Trevor Noah Isn’t Opposed to Marriage but Is Against Living Together
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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“I can only know where I am now in life and that’s what I’ve learned to enjoy.” Beautifully said
I support that.
Love 😍
Preach
Yeah like he’s learned to enjoy destroying the daily show
Huge mood
"You didn't change. You just became who you really are."
True shit.
🤡
Trevor is good at playing with words, just shit that conceals his fear.
Jesus Christ am I the only one annoyed by how this guy doesn't EVER let Trevor finish to speak his mind
No, you aren't. The interviewer doesn't listen to his guest. It is almost like Trevor is making him talk, not the other way around - and it makes it difficult to follow.
But if I can add this - offtopic - may you have a nice day! ^^
Noah sucks anyways. We're not missing much.
Himitsu You’re not the only one
He's doing IT because he's trying to insinuate Trevor's not hetero! Trevor did a great job of #NoneOfYoDamnBusiness
“This guy” lol
Howard Stern is that friend who keeps asking you when you're going to get married
...but isn't in a healthy relationship himself.
Shafer Hart 😂😂😂😂
That's all my friends..... I need new friends!
He's turning into a Jewish mother
My mom is that friend 🙄
"You didn't change, you just became who you really are" .. well damn..
Yeah that sucks am gonna be always true so I don't change later..heheh lol
Makes sense the more you think about it
I love that as well. He is such a smart man. Love him!
Well. Yes. And if you're honest about that from the start, you may eventually find something different. Who the fuck knows? Why predefine what you're going to be when all around us we keep seeing that people do change, they grow and understand themselves better emotionally. I'm totally with Trevor on this one.
When you think about it only wealthy people don't need to over project themselves
The fact that he’s still so well spoken while the interviewer just launches questions at him like fireworks left and right is beyond me... How do I acquire this trait lol I’d be getting so anxious
I would have gotten frustrated
Lol have a British accent
Marq ES he’s South African...
He’s a comedian. He has to be quick on his feet.
@@marqquese3412 he doesn't have have British accent. He has an accent from south Africa. I'm guessing you're not African so you don't know this
Whoever ends up with Trevor will be a very lucky individual. He's a gem of a human being.
With these teachings of "Leykis 101" or MGTOW,,, We don't end up with someone,,,,, We are simply Batchelors for life. This is why we won't ever LIVE TOGETHER with whom we're involved with sexually. No obligations. Especially if they already have kids.
Except they have to live in another house. No thanks, I want to live with my husband.
Or maybe he is just pretending
Unless that girl really wants to live with him.
Straight from South Africa 💪
Oh my god i got so anxious with this man interrupting him all the time. LET THE GUY SPEAK!
I agree!
Corona Virus yes that selfish douche
“This man” lol that’s cute
@Joseph Pellegrino We can't criticize him because he's popular now? If I don't like someone's style I'm gonna say it, couldn't care less if he is a "legend."
Stern's wife must be a quiet soul.
Why is Howard constantly talking over Trevor? I would never come back to his show if I were a celebrity.
Howard been doing that for years.
You would never be asked on the Howard Stern show even if you were a celebrity.
Jimmy Liu he’s an egomaniac
Howard is the king that’s why lol
@@katemiller7874 king of shitty interview skills (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
Damn. Gained a lot of respect for him after this. What a great and honest perspective.
He's awesome. Rolemodel vibes
Wow... @ your Pic..And everything Trevor just said of course lol
@@LLagi Right?!😏
Imagine if your parents raised you like that
Um... As in you didn't respect him before despite all his amazing work???
I feel you, man. The idea of constantly having someone around and the total lack of privacy freak me out too. And yes, people who always want to "do things" are the worst.
toffekristoffe what’s wrong with wanting to do things?
TraumaER it's the "always" part. It's people who can't shed a second of silence, of loneliness, of appreciating the moment.
yes exactly my view. people just can't take a moment and relax..maybe that will cure many mental as well as physical problems. even after retirement they're like let's travel all around the world and spend everything on crazy stuff.
What happens when you have a child ?
