In the shadows of depression

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @healwithlaurennicole
    @healwithlaurennicole Год назад +4

    Nature is so healing.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Your words resonate deeply, and I truly appreciate your understanding and empathy. You've beautifully captured the essence of healing: it's a journey filled with ebbs and flows, ups and downs, and just like nature itself, it moves in cycles. This is so true.
      Your thoughtful words, love, and healing energy mean a lot. It's a comfort to know that I'm not alone on my healing path. Let's continue to uplift and support each other. Much love and healing to you as well. ❤️🌿

  • @ToeKneekneetoe
    @ToeKneekneetoe Год назад +3

    Oh my my… Menopause is a monster!!! It’s not what I expected!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      It is biting me in the butt!! I am seriously considering going on HRT. For someone with so many chronic illnesses losing the protective aspect of Estrogen can have a devastating impact as I have been experiencing. Inflammation can rise very suddenly and I wouldn't be surprised if the inflammation I had in my eye was caused by this sudden drop in Estrogen and rapid rise in inflammation. All the symptoms started at the same time.

    • @ToeKneekneetoe
      @ToeKneekneetoe Год назад +2

      @@tt_looking_glass Me too!!!, but my butt is no longer… just hips into legs! Butt is on the floor somewhere… elbows are dry, so dry from dragging myself around!🤪 ya gotta laugh about it all!!!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Yes, you do. 😍

  • @priscilacpgmartinsbaldacci2616
    @priscilacpgmartinsbaldacci2616 Год назад +4

    Dear Dani, please feel a tight, yet gentle hug from your friends from Waterdown and Brazil. You rock! You are appreciated! And you are an inspiration! Xo

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much Pricila. I appreciate the virtual hugs. 🤗♥️

  • @debrairvin9776
    @debrairvin9776 Год назад +3

    I’m glad you’re feeling a little better. For what it’s worth, I am 56 and have been in full menopause for several years. I feel so much better than I did during peri menopause. I had more anxiety and depressive symptoms during that phase. Take good care of yourself. Sometimes I think we try so hard to be positive and grateful that we forget it’s okay to be down at times. Be gentle with yourself. 🙏🌸

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +2

      Hi Debra, thank you so much for sharing your experience and your kind words. It's reassuring to hear that you've found relief and improvement in your well-being after going through the challenges of perimenopause. Perimenopause has been very rocky for me. I'm glad there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
      Your reminder about being gentle with oneself is truly appreciated. Sometimes, we can indeed get caught up in the pressure to always stay positive and forget it's okay to not be okay. Taking care of our mental and emotional health involves acknowledging our feelings and allowing ourselves to process them.
      I'm grateful for your support, it's comforting to know that I'm not alone. ♥️

    • @debrairvin9776
      @debrairvin9776 Год назад +2

      You’re welcome!! I was just going to add… that you have been through so much recently. The eye issues after your trip and not know what it was… add chronic migraines and fibromyalgia!
      Thinking of you and looking forward to your next video… but no pressure! Your health comes first. 💗

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Ohhh, thank you for acknowledging all of that. It means a lot to me♥️

  • @girlathebeach
    @girlathebeach Год назад +3

    Good to see you again.Nature can be so healing and soothing and helps us take the time to reflect.I haven't been depressed but have had some moment where I felt mentally exhausted.Being in nature always helps me breathe easier and be-easier.The park you were in is so beautiful!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Absolutely, I couldn't agree more. Nature has an incredible way of providing solace and rejuvenation. The tranquility and beauty of nature can indeed help us pause, reflect, and recharge.
      I too have had mental exhaustion, and finding those peaceful moments in nature is a powerful way to hit the "reset" button and regain clarity.
      🌿🌼

  • @janethansen9612
    @janethansen9612 Год назад +1

    Menopause hit my mental health hard with severe anxiety. What a roller coaster life is! Gentle hugs from Australia.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      I'm sad to hear you too have been through the struggle of menopause but I'm happy that I am not alone in this. Thank you for sharing and making me feel heard. ♥️

