I got so sad when she started saying, "You can say what you want, call me what you want. I've been called . . . " She doesn't think much of herself, which is why she's in that situation. She needs serious counselling.
I kinda feel bad for her. I hope she heals and becomes stronger. I also hope her kids aren't impacted by her sometimes delusional comments/views. The guy was pretty empathetic towards her. Seems like she's just been sleeping around, a bit misguided and some of the guys are taking advantage of her misdirection.
@@roelstupart1832 And he quickly deflated that pity party when he told her he wished her the best. Guy doesn't seem that bad. Hope the mother and her the little girl are ok though.
I gotta say, I was impressed by the fact that he saw a child in his news feed, counted back, and at least asked if this could be his child. And didn't stop until she blocked him. I don't know how he treated her outside of court, but he kept it mature while in court and she bashed him like he deserted her. The judge was right, she's angry at herself and probably embarrassed too. I hope she gets some help with that.
Yeah I feel like they all say that to get brownie points. If he really felt that way he would change himself. Most tell their daughters to stay away from nasty men but raise boys into nasty men. I won’t believe these men until they change themselves too otherwise you don’t believe in what you preach.
She expected him to talk badly about her and tried to beat him to the punch by being defensive. No need for him to degrade you sis, you did that on your own. Notice how it knocked the wind out of her when he said "I just wish you the best". She knows she lost a good one.
I don’t understand how women are willing to go on NATIONAL TELEVISION to broadcast to the world that they don’t know who the father of their child is. I would’ve handled this privately.
It’s 400-700$ for an Official dna that the child support Agency will accept and the way this women be they might need 2 or 3 test, where as you get payed to be up here lol
I'm more happy that she checked her attitude, because it was really frustrating watching her be so rude to the guy for no reason when it's her fault that they are in the court room.. He bent backwards to get that DNA test done, and she acting like he did something wrong, I mean this was sickening
Ariel Davis And what? That's the nice guy who's trying to help's fault!!?? ... My new this woman is starting on top of that, I'm only 25 and I find this behavior just ridiculous ... We've seen younger people on the show behave themselves like adults this was atrocious and the mostly her own doing, because every solution she had,, she sabotages
She was in there cursing the guy out when she knew she was hiding that there was a 3rd guy involved , unbelievable. Kudos to the guy for being mature about the whole situation
I'm no Iyanla..but it seems like she has a lot of hatred for men period and was taking it out on this guy.Seems like she's been really hurt and had her heartbroken by many men to where she can't see the faults in her actions.
Very insightful! He sensed that and that explains his restraint when dealing with her. Remarkably he did not allow himself to be ever baited by her anger or threats. She has to learn how to value herself before she transmits that shame to her Daughter. And someone take that young man to Family Planning and ensure he leaves with a box of condoms.
Whoever his parents are…I SALUTE you for raising a respectable young man. He handled himself in a matter like no other I’ve seen on this show. He may have been out their sowing his royal oats but respectfully he carried himself when the time called for. I applaud you both 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
So glad dude wasn't the father, I was turned off by Mom as soon as she started her rant about child support, knowing fully well she was the one to block the man.
Yep! Glad he wasn't the father neither. This woman has serious problems. She doesn't even care about her own child. Everthing is about her. Her actions and what she says made it obvious, that it's about her. Perfect example - She blocked him because she cared more about not ruining her relationship than finding out if he is her daughter's father.
I can NEVER understand these women! You say there is no one else outside of the two guys, when Judge ask you if you are certain that there is no one else. you say you are cause there isn't BUTwhen the results come back cause the guy isn't the dad ALL OF A SUDDEN you know who he is. Like, STOP LYING!!
win30034 She put her self on public display to be Judged and criticized by the public, and has admitted on national Tv that there's a third man that's a potential father
She’s so angry with this man for no obvious reason. I think her ex lit her up unmercifully when he found out the child wasn’t is and she’s still carrying around that pain.
Well this is all her doing though..she can handle some pain because she sure got enough pleasure out of creating the situation. If I was that ex, I'd go in on her too.
And in almost ALL of these "you are not the father" cases, after the self-righteousness, when the judge asks do you KNOW who the father, they meekly say, "yeah"
@@montauk6 I know right! So what was all the drama about with THIS guy when you knew all the time there was another guy who could be your baby's father? That kills me!
@@akibalee5244 some of the women on this show admit to sleeping with one man & then a 2nd ON THE SAME DAY. 😂 She had time, obviously.😂 Or she was pregnant before those 31 days.
In this one situation, I was actually happy when we found out he wasn't the father - because that man had class and that woman does not, she was full of fire and brimstone and would have made his life really hard.
kahala k EXACTLY: very shameful & he saved himself a whole heap of future trouble: thank God!!! The baby was beautiful, though & deserves a good, safe & stable life though!!! 🤔🤔🤔
I agree. She obviously does not think before making important decisions about herself or others. It is so important to establish a relationship first. Even after finding out her child was not the first mans kid. Women like her have to learn to own their mistake and be humble all the way through and reestablish a friendship to make things work after a positive test.
...stand up except for sleeping with people before marriage. A guy who waits until marriage is stand up like my sons, seriously. He is a nice guy apart from that.
@@geniemeadows5122 Heyyy, only God can rightfully judge right? Let's have grace. I'm sure your sons are stand up guys, and this young man can be stand up too.
