INFJ and INTP: is the Golden Pair Compatible?

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @amyuca5458
    @amyuca5458 2 года назад +267

    As an INFJ, I don't talk that deep. I like simple but meaningful things that I can get straight to the point. Our INFJ stereotype is too overrated.

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 2 года назад +57

      I would say that I would like to talk that way, but often don't because I don't think others are interested. Also I don't think they necessarily were talking about one subject only for 2h, that might be too much for one subject without branching out.

    • @amyuca5458
      @amyuca5458 2 года назад +11

      @@ellem8990 I agree. I think talking and arguing just one subject makes my Ti feel tired becuz it's still my 3rd function.

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 2 года назад +22

      @@amyuca5458 I'm also an INFJ if that wasn't obvious. I think it really depends on which type I'm talking to, since trying to keep up with someone that has very different functions, gets tiring pretty fast. Like sometimes I struggle to keep up with my INTP brother with his TiNe ramblings and him having inferior Fe is sometimes too absent. He is still the one that I enjoy talking to the most in my family.

    • @asseylum_2.012
      @asseylum_2.012 2 года назад +7

      Im an infj with adhd. I don't talk deep bcs sometimes i forget about the information. Even to a topic that i really interested to. Although my subject very diverse, but it's all just a shallow surface. That's why i always seek people that know better than me.

    • @amyuca5458
      @amyuca5458 2 года назад +2

      @@asseylum_2.012 I understand that. I'm kinda like an ENFP sooo LETS BE FRIEND IF U WANT TO :D

  • @rosario8150
    @rosario8150 2 года назад +109

    they are truly the golden pair. I loved it!!

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +4

      Thank you!!

    • @sheesheney
      @sheesheney Год назад +6

      For real. There's this INFJ that I immediately clicked with. We discovered that we have the same energy when it comes to socializing, same mindset about dating, same attitude about pretty much everything. I mean, it was like I was talking to myself. But what made him different from me was that he's more attuned to what the other person is feeling or even thinking - he basically managed to read me like an open book, and here I was believing that I already know myself. Lol

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving Год назад +1

      No, that's ENTPs.

  • @Sunnycarousel
    @Sunnycarousel 2 года назад +107

    I'm INFJ and this is literally how I met my boyfriend 😂

  • @champagnefadre
    @champagnefadre 2 года назад +135

    where’s my intp significant other 🧐

  • @blancheb3533
    @blancheb3533 Год назад +31

    Hey. INFJ girl here. My boyfriend is INTP. This basically pretty much sums up our relationship LOL

    • @ammarayounas170
      @ammarayounas170 6 месяцев назад

      Are you two are really together today ?

    • @blancheb3533
      @blancheb3533 6 месяцев назад

      We actually broke up and I'm getting married to an ISTP now. But INFJ -- INTP is still a good pairing.

    • @arunkrishna36108
      @arunkrishna36108 10 дней назад

      What bout now​@@blancheb3533

  • @billySquanto
    @billySquanto 2 года назад +40

    Yeah pretty much, first date with my wife was just 4 hours of talking. It can be hard with the INFJ bullheaded-ness at times, but it is the most interesting/rewarding investment I've made in my life.
    They are the few that can actually "get" the whole you (intp), not just your ideas, but can holistically understand you. Good for partnership.
    XNTJS are cool, but they are really just interested in your Ti to feed their Te.

  • @googleisfascist9278
    @googleisfascist9278 2 года назад +14

    This has been my meet cute fantasy for a while now

  • @selasiekpekpena9538
    @selasiekpekpena9538 2 года назад +29

    Give sensors a spotlight too🥲

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +12

      Sensors are in the works! Thanks for commenting!

  • @shionrad3122
    @shionrad3122 4 месяца назад +2

    I broke up with an INTP lately, we had a great time for 1/5 year but i found out he had been lying to me the whole time. Like a psychopath who tried to pretend humanity and feelings are important to him. A close mindee who tried to show otherwise. Irresponsible, Selfish, Lier with narcissistic traits. I feel devastated now.

