The 3 Rules to Become a Gray Man

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2016
  • There will be times when you need to avoid being noticed to avoid conflict. Being a "Gray Man" helps preventing making an impression which can help you survive.
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  • @CityPrepping
    @CityPrepping  6 лет назад +605

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    • @benjaminbong9214
      @benjaminbong9214 6 лет назад +5

      City Prepping first

    • @urinalbushrat
      @urinalbushrat 6 лет назад +16

      I was just going to wear a ninja suit.

    • @haminhnghia2964
      @haminhnghia2964 6 лет назад +1

      Ho Chi Minh*

    • @gravityhero640
      @gravityhero640 6 лет назад +19

      City Prepping I'm not sure if I consider it a good thing, or a bad thing I've inadvertently been a "gray man" my entire adult life; not even knowing what that was until I found your video.😂

    • @pikudopikao8425
      @pikudopikao8425 6 лет назад +13

      This is a survival skill. Selling crap.

  • @gewgulkansuhckitt9086
    @gewgulkansuhckitt9086 6 лет назад +9406

    Me and my fellow Gray Men had a Gray Pride parade. Nobody noticed.

  • @Tempusverum
    @Tempusverum 7 лет назад +6678

    "Blend in so much that no one even remember seeing you." I've been a Grey Man my entire life and didn't even know it.

    • @DieWorm
      @DieWorm 7 лет назад +153

      You've been training your entire life.
      BECOME THE GREY MAN.

    • @Tempusverum
      @Tempusverum 7 лет назад +69

      Remember My Face
      I shall remember that face...

    • @rithwikprajwal5979
      @rithwikprajwal5979 7 лет назад +6

      Remember My Face

    • @thetravelinghermit
      @thetravelinghermit 7 лет назад +13

      Robert Olin Forever alo---, er, Forever grey

    • @thetravelinghermit
      @thetravelinghermit 7 лет назад +3

      YAZEED ABUSULTAN ...Yeah, I think that was one of those subtleties of English that really only work with native speakers...

  • @silasthedudeman427
    @silasthedudeman427 3 года назад +1568

    When you grow up with abusive parents you learn to become a grey man real fast

    • @kathygwizdala3858
      @kathygwizdala3858 3 года назад +36

      🥺

    • @Sigmar_Heldenhammer
      @Sigmar_Heldenhammer 3 года назад +71

      Yeah, it’s a sad fact that I agree and can relate too.

    • @barriereid9244
      @barriereid9244 3 года назад +73

      My mother was the reason I took up karate at age 12. I would have done sooner but there was no club nearby. Fifty years on, four different styles, I am faster now than I was as an 18 year old. 90% of military in the UK comprises of people just like me and you. I was lucky though, I joined the reservists as a medic (ITU nurse) with the 🇬🇧Paras. As a consequence of my life, I have no family to tie me down. Money in the bank and a freedom to do as I please, within the law of course. I have adhered to the Grey Man Principle all of my life.

    • @annief3062
      @annief3062 3 года назад +11

      That’s a true fact! 😞

    • @dingfeldersmurfalot4560
      @dingfeldersmurfalot4560 3 года назад +12

      LOL exactly, this person knows whereof he speaks! I couldn't be gray enough to suit my stepdad.

  • @angusmcprepper9379
    @angusmcprepper9379 3 года назад +403

    I dress like I'm homeless.
    People look right through me.
    Baggy, mismatched clothing and looking disheveled comes natural to me now.

    • @Jakedegaye
      @Jakedegaye 3 года назад +1

      😭😭

    • @ZedF86
      @ZedF86 3 года назад +34

      You'd be the first person I'd be looking at. I'd probably be thinking, "This MFer's gonna ask me for change, isn't he?".

    • @ichabodmoon4470
      @ichabodmoon4470 3 года назад +22

      I do it too avoid cops, it works. No jokes

    • @charlesschauer8927
      @charlesschauer8927 3 года назад +1

      @@ZedF86 hahaha

    • @Tailspin80
      @Tailspin80 2 года назад +13

      Bring a mug with you. You can make a fortune.

  • @patricks1560
    @patricks1560 5 лет назад +1841

    The first rule is stay off social media.

    • @magicman9321
      @magicman9321 4 года назад +65

      Patrick S
      yeah Patric star we all know u live in bikini bottom now. 😂

    • @Laudanum-gq3bl
      @Laudanum-gq3bl 4 года назад +89

      Nah. Just don’t put much of interest on there. I have a presence - mostly so that an employer search of my name turns up something - of the occasional photo of that I’ve taken. Nothing controversial. Nothing to make people think that I’m anything other than a 40-something geek.

    • @trashman1016
      @trashman1016 4 года назад +20

      Assuming there's social media in a SHTF scenario

    • @thisismagacountry1318
      @thisismagacountry1318 4 года назад +29

      Everyone knows the first rule is NO TALKING ABOUT FIGHT CLUB!!!

    • @spockmcoyissmart961
      @spockmcoyissmart961 4 года назад +32

      I disagree with that because social media is a source of information; good/bad. I post nothing personal on the sites. More watching than commenting on FB for example.

  • @mr.mediocregamer9653
    @mr.mediocregamer9653 7 лет назад +288

    Be unattractive and look poor. No one will look at you.

    • @codyfromhumanresources6435
      @codyfromhumanresources6435 7 лет назад +12

      Eethan O'Connell but not too unattractive, then everyone will look at you

    • @mr.mediocregamer9653
      @mr.mediocregamer9653 7 лет назад +2

      Dark Jesus
      Yeah, unattractive doesn't mean hideous. ;)

    • @thedeedman5616
      @thedeedman5616 7 лет назад +13

      Exactly, last year I wore normal clothes and had a six pack. I got a lot of attention from both women and men, drunk men tended to be very aggressive toward me. Since I've got fatter, grown a scraggly beard and shit hair and some of my clothes have holes, in people ignore me like I have the plague. They think I'm homeless which is the way to go for avoiding attention.

    • @richardw3404
      @richardw3404 7 лет назад +21

      As a unattractive poor person i must say the cops do look at you

    • @serenityrahn5656
      @serenityrahn5656 7 лет назад +4

      i always dress "homeless" so people won't bother me, works well. don't mean dirty/smelly, just broke and sloppy.

  • @cookncrook6902
    @cookncrook6902 3 года назад +193

    When I started prepping I was more into tactical learning over the years I have learned the best way to win a conflict would be to not become a target to begin with. Blending is absolutely key.

  • @meep8026
    @meep8026 3 года назад +150

    "Think about what you are doing right now that might be out of the normal"
    Me sitting on a toilet, while on my phone

  • @aguasanta
    @aguasanta 7 лет назад +1163

    Real gray people are who watched this video and didn't comment, no matter their thoughts about it.

    • @ryanbeev
      @ryanbeev 7 лет назад +105

      Israel Aguasanta so you aren't a gray man you're a black man

    • @aguasanta
      @aguasanta 7 лет назад +118

      Damian Sour Lol just a darker shade of gray

    • @AllGoldAG
      @AllGoldAG 6 лет назад +45

      Israel Aguasanta 50 shades of gray

    • @zichithefox4781
      @zichithefox4781 6 лет назад +51

      Israel Aguasanta even better is one who didn't comment but liked other comments.

    • @kikkjaebeli564
      @kikkjaebeli564 6 лет назад +6

      Israel Aguasanta But their browser history is not?

