THE SAME THING THEY DO TO OTHERS THEY GO TROUGH AND EVEN WORST WHEN THE WRATH OF GOD HITS THEM HARD THEY CANT HIDE NOR ESCAPE THEY HAVE TO FACE THEMSELVES
When the Covert lost jobs because he was obviously incompetent and very pretenscious. He lied to himself and to me and said he was so popular that he did not need to look for a job, that people would call him. No one called him at all.
My husband is like this, he is retired, sits in his chair all day, doing nothing , no life, no interests in anything, he has 2 spinal surgeries, mobility is a problem, and he can’t see his way out of it, his old ways of dealing with life are not working!
This just made me realize why sometimes I feel triggered, personally, when I hear about the falling of the mask and other typical narcissistic behaviour: because of all those years under HER training, under her control, heavily abused into doing/thinking/believing/saying/liking exactly how she wants me to, telling me to suck it up for the sake of reputation, appearances and (her very own) honour and proudness of me, reputation she’s «faught so hard to build and preserve» like disagreeing with my decision at 36 yo to divorce my abusive ex-husband, because «we don’t do that in our familily, we’re better than that».. sure, when she’s the only one here who had an affair with the married neighbor, while my dad was fighting a local crisis/civil war (only lasted for a couple to a few months, and he came home every couple days, totally exhausted from his round), because «she was missing too much attention and affection with my dad being away all the time». My dad being a light narcissic too not too malignant afaik, just the regular 1970’s « i’m a federal agent although I came from nothing » kind of guy, my mother was able to steer him off from divorce.. as far as I can recall, I don’t even remember seeing or hearing my dad being mad at her, almost like nothing had never happened by the next morning.... and oh boy did she cry after that one 😒
When my narc best friend lost all his money to whoring sex and alcohol and realized hed lost the plot as the business to went out of his hands he went into a depression and it was with rage... he dis not want to accept his situation...he turned ro religion and religious supremacy that it provides and turned him into a bigot...furthering other friends as well...he has nobody to control now running a yt channel getring his source from the virtual world....how sad.
Dangerous waters. Strong voice youve got there. But people kill themselves because they feel like a toxic burden on other people and their friends and family. I would be careful what forces you assist in working because some of those forces have strong consequences.
“When they don’t have anyone left to blame it on.” Yep… saw that one first hand.
Hearing this brings me happiness
THE SAME THING THEY DO TO OTHERS THEY GO TROUGH AND EVEN WORST WHEN THE WRATH OF GOD HITS THEM HARD THEY CANT HIDE NOR ESCAPE THEY HAVE TO FACE THEMSELVES
When the Covert lost jobs because he was obviously incompetent and very pretenscious. He lied to himself and to me and said he was so popular that he did not need to look for a job, that people would call him. No one called him at all.
My husband is like this, he is retired, sits in his chair all day, doing nothing , no life, no interests in anything, he has 2 spinal surgeries, mobility is a problem, and he can’t see his way out of it, his old ways of dealing with life are not working!
He sounds really depressed i think he needs to get some therapy thats just kinda sad
This just made me realize why sometimes I feel triggered, personally, when I hear about the falling of the mask and other typical narcissistic behaviour: because of all those years under HER training, under her control, heavily abused into doing/thinking/believing/saying/liking exactly how she wants me to, telling me to suck it up for the sake of reputation, appearances and (her very own) honour and proudness of me, reputation she’s «faught so hard to build and preserve» like disagreeing with my decision at 36 yo to divorce my abusive ex-husband, because «we don’t do that in our familily, we’re better than that».. sure, when she’s the only one here who had an affair with the married neighbor, while my dad was fighting a local crisis/civil war (only lasted for a couple to a few months, and he came home every couple days, totally exhausted from his round), because «she was missing too much attention and affection with my dad being away all the time». My dad being a light narcissic too not too malignant afaik, just the regular 1970’s « i’m a federal agent although I came from nothing » kind of guy, my mother was able to steer him off from divorce.. as far as I can recall, I don’t even remember seeing or hearing my dad being mad at her, almost like nothing had never happened by the next morning.... and oh boy did she cry after that one 😒
I hope I can just laugh at them when this happen..
My goodness, you know them well. This is so true.
Too bad for them.
Great videos. Thankyou for your vids you. make and post. This is my neighbour.
BRILLIANT
Yup sad but true.
I feel iam worried and sad now
When my narc best friend lost all his money to whoring sex and alcohol and realized hed lost the plot as the business to went out of his hands he went into a depression and it was with rage... he dis not want to accept his situation...he turned ro religion and religious supremacy that it provides and turned him into a bigot...furthering other friends as well...he has nobody to control now running a yt channel getring his source from the virtual world....how sad.
Do they get depressed when when they get no contact from someone who use to love them and use to keep taking them back, and don't now?
What about do you become anxious and depressed because you’re married and trauma bonded to a narcissist?
Dangerous waters. Strong voice youve got there. But people kill themselves because they feel like a toxic burden on other people and their friends and family. I would be careful what forces you assist in working because some of those forces have strong consequences.
What to do in that case
I see
Thanks!