@@geniemeadows5122 These 'non-stand' up guys aren't sleep with just 'people' they are laying down with I suppose by your standard 'non-stand-up' women since a guy it's not standing up on his own.... Funny how ppl have very 'few' ultimate STANDARDS for whom is or isn't worthy....if we wanted to fine tooth comb that Bible and those words, I bet we could take the bloom off quite a few more 'angels' on 🌎 so perhaps we leave the saint sorting to the big guy upstairs and come on down off these soapboxes.... Waiting for marriage doesn't put a halo on one person vs another per se...that stepping way over the line in determining who God is favoring based upon a worldly view that ain't our job....stay in yo lane
I don't understand how its 2019 and ppl are still sleeping around with multiple ppl without protection. I'm completely baffled, like what they don't think aids is real? 😱😨
Tori Bkack: EXACTLY: FIRST she LIED about there ONLY being TWO possible fathers & then after the REAL TRUTH is out there: she says: "DON'T call me: THEN: "you can call me whenever you want to"!!!??? Whaaat?¿ The baby is SOOO gorgeous though & deserves the very best & safe life: aaawwww!!! 👶👼💌 🤔🤔🤔
That's the reality of today. I must say though that woman's attitude alone convinced me that the man was not the father. She was trying so hard to convince herself that I knew it was a scam and she didn't really know who the father was.
Some of the most trifling women have the best baby daddy prospects on this show! He seemed like a real stand-up guy! Glad it worked out the way it did!
I couldn’t understand why she was so angry but then after the results it’s obvious how she feels about herself this had nothing to do with that young man. This is why it’s so important to value yourself, love yourself, and know your worth and then add tax. Ladies respect yourself and protect yourself.
easy to say and sadly almost impossible to implement if we've been robbed of self respect by abuse of any kind, she believes her worth is worthless for some reason unknown to us and self respect and self and self worth are the most precious gifts if we have been blessed with an unhindered upbringing.
...that was not a genuine apology. how you gone apologize then turn around and say "don't contact me" when dis dude probably don't even wanna be here let alone have anything to do with you...she scranggeee
I'm just amazed how with these paternity cases the mother, no matter what show, goes completely off on the potential dad. But when the results come back and prove he's not the father, he cant go off on her, when she lied to everyone's face. Oh somehow he has to show some compassion for that trifling woman. I dont get it.
You could see it in the mother's face how embarrassed she was of her actions...she was listening to Judge Lauren like a child being scolded by their mother. These men and women are out here engaging in adult activities...but mentally they're still children. The sad thing is it's a repetitive cycle passed down from one generation to the next.
Why do people say "I'm grown" as though that gives them the freedom to be reckless? True maturity is being responsible, thinking ahead, understanding that the choices you make today will impact your tomorrow, and making the decisions you NEED to make instead of doing only what you WANT. We've got to start doing better for ourselves and be intentional about our futures, seriously. When we leave that job in the hands of others, it can result in mess much like what we're watching.
"U Gotta Stop Beating Ur Self Up & Start Building Ur Self Up.................." That's A Hard Hitting Truth To That Confused & Messed Up Young Lady... Teach On Real Life Lessons, Judge Lauren Lake.
imari2305 Society needs some serious History Lessons this behaviour in the black community is a direct result of the slavery mentality that never went away. It never left the black community because the system has failed to educate people. It’s so so sad.
@@cinders7374 Absolutely. Combine that with trust automatically given to a black man simply because of marginalization etc etc. This lady had no father and I bet it goes on and on down to the great great grandma not having a dad.
Quit blaming society. Slavery ended more than 150 years ago. Responsible black people (there are MANY) need to mentor these kids and change the direction of their lives, not just sit back and complain. Get involved.
Yes, every kid needs a dad, but others in the community can help make up for this and turn the trend around. I grew up without a dad, but I had uncles who stepped in. More men need to step in and teach these youth to stop having all these unplanned babies
She blocked him instead of facing her mistakes, when you make the bed lay in it. Blocking him to continue your happy little relationship when a child is involved is highly irresponsible.
Toydoll my question is, after blocking him why did she initiate the dna test? It seems more likely to me that her other guy initiated it, found out the child wasn't his and bounced.
I been alone for going on 4 years bow. She hopped right into bed with one guy left him after 2 years and is now with another. She told me this January that she was happy.
America Rocks And she needs to get on that ASAP, because her daughter will be old enough soon enough to peep this destructive behavior, and not long after she'll repeat the cycle.
Not generalize, but her attitude and approach is so typical for women who don't know who fathered their child. They know how to play the victim. Like, YOU allowed yourself to get pregnant while you were sleeping with multiple partners. But she acts so entitled like the POTENTIAL father owes her something. I'm glad she got humbled real quick. Hopefully she will take more responsibility for her choices and face the reality that SHE got HERSELF in this mess.
I agree with you 99.952%. Except...it took her a long time to even resemble something like humble. She followed up with....I will take care of my baby by myself like I been doing. Don't call me and I won't call you!!!! Still mad at....the non father!?! Why?!? I know why...I'm just wondering if she knows and understands why? Bless her heart. And bless that pretty little pumpkin pie.
I love that he wished her luck. It made me feel so emotional and good that there is proof of good black men out there. This was meant to happen the way it did. Her behavior did not deserve him and I really felt sorry. I think if she was different God would have worked his magic to bless that child with a father like this man.
I don't think he's that genuine as you guys think. He was putting her down talking about not planning on taking her home etc. Is there anything decent about that?
@@laurenwhyte1963 how is that putting her down?? Not every man is gonna wanna take u home to meet his parents he was honest about what the situation was
I love this judge, she knows how to put someone in their place. Wow, he is not the father, after all the attitude. 😱. The judge was right when she said she was projecting what she was feeling about herself on him. Wow this girl
He was passively disrespectful. That rickie Bobby statement and chicken wing was a dig. She is a damage being that needs help. I'm not excusing her but she was just more aggressive then him.
So basically she wanted to go in on him, acting as if he just wasn't there because he didn't want to be & she didn't even give him a chance when he initially inquired about the child... Girl bye.