  • @CanadianLadyVanLife
    @CanadianLadyVanLife Год назад +2

    I deal with fibromyalgia and last year in May the same thing happened to me. I did not want to talk, see anyone. I would have anxiety thinking of people coming to visit me. I was several months dealing with this. I had negative energy in my environment, one person was calling me names, that was affecting my self worth. I stopped doing my videos for 6 plus months. A friend came to see me and asked, "What is going on? We don't see you anymore. I told her how I was feeling and she pulled me out of my dark hole. I made plans for friends to visit and canceled a few times on them and explained WHY to them. I finally got out and back to living.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. You've been through some challenging times dealing with fibromyalgia. I'm so happy to hear you have a friend to reach out to and open up about your struggles. Sometimes, having someone who genuinely cares and supports us can make a world of difference in pulling us out of those dark moments. Itring you down. It is important to remove those kinds of energy form our lives if we want the best chance to thrive.
      Remember that you're not alone on this journey. Sharing your story can inspire others who might be going through similar challenges, and it's a reminder that seeking support and reaching out to friends can have a positive impact on our lives. Thank you for sharing. Also, myslef and two other creator have started a Facebook page for content creators with chronic illness. It's a support page for those of us navigating social media on top of dealing with our helath struggles. If you would like to join us head over to Facebook and look for Chronic Content Creators page and request being added to the page. I would love to see you there and have you share your knowledge with the rest of us.

    • @CanadianLadyVanLife
      @CanadianLadyVanLife Год назад

      I will join, I may be a member already.@@tt_looking_glass

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      awesome!

  • @maslina4567
    @maslina4567 Год назад +2

    The force of the storm to damage a picnic table like that must have been massive! Such odd weather all over...parts of Croatia had record 20 cm hailstones. Unreal.
    When camping do you see wildlife such as moose, elk or bears? Like you, I adore camping and the therapeutic and calming power of nature.
    I'm so sorry to hear about your depression...I wondered about you. I know you'll be all right but understand how debilitating it can be on top of fibro, migraines, etc. I've had it lately as well and the indifference one can feel is disconcerting. Just having a shower can be daunting.
    Living above our circumstances can be challenging but it's sure better than being crushed by them. Life just isn't easy and that helplessness can be consuming.
    But we've got each other's backs. We share burdens. You are not alone. ❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Indeed the weather has been crazy all over the world. We have had extreme heat and crazy storms all summer long. Camping is a remarkable way to connect with wildlife and experience the beauty of the natural world up close. When camping on regular campgrounds one can expect to see raccoons, squirrels and chipmunks but once you take off into the backcountry, away from cars and people you will see moose, black bears, deer, wolves… I am going backcountry camping in a few weeks and I hope to see some wildlife. From far that is. Lol!
      Your point on rising above our circumstances is both insightful and motivating. Life's challenges can feel overwhelming, and the feeling of helplessness is something many of us grapple with. Depression, especially when coupled with other health challenges is debilitating. The indifference and heaviness that it brings are difficult to convey, but I gather you understand them well.
      But you're absolutely right, the support we provide each other, the sharing of burdens, is a powerful reminder that we're not alone in this journey.
      Thank you for your support and comment. It means a lot to me. ❤️🌿

    • @maslina4567
      @maslina4567 Год назад

      @tt_looking_glass Good for you! Back country camping is truly unlike anything else. Observing wildlife is a blessing.
      I'm always grateful for your responses and comments. Your care and compassion are obvious and very touching. Thank you for being genuine and discussing the bad with the good. No matter what, there is ALWAYS hope.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      You are welcome and thank you for saying all those nice things about me. ♥️ I am actually leaving tomorrow morning super early for a canoe back-country trip. It will be epic! I will definitely vlog. Don't miss that one as it will be a super fun one.
      And you are absolutely right about the fact that there is always hope. 🙏

  • @jaeldekkers1
    @jaeldekkers1 Год назад +1

    I am so happy that you posted, but I am also so happy that you took a break for yourself which is so important!!❤️
    Also a little side note the background of your video is very soothing!!❤️❤️
    Sending hugs

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Taking a break for self-care is indeed crucial. I'm so happy that you enjoyed the video. Sending you warm hugs right back! ❤️❤️

  • @amandalininger-bortko1616
    @amandalininger-bortko1616 Год назад +1

    So glad you are doing better! This was brilliant.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much and thank you for watching. It makes me happy to be able to share my journey with you guys. ♥️

