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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • In this video, I explore the dating experiences of foreign women in the Philippines. After discovering the perspectives of foreign men in my last video, I thought it would be a good idea to ask foreign women about the same topic. So join me as I navigate through BGC (Bonifacio Global City) in the heart of Manila. Where I gain valuable insights from women residing in the Philippines who have experience, dating Filipinos.
    Curious about the dating dynamics, and what dating in the Philippines is like? These women share their perspectives on how dating practices and expectations vary, offering a fascinating glimpse into cross-cultural romance.
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  • @PochainPhilippines
    @PochainPhilippines Год назад +1156

    I'm Mexican American and my husband is Filipino ❤ Amazing husband, attentive to my needs, very kind, caring, and best father. I never ask him twice. I feel supported and loved 🥰 11 yrs with my husband man and we have an amazing daughter ❤

  • @jazzyp1671
    @jazzyp1671 9 месяцев назад +61

    I'm a Filipino and married to a wonderful German woman, been together for almost 12 years ❤ I would say at first we've a lot of difficulties specially on the culture subject. I let her live and experience what is the life in the Philippines and she did the same thing for me in Germany. We had to understand and respect our culture differences and as times goes on we learned each other on the positive way, through good times and bad times. My best advice for Filipino men dating western foreigners is to be open minded specially on the culture differences. 😊

    • @thenattygorilla
      @thenattygorilla 9 месяцев назад +2

      Wow... I've never been to Germany, but I've met a good number of German girls in my time. I honestly think they're some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen... But from what I've heard, it seems like our culture and the way we do a lot of things are really different... Germans are known to be cold, upfront and temperamental while Filipinos are known to be warm, indirect and laid back.
      I know we're all individuals, but I feel like we're generally incompatible and don't have much in common... But then again, if Filipinas can date German guys and make it work, then we should be able to date German girls and make it work too.

    • @vanillagrammer6019
      @vanillagrammer6019 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@thenattygorillaThat’s not true I‘m German but I‘m not cold hearted or too direct. These are just stereotypes

    • @Simplemelle
      @Simplemelle 8 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠​⁠@@thenattygorillaI‘m half German and half Filipina (I was born and I live in Germany) and I have to say it’s the complete opposite, german women are very chill in a relationship like they are never jealous, you can go party, have female friends etc. they don’t care, while Filipinas are very temperamental and you should be careful when in a relationship with a Filipina because some can be really crazy😂 in a good way

    • @derekgomez3415
      @derekgomez3415 8 месяцев назад

      That's why I like to try a foreigner girlfriend, because they are open minded

    • @jimmylim5015
      @jimmylim5015 8 месяцев назад +1

      So how did you both meet? I've been in the US for the longest time and from my experience American women are just so different, I think European women are raised better

  • @robertferrer6952
    @robertferrer6952 Год назад +58

    i am a filipino man married to a hot blooded latina from mexico, we’ve been married 35 years and we have 3 amazing sons.

    • @Marcus-je6bl
      @Marcus-je6bl 7 месяцев назад +2

      That’s the way

    • @dragodavidCE
      @dragodavidCE 7 месяцев назад +3

      Congrats! Im Chinese-Cambodian and my wife is mexican american. Happily married for 8 years with one daugther, but been together for a total of 16 years now.

    • @DDCShortClip
      @DDCShortClip 4 месяца назад +3

      Latina is so fucking wild bro

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 4 месяца назад +1

      35 years is crazy lol

    • @alexlilano1931
      @alexlilano1931 Месяц назад

      My friend is Filipino and have like 8 kids with his Mexican wife. People dont know this, but South East Asians are mixed with Negrito. They look African, but they are the own thing. Mexicans are very mixed as well and their have a lot of the same traits. It is call convergent evolution.

  • @aedex2601
    @aedex2601 Год назад +123

    I like the Taiwanese lady's insight and the way She dissects her understanding of culture and relationships

    • @awakenedsoul2638
      @awakenedsoul2638 Год назад +5

      Yeah right! Simple, straight to the point no more rights and lefts, that is the truth and that is what always happens in real life!

    • @robert-h2x
      @robert-h2x Год назад +6

      very intelligent woman

    • @mija5743
      @mija5743 10 месяцев назад +4

      you can search her up, she's a youtuber as well. Winnie Wong she's a crazy rich asian kinda here in the Philippines

    • @elles.7331
      @elles.7331 8 месяцев назад +1

      yes, saw her in alex gonzaga's vlog

    • @stevethea5250
      @stevethea5250 6 месяцев назад

      timestamp?

  • @Emily-5735
    @Emily-5735 10 месяцев назад +156

    I'm Russian and my boyfriend is Filipino, he's the one of the most amazing, sweetest and most caring boyfriend I've ever had.

    • @johncarlogenavia2105
      @johncarlogenavia2105 9 месяцев назад +7

      You are very lucky and blessed to have such an adorable boyfriend like him. Many Russian women like you have relationships or married to some Filipino men, more than other European women.

    • @enlightenmentdoesntcomeeas5337
      @enlightenmentdoesntcomeeas5337 8 месяцев назад +1

      Where in the Philippines is he from?

    • @amandaburleson2035
      @amandaburleson2035 8 месяцев назад +12

      its ok if you cheat on him, he will forgive you! i know you will cheat on him soon with a guy that is hotter

    • @lyndenmanning
      @lyndenmanning 8 месяцев назад +5

      Good luck with that

    • @gregmasters8558
      @gregmasters8558 8 месяцев назад

      Im filipino 6 foot 240 pounds is your mom available?​@@lyndenmanning

  • @philippineantics
    @philippineantics 8 месяцев назад +26

    My husband is the best , I'm American 52 married to 49 yr old Filipino. Best decision.

    • @bola5671
      @bola5671 Месяц назад

      You chose a relatively close age, it probably helps with having things easier. I'm talking to a lady 10 years younger and the age difference scares me a bit

  • @RampartPh
    @RampartPh Год назад +63

    surprisingly foreign women dating filipino men are very prevalent in beach centered places like siargao, la union, moalboal, etc.

    • @blo0mfilter868
      @blo0mfilter868 Год назад +32

      Basically places where the men look like men. In BGC, most of the time the jacked guys there look gay/too metrosexual or going for that kpop look

    • @quenchtv5436
      @quenchtv5436 Год назад +2

      @@blo0mfilter868 wtf is that mean 🤣

    • @rots.866
      @rots.866 Год назад +6

      foreign women dating filipino women are also surprisingly prevalent.

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 Год назад +2

      @@quenchtv5436 lots of guys in bgc look guy even though they are good looking.

    • @quenchtv5436
      @quenchtv5436 Год назад +5

      @@javier.alvarez764 you mean gay? Probably due to popularity of kpop they follow the trend i just noticed that kpop style are became even more popular to gen z

  • @hanslavar8894
    @hanslavar8894 Год назад +182

    Some of these foreign opinions are true. Compatibility is more important rather than choosing for ethnicity. The women chosen for interview seemed very westernized in thinking. Many Filipinos, Koreans, Thais and Chinese I knew married to foreign women prefer Eastern European women to Western women(American,British, Canadian) because accordingly, of easier compatibility. I had dated foreign women and Polish, Romanian, and Hungarian are easy to go with because of their family oriented and more religious mindsets. I lived in the US for many years!

    • @boiun7038
      @boiun7038 Год назад +1

      yes Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides

    • @roamaroundgisg7362
      @roamaroundgisg7362 Год назад +4

      Correct that's my point.

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie Год назад +8

      As a westerner I'm shocked that there are people that think about ethnicity lol. I thought that was obsolete

    • @thecatholicway8797
      @thecatholicway8797 Год назад +16

      @@cooliipie not ethnicity, but culture and tradition. Hook-up culture is very common in US. In general, "body count" is not even talked about in the Philippines because you rarely see women having more than 5 boyfriends in their lifetime. That's what the commenter above was saying about compatibility. Our values and cultures are more similar than in western countries.

    • @fuzzy_wuzzy45
      @fuzzy_wuzzy45 Год назад

      @@thecatholicway8797 eastern Europea*

  • @XavierZahn
    @XavierZahn Год назад +26

    You need to do a video asking Filipino guys about dating foreign women.

  • @user-oo3lh1ls4r
    @user-oo3lh1ls4r Год назад +203

    These foreign girls have a point, you just have to listen to them very good. Im Filipino and most of the negative thoughts they're saying are true. But anyways not everyone are the same, theres a lot of good people out there whether your a Filipino or not as long you have a good deeds and intentions, and everyone will get along.🤗👍

    • @boiun7038
      @boiun7038 Год назад

      yes Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides

    • @basicallytroll2705
      @basicallytroll2705 Год назад +4

      We love filipino girls! I know a lot of my 60 yr old friends who found true love in the philippines. Mostly 18 to 22 years old. Fresh as they come! 😝🤑

    • @eldrinpaulgok-ong3450
      @eldrinpaulgok-ong3450 Год назад +1

      I don't see them as a negative. More like a cultural difference, which they didn't like but we should also respect their opinion. That being said, negative is in their norm (high divorce rate).