@@TraumaER -- I can only say this for myself. Wanting to do things is a request for my time. It also assumes that I don't have something I rather do with my time. It is a very selfish concept, but some of us really like to do our own thing. I also hesitate to ask people to do things because I don't want to waste their time or prevent them from doing something they would rather be doing. There are definitely times I also want to do things, but it would have to be when I want to. It really couldn't be on someone else's schedule. It sounds really selfish, but it is the only way I'd be comfortable doing things. You really need to have a specific type of friends to understand and deal with that.
This isn't a problem most extroverts would ever encounter probably.
Trevor: I don’t think you should live in the same house even if you are married.
Me: I think I just found my soulmate!
Me too...
me too!
me three!
Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. AMEN!
Katherine Hepburn
How about let’s not get married, but be in a long-term committed relationship and not live together. That’s what I’m looking for
I moved in with my boyfriend and it works because we both have full time jobs, hobbys and friends. Moving together doesnt mean you will be sitting on top of each other 24/7
Exactly. Great point. You can still give each other space.
No comment
Bully for you. Wait until you're 40 with three kids and lets see how much time and how many hobbies and friends you have. Even if you don't have any kids, others will.
Now you are 😷
How are things now
I agree with him. I’ve always found him to be very insightful. Now I’m even more impressed.
That's what happens when you live in different places in the world. Opens your mind
I had the opposite reaction , I’m even less impressed lol
@@yvanm7999 so so true
As someone who has been divorced for over 20 years & has also been single for the duration, I can relate to what Trevor is saying. There have been times when I thought that I would like to start a new relationship but truth be told, I would always decide against it. I enjoy my independence & having the entire bed to myself with uninterrupted sleep too much. I like never having to justify my spending & never having to put up with arguments over trivial things. I find comfort in knowing that when I'm old I don't have to concern myself with the aches & pains of another & I enjoy my own company whenever I'm alone & am seldom bored. It surprises me how many people can't even imagine that being single can mean being happy.
Soooo true! I totally agree. Sometimes it’s so easy to
fall for the expectations of society and we forget that there is a beauty to being single.
It can be a new and exciting experience of being oneself completely without the compromise of giving into anybody else
@@sarairisllera6834 Well said.😃
He is such a gorgeous human, isn't he?!
he is I concur
Too bad he wants to live alone.
for a lanky dude with a big nose, he sure is
WHEN YOUR EXPECTATION IS GREATER THAN WHAT IS AVAILABLE, A RELATIONSHIP FAILS. EXPECT FAR LESS AND PROBABLY GET MORE AND YOUR ARE THERE. THE MARRIAGE LAWS NEVER MADE ANY MARRIAGE WORK. COMMON SENSE IS WHAT MAKES MARRIAGE WORK. LEAR, LISTEN MORE THAN SPEAK. BE MORE REASONABLE THAN EMOTIONAL. REASONING IS HARDER TO ACCEPT. EMOTIONS CONNOTE LOVE BUT FAR AWAY FROM IT. LEAVE ROMANCE NOVELS A LONE. MOST OF THE WRITERS WERE NOT MARRIED OR NOT TRULY MARRIED. AM A MALE AND OFTEN RUINED BY EGO. AT LAST I FIND OUT AM WRONG.
Digging Trevor Noah right now, yes ☺️😊☺️
"I love long walks on the beach. I love adventure."
Every single dating profile (-_-)
women think the same lol
I love food
Yep like every single guy loves long walks on the beach at sunset but in reality the closest they've ever came to water outside of the shower is National Geographic!
Being honest with oneself is key in every relationship. It's called integrity and he hit the nail on the head right there. Just be yourself and allow the other partner to take you as you are or not. It will save you all the heart ache
Facts!
I think most people have to live together for financial reasons 😅
Yeah that's how I ended up staying with my ex for three years. It just made it difficult to leave.
You don't have to. You just want a bigger house. 😉
Its true... I am
Exactly, however we can live with roommates instead of our S.O.
@@kristine95660 Men that are responsible don't lol
Wow thought I was weird, I love being in love n I do believe in marriage.. But the idea of living with someone scares me. I hve come to enjoy my space too much...
Sis i don't even like visitors for more than 3hours, to think about having to live with someone....A nightmare i tell u
Exactly, my place is sacred. It’s a place where I feel 100% safe and myself.