@@deegraves90 you are soo right, the gender bias against men in family law is painfully and grossly unfair. I don't get why and how it isn't law in every state to perform a DNA test to determine paternity before some poor guy is deceived into signing that birth certificate... It's the only way I can think of that protect men and their fatherhood and parental rights, it's the only how I can think of to fight paternity FRAUD.
Sad, he treated her with respect and didn't call her names, but she came out hollering about child support knowing he wasn't that child's daddy. Just watch her reaction when the results are read.....she knew, why in blue blazes do some females act like that????? The kids are the ones that suffer 😖
I agree. I almost with he was the father because he seemed like a good man. Even after the results were shown, he never once insulted her, got angry, nothing. He just wished her the best. She needs to grow up and start thinking about that baby and not herself.
All my life i have never seen such disgrace these women going around fling their private parts to every man that tell them you look pretty they are so cheap they have no self esteem i reallt dont know what to call them No pride or self respect .
Just look at how some of them carryon likethey are the man them mother no dignity or pride the man cheat me cheat to you end up with the baby set fools and men have some respect for your self and stop throwing your self at every thing resemble something with (v )once you sleep with the woman dont deny until you get the dna like you no better.
I too am addicted to Paternity Court, I must have my nightly doses before bed and when I'm suffering from insomnia late at night. I just absolutely love and respect Judge Lauren Lake she is a beautiful, educated and intelligent African American professional woman that "keeps it real" on the bench like only a true "sistah girl" can. We applaud you Judge Lauren, u make us proud!!
Jarail Butler correct! Yes hatred is an internal reflection. She hate being permiscuousness, but when those demons come a knocking she always answer the door and let them in.
She’s ashamed and projecting all that so it probably was 4 or 5 dudes. - “You can call me names it’s fine”. Girl, do some soul searching bc no one talked about you!
Once she found out the new boyfriend was not the father and he left, then she miraculously gets the other guy in court after blocking him for 2 years. Clearly this was All about the money.
I'm a family law attorney, and I need more than one episode a day. So, you're not the only one. For the most part, PC cases are far more interesting than my cases.
I'm sure this mom has had a lot of pain and suffering in her life we know nothing about. I pray she learns her self worth and is a great example for her daughter. The guy was very upstanding.
Sadly she went on live television and made a spectacle of herself. We have to pray for these women who seek to find their missing father’s love in another man.
I love this judge! She tells it exactly how it is and is NOT afraid to call someone out on their B.S. That lady was so rude and had so much attitude for no obvious reason- just being nasty to this dude who just wanted to know if the baby was his. I'm so happy the judge called her out. I've been binge watching this show literally all night and this has to be one of my favorite qualities possessed by Judge Lake.
Yesss!!! Before the judge went in on her I was so mad that she was so nasty to the guy. I was yelling at the screen like lady YOU waited two years!!! When the judge went in on her she took her time and addressed all of the woman’s issues so intelligently and I clapped so loudly lol. I hope the woman really heard her.
I got so sad when she started saying, "You can say what you want, call me what you want. I've been called . . . " She doesn't think much of herself, which is why she's in that situation. She needs serious counselling.
Ay B2 exactly. She wanted him to call her names so bad, because that is how she sees herself. Smh.
Kuttiesmith03 You are so right.
I kinda feel bad for her. I hope she heals and becomes stronger. I also hope her kids aren't impacted by her sometimes delusional comments/views. The guy was pretty empathetic towards her. Seems like she's just been sleeping around, a bit misguided and some of the guys are taking advantage of her misdirection.
nah he definately called her out her name in the past n shes been dealin with it. she dont know how to express emotions
@@roelstupart1832 And he quickly deflated that pity party when he told her he wished her the best. Guy doesn't seem that bad. Hope the mother and her the little girl are ok though.
I gotta say, I was impressed by the fact that he saw a child in his news feed, counted back, and at least asked if this could be his child. And didn't stop until she blocked him. I don't know how he treated her outside of court, but he kept it mature while in court and she bashed him like he deserted her. The judge was right, she's angry at herself and probably embarrassed too. I hope she gets some help with that.
That’s why she wanted him to be the father, he seems like a nice guy
Me too
That's true❗️
Even with her apology, she was deflecting‼️
She's very embarrassed.
I'll giv him this. But it was the law of gravity...it was gonna fall n plop him n the head eventually anyways.. So...
When he said “I want to teach her how to stay away from the man that I used to be”, I gained a lot of respect for him.
Yeah I feel like they all say that to get brownie points. If he really felt that way he would change himself. Most tell their daughters to stay away from nasty men but raise boys into nasty men. I won’t believe these men until they change themselves too otherwise you don’t believe in what you preach.
"I can't even work for 31 days consecutively." 😂😂😂
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 for real
😂 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I felt that on a different level…my man’s spit nothing but facts the whole time
😂😂😂
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So glad the judge called her out on that bad attitude, it was annoying me
Yes!
I know!
That “I just wish you the best” hurt her more than any name he could’ve called her. Girl do better!
He killed her with kindness after you can tell she was begging for him to attack her character. When she wanted to go low, he kept going high.
I believe its call killing her with kindness
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah represent
She expected him to talk badly about her and tried to beat him to the punch by being defensive. No need for him to degrade you sis, you did that on your own. Notice how it knocked the wind out of her when he said "I just wish you the best". She knows she lost a good one.
jjjj Smh exactly 😭
True, the fact that you blocked him when he wanted a DNA TEST is suspect.
jjjj right!!!!!
Preach!!!!
It was like she was hearing things he wasn’t saying, I was so confused
She was already thinking about child support payments that's so sad
Paul Vilfranc very sad.
Paul Vilfranc That’s all they want, Money
then she be like "It's fine, I don't need it anyway"
Boom child support and there it is the plot is revealed.
Too bad she won't get any from the non-daddy.