    • @alas2210
      @alas2210 Год назад

      Yup.. Specialy the guys are too girly or malambot.. Wtf happen?? 10yrs ago the ultimate image of being of being a man is to be macho!! Wtf happen? 😂😂

    • @The_Crazy_Monkey75
      @The_Crazy_Monkey75 11 месяцев назад +1

      It's not really a negative. It all depends on what you are looking for. A traditional man would see an independent woman as a "negative" for obvious reasons.

  • @TheisSteve
    @TheisSteve Год назад +25

    I have a colleague here in the states, He is from Philippine originally...I was lucky to learn about Filipino People and culture 🤩we are great buddies building and growing our investments together here. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

    • @NathalieReyes750
      @NathalieReyes750 Год назад +3

      Filipinos are lovely and hardworking, unfortunately not everyone is lucky enough to amass wealth

    • @LillyRoberts637
      @LillyRoberts637 Год назад +1

      @@NathalieReyes750 You are absolutely right! Success requires hard work and awareness, and sometimes opportunities and a bit of luck..investment remains the best to start

    • @TheisSteve
      @TheisSteve Год назад +1

      @@LillyRoberts637 absolutely!

    • @Lindastilinski52
      @Lindastilinski52 Год назад +1

      @@NathalieReyes750exactly! Many don’t know where to invest their money and lack the tips and information needed to earn passively which I would recommend to beginners

    • @TheisSteve
      @TheisSteve Год назад

      @@Lindastilinski52 I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of
      about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking
      guidance from an expert trader and copying her strategies which have proved effective till date.

  • @Holy_Bell
    @Holy_Bell Год назад +35

    I'm from the Philippines. And all Filipina/Filipino are Hands on the Family. And we have a commitment if we Build a Family.🇵🇭

    • @sharlajade779
      @sharlajade779 Год назад

      NOT ALL

    • @bellearguela6130
      @bellearguela6130 Год назад

      So funny. What your saying is not true at all. Many filipino children including me, had a dysfunctional family history. 🤡🙃

  • @saeed5710
    @saeed5710 Год назад +46

    i like the Taiwanese woman, very respectful and very smart to answer! she's got brain

  • @roderickpineda5886
    @roderickpineda5886 Год назад +39

    The Filipino men they're describing are mostly educated and come from middle to upper middle class families and usually grow up surrounded by people who tell them to treat women with respect, to be a gentleman, and to be very caring about women because they represent their own Mom or sisters. So when they get to be in their teens or as adults, they tend to be very tactful, shy and dont really know how to be more assertive with women. But That's the minority of Filipino men. Most Filipino men are dominant, and want to show they're "macho" image or masculinity. The one thing I can say that's common among Filipino men is that they're romantic partners. And will go to some lengths to please their woman. But that doesn't mean they'll let their woman take the lead. You'll get mocked by your male friends if you do that. They'll call you "under the saya" which means you're under your wife's skirt and you're just a wimp

    • @rheaalbar831
      @rheaalbar831 Год назад +4

      I agree with your comment

    • @Tal_Yusuf
      @Tal_Yusuf 10 месяцев назад +2

      You do have a point there. Socio-economic background can be a factor. Overall, just like our Latin counterparts, Filipino men are romantics.

    • @skyisdlimit6125
      @skyisdlimit6125 6 месяцев назад

      Thats why women should avoid the “macho” type. They will likely cheat and abuse women more like you see in the news all the time

    • @voccicausm5975
      @voccicausm5975 5 месяцев назад

      Filipinos mostly put women on a pedestal. And when they feel they don't get back the same treatment form women or the women gets tired of the simpy clingy mamas boy nature or which ever comes first, then the relationship drama usually starts. This is coming from a guy with experience and not from those hopeless romantic virgins.

    • @DougMcTitties6969
      @DougMcTitties6969 5 месяцев назад

      True. As an Anthropology student in a University, I do noticed that most males are feminized soyboy cucks in the campus. However there are specific courses where these "feminized" men and enrolled in. But the best information I can give is that most male students from engineering are more masculine and the ones from Tourism are feminized of which I am so sorry and disappointed to see.

  • @Routinewithus-yr8vk
    @Routinewithus-yr8vk Год назад +13

    The Taiwanese lady-educated speaker is easy to understand and elaborates perfectly on the culture Thank you

  • @Abelius
    @Abelius 3 месяца назад +2

    My daughters are going to spend theirs teens there, so I kind of expect them getting involved with Filipino guys.
    This was good info. Thank you so much to take the time to put it together.

  • @berniceyupangco6118
    @berniceyupangco6118 Год назад +112

    As a Filipino-Chinese raised in a Western household married to a traditional Filipino man, I would say that all the comments of these women are spot-on. Reason why I hit it off my with my husband is because he’s not a mama’s boy, my biggest issue with Filipino men. Mama’s boys tend to be extremely clingy, overprotective and literally want a woman who’s more like their mom than a woman who can freely be herself.

    • @Sosa_handles
      @Sosa_handles 10 месяцев назад

      This is the main reason why FILIPINO men in the philippines are having a hard-time to keep a woman because they try to control their women. 😂😂

    • @rl8571
      @rl8571 9 месяцев назад +3

      Matriarchy and father abenteeism. The Philippines is bountiful of single mothers. The ones who grew up with 2 parents present behave differently.

    • @Sosa_handles
      @Sosa_handles 9 месяцев назад

      @@rl8571 frr

    • @berniceyupangco6118
      @berniceyupangco6118 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@rl8571it’s easier to spoil than train a child. Seems like the norm in most Filipino households, regardless if the family is complete or a single family. Most of my nephews on my husband’s side are spoiled to the point that you’ve got a 4yo on a baby bottle and diapers with no medical condition whatsoever.

    • @vanillagrammer6019
      @vanillagrammer6019 7 месяцев назад +1

      I actually prefer the mama‘s boys

  • @xronxronx
    @xronxronx 11 месяцев назад +71

    Most of the Filipino guys commenting are offended by hearing the truth. Being respectful doesn’t mean coddling and being clingy. Give space, be trusting, treat women as equals. Be patient. Not everyone wants to get married as soon as you meet them.

    • @gtaraya
      @gtaraya 9 месяцев назад +5

      filipino guy's view of respect to women is to do her bidding, just like how they treat their moms.

    • @Grayewick
      @Grayewick 8 месяцев назад +10

      "treat women as equals"
      The truth is, women and men can never be perfectly equal. There will always be things that men, on average, can do better than women, vice versa. You can never make things equal with women, and trying to do so is a Sisyphean task. I'm tired of this bullshit western narrative corrupting the East. It's not a matter of Filipino men "being offended", it's simply just because it's wrong. I'm not saying these to defend the extremely emasculated males either, that's a different issue with a different root, even if it's correlated.
      Oh also, men who date to marry in the East definitely still exist, and it's an immense red flag if a woman does not date with the intent to commit. Don't know if that's the case in the west though.

    • @DougMcTitties6969
      @DougMcTitties6969 5 месяцев назад

      I'm a Filipino and a bit offended because they pointed out my observations of the current generation of Filipino men but hey the truth hurts. Its a good thing they enforced my observations and conclusions.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 2 месяца назад +2

      @@gtaraya simps

    • @d3vilmaycry25
      @d3vilmaycry25 Месяц назад

      Offended? I couldn't care less. Why do you think eastern men don't marry western women in general? We're simply generally not compatible or not attracted to. IN FACT, even WESTERN MEN aren't compatible with western women. They only put up with them. That's why there's a growing population of western men going MGTOW or become passport bros.
      Edit: if we're going for Asian men who're attracted to women with white features, it's eastern europeans.

  • @joshuaalfaro6184
    @joshuaalfaro6184 Год назад +66

    9:58 I love this lady. I feel her appreciations and support on Filipino and in the Philippines. I wish more fun and happy staying in the Philippines ❤❤❤🇵🇭

    • @reii8929
      @reii8929 Год назад +1

      Yeah she sounds such a lovely and kind hearted woman right

  • @dericklaurel8865
    @dericklaurel8865 Год назад +208

    Most Filipino men, especially who haven’t been abroad, would love to date a foreigner! But there’s problems like language barrier, perceived as somewhat girly, no backbone and of course: financial constraints!