OmG I’m your complete opposite. I love living with my BF but a decade later, I’m not ready to rush to the alter quite yet. Marriage means kids and responsibilities and I’m terrified of that 😱😂
Me too girl.
Insecurities... But at least you love yourself enough..some women are so attached men like lost puppies and when shit gets dangerous they are still too naive to leave..I still respect you..
I agree living together is not for everyone, but when you do find that person that you "click" with, it's a beautiful thing.
Howard stop interrupting Trevor's answers. You ask a question and then talk over his answer. Zip it.
So irritating!
He does that to everybody he interviews.It's so rude.
Trevor Noah is so attractive in everyway
Trevor is right.
Im sure i would be too if i was on tv with a hit show making millions of dollars.. but im not so taking Ls is all i know....
he kind cute 😅
he is
He's smart, has a good sense of humor and he keeps his cool. He's got the whole Obama thing going on.
I kept it real and straight up with some guy, to test if I could scare him off .... 3 years in he is now my fiancé. How????
Being authentic and not playing any games makes the relationship smoother, lol.
Sarah Adoga because you got a real one sis 🥰
Congratulations!
You are one rare lucky person!!
That's when you know it's real love.....honesty is always the best way to go 😊
Sarah Adoga bc even what you thought was bad was ok with him bc he accepted you for who you truly was👏🏾
His relationship ideas sound like something from back in the days. My grandparents did live in the same house but at one time they had separate beds and then it went to separate rooms. I never doubted his love for her. My grandma died recently and my grandfather is all torn up about it. He really did love her and she wasn't an easy person to love.
lolitaluv s My paternal grandparents lived together when raising all 7 of their children and put a strain on their relationship because they were both working parents who needed their own individual space. After all their kids moved out and they moved to the US, they both lived in their own places and to this day you can’t find a happier couple. My maternal grandparents lived in the same house but had separate rooms and were married for 60+ years until my grandfather passed away earlier this year.
1 in 4 couples sleep in separate beds. That's pretty common. Both of my grandparents slept in separate rooms as far back as I can possibly remember. No cohabitation, having to ask to enter each other's spaces, no shared finances.. that's different. being able to fully have space between you when you need it. That shit is priceless.
I think it makes sense, especially if people start to age and snore for example. You're better rested and don't get tired of each other after the initial effatuation is gone.
Also I hear more privacy, like not watching each other dress, can keep the attraction up for longer.
My parents have been sleeping in separate bedrooms since I can remember. 3 children and 37 years of marriage. They are happy as any other couple, fights like any other couple and cares for each other like any other couple. Cohabiting is not for everyone. They are living together separately.
Thanks for sharing. Not living together isn’t not love
“Men want to be alone, but we don’t wanna be by ourselves”. Patrice O’neal
Men don't want to be alone.
Jethro Tool I’ve been saying this for years. That I want my husband to have a house, I have a house. When we want to be alone we can and when we want to be together we can. People looked at me like I was crazy.
Damn, I might be a man, this sounds accurate
Right
@@Epic4Evr1990 men talk like this because it's a game. You talk like that they wonder if you know its a game or naive.
It makes perfect sense for each person to have their own living space even if they are married . Trevor Noah is absolutely right. Marriage ridiculously deprives people from even having their bed to themselves !
Exactly. I believe in having your own room. You deserve your own space.
💯💯💯
You are right Trevor. Some men dont tell who they are. "be honest"
Quantum Supremacy ... Same for women. Both men and women sell used cars 😆
Yeah some men do that and many women nowadays literally conceal what they really look like..... with make up. That’s false advertising.
And that’s the scary part because not being into the same hobby’s/activities is the best case scenario, worst case is he acts like a nice guy, but then you get all invested/committed, sometimes even married with kids etc and he “turns” into to a guy not so nice...(or woman).
Quantum Supremacy some women too
On the whole, I have found men to be less honest, but somehow more authentic. Like yeah, there are the pros and cons about everyone, and there are dishonest actors, but it somehow seems to me like a lot of women don't lie, but are even more two-faced for doing so. That being said we're all a bit two-faced.
After living on my own for years now, I'm all for Trevor's plan. I prefer living alone but that doesn't mean I want to be alone.
@Mike Knight exactly.
So you think people are optional things that should be used for occasional company? You should hire an escort.