One quick Advice for women that comes on Paternity court
"Wait for the Result before You Start Running your Mouth and Feeling Entitled'
Thank You
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Amen
Correct
Abi. This one get as it be. She had me believing her.
Exactly!
Wasn’t shocked at all. The gentleman handled himself well
Me neither, it was something about her that wasn’t genuine
No, he didn't. He acted like a right fool.
@@brownin329 I call it having a sense of humor. Some people use humor to keep from falling apart. I don't call that acting a fool.
Not to me he called her fried rice and easy. He could have been classier
@@tonyasimmons7840 wasnt wrong tho and i thought he called her the wing??
I don’t understand how women are willing to go on NATIONAL TELEVISION to broadcast to the world that they don’t know who the father of their child is. I would’ve handled this privately.
Felice Gilmore exactly. Just like they go on the Maury show and he says. ” well you’ve been here 4 times before. Do you want to try again?”
It’s expensive in some places, they’re just broke. They get it free this way.
black_girl_rocks Maury is fake the people are paid and they roleplay before they come on the show I know friends of mine who was paid for that show
It’s 400-700$ for an Official dna that the child support Agency will accept and the way this women be they might need 2 or 3 test, where as you get payed to be up here lol
@@elphaba46 I
She was so ready to put him on child support, am glad his not the father
For all you thots step up your game because DNA don't lie child support keep it real or get a job Damm 💯🤑🤣🤔
She's a whole fool!
dude said "Under the wing like fried rice!" ...abasajja! loool
No I do not ,I can't even work for 31 days consecutively😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😃😃😃
Me too
31 straight day's. where was her period? she was already pregnant
Yes she didn't have period?
Great question.
aderline johnson I said the same dam thing! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I said the same thing when she said that lol
Let's be honest everyone does get a period every month, most women know how to cut it off, some do it dirty.
Lauren Lake has so much wisdom. She told the mother, "You have to stop beating yourself up and start building yourself up."
That really didn't apply to this person. She a selfish, manipulative liar.
I'm more happy that she checked her attitude, because it was really frustrating watching her be so rude to the guy for no reason when it's her fault that they are in the court room.. He bent backwards to get that DNA test done, and she acting like he did something wrong, I mean this was sickening
sonyaethaniel no that woman is hurting and in pain with absolutely no confidence. That's how she's in that situation. It's all so sad.
Ariel Davis And what? That's the nice guy who's trying to help's fault!!?? ... My new this woman is starting on top of that, I'm only 25 and I find this behavior just ridiculous ... We've seen younger people on the show behave themselves like adults this was atrocious and the mostly her own doing, because every solution she had,, she sabotages
It takes some time for ppl to understand that. She has to allow herself to start healing.
She was in there cursing the guy out when she knew she was hiding that there was a 3rd guy involved , unbelievable. Kudos to the guy for being mature about the whole situation
Immaculate conception
I'm no Iyanla..but it seems like she has a lot of hatred for men period and was taking it out on this guy.Seems like she's been really hurt and had her heartbroken by many men to where she can't see the faults in her actions.
😢 3rd or more...
He dodged that bullet! I bet he use protection now!
Very insightful! He sensed that and that explains his restraint when dealing with her. Remarkably he did not allow himself to be ever baited by her anger or threats. She has to learn how to value herself before she transmits that shame to her Daughter. And someone take that young man to Family Planning and ensure he leaves with a box of condoms.
Whoever his parents are…I SALUTE you for raising a respectable young man. He handled himself in a matter like no other I’ve seen on this show. He may have been out their sowing his royal oats but respectfully he carried himself when the time called for. I applaud you both 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
So glad dude wasn't the father, I was turned off by Mom as soon as she started her rant about child support, knowing fully well she was the one to block the man.
Yep! Glad he wasn't the father neither. This woman has serious problems. She doesn't even care about her own child. Everthing is about her. Her actions and what she says made it obvious, that it's about her.
Perfect example - She blocked him because she cared more about not ruining her relationship than finding out if he is her daughter's father.
Your comment speaks my mind, I thought every single thing from child support, to her attitude and all
It was a red flag from the get go
@@damienkirksey7026 A BIG red flag.
So big and so red, even Stevie Wonder could see it from the International Space Station.
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I can NEVER understand these women! You say there is no one else outside of the two guys, when Judge ask you if you are certain that there is no one else. you say you are cause there isn't BUTwhen the results come back cause the guy isn't the dad ALL OF A SUDDEN you know who he is. Like, STOP LYING!!
My friend they claim you musnt judge.
win30034 She put her self on public display to be Judged and criticized by the public, and has admitted on national Tv that there's a third man that's a potential father
They just need mandatory paternity testing at birth. That'll stop em'!
Preach sis
Exactly! That get me every time. 😂😂😂
She’s so angry with this man for no obvious reason. I think her ex lit her up unmercifully when he found out the child wasn’t is and she’s still carrying around that pain.
That's exactly what I thought! It is so obvious!
Same thing I said.
Well this is all her doing though..she can handle some pain because she sure got enough pleasure out of creating the situation.
If I was that ex, I'd go in on her too.
Women don't know what reason is.
@@NickyM_0 obvious is just not understood by English-speaking women.
Glad he was NOT the Daddy, she is too bitter...she was NOT sure who the Father was at all!!! He was a gentleman.
Spoiler alert, thanks.
I was glad too that he wasn't the father. He dodged that bullet. Kick that negative energy to the curb.
This young lady has a SERIOUS problem! She feel so guilty that she can't even admit that it was her mistake, nobody else!
Thank goodness his not the father
Plenty women like that
Her slick mouth embarrassed herself on national TV.
True that, she lied and look ridiculous telling lies ..She don't know who her baby daddy is.
