
      Sorry if it came across that I judged you before, though I think you level of trolling is a bit on the extreme side, in my opinion at least. I mean, you said some horrible things about Mormons, and have told people to kill themselves. Surely as a Boogie fan, you should understand that level pain you're inflicting.
      I don't know, maybe it's just me. I mean I'm VERY sensitive to insults. I can't take a joke from even my closest friends without it upsetting me. We were all bullied in school, but either the level I took, or the way I took the bullying, affected me in a way that pranks, banter, and trolling seem nothing but cruel to me. So maybe you shouldn't listen to my opinion as I might not be the best judge, but I can't imagine everyone would disagree with me. I don't know, what do you think?

    • @samgriffin952
      @samgriffin952 9 лет назад +1

      Conor Langford dude i have the same thing but what gets me about these videos are that haters still hate when he is helping people through the hardest time in their lives

    • @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS
      @GRIMGORIRONHIDEROCKS 9 лет назад

      Sam Griffin
      I totally agree, but I find comfort in the (now) well known phase: "Haters Gonna Hate". When Haters hate, and Trolls troll, just know that whatever you're doing, this person was going to do it anyway. Like it was predestined.

  • @marcuspeterson8839
    @marcuspeterson8839 10 лет назад +14

    This is simply amazing. I've had depression, now for a few years, 6. I'm 18, it's not easy. Feeling so shitty when you wake up first thing in the morning, forcing yourself out of bed is hard. I get suicidal thoughts after the first 10 minutes of waking up. That's been 4 years, since that started to happen. I feel a lot of anger and pain, it's unbearable, to say the least. I struggle very hard keeping it under control. I'm in a very dark place, I know this and nothing or no-one has been able to help me so far..
    Eh.. Anyway, thanks for the video. Keep up the great work! :)

    • @harambe6248
      @harambe6248 4 года назад

      How have you been feeling recently

    • @mazrimazri6101
      @mazrimazri6101 3 года назад +1

      my life is exaclty the same as your life do u have a steam account you can add me?

  • @pogonoah99
    @pogonoah99 8 лет назад +218

    What's more selfish? Committing suicide, or forcing someone to live a lifetime of agony because you would be temporarily hurt if they left?
    We cannot consent to being born. I did not consent to being held hostage in this lifetime.

    • @GigaDonk99
      @GigaDonk99 8 лет назад +32

      +Noah Fence Just cause you're unhappy now, doesn't mean you'll never be happy in the future. You have no idea what the future holds. I'm not going to tell you suicide is the most selfish thing ever, but it is a way of throwing away any chance of you being happy in the future. You might think it's not worth fighting through the pain to get there, but I'm not talking about maybe seeing a good movie and feeling a bit of joy next week, I mean true happiness, being loved, having a good family and money and success, it's all possible, even if it doesn't seem to be now. I don't know what your situation is of course, but I certainly don't want you or anyone else to kill themself. I don't even know you, but I care anyway. There's always someone who cares. Remember that.

    • @GigaDonk99
      @GigaDonk99 8 лет назад +7

      Ninth Glaive You tell someone to kill themself, and then talk down to me? Do you have the downs or something?

    • @GigaDonk99
      @GigaDonk99 8 лет назад +2

      Ninth Glaive -.- You're not funny.

    • @c4_murloc782
      @c4_murloc782 8 лет назад +2

      If you refuse to accept help than feel free to have your own views on life.
      Just do us all a favor and DO NOT try and take others down with you

    • @GigaDonk99
      @GigaDonk99 8 лет назад +1

      ***** I know it's not selfish. I never said it was.

  • @Emulen2
    @Emulen2 10 лет назад +73

    you saved my life bro.. and i will be forever greatfull. thank you.

    • @SteveFusionX
      @SteveFusionX 10 лет назад +1

      ^^
      This video really... surprised me

    • @kit2250
      @kit2250 6 лет назад

      Vance Stone let's be!

  • @v0lky1
    @v0lky1 11 лет назад +32

    perfect people: pretty on outside and good on the inside.
    beautiful people: not pretty, but good on the inside
    ugly people: not good on the inside, no matter if you're hot or not. You're ugly.
    This man is beautiful.