    • @boiun7038
      @boiun7038 Год назад

      the Ukrainian girl explained it so well, Filipino men are too feminine and girly for western standards, this is because they are too needy, and look less manly compared to western standard aka short no beard and less muscle

    • @basicallytroll2705
      @basicallytroll2705 Год назад +15

      You forgot to add the looks, mentality and 90% are dependent to their parents, like 25 yr old still living with their parents 😂

    • @johnvaliegal6786
      @johnvaliegal6786 Год назад +34

      @@basicallytroll2705 more like their parents are living with them. Most of them have incomes of their own and can separate, but chooses not to because of familial ties or responsibility.

    • @basicallytroll2705
      @basicallytroll2705 Год назад +6

      @johnvaliegal6786 As far as I'm concerned and the survey from poll rate, It's the 25 yr old who is still living with their parents. Stop this BS lies 🤣🤣. The parents own the house and can only afford a house around in the range of 30 to 40 yr old, so stop defending yourselves.

    • @johnvaliegal6786
      @johnvaliegal6786 Год назад +21

      @@basicallytroll2705 username checks out

  • @jayb8369
    @jayb8369 Год назад +20

    Interesting channel you have with interesting perspectives. However, if you take the time to look, there are many RUclips channels with Filipino men in relationships. Men who are married or dating many different foreign women: U.S. Canadian Danish, Brazilian, Japanese, Finnish, Ukrainians, Polish, Italian, Swedish, German, French, Norwegian, Russian, Lithuanian, Polish, Austrian, and the list goes on. Appreciate the directness and honesty of the women interviewed.

    • @unggoytrader
      @unggoytrader Год назад +5

      Dated most of them in your list. US Canadian Brazilian Japanese Ukrainian Russian hindi pa.
      Icelandic, Netherlands, Czech Republic, Spanish , Turkish , British, Belgian. Paki add sa mga na date ko.
      Pero sa tingin ko sa Pinay pa din ako mappa end up hanggang ma dedbol na siguro.

    • @boiun7038
      @boiun7038 Год назад

      Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides, the filipino you see married to foreigners are ofw which is completely different because ofw are more westernized and less feminine

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Год назад

      ​@@unggoytraderAt least nasubukan mo sila tsong! Don't knock it before trying it! 🍻😎

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Год назад +1

      I am far from a "social butterfly" but I personally know DOZENS of Western women who have "gone native" here during their stay in Pinas! Most of them actually tend to be Europeans (especially Russian, French, British and German women)...
      My first foreign woman was French, but I have dated Russian and African women as well. Also had "near misses" with at least two British women in parties.
      I can tell you with confidence I am far from alone in my social circles when it comes to this. Some of my fellow kababayans in my circles have much longer lists when it comes to this than I do. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yiddena
    @yiddena Год назад +40

    Oh my goodness. Philipino men seem great! They are looking for marriage and a commitment and they're family oriented? What's the problem ladies? They sound awesome and that women have hit the jackpot in the Phillipines! Not to mention they're great singers!

    • @DONTcareAnymore000
      @DONTcareAnymore000 Год назад +4

      Don't base it off the race. Based it on the person. There are Filipino husbands who are doting family men and those who are deadbeat bums.

    • @pinoysarisari7374
      @pinoysarisari7374 Год назад +4

      @@DONTcareAnymore000 so how do you explain the reason why Pew REsearch 2019 show that USA and Europe are number 1 in single parent household??....

    • @miketw3068
      @miketw3068 Год назад +10

      Western women are very superficial, not many Filipino men over 6ft with high salaries

    • @moonbear7774
      @moonbear7774 Год назад +4

      They value marriage yes, but a cheating husband is actually very common and many times excused because "a man is a man." Male friends, co-workers, and family members covering up men cheating are very common.
      Most of the household now have both men and women who work but it is still the woman who is expected to do the housework. My female friend is a doctor (and supports the family financially) is still being insulted by her husband because she cannot cook, while the husband is unemployed and barely does anything because they have a helper.
      Filipino men (especially in the provinces) commonly have vices - drinking mostly.
      That is why a lot of filipinas are trapped in these marriages because there is no divorce or they suffer being a solo parent because not all fathers give child support.
      This is not in general of course, but if you live in the philippines long enough, you will see the reality.

    • @pinoysarisari7374
      @pinoysarisari7374 Год назад

      @@moonbear7774 Nice Joke... so explain to me why the 2019 Pew Research reveal that USA and Europe have the highest number of Single parent household??.... Explain to me why there are more Single Mothers in USA than anywhere in the world??

  • @dangerlovesong6932
    @dangerlovesong6932 Год назад +18

    These respondents are so insightful they tick all the boxes of things i wanted to say and more so shout-out to all of them! ♥️

  • @dellcruz2818
    @dellcruz2818 Год назад +9

    my cousin a filipino married a Mexican girl.. in 1986.. to this day..they are still married..
    TRUE.. filipino guys are family oriented.. as we all know there is no Divorce in the philippines..for better or for worse as much as possible they stick together

  • @Ludawig
    @Ludawig Год назад +13

    Off topic but im a Filipino American and this vid made me miss BGC, I visited last summer and was amazed at the city because it was definitely not there when I visited as a child 😂

  • @rhodlionheart219
    @rhodlionheart219 Год назад +9

    New Friend , Proud to be a Filipino here❤❤🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @nzotaylor8755
    @nzotaylor8755 Год назад +37

    Great content. Such rich topic has not been talked about too much in this country. Like any other guy in the world, regardless of nationality, we Filipino men value loyalty, commitment, trust, and appreciation from our partners :)

    • @CesarS..s036
      @CesarS..s036 Год назад +1

      I wish the person I was talking few weeks ago had appreciated all the loyalty I tried to show him eventhoug I am on the other part of the planet.

  • @ironmangx-1969
    @ironmangx-1969 Год назад +10

    I married a Filipina, She's so loving and caring all the time. By the way, I'm a Filipino.

  • @SimplyAriel-j7w
    @SimplyAriel-j7w Год назад +71

    It'd not a girly or shy type..were aggressive in different way.. Were just being RESPECTFULL towards opposite sex... A natural traits of us being a Filipino "Maginoo at may pagka bastos din minsan"...😂💪

    • @javapua
      @javapua Год назад +5

      But mostly MAGINOO kaya i-flex mo lang yan.
      I'm just thinking, if you're one of those tall, dark and handsome guy that every girl dreams of, what if you're dating that Brazilian girl and she wanna make out on your first date, what are you gonna do? Go for it or make some excuses? Will u be MAGINOO or 😁?

    • @hua_tetsu_cat
      @hua_tetsu_cat Год назад

      Foreign women are more open to sex than Filipina women. Sex first then you can become maginoo later they won't like acting bastos

    • @shindenxxxx
      @shindenxxxx Год назад +6

      ​@@javapuaIn my experience, what I did is I rejected girls offer for one night stand.
      I only offer my services to a potential partner or if I'm in a relationship with someone.
      I know sometimes it is tempting to give in but self control is stronger and there's no way you'll get a free taste if you're not my girlfriend or spouse.

    • @nmbnmbnmb
      @nmbnmbnmb Год назад +4

      This is one of the things I LOVE about Filipinos.

    • @javapua
      @javapua Год назад +3

      @@shindenxxxx wow! You actually were offered extra services! You must be good looking 😄. It's a shame you couldn't return the flavor😋, este, uhm I mean, the favor.

  • @josemikhael378
    @josemikhael378 Год назад +119

    As a Filipino Guy , If I meet a foreigner lady that is AFRAID OF COMMITMENTS then that would be a very BIG RED FLAG for me coz basically I would not by all means waste my time and resources in dating a woman (foreigner or not) of which I would already know the ending of it because that woman does not want to commit to a serious relationship....My wife was my friend for 6 months, then I courted her and became my Girlfriend for almost 12 years before we got married....Many of us Filipinos (but not all of course) when we become interested in a lady we are serious about it most of the time and it would be a great courtesy for a lady to be Upfront at the very start and tell the man that She is not into commitments to avoid wasting the time (and resources) of the Filipino man courting her, cheers :D

    • @StickyKeys187
      @StickyKeys187 Год назад +32

      The one-night stand culture is more common in the West so commitment-wise yes it's pretty sketchy to date a foreign woman if you're a traditional man.

    • @christianpaulacosta612
      @christianpaulacosta612 Год назад +1

      @@StickyKeys187 yeah

    • @spongeboob1451
      @spongeboob1451 Год назад

      Punch her in the gonads

    • @IamHandsome4u
      @IamHandsome4u Год назад

      Dont date a foreigner for marriage, use them only for seggs.