  • @JourneyToTheCage
    @JourneyToTheCage 6 лет назад +2684

    "Be so bland and uninteresting that no one remembers you", well I'm gonna do great in the apocalypse

    • @cpufreak101
      @cpufreak101 6 лет назад +10

      Suburban Slingshots same here, unless I get to my car, I'll have the most recognizable Trailblazer in the state :/

    • @rapidk7307
      @rapidk7307 6 лет назад +1

      Suburban Slingshots I was your 500th like

    • @defiant5851
      @defiant5851 6 лет назад +1

      Suburban Slingshots well hell all he is doing is describing me

    • @SllyRbbtTrxR4Kids
      @SllyRbbtTrxR4Kids 6 лет назад +5

      Repel attraction using dad jokes. Although i like dad jokes.

    • @benjamin9350
      @benjamin9350 6 лет назад +1

      me too dude ;)

  • @robhunt-watts8908
    @robhunt-watts8908 3 года назад +208

    When my pal Dave walked into a room it felt like someone had left. He was truly amazing.

    • @charlieblade1232
      @charlieblade1232 3 года назад +11

      Lol how doesn’t this have more likes

    • @no_one_211
      @no_one_211 2 года назад +5

      It broke everyone's minds lol

    • @davidrhelmick72
      @davidrhelmick72 2 года назад +10

      Daves have that effect

    • @lurkag2672
      @lurkag2672 2 года назад +2

      @@charlieblade1232 because it's pointless and unengaging

    • @jthomps733
      @jthomps733 2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @thevagabondsageinthewoods
    @thevagabondsageinthewoods 3 года назад +188

    We did this in my psych class once. I stood in front of the class talking about a subject and explaining stuff. Afterward, I left the room. Then we told students to turn over their packet and begin answering questions. Problem was, all the questions were about me. It was fascinating after doing this twice and researching the stats of just what they remembered about me! Can u tell, I loved my psych classes?!! People don’t remember a thing when u dress to blend. Only half remembered I wore glasses, no one noticed I was wearing a college hoodie (because everyone wore them) and not one person could remember anything about my shoes.

    • @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT
      @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT 2 года назад +3

      If someone has a pick on you specifically, they'll remember you always.

    • @deborahturner1853
      @deborahturner1853 2 года назад

      Were you the instructor? 🤣

    • @thevagabondsageinthewoods
      @thevagabondsageinthewoods 2 года назад +2

      @@deborahturner1853 haven’t u been to college? Psych prof’s give extra credit for that kind of stuff. It’s just 101 stuff

    • @thevagabondsageinthewoods
      @thevagabondsageinthewoods 2 года назад +1

      @@deborahturner1853 and why the laughing emoji?

    • @random_observer777
      @random_observer777 2 года назад

      ehhhh, prolly just thought you was ugly lmao jk

  • @renecepeda3144
    @renecepeda3144 7 лет назад +4070

    But what if a gray man notices another gray man, *illuminati music*

  • @JFDSmit-rm6tw
    @JFDSmit-rm6tw 5 лет назад +2129

    I learned the Gray man-thing early in life. My mom once made my bed with me still in it.

    • @MusicLover-py8dm
      @MusicLover-py8dm 4 года назад +34

      I see what you did there 😉

    • @zimjun7
      @zimjun7 4 года назад +13

      You can do "stand-up" if you are looking for work!!! hahaha! yes....a good "un!"

    • @TrinaSafiya
      @TrinaSafiya 4 года назад +5

      Did you attend the Milford School? 😉

    • @patricktedrow1976
      @patricktedrow1976 4 года назад +5

      Lol omg umm if someone was to come with in 40 feet of me i would be up and gone quietly and undetected

    • @joelwerre
      @joelwerre 4 года назад +2

      @@TrinaSafiya neither seen nor heard.

  • @bengunn3698
    @bengunn3698 4 года назад +97

    Ihave found that walking around with a snarl on my face and an axe turns the other people into grey men.They try not to be noticed.

    • @jaytee2642
      @jaytee2642 3 года назад +3

      😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

    • @dlamkin62
      @dlamkin62 3 года назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅
      Reminds me of my son! I have told him repeatedly, "Son? Smile, everyone thinks you are mad. He truly was intimidating!

    • @alinegimotea6714
      @alinegimotea6714 2 месяца назад

      You had me rolling in laughter 😂

  • @Laudanum-gq3bl
    @Laudanum-gq3bl 3 года назад +89

    I’m a tall blonde woman. It’s not easy to “blend in”. But thanks to the points in this video, I have bought some deliberately unfitted neutral camping/hiking type clothes and a plain baseball cap.

    • @kellysiefkas9595
      @kellysiefkas9595 3 года назад +24

      Look like non descript guy. Put hair up no makeup guy clothes ball cap

    • @IB3ASTINONU786
      @IB3ASTINONU786 2 года назад +8

      From what I’ve heard. You’d fit right in in Sweden

  • @GoddardEmpire
    @GoddardEmpire 7 лет назад +1579

    My dads white and my mums black so I'm gray
    *puts on sun glasses*
    Born to be invisible bitch!

  • @TheJubiter
    @TheJubiter 7 лет назад +611

    I'm just here to avoid social interaction

    • @deathkeeper5445
      @deathkeeper5445 7 лет назад +1

      Munguard then why are you here?

    • @CasualPreppersPodcast
      @CasualPreppersPodcast 6 лет назад +1

      Munguard well done.

    • @strategist4566
      @strategist4566 6 лет назад +7

      Okay, the purpose of this video is steps to not draw attention to yourself especially if in a civil unrest.

    • @cloroxbleach7016
      @cloroxbleach7016 6 лет назад +2

      Good thing i already know how to blend in

    • @VSBK_SNOW
      @VSBK_SNOW 6 лет назад

      are you Estonian?

  • @Alex-cs2wd
    @Alex-cs2wd Год назад +21

    As a city dweller, I find myself needing to do the grey man most when I'm walking late at night back home, through rough areas. I sometimes pass by weirdos, junkies, thugs etc. who maybe stare at me and maybe even size me up in their minds. I don't make eye contact, I walk moderately fast and with purpose like I know where I'm going, even if I don't. I also keep a slightly pissed off look on my face and act slightly intoxicated and/or crazy/rough, but in a very subtle way. I especially do this if I feel like I'm being watched or followed - I don't look like an immediate threat, but I look like someone undesirable that nobody wants to interact with. In short, I try to subtly blend in with the weirdos, if I think I'm surrounded by weirdos.

    • @trackpackgt877
      @trackpackgt877 7 месяцев назад +5

      That's pretty good but one thing I would recommend is making eye contact because looking down or breaking eye contact First is submissive so to speak but if you look at them and don't break eye contact you look confident like an alpha

  • @alexmcgregor2854
    @alexmcgregor2854 4 года назад +72

    After 7 different elementary schools and 3 high schools I learned from an early age to blend in. It’s all about mirror and echo.

    • @kellysiefkas9595
      @kellysiefkas9595 3 года назад +2

      Sound like me growing lol. Did 3 schools in 1st grade alone.

    • @Xaforn
      @Xaforn 3 года назад +2

      Yup, 13 schools for me

    • @Bladerunner5146
      @Bladerunner5146 3 года назад

      Still on school and I've been to 9

    • @goodoldschool898
      @goodoldschool898 3 года назад +2

      Alex , I traveled a lot in construction. Always went to local Thrift Store and bought local "Type" of clothing. Worked well.

    • @thegreatfomo
      @thegreatfomo 3 года назад

      You guys actually went to school, congrats

  • @pchow-to502
    @pchow-to502 7 лет назад +1835

    Tried this at my local playground. Now im in jail.