That’s what friends are for. I think some of us are just better people as friends, than as lovers/ in a romantic relationship. Something changes in the dynamic when people go from being friends, to being romantically attached: suddenly there are expectations that didn’t exist before, and those expectations can so easily lead to resentment, either because one or the other partner’s expectations are not being fulfilled, or one or the other partner feels forced into fulfilling expectations that are just plain wearing them down.
As pure friends, it’s so much easier to just enjoy the relationship for who the other person is: you give each other space, you’re there for each other whenever possible, but when it’s not possible, you don’t get all offended about it. You respect each other’s separate lives and recognize the fact that whenever either of you do anything for/with the other, it’s not some kind of expected duty, but a gift 💝
@@ASmith-jn7kf you are nobody to interfare somebody's thinking ...
Sounds scorpioish
2:05 "I'm a big advocate of not living together ever, even if you're married. I think one of the biggest reasons people get divorced and relationships break up is because of this co-habiting bullshit that we've come to believe is the way relationships are supposed to be..." Wow! 😲
Thanks for the transcription ! It wasn't any clear yo me what Trevor said because of the host's constant interrupting.
David Achegbulu truth,cohabitation is bull.. we end up being together for 5years have kids out of. Wedlock breakup,be bitter then have to heal and start over 😅
David Achegbulu is that Wow on a good note like you like the idea or you not feeling it
Amen
So if you have kids live apart?
People make having a significant other a necessity.
5D I agree with you, it’s not.
But... if you do decide to get married, share a home. If you don’t want to, don’t get married.
Good thing that you're an out of the box thinker who can do what he wants ☺
Exactly. And they believe if you don't have a partner that there's something wrong with you. That's the narrative these days. No one wants to be alone. And the people that do are stigmatized.
It aint a necessity but its pretty fucking great when you meet the right person.
*amen*
I can only know where I’m in life now and that’s what I can enjoy. Every guy needs to learn this lesson
As long as you are not playing yourself.. Games get old..that dude is a career guy doing shows 24/7..unlike the regular guy who wants to do a little mess around after work.. You dont get to do shit like that when you have a great destiny you dont wanna ruin..
EVERYONE should adopt this message!
G H everybody
*every person
UGH! Guy speak. Only men say crap like that!! No woman on earth would utter such nonsense. IDK what you are talking about "Every guy needs to learn this lesson" THEY ALREADY KNOW THIS LESSON!
Howard Stern essentially interviews himself. He never lets a guest finish - it’s so annoying!
Being able to choose not to co-habitate with a partner is a privilege that many people can not afford.
That's what roommates are for.
Amanda Lantieri why? Some examples please
How were those 2 people living before meeting each other?
Amanda, If you are flexible and willing to do things like having housemates, it can be cheaper than living with a significant other.
Explain?
Some people can just relate...it's not for everyone.
oh its 100% for me. Introverts unite
SheAnatural B. That’s absolutely not what they were saying at all
SheAnatural B. You absolutely right!
@@otownsend7819 Yes! It's absolutely perfect for me!
And same, introvert here!
"I am the one who don't want to live with anybody."
I think a lot of people would agree with that!
I mean living together with your true love is precious.. But I guess what I'll say is don't be afraid to take time off from each other once in a while, even married people should have private life from one another even if it's small
I thought that I was the only person in the world who believes that living together is what ruins the marriage. Be married, but have your own house. Visit each other daily if you want, stay over for dinner, even spend the night...but have your own house...Unfortunately, I don't know many (or any) people who understand this.... it was a blessing to see this video, as everyone needs to feel validated at some point in their lives. I think money and insecurity and tradition are the main reasons why people feel like they HAVE to live together once married.
Together it's nice, but having your own space is too. At least one room.
you could also move to different countries, right?
ForYourInformation2 I wouldn’t say that ruins a marriage, both could cause a riff.
I agree! My husband and I don't live together. I know another couple who live on the same street, but not the same house.
Helena Boham Carter had her own house, Tim Burton had his own house and they still got divorced.
Wait was this an interview of Trevor Noah or a clip of Howard stern pretending to interview Trevor Noah so he could hear himself speak?
I love that he is living in the moment. Not all of us realize the beauty in that
I agree with him ,I've been with my husband for four years...we got married after year one but only started living together since we bought a house in the summer.
