Marriage Be Hard Podcast | Beleaf & Yvette Henry
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I love the vulnerability and transparency from Yvette and Beleaf. This book promo series is the closest you're going to get to the rebirth of The Love Hour. It's The Love Hour 2.0: Marriage Be Hard, The Interviews .
Absolutely! It's fantastic.
Yes this series is amazing 😍
Y’all should commission Glenn to make a “marriage be hard “rap for the book! I love when he periodically makes themed verses for his videos!
Yesss!
I have gone through and read comments on this video and would offer to those who had comments about Glenn and Yvette to go and watch their podcasts. These guys actually have great energy and tackle some very difficult topics in real time. I'd also offer you guys to consider that Kev's energy is also different with this couple than the previous couples because in this instance Kev and Melissa are where this couple has to go. They are the mentor couple. In this space they are teaching versus learning from more experienced couples.
Good assessment…This is the fourth episode I’ve watched and I do notice it doesn’t have the same vibe.
Your comment makes a lot of sense. Thank you..
@@briannaspeezy4258,you're welcome! I follow both couples and I love Glenn and Yvette. They really show what marriage is in real life, and they work through tough seasons in their life right in front of us. It's not always going to be roses. But they love and respect each other, and their kids are hilarious! Lol.
I identify with Yvette. I too need time to think through a point. And don't over explain to me because I'm not dumb. I will absolutely sit down and write a letter and it will be all of the feelings that I can't effectively communicate verbally.
This is so me!
Also I. A slow, long, cautious thinker on important topics.
I haven't finished listening yet but I appreciate this conversation. So often I hear couples talking in interviews sounding like and Olympic volleyball team, one person sets it up, then the next spikes, and they score every round. This sounds like a conversation between 4 different people, in 2 couples, having misunderstandings, making mistakes, but giving each other enough grace to forgive them (maybe reluctantly lol), appreciating the good in each other, and moving forward together.
I agree this was the realest one to me
I miss The Love Hour. Melissa single handedly helped me with the way I react to things and that definitely helped my marriage. If Melissa said went to school and I’m a therapist now I’d give her all of my pennines. Lol I miss it but not enough to want it if it hurts y’all marriage. I just watch the other things y’all do and find gems there cause Marriage Be Hard. These episodes have been amazing.
I absolutely love this. ME and my wife watched for a while but LIFE STARTED LIFE-ING (as it tends to). But we said we were gonna go back and rewatch
Same
It’s important to compliment or let your partner know what they’re doing right vs always criticizing or asking them to make an adjustment. Bottom line, growth hurts so try to make it as smooth as possible on your mate. Always show GRACE! 🙏🏾
My wife and I are going through a very interesting season in our lives. This series has been a blessing for us especially this episode.
Beleaf and Yvette DEFINITELY argued big time before this and it shows that…Marriage Be Hard🤷🏾♀️
They definitely seemed like they were arguing at some point
Hahaha facts
He didnt need to start off saying she was late either
@@ItsBrittany. we keep saying people are fake and don't show the real, but when they do, you go into full narc mode trying to control how something is said or what...
OMG! This is going to be so good, it’s great to see this collaboration
This was great conversations. I love both of y’all’s platforms and Patreons. When kev said introduce yourself, all I heard was “My name Beleaf this is Yvette we’ve been married 12 years…” Wedding Party/Stage Krew
Glen and Yvette went straight into #HowMarriedAreYou mode 🤣🤣🤣🤣. There is some real stuff in this convo though. And you can tell that therapy has helped them a lot in how they communicate with each other, even though they continue to openly work on it.
love this series. Beleaf and Yvette are inspirational because of their transparency!🥰 And they have the cutest brown children ever!!!!! What's Your Name!!!!! 😂😂😂😂
Absolutely
When Kevin and Melissa talk to belief and Yvette I can tell that belief and Yvette are soaking in the wisdom like sponges. And Melissa is something like a sage. I love to hear her speak. I always learn so much.
Kev is struggling to keep his eyes open 😂😂
Cause the other couple brings no energy
@@samsungbackup3619 This is the only interview that I hadn't clicked to get notified bc I normally watch at work & didn't want to be asleep.