  • @theeeddboyy6020
    @theeeddboyy6020 9 лет назад +22

    I'm not depressed, I'm not suicidal, but you are a good man. Thanks for posting this.

  • @ReverexedHDCompetitive
    @ReverexedHDCompetitive 10 лет назад +8

    Thank you Boogie. Everytime I feel like I'm going to relapse, or fall back into depression, you always hold me back up. The amount of gratitude I have towards you is immense and will always be so. I'm very thankful that you're here, and that I was able to find your channel. And I'm glad you're there for everyone else..

  • @Lefkara03
    @Lefkara03 10 лет назад +30

    Francis bro seriously, you're probably the most funny amazing youtuber I've seen on RUclips, you're the best, don't listen to what those haters say man, they're haters, they're jealous of how far you've come throughout your life, well done man, in my view, you're just amazing. :)

    • @voicebross
      @voicebross 10 лет назад +10

      his name is not Francis

    • @CoolNinja925
      @CoolNinja925 7 лет назад

      Lol his name is not francis

  • @livecoilarchive1458
    @livecoilarchive1458 3 месяца назад +17

    Before you became a monster...

    • @shallowwater
      @shallowwater 2 месяца назад +3

      He was always a monster. He just pretended he wasn't.

    • @Sithkiller
      @Sithkiller 14 дней назад +1

      @@shallowwaterwhich makes this even sadder….

  • @hermionejeangranger7881
    @hermionejeangranger7881 10 лет назад +16

    You just made me realise how wonderful life really can be, even though it does feel like shit now. Thank you so much for that.

  • @silversobe
    @silversobe 10 лет назад +115

    "If your life got put on hard mode, beat the game anyway"

    • @adu1991
      @adu1991 5 лет назад +1

      Yes....tell that to my grandmother who died at 71 years old, from cancer. Couldn't even go to the bathroom, get up from bed, or walk around by herself.
      Sometimes, in order to help people or make a significant change in the world....you have to get out of your own way.
      That's my advice to the person in this video and anyone who reads this.

  • @willbertthebloggers6427
    @willbertthebloggers6427 3 месяца назад +7

    This is the boogie I loved and miss dearly and wonder if the old Boogie is still in their

  • @miamidolphin3
    @miamidolphin3 11 лет назад +16

    I wish i had a friend like boogie shit i would do for any friend right now. But boogie your a good man and i hope to find a friend like you one day god bless you sir

  • @johnoliver183
    @johnoliver183 11 лет назад +4

    You sir , are a hero . I felt depressed ,suicidal for over 6 months now and somehow you managed to talk some sense into me by not going suicidal . I thank you from the bottom of my heart . You rock!!! .

  • @Goremachine
    @Goremachine 9 лет назад +216

    Suicide is the most selfish act I could perform? Good, it's about time I started indulging my own desires instead of giving in to what everyone else expects of me.

    • @jickdawmonelason7239
      @jickdawmonelason7239 9 лет назад +14

      selfishness is you composing text on youtube instead of spending your self conceited time helping others. self pity does not know a way out.. stop it.

    • @JaguerRhye
      @JaguerRhye 8 лет назад +45

      I don't believe suicide is the most selfish act. People who make such a claim likely have little idea how incredibly torturous life can become for some people. Or they are people who may have suffered immensely and now life is more bearable and maybe even enjoyable. People who assert that suicide is the most selfish act might mean well, but they risk aggravating the mood of the very people they are trying to help. One of the keys to helping people who are suffering is AFFIRMATION. And one can communicate affirmation to a person who is suicidal by not making light of their suffering in ANY way. Making the charge that they are being selfish may risk aggravating them further as it may make them feel as though people don’t fully grasp the immense agony they are going through.

    • @kelw5787
      @kelw5787 7 лет назад +6

      How can ending your own life even be considered selfish...