We both have our own rooms in the house, I have my studio, he has his gaming room, I have a reading nook off of the kitchen, he has the rec room for watching TV.
I love him with all my heart ,we are two very different people but we get along incredibly well ,therefore we live together separately, lol.
I'm very comfortable with our lifestyle, so is he...we've actually never even had an argument .
I see where Trevor is coming from but I feel like wanting the decision to not live with your partner depends on the person because I like constant physical intimacy because it gives me affirmation that the love is still there, and I love the idea of coming home and telling your SO about your day and then hearing about their day or making dinner together or what not
I really feel like it depends on the person, like I won’t judge a couple who choose to live separately just like I won’t judge a couple who do live together
Thank you.
You could do that and then go home to your seperate houses and sleep and so on
I can see this from Trevor's point of view. In the city, life is hectic. I'm sure he has 16+ hour days. You need to decompress and sleep. So scheduling sexy time would be more convenient. Also you could just have a large house. Each person has a suite.
True
What if they don't want to do that and they want alone time to destress =?
"This is not a place to leave a toothbrush, this is not a place to leave a contact lense case, this is a place to leave." ~Barney.......and now Trevor.
Barney from HIMYM?
HAHA🤣👏👏. Love that show and that episode. It's simple....some people are better off single. That's just how it is.
😂
Barney is hilarious
😂😂😂😂
"Next we say bienvenue to the bathroom. What, only one towel? What, no hairdryer? You know where I keep that stuff? Your place. Beat it."
I feel lm falling in love with Trevor more and more)) all he says and his work, his position in life as person, as public intellectual, as presenter...its all so resonates with me.
Trevor is very interesting human being. I can simply wish him all the best!
Cause he is amazing role model in many ways and i’d say Trevor distinguishes himself among famous media influencers! Common sense + intelligence + smart humour + fantastic storytelling + honesty and respect for audience
There are not so many ppl with such combination you know!
I have to say i am really happy to live with Trevor in the same time epoch !
You're so right ma'am. He reminds me so much of Mr Obama. Smart, good looking, honest, down to earth, and in touch.
Agree with all tat u said n I wanna marry him😁😬
Stay away he’s mine 😂😂😭💕
Of course, when was the last time women weren't in love with famous people and money? Oh wait, there was no such time.
Yes hes wonderful
I could have used this interview 30 years ago. Would have saved myself a whole lot of stress.
I don't know about not living under the same roof but even just having your own individual rooms or floors if your rich would be cool.
When Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton were married, they bought 2 townhouses next door to each other and had one each, but connected them.
I always thought it sounded like a great arrangement.
People always thought I was crazy for thinking this. You keep your identity, it's like you're dating, but you're welcome in each other's space whenever & and have a retreat when is necessary.
Bri Terry I know a lot of happily married older couples who do not sleep in the room every night and have their own bedrooms - they aren’t rich just have the extra space. And I know a couples who are flight attendants and have to do it for the sake of their scheduling. I’d be all for that to be honest. I like my own space. Sometimes you just want uninterrupted sleep and no it doesn’t have to sacrifice any intimacy or cuddling. Can always do that before sleep time. I want to buy a condo with a second room with my partner just for that reason. And when we have guests it’s the spare room. Heck most couples use their second bedroom for extra closet space anyway. I don’t see it being much different than have separate closets and washrooms. A bed is primarily for sleep - everything else is secondary. We’ve put too many rules, norms and stipulations on things that should have just been simple to start with.
Carol Burnett once said that she thinks all marriages would be successful if you bought a duplex instead of a house!🤣
Exactly. A lot of people live together cause it's financially better for them.
This man understands me
Amen to that
Nobody understands ur dumbass
My parents were together over 45 years. After the 1st 5 years or so, they didn't share the bedroom too often. Their home has an apartment upstairs and the last 30 years that was his space, mom had her space. Sometimes they would spend time in the same room visiting and such. Dad passed on... But I think because they had this personal space it lasted.
Just need a space big enough that it feels like we are not living together.... 🤣😂
Yasssssss
Translation castle right?
