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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Emily is finding it a little hard to celebrate Valentine's with Shekeb's mum Laila along for the ride. Poor Shekeb is left hanging by a thread - quite literally.
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  • @thedaynexttosaturday
    @thedaynexttosaturday 3 года назад +1402

    NEVER in a million years would I let my mom speak to my girlfriend that way.

  • @bitturuyal6850
    @bitturuyal6850 3 года назад +1886

    "i want him so badly to be with me" lady he's your god damn son 🤢

    • @mrosita8155
      @mrosita8155 3 года назад +70

      Right, that scared me 🤮🤢

    • @dioyonelubnadube6984
      @dioyonelubnadube6984 3 года назад +15

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @lslover5143
      @lslover5143 3 года назад +40

      She has a language barrier ffs. Not everything is going to come out with full clarity. Obviously she meant spending time with him. Some due dilligence please.

    • @foniluvfuka
      @foniluvfuka 3 года назад +25

      It's the same feeling I had when she asked him who does he love more,Emily or her🤢🤮🤮..
      Been watching from ths beginning and seems like she's obsessed with her own son🤮🤮

    • @qtnayeli3013
      @qtnayeli3013 3 года назад +7

      right omfg weirdooo🤮🤮🤮

  • @pinneapple_7567
    @pinneapple_7567 3 года назад +567

    This mom feels like she is in a competition with the son’s girlfriend.🤦🏽‍♂️, she needs therapy😭

    • @hadbetterdays8118
      @hadbetterdays8118 3 года назад +2

      And a man cause she needs someone not her son in that way a

    • @RahafMjfamgirl
      @RahafMjfamgirl Месяц назад

      Someone better get her therapy because she needs it and I was shocked when she said who do you who love the most

  • @hotcupnoodle2281
    @hotcupnoodle2281 3 года назад +640

    I have a feeling he’s lost so many relationships because of his mom and his inability to be firm.

    • @ginabindari5184
      @ginabindari5184 3 года назад +41

      He is a divorced man... I believe his wife left him b/c of the mom.

    • @isabel91059
      @isabel91059 3 года назад +5

      Duh!! You think!

    • @gailwebb9619
      @gailwebb9619 3 года назад +20

      Agree. He is weak. Emily should have dumped him and not taken him back.

  • @anng3318
    @anng3318 3 года назад +766

    "i want him to be with me" "who do you love the most? Emily or me?" lady you sound like you want your son as a hubby or something. I hate how horrible she treats the girlfriend

    • @Change2be1
      @Change2be1 3 года назад +17

      she is so needy and mean .

    • @Brookehhxd
      @Brookehhxd 3 года назад +21

      Definitely emotional incest

    • @kimschultz9450
      @kimschultz9450 3 года назад +10

      His mother is exactly like my ex mil. She would interfere in every aspect of his life. It became so bad we separated and would get back together. She would have a fit and reach out to his relatives trying to separate us again and he couldn’t handle the pressure she would put on him. He would leave again until I finally said I’m done. I had to go as far as blocking him. A few months later the police show up at my home to give me the news my husband committed suicide. My mother-in-law then had the audacity to tell the police that she was his next of kin and lied to the police officer. I never understood why she had to have him under her thumb and be her puppet. I always thought every parent should want their children happy and not miserable.

    • @kts7113
      @kts7113 3 года назад +2

      She probably hasn’t gotten any in years!!

    • @attorneyreid7
      @attorneyreid7 2 года назад +2

      @@kimschultz9450 wow, that's sad. I hope his mother bear the guilt of his suicide. Seems she never wanted him to be happy. These women are sick in the head

  • @pinneapple_7567
    @pinneapple_7567 3 года назад +573

    i need this girl’s patience😂

    • @provrr
      @provrr 3 года назад +8

      I wouldn't be able to deal.

    • @j7839
      @j7839 3 года назад +5

      i’m dating a former mamas boy and trust me we literally almost broke up twice because of her lol

    • @willowray7937
      @willowray7937 2 года назад +2

      I'm dating a fathers boy for 5 years its terrible

    • @Urdutubekids
      @Urdutubekids 2 года назад +1

      The reason it didn’t work is because of her lack of patience… I married a mamas boy and made him mine in 9 months… women think that they are entitled to a man because of being romantically involved but a woman who gave birth to him feels like she has more of a right. You have to beat that psychology… and most women have too much of an ego to beat it 🤷🏻‍♀️ but tbh he needs to walk away from both of them!