Always Lol love you Kev ❤️
Condolences on the untimely loss of your brother
@@avaholloway32 HAHAHAH!!!
Kev's sermon about communicating with kindness really blessed me. 🙌
Glen and Yvette are such intentional communicators. I love that ❤️
When you “let things go” until you blow up, that’s called passive aggression. Chiiiiiile, I have learned to stop doing that🥴
I’m doing my best to stop this behavior 😮. This can be toxic!
This is probably my favoriteist (I know it’s not a Webster dictionary word) but it is by far my most relatable episode. Their transparency, vulnerability, lack of pretension, honesty, is very very comforting and inspiring. These are the episodes we need about the real issues of marriage and two becoming one. Thank you Yvette and Beleaf!
Honesty without kindness is harsh and mean. Kindness without honesty is just lies! Find a nice way to communicate the truth 🔥🔥🔥 I love this point and I feel like it broke through what had taken a dark turn in the conversation.
I am Yvette in regard to writing and expressing myself clearly. I so get that. Each spouse has to understand that communication, clear communication might be different for each.
Sooooo excited about this!!!! Love Yvette & Glenn!
OMG!!!!! MY TWO FAVORITES! Oh I love this conversation. These sessions get even better, especially for me and my fiancé and I who are getting married in 13 days 🥰😍😍😍🥰😍😍😍😍
Congratulations and I wish y'all the best 💐
Congrats 🎉
This was an honest, vulnerable and stimulating conversation that was thoroughly insightful and provided so many gems of wisdom. I'm grateful to both couples for sharing their heart in such a transparent way. I left this discourse learning more about myself and am challenged to be a more effective, fluid and accommodating communicator. This was awesome!
This was good…a little cringy in some parts but HEY…that’s marriage it be hard and cringy at times 😂❤
Definitely lol
Not just me ok
Nah they are pretty cringy. I can’t quite put my finger on it. But I’m tuned in
Yeah ionnn know bout them. Is it a such thing as too hard? Yvette not being comfortable with her words I get being cautious but that has to be stressfullll
I think that Yvette might not always be fully comfortable on camera and it might come across as cringey.
ohhhhhhhh snap!!! I love love LOVE this couple!!!!🥳🥳 I JUST started following them last week and already binged all their videos!!!! I love uncle baby's antics, Uriah, Theo and Anaya have their hands FULL 🤣🤣🤣 I LOVE ALL THOSE BABIES 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Literally just finished their latest podcast! Ahhh I can’t wait for this 😍👏🏾🙌🏾❤️🔥
Good people are not found, they are flourished 😮😮😮😮😮 Beleaf be spittinnnnnnnn💛💛💛💛
May we get a quarterly HMAY/ Love Hour mashup podcast? Please? The people love all y’all!
We just heard the man say he didn't like doing the Love Hour. Lol.
@@deb1920 I know. That’s why I said quarterly. Lol!
A lot of folks listen to respond as oppose to listening to understand. Thus an effective communicator is a great listener.
The openness and honesty was so refreshing and made this episode for me. Your transparency is not our right, but God do we appreciate it when you bless us with the privilege of hearing it. Thank you for the insight when you choose to give it. And when you choose not to give it, we will get over it and find our own business to mind. 🥰
T.D.Jakes 🙏🏿 once stated....."If Your Just waiting For The Person's LIPS too stop moving....
So YOU Can Get YOUR Point Across...
Then...YOUR...NOT! Listening!...
So We MUST ALWAYS be aware of THAT happening while...Communicating👍🏿👍🏿
Regarding the Love Hour.....Low key 🔑.. Melissa intelligently expresses" I Said what I Said, you need help go back and watch the episodes, the truth remains the truth, unapologetically like the Word of God."
Would love to see a couple that not only has been married 20 plus years but has also went through the second change and got through the hardness of menopause and the change that men go through as well. If you have please inform I would love to see it
Another great video! On another note, I want Melissa's entire wardrobe.
This collaboration was fire! I'll be listening to Marriage Be Hard on Audible 🙂
Nah Liss was on it. We understood but she wasnt wrong. Kev said, "I have a bad habit of communicating cleary"
Marriage Be Hard needs to be a regular thing and let's put some regular folks on it too. Like my husband and I. 😆
My Grandfather🙏🏿❤️ Always Stated ...