    • @Yessshhhhh026
      @Yessshhhhh026 Год назад +10

      True kuya! Raise that flag! Hahah. Filipino girl here, i feel it for the filipino men out there in this content. SSHHEESSH. (Its all about the circumstances)

  • @MiguelAngelGarcia-ht4kr
    @MiguelAngelGarcia-ht4kr Год назад +25

    believe me if a foreign woman got Filipino man they will change their point of view about Filipino man.
    my Pakistani gf so much in love with me because she feel respected and treat good very well

    • @XavierZahn
      @XavierZahn Год назад +3

      Interested to know how you two met? Are you also a Filipino guy?

    • @MeniMass
      @MeniMass 3 дня назад

      ​@@XavierZahnhe is lying
      Pakistanis are Muslims

    • @BillMice
      @BillMice 3 дня назад

      I have never seen a Pakistani woman even walk around in the Philippines. Those people are Muslims. Their women do not even date white men or even date in general. Pre marital sex means automatic attacks in their culture. We have tons in the UK. I have seen white females with Pakistanis though in the UK like Princess Diana types.

    • @MichaelWadhwania
      @MichaelWadhwania 3 дня назад

      Really? Pakistani women are Muslims and it's not common for them to date at all especially non Muslims. I have never seen a Pakistani woman with a British white man despite millions in the UK. I have seen British white women with Pakistani men but they had to convert too.

    • @AshWadhwa-r6n
      @AshWadhwa-r6n 3 дня назад

      ​@@XavierZahnI honestly never see Pakistani women with foreign men. Even in foreign raised countries like the UK and Norway, you'll never find a Pakistani woman with a local man there. You'll find local women with Pakistani men though like Princess Diana was but even they have to be Muslims when it's time for marriage.

  • @MrEmpireBuilder0000
    @MrEmpireBuilder0000 Месяц назад +2

    I see a lot of couples that do well.
    So don't be discouraged.
    There are a lot of nice Filipinos. Just get to know them well. Never run into something real fast.
    Just let it grow.

  • @fruitloops3718
    @fruitloops3718 Год назад +9

    I have several philippino friends that are men. I like them a lot and consider them to be loyal and courteous friends. I wouldn't want to be the one to make them angry.

  • @Rolsport44
    @Rolsport44 Год назад +1

    Appreciate taking the time for this content!

  • @wrap-commander
    @wrap-commander Год назад +14

    I am happy being a Filipino.

  • @ericrollings
    @ericrollings 5 месяцев назад +1

    Many American men flock to the Philippines because of the way Filipinas treat their men. It’s good to hear Filipino men are good to their women!
    There’s good and not so good in every culture, but as a whole Filipino culture raises good people.

  • @jackastor8357
    @jackastor8357 3 месяца назад +4

    I've been to my Canadian wife for 20 years and never had a fight about our relationship.

  • @richiea.9187
    @richiea.9187 Год назад +10

    I’m Filipino and happily married to Indonesian American for 14 with 2kids. Filipino men shy and girly 😂 I never really met one. My Uncles are bunch of play boys. My Dad’s brother have 4 wives all at the same time. I had friends that just came from Philippines and would pull games at the clubs.

    • @selfpity8674
      @selfpity8674 3 месяца назад

      Not something to flex tho

    • @DONTcareAnymore000
      @DONTcareAnymore000 2 месяца назад +1

      Not worth bragging. Nothing masculine about being a playboy. Imagine your daughter would see that. Have you think of setting as the better example compared to your father and uncles? Your foreign wife sees that too? No wonder some of these women have a low opinion

  • @ValBoon997
    @ValBoon997 Год назад +57

    As a filipino I can confirm what they told about us is true. All of it. But for me I won't treat them a housewife all the time. They can do whatever they want like, have a job and be independent. They can have job for them to be also a successful. I will respect their decision. As long as they won't cheat on you when you're married then there's no problem.
    To my fellow filipinos out there, if you wanted to date and have a foreign wife, listen to them. Do not just stick to our own culture. We also need to blend in.

    • @midulfinger1478
      @midulfinger1478 Год назад +1

      In a word,compromise

    • @Vergil20000
      @Vergil20000 Год назад +8

      Most Filipino do not treat women like a housewife. Most women just want to be a housewife and that's just it even though we Filipino's give them freedom to do whatever they want.

    • @ValBoon997
      @ValBoon997 Год назад +1

      @@Vergil20000 Women who wanted to be full time housewife are only applied to those women who are conservative(Most likely). Liberated women doesn't want to be treated that way.

    • @midulfinger1478
      @midulfinger1478 Год назад +1

      @@Vergil20000 most accurate comment

    • @user-jy3vb5jt6h
      @user-jy3vb5jt6h Год назад

      Women in the Philippines prefers to be housewife tho

  • @skYt9139
    @skYt9139 Год назад +9

    About the Brazilian girl, looking good in Brazil is such a competitive thing. I remember Daiana Menezes once said that her face in Brazil is a normal face, and she probably wouldn't stand out. But she's such an attractive lady here. And usually Brazilians here in the Philippines have jobs as commercial or runway models.

    • @molelensegi
      @molelensegi Год назад +4

      her face is just typical

    • @pinoysarisari7374
      @pinoysarisari7374 Год назад

      Brazil standard of Handsomeness is good body built and Thick Beards...they look like Tikbalangs..... Give that Brazilian woman a Dose of Korean Pop Boy bands, and I am sure she will change her standards.....LOL

    • @awakenedsoul2638
      @awakenedsoul2638 Год назад

      @@molelensegi
      Who Menezes face or that Brazilian who called Filpino Men's faces looks girly and feminine?

    • @molelensegi
      @molelensegi Год назад

      @@awakenedsoul2638 Daiana

  • @Mickeyyy0909
    @Mickeyyy0909 Год назад +24

    I love your street/mall interviews here in the philippines. I suggest u to do foreign interviews in greenbelt malls or rockwell in makati or in poblacion at night and ofcourse in the island beaches of the philippines. Looking forward to more interviewing foriegners in the ph. Good luck rob. Take care.

  • @justanobserver2706
    @justanobserver2706 Год назад +11

    There are a lot of feminine & queer guys in BGC area so i could definitely relate to that Brazilian woman.

  • @balongride3169
    @balongride3169 Год назад +21

    I really love the Taiwanese girl especially the way how she talks 👏🤗💕

    • @9Blackcat
      @9Blackcat Год назад +4

      She’s a bit popular in thr Phils , I don’t know if she’s really taiwanese or just living in Taiwan.

    • @Hiprockdiva1
      @Hiprockdiva1 Год назад +3

      ​@@9Blackcat I think she's originally from Taiwan but grew up here and yes she is a popular RUclipsr

    • @ronsabsalon3670
      @ronsabsalon3670 Год назад +2

      She’s Winnie Wong! She vlogs, too. 😊

    • @Hiprockdiva1
      @Hiprockdiva1 Год назад

      @@9Blackcat Taiwanese but grew up here

    • @Hiprockdiva1
      @Hiprockdiva1 Год назад

      @@ronsabsalon3670 yes

  • @RommelRamirez
    @RommelRamirez Год назад +9

    we filipinos is not straight forward when we are meeting someone that we totally dont know, were humble filipino guys, even if we know the girl, humbleness still runs in our blood (normal filipino guy) but if you want straight forward filipinos, we can be that too, its in favor for us because it will cut time and effort, and money too.

  • @renelleeverett512
    @renelleeverett512 Год назад +23

    my husband is filipino

  • @mrrjh5609
    @mrrjh5609 7 месяцев назад +2

    This would be heaven for Traditional Men! “Family Oriented”!

  • @pinoyislander4400
    @pinoyislander4400 Год назад +67

    The girls who had been interviewed had said thier experiences maybe here in the Philippines, but i would say the Ukrainian her last words is the best, the asian girl also said correct. The brazilian girl is more on western mind set. As filipino we like commitment and want to have nice family.