    • @amralsun5958
      @amralsun5958 2 года назад

      Mom is disgusting. Yuckkk 🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @tttttty4622
    @tttttty4622 3 года назад +160

    This was my life for 4 years i married a man that had a mom that was obsessed with him, lived in our house, and tried everything to ruin our marriage (she would literally get jealous whenever we spent time together), finally i gave him an ultimatium and said either we move out or she moves out….he told me his mom wouldn’t go anywhere and that i could leave. So i packed my bags and never looked back. We divorced and it was the best decision i ever made in my life

  • @BrookieHorror
    @BrookieHorror 3 года назад +291

    The way he lets his mother talk to her like that is disgusting. He never defends Emily. If I were her, I would have been gone long ago.

  • @rosaporter1294
    @rosaporter1294 3 года назад +529

    This is a weird relationship the mother needs to get a life she’s acting like if her son is more than a son to her

    • @bbkailau
      @bbkailau 3 года назад +13

      It is common in a family that the role of "father" is missing or the father is not a good father. I really hate this kind of mom.

    • @leeeyannn
      @leeeyannn 3 года назад +5

      @@bbkailau the father here is super passive and quiet!

  • @cassianaya-bishop9309
    @cassianaya-bishop9309 3 года назад +196

    Emily deserves an award for her composure.

  • @BryannahMartin808
    @BryannahMartin808 3 года назад +422

    This lady gives off some serious incest vibes 🤢 her obsession with her son and the anger towards her sons girlfriend is really disturbing. Shekeb will always be her son and he will always love his mom but the love you have for your mom & girlfriend is two different types of love. Shekeb if you love Emily like you say….take your girlfriend and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE FROM THIS WOMAN AS YOU CAN 💯

    • @sayedansari8882
      @sayedansari8882 3 года назад +2

      This actually normal in afghan family lol if she was a afghan girl she would it got beat up and killed . That happens often in Afghanistan

    • @remy8486
      @remy8486 3 года назад +1

      @@sayedansari8882 oh sheesh

    • @aditibisht22
      @aditibisht22 3 года назад +5

      @@sayedansari8882 yeah.. I was called a bitch and selfish for calling my mama's boy of a bf out for their incestuous relationship

    • @gabyisabel5355
      @gabyisabel5355 3 года назад +1

      @@sayedansari8882 that’s barbaric.

    • @saeedasg8717
      @saeedasg8717 3 года назад

      I agree

  • @princezgeekchic3690
    @princezgeekchic3690 3 года назад +575

    Although it's unlikely I'm still hoping Emily leaves him. She could definitely do so much better in every way

    • @alex_00g44
      @alex_00g44 3 года назад +11

      I thought she already left him 😭😭

    • @jenniwalker9180
      @jenniwalker9180 3 года назад +4

      @@alex_00g44 they broke up and got back together.

    • @jasminesanchez4890
      @jasminesanchez4890 3 года назад +2

      @@jenniwalker9180 do u know their social media’s?

    • @jenniwalker9180
      @jenniwalker9180 3 года назад +1

      @@jasminesanchez4890 no sorry

    • @christopherkeroro723
      @christopherkeroro723 3 года назад

      @@jenniwalker9180 what please say ur joking please

  • @Iv723an
    @Iv723an 3 года назад +206

    “ who do you love most Emily or me “ smh she has formulated a terrible connection to her son in her sick mind 🤢

  • @Lollypop2029
    @Lollypop2029 3 года назад +135

    His mother is freaking me out so bad rn. 😬😬

  • @bbkailau
    @bbkailau 3 года назад +486

    My bf should join this show lol

  • @ferz2014
    @ferz2014 3 года назад +124

    Witnessing this just increased my stress levels. Imagine living everyday like this, as Emily.

  • @wartanabadanooh7157
    @wartanabadanooh7157 3 года назад +119

    The mother seems to be using emotional blackmail against her son but he needs to be firmer with her if he wants his relationship to last. A person can only take so many punches

    • @starrysoup
      @starrysoup 2 года назад

      Isn't the mom like dying from an illness tho??? Cause that would make sense why she's acting like this.....idk can someone confirm this ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯

  • @BobaChaCha
    @BobaChaCha 3 года назад +102

    Run Emily Run!

