I want to thank Peter for having the courage to share with everyone an experience that many people would be reluctant to share for obvious reasons. The point of this video isn’t to embarrass or humiliate Peter but to potentially help others who could be in a similar situation. I truly wish Peter the best going forward and I hope that one day he will find the love of his life! A friendly reminder, if you enjoy this video then LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE! As always, I enjoy reading everyone’s opinions! Thanks for watching and take care!
They are all after forginers money they are all fake and everything is a Lie don't be fooled into thinking any of them Love you dont have one Philipina have as many as you can use them coz they will 100% be using you! Dont give any money to them just be careful! Do not buy a house just Rent! yes you can date and pay for it but careful alway's you are a forginer they see you as a way out of poverty they all do! DO NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH ANY OF THEM!
Big mistakes , never ever send lots if money … youve to manage the House yourself. Report her to NBI now so that She not gonna victimise another Soul. Terrible woman
But! There's always a but. The asking for money thing lies alone or happens only if the foreigner consents. It is on the foreigner. Not up to anyone asking for money or help..
This is such a sad and unfortunate story. This story makes the rest of us Filipinos look really bad. I feel sorry for this man. He worked hard for his money and just got scammed because he loved this woman.
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he doesn't love himself, hes a weak man, he doesnt love her, if he loved her he would build himself as a man and lead, hes just a pitiful follower - the bible was full of male leaders this guy isnt one of them. nearly all women will treat this man the same way its punishment for his weakness, you all have the spirit of lilith and eve, who both cheated and betrayed adam, the very first man of our time, and you think youre not worse now? LOL
This man must hold that woman accountable as she sounds like a habitual criminal. He needs to make a case with Senator ''Rafy Tulfo". This person will continue to rip off other foreigners! This woman needs to go to jail!
Just pickup the pieces and move on man. That woman will never change for the better. Go to the provinces and find a kind and loving woman for a wife. The longer you stay in contact with that woman, the bigger the chance she has to bleed you dry.
I don't know why it's become so normalized for people to send other people money on the internet. Just don't do it. Make a hard line in the sand and go from there. The ones that stick around after that are much more likely to be the ones that are worth your time
It's nothing new. This is what millions of men have always done since before Christ. Before the internet, men would send checks, money orders, and do bank transactions just by looking at a physical photo of the Filipina. Even many who claim to not be simps, they are the first ones to support women they've never met. Example? Myk's Philippine Journey, a guy I make fun of on my channel. One thing is being a tough guy here saying, "no I won't support the family and no, I won't send her a penny for loads", then unplanned feelings start creeping in to the point that you will literally ask her to be lead to the gallows. You will feel guilty and give in. It can happen to you as well. Look at how this man is still in love with that woman. Doesn't matter what he says. His heart is in charge, not his gray matter. That woman comes and says to him, "Please Big daddy, forgive me, I'm gonna go to church" and he'll take her back on a heartbeat.
I have partner from Australia and we have 1 son and our allowance everymonth 20, 000. I always budget the money even sometimes is thight the expenses but i still grateful for him he not let us hunggry. Sometimes i do the cooking to help him. To all girls out there not all foriener is a lot money please don't always ask about money they working hard fo their money too.
She probably handed him over to her GF after she got done with him. This dude has SIMP written on his forehead. I don’t know why I’m so mad at this guy
I like to watch the "Catfishing " video's on You Tube. I have developed a contempt for most of them because in a sense the so called victim is scamming his family, possibly his/her spouse, has a wierd ego and goes after someone out of his league.
No offense, but based on what I have seen, guys like you are the first ones to become zimps. They act all tough here saying they won't support the family, won't send a penny to their Filipinas, won't buy land and build a house, won't take her to America, and then you'll see them doing just that. Gio In The Philippines is one of these guys. He broke at least one of those rules. And then Myk's Philippine Journey. There were 3 leaked videos from Myk's Philippine Journey where you see him crying and begging his LDR single mother not to leave him. Myk is a guy who used to act all tough and made fun of other men who dated single LDR mothers. I cover him on my channel.
21 years old, damn, he fell big time, lust and love, running before he was walking…what was he thinking, or not thinking…easily done by lots of people,
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP! Guys if you ever come to the Philippines PLEASE MAKE SURE SHE MAKES MORE MONEY THAN YOU BEFORE YOU DATE THE BEOTCH! I should know im in the Philippines RN! And I know these women real well! just do yourself a favor, keep your money, come here on VACAY and DO NOT..I REPEAT DO NOT DATE ANYONE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES untill you find out shes legit and makes more money than you! My advice to all foreign guys! tsk tsk! what a shame women here are like that! BUT THEY ARE NOT ALL LIKE THAT! thats why you should be looking for a professional not some POOR HO! ok?
@@LarryaproudU.S.citizen You talking to the wrong person! im not rich but by golly im not gonna let some dude tell me money cant by happiness! if thats the case then give me all your money! it will make me happy!....so its simple....LOOK ELSEWHERE! why date a poor girl thats gonna look at you like a walking ATM?