Ok
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🍾
Living with someone is first hand seeing a person in their habitat. I feel like rather than getting a place together and never seeing who that person is at the beginning, it’s good to take turns living in each other’s places. There’s honesty in that. You can’t really hide everything about you when it’s out on display, even if it’s for a short time. And then if you’re with the other person long term, you can cohabitate, but never give up your independence 👏🏻
I feel like trevor is just bombarded with question after question without the chance to fully answer at the beggining 😂. It was hilarious xD
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Is it just me tho?
Xyntria - Lexa i got really annoyed too at that
Xyntria - Lexa Shock Jose A.D.D.
@@JessieTG me to😟😟
Howard needs to count to 5 before question ing
Trevor so comfortable in his own skin, shine that light DW
😂his like us.....but better!!
Relativity what’s DW?
Sir Skillz Nivea is out of stock again 😫
Thats sounds like a great idea, if you don't have kids and you can afford it.
Yup, that's why you have to not have kids first.
real talk if everyone paid their own bills it’s affordable. The kids will adapt. Why train them to cohabitate anyway? We should be training them that people can be in love and not live together.
Exactly
and if you can afford it 👏
if you can afford to live alone BEFORE getting into a relationship, chances are you can afford to live alone AFTER that too.
Soo true!! Some people portray who they are differently in the beginning of a relationship, but be hated or loved for who you actually are, not this front! This one hits close to home!!
Totally agree. My husband and I get along best when we’re away from each other. We love each other so much when we’re in different spaces. No time to get on each other’s nerves 😂
This shows you two really don't get along. Or let me explain further. The truth of temptation is, if let say there is famine in your community or country, the real test of generosity comes to play when you are willing to share a piece of bread with someone when you haven't eaten for a week and knowing your next bread will come a week later. You knew all this but you willingly shared without compromise. You can only boast of being very compatible with your partner after you have experienced all the conditions of life and have braved through it. Until then you cannot say what you're saying because you barely see each other to want to sacrificially share that miserable piece if bread in the mist of all storms.
"You can seduce without being dishonest about yourself" ooooh I LOVE THAT! YES YES YES!
What a fantastic human being. I don't have many people I look up to in this world, but ever since I was a young teenager, Trevor has been one of them.
This hits different... I'm glad someone else thinks like this lol
When I tell my friends I think weddings, rings and bachelor/rette parties and changing surnames are ridiculous they think I'm weird. I don't want to live with a partner or at the very least I want a separate room. This 24/7 sharing of a room suffocates me. Oh well. Each to their own.
Bachelor parties are an excuse to travel and get fucked up. I don't see what's wrong with that
@Sterling Fortes You are not the only one🤗
Say no more
Totally agree!
Preach
Hmmm.. I feel like when you find "the one" , you will want to be WITH them. Not far away.
Right. I think if he wasn't handsome alot more of these comments would be negative or not so complimentary. He sounds like f***boi with the "im not opposed to marriage" & "cohabitation bulls**t" (which may be honest but more honest might be that you're not interested in marriage but the semantics gives a girl just enough rope to hang onto false hope).
That's true. He hasn't found a right woman yet
"The One" is how you convince yourself and eventually get accustomed to that belief.
You can move next door, down the street on a couple of floors above them. Make it work.
He's pointing out that intimacy gets harder to maintain when the mystery is gone. Easier between two people who can stand on their own and be who they are. He's wise way beyond his years.
When you get old, you need someone living with you. I genuinely believe as we get older, if you don't have someone living with you, talking, laughing with you, you kinda dwindle down because as we get older, friends or "time to go hangout" goes down.
Top ten interview of the year! Dope to hear two people talk with different point of views on life
Trevors a rolemodel
Why people are so interested about other people's relationships? Who cares if someone is single or married? What's the appeal?
That's not true for everybody but I deel you man, privacy and time alone is so important
He said not everybody meaning some people can and others can't.
I feel like that statement doesn't even need to be said because its obviously true. The other side(what Trevor's saying) is what a lot of people seen to have a hard time wrapping their head around because it goes against popular culture.
Agreed. At the sametime isn't being single just way better?
@@emmabunch-benson7922 I agree. My husband has his man-cave and studio. I hv my craft room and guestroom, if we need alone time. But, not living together when you're married is absurb. When you're married you're one, but the key is not to lose your individuality and your true self.