    • @debraglows
      @debraglows Год назад +3

      Understood, but if filipino really like commitment and want to have nice family i wonder why too many filipinas that are single moms in ph and abroad working their asses of to provide for their family and babies growing up with no father and having broken families in Philippines. Why too much filipino guys leave their kids and wives for another woman and once he impregnate the other woman, he move to the next and the next… if we are really wanting commitment and having nice family, why filipinos have so much broken families and single moms

    • @pinoyislander4400
      @pinoyislander4400 Год назад +6

      @@debraglows This is my opinion as a filipino. Broken families can be
      1. Due to poeverty. Filipino men are allowed by the catholic church to jave more kids and family planning is not allowed also by catholic church. Empty stomach can cause separation either the men work abroad or the women find another men to support her.
      2. Filipinos men think when they have more kids its an image of being Macho.
      3. The catholic church doesnt allow family planning and doesnt allow divorce equals broken families.
      4. Even in Europe Sweden has the highest number of divorce followed by other european countries.
      5. I have lived in germany since 1993 maybe you were not born that year. Germany has lots of divorces as well. But the government takes care of thier low income citizens.
      6. I can explain more but what is happening in the Phillippine marriage is happening as well in many countries.
      7. Online searchers for partners can be a cause as well of separations....and so on and so fort.
      8. Unfortunaley men (women) dont have satisfaction in this world. Men continue in search for life, a true life. Lives can only be good, can only be better single or not ONCE They have Jesus in thier Lives. Jesus predicted the kind of life we have on earth being away from Him....like Homosexuality it is mention in old testament the Sodom and Gomorah where sex for men is just like a toy. Life is amazing if they have the Life Giver in thier Lives. Welcome to the Philippines🙂🇵🇭🌹🏝️👍

    • @user-jy3vb5jt6h
      @user-jy3vb5jt6h Год назад +2

      @@debraglows its not only filipino men's fault lol stop being one sided, you think all that filipino single mom's are casually left by filipino partner for no reason? Very one sided

    • @Arcad1010
      @Arcad1010 Год назад

      @@user-jy3vb5jt6h😂👍

    • @jamescameron7645
      @jamescameron7645 Год назад

      @@user-jy3vb5jt6h You hit the nail on the right spot friend. The Filipinas commitment during the honeymoon phase is very fake. They always blame men for all the failures. The woman is also have a part in it.
      Licensed professional counselor Lexie Lee explains that the real difference between deep love and infatuation is that the state of being “in love” can’t survive a difficult patch or the realities of life. “Infatuation is focused on the facade we want to project to the world,” she says. “When you move from ‘in love’ to ‘love,’ a deepening intimacy has occurred. You have to be vulnerable and share who you are on a deeper level. You feel safe to be yourself.”

  • @changemymind8692
    @changemymind8692 Год назад +12

    It all comes down to where is the Filipino was born and raised. Filipinos here in the Philippines will treat their foreign girlfriends like gold the same way the females treat their foreigners boyfriends. If you go to the states Filipinos are no different than any other American. But I think it's way harder for Filipino men in the Philippines to hook up with foreign females they would consider attractive. The country pretty much thrives off of their females hooking up with foreign men.

  • @14Jondaime
    @14Jondaime Год назад +36

    The idea that family or parents needs approval with regards to having relationship is only prevalent for the wealthy but for the common families that is not an issue.

    • @mavrickhentsibayan395
      @mavrickhentsibayan395 Год назад +9

      I tell you, even the poorest Filipino family has that culture. If the parents do not like the guy or the girl, you will forever have that friction with the family hahahah

    • @daytay66.22.3
      @daytay66.22.3 Год назад

      Agree 👍💯

    • @ggZuper
      @ggZuper Год назад +1

      not really.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 Год назад

      100% agree with Ark Ace

    • @nojiedirkksatrucker4259
      @nojiedirkksatrucker4259 Год назад +1

      ​@@mavrickhentsibayan395and that's what we call toxicity=drama😆😆

  • @ronnieevan7861
    @ronnieevan7861 8 месяцев назад +2

    The Taiwanese lady is very well spoken..
    The Brazilian girl kinda contradicted herself - she said in Brazil, they can be clear and direct in their expectations but in Philippines, her last filipino boyfriends were always looking for marriage and serious commitment.. so why have them as your bf in the first place? You could’ve asked them the expectations in the beginning and just look for guys for fun then 🙄

  • @unggoytrader
    @unggoytrader Год назад +8

    Listen guys, majority of women are hypergamous. Meaning they will only date up and along the same socio economic level.
    You will never see a woman lawyer or CEO of a company date a starbucks barista ( no disrespect)
    She will be looking for some one higher than her.
    Whereas us guys will have no problem dating down as long as she is fit fun feminine and will not give is headache all the time.
    So guys level up.
    Make your bank happy, go to the gym and learn to be sociable.
    That way you level up as much as possible and you will have a wider choice of women instead of thinking in a scarcity mindset.
    If a woman you are dating does not comply to your frame ( frame is your preferences) then let go.
    #dothework
    #chaseexcellence
    You got this big man 👍 🏋️‍♀️ 💪 ❤

  • @theodelbalaba9870
    @theodelbalaba9870 Год назад +19

    We Filipinos don't mind dating foreign girls it's just depend if the girl appreciate what Filipino men can give or what they have. Because sometimes it's about the standards of a Filipino men if his rich then its no problem. But for Filipino men who is not rich, it's just kinda like you ar lucky to find foreign girls who appreciate what you have and what can you offer.

    • @incognitoone
      @incognitoone Год назад

      Filipino ako. Youdon't know what you're talking about! What you're saying is BS!!!

  • @avjam
    @avjam 10 месяцев назад +5

    So accurate when the lady said Filipino men can easily be used. Over and over and over again sadly.

  • @lostworld8781
    @lostworld8781 2 месяца назад +1

    Once dated a Venezuelan, rocked my world

  • @thecatholicway8797
    @thecatholicway8797 Год назад +10

    The same reason why western men prefer filipinas is that the women here are generally more feminine and traditional and Filipino men are used to that. They are not used to western women who are generally not traditional and a lot more liberated, but they treat them the same way as filipinas thinking these western women will like it.
    Those who want commitment might want that, but the ones used to casual hook-ups are turned off by that 😅

    • @jaysvlogs8199
      @jaysvlogs8199 Год назад +1

      You are correct sir

    • @NoName-dq3qb
      @NoName-dq3qb 10 месяцев назад

      Took the words right out my man these women are just masculine af lol gross

  • @ManduRugas-oe4kv
    @ManduRugas-oe4kv Год назад +23

    Interesting that the first Miss Universe, Armi Kousuela of Finland, married a filipino, Gil Hilario.

    • @janvagabond985
      @janvagabond985 Год назад +3

      Yup

    • @cookiemurph8532
      @cookiemurph8532 Год назад +4

      Even the first Miss International Stella Marquez from Colombia, married to Jorge Araneta.

    • @Misaki11111
      @Misaki11111 Год назад +1

      So what? Nobody cares.

    • @marianrivera9482
      @marianrivera9482 Год назад +4

      ​@@Misaki11111 your left behind? Hate your self not the world ! Bruh!

    • @anime_Gibli
      @anime_Gibli Год назад +2

      ​@Misaki11111, this lunatic is literally everywhere in the comment section

  • @ronaldv43
    @ronaldv43 8 месяцев назад +4

    Would be wonderful if you had interviewed more

  • @saymyname6726
    @saymyname6726 Год назад +51

    I'm a filipino guy. I've argued with my dad about this topic for several times and he just doesn't believe me. The ratio of foreigners dating filipinos are 9/10 foreigner men to filipinas and 1/10 filipinos dating foreigner women. Even most filipinas would rather date foreigners or what they call (AFAM) rather than entertaining a possible filipino boyfriend.

    • @Hiprockdiva1
      @Hiprockdiva1 Год назад

      Agree bro

    • @royalgem6379
      @royalgem6379 Год назад +24

      @@Hiprockdiva1 Most Filipinas? You're exaggerating! Most Filipinas would still prefer their own kin especially the better ones!

    • @anikin4448
      @anikin4448 Год назад

      ​@@royalgem6379 stop the 🧢. These days teenage girls or in early 20s would rather date a foreigners in their 50s & 60s caused most of them are gold diggers, woke and. Influenced by western countries

    • @khust2993
      @khust2993 Год назад +9

      most? now that's a stretch.

    • @spongeboob1451
      @spongeboob1451 Год назад +5

      Uhuh? Keep your copium to urself mah boi

  • @cannyeyes382
    @cannyeyes382 Год назад +7

    Dude! Need part 2

  • @thenattygorilla
    @thenattygorilla Год назад +115

    As a Filipino guy, I definitely understand what those foreign girls were saying... I've met and seen a lot of foreign girls who are willing to date us, but it rarely happens because of the reasons they gave in this video. It's painful to hear, but true nonetheless. That being said, there are still Filipino (and Asian) guys out there who do well with white women. I think it's just the mismatch in culture and social dynamics that turns white (and foreign) girls off in most cases.
    And I think the main reason why there are WAY more Filipinas with foreign guys than there are Filipinos with foreign girls is because Filipino culture is matriarchal, so masculinity is pretty sparse in our upbringing as men. When the girls in the video started talking about how Filipino men were "feminine" I immediately knew what they were talking about. Being "feminized" as a man doesn't just mean acting like Vice Ganda or something like that. There's a masculine energy that you exude which comes out in the way you act and conduct yourself. They'll see it in the small things you do, the way you express yourself, your mannerisms, your values and so many other things... Women can definitely perceive all of that.
    I can only hope the next generation of Filipino guys become aware these flaws in our culture and upbringing and end them.