    • @RicardoMoralesMassin
      @RicardoMoralesMassin 7 лет назад +2

      +Alaya Vijnana +JaguerRhye Number one, please know more about Boogie before you run your mouths about "you don't know my suffering" ok? I don't know what any of you have been through but this guy has been through a LOT and he had actual reasons to check out. So cut that emo shit of "you don't know", because no matter how f' ed you are, if this is going to be a contest there are children in war zones and cancer wards that would like a word with you.
      And secondly I see your point about how it may be better to take it from another perspective and not saying suicide is selfish, but you can't deny it hurts others inmmensely amd does irreparable damage. That's a fact and there's no way around it. It hurts to listen to it, but it's there. And it's not just me saying it /watch?v=zvkbHIrrrvU

    • @youbestbequiet
      @youbestbequiet 6 лет назад +3

      That's a lie. It takes courage to do it. It goes everything you body tries to do which is survive. You may think it's not a good route but to say it's selfish is just ignorant and insulting to people that are in situations who have thought about it

  • @Geektoid
    @Geektoid 8 лет назад +2

    It's an old video, but your speech has touched me. I'm going through something right now and I'm not doing so well. But your videos have helped me, profusely, with dealing with that darkness I recently found myself in. No, the pain will never fully go away, but I can try and deal with it. And in trying I can start to live with it and heal. Like you said: "The truth of the matter is, maybe you are in a lot of pain. Maybe your situation really sucks---But, so what? God, or fate, or nature, or random chance put your life on hard mode. Who gives a shit? Beat the game anyway."
    Best quote I've heard in a long while. I love you brother, and I hope you'll speak with me again soon.

  • @Mulpti
    @Mulpti 10 лет назад +15

    This made me really reevaluate a lot of things thanks boogie great vid

  • @nebraskaho7742
    @nebraskaho7742 8 лет назад +26

    youre fucking inspirational .i love u man this made me cry

  • @simonlacelle1902
    @simonlacelle1902 2 года назад +3

    Bro, I went through that exact process. Accepting that I was ready to die and just going "well, if you're ready to die, why not try to enjoy what time you have left and try all the things you're scared of? Nothing matters anyways" was just so fucking liberating and allowed me to take control of my life again. I've had some rough patches since but never sank to that level. This video is immensely useful.

  • @vithagames350
    @vithagames350 8 лет назад +7

    This inspiring video helped me more than anything with my depression and suicidal thoughts. I thank you and applaud you. You are a life saver. Again thank you.

  • @J3f3R20n
    @J3f3R20n 11 лет назад +8

    I just saw an article on Kotaku about you some minutes ago....I never heard about you, but maaan, you are a good person...Really, it's good to see those kind of subject being discussed, it helps a lot.. So, thank you for your work and keep it up "Fighting The Good Fight" o/ I hope you can reach your goals...

    • @Raithatronic
      @Raithatronic 11 лет назад +3

      This is an old video, he's happily married and prospering on youtube.

    • @J3f3R20n
      @J3f3R20n 11 лет назад

      Yeah i know, but its the second vid form him that i saw... I really glad about him, specialy that invite by Sony to go to the lauch event...its really good something like that, to meet so much people that like his work...Outstanding.

  • @peter89013
    @peter89013 8 лет назад +17

    bless this man!

  • @ibo1137
    @ibo1137 8 лет назад +18

    I am so lonely. I don't really have friends. I never go out and i can't speak with anyone, and can't make friends. Life is hard.
    So straighten up little soldier!

    • @adu1991
      @adu1991 5 лет назад

      Yup. Saying that "Suicide is selfish" or "You'll transfer that pain to your family, and you should stay alive for them" seems like it contributes to the problem. It even seems like its aggravates the person who wants to do the act, even further.
      If you want to break the cycle of suicide... don't talk about how others will benefit from a person continuing to live.
      Listen to that person.
      Calling whoever wants to do the act, "selfish"...is continuing the problem that sadly happens all too often in the present day. Someone probably died as I typed this question.

  • @nutta646
    @nutta646 9 лет назад

    It is just inspiring to see that a human that lived trough so much pain is still around today.. Dont believe what other people think of you or say because YOU ARE A MILLION TIMES stronger than the average guy !!

  • @craigt2539
    @craigt2539 3 года назад +4

    Good advice man, I respect you for having the courage to share so much and hold on throughout it all in your life as well

  • @epsereth
    @epsereth 10 лет назад +5

    I appreciate the sentiments and your thoughts, and I am glad your mindset has worked for you. However, I disagree with nothing being worse than something. Sometimes I'd rather have oblivion than have to live one more day trapped in my own head. Frequently the idea of future potential isn't enough to make it worth it. I wish it were always as easy as looking forward to feeling better.