@@bbgcars exactly! Money can't buy happiness but it can definitely be used to get things that will make one happy. Some people just don't know how to use money to benefit and help them grow as a person to live a more fulfilling lives. Also, it boggles my mind why people would date someone who is financially unstable. I get it if we're high schoolers or in college because we still depend on our parents but there comes a time when one should strive to be independent financially. I don't give a f if you're great in bed or the most generous man, if you can't stand on your own feet then better move on. I ain't supporting your ass if you can't carry your own weight.
he's probably desperate for a companion. If he's a decent guy with common sense why can't he find a partner in his country? Whenever I visit the Philippines I always see older dudes with younger women. It's kinda icky actually because we all know why they are with each other. Some foreign guys think Asian women are subservient and naive, while some Asian women see foreigners as their personal ATM. I guess with that mentality, they deserve each other.
A fool and his money are soon parted. Or an even better quote- All that glitters isn’t gold . . . To be this old and so naïve is his own fault. He should have bought a condo so he can own the condo outright. As to forgiving her, wtf! He willingly sent the money.
it happens to both genders. I saw in the news that a Filipino woman in her 50s was scammed by her "American veteran bf" only to find out later that the guy is actually in Nigeria!
I don't understand why there are guys being fooled by women not just Filipinas...I encounter a lot of scammers online ...I cannot be fool by men scammers. If they ask for money... I'm thinking it's the other way around! Life is a gamble so as relationship... Don't let your guard down!
This is so sad, a sucker born every minute. The girl he dealt with is a professional wallet assassin. Heard hundreds of stories like this over 31 years in the Philippines. The Pinay Vamp, saw a lucrative vein and sucked him dry. Its so sad its almost funny as he didnt do the first rule of dealing with an online Filipina, DON'T EVER GIVE LARGE AMOUNTS OF MONEY, EVER! After you marry her then screw it, give her your wallet....
That's a common scam where they take pictures of someone else's build. You can't love someone you have only met online. Sorry to say this but he is s fool. And as they say "A fool and his money are soon parted". The moment any woman, no matter what nationality, asks for money, time to run away. The problem is these guys have never found love or had a GF in their own country and as soon as an exotic Asian woman fawns over them they can't help themselves.
We do stupid things for "love" but never send money to a person you don't even know! You are an ATM machine to them and they will ask for more and more and more!
Unlucky you met that girl, Just move on. You will find the right one for you thought. This kind of woman is ungrateful and not contented, she is a gold digger. While me is too scared to find love again. Its good to have someone to love and be love but the trauma hits hards. For now is busy building my future as a single mum of two.
This guy is really dumb he tries to buy the woman so she took all she could. He is a real sucker! Sadly, I doubt he will ever win in court. The lawyers will take the rest from him, and he will have nothing. NEVER SEND MONEY UNTIL YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON! This is a perfect example why you never send them money! The money is gone! It will never be recovered. My gf has never asked for one peso and we have been together for over 8 years. It is like prying teeth out to find out what our expenses are each month, she just pays everything. Anything else you are getting ripped off 99% of the time!
Sir sorry im from Philippines ..i am so sorry for you that you sent your money and you dont know her...what i can say is loving somebody online yes But if someone ask money thats not true that she loves you... If you love her come here first in my country and meet her first and thats the time you make an action for the better So you need to learn and dont generalize because not all of us is scammer..Goodluck and GODBLESS 🙏🙏🙏
If you send your gf money for essentials, like 10k per month, respect for that. If you send her 100k per month then your simp who is paying her like a sex worker, what did she do for you? Forgive her! This bloke is foolish and pathetic excuse of a man. He is encouraging this kind of pay to play scammer behaviour.
I live on a budget, save atleast half my retirement pay, I don't loan money over 1k and only once If I don't get payed back. While chatting online for 7 months I purchased her a cell phone because of old cell, brown out and frequent low bat. and we wanted lots of chat and live video. Flew to the Philippines Over 2 years ago. We havn't left each others side a single day. I have boundries and I am not shy.
If a lady truely loves u she will never ask for money at all, that even if u will be the one giving it she should refuse if not ITS A RED FLAG and its time to end up ur relationship. There are many good ladies out there... Don't be a fool & stupid.
🇵🇭 Dump her. Pick a Decent girl. Don't go for Hookers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A British friend of mine told me his story. He sent lots of money to his GF (who spends it lavishly). Only to find out, his GF was going out with a Polish guy when he's not around. Anyway, he got poor. Three years now I haven't heard from him.
I'll pray for you man! for all those foreigner looking for girls in the Philippines or any other country please don't send money bcos it's 100% scam. if you want to find a wife in the Philippines i would suggest visit the Philippines bcos there's a lot of woman there that you can choose. You need to build time with a woman for you to identify if that woman trully loves you or not. Be smarter man!!
While many Filipinos are friendly and hospitable, it's essential to approach all interactions with an open mind and caution, as there can be individuals with ill intentions in any country. It's always advisable to remain vigilant and informed when engaging with others, regardless of their background.