    • @nmbnmbnmb
      @nmbnmbnmb Год назад +1

      She said feminine as in baby face and no facial hair. Typical East Asian features. If Jason Momoa had the Filipino boyfriend character and personality, they’d be gushing about how he’s such a gentleman and would make the perfect husband. Filipinos are great. Western masculinity is toxic.

    • @keimugiwara3952
      @keimugiwara3952 Год назад +43

      Philippines is a matriarchal country??? This is the first time that I've heard that. 😂

    • @theprettygoodgatsby
      @theprettygoodgatsby Год назад +15

      I wouldnt say that our filipino men's "femininity" should be called weak. I think part of the issue is that for most other places that, unfortunately, it isn't perceived as a "desirable" characteristic in men compared to someone perceived as more "masculine" :/
      I think the ability to see the value(and perhaps the disadvantages) in both sides and to be able to discern which "side" can be applicable in certain situations can help a person become more well-rounded. Why cant a person be both anyways? But anyways, this issue feels like smth that needs a more lengthened and thoughtful discussion that, i, am too brain-dead rn to engage in 😂

    • @markmiller6111
      @markmiller6111 Год назад

      Lol cope. Look at Hollywood. You see asian females fetishised but asian men made into gays or jokes. Prior to 2015 every asian guy was asexual. Mr chow in hungover, will hung from American idol, Jet li who couldn’t kiss a girl on camera.
      Asian men on dating apps have the lowest match rate by every race. Meanwhile asian girls have the highest.
      Nothing to do with culture. Women will say anything to justify what they feel.

    • @Iseehowitis009
      @Iseehowitis009 Год назад +16

      Actually its because asian culture in general lacks that open dating dynamics. Most of us asian, men specifically are very rooted to our culture and custom that dating or sex before marriage is looked as taboo. This is the reason why most asian men lacks that 'game' when it comes to approaching women because there's little to no experience and most asian men in general don't have that 'smooth talk' because it's never been developed like I said. Most tourists gets the local women because they come with all the boxes checked on how to's and whatnot because western society specifically is more open about dating and sex and they're direct with their approach. Most asian men in general would never make the move because it comes back to the cultural appropriateness again. I know this for a fact because I'm indian and majority of the guys out here are just as described above and it would take a very patient and caring women to actually want to take their time out to fall in love with a local guy.

  • @jullx6k
    @jullx6k Год назад +17

    Oh Winnie Wong her bf is Filipino and they already have baby. I think she's the sister in law of Direk Paul hubby of Toni Gonzaga. 😅

  • @orlandodizon4755
    @orlandodizon4755 Год назад +62

    As a Filipino guy, I’d be open to dating SE Asian women who are conservative and family-oriented like many Filipinas I know. I also find Indian women and Latinas beautiful. Modern Western women never appealed to me. I also know that not a lot of Western women like Asian guys. Many Asian guys from Western countries go back to their origin countries to look for spouses. Even Western guys are looking outside their countries for wives. There are too many red flags, especially from those Western and local women who engaged in hook-up culture. I don’t think many Filipinos will want serious relationships with women who have been with many men.

    • @foodtrips8223
      @foodtrips8223 Год назад +5

      Western women is just for fun

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Год назад +9

      Actually, Western women with Pinoy partners here in Pinas are NOT as rare as they were 15-20 years ago (and I actually personally know DOZENS of Western women who have "gone native" at some point during their stay here). Just because for instance American women don't date/hook up with Pinoy men much does NOT mean Western women of other nationalities aren't willing to try it.
      Most Western women I have come across in real life (both randomly and among people in my various social circles) who have gotten themselves Pinoy partners here in Pinas are actually European women (particularly Russian, French, British and German ones). But I admit, it often tends to be much easier to meet foreign women in beach resort town settings (think Boracay, El Nido, Siargao and their ilk) than in a big city like Metro Manila (where you have to know the "right circles" to gain access to them)!

    • @orlandodizon4755
      @orlandodizon4755 Год назад +9

      @@mrconfusion87 Yes, I've heard about European women who married Filipino guys. Many of those women came from countries in Eastern Europe (Poland, Ukraine, etc.), that are relatively traditional and in sync with our family-oriented culture. It helps that they are usually fit, friendly, and feminine, like many Filipinas are. Some look like models. What’s not to like? But in my circle, Filipino guys usually go for Filipinas, and vice-versa. My Filipino guy peers married in our twenties to local girls. No chance to get seriously involved with foreign girls even when they were assigned or have migrated to other countries. They can be considered as the top 1% in our country. The richest and most good-looking of us was engaged right out of college to a similarly attractive, not as wealthy Filipina. She pursued him. They are doing great. The good ones are taken out of the dating pool early. Some of my friends hooked up with local models when they were younger and broke but chose to marry traditional Filipinas later. A couple of my friends who were assigned abroad were popular with foreign girls. The girls they hooked up with were mostly Asian and some East European. One considered marrying a Lebanese woman but chose a Filipina girlfriend in the end. He also told me had good working relations with East European women and men because of similar cultures and attitudes. The two Filipinas I personally know who engaged in some hook-ups married traditional Filipino guys in the US. I doubt if the husbands know of their past. Those women are now traditional wives who defer to their spouses and are proud of it. One has a Master’s degree in a STEM field but chose to be a housewife. The traditional Filipinas I personally know who married foreign guys in the US outright are the ones who were considered wallflowers in high school. They were nice and friendly, but the competition for guys was fierce. Almost all the guys, including nerds and socially awkward ones, in our social circle have married and stayed married. On the other hand, we have a lot of single ladies who still want Filipino guys even if they have much better chances with foreign guys. One career woman married down, financially speaking, to an American bum. She bought her own engagement ring and paid for the wedding herself. She runs the house. She seems toxic, and no guy in our circle wanted her even if she’s probably a top-percenter in the US and is not bad-looking even to Filipino guys. I’ve read that Filipino guys were also reportedly popular with American women during the 1900s in California. Some of them were discriminated against and mobbed by local guys because of jealousy. That’s written in Fil-American history journals. The Western women I’m referring to in my previous comment are the modern women who are the "boss babes/ultra-feminists" who think men should serve them because they exist and that it’s ok to hook up with many men. They are usually from the USA, the UK, a large part of Europe, and, anecdotally, Australia. We also have those in the Philippines, but not as prevalent, and you can spot them miles away. No self-respecting Filipino will want a delusional girl with a high body count. You are right. There are also American/European women who married Filipinos. Many of those women have stayed in-country for a bit. Some are children of missionaries and appreciate the local culture. They also married in their 20's and probably didn’t have time to be ruined by the Western hook-up culture and feminism. There were lots of missionary families here two-three decades ago, Western women marrying Filipinos happens, but not nearly as often as Western men to Filipinas. Western women also generally look down on Asian men. You can see many stereotypes against Asian men coming from Western women in the mainstream and social media. Why bother? Chinese (mainland), Korean, and Japanese women are also attractive to many Filipinos, aesthetics-wise, but the culture seems a bit different. I personally don’t like women who are materialistic, have cosmetic surgeries, and wear lots of makeup. I see lots of ordinary Filipinas who do not need much help to be attractive. The ones I interact with daily usually have great personalities as well. They probably can get foreign men if they want to. I think that applies to many SE Asian women, too. I plan to travel around the region next year.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Год назад +1

      @@orlandodizon4755 Thanks for clarifying what you meant by "Western women"... I knew it couldn't mean "all white women" by any stretch of the imagination, as even amongst "whites" there are a huge amount of differences among them! Btw, I was speaking as a mid-30s Pinoy yuppie in the Philippines that lives in the city but travels around the country for fun who has pretty diverse social circles despite not being a "social butterfly" - though I admit a large chunk of my friends in my various social circles prolly aren't exactly what people would describe as "square" in terms of personality, and tend to have strong artistic/creative/bohemian tendencies... 😊

    • @richardace4029
      @richardace4029 Год назад

      BINNGO! And to correct the video, Western women are not independent they only say that when the idea of them having to cater to a man gets brought up. But in reality they are more known to be gold-diggers, and gold-diggers are not independent they are bums!

  • @Milliardo5
    @Milliardo5 Год назад +4

    Foreign women especially American women who are looking for a traditional man will have a culture shock here in the Philippines. The biggest culture shock would be the close family ties we have. It's not uncommon here for children to still live near their parents or even with their parents as adults. American women might be surprised by this, as many of them think that adults should be independent. That's not how things work here in the Philippines. We value family very much. It's not uncommon then to take care of our family especially when our parents are elderly. Often it's either they move in with the children or the children stay to support the parents. Again it is what it is here, and if a Filipino guy has an American girlfriend he might want to have sit down and talk with her or explain to her what she's seeing if she visits.