  • @baldeaguirre
    @baldeaguirre 10 лет назад +12

    you're an inspirational person.

  • @AmberShort
    @AmberShort 9 лет назад

    Going through your videos Boogie and I happen to stumble upon this one. Sorta brings back memories of my hardship years ago. But I like how you say that everyone's life difficulty is set different. Some have their life mode on easy and others have it on expert. If one can beat the game of life on hard mode, then they don't have to prove anything. I lost my sister at the start of the century to a drunk driver and the pain of that loss still lingers in me. One can cope with it but like you said, those memories still can come back to haunt you. Being depressed and having anxiety didn't make things much better for me. But more than 10 years later, I did with what I could to make it through my life and I couldn't be any more happier. While the depression is gone and the anxiety, the loss of my sister certainly will never be gone but I cope and remember the good things we once did. And where ever she is now, I know that she is smiling for the things I have done in my life.

  • @oceejay5148
    @oceejay5148 8 лет назад +8

    God bless you Boogie. I love you. thank you x

  • @NatalyG73
    @NatalyG73 10 лет назад +9

    You're wonderful and inspiring! Thanks for that!

  • @pokerboy927
    @pokerboy927 10 лет назад +9

    this guy got an beautifull mind and an lovely personality, i just want to hug him :(

  • @johnelwell1707
    @johnelwell1707 Год назад +1

    You're a very great person. I admire your strength. My brother was tormented and tortured growing up all three school because he was different. But now he has a fiance and the house with her and I'm so happy for him. Meanwhile I was the what you would say popular one that had the girlfriends and played the sports. Not to sound conceited but I have always been considered handsome. I'm tall. I'm thin. Yet I struggled with depression bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder most of my life. I've never been closer to checking out early then I have this year. Listening to this man has helped me a great deal. There's a lot to live for. I'd rather have this known than the unknown. Beat the f****** game

  • @SomeGuy0192
    @SomeGuy0192 10 лет назад +32

    he looks very young for 38

    • @jons4934
      @jons4934 6 лет назад +1

      Makes sense to me.. Not commuting through pollution everyday to go to a 9 hour work shift lol, come home and drink/ smoke from the stress etc. Some people work 12-14 hour shifts.. I'm not putting him down i'd love to make YT videos for the cash.

    • @adu1991
      @adu1991 5 лет назад

      Joran Jevtic He looks even younger now, in his 40s.

  • @S.Formo75
    @S.Formo75 10 лет назад +9

    Thank you. You're awesome.

  • @jacobswolfgirl112
    @jacobswolfgirl112 10 лет назад +5

    This is a beautiful video, thank you so much for taking time to make this. This helped me in so many ways.

  • @nickguy1374
    @nickguy1374 10 лет назад +1

    Boogie2988, you're amazing. You're insperasional I know this is a pretty long time after you posted this video but man. I very much understand the things you say in this video. I respect the fact of thousands of people giving negative thoughts about you and you still continue to post videos and be one of the best youtubers on this planet. You sir have almost 2 million people subsribed to you're channel and beleive me that is so much love and kindness of people that there is no reason for you every Getting suicidal. Boogie If I knew you In real life I would love to meet you and be you're friend You're just a gift. Thank you so much for posting theese videos and other funny ones. You're a GOD.

  • @EpicGamerCat
    @EpicGamerCat 11 лет назад +23

    I just started watching your videos. I love them. I just read comments saying how fat you are. Who cares? You are unique. You are special. If they cant see that, then they're the ones who need to die. Not you.

    • @Rdpsurrey
      @Rdpsurrey 11 лет назад +4

      fucking rights the fluffy dude is awesome :P

  • @ironsight9818
    @ironsight9818 8 лет назад +20

    My eyes are just sweaty

  • @bizzatch926
    @bizzatch926 10 лет назад +8

    Youre a beautiful person my dude! Your intelligence is motivating.

  • @Krosstic
    @Krosstic 6 лет назад

    I’ve been going back and watching these videos I’ve never seen before and I’ve gotta say, you’re words are impactful.