  • @gardenofeden123
    @gardenofeden123 3 года назад +77

    Why would you be angry that your son is in love? Surely that’s something you should want for your child. She needs to go to therapy ASAP

  • @ss-wu1vp
    @ss-wu1vp 3 года назад +80

    You don't love a parent the same way you love your partner. This mother is sick. Ewww.

  • @sulvanaalbeladi3913
    @sulvanaalbeladi3913 3 года назад +85

    His mom wouldn’t love any girl no matter how perfect she was or could be for her son. She has an unhealthy attachment to her son. I think she’s scared to lose him, and is making any excuse to hate Emily. His mom needs therapy because there’s issues there that go deeper than what she is presenting on the surface. I am a mother myself and as sad as I am about letting my child go, I know that I must and I would never interfere and get in the way of them being happy.

    • @KP-vg3zn
      @KP-vg3zn 3 года назад +5

      She doesn't like Emily because she's not Afghan. The mother wants him to marry a Afghani woman. He's already been married to a Afghani woman that his mother picked out. In another episode the mom actually ambushed her son with a blind date with a Afghani woman in front of his girlfriend. 😣

    • @attorneyreid7
      @attorneyreid7 2 года назад +2

      @@KP-vg3zn so he already married an Afghan woman the mother chose and it didn't work out. Seems like the mother doesn't know what's good for the son. She's manipulative, controlling, selfish and wicked because every child need to leave the nest and make a lile for themselves

  • @mzervin3430
    @mzervin3430 3 года назад +65

    Shekeeb’s mom is OFF the hook! She’s crossing the boundaries of mother and son. He is your son not your man! You need to get someone who will take you out for Valentine’s Day and sleep with you! It’s not who do you love the most, it’s two different relationships crazy woman!!!
    Emily, if Shekeeb can’t stand up to his mom then you need to decide if this relationship is for you. His mom is ridiculous. She crosses boundaries and it’s freaking weird. And why can’t Shekeeb have a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship with Emily and have a mother/son relationship with looney Laila. She needs counseling she’s getting her role in her son’s life twisted.

  • @DG-zv4bl
    @DG-zv4bl 3 года назад +85

    If these women want grandchildren someday, they better let their sons be with their girlfriends. Because guess what, it takes two unrelated people to make a healthy baby. Your son needs his woman to give you the grandbaby that you will love.

    • @dankinder5139
      @dankinder5139 3 года назад +7

      I would have ran. That mom is crazy

  • @stormy3898
    @stormy3898 3 года назад +46

    My moms like this, when she tries to sound depressed upset with puppy dog eyes it used to hurt me so much to ignore her. Then one day I thought bitch wtf, you have a whole ass husband to confide in. It's only funny now.

    • @djjones7039
      @djjones7039 3 года назад +6

      Haha thank God you can stand up to her now& know she's only doing that to try making you feel guilty

  • @nathieslifestyle
    @nathieslifestyle 2 года назад +17

    I think this particular episode tells everything. The Mother loves her son in an insectious manner. She won't even bear to see him sleep with another girl. It's disgusting that some women do this to their son

  • @gailwebb9619
    @gailwebb9619 3 года назад +36

    He is too attached to his mother.....and it shows. Emily should dump him and let him live his life with his mother.....

  • @katlynhelems506
    @katlynhelems506 3 года назад +30

    the reason she is demanding and tells him what to do as a grown adult man is because he obeys every little thing she says and allows her to walk all over him and run his life

  • @kokiekokie7608
    @kokiekokie7608 3 года назад +50

    Is this for real?are they for real? They are so proud to show the world this?

  • @samsnothavingit2788
    @samsnothavingit2788 3 года назад +14

    He’s a grown man asking his mother for permission to have dinner with his girlfriend and his mom says “no” and he’s like aw man okay guess we can’t go bc my mommy said so, also they’ve been together for two years and he’s just now saying he loves her to HIS MOM not even to her omfg

  • @tam2046
    @tam2046 3 года назад +51

    This woman is as crazy as it gets.

