You know she doesnt even want a good man, when he finally steps up and wants to be a good man she stirs drama and gets her fill of excitement and mannipulation.
Shanda Barnes Me too Shanda. At least 10 times in this episode. I feel sorry for the dad because it didn't seem like she heard what the judge was trying to tell her. Too busy thinking about being right and what she wanted to say.
Yes I absolutely agree Judge Lauren has a lot of patients !! The child's mother just couldn't be quiet and listen !! I wish some people would understand that you got 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason and that's to listen more and not talk so much !
Ikr she remind me of Tamar Braxton the way she run her mouth and don't let nobody get a word in lol. She needs to be cordial towards her baby's father and let him be there for his child.
I wish I could speak as quickly and as well as she does. She can take the most awful statements and translate them so you can see the emotions behind the bluster. I feel like she also has real moral authority.
When someone do you so dirty it's hard to put your feelings a side, because she have been disappointed throught their relationship she gonna think he's gonna dissapoint their child.
@@keepitpushing3000 So what about you tell him it's not your baby and he just disappear and you lost all his contacts!? It's going to be hard for your son to see his father again and it's going to be your fault!
@@africaindabuilding9541 I don't have kids yet lol. I'm just trying to see from her perspective. If he's not taking care of one child he's not gonna take care of the child he has with this woman. I'm just trying to be in her shoes for a bit instead of judging her.
Oh my goodness. Imagine having to deal with this woman and her attitude. I love that Judge Lake told her there are men that do not come to see their children cause they don't want to deal with a woman that acts like her.
She didn't even hear what the judge said. She thinks she is supposed to act like that (she had the wrong examples in her life) to be a woman. The judge wisely rephrased it, because she saw she was talking to a human being who was not yet ready to hear those words to make a change in her life!
Ms. Harris she live other side off the county I will slap her so hard reason why I want slap her because she stand there smile and not tell the truth star play the flame game
Just because a man gets on your nerves doesn’t mean you should tell him he’s not the father , when he starts doubting he’s not really the father you blame him for not wanting to be the father , some woman 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly. Some times men cheat because woman don't let up. Sometimes we cheat cause females are like this before we cheat. It drives us to it evan if it's going to make our lives worse. The females don't care and hide the attitude then let it out when they get comfy. You gotta work take care of kids her and be cursed out at the same time.
@@philipmonroe81 men who constantly cheat help to create this type of woman. She has scars and doesn't know how to vent her insecurities. It's a fight or flight mentality that produces a negative reaction in a dysfunctional relationship!!
She kept bashing him for not taking care of the 1st child, but she has a second one. Yet called him dumb. I feel bad for the father and having to deal with her.
@@bubyvargas2502 how are you completely negating that woman TOLD him numerous times that the kid wasn’t his and literally handed him a reason to doubt her? Also denies* not denys
@@HeyitsBri_ hey spelling police lol 😂 because he chose the predicament he is in 💁🏼♀️ DNA can be done during pregnancy before a child is born at the hospital 🤔 so he knew what steps he was taking so byeee
Wait, wait, they been together off and on for 15 years and during that time she lost her boyfriend of 8 years. Someone draw me a timeline cause I wanna know if those two relationships overlapped...
She said “between the time me and him weren’t together them 10 years I lost my boyfriend of eight years” so I assume when it says they’re relationship was on and off for 15 years they’re implying they was together before her 8 year relationship and reconnected after it had ended
She resentful because her “baby daddy” no longer desires her, and like the judge said, it’s not about you anymore Miss, it’s about the baby. She’s definitely going to use that precious baby boy as a pawn.
The judge told Ms. Harris "There are men who don't come see their children because they don't want to deal with a woman who act like you." I LOVE WHEN THE JUDGE TOLD HER THAT. She needed to hear that. She got a big mouth.
@@Dra_Que_XO .... true, BUT let me tell you this. If I know I am going have to deal with a bunch of bullshyt with "you" every time I come over there, you had better believe that I am not coming over there any time beyond when I am allowed to my kid. so, you are right that nothing should keep a parent from seeing their kid, BUT just remember that many parents do more than the minimum. If there is gonna be drama, then some suddenly will only do the minimum which is sad.
Women need to learn how to separate their relationship from the child's relationship with the man. If he is no good, a liar and a cheat stop entertaining his company. You can be coparents without sleeping together. He will always be your child's father. You chose to keep him as your man.
Oooooweeeeee I understand she is hurt by the relationship but she made ME TIRED!! Too much ...too much!! Clearly this is moreso about her still being in love with him and hurt by his cheating than being concerned about him having a healthy relationship with his son. I pray for her healing for her son's sake.
You're correct and she needs to see this video, because she is a piece of work. She needs to see how shameful she really is. Judge Judy would've said "You chose her and she chose him". 😑😑😑😑😑😑
There is no 'closure, there is no 'moving on,' because now she's stuck with him. She has to work it out and stop juggling her head and being chaotic. She acknowledged she was seeing another man in that time frame, so he had every reason to doubt her. Especially when she said he isn't the father.