  • @zachariastaylor1375
    @zachariastaylor1375 11 лет назад +5

    Wow this is really emotional and inspirational. Although I might not be suicidal, this is very amazing. :)

  • @soulshackles2242
    @soulshackles2242 10 лет назад +13

    I really dislike it when some people say "suicide is selfish" because there's so much hypocrisy in that statement. Why the fuck should I stay in this world just so other people won't get upset themselves? Why should I stay here with suffering anguish and pain just so someone close to me doesn't get hurt? In a way they're being selfish too because they want someone to be alive and suffer just so they can live happily knowing they're here. That's a big load of bullshit and hypocrisy, they're just as selfish as the person who's contemplating suicide. Some people say that so easily without understanding what the fuck they're going through. (You're an exception though, Francis. and I respect you.)

    • @Womp084
      @Womp084 4 года назад

      I know I'm 6 years late to this, and idk if you even still believe this, I just want to say this anyways. It's selfish because it's always the wrong option. If you listen to Boogie he explains, you have so much time left and you don't know what's going to happen, why would you cut your life short, and transfer the pain you feel right now to the people that care about you, just because of the slim chance chance you MIGHT still feel this pain for the remainder of your life?

  • @sk8_bort
    @sk8_bort 11 лет назад +24

    This channel really changes you and makes you think. Most people discover it through one of the "Francis" videos, so they are just laughing at some stupid fat guy. Then they watch more of the channel and realise that Francis is only a fictional character, and they meet the wise, admirable person behind it. That's the moment that makes you reflect on many things in life. That man taught me a lesson about preconceptions and sympahty among other stuff, and now I feel like a terrible person.

    • @CFCipher
      @CFCipher 10 лет назад

      Preconception, isn't that the fucking word. Cheers...

  • @hubweezycarter6655
    @hubweezycarter6655 7 лет назад

    I'm dealing with depression an anxiety which have lead me to have some disturbing thoughts that I would rather not say. But your right we aren't certain of what's after this life something is better than nothing. The truth is everyone who's suicidal doesn't want to end it but everyday just seems like a repeat of each day getting worse. It's not easy but for my daughter I want to do it because if I'm suffering from mental illness what affects will it have on here growing up without a father. This isn't the only video I've seen about depression and negative thoughts some days are better and some u just want to give up I love my daughter idk what I'd do without her she's my hope and faith. God bless u Bro and keep up the inspiration.

  • @marcsavastio1961
    @marcsavastio1961 11 лет назад +4

    "Maybe your life's on hard mode - who gives a shit, beat the game anyway" That gave me goose bumps and I'm going to remember that for a long, long time - you're a good man

  • @HighIvan
    @HighIvan 2 года назад +2

    Boogie thank you for this. You have helped me throughout the years so much. I can’t thank you enough for helping me through some of my darkest times

  • @NSIII
    @NSIII 6 лет назад +3

    This will always be my favorite youtube video ever

  • @DeviateAvenger
    @DeviateAvenger 10 лет назад +1

    Boogie, I emailed you a few months back about me going through some depression and you responded, and I wanted to thank you for the advice. It has really a large impact on my life, thank you for all that you do and thanks for the reassurance that everything will be okay.

    • @burgerking2242
      @burgerking2242 5 лет назад

      Hope you are doing well with your self.

  • @mufcmatt9556
    @mufcmatt9556 10 лет назад +6

    Love you boogie! I can relate to all of this. You're a real hero and brightened my day! ; )

  • @badwolf66
    @badwolf66 3 месяца назад +11

    Well this has aged like milk!

  • @michaeldavidson5650
    @michaeldavidson5650 9 лет назад +4

    boogie im so messed up right now ive been doing some hardcore drugs lately. my life is just falling apart slowly..ive been up for 2 days now,I just some words that would help me through the dark period of my life sorrry guys take care

    • @jakob...
      @jakob... 9 лет назад

      I'm sorry u are going through this

    • @michaeldavidson5650
      @michaeldavidson5650 9 лет назад

      I'm doing a lot better been clean for a few days, I guess that's good

  • @eagsdaman1772
    @eagsdaman1772 9 лет назад

    Hey man, I'm not Suicidal, but I have been mildly lonely and kinda depressed lately, but I really love the message you sent out with your video, and agreed with everything you said and I'm glad you are helping people out, another thing is that your video really inspired me to want to help out suicidal people myself.