  • @TheJuiceor
    @TheJuiceor 3 года назад +40

    Ewww,the mother needs to get a life

  • @jhessicariodades3209
    @jhessicariodades3209 3 года назад +67

    I want him so badly to be with me…. Sick.

  • @Skrappy202
    @Skrappy202 3 года назад +125

    The mom is weird as hell but she's clearly old school and probably wanted her son to marry someone from the same back grounds. The comment on the way she dressed and what type of girl she thinks she is pretty much summed it up for me.
    Just an opinion.

    • @kennedyhaack7971
      @kennedyhaack7971 3 года назад +46

      still has no justification for this behavior. this is emotional incest

    • @novemberlove2438
      @novemberlove2438 3 года назад +13

      You are correct on that she wants that, but he already married and divorced a woman she had chosen for him

    • @Skrappy202
      @Skrappy202 3 года назад +4

      @@kennedyhaack7971 absolutely, But it's her only child. Again not trying to justify her actions but that's the vibe I get from her. Very controlling

    • @Skrappy202
      @Skrappy202 3 года назад +2

      @@novemberlove2438 going to assume that's another reason why she hates his current girlfriend.

  • @JapnitSethi
    @JapnitSethi 3 года назад +55

    Nothing wrong with being termed as a "Mama's Boy" for taking care & respecting your mom's opinion! But this is extreme!!!

  • @Abby-04
    @Abby-04 3 года назад +14

    The mom at the end of this video is a narcissist. Her behavior will not get better after marriage and the fact that the son is not protecting his girlfriend is also strange. Almost seems like he low key enjoys this. He may be a narcissist too. RUN.

  • @Riaashy
    @Riaashy 3 года назад +16

    This mom is too much, those eyes he get when he talk about Emily. MOM IS TO CONTROLLING

  • @breannaworthen7994
    @breannaworthen7994 2 года назад +4

    Wish I were as calm as Emily, she must really love him a lot to put up with that.

  • @viosh7137
    @viosh7137 3 года назад +6

    Significant mother

  • @Meelany261095
    @Meelany261095 2 года назад +7

    This was me and my mum when I turned 20 I left. She'd be obsessed with me not wanting me to leave and using emotional manipulation throughout all my life. If I fail in something it may hurt her that's what she used to say. It took me years to finally break free and after some anxiety attacks and ER visits I now can say I don't give up shiiii about her and I'm happily married with a man who also left his toxic family behind.

  • @jennyrussall5041
    @jennyrussall5041 2 года назад +2

    I think they love the circle they are in.

  • @ronisprincess
    @ronisprincess 3 года назад +17

    This isnt healthy. These mothers all need therapy. Being this protective isn't fkn normal.

  • @kts7113
    @kts7113 3 года назад +2

    Emily run, run, run and never look back!! He will never ever put you first ever!!! If he can’t take your side ever then he never will!!

  • @swalls1322
    @swalls1322 2 года назад +2

    “Be with me”…. That just says it all

  • @Stina6266
    @Stina6266 3 года назад +2

    I would have given up a long time ago trying to get her respect and approval. If she doesn’t give it then she doesn’t deserve it. Girl give her back the same attitude as she does to you. Shakeb needs to grow some balls and stand up for you and himself! This mother is beyond crazy!!

  • @walkerwalker4114
    @walkerwalker4114 3 года назад +1

    Family always come first mom always going to be number one

  • @michellethompson1979
    @michellethompson1979 3 года назад +12

    Oh my word , I cannot believe how selfish this mother is being , he found love , leave him be & support them , i as a mother to a a adult son would never do that to him 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @nochettally3316
    @nochettally3316 3 года назад +18

    Eww, even if I loved my bf with all my heart, if I found out he’s a typical mamas boy like this giant man baby over here, I’m breaking up with him before he can say ‘’mama’. Good riddance. 🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @sylviapensahantagas9500
    @sylviapensahantagas9500 3 года назад +1

    Mum if you loved your son gave his happiness dont be selfish....