  • @kr-666
    @kr-666 2 года назад +14

    that's nice and all but it's
    ME NEITHER

  • @silvamates736
    @silvamates736 2 года назад +31

    I'am INFJ my friend INTP , can relate to this absolutely ;) , Meet two ENFP's which should be the same "good story" , but nah... :D .... Beautiful made videos , can't wait too see more ;)

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +3

      Thank you Silva!! I'm so glad you can relate. I'll think about two ENFP's meeting for another video.

  • @c.lstrife
    @c.lstrife 7 месяцев назад +2

    As AN INFJ here, we sure do love the Analyst group alot 😂.

  • @Stella-dh9fo
    @Stella-dh9fo Год назад +3

    My little sister is an intp and we pretty much stick together at social events or seek each other out lol

  • @photographyguru2135
    @photographyguru2135 2 года назад +26

    It's cliché that because they are both introverts that they both are just standing around, not talking to others. Nothing wrong with it, because some introverts would act like this.
    As an INTP, it is my experience that its it not the most comforting thing to introduce yourself to new people, but we do it because of curiosity about people. We also will do it often and again and again even if we get embarrassed because we like taking small risks to have interesting experiences. I don't know if we would just wait for someone to talk to us.
    Sorry to nit-pick.

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +7

      I agree, it could have gone either way; the INFJ or INTP approaching. I would say that many introverts will approach people, especially people they want to talk to, and not just wait around at a social event.

    • @moubhattacharyay6891
      @moubhattacharyay6891 2 года назад

      @@MBTI_Fanatic Yupp.. 👍🏼

    • @Barthenn
      @Barthenn 2 года назад +2

      I'm INTP and I am not approaching anyone. I won't be at that social event at all. I don't like them. lol

    • @fungaltoe3748
      @fungaltoe3748 Год назад +4

      ​@@Barthenn I mean I'd go if my friends or someone else was going, but I definitely wouldn't approach someone I don't know. I'd rather speak to the people I know or wait to be approached lmao

    • @Barthenn
      @Barthenn Год назад +2

      @@fungaltoe3748 For me it would depends which friend ask me to go. But I would prefer not going. If I end up going. I'll do the same as you. Socialize with the ones I know.

  • @giovanim9338
    @giovanim9338 2 года назад +26

    Those two got great prospects! Both as Ti users will be able to exchange their thoughts freely and have an emotional connection like no other (both are rare in number and got complementary traits), meaning intellectual stimulation and emotional support.
    However, my question: how would they manage long-term structure (typical Te), like housing and finances? Initially I'd see an idea brainstorm and possible projection (Ti-Ne + Ni-Ti), but what happens actually?

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +18

      They may struggle with the Te aspects of life. However the INFJ, being a J type, will desire to take more practical action in life, even if it is executed in a more "Fe way."
      Not only are the functions that are present important, but the orientation or prioritization of the functions. The orientation of the J-type, tends to make them want to take practical actions.
      Being a J-type is equivalent having either Ni or Si as the first introverted function. Those functions seek to organize and condense information, and then produce results in real life. The Ni drives the INFJ to organize Ti and Fe information, and then come to a final actionable goal. So an INFJ values Ti, but the ultimate goal is to organize Ti into a bigger Ni picture, and then synthesize new goals.
      On the other hand, being a P-type is equivalent having either Ti or Fi as the first introverted function. The Ti-dom INTP is internally focused and the main drive is to develop their Ti. In comparison, for the INFJ, the Ti serves the Ni, and then the Ni drives the INFJ to take action. For the INTP, the Ti is the final goal, and it's not as driven towards action.
      I think in this relationship, the INFJ needs to feel empowered to make decisions, and not wait or look for approval from the INTP, who might seem indifferent. The INTP has to be aware the the INFJ will want to make practical decisions, and respect these necessities of life. The INFJ should be aware not to push the INTP to make too many decisions, and allow the INTP to be as independent as possible.