I've dated a woman like this before that I wanted to marry...psshh.... Broke up then years later another woman just like her came along and she's starting to act the same way because of how her ex's did her
Always has to have the last word. Study to be quiet...All that talking and yelling and screaming, and cutting the judge off, I can't even imagine how she is at home.
See...women like HER always places the blame on the man whose been there for the longest but yet stepped out of the relationship with another man, cutting people off in court, raggedy mumble mouth...clearly having a disdain towards her father and to makes matters worse, you tell this man that he's not the father of this child when it's convenient for you(the female plaintiff at the podium) Black Men...my best advice, if you don't want any children with women like her(as soon as opens her mouth with that "raggedy trying to be cute dialect always wanted to right in the conversation"...RUN AWAY like you're in a horror movie and you don't want to be killed within the 1st 10 minutes💨
He knew who he was messing with from the get go. Idk why y'all always say attitude he not gone stay, clearly it's alot of angry ones that keep a man. All them babies around here
@@walkingintruthknowledge7418 they were off and on for 15 years for a reason. Can you stay with someone like her? Lol she might have great cookies. Who knows. He might also care for her and just can't be around her for long. Who knows.
@@darrius3685 Right. Her MOUTH & attitude is probably what kept him leaving. Women don't realize (we) run🏃men away with nasty attitudes. Idc how good ur cookies are. Don't no man wanna hear all that nagging 24/7. She's probably like this everyday. & If he was cheating then leave him & keep ur legs closed. The faster she did that, the faster she'd start the healing process so she can be a better co-parent with the dad for her son. She still loves him. But they're toxic together. Too much negativity has happened in this relationship. Let it go & move forward. Parents only..not lovers. Just my two cents💁
Merouria If he doesn't, i hope for the child's sake he does.. It would be because she drove him away from the child.. They were never in a long_term relationship, they were on/off. For many years. Not good for the either.
This is the textbook definition of a bitter woman. Unfortunately she loved that man too much and he left her heartbroken so her words are sharp, she doesn’t care how she acts towards him because the aim is to try to hurt him as much as he has her, once she realizes that it’s not worth it her heart and resentment will be healed and the co-parenting could be healthier.
Why do women do that? Tell a man that he's not the father in a fit of anger. Ladies don't you know that he'll cut you off until he gets a paternity test? No support for you!!
The fact that there is a whole TV show about Paternity Court says a whole lot about the immortality and irresponsible behaviour of these people. Lord help the millions of babies being born into these volatile relationships.
Angry. Bitter. But clearly heartbroken by this man. You can only truly hate someone you TRULY love. She’s just lost. Going about this the wrong way. 🤦🏾♂️. Sad situation for the baby tho.
*Well, let him do then! This is emotional for him because he SIGNS the birth certificate thinking maybe pregnancy hormones were responsible for her being mean to him and saying he wasn't the dad..then.. Just like he said, he starts bonding with son (broke or not) BUT THEN she drops that bombshell AGAIN after the baby is here! So then, that REALLY puts doubt in his mind and he gets to thinking..what if that kid really isn't mine?* *After the DNA results he IS EMOTIONAL (and rightfully so) realizing WITHOUT A DOUBT he is the little boys father!* (That plus realizing how hard it will be for the next 17 yrs having to deal with this lady now that its his for sure!) So you all *LOLing you can TAKE SEVERAL SEATS!* Personally, I just want to HUG HIM! Ya'all can stay with or look for the HEARTLESS MEN out there, lI'll take the one who can show SOME EMOTION when very necessary! *SMDH!*
Girl I’m over here hollering!!!! This is the funniest episode I’ve seen yet and I’ve been binge watching for two weeks!!! When she said this ain’t no lifetime 💀 I died 😂
This young queen reminded me of myself when I was buried in pain. She needs to take time to grieve the loss of the love of her life and time to QUIET her spirit. Pain, anger, and regret causes constant exploding. When a woman allows the WRONG man to ENTER her temple and desposit DNA that stays forever, internal CHAOS ENSUES She has gotta mentally and spiritually detox. I recognize her fury...I had a baby by the WRONG man. The baby is a blessing; yet the bond-age to the father was a burden until I detoxed. Praying 4 this young queen. Wow...I understand.
Cameron Bailey I don’t need to listen to anything because my husband and I are doing quite fine. Also, this does not only apply to black women. I know first hand since I have clients of all races that I work with that have these issues and worse. Nice try though.
I'm glad Judge Lake said what she said, jus because the dude getting on your nerves doesn't mean he's getting on that babys nerves children need both parents, even if they cant stand each other..
She is hurt and still loves him but her false pride too strong to let go and let the man be a good dad. The judge was so right at the end I wouldn't want to do visit my kid and have to deal with her evertime. My sons mother and I meet at a grocery store for drop off and pickup I don't even speak this woman reminds me of her hair, physically, mouth, and all.