  • @princesskastep438
    @princesskastep438 3 года назад +7

    Controlling parents are so annoying

  • @alicecheng9424
    @alicecheng9424 3 года назад +46

    She can’t handle sharing his baby with another girl. She has to be the most important and most loved. She always has to make it a competition. Honestly if my mom were like this I would just murder people. Sorry to be blunt. But How can someone be that controlling and disgusting? She doesn’t think about the well-being of his son!! She just thinks about hers !!!! Putting her son into such difficult difficult situations. This is called love? Wtf? Omfg I feel so angry watching all these ridiculous and disrespectful moms

  • @phunnylaughalot
    @phunnylaughalot 3 года назад +9

    Must be nice to have two people fighting over you.

  • @missychase3014
    @missychase3014 2 года назад +4

    Emily is beautiful! She can get whoever she wants. Don’t waste your time with this woman or man that doesn’t stand up for you. It’s ridiculous.

  • @minyoongiegenuisjjangjjang7959
    @minyoongiegenuisjjangjjang7959 3 года назад +9

    This is emotional incest. The mother probably shaped him into the man she wishes her partner could be and turned her son into her dream man. That means that any woman regardless of dating or just friends, she will see as competition.

  • @sailboatrn7372
    @sailboatrn7372 3 года назад +7

    This Mom needs intensive therapy. “I want him so bad to be with me” then, oops, to have a good time 🤢 they either are paying them a heap load of money or get out of there, No man is worth this bullying and harassment.

  • @karinaalcantar-q1c
    @karinaalcantar-q1c 9 дней назад

    The way he’s dangling at the end 😂

  • @comedinewithchillinic3962
    @comedinewithchillinic3962 2 года назад +1

    I would never ever put up with this situation...no way!

  • @biscuitcrumbs943
    @biscuitcrumbs943 2 года назад +2

    The mom is obviously so jealous of Emily, she’s so pretty and the mom is so mean

  • @tiararawr
    @tiararawr 3 года назад +12

    That was the quietest “THE FEELINGS MUTUAL” ever. I hope Emily marries him and has kids and that the mom feels abandoned.

  • @thephilippinesforus
    @thephilippinesforus 3 года назад +3

    A mother to ask.. "who do you love the most?" needs intensive therapy.

  • @blossomxboo
    @blossomxboo 3 года назад +3

    " I don't like the way you came in public.. You show your body.." WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS LADY😂😂😭😭

  • @stephsays-503
    @stephsays-503 2 года назад +3

    She's using her son as a substitute husband and that's not only sad but sickening. 🥴🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Tuffy_uk
    @Tuffy_uk 3 года назад +10

    Does she wanna merry her son?🤮

  • @ningduanguangliur.panmei9317
    @ningduanguangliur.panmei9317 3 года назад +4

    Toxic...
    I would have run away from her long long ago if I am related that mother 😀.
    Girl just ruunnnnn.. because that guy is spineless.

  • @mrosita8155
    @mrosita8155 3 года назад +2

    He is an enabler and just as guilty!

  • @cotton-fly
    @cotton-fly 2 года назад +2

    Why doesn’t he stand up for his girlfriend and just walk out if the mom won’t respect his relationship?

  • @naejones4998
    @naejones4998 3 года назад +12

    I personally don’t feel like he values his relationship with Emily! She deserves a man who will set boundaries with his mother. His mom have no actual purpose of why she don’t like Emily and it’s so bothering bc he likes that tension btw them too! He’s not a real man he is still a boy! A real man set those boundaries and put his woman first especially if marriage is in the picture a boy will allow anything to come between anything good bc they like the fact that someone is fighting over him. It’s sad and I know Emily wants to be with him but isn’t she too not torn of leaving or stay. I feel for her. Bc her moms wants her to marry a Korean but yet she stills respect and accept that her daughter wants to marry a different culture. SMH

  • @margaretsanderson5151
    @margaretsanderson5151 3 года назад +13

    He is your son....not your fekn life partner !!!!

  • @abirmef9510
    @abirmef9510 3 года назад +6

    This is unbeleivable !

  • @itsmeisaaa.22
    @itsmeisaaa.22 3 года назад +5

    Emily it’s not too late to run! Go on a second date, find a real man that will choose you for you ❤️ poor sis you can tell she feels so miserable 😔 🥺🤧

  • @QueenR_974
    @QueenR_974 3 года назад +5

    These two are the Asian version of Debbie and Colt

    • @nisha7158
      @nisha7158 3 года назад +2

      No this woman is worst than Debbie, she is controlling and manipulative, a mother should not behave like this,.