    • @soheibnemir8460
      @soheibnemir8460 7 лет назад +42

      PC how-to nice! do you have wifi in jail?

    • @swiftset
      @swiftset 7 лет назад +63

      they replaced one phone call with one social media post.

    • @jojo-pd4ii
      @jojo-pd4ii 7 лет назад

      PC how-to then how are you typing this?

    • @soheibnemir8460
      @soheibnemir8460 7 лет назад

      JiminHasJamsNow i didnt know sorry i live underground lol

    • @floridachomps2885
      @floridachomps2885 7 лет назад +1

      lol you didn't pull it off bro

  • @christopherromo8013
    @christopherromo8013 4 года назад +1742

    Leave it to Introverts to perfect the art of The GrayMan

    • @Jebusite100
      @Jebusite100 4 года назад +19

      I want to be a Gray Man

    • @orewajackkuripper1204
      @orewajackkuripper1204 4 года назад +113

      Introvert: I was born in it,molded by it

    • @jeremiahperkins3701
      @jeremiahperkins3701 4 года назад +9

      Orewa Jackku Ripper 😂😂😂😭

    • @kaitlynkarol4600
      @kaitlynkarol4600 3 года назад +32

      We INFJ's are very good at doing this - One of my friends labeled me a long time ago a 'moving target'...it's helped me to survive a lot of crazy scenarios! Funny b/c I also have been a 'stand out' a lot for certain other unique or specific qualities but if I need to go 'ingognito', I am super good at that. It's a great survival skill. Unfortunately, so many ppl don't know how to just 'blend in' in this clever way b/c they let fear mess them up, just like we see now w/ this Covid crisis. Too many ppl running over top of ea other to buy toilet paper! How pathetic that this happens!

    • @dumbass4826
      @dumbass4826 3 года назад +2

      Lol that's the audience I'm tryna learn

  • @markl2322
    @markl2322 2 года назад +20

    You can also run the risk of looking so "invisible" that you become "visible". Nobody in any environment is completely bland in appearance. There is always something that separates them out. It could be an NFL jersey with a specific number, a yellow jacket, a red hat, or even a veteran's jacket. These things don't necessarily draw undue attention, and in fact look like normal attire in most locations in the central part of the country.

  • @johnw1873
    @johnw1873 3 года назад +28

    I've been a gray man my whole life. I go anywhere, fit in anywhere, and no one ever remembers me being there. True story.

  • @ellis5058
    @ellis5058 7 лет назад +986

    Only clicked because I thought the title said "Gravy Man"

  • @MrGunny2009
    @MrGunny2009 5 лет назад +881

    We learned the gray man concept decades ago when I was going through military intelligence training school. They stressed that a good HUMINT agent does NOT look and act like James Bond. Strutting around in a Monaco casino in a tuxedo and driving hot sports cars just draws attention to you. We were taught that you strive to be inconspicuous to the point that you become psychologically invisible. You can pass someone in a store or on the sidewalk and two seconds later they could not give your description if their life depended on it. "Describe the man? WHAT man?" That is a true gray man.

    • @evalsoftserver
      @evalsoftserver 3 года назад +47

      I found that I'm practically invisible on rainy cold winter days Wearing dull blue gray or dark color hoodie and jeans. I call it Structural blue Especially when standing next to urban infastructute like a piece of Seel I beam or near a train tracks I actually become part of the infastructute.

    • @evalsoftserver
      @evalsoftserver 3 года назад +81

      That's how I can Spot a CIA agent or anyone doing surveillance , just look for a middle age man in dreary clothes trying not to look conspicuous

    • @NuLiForm
      @NuLiForm 2 года назад +18

      psychologically invisible was originally a Ninja tactic..their Best one imho.

    • @Gator-fromOZ
      @Gator-fromOZ 2 года назад +10

      😫”AWWW CRAP”, And I was SO PSYCHED about putting on my new TUX🤵🏻‍♂️ and asking my mom to drive me over to the car dealer to buy that ASTON MARTIN ☹️!!! Does this mean I shouldn’t carry my WALTHER PPK to the grocery store😳❓ 😂

    • @CaptVanO
      @CaptVanO 2 года назад +2

      Exactly!

  • @AlreadyThere1965
    @AlreadyThere1965 3 года назад +73

    I learned the hard way that wearing pants is very helpful when trying to blend in. I try to remember to wear them now.

    • @alwaysflushinpublic
      @alwaysflushinpublic 4 дня назад +1

      LOL! Reminds me of some Texan who hearing the explosion, ran outside in his gaping open boxers. Nothing else. When his wife approached he pushed her back in the house yelling "get back in..." . She then locked the door giving a new meaning to the S&G song "In the clearing stands a boxer, a fighter by his trade".

  • @jt2475
    @jt2475 3 года назад +97

    Being a grey man isn’t about blending in. It’s about convincing people around you to believe what you are portraying to be.

    • @Kevindude8868
      @Kevindude8868 3 года назад +4

      Yeah good point

    • @Josh_Vine
      @Josh_Vine 3 года назад +3

      Someone came here from Bone Tactical

    • @NuLiForm
      @NuLiForm 2 года назад

      @Phillip Delgado ..lol..ikr..*High5's*....cos ya beat me to it.

  • @calebsherman886
    @calebsherman886 7 лет назад +3212

    Going to reverse engineer this video to engage in more social interactions, thanks.

    • @CityPrepping
      @CityPrepping  7 лет назад +143

      +Caleb Sherman don't do it! ;)

    • @thepioneer6178
      @thepioneer6178 7 лет назад +39

      Caleb Sherman genius!

    • @yogeshwaran1856
      @yogeshwaran1856 7 лет назад +20

      Caleb Sherman please tell me if you find how to do that.

    • @DubstepImmortal
      @DubstepImmortal 7 лет назад +46

      Yogeshwaran it's not hard to figure out. Take what he says in the video and do the opposite. Instead of trying to be unnoticeable be more flamboyant. Wear bright colored clothing or goofy knee high socks.

    • @kashu7691
      @kashu7691 7 лет назад +110

      Caleb Sherman remember to smell bad

  • @StephenS-2024
    @StephenS-2024 5 лет назад +2140

    My friend: uh, is that you?
    Me: no.
    Friend: yes it is! Why are you dressed like a bush?
    Me: I'm not. Go away.

  • @rakejgar3767
    @rakejgar3767 3 года назад +30

    I've been the grey man my whole life and I'm just now discovering it.

  • @jefftheevilrobot9351
    @jefftheevilrobot9351 3 года назад +113

    Me, watching in 2020: this could prove useful

    • @hansenyan6217
      @hansenyan6217 3 года назад +3

      Well, yeah

    • @hansenyan6217
      @hansenyan6217 3 года назад +1

      @Jayne Ledger Yep so the aliens won't spot us.

    • @testtickles8755
      @testtickles8755 3 года назад

      Happy new year 🎊🎉🍾😂😂

    • @navnarva1948
      @navnarva1948 3 года назад +1

      the west right now is actually really similar to how the romans were before their society fell apart

  •  7 лет назад +2285

    The main thing I'm wearing right now that looks conspicuous is my tinfoil hat. Should I... take it off?

    • @MasterGamer12234
      @MasterGamer12234 7 лет назад +106

      Paul Little Never.

    • @scottrose7737
      @scottrose7737 7 лет назад +118

      Paul Little I never take mine off, the lizards that run the government would brainwash me.