  • @PapaBigDoinks
    @PapaBigDoinks 10 лет назад +8

    ''So fate put your life on hard mode. Who gives a shit, beat the game anyway.'' As a gamer I gotta say that is an awesome way to look at life when it gets tough :)

  • @dyslexicisme
    @dyslexicisme 8 лет назад +14

    I hope you go to Heaven. 😔

  • @wearelegion5533
    @wearelegion5533 8 лет назад +3

    Boogies. your video helped me. was in a very bad way. seeing this video gave me hope

  • @XFoxTrot
    @XFoxTrot 6 лет назад

    It's been many years and I still come back to these videos..I just don't know where to begin anymore

  • @ohswapp7420
    @ohswapp7420 11 лет назад +30

    I'd love to meet you

  • @cosmokramer179
    @cosmokramer179 8 месяцев назад +13

    Take one good look folks. This is the Boogie2988 we used to know. Now he’s just a sad, pathetic joke

    • @damondriver6363
      @damondriver6363 5 месяцев назад

      Hes always been a pathetic joke, he was just hiding it here

  • @The_King_Kaden
    @The_King_Kaden 5 лет назад +4

    I needed to see this video before. But really glad I did. Boogie I know you probably won't see this but this really helps people. Or atleast helped me. I wish you made more videos like this now a days. Thank you so much for making this!

    • @boogie2988
      @boogie2988  5 лет назад +2

      I saw it. Thank you for choosing to stay. It gets better. I promise. Even if it doesnt death is inevitable. So just try to have fun ok?

    • @The_King_Kaden
      @The_King_Kaden 5 лет назад

      @@boogie2988 wow! I really can't believe it. I also try to it's hard most days but I know there's a light in the darkness. And I really can't thank you enough for replying to me it means so much more than you could think. I've always looked up to you. Thank you Boogie!

    • @The_King_Kaden
      @The_King_Kaden 5 лет назад

      Also I want to help people that go through this pain.

    • @The_King_Kaden
      @The_King_Kaden 5 лет назад

      Sorry for so many replies still in some shock. I've been watching you for 7 or 8 years when I was about 11. Anyways the way I want to help others is by film and story telling. I don't know how well that will go but I'm gonna do it regardless. Again for the last time thank you,you made my day

  • @BehemothSuper
    @BehemothSuper 9 лет назад

    Out of everything I've been exposed to about suicide, this video has helped me the most. Steve, I want to thank you for changing people's lives. You've definitely helped me today and for days to come. Thanks again.

  • @zlogist
    @zlogist 8 лет назад +14

    I don't know if it's selfish. I've been struggling with it for ten years now, almost half of my life. And i've come to a point where i don't feel hapiness anymore. It feels as if i'm broken. The only thing i ever feel is pain. Right now i don't have ANY friends. People i talk to from time to time but who don't care about me and i barely know. I can't seem to get close to anyone but my heart still screams for affection, tenderness, friendship,.... Every night i cry and i don't think about doing it, i just hurt so much inside, i cry, i scream but it won't fucking go away no matter what i do and in theses moments, i can barely breathe. When it happens every single day of your life, you go mad. I'm tired, so so tired. I don't have any more strength. And i'm beginning to think that the people around me are selfish for wanting me to keep living and hurting this way. I don't have any dreams, anything i want to do, i'm just an empty shell. Is it even worth trying?

    • @LuisGarcia-fg9ky
      @LuisGarcia-fg9ky 8 лет назад

      +Ochi Dude Maybe you have your friends because you are a little bit to winy and a depressive person....Fuck i will be your friend if you want to....But stop complaining that is kind of a mood killer AND stop exagerating man really its not that bad see?

    • @wayla683
      @wayla683 8 лет назад +1

      +Un nombre de usuario shidongongo sabrozongo 9000 You've got to be one of the most ignorant people on the internet if you're just gonna say that depression ''isn't that bad''.