"LISTENING!....IS ...The BEST....Part Of... Communication" 🙏🏿👍🏿👍🏿🙏🏿😊
Such great advice for relationships. Though I'm not married🗣, "Yet." I need to listen to this over and over again. The communication style type, I adjust based on the audience. In real time, I want people to read my mind or connect the dots. Some areas of growth opportunities for me are to slow down, pause and clarify, which are my biggest takeaways.
Real talk, real relationship 💯 ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾
Not gonna lie, I love both couples... this felt like Beleaf and Yvette need to talk out these thoughts with a therapist more.
Gives me enneagram 9(Yvette) to an 8(Beleaf)
And those relationships can be hard.
One walking on egg shells (indirect, careful conversation) the other stomping through them (direct, defensive, focused on how they want things specific).
Beleaf buffering Yvettes thoughts or her consistently apologizing for possibly saying something wrong can lead someone to spazz out.
So excited for this series!
I gasped!! 😱🥹I love Glenn, Yvette & their family! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾great content
The thoughts around 55minutes about telling your spouse what you want in a nice way is everything!! ❤❤
I can’t believe I missed this a year ago!!! I was thinking it would be so great, then saw this! ❤❤❤
Melissa states in every episode that she is clear what she is going to say and Kev looks scared.
I miss The Love Hour but when Liss said it was best for her to end it I respected it.
I still pray - if it's okay for Liss, Kev, and their quality of life - for sporadic Love Hour podcasts in the future &/or another Love Hour Conference! 🫂🙏🏾
OMG THIS COLLAB ! 😭😭😭❤
💎💎 Don't forsake your sacred circle!!!💎💎
🗣️ PREACH GLEN'S MENTOR!!! 🗣️
I love whenever the Henry’s and the Fredricks have convos and share them with us 🥰
They have done it before?
YO!! I don't know why they stopped the podcast either!! And I'm not even married!! I still need the nuggets!! But I understand it was alot...Lis, we appreciate you. Kev, we appreciate you too...but Lis tho. LOL, thank you both.
Great episode with two of my favorite families. Thank you all for you vulnerability and transparency. This truly is an eye opener to the nuances of communication!!
I aint gone hold you. If I wasn’t married, listening to this couple would scare me. They’re so intense and don’t seem happy
Seems like they are going through something. He appears too intense and she, too low key. Like they are working really hard to mesh their personalities and communication styles together.
Hmmm 1 hour of a small glimpse of their lives and they "seem" unhappy...you know them so well in 1 hour....hmmm
Their content clearly shows they are the way they are and that's perfectly fine. Two different personalities learning about life and marriage while raising 4 whole kids. Glenn is more expressive and outward thinking. Yvette processes everything internally. They could've argued or something happened with the kids before the interview but that's life and like the title of the Fredericks' book, marriage be hard! I'm glad they are actually talking about the hard stuff and having the conversations rather than not talking about them and allowing things to build under the rug.
@@Sweetslimy Hence the word “seem”
Well you "seem" judgemental...
Listening is an active skill and sport. And I realize so very many people are NOT talented in this naturally the older I get.
That man did not say struggle Melissa 🤣
The most precious discussion.
Awww… I love this couple too!!! Their children are sooo adorable! 😆😆💕🙌🏾
Whew Chile I would be exhausted if I had to watch every word I had to say with my husband. I would expect him to be more flexible.
15:50 Lis was right, I was also like there’s a word missing 😀
This was so reassuring and inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing!
Lol I'm like Kev 🤣🤣 my poor husband ahahahah. I struggle to communicate my thoughts correctly
I loved The Love Hour it truly changed my life.
Chiiiiiile , what Melissa said starting around the 7th minute. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
WOW love this conversation so much. These are a study in healthy marriages and how you work it. This is the work and love of marriage. Thank you all for sharing.
Yvette just seems completely overpowered in the relationship
Are you saying she IS overpowered by him or is she the one that's overpowering him?
@@avaholloway32 she is overpowered by him.
Ah ha!!!!!!!!!! This is the one!!!! This is AMAZING!!! THIS IS THE BEST MODEL OF COMMUNICATION!!! THANKS FOR transparency and honesty!!