ReRe T BOFL 😂😂👊🏾😂😂 I hope he don’t get into any trouble at school cuz boooiii that wld be a punishment jus to hear her the whole weekend aside from the actual punishment 🗣👦🏾🙆🏾♂️
That woman got on MY nerves!! Especially with the “First of All” phrase, and she still didn’t make a valid point. Then she want to talk down on the guy, talking about how broke he is along with being a deadbeat dad. She wasn’t saying that when she was laying up with him. She needs some help BAD!!!
She was really hurt by his infidelities... she gotta go take some time to heal cause otherwise she’s going to ruin herself. She so hurt she not even realizing it, just screaming out in anger. Hope she gets help for the benefit of her and her baby
Just be quiet already! U can tell he dogged her out and I know she hurt. I get that, but dang. Now I know when men say "she talk n nag too much". I wonder if I be like this sometimes...hmmm
She's a Nat Nat,Loud,Ghetto, and trying to be controlling which, I believe she still wants to deal with him on the low, why bring up things about him cheating when it's about the child,,she want even let the man state his statement clearly cause she doing all the talking over him ugh...
It’s unfortunate how toxic some relationships can be when communication is not a factor. Lord I pray for all relationships please help mankind learn how to communicate effectively and lovingly with one another. Todays people are not interested in listening, repairing, and building I pray you renew the essence of true relationships and restore the values in family and all partnerships! Heal the hearts of your people God for the sake of healthy families! Amen 🙏
She is so full of herself, it's irritating. The way she talked down to him and dismissed his feelings, speaks to why he stepped back and stepped out on her in the 1st place. I hope he just raises his son and sets her free, since she clearly doesnt respect him.
Yall see attitude i see a woman that has unresolved issues n is in pain. I wish we had more compassion for black women that are forced to put up a fake act of being tough...they have been beat down cheated on n dogged out...she needs empathy n counseling. Prayers up for her healing
No one forced her to lay down with this man or any of the other men she may have been with. Possessing a heart of compassion is a beautiful thing. However, we can not sit around babying grown people who can make choices for themselves. We also can not continue to excuse our present behavior as a result of past pains. God bless.
tc g please leave the colour out when making a comment about women, do you think every white woman has a great man, a great home, car kids etc. No we don't we still feel the fears that other people feel, we still are poor, we still struggle for job, our biggest struggle is getting a house in an area we were brought upon when we if lucky we get thrown up the flats while so many refugees the 3 /4 apartment new builds. Try telling a mother who has tried to get bigger house born n bread up here only to watching new comers come in and get new
Girl, you keep messing with him. If he’s such a cheater and liar then why are you still messing with him and going back to him! Geeze she’s exhausting! 🙈 he at least seems like he will continue to be a good dad to his son.
🤦🏾♀️ Sis u had about 13 years to leave this man alone if his cheating ways bothered u so much.
buh she also slept with someone weeks before sleeping with him
For real
She kept trying to dance around that though
Right!!
You know she doesnt even want a good man, when he finally steps up and wants to be a good man she stirs drama and gets her fill of excitement and mannipulation.
Judge Lauren has exceeded my expectations. She is beyond patient. This Mother got on my every last nerve interrupting and talking over everybody.😬
Shanda Barnes Me too Shanda. At least 10 times in this episode. I feel sorry for the dad because it didn't seem like she heard what the judge was trying to tell her. Too busy thinking about being right and what she wanted to say.
[MS] Darian Kelly They we’re together for 15 years it said at the beginning
She talks entirely TOO much.
Yes I absolutely agree Judge Lauren has a lot of patients !! The child's mother just couldn't be quiet and listen !! I wish some people would understand that you got 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason and that's to listen more and not talk so much !
Ikr she remind me of Tamar Braxton the way she run her mouth and don't let nobody get a word in lol. She needs to be cordial towards her baby's father and let him be there for his child.
I go straight to the comments! 😂😂 I know, it's a bad habit. I'm not the only one.
Bre Williams ... I do them both together.... Watch and read comments❗️
music2306lover I read and watch as well! But then somehow I miss stuff! 😅
I try to refrain from looking cause I don’t want to spoil the results
I know, me too!
No you not
Does this gilrl EVER STOP TALKING?????!!!!! My GOD!
BrookeElise81 nerp
@@Homynum 😂😂😂
Parroting
She had to get the last word. She never shut up. She talk so much she can't see her own reflection in the mirror.
My thoughts exactly
She says he was illiterate and broke. She didn't care about that when he was hitting it raw.
noooo
That’s the kind of males these idiots like...
Facts 💯
Wish I could like this comment 10x
True
Judge Lauren has such an elegant and educated way of saying SHUT UP AND LISTEN.
I wish I could speak as quickly and as well as she does. She can take the most awful statements and translate them so you can see the emotions behind the bluster. I feel like she also has real moral authority.
Vanna Wood I love her! I truly admire and respect her.
No fr tho, she’s so annoying. I’d hate to get stuck w/her
That didn't work
And yet she STILL did not shut up and listen
Her attitude is the worst, I understand it's a stressful situation but get out your feelings and do it for your baby
When someone do you so dirty it's hard to put your feelings a side, because she have been disappointed throught their relationship she gonna think he's gonna dissapoint their child.