I hate it when a person tries to change u, I love sleeping n watch movies or read a book in bed.
They also say that they love you for who you are while judging internally and trying to change you.
but dont be offline all day. if u my girl, come online on whatsapp or wateva social network we use to communite, and and check how my day going, check how im doing. I cant have u go offline all day, everyday,, only because u like sleeping
not tryna change u,, its a relationship, u gotta compromise.
Well u shouldnt do anything other then cook clean and give head.
Howard: "What's gonna happen with you, I wonder?"
Trevor: "I don't know. And that's why it's beautiful."
Note: Please let the man finish what he's gonna say. Otherwise what's the point of inviting him in the first place?
Trust me, you never truly know a person till you live with them!
Nope untill u fight them.
Exactly. I agree with Howard. Live together before getting married
Your absolutely right. Simple if u don't want to live with u r partner do not married.
That's not true. You can live with someone and still not know them, as I'm sure your parents didn't know you all the way despite your living with them. It isn't distance or location that lets you get to know someone in the most intimate of ways, it is the honesty of transparency of the person that allows this.
Why are some people so obsessed with other people's personal lives and choices. If I was Trevor in that seat, my answer would be, none of your business!
That part!
audrance Idk only time it’s acceptable s if a crime is involved.
Main stream and traditional culture is a cult always looking to recruit.
Yes transparency, honesty kindness compassion hard to find a gentleman with real qualities, I love him already lol
I love Howard and Trevor both, but I hate how he cuts Trevor's sentences before he's finished. Trevor is such an intelligent beautiful human person 💚
Omg he thinks like me. I can’t imagine living with someone else. I’m not giving up my owl blanket for love 😂
Genie X try being a guy. You lose all your hoodies and scarfs.
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 really
@@Evil_pinata I'm still salty about the hoodie I never got back 😂
Its ironical that he is living together with Minka Kelly.
Never knew that! Wow, so he’s dating Minka Kelly?!
We're married now so see you on Tuesdays and Fridays! Lol
@ WolfWould Hahaha! 😂 That was a good one.
Wats wrong with that, people have their own understanding of love so what's the point?
😂😂😂
Ah 😂 i get it now
WolfWould 😂😂😂 dont take it seriously bro
Im so proud being a South African when I hear this guy speak out.
This reminds me of whoopi goldberg when she said she dont want to be married cuz she dont want someone in her house 😂😂😂
My girlfriends head would explod if she were to hear this.
I’m going to send it to her now.
What happened
GAPOWERade 🤣🤣😂🤣... did her head explode 🤔
🤣🤣🤣🤣..petty. lol
Lol that's mean >
GAPOWERade lol
I dont agree with his politics but this the most realist shit I've ever heard
I think it a matter of an opportunity and money
A lot of people say they don't like his politics, but people are really mistaken. Trevor rarely speaks his personal politics. He is the host of the Daily Show and follows the script. He does a ton of liberal media but he just gives opinions on the topics asked about in an objective manner. He speaks about American politics as an outsider from another country observing the trends. He rarely speaks about personal politics. A couple weeks ago he had Rand Paul on the Daily Show and you can see him give Rand a fair shake and was really just objectively debating the issue and not saying his personal views. It appears people just assume his politics because he is the host of the Daily Show.
If you just RUclips search, sometimes you see conservative comment creators review things Trevor says because his ideologies have universal popularity. I saw a conservative RUclipsr appreciating Noah's comments about cancel culture. People like his philosophies. I'm not sure we ever really hear his politics.
Robert E all respect, what dont you agree with? Serious question.
Robert E what politics don’t you agree with
You can just say "This us the most realist shit I ever heard" and not have to make it about politics.
Trevor being honest is very rare from successful people like him
Finally, someone speaks my mind,I always thought I was weird but not anymore
you are weird. but its okay
If more ppl were honest we wouldn’t have such a high divorce rate, a bunch of kids without both parents, and so many diseases.
mrsbrownsugarsweetz actually if ppl stopped “hooking up” and being irresponsible and living together before marriage we wouldn’t have such a high divorce rate......and a bunch of kids missing a parent in the home (usually the father) or having no parents at all....
Diseases such as?