  • @jenniferknowles2023
    @jenniferknowles2023 Год назад

    I am in exactly the same place you are in, you are not alone. I took have Fibromyalgia, chronic migraines as well as Osteoarthritis everywhere thanks to a hyper mobility disorder. I too am in perimenopause and I am struggling with those changes along with my other health issues, and yes, life has lost its sparkle. I feel disillusioned, disconnected and lost at sea.
    I know it will get better, just have to let it wash over us for now. Hugs 🤗 ❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      I'm truly sorry to hear about all the challenges you're facing as well. Dealing with multiple health issues, especially during perimenopause, is incredibly tough. I know! It's okay to feel disillusioned and lost during times like these.
      While it may seem like the sparkle has faded from life, remember that tough times pass, and there's hope for better days ahead.
      Sending you a warm hug 🤗❤️. We are resilient, and I believe we can find out way through this.

  • @beatrizvolpeayub3862
    @beatrizvolpeayub3862 Год назад

    Amazing images and association with human lives. Good to know you are doing better. Keep it up!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      I'm glad you found this video meaningful! Thank you for your encouragement.♥️

  • @mamabearstrong
    @mamabearstrong Год назад

    So glad to see you back. I'm glad you took the time to push the "noise" aside to focus on yourself. Sending hugs from Cali ❤️

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      It's good to be back, and I really appreciate your understanding. Thank you for watching and commenting. ❤️

  • @christinethewlis1527
    @christinethewlis1527 Год назад

    Its lovely to see you back and am gald your feeling better thank you for sharing it looks beautiful were you are ❤️

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for your warm words and support. It truly means a lot to me. I'm glad to be back and feeling better. 💖

  • @jessiefrances
    @jessiefrances Год назад

    So beautifully said and described. Loved this vlog❤ thank you so much for sharing your heart the way you do ❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Your kind words mean a lot to me! I'm thrilled to hear that you loved the vlog and that my sharing resonated with you. Thank you for your heartfelt support! ❤️

  • @Theartofbeingill
    @Theartofbeingill Год назад +2

    Welcome back 🥰

  • @jimmyching7293
    @jimmyching7293 Год назад

    You are a poet! Hope you will be well soon!

  • @jimmyching7293
    @jimmyching7293 Год назад

    Thank you for coming back! Even your voice and presence on the vlog have healing effect on me. Thank you!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Thank you for still being here. If it wasn’t for all of you this channel wouldn’t exist. ❤️

    • @jimmyching7293
      @jimmyching7293 Год назад

      You are a genius in literature and filming.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      @@jimmyching7293 Hardly, but thank you anyways. It’s beautiful that you see it this way. ❤️

    • @jimmyching7293
      @jimmyching7293 Год назад

      And the background music of the films is beautiful!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      Thank you so much. ♥️ Choosing music for my videos is one of the things I enjoy the most. It is also the most time-consuming part of the editing process.

  • @inthelymelife4390
    @inthelymelife4390 Год назад

  • @wendygraham7787
    @wendygraham7787 Год назад

    I am happy you are feeling a little better. I missed you and was a bit concerned to be honest. Thanks for being so honest about how you've been. and updating us. Hugs ❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      I'm touched by your concern, and I truly appreciate your kind words. It means a lot to me. I'm feeling a bit better now, and I'm grateful for your support. Hugs right back to you! ❤️

  • @klanderkal
    @klanderkal 7 месяцев назад

    Im unable to go outside, or do anything anymore. I don't see beauty' in beautiful things anymore, i don't feel pleasure or gratitude or appreciation at all. I used to be the happiest champion surfer, top shape, loving family, and handed my dream career job of 25yrs...
    Bang!!! Lost my job, was stressing so bad!, got anxiety, insomnia,... and now severe depression. I lost interest in living,... and life. .... i just suffer 24/7... without my job, something happened to me.! I know how i loved my job, and coworkers, friends. .... my identity, purpose, social interaction, structure, self image. .....i wallow in self pity, guilt, regret..... etc. 💔😞😫☠️