She was just acting LOUD AND GHETTO!
@Breezy B for real though smfh!
@@keepitpushing3000 So what about you tell him it's not your baby and he just disappear and you lost all his contacts!? It's going to be hard for your son to see his father again and it's going to be your fault!
@@africaindabuilding9541 I don't have kids yet lol. I'm just trying to see from her perspective. If he's not taking care of one child he's not gonna take care of the child he has with this woman. I'm just trying to be in her shoes for a bit instead of judging her.
Oh my goodness. Imagine having to deal with this woman and her attitude. I love that Judge Lake told her there are men that do not come to see their children cause they don't want to deal with a woman that acts like her.
Yea she's a bit much!!
I wouldn't wanna be around her either.
Hopefully this will not only be heard by this young lady, but others, and a change taken place, to put these beautiful babies first, instead of self.
I deal with this all the time. Not paturnity, but dealing with a woman that cuts low and won't shut up.
She didn't even hear what the judge said. She thinks she is supposed to act like that (she had the wrong examples in her life) to be a woman. The judge wisely rephrased it, because she saw she was talking to a human being who was not yet ready to hear those words to make a change in her life!
Omg, even while the judge is talking she’s still interjecting. So annoying
Judge Judy would’ve told her to quit lol
I read this while she was interrupting
@@Missingonesmatter I'M... SPEAKING!!!!
“i don’t want him in my life” THEN SIS WHY YU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM 🙄?!
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Fr. She be like he don’t even take care of his other kids then why she lay down with him. 😮
Me: I will not squander the best years of my youth watching paternity videos
Also me: OK OK...Just one more
That's me every night after 10 episodes 😂🤣😂
Me too
Im officially addicted
I feel you this is me 100%
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Ms. Harris was getting on my nerves
RIGHT!
He was just as irritating acting like a child back.
Listennnn you think its you!!!! The judge tolerated her too long!
Ms. Harris she live other side off the county I will slap her so hard reason why I want slap her because she stand there smile and not tell the truth star play the flame game
Her voice reminds me of “Tasha Skanks” on Greenleaf 🤣😂
I've never understood the concept of "tell him he ain't the father and get mad when he believes me". Why is that even a thought when you get upset?
jjjj
The thought is call stupidity..
You should NEVER say that!! I don't care how angry you are! You can never take it back!
Makes no sense to me
Now that i dont understand.
I never understood why women do that and they get upset when they fueled our doubts smh 🤦🏾♂️
She wouldn’t have been carrying on like that with Judge Judy!
Yeah
True
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True that lol
Tan Elise indeed
She is NOT ABLE to shut tf up for just ONCE...
Just because a man gets on your nerves doesn’t mean you should tell him he’s not the father , when he starts doubting he’s not really the father you blame him for not wanting to be the father , some woman 🤦🏽♀️
Women really need to stop ringing that 🔕
I don't understand why some women say that dumb stuff. I never told my daughter's dad that when we have disagreements.
Then turn around and say You was Never there for the Baby
@@Riosmoove122 exactly you can't expect a man who you told out of your own mouth it wasn't his baby to take care of your child.
@@sholacreighton8610 Girl me neither and he got on my last nerve but I never placed any doubt.
She so hung up on him cheating she can't even listen to the judge. She is terrible 🙄
HORRIBLE!!!
Exactly. Some times men cheat because woman don't let up. Sometimes we cheat cause females are like this before we cheat. It drives us to it evan if it's going to make our lives worse. The females don't care and hide the attitude then let it out when they get comfy. You gotta work take care of kids her and be cursed out at the same time.
Philip Monroe ok but if you see a woman like this in the beginning why stay? Why put her through the madness?
Ms_nibri28 I agree with your point his point is invalid. Don’t say women made y’all cheat.
@@philipmonroe81 men who constantly cheat help to create this type of woman. She has scars and doesn't know how to vent her insecurities. It's a fight or flight mentality that produces a negative reaction in a dysfunctional relationship!!
A woman should never tell a man that he is not the father to hurt him or for any reason.
Well American women do that all day.
@@dontrustwhiteyevery1 All 167,000,000 of us?
Ryte dat way💯💯☝🏾👏🏾🤦🏾♂️
She kept bashing him for not taking care of the 1st child, but she has a second one. Yet called him dumb. I feel bad for the father and having to deal with her.
They make beautiful babies. Aedin
They fight like "Lucious and Cookie" ... Ain't neither one of them leavin'! LOL! That baby is too cute!
If you thought he didn’t take care of his first child why would you lay down and get pregnant by him Petunia?? She is country af.
J Shei same thing I’m saying and calling him broke but yet stayed with him on an off 15yrs but kept talking about him cheating
Petunia LOOOOOL. Haha Girl That Comment Literally Took Me Out!🤣
You Wrong For That Ish🤣🤣🤣
She love the wood.
Cause she’s dumb
Watched him not take care of his first child. Still has a baby by him.