  • @beelzebub3676
    @beelzebub3676 Год назад +23

    I (german) am in a relationship with a philipina girl. I met this people and their culture during my working contracts on a cruiser. They are Very good seamans btw. One thing i learned: the advandige of interracial relationship is that the partners often dont understand each other 100% by terms of ther native language, which makes you and your Partner kind of immune against marytess/ marytoss (gossip). Also what i learned: white people are one of the most wanted Partners but they are also most difigulcts ones regarding their behaivor because they are Very selfish and arrogant. Social media is not Very good for all of us btw

    • @krishyyfan5153
      @krishyyfan5153 Год назад

      Western men are only getting the low quality Ugly asian woman and the low class women desperate for money.... Most western men can't even differentiate what is ugly and beautiful asian face...they are afflicted with the psychological phenomenon of 'Cross Race effect'.... Second, Korean pop culture dominate the country... Asian men is the favorite of philippine women and many Expats vlog don't even want to mention about this....

  • @DindoSomido1212
    @DindoSomido1212 Год назад +7

    open minded and not to be judgemental is the key .... my advise to the brazillian girl

    • @Hiprockdiva1
      @Hiprockdiva1 Год назад +2

      I think she had bad experiences and haven't met the good ones

    • @alexlilano1931
      @alexlilano1931 Месяц назад

      Nobody wants to be with someone who looks down on them. She wont find any good guys if she acts that way.

  • @vandaily1938
    @vandaily1938 Год назад +68

    as a Filipino. we highly respect women and marriage here.

    • @JojieCerteza
      @JojieCerteza Год назад +9

      yeah, but we also have a lot of out wedlock babies. My cousin has 5 FIRST BORNS!!! to this day still not married.

    • @stuka80
      @stuka80 Год назад +4

      Philippines has the highest rate of children out of wedlock in SE/East Asia i think.

    • @carlloren5499
      @carlloren5499 11 месяцев назад +5

      Cant speak for everybody but not all filipino men are respectful towards women

    • @MONEYTOPG
      @MONEYTOPG 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@carlloren5499and same with Western world.

    • @lyndenmanning
      @lyndenmanning 8 месяцев назад

      Then why are there so many single mothers and women going to woman's desk 😜

  • @jitlv
    @jitlv 7 месяцев назад +5

    Meanwhile, as a Filipino guy like me here in San Diego USA dating a Ukrainian woman as well lol.

    • @kristinhannah001
      @kristinhannah001 4 месяца назад

      Whille men in the PH prefer filipinas
      the ones who f* around with foreign women are the Fil-Westerners.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 2 месяца назад

      You forgot the local beach boys in Palawan, Boracay, El Nido, Moalboal, La Union and other similar places...

  • @JohnnyTheBlackout
    @JohnnyTheBlackout Год назад +4

    this video gave me confidence that filipino like me can date female foreigners

  • @thortremble2794
    @thortremble2794 Год назад +3

    I was excited for the video idea when I saw the title but you only asked two women mainly & one small clip of another woman at the end which is not enough. I wish you asked like 10 & compiled them all in 1 video. Love the video though.

  • @All_you_need_is_love2018
    @All_you_need_is_love2018 11 месяцев назад +7

    It boils down to economics. Filipino women who date foreign men, specifically western men, generally come from lower economic class. Dating a western man is a way for them to move up the economic/social class. Its the same reason why many eastern European women are attracted to western men. They are interested in having a better life for themselves and western men are perceived to be better off financially than eastern European men or men from other third world countries like the Philippines.
    At the same token, western women would only be attracted to a Filipino man if this man is financially successful by western standards. I don't disagree that there could also be other factors. However, the economic factor plays a very big part. It's the same reason why successful older men seem to attract very good looking younger women all over the world!
    If you come to the U.S., where I'm from, you'll see a lot of multi-racial couples, Asian men dating white women is not uncommon. For example, I'm Filipino-American and my wife is white.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 5 месяцев назад

      Regarding the second paragraph, it is quite true too in the PH cities! But in the beach areas like Palawan, Boracay, Siargao and the like, I notice a lot of the local beach boys who pull Western women aren't exactly the most attractive and also not exactly loaded as far as cash is concerned...

  • @enricolegados8386
    @enricolegados8386 Год назад +10

    I'm a Filipino and live here in Brazil for over 2 decade's, lots of eastern female married to a Filipino.

  • @MyPigletFarts
    @MyPigletFarts Год назад +4

    As a filipino American born and raised here in California, i prefer straight forward. No reasom to beat around the bush chasing a girl.

  • @charlesdiputado28
    @charlesdiputado28 Год назад +9

    I think in this content, more Filipino men are amused to see a tourist and expat women/girls being interviewed then planning to court and flatter some of them anywhere😍😍😍

  • @winniewong
    @winniewong Год назад +3

    Hi Rob!

  • @Danallmixtv8239
    @Danallmixtv8239 Год назад +2

    Im filipino and if you look a good heart to love and care to understand and to have a happy family..im waiting for someone that God give me🥰

  • @incognitoone
    @incognitoone Год назад +92

    Girly? lol. Westerners have always misunderstood this about us. Not just approaching women. We've also been called "subservient" until they find out we're not. lol. It's a cultural thing. We're not as agressive as western men when it comes to women. We tend to e very careful in our approach to women, which makes it easy to to call us "girly"...until they find out we're not. lol.

    • @Misaki11111
      @Misaki11111 Год назад +10

      What you're describing is being shy, not girly. Many filipinos definitely act girly. Ever heard others say "bakla ba yan?" Many guys take selfies all day, mga pa cute. Yung iba mga pabebe. Mga pa fall. Yung tipong kaka kilala pa lng sa girl, pag hindi agad na replayan, kukulitin ung girl hanggang mag reply. Those are girly traits. Pag may nakikilala akong ganyan nilalayuan ko, nababaklaan ako.

    • @incognitoone
      @incognitoone Год назад +31

      @@Misaki11111 you're probably talking about teenagers or high school boys., or even early 20 somethings, or just not the right kind of boys. haha If guys still act pa-cute in their late 20's or early thirties, I assure you they'd be getting flak, not just ffrom women / girls but men peers as well. lol

    • @morningstar4867
      @morningstar4867 Год назад

      Girly means how asians look. Just look at those KPop. You cannot differentiate a man from woman base solely on their faces. I see them as Lesbians because they look like little girls. The influence of Kpop is becoming rampant in the Philippines. Some of these boys are like little girls unlike western men they know how to act like a real man.

    • @binaurallegends8229
      @binaurallegends8229 Год назад +11

      @@Misaki11111 Boba spotted HAHAHAHA Be quiet na lang po

    • @anime_Gibli
      @anime_Gibli Год назад +1

      ​@@binaurallegends8229hahhaah wag mo naman ehh pranka

  • @SheNotes
    @SheNotes Год назад +2

    The woman who introduced herself as from Taiwan is actually Winnie Wong and a youtuber herself

  • @evaristods8747
    @evaristods8747 Год назад +6

    How can anyone have enjoyed Sir. When you have interviewed a very limited number for additional data regarding Filipino men.

  • @noele.a.calucin7724
    @noele.a.calucin7724 4 месяца назад

    Rob, your interviews are at its best. Keep it up & going.

  • @seddasa
    @seddasa Год назад +9

    when a filipino love a woman, it will last a lifetime ... they will treat you like a queen ...his salary as a husband wil be given to you to manage the finances, so you better know how to handle money .

  • @evaristods8747
    @evaristods8747 7 месяцев назад +1

    Problem with most of these social surveys is that they end up with only 3 or 4 subjects and you don't get the general picture actually to form an opinion for yourself.

  • @random88667
    @random88667 11 месяцев назад +3

    You should post more videosss broo i'll keep on supporting you!!

  • @redone4691
    @redone4691 6 месяцев назад +6

    My dream is to marry a Filipino or Indonesian man. They are hardworking.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 5 месяцев назад

      Where you from btw? Am curious. Tnx

    • @redone4691
      @redone4691 4 месяца назад

      @@mrconfusion87 I am from Malaysia.

    • @YasirKayani-z1s
      @YasirKayani-z1s 3 месяца назад

      Try pakistani man.hopefully you will have good experience

    • @kabradzvlog3671
      @kabradzvlog3671 2 месяца назад +1

      Hello my friend 😅 🇵🇭

    • @redone4691
      @redone4691 2 месяца назад

      @@kabradzvlog3671 Hello

  • @seddasa
    @seddasa Год назад +9

    foreign women problem with filipino men is the culture when it comes to sex , we consider sex as sacred .

  • @redone4691
    @redone4691 Год назад +7

    There are many other foreign women who like Filipinos.