    • @dashiellgillingham4579
      @dashiellgillingham4579 7 лет назад +39

      This is the best thing I've ever seen. Thank you.

    • @MIRACLECHEEZ
      @MIRACLECHEEZ 7 лет назад +47

      Paul Little put a satellite dish on it, it'll look more normal and you'll blend in perfectly

    • @YakuiMeido
      @YakuiMeido 7 лет назад +60

      Paul Little
      Whats the point of being a grayman when they can read your thoughts?

  • @base6377
    @base6377 6 лет назад +750

    I’m here to avoid people in school

  • @dustinchambers4172
    @dustinchambers4172 4 года назад +20

    It's hard not to appear threatening when you're a 6`5 hefty built man. I've always have had a problem not appearing as a threat but,it also helps with confrontations and makes people not want to engage in combat with me lol.

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 3 года назад

      @milky onion or a lil tiny guy trained in BJJ

  • @edinnorthcarolina--ovelhog5786
    @edinnorthcarolina--ovelhog5786 2 года назад +11

    As a Gringo in Brazil, I knew I was doing it correctly when locals would stop me and ask me for directions. I do speak Portuguese with an English speaker accent, so I was done when I engaged verbally.

  • @markhutchins7808
    @markhutchins7808 7 лет назад +484

    I'm a redhead. Its impossible to blend in

    • @tonysoldan
      @tonysoldan 7 лет назад +7

      I'm a redhead WITH green eyes. Yup, I can EASILY blend anywhere I go.

    • @gl1zzy999
      @gl1zzy999 7 лет назад +7

      Mark Hutchins Baseball cap, I have long curly hair, so I can't blend in, but a hat is the best way.

    • @davecrupel2817
      @davecrupel2817 7 лет назад +15

      redhead with blonde eyebrows.
      cheers for the clown lol

    • @Mcmuffinwaffle
      @Mcmuffinwaffle 7 лет назад +10

      Dye your hair

    • @tonysoldan
      @tonysoldan 7 лет назад +13

      Not gonna work, I have a blonde beard and no freckles...

  • @boundbytimettv2684
    @boundbytimettv2684 7 лет назад +799

    Why's this in my recommendations tho...

  • @ShaneShepherd
    @ShaneShepherd 3 года назад +11

    Avoiding waving or eye contact can also be situational/environmental. I grew up in a small town. Everyone waves as vehicles passed or when passing as one walked past one the street. If you didn't wave - free other person would NOTICE you and wonder why you were being so rude!
    In a city /congested area nodding / waving definitely attracts attention!

    • @alwaysflushinpublic
      @alwaysflushinpublic 4 дня назад +1

      Yup. My family are hillbillies in the NC/Ga area. If you are driving a sedan, or fail to have a gun rack on ur pick up, or have a Republican sticker.... you will stand out.

  • @rhyme3332
    @rhyme3332 3 года назад +58

    I'm an introvert, And I perfected this skill, I use it to escape situations I dont want

    • @user-vl9xs5dl7q
      @user-vl9xs5dl7q 2 года назад

      Are you sure. I have a challenge for you. Do it with red hair. Exposed. It is another tier of training.

  • @trackerbuckmann1627
    @trackerbuckmann1627 5 лет назад +1468

    "Don't be intimidating"
    I'm 6'7"

  • @Lil_Twiggy69
    @Lil_Twiggy69 7 лет назад +1575

    how do I come out to my parents as gray?

    • @hokeypokeyalso1783
      @hokeypokeyalso1783 6 лет назад +38

      That's funny!

    • @XDeltaWolf
      @XDeltaWolf 6 лет назад +113

      I think you just act normal and do nothing notable.

    • @22motto
      @22motto 6 лет назад +46

      Glance at them without making eye contact, say nothing, then go about your day

    • @jorgebravo1919
      @jorgebravo1919 6 лет назад +6

      Well played Sir !

    • @Ezio999Auditore
      @Ezio999Auditore 6 лет назад +41

      "I think my son might be gray." - Dad.

  • @JustAName-it5qp
    @JustAName-it5qp 2 года назад +8

    I was a private in the Army then a Specialist. The greatest grey man training I had.

  • @dondon1817
    @dondon1817 3 года назад +29

    The opposite of today's society...where almost everybody craves attention

    • @peekyoin8347
      @peekyoin8347 3 года назад +8

      Which makes it easier to be a gray man

    • @nanthini6898
      @nanthini6898 2 года назад

      @@peekyoin8347 True

    • @jaynestag95
      @jaynestag95 2 года назад

      Most see nothing like this just living in oblivion. ...it's easy to be grey.

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT 2 года назад +1

      @@peekyoin8347 Not really. Try going on a date and telling her you dont use facebook, twitter, etc. Youll stand out instantly.

  • @Kuran1986
    @Kuran1986 7 лет назад +698

    Mate..i'm 2 meters tall .
    kinda impossible for me not to get noticed . i look like a bear

    • @siriusql
      @siriusql 7 лет назад +13

      nah man i'm two meters too and I do anage to be gray
      height has nothing to do with charisma / presence

    • @triggerfist903
      @triggerfist903 7 лет назад

      Daniel Patrascanu I'm 6 foot but I don't draw much attention. I don't wear flashy stuff and I don't talk much to other people. I try to be as not noticeable as possible.

    • @siriusql
      @siriusql 7 лет назад +8

      Trigger Fist I guess tall people are calm people...
      especially since we attract attention by doing basically nothing we kinda have to be calm if we wanna be at peace

    • @Kuran1986
      @Kuran1986 7 лет назад +3

      +Trigger Fist I had to google what 6foot is in meters hehe .
      well..you're still only a little bit taller than average(at least in my country)so i guess you don't draw attention. I mean,nobody is telling me anything except old people that ask me what sport i practice/pracited or if im in the military because i still wear my dog tags.But the moment i enter a room,i draw attention by my size(i guess i forgot to mention the fact that i also have a weight of 103kilograms) and i use a hair style that i close to baldness(military "style") because i got used to it and also the fact that i have curly blonde hair wich draws attention..
      +Siriusql Belmont Haha ! it's great to meet someone as tall as i am :D yeah indeed..we are calm people :) "gentle giants" and i'm glad that you don't draw attention..i hope that i will soon pe capable of doing that
      P.S I also forgot to mention the fact that i have arm tattoos..i guess they're a big factor in drawing attention..still,i wear long sleeve shirts and i still manage to atract attention

    • @laviniagaitanaru5347
      @laviniagaitanaru5347 7 лет назад +2

      Daniel Patrascanu Where are you from? Your name seems romanian

  • @JayFFAFAlesanaES
    @JayFFAFAlesanaES 7 лет назад +581

    He's teaching the elites how to get away from our retribution. Get him! :P

    • @CityPrepping
      @CityPrepping  7 лет назад +10

      ha :)

    • @OldToughDW
      @OldToughDW 7 лет назад +2

      What elites, where did they go and who are they? Everybody seems to see them except me. Drat.

    • @JayFFAFAlesanaES
      @JayFFAFAlesanaES 7 лет назад +8

      Any person who has a lot of influence power and generally views themselves way above the general populace as well as the law, that's what people mean when they reffer to them.