And in almost ALL of these "you are not the father" cases, after the self-righteousness, when the judge asks do you KNOW who the father, they meekly say, "yeah"
She claims there are not a ton of other men out there that could be possibilities. I’m not sure if can tell the truth
@@montauk6 I know right! So what was all the drama about with THIS guy when you knew all the time there was another guy who could be your baby's father? That kills me!
Glad I'm not the only one who this that.
This was an honorable and mature young man.
But wait if she said they had intercourse for 31 days straight, when did she get the time to be with a next guy ....🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@akibalee5244 She's lying. The man said they were only together during the weekend. She had plenty of time to sleep with other people
@@akibalee5244 some of the women on this show admit to sleeping with one man & then a 2nd ON THE SAME DAY. 😂
She had time, obviously.😂
Or she was pregnant before those 31 days.
“I never wanted to put her Under the wing like fried rice “ , I have never heard that one before 🤣
🥡🥠🥟 lol
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I’m using that!!!!
Neither have I
MsTna that bamma was silly and it cracked me up.
In this one situation, I was actually happy when we found out he wasn't the father - because that man had class and that woman does not, she was full of fire and brimstone and would have made his life really hard.
SAME!!! I was hoping it wasn’t his so she can humble herself.
kahala k made his life miserable
Wow!!
kahala k EXACTLY: very shameful & he saved himself a whole heap of future trouble: thank God!!! The baby was beautiful, though & deserves a good, safe & stable life though!!! 🤔🤔🤔
I agree. She obviously does not think before making important decisions about herself or others. It is so important to establish a relationship first. Even after finding out her child was not the first mans kid. Women like her have to learn to own their mistake and be humble all the way through and reestablish a friendship to make things work after a positive test.
My goodness that little girl is beautiful.
She is gorgeous 😁
She’s beyond beautiful ❤️
She looks like his daughter, but unfortunately she's not 😭😭😭
Yes, she is beautiful princess! 🌹
"At the time of concession" wheewwww Chile shes killing me 🤦🏾♀️
That was hilarious. 😂
I had to replay to backtrack to see if that's what I really heard.
@@mlm1916 she was stressing me ouutttttt
I know! Someone please tell these people that Concessions is a snack stand its about 🍲 Food & has nothing to do with conceiving a 👶 child.
Don't forget " unconsistently "
I got a cotton candy and pregnant 💨💦
"You gotta stop beating yourself up, and start building up yourself" -Judge Lauren Lakes
She should have told her you need to start letting the guy beat your cat and start building yourself up LOL
Yes I loved that.
@@mercedespolk7973 Lol lol lol. Beat That Cat. Beat that Cat.
❤❤❤❤love love love herrrr💕💕💕 She is just so well spoken.
The Judge correct this young woman need to build on her self-esteem.
Judge be saying what I be wanting to say but more professional lol.
And dude killed her with the kindness "I wish you the best"
Kitten Lyric he dodged the bullet. It probably wasn’t the kid he was worried about but that psycho mom she has.
I KNEW IT!!! What a stand up guy. “I’m not gonna call you no names I just wish you the best”
...stand up except for sleeping with people before marriage. A guy who waits until marriage is stand up like my sons, seriously. He is a nice guy apart from that.
Yeah, he'd already called her names in private. ...just kept it classy for the cameras. She should've took his cue.
@@geniemeadows5122 Heyyy, only God can rightfully judge right? Let's have grace. I'm sure your sons are stand up guys, and this young man can be stand up too.
@@geniemeadows5122 yeah, so there can be no stand-up guys in the world eh?
@@geniemeadows5122 These 'non-stand' up guys aren't sleep with just 'people' they are laying down with I suppose by your standard 'non-stand-up' women since a guy it's not standing up on his own....
Funny how ppl have very 'few' ultimate STANDARDS for whom is or isn't worthy....if we wanted to fine tooth comb that Bible and those words, I bet we could take the bloom off quite a few more 'angels' on 🌎 so perhaps we leave the saint sorting to the big guy upstairs and come on down off these soapboxes....
Waiting for marriage doesn't put a halo on one person vs another per se...that stepping way over the line in determining who God is favoring based upon a worldly view that ain't our job....stay in yo lane
He's standing up tall and proud. I like the way he handled himself.
They always say, “I know who the father is.” You’re lying!! That’s why you are on paternity court! You👏🏽dont👏🏽know👏🏽
Paris that part.
Seriously! They somehow convince themselves I guess lol
R/s
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That kills me every time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't understand how its 2019 and ppl are still sleeping around with multiple ppl without protection. I'm completely baffled, like what they don't think aids is real? 😱😨
Truth
Tori Bkack: EXACTLY: FIRST she LIED about there ONLY being TWO possible fathers & then after the REAL TRUTH is out there: she says: "DON'T call me: THEN: "you can call me whenever you want to"!!!??? Whaaat?¿ The baby is SOOO gorgeous though & deserves the very best & safe life: aaawwww!!! 👶👼💌 🤔🤔🤔
That's the reality of today. I must say though that woman's attitude alone convinced me that the man was not the father. She was trying so hard to convince herself that I knew it was a scam and she didn't really know who the father was.
And yet a sea horse has better parenting skills.
Right like AIDS is not real
Glad the guy isn’t the father in a way couldn’t imagine him being involved with that woman in his life jeez he dodged the bullet
He sure did. My thoughts exactly!
Like Neo
She would have made his life miserable...praise God he is not
What bullet...31 days straight...they were trying to do something....haaaa
Hope he wraps it up from this point on...
Some of the most trifling women have the best baby daddy prospects on this show! He seemed like a real stand-up guy! Glad it worked out the way it did!
*Hands down the funniest dude on Paternity court. "Don't you put that evil on me Ricky Bobby!"*
My son & I quote that line all the time lol!
E Armstrong 😂
What a lucky lucky man.