  • @dianelisgonzalez5270
    @dianelisgonzalez5270 2 года назад +1

    First time watching this show. IM SOOO GLAD MY MOTHER IN LAW IS FAR SO AWAYYYY lord poor girl how did she deal with this crazy woman 😔

  • @sanchitasubedi3684
    @sanchitasubedi3684 3 года назад +1

    I married a mama's boy and ruined my life worst decision ever. Please think 1000 times before choosing a life partner

  • @mawri9900
    @mawri9900 3 года назад +5

    as a mom, i would just want my son to be with a good person. The mom is so weird and mean.

  • @idcwyt4731
    @idcwyt4731 2 года назад +2

    I mean.. I can’t date with someone who can’t have their own privacy from not just parents but anyone..

  • @sarahsulaiman7431
    @sarahsulaiman7431 2 года назад +6

    I feel like Emily is a great girl she seems outgoing and friendly I feel bad for her because she is trying her best to please his mother but his mom is just so stubborn and he just listen to his mother and doesn’t make his own decisions the mom is so controlling I get that she want him to marry there own ethnicity but I think she should give Emily a fair chance because you don’t know if something is going to be good/bad if you don’t give it a chance also I hope Emily and the mom will work things out and come to love each other and bond together 👍🏻

  • @its.kay.rose.
    @its.kay.rose. 3 года назад +4

    She’s actually being controlling like how can you tell your adult son that he can’t be alone with his girlfriend. Just jealousy at its finest smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sheakitty9176
      @sheakitty9176 3 года назад +1

      It very True. They need Some Space without his mom.

  • @sammar77
    @sammar77 2 года назад +2

    "Be with me" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @comfortchomper
    @comfortchomper 3 года назад +13

    Is this scripted? This is over the top ridiculous to be reality

    • @aditibisht22
      @aditibisht22 3 года назад +1

      All Indian men are like this and they take pride in being a mama's boy

  • @twinklestar5880
    @twinklestar5880 3 года назад

    It ain't worth it..run girl run!!

  • @synthiawilson941
    @synthiawilson941 2 года назад +1

    Respect,it’s ya son choice not mom,im not holding on to toxic/don’t care how much i care/love guy

  • @pyrophoresist1497
    @pyrophoresist1497 3 года назад +13

    Coming from a culture of arranged marriages, this is one of the glaring problems with being fixed to marry an incompatible or indifferent person.
    Lots of women like these sadly. Husband doesn't care/is indifferent/ doesn't show affection. The wife who has so much love & attention to give channels it to the nearest man she can get which is almost always her son & gets threatened by what she perceives as competitors. A tale as old as time.
    Keep an eye open if the guy is an only son or only child. In most cases you'll be fighting & competing with his mother.

    • @undaunted1065
      @undaunted1065 3 года назад +1

      I agree. But to an extent.
      Yes, cultures where arranged marriages are prevalent will have some, or many, women, that if their specific husbands are indifferent, they may throw all of their attention & affections toward their children, especially their sons.
      But Laila is disgusting & sick mentally in a way that seems beyond neglect from a husband from an arranged marriage. She comes across as a Queen Jezebel who even if she has had a doting husband who adores her to the point of not caring about his own needs being met, it still will not be enough for her.
      I do not know what her childhood trauma looks like. Whether she was overly indulged or overly neglected or a combination of the two. Or if she learned to behave in this deplorable manner from her own mother/father/grandparents/guardians,etc.---
      But wherever her level of mental & emotional unwellness stems from, that causes her to constantly feel a need to assert herself in a way that violates her son's autonomy, disrespect his significant other & comes across as beyond just emotional incest, she needs therapy.
      But unfortunately, people like her rarely get the help they need. They tend to be in denial that they are even the problem at all. Those they gradually destroy over time are the ones that tend to seek counseling/coaching to heal from the trauma, before they ever do.
      She comes across as an OVERT, Malignant Narcissist who has NPD.
      Laila is happiest when she feels like she is being worshipped, adored & obeyed by those she chooses to indulge her. Anything less than what she deems as optimal praise of her is met with child-like tantrums & emotional manipulation. Whether Shekeb marries Emily or not, he needs to cut the invisible umbilical chord & break free from the trauma bonding with Laila.
      Laila is too parasitic & will only bring more harm than good at this point. Whether he is single or not, he needs to break free from her for HIMSELF FIRST, before he can truly be in a healthy romantic relationship. Shekeb MUST learn to set boundaries with his selfish mother. And Emily may have to prepare to let go of him if he is unable to do this in a CONSISTENTLY. It will not be easy for Laila's toxic fangs & talons are deeply sunken into him. He may have to love his mother from afar & avoid her altogether.