    • @OldToughDW
      @OldToughDW 7 лет назад +4

      NathanJ Rodey
      And you know this by having influence and power I suppose? Do you know how stupid you sound parroting things you were told as "truth" by people who have never been that either. The truth is most people who believe that want to believe there is an "elite" conspiring to "keep them down" and whose actions are negatively impacting their lives so they can avoid taking responsibility for making bad choices thinking they would get them somewhere that the path they were on never went. Work 40 hours a week. 50 weeks a year, for somebody else and you will end up living on not enough money but will make them rich. It's an old proverb, "Nobody ever got rich working for somebody else." My family quoted the to me for over 40 years and I didn't listen until it was too late. Don't be a fool like i was. You might not get rich owning the business, but every rich person I know and have ever heard of go rich by owning their own business. Do you get it now? They don't teach that in schools either. They say, "Get a good education and get a good job." but they are teachers working for the government, and that is all they know about. Come to think of it, most of my teachers in school, all the way trough college, were liberals who support and work for creating a elitist government. I don't buy it, it violates Occam's razor and everything else I know about people and government.

    • @JayFFAFAlesanaES
      @JayFFAFAlesanaES 7 лет назад +11

      TL/DR #PizzaGate wake the fuck up, moron. Do your research before spouting garbage like I have, for YEARS. Capitalism allows corruption and I need not say anything more.

  • @JuanAntonio-wj2rv
    @JuanAntonio-wj2rv 4 года назад +99

    Grayman: Yes nobody notices me.
    People: Look at that mysterious individual.

  • @oboreru69
    @oboreru69 2 года назад +7

    After being alone for so long in school and not having friends ive become a "gray man" ive always been like this and ive just never known how to describe this thank you

  • @danielpavlides3753
    @danielpavlides3753 7 лет назад +791

    i was a gray man in high school 😢

    • @teknacious
      @teknacious 7 лет назад +5

      #EastsideSoulja lmfao

    • @firedirt6128
      @firedirt6128 7 лет назад +1

      be lucky. cause i wasn't and i got teased and bullied a lot.

    • @chickenpermission9329
      @chickenpermission9329 7 лет назад +1

      #EastsideSoulja same

    • @raaie7890
      @raaie7890 7 лет назад +1

      I would wear a shirt with a huge middle finger on it...

    • @thefakebriskeh
      @thefakebriskeh 7 лет назад

      #EastsideSoulja why u using a crying emoji that's a good thing

  • @doublestack2k
    @doublestack2k 7 лет назад +151

    You're in Southern California so of course an American flag on your hat is going to stand out.

    • @obsoleteprofessor2034
      @obsoleteprofessor2034 7 лет назад +15

      As well as a Trump hat.

    • @doomtrigger
      @doomtrigger 7 лет назад

      doublestack2k i were mine in costs mesa and no one says anything

    • @heartofjustice6041
      @heartofjustice6041 7 лет назад +5

      ah shit i usually wear my cap with an eagle and us flag lmao now i know why so many people stare at me

    • @SiiriCressey
      @SiiriCressey 7 лет назад

      "You're in Southern California so of course an American flag on your hat is going to stand out." That was his point.

    • @tootoo3297
      @tootoo3297 7 лет назад +2

      fake patriots are the worst kinds of people. the fake patriots are the ones wearing the flag

  • @peggysue1725
    @peggysue1725 3 года назад +1

    I just discovered this channel and I find it very helpful and not panic-inducing. Most of this stuff is just life (I'm from the poorer kind of Europe) but it suits very well to analyse and think things through. In a way, it even makes me act kinder and more generous to other people, because death is an inevitable reality but suffering can be avoided in some cases.. It makes me think what is important to me and what I truly stand for, what are my weak spots and how to avoid getting tricked by my own mental weakness. Helpfulness is not a weakness, but greed and cruelty definitely are.

  • @larskarlsson9682
    @larskarlsson9682 4 года назад +12

    My dad told me almost the same when i joined the army 40 yrs ago

  • @AdmiralPreparedness
    @AdmiralPreparedness 5 лет назад +489

    I’m good at being “invisible”. Spent most of my life this way.

    • @comradecameron3726
      @comradecameron3726 5 лет назад +12

      Same here I just don’t see a reason to be noticed.

    • @neovenom9833
      @neovenom9833 5 лет назад +7

      @@LakituKoopa My advice,
      Do not show emotional attachment towards people in public-> it's a stimulus that can linger a long time.
      In a group, just go with the flow and anticipate what direction the group is going.-> yell out what the vast majority yells out.
      Act busy in silence, so people won't bother you, like walking with your phone in hand.
      Walk in random patterns, mimicking the people around you.
      Other good advice, and I am not kidding, watch the Bourne movies, especially the first 2.

    • @Jazzman-bj9fq
      @Jazzman-bj9fq 4 года назад +2

      Did someone just say something?!?! Hmm

    • @tasiathomas3738
      @tasiathomas3738 4 года назад +1

      Love the nsme

    • @glockfanboy4927
      @glockfanboy4927 4 года назад +2

      Like Harry Houidini? Now you see him now you don't!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @DeePSeVN
    @DeePSeVN 5 лет назад +561

    A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

    • @jeffnorbert1871
      @jeffnorbert1871 5 лет назад +88

      Robert DeNiro in the movie Heat.

    • @CaptHC
      @CaptHC 4 года назад +11

      I know I am late but can someone explain this quote to me pls.

    • @CaptHC
      @CaptHC 4 года назад +3

      @passinthru thanks man.

    • @ronagoodwell2709
      @ronagoodwell2709 4 года назад +42

      Plus you want to make sure you have a numbered safety deposit box in the next city containing 300K bucks--medium bills, some gold coins, 5 passports, a Glock 9 with a box of ammo, and a box of Tic-Taks... for just in case. See Grey Man supplies.

    • @manictiger
      @manictiger 4 года назад +13

      @@ronagoodwell2709
      It's called a Glock 17, not a "Glock 9".

  • @FloridaManConstruction
    @FloridaManConstruction 4 года назад +1

    First video of yours that I watched. Great info and quality production. Thanks! Subscribed!

  • @rckoala8838
    @rckoala8838 2 года назад +6

    I use this concept when I am traveling abroad. I don't want to be marked as an American, so I try to blend in. Of course, this results in locals asking me for directions.

  • @1342bigguy1234
    @1342bigguy1234 7 лет назад +567

    Is a girl ready to become no one?

    • @zephyrwolf2830
      @zephyrwolf2830 7 лет назад

      lol

    • @1342bigguy1234
      @1342bigguy1234 7 лет назад +49

      Zephyr Wolf A girl is not ready to become No One. But she is ready to become Someone Else.

    • @renzo00
      @renzo00 7 лет назад

      yeah anyone can be

    • @leaveme3559
      @leaveme3559 7 лет назад +7

      a girl is Arya Stark of winter fell

    • @Beatboy260
      @Beatboy260 7 лет назад +18

      lmao game of thrones took being a grey person on a whole other level🤔

  • @inquisition1599
    @inquisition1599 7 лет назад +220

    Avoid tactical or combat boots. Wear work boots.

    • @mychevybangin33
      @mychevybangin33 7 лет назад +2

      Can i wear my vest though??

    • @inquisition1599
      @inquisition1599 7 лет назад +1

      it depends on the situation

    • @sn0m0ns40
      @sn0m0ns40 7 лет назад +11

      The neon green one with orange stripes? Side objective: go unnoticed as a construction worker!

    • @inquisition1599
      @inquisition1599 7 лет назад +3

      sn0m0ns then definitely wear tan Timberland boots. Not brand new looking either. A construction worker would alsso have a scuffed hard hat.