I can’t believe someone is so trusting and gullible. A leopard never changes its spots. And he forgives and helps her family He needs deporting for our sake and prevent further criminal offending from lonely heart scams
Advise for a guy that met relationship online don't send money until you met him/her.. it's okay to send small amount of gift.. the relationship will be genuine if you give none or less and she/he still continue talking or having relationship with you.. my advice for him find another one she won't gonna change old habits hard to die.. she just after your money.. look for a woman that respects you , and value your kindness.. you don't need to support her entire family.. I'm from there and I never did that to my husband we've been married now for 10 yrs and have 3 beautiful children.. I wish your happiness wish you'll find a good one..
Seems to be an all too common story. There are a lot of lonely guys wanting love and affection so bad, they lose the ability to think and reason, logic goes out the window with the hope of love. Thanks for these interviews, hopefully some vulnerable guys will see them.
I advised the foreigners to visit the Philippines 1st and just rent an apartment. I think you can buy your own condo but not land. If you want to immigrate ask Philippines embassy dicectly.
I can’t stupid, I mean she stole before he came and then he forgave her. He go ahead and build her and her family a house anyway, then she steals from him constantly and he’s still with her. Forget this guy, he’s a fool and should not have been allowed out of his moms basement
Just a suggestion When speaking to someone from Germany or Asia English 2nd language don’t say things like “ are you left dry “ Etc Speak more “ kindergarten “ And direct words .
Exactly. Idk why Americans keep insisting on talking to foreigners as if English is their first language, and they understand all its expressions and nuances.
the story repeats again and again. 5,000 pesos is a significant amount there; in the province, it can support someone for an entire month. However, you should never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
me born in europe i'am 12 years in the philippines rule number 1 you can't buy love. love comes from your heart i'am happy loveley married with a filipina high educated wife. and i love my wife so much. and we have a great business in the philippines. and great live i love the philippines
2.5 mil for 2 houses. Wow...That was a lifetime party for the family and the whole brgy was invited. Bet he never seen the houses. borow the money to the family? Give and borow is the same here. Say goodbye to your money... it wil never come back...not even 1 peso.
Mr Peter Is a Good Kind Hearted Trustfull Person & The Scammer Girl Friend Took Advantage Of Him In Most S.E.Asian Countries Foreigners Cannot Own The Land Cannot Run Business It Has To Be On Filipino Girl Friend,Philippino Wife Philippino Friend & When They Change We Foreigners Will Loose Everything This Is The Painfull Truth Painfull Reality
Those mean spirited folk, who are screaming for her to be thrown in jail ... have some compassion, she comes from a dirt poor family. No-one forced Fritz to send the money ... let it be a hard lesson for him
How did she steal? He willingly sent his money to her. All she did, at worst (if we're to fully believe him), was lie whilst whispering a few sweet nothings in his ear. Lovers lie to each other all the time ... there's nothing criminal about it
Furthermore, there was NOT a legally binding, signed contract between them, to specify how the money would be spent. Even if she had of chosen to build a house, she'd own it anyway - it'd be entirely in her name - built upon land owned by her family
Exactly, he gave her the money willingly, sure maybe on false pretence but you must check everything is in order first. False promises in the Philepenes is the number One Commandment! 1 Thou shall not believe what a Filipina says until you meet her.
Let's face it. This guy is a total sucker for sending all that money to someone he doesn't even know. The girl and her family are probably thinking, I've got a real sucker here. He gets no sympathy from me. How can anyone be so stupid. This is not a problem with the Philippines. This is a problem with this guy who seems to have no brains. To give money like that is crazy. I've had people I don't know well ask me for money. I say, take a hike. Even people I know well, I would only let them borrow small amounts of money from me, like less than $100.
Of course I feel sorry for him all guys out there should feel sorry for these types of situations but we have to ask ourselves. What are we expecting to happen when we seek a girl who doesn’t know the concept of money a lot poverty makes you do things you’re gonna morally justify it to yourself because poverty makes you believe any amount of money any real amount of moneybasically because we have we can afford to lose it and they’re morally justify it to themselves. They are fulfilling emotional need that we as men have and they’re going to manipulate that thing they have to try to make their lives better.
It's NOT a scam. If he or anyone else WANTS to send money to a 21 yr old foreign woman he has never even met more fool them. I have no sympathy whatsoever. BUT he should have gone home before he ran out of money
The guys is an idiot. He doesn't know the country, the culture, poverty or the woman he's sending money to. Sending money to anyone you haven't met in person is ridiculous. Why would he think that he knows her or anything about her? A fool and his money are soon parted.
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9:25 why would a woman need to care how hard it is in the outside world to work for any money when she asks from you and you allow it and give it easy?? you're saying if women were this much of a pushover you would care about hard workers? no way.