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  6 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It sounds incredibly tough, especially after having such a fulfilling life filled with passion and accomplishment. Losing your job and facing these mental health challenges can feel like losing part of your identity-it's a profound shift that would shake anyone.
      It’s completely normal to feel the way you do in such a situation, and it’s okay to acknowledge the pain and loss. But remember, although you’ve lost a significant part of your life, you are not alone in this. Many have walked this difficult path and found ways to regain a sense of purpose and joy, even if it seems impossible right now.
      Reconnecting with the beauty in life is a journey, one step at a time. It might help to start small, maybe just sitting by a window for a few minutes each day, trying to find one thing that catches your eye, even if it doesn't bring the same joy it used to. These small steps are not trivial, they're the building blocks to recovery.
      Please consider reaching out to a mental health professional who can provide you with the support and tools to navigate this challenging time. There's strength in seeking help, and it's a crucial step in rediscovering your new path.
      Your feelings of loss are valid, but so is hope. You are more than your job and your current struggles. There's a future where you feel better, and I truly believe you can reach it. 💔 Please take care, and keep reaching out. We’re here for you.

    • @klanderkal
      @klanderkal 6 месяцев назад

      @tt_looking_glass
      ♥️♥️♥️
      THANK YOU so much for caring about me.
      You're words we're so inspirational,
      and I really needed them.
      You really understand 🫶,
      I will try,.. and take the little step you've mentioned. Even if I'm currently unable to see the beauty as before,... I will look. And try to.
      You REALLY know, the struggle I'm going through 🫶
      I have been reaching out to counseling of all sorts.
      But, im having difficulty reframeing my situation. You've mentioned I'm not alone, that others been in similar situations. I'm so struggling with this loss and the illnesses.
      How can anyone survive this.
      Thank you for validating my feelings. Still unable to sleep, maybe consecutive days, and the wear on my mental and physical health is ..... Im kinna like frozen in a negative void.
      Building blocks to recovery,
      Thank you for you're support,
      I'll be re-reading you're reply 🙌
      Thank you,
      ... KaL

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  6 месяцев назад +1

      Hey KaL, I’m really moved by your message. It means a lot to hear that my words have offered you some comfort. It’s perfectly okay to struggle with seeing the beauty in things right now, especially with everything you’re going through. Taking it one small step at a time is enough.
      It’s great to hear that you’re reaching out for counselling. It’s a big step towards healing. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. Many understand and are here rooting for you, including me. Every small step is progress, and I’m here to support you through them all , and whenever you need a boost or a reminder that you’re supported, just re-read our chats. You’re stronger than you think, and you’ve got this! 💖

    • @klanderkal
      @klanderkal 6 месяцев назад

      @tt_looking_glass Thank you so much for caring about me.... and remembering.
      I did,. re read your messages.
      So positive and understanding . You really have compassion. When you mentioned,... the little things as baby steps forward. You really understand the difficulties,.. depression is.
      Thank you for validating my sufferings of my total life disruption.
      You're special for caring about me.
      Thank you 🙏👍💐⚘️💓

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  6 месяцев назад +1

      Hey KaL, your message means a lot to me. I’m so glad to hear that re-reading my messages has been helpful for you. I'm so glad that the idea of taking baby steps forward resonates with you. Your courage in sharing your journey and continuing to push through is truly inspiring. Depression is incredibly tough.
      I’m here for you, and so is this community. Keep going, one step at a time, and never forget how strong you are. Sending you lots of support and positive vibes. ♥️

  • @aldastroud9671
    @aldastroud9671 Год назад

    I would be happy about, coz I I'm on my menopause over 12 years, I was 42, fibromyalgia at 47, my worse pains are inside my waste area, even sitting down is painful, like something inside is hurt... I've now put a coil as part of hrt treatment, and from that day I'm in horrible pain insinde, I'm going to ask to take it out...

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад

      I'm so sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing, especially in such a sensitive area. Dealing with fibromyalgia alongside menopause brings its unique challenges, and it's disheartening to hear that your treatment is causing additional discomfort. It's a good decision to talk to your healthcare provider about removing the coil if it's causing you such pain.
      Your courage in advocating for yourself is inspiring. I hope you find relief soon. Take care. 💖😊

  • @Cs-ry3fx
    @Cs-ry3fx Год назад +2

    speaking my truth:
    The heavens declare the glory of God❤ If nature heals how much more the creator(God) can heal. read the word of God ( the bible) its what keeps my head above water.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Год назад +1

      I believe that sometimes we go through the struggle we do as a reminder that there is something much bigger than us. In those times of struggle, I look for guidance and comfort in the words of God. Faith can definitely bring solace and strength. Thank you for your comment and reminder. ♥️🙏