    • @sn0m0ns40
      @sn0m0ns40 7 лет назад +2

      Inquisition when i put my winter work clothes on I look like i'm homeless lol. I've had the same carhartt coat for ten years

  • @richardmerriam7044
    @richardmerriam7044 3 года назад +3

    I was trained in this back in the mid '90s. Thank you!

  • @cynthiastinson7059
    @cynthiastinson7059 2 года назад +6

    Become a middle aged woman and find out how invisible you can be. Being 5 foot tall also helps. I have been crashed into by many people. I guess it’s finally an asset.

    • @nicolassmith1278
      @nicolassmith1278 Год назад

      Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family and the weather over there??

  • @justalurkr
    @justalurkr 7 лет назад +150

    Redhead here. Doomed to trigger stimulus.

    • @CityPrepping
      @CityPrepping  7 лет назад +7

      +justalurkr haha! Wig might help?

    • @justalurkr
      @justalurkr 7 лет назад +7

      It's going gray, so not an issue for much longer. :-) Great vid, thanks!

    • @CityPrepping
      @CityPrepping  7 лет назад +9

      awesome...you truly will be the gray man!

    • @randalflagg9086
      @randalflagg9086 7 лет назад

      Mark .Delbecq crap 😂

    • @justalurkr
      @justalurkr 7 лет назад

      AK Milli I didn't already steal one because that would be wrong.

  • @johndavis9487
    @johndavis9487 5 лет назад +1010

    Rule #1 - Determine Your Baseline
    Rule #2 - Avoid Creating Stimulus
    Rule #3 - Blend In

    • @KyrstOak
      @KyrstOak 5 лет назад +31

      Rule #3 *wash

    • @Athanatoi
      @Athanatoi 4 года назад +48

      Rule #5 - Stay off from Facebook, Twiter, and Instagram

    • @TanTran-re1dm
      @TanTran-re1dm 4 года назад +54

      @@Athanatoi Rule #4 Dont wear any 5.11 clothing

    • @EdwardJamesKenway...
      @EdwardJamesKenway... 4 года назад +11

      Kindof like how ezio from assassins creed has to act in public

    • @trishthehomesteader9873
      @trishthehomesteader9873 3 года назад +12

      Don't try getting help at the customer service desk.

  • @UndoubtablySo
    @UndoubtablySo 11 месяцев назад +2

    one of the tips here really woke me up, im always boasting about my prep supplies to my housemates but I realised that in a shtf scenario if im not at home they might actually steal my supplies and threaten to attack me with weapons if I try to get them back, from now on I will try and not appear as a prepper even when talking to trusted people because I don't want to risk having my prep gear stolen

    • @robhay57
      @robhay57 9 месяцев назад +1

      Good idea because when SHTF no one can be trusted.

    • @BloodyKnives66
      @BloodyKnives66 8 месяцев назад +1

      When I was a teenager I used to tell everyone about my funs supplies etc. Now everyone wants to come to my house when shtf and that was many many years ago

    • @UndoubtablySo
      @UndoubtablySo 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@BloodyKnives66 i since read an article describing some natural disasters in america and apparently everyon turned on the preppers and demanded their supplies and some would even try and rob them, also even the authorities were apparently harassing preppers who didn't want to leave their homes despite being totally fine

  • @Eye_of_a_Texan
    @Eye_of_a_Texan 3 года назад +17

    Could you be a gray man?
    Me: I'm 6' 6" tall and have a red beard.... so no.

    • @kitjoslin
      @kitjoslin 3 года назад +4

      Go to scotland

    • @maxemore
      @maxemore 3 года назад

      Do you feel important now?

    • @Eye_of_a_Texan
      @Eye_of_a_Texan 3 года назад

      @@maxemore That comment seems to come from left field. Which of us are you replying to?

  • @liljaime
    @liljaime 6 лет назад +872

    How to blend in (back then): wear a costume that uses a hood that can cover your face use colors that stand out from everyone else such as RED AND WHITE colors and also, don't forget to use a knife under your wrist.

    • @yytyytg
      @yytyytg 6 лет назад +2

      Jayronn Samonte lol

    • @strategist4566
      @strategist4566 6 лет назад +45

      Assassin's Creed reference

    • @arthurcabral9561
      @arthurcabral9561 6 лет назад +14

      Riiight. - Wear a "Robin the Boy-Wonder" mask too, while your at it!

    • @shorelockhomes943
      @shorelockhomes943 6 лет назад +6

      True. Being yourself and appearing normal can help somtimes.

    • @dr.shobhitsharma6272
      @dr.shobhitsharma6272 6 лет назад +19

      Look for a pile of hay

  • @thrakerzad5874
    @thrakerzad5874 6 лет назад +237

    Being boring is urban camo

    • @jeffd1337
      @jeffd1337 5 лет назад +2

      Thrakerzad best description i have seen

  • @martinswiney2192
    @martinswiney2192 Год назад

    I swiped past this video at least 30 times before i noticed it. It blends in so well. Good job.

  • @HomeOnTheHitch
    @HomeOnTheHitch 3 года назад

    Hi! found you from van life with Gina. Great channel! Love your content!

  • @Shoruuu
    @Shoruuu 7 лет назад +1194

    this makes me feel somewhat better about being a literal ghost to everybody

    • @Re-gj3yk
      @Re-gj3yk 6 лет назад +67

      ohaghost well just use it to your advantage. thats what i do.. honestly I enjoy it. i dont have to deal with people's bullshit.

    • @UnholyTruth333
      @UnholyTruth333 6 лет назад +22

      Fucking nerds lol

    • @lamborghinigallardo4276
      @lamborghinigallardo4276 6 лет назад +3

      ohaghost me to bruh

    • @onegoodjoe
      @onegoodjoe 6 лет назад +5

      Figuratively not literally

    • @TosiKuvesi
      @TosiKuvesi 6 лет назад +5

      Ohaghost so, how was your funeral?

  • @Romanov117
    @Romanov117 7 лет назад +111

    This is some Assassins Creed shit right here.

    • @constantinesmith5972
      @constantinesmith5972 7 лет назад

      White343 Lmao so true

    • @gaben282
      @gaben282 7 лет назад +8

      Didn't realise distinctive armour, hoods and having several blades was inconspicuous :)

    • @Dantick09
      @Dantick09 7 лет назад +11

      White343 you can just sit down and no one will notice you

    • @constantinesmith5972
      @constantinesmith5972 7 лет назад +3

      Chaarls Bade-Aloo Um.... Have you considered the fact that calling someone "my child" is quite scary? like, am I an illegitimate? lmao

    • @constantinesmith5972
      @constantinesmith5972 7 лет назад

      Chaarls Bade-Aloo Hahahahaha oh well

  • @NAMVETSTARLITE
    @NAMVETSTARLITE 3 года назад +1

    GOOD EXERCISE YOUNG TROOPER.
    GREAT INFO
    SEMPER FI

  • @jasonkent7858
    @jasonkent7858 4 года назад +11

    Love this. All I have to contribute is, I'm a model and a performer, and I dress very dramatically. I always wear a hat, my shoes click noisily when I walk, you can't miss me in black and red and you always know exactly where I am.
    Then just to blow people's minds I appear in public in plain black and gray. Total invisibility. To go from turning heads and cameras in Manhattan to vanishing entirely is very comfortable and refreshing. People who know me look at me two or three times like their minds are blown. Where's your hat? Where's your lavish longcoat? No suit? No heelboots? No RED?
    Nope. When SHTF, nobody's gonna see me. They're going to be looking for a man in two trench coats, a vest, a pocket watch, usually a cowboy hat or fedora, and red cuban heels. Not this hoodied stoner schlub.
    Another observation. One morning I went to the doctor. I felt like a schlub, so I dressed like a schlub, acted like a schlub, got treated like a schlub, went home, took a nap, got up, dressed like a prince, felt like a prince, acted like a prince, and got treated like a prince. They probably thought I was two different guys. But the first one, the schlub, if anyone remembers him, they remember him dismissively...what a scumbag, get him outta here. I've heard of people avoiding contact by dressing/acting 'off' or gross so people may notice them, but do anything to avoid them. Look ugly. Nobody wants to look at someone ugly. Cut your hair around a bowl, wear ratty clothes, stained shoes, the works. I think there's no such thing as a beautiful young and attractive Gray Wo/man.
    There are also whole classes of people society ignores, depending on the setting. Nobody notices roadworkers, homeless people, servants, the elderly. There are places you can easily 'be nobody.'