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hes calling the people poor and saying they have no school but they have managed to scheme him and is now richer than him LOOOOOL
I have been with my Filipina wife for 8 years now and we have 3 beautiful kids. You can stay in the city and play around but you better be careful! If you want a good girl you need to slow down and look for a good girl. Some advice 1) Buy property through my wife with a 50 year lease. I have a piece of property that i leased from my wifes sister. If you mary a lady the marage overrides the lease. 2) Learn the culture. Tampo and Jealousy are real. Though you can find Philippinas like mine who will actually point out beautiful ladies but thats not normal. 3) Learn to say no when asked for money. Even if she loves you and you guys have a future if you always open your wallet the family will put CRAZY pressure on your girl. Say no often but after time you can help in moderation.
Relationship: My life is in order, your life is in order, and we share our extra energy (after mere survival) on a project together. If her life isn't in order, if she cannot survive on her own, how can she can contribute to a common project? I may like her very much, and we could be friends, but I'm not getting involved in her disorderly life.
Bro, get a clue. He does not understand English well, your questions are way too long and complicated with difficult words and slang. Ask a question with one short sentence!
Here we have a fool and his money. Why would you do that? How nieve can you be? You allowed it to happen. Also not all girls here are like that. Stay away from date sites. They can be playing several men at the same time. I met my wife the old fashion way. In a store completly unexpected. Now married, 10 year old daughter and very happy. I feel bad for you and hundreds of others but it's your fault.
Homie is 50 yr old and only 5 years old in the game. He's getting the rug pull on the Filipina sponsorship game. I had a Filipina who was in ph and moved to Singapore to work for 600 a month. I had her send me 40 a month. Gotta make sure she loved me. When we broke up I gave her all the money back x2. Filipina that loves you will give you their money ....but I was tall and handsome. She knew she had to pay to play when being with me ...even tho I had more than her.
Proverbs 31:10 A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. 11 Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. 12 Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
thats a big no if you have gf online dont trust them theres a lot of hookers online 😂😂😂if you live wt somebody just give her allowance everyweek to make sure that you still have money incase she left you or your going back to your countyr
I want to thank Peter for having the courage to share with everyone an experience that many people would be reluctant to share for obvious reasons. The point of this video isn’t to embarrass or humiliate Peter but to potentially help others who could be in a similar situation. I truly wish Peter the best going forward and I hope that one day he will find the love of his life!
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They are all after forginers money they are all fake and everything is a Lie don't be fooled into thinking any of them Love you dont have one Philipina have as many as you can use them coz they will 100% be using you! Dont give any money to them just be careful! Do not buy a house just Rent! yes you can date and pay for it but careful alway's you are a forginer they see you as a way out of poverty they all do! DO NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH ANY OF THEM!
never send money no matter how much you love a woman, if a woman is truly in love with you, she will stay with you even if you don't give her a penny.
I agree 💯
True but most men don't have common sense.
Never send money to someone you've never met or spent time with, ok I buy my Filipina a gift on birthday and Xmas, and a treat now and then.
@@GabbiGuelas I agree a woman asking for money 💰 is a sure way to know she doesn't like you.
True, they are nice but be careful they will scam you.
Big mistakes , never ever send lots if money … youve to manage the House yourself. Report her to NBI now so that She not gonna victimise another Soul. Terrible woman
Report for what ? He has no case there is 1000s of girls who lied and were given money
Nothing the laws will do
If a woman asks and is willing to accept that amount of money, a huge red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Agree 💯
But! There's always a but. The asking for money thing lies alone or happens only if the foreigner consents. It is on the foreigner. Not up to anyone asking for money or help..
This is such a sad and unfortunate story. This story makes the rest of us Filipinos look really bad. I feel sorry for this man. He worked hard for his money and just got scammed because he loved this woman.
he doesn't love himself, hes a weak man, he doesnt love her, if he loved her he would build himself as a man and lead, hes just a pitiful follower - the bible was full of male leaders this guy isnt one of them. nearly all women will treat this man the same way its punishment for his weakness, you all have the spirit of lilith and eve, who both cheated and betrayed adam, the very first man of our time, and you think youre not worse now? LOL
It is not scamming but simply not using common sense.
She used her common sense, but he scammed himself by not using common sense. Remember, he did it twice 😅😅😅😅😅
This man must hold that woman accountable as she sounds like a habitual criminal. He needs to make a case with Senator ''Rafy Tulfo". This person will continue to rip off other foreigners! This woman needs to go to jail!
He's not original German ... His accent is more Eastern Europe
He looks Czech to me
Yeah he doesn’t sound German,he might be Turkish/German.
eastern part of Germany is next to Poland, Czech, Slovakia
@ Jon solves the case
Just pickup the pieces and move on man. That woman will never change for the better. Go to the provinces and find a kind and loving woman for a wife. The longer you stay in contact with that woman, the bigger the chance she has to bleed you dry.
This girl come from the province
Go to the province of Davao women are more sincere less cheating to that province
@@rexmascarina2169 😂😂😂😂
If you cannot manage your own household you will have no qualms of getting betrayed again and again until you collapse of exhaustion.