She’s a fool and I strongly believe that some women just decide they’re going to let any man get them pregnant 💯
How is she clowning him on literacy when she speaks fluent ratchet? Ma'am, you need to quit.
Fluent ratchet 🤣🤣🤣
Straight up trash
Exactly
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@@barbaramilone2800 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I feel sorry he has to deal with her for the next 18 years...shes the true definition of a "bitter baby mama" smh
How you feeling sorry for a man who sleeps with a women and Denys a baby ? Knowing he might be a father 🤔 he worst then her if not the same
@@bubyvargas2502 how are you completely negating that woman TOLD him numerous times that the kid wasn’t his and literally handed him a reason to doubt her? Also denies* not denys
@@HeyitsBri_ hey spelling police lol 😂 because he chose the predicament he is in 💁🏼♀️ DNA can be done during pregnancy before a child is born at the hospital 🤔 so he knew what steps he was taking so byeee
Not just 18 years forever because I’m in a similar situation with my youngest son’s mother so,I empathize with Mr.Sterling 🤦🏾♂️
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Awww. That must have been an amazing present: Having your baby on your birthday
baybeetricia I know right!!
Youre the only one that found light out of this dark stuff. Hats off to you.
And made on Valentines Day!!!
Yep that's what happend with me and my son! Something very special about sharing your birthday with your baby
I almost had my daughter on my birthday but she was born the day before 🤣 if only she could've waited a few hours
“ I rubbed them big ole feet “ had me in stitches
i fell out and even more so cuz Judge Lake lost it too! she couldn't even deny the foolery
Lol me too.
Crying laughing...😂😂😂
MsTna that was too funny 😂
MsTna 💀💀💀
Wait, wait, they been together off and on for 15 years and during that time she lost her boyfriend of 8 years. Someone draw me a timeline cause I wanna know if those two relationships overlapped...
Im confused too lol
I thought I was the only one. Like was the other guy from her early childhood or what
She said “between the time me and him weren’t together them 10 years I lost my boyfriend of eight years” so I assume when it says they’re relationship was on and off for 15 years they’re implying they was together before her 8 year relationship and reconnected after it had ended
@@LA-xo6vn Got it thanks
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The judge was so right most men don’t wonna see their kids of baby mamas like her
She did not want the judge to say anything to her.
She didn’t shut her mouth through the entire hearing. My goodness. I’ll pray for her child’s father for having to deal with her.
Shan Yvonne
*Right? SMDH!*
She resentful because her “baby daddy” no longer desires her, and like the judge said, it’s not about you anymore Miss, it’s about the baby. She’s definitely going to use that precious baby boy as a pawn.
Off and on 15 years, but lost her boyfriend of 8 years 😬😬🙄🙄
😆, you were listening.
There has to be at least one more
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She did say they were apart for 10 years which is when she dated the deceased man
Right I was doing that math like 🤔
The judge told Ms. Harris "There are men who don't come see their children because they don't want to deal with a woman who act like you." I LOVE WHEN THE JUDGE TOLD HER THAT. She needed to hear that. She got a big mouth.
Doesn't stop you for seeing your seed. Nothing or anybody should come between you and your child or should it stop you from seeing your child.
@@Dra_Que_XOactually does, if every time he's going to see his kid the mother keeps this level of non sense it will get really tiring.
She kept quiet for a minute when the judge told her that
I don't think she heard it though.
@@Dra_Que_XO .... true, BUT let me tell you this.
If I know I am going have to deal with a bunch of bullshyt with "you" every time I come over there, you had better believe that I am not coming over there any time beyond when I am allowed to my kid.
so, you are right that nothing should keep a parent from seeing their kid, BUT just remember that many parents do more than the minimum. If there is gonna be drama, then some suddenly will only do the minimum which is sad.
Women need to learn how to separate their relationship from the child's relationship with the man. If he is no good, a liar and a cheat stop entertaining his company. You can be coparents without sleeping together. He will always be your child's father. You chose to keep him as your man.
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Oooooweeeeee I understand she is hurt by the relationship but she made ME TIRED!! Too much ...too much!! Clearly this is moreso about her still being in love with him and hurt by his cheating than being concerned about him having a healthy relationship with his son. I pray for her healing for her son's sake.
She talks so much :>
Too*
and says nothing.
For real!
Just like you baby.
Sandrina Nauhau no. So is also the correct usage. Dont correct anybody when you dont fully understand the english language.
She’s a scorned women, very bitter because of the past and she need to get closure and move on.
You're correct and she needs to see this video, because she is a piece of work. She needs to see how shameful she really is. Judge Judy would've said "You chose her and she chose him". 😑😑😑😑😑😑
There is no 'closure, there is no 'moving on,' because now she's stuck with him. She has to work it out and stop juggling her head and being chaotic. She acknowledged she was seeing another man in that time frame, so he had every reason to doubt her. Especially when she said he isn't the father.