    • @claytonia1586
      @claytonia1586 2 года назад +5

      @@MBTI_Fanatic wow that's an amazing explanation. That's really helped me and I didn't even ask the question. Yes that's exactly how I use my Ti (I'm INFJ). Great distinction 😁. I've definitely been bad with general living stuff like bills through my life but now I'm older I use my Ni to plan my way through it so the disasters don't happen again. When left to my own devices I have become quite system oriented now and utilise reminders and calendars to keep me on track because otherwise its too chaotic and stressful to think about. I do whatever I can to prevent the chaos and pave the way so I don't have to hold those sensory things in my head or think about them more than I have to.
      Just found your channel by the way, I love it. 👍

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +3

      @@claytonia1586 Thank you! I'm so glad this was useful! One of the most useful aspects of MBTI is thinking about how the functions interact with each other.

  • @theperpetualeveningshow
    @theperpetualeveningshow 5 месяцев назад +3

    Whoa! THAT'S LITERALLY almost the exact way me and my INTP crush met! That's extraordinary! So long story short, I approached the INTP first after observing him, and then we talked, and I told him how I like typology/psychology stuff. He was interested in all of my interests and we talked a lot and danced. I was the one to get his number also, and he doesn't respond fast 😂. This is puzzling and very accurate. Good job btw, awesome video! - INFJ

  • @ikey6779
    @ikey6779 2 года назад +16

    My mom is a Infj and I'm a Intp.

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +4

      Nice! You both must use Ti. IN** types can often run in families.

    • @ikey6779
      @ikey6779 2 года назад +5

      @@MBTI_Fanatic my dad is a Intj too
      Sisters are esfj and isfp

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +4

      @@ikey6779 Sounds like a nice mix! You can all round each other out.

  • @TheGangr
    @TheGangr 5 месяцев назад +4

    Unrealistic, INTP's don't leave their house

  • @DeeDeex007o
    @DeeDeex007o Год назад +6

    I need an INTP in my life!

  • @fai411
    @fai411 2 года назад +5

    Yes we two are highly compatible

  • @MFrancis
    @MFrancis 2 года назад +7

    Good one!

  • @ReyRey.00
    @ReyRey.00 Год назад +3

    Me and my bestfriend of 16 years , I'm intp she is infj 😊❤

  • @GGGG_3333
    @GGGG_3333 6 месяцев назад

    Yo, not answering the phone right away is so true 😅

  • @huntedsnark7507
    @huntedsnark7507 2 года назад +9

    Can confirm.

  • @theyetti90
    @theyetti90 Год назад +2

    00:28
    INTP: She noticed it's been 2 hours!?
    If we liked you we would also not be asking why you wanted our number either.

  • @Jennifer-qv3mb
    @Jennifer-qv3mb 2 года назад +9

    Adorable :))

  • @KudoShinichii1412
    @KudoShinichii1412 2 года назад +5

    I used to have friend who turned to be my crush by time who was infj
    Thank you for the video

  • @whatsascallion-f6l
    @whatsascallion-f6l 29 дней назад

    I guess I am the odd introvert I always answer the phone early because I hate it when others pick my call up late. It takes a lot for me to call someoen eo I guess I think it takes a lot ror others to call me to. Obviously not the same treatment for that one person who calls you like thrice a week minimum

  • @Amrrkevin
    @Amrrkevin 10 месяцев назад +2

    What about INFJ, ENFP pair?

  • @ellim8479
    @ellim8479 2 года назад +11

    Can u do infj intj

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +1

      Yes, INFJ and INTJ are in the works!

    • @ikey6779
      @ikey6779 2 года назад +1

      I need to see that happen. My mom is Infj my dad is intj and I'm a intp

  • @PockyFiend
    @PockyFiend 2 года назад +5

    Golden pair? To me (an INTP), it's more like "let's pair the two awkward introverts together, and see what happens." Personally, I'll need at least a fellow thinker for anything like a long-term relationship, especially a fellow NT. Even my preferred "opposite" personality would be an XSTJ, to get me to stop procrastinating.

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад +10

      INFJs can be very high in Ti, and that can pair well with the INTP's Ti.