I’m sorry but I honestly cannot believe a grown man can be this simple minded 😳
And he is going to court to try and get his money back, the Philippines is a black hole, once you sink your money in it, it's gone forever.
He looks like a child
no common sense? desperation?
When she ask for money that's when you delete and block.
She won't love you long time.
No sucky sucky either 😢
My Filipina is different.
I don't know why it's become so normalized for people to send other people money on the internet. Just don't do it. Make a hard line in the sand and go from there. The ones that stick around after that are much more likely to be the ones that are worth your time
Because a lot of men don't think with their brains if you know what I mean 😂
It's nothing new. This is what millions of men have always done since before Christ. Before the internet, men would send checks, money orders, and do bank transactions just by looking at a physical photo of the Filipina. Even many who claim to not be simps, they are the first ones to support women they've never met. Example? Myk's Philippine Journey, a guy I make fun of on my channel.
One thing is being a tough guy here saying, "no I won't support the family and no, I won't send her a penny for loads", then unplanned feelings start creeping in to the point that you will literally ask her to be lead to the gallows. You will feel guilty and give in. It can happen to you as well. Look at how this man is still in love with that woman. Doesn't matter what he says. His heart is in charge, not his gray matter. That woman comes and says to him, "Please Big daddy, forgive me, I'm gonna go to church" and he'll take her back on a heartbeat.
The fool and his money are soon parted 😢
I have partner from Australia and we have 1 son and our allowance everymonth 20, 000. I always budget the money even sometimes is thight the expenses but i still grateful for him he not let us hunggry. Sometimes i do the cooking to help him. To all girls out there not all foriener is a lot money please don't always ask about money they working hard fo their money too.
I feel sorry for this man. He must genuinely loves and trusts this woman, who does not deserve his love.
She probably handed him over to her GF after she got done with him. This dude has SIMP written on his forehead. I don’t know why I’m so mad at this guy
Have you heard the song by Bobby Caldwell, “What you won’t do for love”? This situation makes that song play in my head
I like to watch the "Catfishing " video's on You Tube. I have developed a contempt for most of them because in a sense the so called victim is scamming his family, possibly his/her spouse, has a wierd ego and goes after someone out of his league.
No offense, but based on what I have seen, guys like you are the first ones to become zimps. They act all tough here saying they won't support the family, won't send a penny to their Filipinas, won't buy land and build a house, won't take her to America, and then you'll see them doing just that. Gio In The Philippines is one of these guys. He broke at least one of those rules. And then Myk's Philippine Journey. There were 3 leaked videos from Myk's Philippine Journey where you see him crying and begging his LDR single mother not to leave him. Myk is a guy who used to act all tough and made fun of other men who dated single LDR mothers. I cover him on my channel.
This guy makes John the expat look smart hahah
John the expat is doing better. He maintains a low profile
What a shame that this women scam him it make us all looks bad because of this one person 🤬😡take her to sir Ruffy Tulfo so he can take his money back.
21 years old, damn, he fell big time, lust and love, running before he was walking…what was he thinking, or not thinking…easily done by lots of people,
What was he thinking "with"
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP! Guys if you ever come to the Philippines PLEASE MAKE SURE SHE MAKES MORE MONEY THAN YOU BEFORE YOU DATE THE BEOTCH! I should know im in the Philippines RN! And I know these women real well! just do yourself a favor, keep your money, come here on VACAY and DO NOT..I REPEAT DO NOT DATE ANYONE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES untill you find out shes legit and makes more money than you! My advice to all foreign guys! tsk tsk! what a shame women here are like that! BUT THEY ARE NOT ALL LIKE THAT! thats why you should be looking for a professional not some POOR HO! ok?
Where are you going to find a pinoy who makes more money than you?
@@LarryaproudU.S.citizen You talking to the wrong person! im not rich but by golly im not gonna let some dude tell me money cant by happiness! if thats the case then give me all your money! it will make me happy!....so its simple....LOOK ELSEWHERE! why date a poor girl thats gonna look at you like a walking ATM?
@@bbgcars exactly! Money can't buy happiness but it can definitely be used to get things that will make one happy. Some people just don't know how to use money to benefit and help them grow as a person to live a more fulfilling lives. Also, it boggles my mind why people would date someone who is financially unstable. I get it if we're high schoolers or in college because we still depend on our parents but there comes a time when one should strive to be independent financially. I don't give a f if you're great in bed or the most generous man, if you can't stand on your own feet then better move on. I ain't supporting your ass if you can't carry your own weight.
@@LarryaproudU.S.citizen Are you saying pinoys are poor?
not the sharpest tool in the shed
5000 euro per month for woman you dont even live together with...
This guy is a scammers dream, "scam" him for one house and he'll get you three!
He must have had the time of his life. It must have been worth every penny for his bamboozlement.
OVER 3.8 BILLION WOMEN ON EARTH right now and this dude has to send money to one that dont love him back! JESUS CHRIST! rookie mistake!