LMBO!😂
Tiffany Nicole me too! My favorite comedy of all time. 😩
I couldn’t understand why she was so angry but then after the results it’s obvious how she feels about herself this had nothing to do with that young man. This is why it’s so important to value yourself, love yourself, and know your worth and then add tax. Ladies respect yourself and protect yourself.
easy to say and sadly almost impossible to implement if we've been robbed of self respect by abuse of any kind, she believes her worth is worthless for some reason unknown to us and self respect and self and self worth are the most precious gifts if we have been blessed with an unhindered upbringing.
...that was not a genuine apology. how you gone apologize then turn around and say "don't contact me" when dis dude probably don't even wanna be here let alone have anything to do with you...she scranggeee
Hoes are never real !!!
It's like she had anger toward that dude even before the results were read she was all over him saying this and that!
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@@fredrickmigwe1101 And was clapping her hands while she was talking, to pretend she has standards all of a sudden.
That “I just wish the best” took her out! She lost one and she’s knows it
She definitely did smh
So, she blocked him because he wanted to know if he was the baby''s father? Wow. Okay.
She blocked him, because she was in the midst of a relationship where she had already put her daughter on another man.
I knew he wasnt the father. I had zero spirtual energy.
@@brittanybutler2211 Yup if he is the father there has to be a spiritual energy feelings period.
I'm just amazed how with these paternity cases the mother, no matter what show, goes completely off on the potential dad. But when the results come back and prove he's not the father, he cant go off on her, when she lied to everyone's face. Oh somehow he has to show some compassion for that trifling woman. I dont get it.
@@alvin_aka_retroman yes not fair.
That lil baby is one lil darling..such a cutie pie!
Too bad the mom is a trifling individual, now think about how she is going to raise that beautiful lil girl.
The Truth true
The Truth: 😔 💐
She is very beautiful.
“Under the wing like fried rice ..... not to take home like microwave” 😂😭💀 where do they find these quotes
Google.
LOL I love the creativity 🤣🤣🤣
My anology skill is just as random 🙃
That's why I am here for the comments. Good job. .... Under the wing like fried rice??? What? Another one?
He's a creep
We need more men like this young man who shows respect and treats woman decently even though it is not given to him.
You could see it in the mother's face how embarrassed she was of her actions...she was listening to Judge Lauren like a child being scolded by their mother. These men and women are out here engaging in adult activities...but mentally they're still children. The sad thing is it's a repetitive cycle passed down from one generation to the next.
Yes, yes, yes truth spoken
aquamel29 wow that too true thank you
She shouldve had that scolding during childhood
Wow you are too right soooo right
Why do people say "I'm grown" as though that gives them the freedom to be reckless? True maturity is being responsible, thinking ahead, understanding that the choices you make today will impact your tomorrow, and making the decisions you NEED to make instead of doing only what you WANT. We've got to start doing better for ourselves and be intentional about our futures, seriously. When we leave that job in the hands of others, it can result in mess much like what we're watching.
Amen 🙌🏾
JulySummers your comment should be mandatory reading!
Well said and very true.
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@@jarvisaddison8560 I second that, AMEN!
"U Gotta Stop Beating Ur Self Up &
Start Building Ur Self Up.................."
That's A Hard Hitting Truth To That
Confused & Messed Up Young
Lady...
Teach On Real Life Lessons, Judge
Lauren Lake.
She was so mad and disappointed in herself, she tried to put that on him. She needs some serious help.
Wow.. The mother needs some serious therapy.
imari2305
Society needs some serious History Lessons this behaviour in the black community is a direct result of the slavery mentality that never went away. It never left the black community because the system has failed to educate people. It’s so so sad.
@@cinders7374 Absolutely. Combine that with trust automatically given to a black man simply because of marginalization etc etc. This lady had no father and I bet it goes on and on down to the great great grandma not having a dad.
he needs to sue her for playing games
Quit blaming society. Slavery ended more than 150 years ago. Responsible black people (there are MANY) need to mentor these kids and change the direction of their lives, not just sit back and complain. Get involved.
Yes, every kid needs a dad, but others in the community can help make up for this and turn the trend around. I grew up without a dad, but I had uncles who stepped in. More men need to step in and teach these youth to stop having all these unplanned babies
She blocked him instead of facing her mistakes, when you make the bed lay in it. Blocking him to continue your happy little relationship when a child is involved is highly irresponsible.
Toydoll very like the judge told her she was only thinking about self
Toydoll my question is, after blocking him why did she initiate the dna test? It seems more likely to me that her other guy initiated it, found out the child wasn't his and bounced.
@@heavylift9582 that's exactly what happened smh
@toydoll I love your lipstick color. It looks good on you.
Why can’t anyone be by themselves for more than one week after ending relationships/relations? People are afraid to be alone, it’s pathetic!
The way she dress you can tell she working with a lot and have men hitting on her all the time.
and then there is the other extreme. I've been by myself for over a decade. I like being alone too much, I think.
Women with low self esteem are needy.
Nya Thich people afraid to be alone because they don t like themselve
I been alone for going on 4 years bow. She hopped right into bed with one guy left him after 2 years and is now with another. She told me this January that she was happy.
This man is a whole gentleman and a class act.
Low self esteem is the mother. She needs to heal herself before she has a serious relationship with anyone else.
Easy prey
America Rocks
And she needs to get on that ASAP, because her daughter will be old enough soon enough to peep this destructive behavior, and not long after she'll repeat the cycle.
America Rocks op
Laletta Stewart- ??? What do you mean?
@@americarocks6173 op = "On Point"
The Truth hurts....
STOP SLEEPING AROUND LADY🗣🗣
R R yep, personal responsibility
Thaaaannk you!
It definitely does!!!
I don't understand. It's bad enough when people have a multitude of partners but then you don't use any protection. JUST NASTY!!!
Lanellkeith
Exactlyyyyyy!!!!