    • @SalvadorjrDumalaon
      @SalvadorjrDumalaon 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's true a lot of mix , family oriented, Filipinos they are charisma and funny vibes

  • @jimmihendrixhendrix9575
    @jimmihendrixhendrix9575 Год назад +20

    Generally speaking, many Asians prioritize family and place great importance on maintaining strong bonds with their relatives, particularly during challenging times. This is one of the reasons why there tend to be fewer homeless individuals in Asia. In contrast, many Westerners value independence, and some Western women prefer to be treated as equals rather than relying on traditional gender roles. In Western society, the significance of family structure is diminishing as some individuals prioritize having a life partner over a traditional spouse.

  • @LoneWolfCrooner
    @LoneWolfCrooner 10 месяцев назад +1

    Refreshing! A different perspective.❤

  • @jasonw3055
    @jasonw3055 Год назад +6

    Bro not only Philippines. I have travelled to China, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore etc but everywhere I only see white men with Asian women but not the other way around. South Korea is the only country where I see more Korean men with white women than white men with korean women.

    • @flyingalien2yearsago442
      @flyingalien2yearsago442 Год назад

      Im Filipino Chinese, all i can say is i don't understand why foreigner go to other country for pussy until i saw how toxic western women well men tourist go to asia for women while west women didn't simple answer

    • @pinoysarisari7374
      @pinoysarisari7374 Год назад

      Things are Changing... Korean Pop and Asian pop is rising...Western women are now flocking in Korea.... Soon, it will spill over other Asian countries....LOL

    • @jaysvlogs8199
      @jaysvlogs8199 Год назад

      @@flyingalien2yearsago442women who are influenced by the western culture are toxic. Been dealing with it for the past 2 decades lol

  • @aguinmox3043
    @aguinmox3043 Год назад +16

    One reason why most Filipino men still prefer Filipinas.

    • @thecatholicway8797
      @thecatholicway8797 Год назад +7

      Exactly. Even western men like Filipinas for the exact reason. Western women are generally liberated and if they bring that mentality here, filipino men in general don't want that. Those who happen to fall in love with them think that they will act the same way a filipina would, but in general they don't.

    • @gmiyadole
      @gmiyadole Год назад +5

      ​@@thecatholicway8797 unfortunately, there are some Filipinas (pinays with pinoy parents), esp those who grew up in the US specifically, who are becoming and acting like western women as you have described.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Год назад +2

      ​​@@thecatholicway8797aybe not as a serious gf/wife, but most Pinoy men will NOT say no to a chance to sleep with a white women when the opportunity presents itself...

    • @pinoysarisari7374
      @pinoysarisari7374 Год назад

      @@thecatholicway8797 Foreigners think it is easy to get a filipina, without them knowing that they are only getting the ugly ones and the left overs.... Foreigners continue to fail to detect the symmetry of faces... They think all asians look the same....LOL

    • @sam.r8610
      @sam.r8610 Год назад

      @@gmiyadole there r many stupid asian ladies ( not all )who think they r western if they r born or are living in west and follow policy aka "no dating asian policy" they all r ignorant and forget who they r actually and wannabe western

  • @anniel1193
    @anniel1193 Год назад +12

    Wrong here in United States many Filipino guys height are mostly 5"10 to 6 foot tall. So they are not short. I see many Brazilian guys & other foreigners short in United States. Also there more Filipinos guys with white women in United States. If you go to Filipino restaurant or other stores I see pinoy husband white women couples and with kids.

  • @bk8pa323
    @bk8pa323 Год назад +6

    I was an expat from Singapore working in Manila. Agreed with most of the points made. Singaporeans are more open to various cultures and ethnicities due to the diverse population.

  • @vergelatioan9094
    @vergelatioan9094 Год назад +118

    Well, a lot of Ukrainian women are married to Filipino men.

  • @redone4691
    @redone4691 6 месяцев назад +3

    Ladies from other countries do go to the Phillipines to get a young guy. Including me.

  • @ManBMX
    @ManBMX 10 месяцев назад +3

    here is the thing, when foreign men date Filipina's, they look for long term commitment. Most of the time foreign Women (not all) lean more on a dating type of culture (even Hook up culture), which in local culture is not the case for Filipino Men but they do exist.

    • @izzyandcris8429
      @izzyandcris8429 8 месяцев назад

      Then how come there are so many filipino single moms?

    • @Janger82
      @Janger82 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@izzyandcris8429 then why do most western women complain about western guys and remember Europe, South America and the USA have the highest percentage of single mothers & physical abuse hahah😂.

  • @densyoh
    @densyoh Год назад +15

    oh please stop doing these interviews for crying out loud…what are you people trying to accomplish here? you’re basically looking down on Filipinos by categorizing us… complete and utter disrespect!!!!

    • @Idky813
      @Idky813 Год назад +8

      Just typical classic jobless western vloggers pinoybaiting content . but im having fun watching his ego deflate when he was standing next to that tall Ukrainian girl 😂😂

    • @gregorymoats4007
      @gregorymoats4007 Год назад

      Yes, looking down upon Filipinos. ;)))

    • @christophertubig8267
      @christophertubig8267 Год назад

      It's good to know other people point view. Don't he buttthurt.

    • @boygmx1677
      @boygmx1677 Год назад

      @@christophertubig8267 obvious naman na baiting talaga ito...meron pa nga Vlogger nag interview ng mga Filipina na pinapakita na mas gusto daw ng mga Filipina ang Western men.... OBVIOUS na kasinungalingan dahil First choice ng Filipina ang kapwa Filipino, Tapos Korean , tapos Japanes...4th Choice lang ang Western men...LOL

    • @boygmx1677
      @boygmx1677 Год назад

      @@gregorymoats4007 Inggit lang kasi sya...majority siguro ng na interview nya na Filipina, mas gusto ang kapwa Filipino, Tapos Korean, tapos Japanese....kaya may galit sa Asian men yan Western vlogger na yan... 😂

  • @Noezen03
    @Noezen03 Год назад +3

    Wow, many different foreigners now in Manila huh.

  • @angelielabrague5845
    @angelielabrague5845 Год назад +2

    I like how winnie answered and explain. ☺️
    You are a lucky guy to meet her also. ☺️

  • @Mojave.ChaCho
    @Mojave.ChaCho Год назад +29

    I’m filipino married to a foreign woman. It happens.

    • @yolandelyle
      @yolandelyle Год назад +16

      MisterNemoy, yep. The same with us here. I am a foreign woman, married to a Filippino. 😊I have NO REGRETS. I LOVE MY PINOY❤

    • @michaeljakeusman
      @michaeljakeusman Год назад +6

      sana all

    • @terrenceescarda8951
      @terrenceescarda8951 Год назад +3

      What's her nationality sir?

    • @boiun7038
      @boiun7038 Год назад

      it happens if you are an ofw but finding a foreign wife in the Ph is definitely going to be difficult lol

    • @yolandelyle
      @yolandelyle Год назад +8

      @bolun7038, it is possible to find a wife/ foreign women in the Phils! Anything is possible😊. Both my husband( Pinoy) and I are living examples of it👍. While living here in Phil's as a foreigner, I met my husband and communicated with him online. He was in another country working. He came to Phil's and we started dating and eventually living together, and later got very serious and got engaged. Also it could be the other way around. Even if the man is in Phil's and no matter where both of you are situated,.......through Social Media all things are possible. Both my husband and I are now married for 7years! All you need is to take a step forward and use all opportunities to explore what life has for you. No need to be abroad and find a wife/ woman. It can be any wear.

  • @belle2228
    @belle2228 7 месяцев назад +1

    It's changing. In the future there will be a lot of mixed Filipino celebrities or mixed candidates in Miss Universe Philippines with Filipino father.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 5 месяцев назад

      I expect more half-Filipino celebs with Filipino dads to pop up starting around the 2030s! The local AMWF scene only really began to pick up steam starting in the mid-2000s or so (as the Millennial generation began to enter the work force en masse) after all...

  • @jairus2937
    @jairus2937 Год назад +18

    I dated 5 different nationalities,just a tip for my kababayan, don’t be a simp and too much respectful. Just be playful and don’t show you like them straight away or else you’re creepy to them especially to the western women. Just make them laugh then ask them to go out for a coffee but take them to the pub or after having a coffee 😂

    • @jairus2937
      @jairus2937 Год назад +2

      @Relly Jay Lanaja exactly bro.we Pinoys fall in love easily haha,I have a half Aussie girl friend(not a gf) she told me when she stayed in the Philippines for more than a year,she has heaps of suitors.they all want to marry/in a relationship with her right away,giving her a lot of gifts and texting all the time.Napaka creepy daw Sabi nya,haha

    • @khalidong9950
      @khalidong9950 Год назад

      Haha we've got it right pre.. ako naka 3 banyaga nang inahin brits japs and Arab with 5kids na😂😂 arat na sa tatlo at pang 5kids lang yong kaya ku ma sustain na Allotment ng mga bata😂