    • @pyrophoresist1497
      @pyrophoresist1497 3 года назад +1

      @@undaunted1065 She definitely needs help.
      One sees the "mother in love with her son", "the meddlesome/controlling big sister" (how Tammy controls Asuelu & has her mother under her thumb) & "father who can't let go of his daughter"(this one is rare but present) tropes to some extent in South Asian communities

    • @happymaows
      @happymaows 3 года назад +1

      literally. ive seen this happen so many times to so many relatives :((

  • @kimschultz9450
    @kimschultz9450 3 года назад +2

    His mother is never going to let him make his own choices. She wants to choose who he dates and marry. When that happens she will find something wrong with the woman she chooses for him. His best bet is to elope with his girlfriend he loves, change his phone number, set boundaries with his mother and move as far as possible from his controlling, manipulating mother.

  • @d34nosaur
    @d34nosaur 3 года назад +1

    this is what happens when you allow your parent to treat you like this your entire life lol

  • @valerielayang
    @valerielayang 3 года назад +4

    His mom acts so weird and 🤮. He's gonna be alone forever due to his mom. She mind as well marry her own son so she can be with him forever. This is just weird 😕

  • @theoscakes
    @theoscakes 2 года назад +1

    Emily was his girlfriend and his mother treated her as if she was a flashlight that he would eventually replace

  • @bluebell6684
    @bluebell6684 3 года назад +1

    “Listening” 😂

  • @ashleystav5686
    @ashleystav5686 2 года назад +1

    The mom is acting like the girlfriend is the one that’s crashing their date

  • @elenabrahamyan9273
    @elenabrahamyan9273 2 года назад

    How is she enduring with this witch, I’d just walk out so bad ?

  • @abbigailmcnamara3484
    @abbigailmcnamara3484 2 года назад +4

    My boyfriends mom is like this, luckily my
    Boyfriend always puts her in her place so it’s never gotten this bad. But it probably would if he gave into her bs lol

  • @loismensah9293
    @loismensah9293 3 года назад +2

    If he can’t stand up to his mum…he’s a very weak man

  • @deniseokanlawon6023
    @deniseokanlawon6023 3 года назад +2

    The mum has something wrong with her, and if I was Emily I would run a mile. The way the mum is behaving is unhealthy.

  • @laureenejackson1441
    @laureenejackson1441 2 года назад +1

    He needs therapy because he feels guilty when he tells his mother "no". His mother needs therapy because she doesn't know how to allow her son to be a man. She treats her son like a little boy.

  • @iadesigns
    @iadesigns 3 года назад +3

    He’s good looking and seems like nice person with his shit together besides the mom thing. His gf isn’t going anywhere.

  • @robertabasheer9526
    @robertabasheer9526 3 года назад +6

    This can't be real 🤦‍♀️

  • @happywifehappylife2739
    @happywifehappylife2739 2 года назад +2

    That was super creepy and incestuous when the mom said she wants her son to be with her and be happy with her. This is sick. Then asking her son who does he love the most like they're in some weird 3 way relationship.

  • @jane3823
    @jane3823 2 года назад

    Run girl run away

  • @shellywray9592
    @shellywray9592 Год назад

    There is nobody who loves their son more than i do. However, the very definition of love is letting go and trusting you raised them to make the right decisions! Its selfish in every way and love is not in it.

  • @amatapusyamalarao8882
    @amatapusyamalarao8882 3 года назад +1

    "Who do you love the most ??" mostly painful question in men's life

  • @ashleywright4817
    @ashleywright4817 2 года назад +1

    Omg she's soooo jealous she needs a little bit of help she's too attached to him

  • @esha3936
    @esha3936 3 года назад +1

    as an afghan I'm genuinely embarrassed. I don't want to be associated with these kind of people ever