Not generalize, but her attitude and approach is so typical for women who don't know who fathered their child. They know how to play the victim. Like, YOU allowed yourself to get pregnant while you were sleeping with multiple partners. But she acts so entitled like the POTENTIAL father owes her something. I'm glad she got humbled real quick. Hopefully she will take more responsibility for her choices and face the reality that SHE got HERSELF in this mess.
Cakeandsum Rosesplease Amen.
Best comment
So true!
I agree with you 99.952%. Except...it took her a long time to even resemble something like humble. She followed up with....I will take care of my baby by myself like I been doing. Don't call me and I won't call you!!!! Still mad at....the non father!?! Why?!?
I know why...I'm just wondering if she knows and understands why? Bless her heart. And bless that pretty little pumpkin pie.
Cakeandsum Rosesplease
A hot mess!
He gt lucky; she was definitely going to take him to the cleaners if he was
Fortunately, she was unable to, upon hearing YANTF.
He didn’t get lucky at all they both knew they was fuxking on anything that gave them a chance
@@JustLikeAFlower so he got laid a lot and still ain't the daddy.
Sounds like luck to me.
Yes, I hope he learned his lesson.
Wow! Just wow. He was very mature in this situation
I love that he wished her luck. It made me feel so emotional and good that there is proof of good black men out there. This was meant to happen the way it did. Her behavior did not deserve him and I really felt sorry. I think if she was different God would have worked his magic to bless that child with a father like this man.
Under the wing like rice.... very mature
@@GDL364 She was being awful to him. Why have sympathy for crazy women like that?
I don't think he's that genuine as you guys think. He was putting her down talking about not planning on taking her home etc. Is there anything decent about that?
@@laurenwhyte1963 how is that putting her down?? Not every man is gonna wanna take u home to meet his parents he was honest about what the situation was
That baby is darling.....
That yawn she gave toward the end....so precious!
Looks like her mom
@@michellew.7978 dont insult that child
Yes she is 🥰
Beautiful babyx
And that little girl is too precious and innocent to have a bitter mom like that!
⭐⭐The Judge is *magnificent* in the way she articulates her judgments!⭐⭐
"Stop beating yourself up, and start building yourself up." Powerful words!!! 👏 👏
I love this judge, she knows how to put someone in their place.
Wow, he is not the father, after all the attitude. 😱. The judge was right when she said she was projecting what she was feeling about herself on him. Wow this girl
He was spot on with that "Zero Spiritual Energy" from this child 7:26
Shes been called every name that she deserves to be called. What a pitiful woman
DNA test should be mandatory at child birth.
I so agree
Agreed!
I agree
Yes! Agreed.
Agreed
This woman is broken, looking for love and affection however, what she did was wrong by wasting this mans time.
He was respectful!
you are so correct . She is broken and searching for love definitely in the wrong places. She needs the Lord to mend that brokeness.
@@rozlin313 nah she needs therapy
Rozlin313: Absolutely, spiritually blind and broken and the child is in the middle of this 😔 💐
He was passively disrespectful. That rickie Bobby statement and chicken wing was a dig. She is a damage being that needs help. I'm not excusing her but she was just more aggressive then him.
He wasn’t respectful tho... but she definitely is broken.
He's A Stand Up Dude And You Can Tell Just by the way he carries himself
Black women don't like stand up dudes. They view them as lame and corny.
@@jeremy072579 what black women are you talking about?
He's a stand up dude to lay down women
@@jeremy072579 that's not true.
“At the time of concession...” tf
Lol...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Y'all the worst, nothing don't pass y'all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I'm sure it was a concession stand 😐 too convenient and offering everything
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He's a good guy. Period.
she feels bad because at the end of the day SHE put herself out here like this . Nobody else is responsible but you
NaeGotJuice exactly
Right
You can tell she's a bit "delayed", out here bragging about bussin' wide open for this man...and TWO OTHER MEN!
The child is losing in this situation
So basically she wanted to go in on him, acting as if he just wasn't there because he didn't want to be & she didn't even give him a chance when he initially inquired about the child... Girl bye.
Jermani Smith women get too much power in these situations. These laws need to change
@@deegraves90 I agree to a certain extent. Some guys will lie and try to get over like they try and don't do anything.
@@deegraves90 you are soo right, the gender bias against men in family law is painfully and grossly unfair. I don't get why and how it isn't law in every state to perform a DNA test to determine paternity before some poor guy is deceived into signing that birth certificate... It's the only way I can think of that protect men and their fatherhood and parental rights, it's the only how I can think of to fight paternity FRAUD.
She wanted him to call her a bad name, but he did not. Props to you dude.
These people must forgot AIDS is still out here SMDH
plus all the good ole down low bisexual men. So sad
Pretty much.
This is my question also!
@@Alkemmiztt preach!
I blame Magic Johnson... because of him, people think there is a cure 🤷♀️
That baby is sooooo pretty!!!! 😍😍😍
Yes and looks just like her mom
The mother is self absorded
jeanthree yes
Sad, he treated her with respect and didn't call her names, but she came out hollering about child support knowing he wasn't that child's daddy. Just watch her reaction when the results are read.....she knew, why in blue blazes do some females act like that????? The kids are the ones that suffer 😖
I agree. I almost with he was the father because he seemed like a good man. Even after the results were shown, he never once insulted her, got angry, nothing. He just wished her the best. She needs to grow up and start thinking about that baby and not herself.
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Angela G exactly and it ends up being a viscious cycle of fatherless kids.
It sure was she knew the wasted that mans time in court. She knew al the time she strait Lying heffa. She mad cause she was embarrassed
her own self.
Angela G even after the results she was still being negative af. She was pushing for an argument and he simply wished her the best
She probably doesn’t know who the father is.
She dont
Always here on time! Love me some Judge Lauren Lake.. like if you feel the same 💖
I c you Jasmine
This young Lady need to calm down and do what's best for the baby.