Massive rookie mistake that will cost him both money and emotionally. I did the same thing but I was sending a girl to college.
he's probably desperate for a companion. If he's a decent guy with common sense why can't he find a partner in his country? Whenever I visit the Philippines I always see older dudes with younger women. It's kinda icky actually because we all know why they are with each other. Some foreign guys think Asian women are subservient and naive, while some Asian women see foreigners as their personal ATM. I guess with that mentality, they deserve each other.
He is too trusting, too. nice of a person.
No, He is too Stupid.
There's no fool like an old fool.
He was thinking with his little head instead of his big head
Some men should never leave their country or even talk to women.
I feel so sorry for this gentleman…This women scamming men and hurting them financially have no shame and self respect…
it’s immoral but it’s not a scam.
That's very sad to hear. In my case I want to my husband to keep his money because I am earning also. Shame on that Filipina
A fool and his money are soon parted. Or an even better quote- All that glitters isn’t gold . . . To be this old and so naïve is his own fault. He should have bought a condo so he can own the condo outright. As to forgiving her, wtf! He willingly sent the money.
I've found the Phil to be especially safe compared to American cities, but the scamming is something that some men seem to be vulnerable for.
it happens to both genders. I saw in the news that a Filipino woman in her 50s was scammed by her "American veteran bf" only to find out later that the guy is actually in Nigeria!
I don't understand why there are guys being fooled by women not just Filipinas...I encounter a lot of scammers online ...I cannot be fool by men scammers. If they ask for money... I'm thinking it's the other way around! Life is a gamble so as relationship... Don't let your guard down!
Great advice!
Checkout "catfishing" Romance scammers.
This is so sad, a sucker born every minute. The girl he dealt with is a professional wallet assassin.
Heard hundreds of stories like this over 31 years in the Philippines.
The Pinay Vamp, saw a lucrative vein and sucked him dry. Its so sad its almost funny as he didnt do the first rule of dealing with an online Filipina, DON'T EVER GIVE LARGE AMOUNTS OF MONEY, EVER! After you marry her then screw it, give her your wallet....
That's a common scam where they take pictures of someone else's build. You can't love someone you have only met online. Sorry to say this but he is s fool. And as they say "A fool and his money are soon parted". The moment any woman, no matter what nationality, asks for money, time to run away. The problem is these guys have never found love or had a GF in their own country and as soon as an exotic Asian woman fawns over them they can't help themselves.
All very valid points!
We do stupid things for "love" but never send money to a person you don't even know! You are an ATM machine to them and they will ask for more and more and more!
Never send money. Cant buy love. A girl will love you if you have nothing.but your kind and show love
Unlucky you met that girl, Just move on. You will find the right one for you thought. This kind of woman is ungrateful and not contented, she is a gold digger. While me is too scared to find love again. Its good to have someone to love and be love but the trauma hits hards. For now is busy building my future as a single mum of two.
This guy is really dumb he tries to buy the woman so she took all she could. He is a real sucker! Sadly, I doubt he will ever win in court. The lawyers will take the rest from him, and he will have nothing. NEVER SEND MONEY UNTIL YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON! This is a perfect example why you never send them money! The money is gone! It will never be recovered. My gf has never asked for one peso and we have been together for over 8 years. It is like prying teeth out to find out what our expenses are each month, she just pays everything. Anything else you are getting ripped off 99% of the time!
A guy said ones: Before I met Angelina I was multi millionaire. Now I'm millionaire.
Now we are watching the real world Philippines.
Sir sorry im from Philippines ..i am so sorry for you that you sent your money and you dont know her...what i can say is loving somebody online yes
But if someone ask money thats not true that she loves you...
If you love her come here first in my country and meet her first and thats the time you make an action for the better
So you need to learn and dont generalize because not all of us is scammer..Goodluck and GODBLESS 🙏🙏🙏
If you send your gf money for essentials, like 10k per month, respect for that. If you send her 100k per month then your simp who is paying her like a sex worker, what did she do for you? Forgive her! This bloke is foolish and pathetic excuse of a man. He is encouraging this kind of pay to play scammer behaviour.
Yea should have capped at 10k per month
Poor guy 😢 he needs to wakeup!
It's okay only when you married her! No ring on hand no money send!😊
I live on a budget, save atleast half my retirement pay, I don't loan money over 1k and only once If I don't get payed back. While chatting online for 7 months I purchased her a cell phone because of old cell, brown out and frequent low bat. and we wanted lots of chat and live video. Flew to the Philippines Over 2 years ago. We havn't left each others side a single day. I have boundries and I am not shy.
If a lady truely loves u she will never ask for money at all, that even if u will be the one giving it she should refuse if not ITS A RED FLAG and its time to end up ur relationship. There are many good ladies out there... Don't be a fool & stupid.
🇵🇭 Dump her. Pick a Decent girl. Don't go for Hookers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A British friend of mine told me his story. He sent lots of money to his GF (who spends it lavishly). Only to find out, his GF was going out with a Polish guy when he's not around. Anyway, he got poor. Three years now I haven't heard from him.