I've dated a woman like this before that I wanted to marry...psshh.... Broke up then years later another woman just like her came along and she's starting to act the same way because of how her ex's did her
She caused her on frustration if you Kno some one cheats why keep dealing with them
You’re always on point
This relationship is so toxic 🤦🏾♀️
Her mouth just won't stop & MOVE ON! 🤦🏾♀️ Toxic life for this precious baby 😔🙏🏽☮
Always has to have the last word. Study to be quiet...All that talking and yelling and screaming, and cutting the judge off, I can't even imagine how she is at home.
See...women like HER always places the blame on the man whose been there for the longest but yet stepped out of the relationship with another man, cutting people off in court, raggedy mumble mouth...clearly having a disdain towards her father and to makes matters worse, you tell this man that he's not the father of this child when it's convenient for you(the female plaintiff at the podium) Black Men...my best advice, if you don't want any children with women like her(as soon as opens her mouth with that "raggedy trying to be cute dialect always wanted to right in the conversation"...RUN AWAY like you're in a horror movie and you don't want to be killed within the 1st 10 minutes💨
Lettuce Preey it was so aggravating. She gave me a headache
@@nettawiggins9776 likewise
Lettuce Preey She don't act like that at home youngsta
you think it was all an act huh
She talks too much! I can’t stand this mother... yikes glue her lips together
Shonta Taylor i can agree with you ma'am
And her legs 🦵🏾
She got hella attitude he definitely not sticking around
He knew who he was messing with from the get go. Idk why y'all always say attitude he not gone stay, clearly it's alot of angry ones that keep a man. All them babies around here
@@walkingintruthknowledge7418 they were off and on for 15 years for a reason. Can you stay with someone like her? Lol she might have great cookies. Who knows. He might also care for her and just can't be around her for long. Who knows.
@@darrius3685 Right. Her MOUTH & attitude is probably what kept him leaving. Women don't realize (we) run🏃men away with nasty attitudes. Idc how good ur cookies are. Don't no man wanna hear all that nagging 24/7. She's probably like this everyday. & If he was cheating then leave him & keep ur legs closed. The faster she did that, the faster she'd start the healing process so she can be a better co-parent with the dad for her son. She still loves him. But they're toxic together. Too much negativity has happened in this relationship. Let it go & move forward. Parents only..not lovers. Just my two cents💁
Merouria
If he doesn't, i hope for the child's sake he does.. It would be because she drove him away from the child.. They were never in a long_term relationship, they were on/off. For many years. Not good for the either.
I think he wants to be there for the kid but he doesn't want to deal with her...
She is Tamar 2.0, her voice is causing great anxiety in my life.
MzYoShow exactly right.
Definitely and she favors her
😂
Yesssss!!!
1/2... Tamar is the loudest by far..she famous. I still got ear problems
I love when the judge laughs because she does such a great job at holdin it in majority of the time.
This episode literally gave me a head ache. Wow!!! I'm sorry for this man.
Me too, hopefully they can come parent. Poor baby!!!
Now that they know hes is the father they BOTH need to grow up and raise this beautiful child in a positive environment as coparents
She the boss she rule him she dont respect him at all.
I feel bad for this man. He's going to have to deal with her nasty attitude for the next 17 years.
He got what he deserves don’t feel bad
This is the textbook definition of a bitter woman. Unfortunately she loved that man too much and he left her heartbroken so her words are sharp, she doesn’t care how she acts towards him because the aim is to try to hurt him as much as he has her, once she realizes that it’s not worth it her heart and resentment will be healed and the co-parenting could be healthier.
That woman got on my nerves! The judge is spot on no one wants to deal with that kinda drama!!!
Why do women do that? Tell a man that he's not the father in a fit of anger. Ladies don't you know that he'll cut you off until he gets a paternity test? No support for you!!
Because most of them think on their emotions and call themselves trying to hurt someone. But they always get mad when it backfires on them.
Scores Man exactly
You're correct but also it's called immaturity. 😖😖😖😖
"Primary care gynecologist" I am cracking up
Desiree Allen 💀😂😂😂
Translation: She helps the old ladies at the retirement home,
Desiree Allen I didn't think no else caught that lmmafo
cooblur 😂😂😂😂 Yassss
She was using extra words trying to sound smart.
These r the women raising the future of the world... that’s sad
The fact that there is a whole TV show about Paternity Court says a whole lot about the immortality and irresponsible behaviour of these people.
Lord help the millions of babies being born into these volatile relationships.
This judge is so classy, I love her!!!
I’m confused about Ms. Harris’s body and head - they do not seem to go together.
Right lol
She still got that baby weight. You can tell she wasn't originally that big
RIGHT!!!
Let'sBeCivil,ShallWe? She look pregnant again 🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂
Such a handsome lil guy. Hopefully his mother gets over her bitterness before her son is old enough to be affected by her emotions.
She reminds me of Tamar Braxton.
SAME
They sound like twins😊
You took the words right out of my mouth. She sure does 😂
Yes
Tamar is loud but I don't think he would do something as such though cause she's more grown than this woman!
Lol you can tell sometimes Judge Lake has had enough of these people by the time she gets to the results... 😄
She is straight ATLANTA!!!
I couldn't imagine being in a on and off relationship for 15 years. That's sad af. That boy looks to much like him, for it not to be his
Those ears!