  • @MBWQ321
    @MBWQ321 7 лет назад +558

    Why is this in my recommended.

    • @JazzFellas
      @JazzFellas 7 лет назад +4

      GaMiNg GuY lol

    • @ViatorFortis
      @ViatorFortis 7 лет назад +19

      you have been chosen. now take it in hand

    • @s1n-n3d
      @s1n-n3d 7 лет назад +9

      Your mission, should you accept......

    • @ViatorFortis
      @ViatorFortis 7 лет назад +1

      City Snake i see what you did there XD

    • @alvo_Roto
      @alvo_Roto 7 лет назад +7

      I wondered the same thing

  • @msogaming2677
    @msogaming2677 7 лет назад +79

    1. Be a mix of black and white
    2.???
    3. Profit

  • @lionhearted02
    @lionhearted02 3 года назад +3

    Being a gray man in a critical situation also gives you another advantage : the element of surprise if you need it because focus will be on others who look more likely to be a problem to those who want to reek havoc.

  • @flixxil
    @flixxil 3 года назад +16

    when you make eye contact with someone on accident, just make it looks like you're scanning the area and don't care about them. don't look down at that moment either, I believe it can avoid trouble with the wrong people. Just a theory, I haven't tested it

  • @meta6504
    @meta6504 7 лет назад +186

    Tutorial unclear ended up in jail for looking like a local serial killer

    • @CityPrepping
      @CityPrepping  7 лет назад +54

      oops

    • @thethinker7243
      @thethinker7243 7 лет назад +1

      Lol.

    • @jauffreseptim5367
      @jauffreseptim5367 7 лет назад +7

      Dovahkiinwerewolf's channel I used to be a cray man like you dovvahkiin until i took a arrow in the knee

    • @jauffreseptim5367
      @jauffreseptim5367 7 лет назад

      City Prepping 3:12 so that's why I respond when hear hitler from across the room

    • @captainhowdy9557
      @captainhowdy9557 7 лет назад +1

      Metawarrior then your not a grey man . A grey man would jam a high heal on to murder you and leave red lip stick at the Sean with a stolen cigarette with their DNA on it , that's a grey man , if the glove don't fit you must acquit

  • @teel3651
    @teel3651 7 лет назад +80

    Conclusion: Don't be a stinky red clothed guy on Saint Patrick's day.

  • @freakinfrugal5268
    @freakinfrugal5268 2 года назад +1

    What would you do, like right in that moment, if a bunch of people (roving marauders) were about to accost you in some way,, like all your preps had not prevented this moment? Do you think if you act insane, like homeless mentally ill or addicted, they would write you off and walk away? I am totally serious in this question, though I have a feeling it sounds weird. Wait, no, I have it. You act like you are super excited to see the marauders and JOIN them because you too are a marauder - then they won't maraud YOU. Always act like whoever is about to accost you is just the very person you have been searching for.

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT 2 года назад +1

      I know a guy who bluffed a group of hooligans in London. there were 8 vs 1 but he just slowly counted them pointing a finger at each one and mouthing the number and then went "ech, i can take that". They didnt want to test that theory.

    • @daisyviluck7932
      @daisyviluck7932 Год назад

      I guess, it’s worth a shot

  • @StarlasAiko
    @StarlasAiko 3 года назад +3

    With view to SHTF Prepping, there is also the opposite method. When times are good, be noticeable...be VERY noticeable. Don't let anybody know you are prepping, but turn heads when ever you walk down the street. Most people recognise others by associative markers, including the situation or environment they typically meet somebody. Loud clothes, flashy hair style, sing loudly as you walk, always found in specific places at specific predictable times...they all create and eventually hardwire the attributes by which people identify you.
    As soon as SHTF, you are gone, disappeared. People won't be ale to find you because every single associative marker by which they'd recognise you is gone...mundane hair style, muted clothes, different territory and time plan, casual but quiet demeanour, ... people may wonder what happened to that freak that always bought a baguette at Subways every Tuesday at 4pm, but nobody would ever hunk that he turned into that quiet respectable guy who eats at Wendy's on Friday afternoons.

  • @Magician12345
    @Magician12345 6 лет назад +375

    I been told from some mexican people (im latino) that they visit people in mexico. i ask them if they're worried about the cartels messing with them and they say as long as you dont wear anything remarkable, mainly like old plain looking clothes, and keep walking not looking around but looking like you've been there a long time and are not a tourist, you have a good chance of not arousing their attention.

    • @TesterBoy
      @TesterBoy 5 лет назад

      Just be a Latino be a hidden gun...

    • @cantrememberusername
      @cantrememberusername 5 лет назад +28

      @Ancestral Sage jajaj its not about looking rich in my poor México, problem is that most americans visit us and they are using cargo shorts, big hats, go pros or big cameras. They are just pretty obvious.

    • @dante_f4563
      @dante_f4563 4 года назад +18

      beware the fat man in the skinny land

    • @jumpscare_jack7412
      @jumpscare_jack7412 4 года назад +2

      @Jesus Will Reign Mexico isnt a "poor country" lol its like any other country almost.

    • @GaryandTerrysgravystain
      @GaryandTerrysgravystain 4 года назад +3

      Ya because billion dollar cartels want to mess with random people on the street

  • @ivyblue1664
    @ivyblue1664 6 лет назад +622

    Turn 50, you disappear. Trust me.

    • @srbaruchi
      @srbaruchi 5 лет назад +45

      Oh, yeah, especially to the opposite sex.

    • @earthatom7
      @earthatom7 5 лет назад +9

      Lol that's funny but in SHTF you suddenly become a target...

    • @bushwhack12
      @bushwhack12 5 лет назад +12

      Yup, ur gonna have lots of gray hair, now they wont notice your hair.

    • @ozdreamtimewizard1329
      @ozdreamtimewizard1329 5 лет назад +1

      Haaa .... true that... yep I noticed that as well 😊

    • @jamesmeritt6800
      @jamesmeritt6800 5 лет назад

      ivyblue1664: unmmm,not necessarily

  • @rp8401
    @rp8401 4 года назад +129

    So you mean I *shouldn't*:
    -Go roaring around in a jacked-up, fully-kitted offroad "survival" vehicle
    -Tromp around everywhere with my buddies all wearing matching tactical vests and milsurp gear
    -Flex about all my preps to everybody to impress people and instill fear in the "libtards"
    This ain't what 90% of your audience wanted to hear, haha.