I'll pray for you man! for all those foreigner looking for girls in the Philippines or any other country please don't send money bcos it's 100% scam. if you want to find a wife in the Philippines i would suggest visit the Philippines bcos there's a lot of woman there that you can choose. You need to build time with a woman for you to identify if that woman trully loves you or not. Be smarter man!!
Very sad for this good man! He went about it the wrong way! Never do anything in line because it opens doors to all evil!
While many Filipinos are friendly and hospitable, it's essential to approach all interactions with an open mind and caution, as there can be individuals with ill intentions in any country. It's always advisable to remain vigilant and informed when engaging with others, regardless of their background.
My question is why tf would you give someone abroad that much money unless it's for charity? If an online bf/gf asks for money that's a 🚩🚩🚩
Sir stop slow down we men make our own trouble it's over forgive yourself and move forward with your life forget the money and forget her
I can’t believe someone is so trusting and gullible.
A leopard never changes its spots.
And he forgives and helps her family
He needs deporting for our sake and prevent further criminal offending from lonely heart scams
Advise for a guy that met relationship online don't send money until you met him/her.. it's okay to send small amount of gift.. the relationship will be genuine if you give none or less and she/he still continue talking or having relationship with you.. my advice for him find another one she won't gonna change old habits hard to die.. she just after your money.. look for a woman that respects you , and value your kindness.. you don't need to support her entire family.. I'm from there and I never did that to my husband we've been married now for 10 yrs and have 3 beautiful children.. I wish your happiness wish you'll find a good one..
Thanks for the great advice ❤️
Seems to be an all too common story. There are a lot of lonely guys wanting love and affection so bad, they lose the ability to think and reason, logic goes out the window with the hope of love. Thanks for these interviews, hopefully some vulnerable guys will see them.
The guys is so desperate and so screwed up...🙄
Lesson learned -- Use the upper brain all the time.
You should set up a gofundme for a plane ticket back to germany for him
I cant believe it! A man 50 yrs old sending $100K to a woman you never met? Bro grow up!
I advised the foreigners to visit the Philippines 1st and just rent an apartment. I think you can buy your own condo but not land. If you want to immigrate ask Philippines embassy dicectly.
this guy needs to go back to school. unbelievable!!!!
I can’t stupid, I mean she stole before he came and then he forgave her. He go ahead and build her and her family a house anyway, then she steals from him constantly and he’s still with her. Forget this guy, he’s a fool and should not have been allowed out of his moms basement
As the old saying goes, “LOVE IS BLIND”.
Five star hotel with a one star brain 😂...kind regards Peter
If you got money to vurn, send it to your own family. Look after your own.
I feel sorry for you, man. Be careful next time.
Similar thing happen to me, I spent over 10k usd on my ex. I was gaslighted and left me for a local guy that she has been seeing for a few months.
This is so sad. No wonder there are so many young Filipinas driving new cars here.
he is too good-looking just to be scammed like that
Just a suggestion
When speaking to someone from Germany or Asia
English 2nd language don’t say things like “ are you left dry “
Etc
Speak more “ kindergarten “
And direct words .
Exactly. Idk why Americans keep insisting on talking to foreigners as if English is their first language, and they understand all its expressions and nuances.
the story repeats again and again. 5,000 pesos is a significant amount there; in the province, it can support someone for an entire month. However, you should never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
me born in europe i'am 12 years in the philippines rule number 1 you can't buy love. love comes from your heart i'am happy loveley married with a filipina high educated wife. and i love my wife so much. and we have a great business in the philippines. and great live i love the philippines
2.5 mil for 2 houses. Wow...That was a lifetime party for the family and the whole brgy was invited. Bet he never seen the houses.
borow the money to the family? Give and borow is the same here. Say goodbye to your money... it wil never come back...not even 1 peso.
The best he can do is post photos of her & her family on social media so others may no longer be scammed.
If u want bad(not good) things you will get bad things too
Yea if u want to help dont give too much. And when it comes to house build it when u are there
Mr Peter Is a Good Kind Hearted Trustfull Person & The Scammer Girl Friend Took Advantage Of Him In Most S.E.Asian Countries Foreigners Cannot Own The Land Cannot Run Business It Has To Be On Filipino Girl Friend,Philippino Wife Philippino Friend & When They Change We Foreigners Will Loose Everything This Is The Painfull Truth Painfull Reality
HES A SIMP! plain and simple
It's not scamming if you give the money. Don't give big money, period.
Wow that’s a lot of money to send to someone you don’t really know unless you have the money and it doesn’t affect you
Those mean spirited folk, who are screaming for her to be thrown in jail ... have some compassion, she comes from a dirt poor family. No-one forced Fritz to send the money ... let it be a hard lesson for him
She can steal because she’s poor? Is that’s what you’re saying. You sound ridiculous. Being poor isn’t a pass for theivery.