DEAD🤦🏾♀️”WE WILL SAVE THAT FOR COUPLES COURT”🤦🏾♀️
I died, couples court🤔
Angry. Bitter. But clearly heartbroken by this man. You can only truly hate someone you TRULY love. She’s just lost. Going about this the wrong way. 🤦🏾♂️. Sad situation for the baby tho.
Yeah, she loved him and he hurt her, she's angry and lacks any respect for him. He's gonna have hard way to go for the next 18 years.
Dang I wish the mom would stop trying to have the last word sheesh 🤦🏾♀️
he gon cry in the car 😢
Lol
William Johnson 🤣🤣🤣
Bol😂😂
*Well, let him do then! This is emotional for him because he SIGNS the birth certificate thinking maybe pregnancy hormones were responsible for her being mean to him and saying he wasn't the dad..then.. Just like he said, he starts bonding with son (broke or not) BUT THEN she drops that bombshell AGAIN after the baby is here! So then, that REALLY puts doubt in his mind and he gets to thinking..what if that kid really isn't mine?*
*After the DNA results he IS EMOTIONAL (and rightfully so) realizing WITHOUT A DOUBT he is the little boys father!* (That plus realizing how hard it will be for the next 17 yrs having to deal with this lady now that its his for sure!)
So you all *LOLing you can TAKE SEVERAL SEATS!* Personally, I just want to HUG HIM! Ya'all can stay with or look for the HEARTLESS MEN out there, lI'll take the one who can show SOME EMOTION when very necessary! *SMDH!*
Changa Muda true
Yall the baby mama.. is hilarious to me!! im dying laughing..she so extra. especially when he started crying
Shon B..yes.. “This ain’t lifetime..stop it...”
Girl I’m over here hollering!!!! This is the funniest episode I’ve seen yet and I’ve been binge watching for two weeks!!! When she said this ain’t no lifetime 💀 I died 😂
Mike Chance ikr 😂😂😂😂
carmen doakes She said , dont sit here and kick it like you do NOW!! kmsl.. im hollering
If someone can tell me when these two go on Couple's Court I will great appreciate it lol
baybeetricia 😭😭😭
🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂 .....he's gonna be looking like 👴🏿 in six months
She is so bitter
Let it go girl
This young queen reminded me of myself when I was buried in pain. She needs to take time to grieve the loss of the love of her life and time to QUIET her spirit.
Pain, anger, and regret causes constant exploding. When a woman allows the WRONG man to ENTER her temple and desposit DNA that stays forever, internal CHAOS ENSUES She has gotta mentally and spiritually detox. I recognize her fury...I had a baby by the WRONG man. The baby is a blessing; yet the bond-age to the father was a burden until I detoxed. Praying 4 this young queen. Wow...I understand.
KC Cristian generational curses
Tamar Braxton vibes to the fullest
Tiffany haddish
And the complexion and neck movements
You are right, she does look her, no wonder I find her to be very hot and sexy. 😁😁😁😁😁
This woman does not give herself a chance to listen when someone is talking. She could be a type of a 'headache' wife.
V m she won’t be a wife. Forever “just kicking it” because no man would put up with that attitude
That leaky roof....drop, drop, drop......till you want to screem.
@@shanigawa Raggedy black women need to listen to this@15:35...please pay closely attention...🍵👀🍵👀💯
Cameron Bailey
I don’t need to listen to anything because my husband and I are doing quite fine. Also, this does not only apply to black women. I know first hand since I have clients of all races that I work with that have these issues and worse. Nice try though.
"rubbing them big ole feet"😂😂
🤔 I get the feeling she wants him in HER life more then the childs life I could be wrong but I could be right. 🤔
she only want him sexually ...baby is his spit image
Yes, he is a nice looking chocolate specimen !!
Both parents brought a beautiful son. In the world.
I'm glad Judge Lake said what she said, jus because the dude getting on your nerves doesn't mean he's getting on that babys nerves children need both parents, even if they cant stand each other..
Those 2 have a sadistic love for each other
Shaking my head!! Get out the comments & watch the episode 😭😭
I bet judge lake is a great mom!
Girl if I hear “fIrSt Of AlL... one more time 🤦🏾♀️
😂
Hahahahahha
Lol
Chantel... first of all..
.I am dying how funny this comment is🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅🤷🏾♀️
She runs her mouth far too much! I see why he stays away, He seems like he is a good father for the baby, but he should not stay with her.
40 % of fathers never see there kids again a % of them stay away due to women like this its just not worth it . Fact. They just love drama. MGTOW.
If he doesn't take care of his other child, I'm not sure that he's a good father to this one. But hoping that he is for the child's sake.
She is hurt and still loves him but her false pride too strong to let go and let the man be a good dad. The judge was so right at the end I wouldn't want to do visit my kid and have to deal with her evertime. My sons mother and I meet at a grocery store for drop off and pickup I don't even speak this woman reminds me of her hair, physically, mouth, and all.
They gave me a headache, I can only imagine that poor child will have migraines.