    • @lydiahiksan1232
      @lydiahiksan1232 Год назад +3

      I am an ENFJ woman and my best guy friend is a INTP. I am always the one who gets him to do things, I motivate him and I help him plan.
      I read my ENFJ 16 personalities profile and it literally says that we are the types to help a friend with a resume and landing a job which is exactly what happened with me and my friend.
      ENFJ's also don't want surface level conversation, they bulldoze right through it and turn the conversation into something interesting and unique oftentimes giving a fresh perspective.
      Just sharing my experience.

    • @Maharashtra895
      @Maharashtra895 Год назад

      ​@@lydiahiksan1232you are infj not enfj

    • @Maharashtra895
      @Maharashtra895 Год назад

      ​@@lydiahiksan1232an introvert is compatible with Introvert

  • @KudoShinichii1412
    @KudoShinichii1412 2 года назад +7

    I wish that happend to me

  • @MelodyArtiez
    @MelodyArtiez Год назад +1

    my mother is infj,i am intp. Lol.

  • @suousue2361
    @suousue2361 Год назад +3

    Me and my man

  • @Gavanater7
    @Gavanater7 Год назад +1

    This is me and my intp girlfriend 😂

  • @knlili3235
    @knlili3235 2 года назад +4

    Can you do ENFJ PLEEEEASSSEEE UR SO GOOD AT THESE FFFCGFCGFCGFCFGCGFC

    • @MBTI_Fanatic
      @MBTI_Fanatic  2 года назад

      Will do! Thanks for your comment!

    • @knlili3235
      @knlili3235 2 года назад

      @@MBTI_Fanatic TYSM!!!!

  • @amargado445
    @amargado445 2 месяца назад

    My INFJ is not like that...

  • @jiyoonchoi6638
    @jiyoonchoi6638 2 года назад +5

    Yeah we broke up a week ago😑

  • @v_i_n_e1616
    @v_i_n_e1616 Год назад +1

    Ohk so i want an infj guy then??

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 2 года назад +2

    Ohhooo.. Sounds Lyk I'm Complte In Me..😍 Lol😉

  • @neko-chan1878
    @neko-chan1878 10 месяцев назад

    parece audio de clase de inglés :v

  • @ahmedkhaledhussien8788
    @ahmedkhaledhussien8788 2 года назад +1

    *Me Neither

  • @Normal_user_coniven
    @Normal_user_coniven Год назад +1

    This conversation happened exactly like that between me and INFJs, not once, not twice, maybe 3 times atleast. But, I don't think that I am, or any INTP like me, like INFJs back. They like us, we like the conversation itself.
    When they start to ask about us, the conversation reach a danger limit.
    They think that we have depression and bad metal health that stop us from using our intelligence in real life. Are we look like INFPs to them? I can't because the statics and logic and experiments says I can't. You can't read our emotions when we don't have any.

    • @blancheb3533
      @blancheb3533 Год назад +1

      Why is this so bitter not all INTPs are like this. My boyfriend is INTP and yes he does have feelings but being Fe inferior it takes a while for them to trust due to having too many theories about what a relationship is or must be like

  • @paoloreyes1997
    @paoloreyes1997 8 месяцев назад

    😢

  • @alaa88888
    @alaa88888 Год назад +2

    Tha sounds like the most boring couple/relationship on earth.. how come, iam an infj but this kinda dull interaction would suck the life out of me..

    • @Maharashtra895
      @Maharashtra895 Год назад

      This is only myth in real life you can see evidence

    • @lok6314
      @lok6314 Год назад +9

      thats because you missed the 2hours of conversation lmao

  • @irish-sun
    @irish-sun Год назад +2

    INTP don't like psychology, I verified

    • @akashee5013
      @akashee5013 Год назад +6

      Actually, many of us do.

    • @samokrutik
      @samokrutik Год назад +4

      I do. I was interested in philosophy first, but then I turned to psychology, since it's more useful

    • @ankaralion
      @ankaralion 3 месяца назад +3

      we like everything informational and that includes neuroscience and psychology.

    • @arunkrishna36108
      @arunkrishna36108 10 дней назад

      Every possible thing that can be studied is an INTP'S interest
      -INTP