    • @draven4464
      @draven4464 3 года назад +5

      I know right? It's like I shouldn't dress in the brightest clothing with a gold chain, Iwatch, one earpod texting and walking while wearing large shades a hair perm sagging pants, lime green Nikes and driving a civic with the three inch exaust spinner rims and a sticker bomb

    • @_EllieLOL_
      @_EllieLOL_ 3 года назад +3

      But what _else_ am I supposed to do with my $100,000 heavily armed and armored humvee

  • @kleocatra9675
    @kleocatra9675 Год назад +2

    So basically if your in a crowd and a heavy down pour occur but no one has an umbrella so they are all getting soaked,but you checked the weather and brought an umbrella to keep you dry the umbrella creates a stimulus so you need keep the umbrella hidden and get soaked with everyone else.

  • @00snelly
    @00snelly 5 лет назад +400

    Rule 1: Be an extra in the movie, do not be Brad Pitt

    • @blainesteele5145
      @blainesteele5145 5 лет назад +7

      Yeah... See thats my problem

    • @matthiasthulman4058
      @matthiasthulman4058 5 лет назад +12

      Shit I've nailed that since day one...

    • @esoteric5277
      @esoteric5277 4 года назад +3

      so gray, being an extra in the movie wouldn't even get any pay😶

    • @thisismagacountry1318
      @thisismagacountry1318 4 года назад

      But his patois is so good. Thanks for Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas btw.

    • @42secret42
      @42secret42 4 года назад

      Brad is a soi boi

  • @RotaryPoweredRX
    @RotaryPoweredRX 7 лет назад +97

    thought i read it as ''gravy man''

    • @j.boogie7639
      @j.boogie7639 7 лет назад +18

      Philth Collins mmmmmm. gravy

    • @IETCHX69
      @IETCHX69 7 лет назад +3

      You can fit in a roast beef.

  • @joemarshlljmp
    @joemarshlljmp 4 года назад +7

    After 3 minutes i realized this whole video he just coulda said Blend In, blend in, blend in.

  • @sportkim9923
    @sportkim9923 4 года назад +16

    “Dexter has entered the chat”

    • @baller8332
      @baller8332 3 года назад

      You’re goddamn right.

  • @LOGISTICGAMERZ
    @LOGISTICGAMERZ 7 лет назад +48

    The feels when you've already got low presence.

    • @JuanRios-kh8sq
      @JuanRios-kh8sq 7 лет назад +15

      apparently i learned to be a gray man in public school just trying not to get harassed on a daily basis.

  • @zacharyhawley1693
    @zacharyhawley1693 7 лет назад +62

    1. Act like you belong there.
    2. Assume you are always being watched and appraised in a public or urban area.
    3. Never stop
    4.Avoid curiosity

    • @alwaysflushinpublic
      @alwaysflushinpublic 4 дня назад +1

      What does #2 mean? Assume you are being watched? As in....not being viewed by satellites, cctv's, doorbell cams, or the 6.2 million residents in my city who are all recording non-stop on dashcams, cells.... Oddly enough, the wal mart parking lot seems to be completely private.

  • @ianbakedbean4079
    @ianbakedbean4079 2 года назад

    great video i have to say i have just found your channel and find it really easy to take in the information you give so thank you very much for your content i know this an older video lol i have a lot of catching up to do as a newbie to prepping

  • @landon5583
    @landon5583 4 года назад +28

    How to be a gray man
    Step one: be a gray man

    • @_EllieLOL_
      @_EllieLOL_ 3 года назад

      Step one: go to the local hardware store and buy some gray paint

  • @rycemccall4729
    @rycemccall4729 7 лет назад +243

    why is this in my recommended

    • @majones7030
      @majones7030 7 лет назад

      same for me.

    • @TheLegendarySuperSaiyanBroly
      @TheLegendarySuperSaiyanBroly 7 лет назад +5

      Same.
      We must be the chosen ones loti

    • @backutZR
      @backutZR 7 лет назад

      Ryce McCall it was in my recommended list and I really want to be a gray man so yeah

    • @TrumpetDuck
      @TrumpetDuck 7 лет назад +9

      Ryce McCall same I'm always being recommended to weird ass crap these days

    • @extrememiner9627
      @extrememiner9627 7 лет назад +12

      Thank youtube latest and greatest algorithm.Now with 99% more irrelevant content being recommended towards you.

  • @judas_z1033
    @judas_z1033 7 лет назад +1004

    -how to become grey man-*how to become an assassin*

    • @frothier76
      @frothier76 7 лет назад +14

      Titan Killer 7274 Ezio's robes in Revelations WAS gray, ergo, "gray man" or "assassin Ezio"

    • @kaibaskywalker2725
      @kaibaskywalker2725 7 лет назад +5

      Titan Killer 7274 childish

    • @goodguy1072
      @goodguy1072 7 лет назад +1

      Titan Killer 7274 yes, so much yes

    • @EllyOguttu
      @EllyOguttu 7 лет назад +1

      Yeah assassin creed did not follow this steps at all

    • @Captain_Wet_Beard
      @Captain_Wet_Beard 7 лет назад +7

      The best criminals, especially assassins, are grey men. Being grey means that nobody remembers seeing you, and even if they vaguely remember a person walking by they can't give a description.

  • @michaelwilson8915
    @michaelwilson8915 2 года назад +1

    I don't like a lot of stuff but you have earned the like , you don't know how useful your info is , shall be following 🤜🤛🔥💯🔥

  • @ethanwright7111
    @ethanwright7111 3 года назад +4

    I think I've already got this down: I've made eye contact with friends I've known for years and walked within 3 feet of them while still staring at their eyes, and they still don't notice me. If I'm trying to be noticed and no one notices me, I think I'm doing alright.

  • @-fuzz-xoid_562
    @-fuzz-xoid_562 7 лет назад +212

    I keep trying to become the gray man. but this one guy keeps kicking my ass

    • @williamvanuffelen5303
      @williamvanuffelen5303 7 лет назад +40

      -FUZZ- XoiD_ is it the greyman27?

    • @ashton8237
      @ashton8237 7 лет назад +21

      William van Uffelen No, it's Nelson Mandella

    • @klot2675
      @klot2675 7 лет назад +1

      Ællath HAHAHAHAH well played, good sir!!

    • @frankyperez2729
      @frankyperez2729 7 лет назад +1

      i got that ad right before seeing this comment

    • @elppaenip
      @elppaenip 7 лет назад +12

      -FUZZ- XoiD_ The grey man 27

  • @freddyfred9945
    @freddyfred9945 7 лет назад +57

    I must be the worst "grey man" ever.
    I tried it when I went to go buy some chicken the other night and it didn't work at all. I put on my best "non-descript" attire and walked into Popeye's. Three dudes kept eyeballing me the whole time I was there, and another walked up and asked if I was the guy he did some time with a decade ago.
    If the whole idea of becoming a "grey man" is to not be noticed, I failed miserably.

    • @xpd9961
      @xpd9961 7 лет назад

      thats good when they see you, you aren't you you're that one family friend or that guy I once knew not remembering your face but the face of someone else

    • @boxerchester0933
      @boxerchester0933 7 лет назад

      Freddy Fred
      I did this successfully and I'm 13

    • @freddyfred9945
      @freddyfred9945 7 лет назад

      Then you must be a boring, unremarkable, indistinct, uninteresting and generic person.
      You'll be popular in high school.

    • @xpd9961
      @xpd9961 7 лет назад

      Freddy Fred 0.0 catty woah

    • @freddyfred9945
      @freddyfred9945 7 лет назад

      He started it.

  • @leyenda6149
    @leyenda6149 4 года назад +2

    Should I discontinue shaving and getting my hair cut? Also, I live in the suburbs. Should I stop cutting my lawn?