ARMY#101 BTS4LIF hooking up is not the source of divorce. People have been hooking up since the beginning of time. Women are now more financially independent and have the ability and means to leave relationships that aren’t fulfilling. People stayed together bc it was financially necessary.
If a woman has no education and isn’t allowed to work, how can she leave her husband? She has nowhere to go.
Now everyone can more or less support themselves. No reason to stay married if your spouse cheats or hits you or if you simply don’t love them anymore. There is no gain.
My cousin and her husband had 3 kids together and kept 2 residences. In two cities 30 miles apart. It worked for them until he passed away they were together for over 25 years.
Kurt Cobain once said, I'd rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I'm not!
isn't that the dude who killed himself?
You just become who u REALLY are.
You become God?
"Y'knowa mean" English accents...
Vikkor Heel, well said.
No dumbass u are who u are. U become whatever.
"You didn't change, you just became who you are." That's true words right there. Nobody changes. But everybody lies. That's why they always tell you that they're adventurous before relationships and then couple months later, boom, you see the real person.
Where do you meet women?
Trevor :Everywhere. 😂
"I don't really wanna do vows. I just wanna do concerns."
-Natasha Leggero
That's the definition of being independent to me. Trevor Noah shares certain things based on his personal experience and how he perceives the world around him. I fully understand where he is coming from, observing in a distance on what his mother went through rough times in relationships with men and other people too including Trevor. Trevor chose a different path which works for him even if that led him to leave behind his fellow mates and the country. I'm with you on this one Trevor Noah. We don't have to live by the book because we are free beings. As of Howard Stern this didn't just feel like an interview to me, it was just like a genuine conversation. In a situation like this people have a choice to take what they want from it or leave it like it is that's what make us different from each other. We can't control everything!
When Howard screams "Me!" I lost it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mike Wyatt 🤣
I’m with him on the not living together thing. It’s way better not to.
Camilla Koutsos ideally each have a house with a beautiful
Big outdoor area in the middle
Seems like a hit or miss thing. It seems like it would depend on the couple. I can see living apart contributing towards keeping that spark but its also a good thing when you can live together with someone and be so accustomed to that feeling and so comfortable with that person you have the comfort you usually only get while alone but still have company.
I know right? Like test driving relationships is so romantic. Somehow for thousands of years Hans have managed to hook up and have decent marriages without shaking up, but all of a sudden.... Incidentally, I think I recently read that living together beforearriage is associated with higher rates of marriage failure.
But why get married if you are not living to gather? If you are not makeing a family then why get married in the first place?
And noah can afford 2+ houses. It doesn't make sense to have separate houses when most people get divorced over money.
“guys are trained to be salesman, we’re trying to seduce all the time”
m triggered and not in a good way
T Y I don’t think being triggered has ever been a good thing.
I love my bed, I’m always on RUclips, I haven’t bathed today(it’s 3pm here)
You're my person 👊
Lol
😂
Clan
Haha yassss. Hmu
I love you Howard and Robin! I’ve been listening since the 90s. I adoreeeee Trevor! He’s smart and fine! Hey now!
He's a lovely person
I remember telling my friends this and I was looked at sideways, co-habitation ruins everything in committed relationships and in marriage. DON'T DO IT KIDS
The problem with love life is people forcing there other half to do things like watching a tv series you shouldn’t force the other person to watch what you want the perfect way is you watch what you want and the other person watches what they want and then find a series you both wanna watch together that applies to everything there should be you time me time and our time
TREVOR: I'm an advocate for never living together for anybody, ever!!! Even if you're married..."
ME: Marry me Trevor😍😍😍😍😍
Tina's baby weirdo
You must live a lonely life
Dumbass comment go to sleep
Tina's baby Many years ago, I suggested to my husband that we live in separate parts of the house. He wasn’t willing to discuss... I was trying to explain what I needed. Got divorced instead🥴
As a South African I am so glad that this guy is our current global representative.
I feel like I had an entire long term relationship with Trevor just by watching this.
Jajajaja duude I had a weird vibe watching it, but in a good way, and I think this makes sense lol
Trevor is a guru
Real talk
What is Guru?
esquibelle ... You are so right. I wonder what he will be in sound like in another 40 years
That woman in the interview made me laugh, her vibes and laugh itself is contagious💕
Being honest is everything love you trevor
Shoutout to honesty💪