ReRe T BOFL 😂😂👊🏾😂😂 I hope he don’t get into any trouble at school cuz boooiii that wld be a punishment jus to hear her the whole weekend aside from the actual punishment 🗣👦🏾🙆🏾♂️
Lol
That woman got on MY nerves!! Especially with the “First of All” phrase, and she still didn’t make a valid point. Then she want to talk down on the guy, talking about how broke he is along with being a deadbeat dad. She wasn’t saying that when she was laying up with him. She needs some help BAD!!!
Judge was right, a woman like that would make a man not want to deal with his own seed
She was really hurt by his infidelities... she gotta go take some time to heal cause otherwise she’s going to ruin herself. She so hurt she not even realizing it, just screaming out in anger. Hope she gets help for the benefit of her and her baby
That is so true
Just be quiet already! U can tell he dogged her out and I know she hurt. I get that, but dang. Now I know when men say "she talk n nag too much". I wonder if I be like this sometimes...hmmm
Okay 😂💪
It ALWAYS be like that lol . Men are something else I tell u
She's a Nat Nat,Loud,Ghetto, and trying to be controlling which, I believe she still wants to deal with him on the low, why bring up things about him cheating when it's about the child,,she want even let the man state his statement clearly cause she doing all the talking over him ugh...
I think, by the sound of it that they're still together
Tyrah Williams that's what I was thinking u can tell
This episode is old but yeah i bet by now they have more kids. Disgusting.
So this is supposed to make us feel better about the 51 sec video 😂
Exactly hahahahahaha
Ompha Shandukani right 😩😂
Ompha Shandukani yep I thought I had missed roll call. Playing with our emotions🤣
Look...that 51 sec video messed with me sooo bad!!
I even thought I was imagining things or I fast forwarded the video by mistake. They took us on an emotional ride.
It’s unfortunate how toxic some relationships can be when communication is not a factor. Lord I pray for all relationships please help mankind learn how to communicate effectively and lovingly with one another. Todays people are not interested in listening, repairing, and building I pray you renew the essence of true relationships and restore the values in family and all partnerships! Heal the hearts of your people God for the sake of healthy families! Amen 🙏
She is so full of herself, it's irritating. The way she talked down to him and dismissed his feelings, speaks to why he stepped back and stepped out on her in the 1st place. I hope he just raises his son and sets her free, since she clearly doesnt respect him.
everytime she opens her mouth garbage spews out she chose him and continues to chase him 🙄 this is a hot mess
The way she run her mouth.. I can see why it’s an on & off relationship. Jesus
When she say's "hold on sir " 🤦🤣😂
Why did I read this in her voice! 🤣
right lol I'm havec2 use that
Yall see attitude i see a woman that has unresolved issues n is in pain. I wish we had more compassion for black women that are forced to put up a fake act of being tough...they have been beat down cheated on n dogged out...she needs empathy n counseling. Prayers up for her healing
No one forced her to lay down with this man or any of the other men she may have been with. Possessing a heart of compassion is a beautiful thing. However, we can not sit around babying grown people who can make choices for themselves. We also can not continue to excuse our present behavior as a result of past pains. God bless.
tc g please leave the colour out when making a comment about women, do you think every white woman has a great man, a great home, car kids etc. No we don't we still feel the fears that other people feel, we still are poor, we still struggle for job, our biggest struggle is getting a house in an area we were brought upon when we if lucky we get thrown up the flats while so many refugees the 3 /4 apartment new builds. Try telling a mother who has tried to get bigger house born n bread up here only to watching new comers come in and get new
She has stayed with a man who she says dogs her, and then had a child. She cannot complain about him cheating if she stays.
@@tatiannadaniel496 exactly
That baby looks just like him. But girrrl stop because you chose him.
"My last menistral period." Huh?
😂😂😂
@@montstwin76 Ms. Harris(this guttersnipe)needs to listen to this...@15:35😄
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Ain't that the same thing??🤷🤔🧐🤨 Or possibly she was practicing English by showing what a synonym is??!!🤷🤷🤷
@@eboniestevenson231 it is the same but I was commenting more on the way she said it.
The way these people are bickering it’s like they are a married couple or something, it’s like they low key still have feeling for each other
They were getting it in for 15 years.
Sounds like they are still together to me
This is the worst 'relationship' I've seen of recent on PC...the bickering, shouting...
I Sincerely wished he wasnt the father😌
I was torn because it was obvious that he loves the child, but the mother makes you want to leave and never return.
She still has feelings for this Man and her ego was torn bc he cheated.
She not listening to anything the judge saying because she’s trying to talk over her.
That's Tamar look alike for ya.
Girl, you keep messing with him. If he’s such a cheater and liar then why are you still messing with him and going back to him! Geeze she’s exhausting! 🙈 he at least seems like he will continue to be a good dad to his son.
“We’ll save that for Couples Court” 8:15
This girl attitude was out of control ... she has to learn how to control her emotions instead of just letting it go.
She’s talked until the very end... even after court was adjourned. She got lungs like no other 💨