    • @LuisGarcia-fg9ky
      @LuisGarcia-fg9ky 8 лет назад

      Wayla Sorry let me explain myself i meant that is treatable and with Profesional help it isnt that baf

    • @wayla683
      @wayla683 8 лет назад +1

      Un nombre de usuario shidongongo sabrozongo 9000 That's not how it goes. A depressed person isn't all the sudden going to become happy if he or she gets to know that they are going to get professional help. It might be treatable, but that doesn't mean it's just a small thing that should always be taken lightly.

    • @LuisGarcia-fg9ky
      @LuisGarcia-fg9ky 8 лет назад +1

      Wayla I Apologize if it looked that way but i was a depressed person myself and is was rough but with help and the right miindset im happy. Sorry if i ofended you

  • @RealPoi
    @RealPoi 8 лет назад +27

    People need to stop joking about suicidal thoughts. It's a serious topic. So, stop joking.

    • @jeremyanderson3615
      @jeremyanderson3615 5 лет назад

      True especially when you’re on the receiving end of those thoughts. People need to take a moment and put themselves in the shoes of an individual who might be having those thoughts. What might they be feeling that would drive them to want to commit suicide

    • @dondonfilms2005
      @dondonfilms2005 4 года назад

      A guy on reddit declared suicide is officially funny just 2 minutes ago.

    • @francinesanders6175
      @francinesanders6175 3 года назад

      💯💯

  • @thegoodjinn8065
    @thegoodjinn8065 8 лет назад +7

    this is a good guy...thanks for the pick up.

  • @DreamCocoa
    @DreamCocoa 10 лет назад

    I was never suicidal but recently I had some terrible shit, like really terrible and is still being in big depression. And suicide came to my mind and every time I stopped myself and huge part of it apart from friends are these vids and video games. I've never thought that I can be in such a situation but here I am and now I understand that anyone can end up in this situation when you just don't want to live. So, I just want to say thank you.

  • @TOCCL
    @TOCCL 6 лет назад +6

    This is possibly the best video on youtube.

  • @JaguerRhye
    @JaguerRhye 8 лет назад +4

    People who assert that suicide is the most selfish act might mean well, but they risk aggravating the mood of the very people they are trying to help. One of the keys to helping people who are suffering is AFFIRMATION. And one can communicate affirmation to a person who is suicidal by not making light of their suffering in ANY way. Making the charge that suicide is the most selfish act may risk aggravating them further as it may make them feel as though people don’t fully grasp the immense agony they are going through.
    Yes, many people do indeed learn to cope with their suffering and end up becoming a success and maybe end up with millions of subscribers on youtube. But many others do not cope well and life can become increasingly more and more torturous for them, especially if they have little hope of the pain going away.
    Suicide is not right, but it is understandable in light of the immense torment some people are left to contend with. I would never tell a person to kill themselves, but I'm extremely careful to never charge them with the idea that suicide is the most selfish act as, even if it's true, such a charge may risk inflaming their misery even more. And that is something the person considering suicide likely doesn't need.

  • @N9neGod
    @N9neGod 10 лет назад +5

    wow , thank's alot for this video

  • @lewismartin4306
    @lewismartin4306 8 лет назад +1

    Boogie I watch your videos and its so comforting to see someone who I can see knows what these mental disorders are. It means a great deal to me, thank you.

  • @alastairpearce3078
    @alastairpearce3078 5 лет назад +3

    I don’t get bullied anymore but going to school is a fucking pain

    • @unitgamex2972
      @unitgamex2972 4 года назад

      Same bro. I have learned to fight and win.

  • @bloodyhellism
    @bloodyhellism 10 лет назад +3

    Well said boogie. Thank you :)

  • @warhawks8358
    @warhawks8358 10 лет назад +4

    For anyone that sees this comment you are here for a reason, you are meant for someone and you just have to find that someone that your kent for. Ignore people that are negative to you and think about people and thoughts that make you feel better

  • @dl_0002
    @dl_0002 10 лет назад +3

    all very well put!

  • @AtlantaJule
    @AtlantaJule 8 лет назад +3

    thank you for this video

  • @spluff5
    @spluff5 11 лет назад +8

    I dislike how now comments with the most response become top comments.