How did she steal? He willingly sent his money to her. All she did, at worst (if we're to fully believe him), was lie whilst whispering a few sweet nothings in his ear. Lovers lie to each other all the time ... there's nothing criminal about it
Furthermore, there was NOT a legally binding, signed contract between them, to specify how the money would be spent. Even if she had of chosen to build a house, she'd own it anyway - it'd be entirely in her name - built upon land owned by her family
Whilst she hasn't done anything criminal ... she's certainly NOT a quality or trustworthy lady, for a long-term relationship. We'll agree upon that
Exactly, he gave her the money willingly, sure maybe on false pretence but you must check everything is in order first. False promises in the Philepenes is the number One Commandment!
1 Thou shall not believe what a Filipina says until you meet her.
Stupid is as stupid does sir.
No sympathy for any old man who goes after a young woman, decades age difference. He probably has a wife and children he left back in Germany.
Let's face it. This guy is a total sucker for sending all that money to someone he doesn't even know. The girl and her family are probably thinking, I've got a real sucker here. He gets no sympathy from me. How can anyone be so stupid. This is not a problem with the Philippines. This is a problem with this guy who seems to have no brains. To give money like that is crazy. I've had people I don't know well ask me for money. I say, take a hike. Even people I know well, I would only let them borrow small amounts of money from me, like less than $100.
There are professional Scammers so now you have lessons.
Of course I feel sorry for him all guys out there should feel sorry for these types of situations but we have to ask ourselves. What are we expecting to happen when we seek a girl who doesn’t know the concept of money a lot poverty makes you do things you’re gonna morally justify it to yourself because poverty makes you believe any amount of money any real amount of moneybasically because we have we can afford to lose it and they’re morally justify it to themselves. They are fulfilling emotional need that we as men have and they’re going to manipulate that thing they have to try to make their lives better.
It's NOT a scam. If he or anyone else WANTS to send money to a 21 yr old foreign woman he has never even met more fool them. I have no sympathy whatsoever. BUT he should have gone home before he ran out of money
Who builds a house there,if you dont live togetter.you need to see it with your own eyes not with pictures.Just rent for your own safety!
There are some women do something bad just to get money
The guys is an idiot. He doesn't know the country, the culture, poverty or the woman he's sending money to. Sending money to anyone you haven't met in person is ridiculous. Why would he think that he knows her or anything about her? A fool and his money are soon parted.
9:25 why would a woman need to care how hard it is in the outside world to work for any money when she asks from you and you allow it and give it easy??
you're saying if women were this much of a pushover you would care about hard workers? no way.
hes calling the people poor and saying they have no school but they have managed to scheme him and is now richer than him LOOOOOL
I have been with my Filipina wife for 8 years now and we have 3 beautiful kids. You can stay in the city and play around but you better be careful! If you want a good girl you need to slow down and look for a good girl. Some advice
1) Buy property through my wife with a 50 year lease. I have a piece of property that i leased from my wifes sister. If you mary a lady the marage overrides the lease.
2) Learn the culture. Tampo and Jealousy are real. Though you can find Philippinas like mine who will actually point out beautiful ladies but thats not normal.
3) Learn to say no when asked for money. Even if she loves you and you guys have a future if you always open your wallet the family will put CRAZY pressure on your girl. Say no often but after time you can help in moderation.
True l have been 3 times Philippines to see my Filipina and we learn't understanding before so no large amounts of money is transferred.
@@Wouldlife1918 totally agree.
Relationship: My life is in order, your life is in order, and we share our extra energy (after mere survival) on a project together.
If her life isn't in order, if she cannot survive on her own, how can she can contribute to a common project? I may like her very much, and we could be friends, but I'm not getting involved in her disorderly life.
OMG I couldn't finish this video, SIMPing must stop, guys like this embarrassing to MEN
Bro, get a clue. He does not understand English well, your questions are way too long and complicated with difficult words and slang. Ask a question with one short sentence!
Here we have a fool and his money. Why would you do that? How nieve can you be? You allowed it to happen. Also not all girls here are like that. Stay away from date sites. They can be playing several men at the same time. I met my wife the old fashion way. In a store completly unexpected. Now married, 10 year old daughter and very happy. I feel bad for you and hundreds of others but it's your fault.
He must have had a lot of money ,snd he just met the wrong girl . Hope you find a nice girl bro
Homie is 50 yr old and only 5 years old in the game. He's getting the rug pull on the Filipina sponsorship game.
I had a Filipina who was in ph and moved to Singapore to work for 600 a month. I had her send me 40 a month. Gotta make sure she loved me. When we broke up I gave her all the money back x2.
Filipina that loves you will give you their money ....but I was tall and handsome. She knew she had to pay to play when being with me ...even tho I had more than her.
Plus she was a 9/10 and went to nursing school
600 USD was her Singapore income. I was kind. Only asked for 40 a month. I just wanted to keep it real
Proverbs 31:10 A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. 11 Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. 12 Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
I feel for this guy but OMG ..... there aren't words
SCAMMERS ARE EVERYWHERE!!!
thats a big no if you have gf online dont trust them theres a lot of hookers online 😂😂😂if you live wt somebody just give her allowance everyweek to make sure that you still have money incase she left you or your going back to your countyr