How do you determine as a spouse when it’s a YOU problem vs it’s a spouse contributed problem?
Man, when Kev told the reason behind ending The Love Hour, it made me think Yvette and Beleaf are going through that same thing with HMAY!
What was the real reason behind the Love Hour ending & what is HMAY? Thanks
@@leejoy104 HMAY is how married are you. The couple on this episode are the hosts of that show. Kev didn’t want to do the love hour anymore. He did it for Melissa to be a good husband and such but he wasn’t into it after they had been doing it for a while. He talks about it around 52 minutes
How we are as individuals comes mostly from the environment we grow up in which shapes us and is most of the times our default button,hence we communicate how we were "taught" by the action of our parents/relatives.
Melissa was preaching round 8:35 and the church wasn’t giving what it was supposed to give 🤣🤣❤️.
7:38 I’m a 23 year old man I’ve been with my highschool sweetheart for 6 years and as of rn we’re “done” she doesn’t want it anymore but she really loves me. I took me to realize love isn’t just romance. But she says she wants it I wish her fight was stronger. Throughout the 6 years I had to learn to relove and like her from different angles and I never felt like I loved her less. We’ve been separated for 1 month & I hope this is to get us stronger. I just started praying with her then boom we break up a month later. I really hope this is a test for us to be stronger. I just know I have to focus on myself and hopefully the time apart can bring us back together
Both that part of communication is key because people read things the way they want to not the way the author intended. Furthermore, I also realize when it comes to hard conversations no matter how you say it people will get offended if they want to get offended.
Mel was not satisfied with that intro Kev gave... She was like "let me redo this thang" 🤣
As a mom that NEVER expected to be a single Mom to a young beautiful brown young man, (He's 16 yrs old now) God has revealed certain things to me....1st thing: God has an agenda for this child, and his father on Earth can not give the boy what The Living God has for him, which keeps him out of the child's life. When you understand that GOD trusted you with His children but they belong to Him at the end of day.... #💯
This was a very warm and intimate conversation and I loved every moment.
Good morning! Yvette, how did you get over or pivot from the expectations of what you though marriage would be and what you expected glen to fulfill for you as a souse? Same question for Melissa as well. Thanks for your time!
🤯not sure I've been so busy I missed this! Heard Melissa mention this talk when she was talking to Angel and Marcus. Haven't listened yet but I know this is gonna be AWESOME!
Its funny that I scrolled back to see if Melissa was right about Kev being clear about "communicating thoughts clearly." Melissa was right.
Glen and Yvette’s mics!!! 😍😍😍😍❤️
1. Kev is sleep.
2. This conversation about communication is very nuanced and complicated. You all are doing a fair job navigating it.
It's hard to be upbeat with a low energy couple bc just listening got me at work big sleepy
Kev isn’t sleep…he’s trying to stay married.😂
Notes to self: communication is like "connect the dots". Essentially, each person needs a different amount of dots to form the big picture
I’m not ready! My 2 fav fams.❤🙌🏾 It don’t get no better.
Liss you be preaching momma
MAJOR SURPRISE 😮...The Love Hour was Excellent! Thanks for giving us Greatness Melissa. No dis Kev
I wish those would have been in person
Me too
Yeah me too. I feel the energy would have been better
👍🏾⬆️all the way down the column!!
Enjoying these conversations! Thank you. I've ordered my book and more to share.
I really loved this one! It reminded me of the love hour🥹💗
Lis never answered the question about the misconception. She just went to preaching
MY TWO FAVORITE COUPLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🥰🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿🥰GREAT!! Conversation😊👍🏿👍🏿❤️
Praying for both couples 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
I love that MARRIAGE SHOULD BE SOLID/HARD its should not be easily swayed. Not hard on the since that it can't be done more days are hard than not. It's not hard to do
The mash up we’ve been waiting for!!
Yep Kev, your partner deserves a gentle honesty
I love this series.
Great conversation guys this was 🔥🔥🔥!
The volume is so low, is it just me
😬 Maybe it's just me, but sometimes this couple sucks the oxygen out of the room... more so Beleaf...
With all of they’re children too…I see why a 3 week sabbatical is needed