What Unconscious Things Are Affecting Your Relationship?
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- On today’s episode, Steph & Craig discuss what came up for them after episode 18, • The Connection Between... , with trauma expert @TimFletcher
If you haven’t yet, be sure to go back and listen to the last episode, The Connection Between Complex Trauma, Codependency, & Narcissism with Tim Fletcher.
• The Connection Between...
Steph & Craig share their big takeaways from the episode and what they’ve been processing since.
They also open up and share personal stories about their relationship and what it was like trying to navigate some of the most difficult and toxic times.
If you’re struggling with codependency or trying to figure out how to make it still work after surviving really difficult things in your relationship, you’re going to want to listen.
It’s a raw and vulnerable episode discussing shame, narcissism, complex trauma, codependency, infidelity, childhood abuse, addiction, and much more.
Join Steph & Craig as they share the reality of what it’s really been like navigating these hard issues and what ended up helping them stay together in the end.
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Disclaimer:
We’re just sharing our journey with you. We’re not licensed therapists, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Cool? Good deal. We’ll see you soon.
In this episode:
00:00 Introduction and the Influence of Society on Love
18:36 Codependency and Complex Trauma in Relationships
26:18 The Dance Between Narcissism and Co-Narcissism
32:11 Addressing Personal Baggage and Childhood Wounds
34:20 Understanding the Fear of Abandonment
35:14 Patterns and Cycles in Codependent Relationships
38:26 Unconscious Behaviors and the Role of Trauma
45:08 Healing, Setting Boundaries, and Unpacking Baggage
50:44 The Addiction to Chaos and the Fear of Calmness
57:31 Understanding the Neurochemical Processes in Complex Trauma
01:04:58 Expecting the Best and Planning for the Greatest
Expect the best. Plan for the greatest. 
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Great open, conversation ! I love how open you both are to model what & how you both are looking/attempting/working on healing through. You both seem to really be attempting to implement change & model it, showing anyone watching that we sure don’t have to be all “healed & perfect” to begin to have these conversations. Wonderful follow up to the conversation you had with Tim…. What a beautiful example of how to converse & share esp. when it comes to addressing the hard stuff, the programming, the exposures that make us tick as people & what we bring to relationships…this is my second podcast from ya’ll & I look forward to going through your other conversations.
Please keep these wonderfully open conversations coming!
@@jenniekotoff6772 thank you, thank you, thank you! Such kind words. We do our best to show up and share what's really going on for us in hopes it helps others so it's wonderful to hear this. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you for watching!
My life experiences were similarly to yours. Caused a lot of pain to myself, wife and family. Until i began becoming aware. Everything started to make sense. Now i am on the journey of healing and healing wounded relationships as far as possible.
Way to go, that takes a lot of accountability and hard work. 👋
Also, I’m going to start using that clarifier, “not to blame shame, just to explain.”
@@jenniekotoff6772 Right! It's such a good clarifier. We use it all the time.
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So good.
@@gisellelawrence1817 isn't it!! 🫶🏼
Thank you for your wonderful podcast
@@jacqui6153 Thanks so much for watching. 🙏🏼🙏🏼