She sure knows her job, i like the way she lets pple talk...before talking some sense into them
Hey girllllla :-)
😍
I'd like to know if she ever found the baby's daddy. She was angry, not at him, but at herself for being in such a situation. He was nice to her.
Samee especially since this was 4/5 years ago, i always wonder what happened to certain cases!
Give the cat a rest between relationships...geeesh! Y'all pH balances gotta be off! Hi PC family!
The cat Lol!!
Thanks. I laughed so hard I spit up on my phone. You proud of yourself now?
Lol
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Speak that truth!!! 😩👏🏾
She is such a liar crying and all 31 days of unprotection on going she was already pregant
All my life i have never seen such disgrace these women going around fling their private parts to every man that tell them you look pretty they are so cheap they have no self esteem i reallt dont know what to call them No pride or self respect .
Just look at how some of them carryon likethey are the man them mother no dignity or pride the man cheat me cheat to you end up with the baby set fools and men have some respect for your self and stop throwing your self at every thing resemble something with (v )once you sleep with the woman dont deny until you get the dna like you no better.
DONT PUT THAT EVIL ON ME RICKY BOBBY
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He knew he would be stuck with this bop! He dodged a bullet!
Ken Fulton {Baby Elder} lol fell out of my chair laughing so hard when he said that!!!
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"Don't chu put this evil on me Ricky Bobby!!!" 😂😂😂
"Talladega Nights" Baby😫😹
😂😂😂
My number 1 movie
“Don't you try to snort these lucky charms”
That baby is beautiful!
all babies are beautiful
@@dali338 true and she one of them 🤭
Very!!!
Megan Lule yes she is! 😊
Very very beautiful!
Judge nailed it..it wasnt about the baby, it was all about herself. Smh.
under the wing like fried rice???? wow...thank god I'm not out here dating....🤣🤣😂
Kiki Stewart Say a prayer for those of us who are 😭😭😭🤣🤣
Lol😂😂😂 fr
And there are ppl callng him 'classy', lol!
His punchline was sick 😂😂😂
I scrolled just for this comment!! I HAD to find it!!😂😂😂😭😂😭😂😂😂
"How you doing stranger ??" Took Me Out !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can clearly tell I'm not the only PC addict we are many
Ohh yes ❤️
You are not, am addicted too
Yeh we are
I just found out about this show last week and I've been binge watching! I love the judge!
I too am addicted to Paternity Court, I must have my nightly doses before bed and when I'm suffering from insomnia late at night. I just absolutely love and respect Judge Lauren Lake she is a beautiful, educated and intelligent African American professional woman that "keeps it real" on the bench like only a true "sistah girl" can. We applaud you Judge Lauren, u make us proud!!
After all her Sassing he ain't the Pappy.
In all honesty this woman hates herself. The whole time she projected her feelings about herself on him.
She definitely did and I'm glad the judge pointed it out and let her know!
Jarail Butler correct! Yes hatred is an internal reflection. She hate being permiscuousness, but when those demons come a knocking she always answer the door and let them in.
Then again at the end she put herself down some more... Very sad
Good point ...It’s hard to see that about people when they act like that and your on the other side of it but I’m gonna keep it in mind from now on
For real.
I seriously doubt it was just 3 men she’s looking for love
I don’t understand why hos keep babies when they don’t know for sure who is the father 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️just get an abortion ladies
She's looking for a paycheck
She’s ashamed and projecting all that so it probably was 4 or 5 dudes. - “You can call me names it’s fine”. Girl, do some soul searching bc no one talked about you!
May be its because the baby is not rubbish or garbage but a human. I agree she could adopt the child out if she does not want the baby.
She honestly doesn't know who the father of her child is. With so many possibilities she may never know.
"I was like behooved"🤦🏿♂️😂😂😂
Once she found out the new boyfriend was not the father and he left, then she miraculously gets the other guy in court after blocking him for 2 years. Clearly this was All about the money.
i need more than one episode per day
Nihaal Ahmed a
Nihaal Ahmed say it again sis
I'm a family law attorney, and I need more than one episode a day. So, you're not the only one. For the most part, PC cases are far more interesting than my cases.
how about someone download the old ones?...full episodes. am sure parternity case being around more than 2018.
I binge them every night...
I'm sure this mom has had a lot of pain and suffering in her life we know nothing about. I pray she learns her self worth and is a great example for her daughter. The guy was very upstanding.
That child is cute AF 😲
Chelsea yes she is one time that I can agree cause not always true my grandma said every cat love their kitten
Not really. Everyone's cycle isn't consistent.
She is just so adorable ❤️
And I totally thought she looked like him
Omg yes!
People who keep saying I'm grown are always so immature. They have no idea what it take to be a grown up man or woman.
I am glad he wasn't the father, her attitude stinks. Nice cheekbones though.
Sadly she went on live television and made a spectacle of herself. We have to pray for these women who seek to find their missing father’s love in another man.
Yes she did
I love this judge! She tells it exactly how it is and is NOT afraid to call someone out on their B.S. That lady was so rude and had so much attitude for no obvious reason- just being nasty to this dude who just wanted to know if the baby was his. I'm so happy the judge called her out. I've been binge watching this show literally all night and this has to be one of my favorite qualities possessed by Judge Lake.
Yesss!!! Before the judge went in on her I was so mad that she was so nasty to the guy. I was yelling at the screen like lady YOU waited two years!!! When the judge went in on her she took her time and addressed all of the woman’s issues so intelligently and I clapped so loudly lol. I hope the woman really heard her.
shes broken and need help, I hope she gets it.
Yes she does!!... MIKAYLA & Thats Y I Luv My Lauren Lake...
“Im not going to say that earns a round of applause.” 😂😂 I love this judge!!