  • @the2minecrafters762
    @the2minecrafters762 10 лет назад

    U r the most inspirational person alive and I think u made everyone watching this video almost cry or actually cry and also never let yourself down and always rise to things that will make u happy so no one tells u who u r or what u do

  • @Russiancow602
    @Russiancow602 10 лет назад +3

    My sister is a psychologist and she hast to run a suicidal hotline and she's saved lives

  • @flarifairi
    @flarifairi 4 года назад +4

    I mean nobody says cancer is selfish. Why do you say depression and suicide is selfish. We don’t choose to die from cancer as well as we don’t choose to be sick from depression. This is one of the reasons I actually have anxiety and can’t express my feelings properly. “You live better than kids in Africa”. “It’s selfish of you to behave like that”. It makes pain invalid and actually intensifies it with guilt. I can’t control my brain chemicals as much as I can’t control catching a cold. Why are you guys so critical towards those who commit suicide. It’s not selfishness that drives it. It’s the suffering as in any illness.

    • @user-qm3yy5mh8l
      @user-qm3yy5mh8l 3 года назад

      That and for some people its not just the illness or illness at all. It is logic for a lot of the time

  • @jacobking1131
    @jacobking1131 10 лет назад +6

    I think I'm just not even going to watch these vids anymore. Mostly because the amount of hate just because of his looks in the comment section is disgusting. Really makes you look at people differently if they can just slam somebody for their appearance rather than who they are just because they feel like it. smh

  • @s871-c1q
    @s871-c1q 10 лет назад +1

    His points are logical and well put. I am a chronic suicidal who has also been deeply affected by suicide in my life. Even though they are illogical and I can work them through in my head, I'm still wracked by them. The problem here is that logic is just ineffective. I have thought about a lot of the points he brought up throughout my life and have oft concluded that not only is suicide illogical, there is no reason for it that cannot be countered with argument. For example, thinking about wanting the pain to end yet knowing you will never again feel anything.
    Yet here I am, equipped with the experience and knowledge to break the cycle, still failing in doing so. I guess my main point is that we are made illogical by our emotions.

  • @jaybrick8973
    @jaybrick8973 2 года назад +2

    The world has only gotten worse as time goes on

  • @TheAllMightyWolf
    @TheAllMightyWolf 10 лет назад +4

    1 Thing about what he said that you should accept that you're going to die, and yes you really should, when I was 13 I would worry and get upset about it now I just try and stop thinking about it and yes it can be hard for some people, but if you don't accept it and you live your life in fear of death then its going to be a very depressing life.

  • @danielhill8222
    @danielhill8222 9 лет назад

    I have been wrestling with the notion of suicide for a long time I just go back and forth but boogie you are a true inspiration you give me hope, the amount of crap you have had to deal with you are a dam trooper I wish you the best of luck

    • @KikiTheHobo
      @KikiTheHobo 9 лет назад

      Daniel Hill Dont just go back and forth, but please, stop with the suicidal thinking! May Boogie give you enough inspiration and motivation to keep your head up :)

  • @tryinndyin6824
    @tryinndyin6824 11 лет назад +4

    Belinda marshall, you shouldn't just start throwing out opinions at boogie he has lost 60 something pounds in a year he is trying to lose weight and has a wife and almost a million subscribers watch his draw my life video and then start talking shit. Boogie you are amazing keep doing what you're doing don't let anyone get in your way

  • @Professorkenneth
    @Professorkenneth 2 года назад +3

    Good point about death man...👍🏻💯

  • @shadowspeedx8585
    @shadowspeedx8585 7 лет назад +4

    No one can help me, if I'm going to kill myself I will, these feelings I hear you talking about make me not want to live. I'll be dead, not missed
    No more pain. Yes unknown, death. Life is hell.

  • @spartanJared91
    @spartanJared91 2 года назад +1

    I've been subscribed to you for a long while, but Iam just now coming across this video, but it will for sure help me and others who come across it go a long way! Thank you for this Boogie.🙂

  • @superioricebear2975
    @superioricebear2975 5 лет назад +3

    All it takes is one bad day to reduce the sanest man alive to lunacy

  • @NobodyHere44
    @NobodyHere44 2 года назад +2

    I'm tired of taking all these medications for my mental illness and im tired of being in the crisis hospitals for weeks at a time🤦‍♂️