Steve Harvey Motivational Advice For Young People - Don't Do What I Did
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- Опубликовано: 29 июл 2016
- Taking a break from the funny moments at Family Feud, Steve Harvey gives motivational advice to young people on how to be successful...his advice? Don't do what he did.
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Im 19 and this Vid is a slap in the face im going to start buckling down
Diondre Douglas you young as hell u got it
One word of advice is stay healthy. Don't fuck ya mind up with weed and alcohol. That's a mistake I wish I never did.
Good shit bro
Diondre Douglas You're lucky I'm 31. I'm starting today at this age with a nonstop work ethic now. I need my dreams. No more waiting!
Ripsta How is weed bad?
I'm 25 and I just started doing a weekly sports debate show. My goal is to have my show picked up on a television network one day.
Cam Perry, I believe in you bro!
thanks Mark!!!
You can do it Cam!! God bless
thanks Jessica!!!
Good job!!! Keep that going!!
Love this. Feel like I sacrificed fun for work in my 20s by working multiple jobs and going to school at night. I’m 29 now and it’s finally starting to pay off. Got a great career, a couple degrees, a nice home at the beach with my wife. My 30s are going to feel like retirement. I’m just going to work and relax.
What degree was it man?
I tell my 21yr old son who had no children, a full time college basketball player on a full ride scholarship. Don’t get to involved with anyone at this stage in your life. This is stage one, discovering SELF! I’m proud that I still have that much impact on his life.
Grind now to shine later ! Work while everyones partying, so when everyones working, you're the one partying ! 💯
This 💯💯💯
Oso Arrogant what you said
Good good quote.
Makes since cause while your working an getting ur life together the other one partying an ain’t gonna have nothing or nowhere to go
🔥💖💖💖💖💖
Im 20 and i just launched my own social media marketing agency in december, 2 months later i have 4 clients 😎 grind in your 20's, build in your 30's, chill in your 40's!
B Q who said any of what im doing was easy? Also im from the UK so its no harder for other races. Started off with £500 in my pocket and built a business from nothing, i didnt have any help. So no, race has nothing to do with living your dreams.
B Q Do you mind explaining how? I'm open to change my view on this but in the UK all races have equal oppurtinity, I've never seen systematic racism in UK in my 20 years here, I've never seen or heard of a high amount of racist police that match what the US police are like or even come close. In fact ive never seen a police officer be racist, ever. I'm not saying it doesnt happen in the UK but it's doesn't effect minorities in a way that makes it less possible to them to achieve their dreams. Its like that in America but not over here. I just have it easier that african americans because of the country I'm from, not my skin colour. Besides, colour in general isnt what we think it is, just cause you see a colour doesnt mean its that colour, its just how you brain is designed to percieve it, a snake wont see the same colour, therefore what colour is anything really?
Conor Birkett same boat. I'm black but race don't matter. People just have to prioritize their life and stop making excuses. Your biggest enemy is yourself.
Conor Birkett where do you live in U.K.? If you live London you wouldn’t say that
Marry me Conor
I’m 42 and I totally agree with what he is saying. Here are my thoughts based on my experience:
1. Work your ass of in your 20’s. That’s when you have the most energy. In your 20’s you can stay up till 2am focusing on your career.
2. Also, network as much as possible. Build as many relationships as you can. You’ll need those relationships later in life.
3. Don’t worry about clubbing. All it does is cause you to spend a shit load of money when you could invest it.
4. Eat healthy and workout. When you get in your 40’s it’s harder to lose weight and enjoy all the physical stamina you have.
5. Be careful when it comes to relationships. If the person doesn’t want to stand by you when you’re struggling then you want to let them go. You want someone that is going to support your dreams.
Bonus tip: Plan if anything were to happen like what happen in 2020.
By the time you get to your 40’s you should be rolling and be able to enjoy a great life. Just my opinion.
Mid 30s here. 100% agree.
People think "I need to get it out of my system" or "life stops when you're 30/40" -- all of that is bs.
Like with everything in life, "fun" is so much better when you've earned it.
Thank you
I agree with you on every aspect. Followed these guidelines for the past 10 years of my life myself.
the number 2 I agree with you 100% I built relationships with many people and it helped a lot in my life
No bro, if you do it right by the time you’re 30 you should be able to afford the greatest life possible, many people get rich in the span of 5-8 years when they work hard enough, Mark Zuckerberg became a billionaire at age 23 because he is basically a prodigy kid, but if you work, and study hard you should be able to afford the greatest life possible by the age 30 or 35 depends on how hard you work but most importantly on how much do you believe in yourself.
Proud to say that I never cared about any of the bullshit. Been working hard and focusing on what’s important since 18
If you listen to this & your still in your 20's or late teens & ur smart it's like winning the lottery & you will thank first God then Steve Harvey for the rest of life !!!
You're insane lmao
Imagine thanking anyone else for YOUR hard work.
This is why nobody thinks of you cultists as people. You're complete imbeciles that lack the ability to think logically. And that's being polite.
I am 32 and I am doing well. At 23 I asked myself a big question ‘What do you want?’ I knew that i wanted a good job, travel the world, be financially independent. I knew I had to do something different to realize all that. I went back to school, did my masters and by 28yrs, I was down with 3 degrees. I am now earning a 6 figure salary at 32, have travelled to 16 countries, met a good man, I am in a good place. On my 30th birthday, I looked back at my 20s and was pretty proud of myself. I had set a strong foundation for my 30+.
My advice to you folks in your 20s, wait to start a family especially under 25, go back and advance your education, stay away from bad relationships as they can distract you from your life goals and finally get used to cutting off people that won’t feed you with the right energy. Good luck!
What is your job?
I saw this vision at exactly 21. I started my business of 12 years at age 22. I'm 34 now. I'm thankful every day I had the right vision. Now Im looking at retirement as an operator, just gonna be owning & moving on to my next venture. Life is what you make it. Btw I was also fresh out of prison at 20. Never let anyone tell you, you can't make it!
What you do for living?
Hardwork and dedication matters
@@abc0583 I own a Tree Service
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Awesome my man
I’m 23 and am honestly soooo thankful for people like Steve sharing this information. I was raised by a single mother who struggled to make ends meet. My father was absent, so I never had someone to teach me these values. But I have been following this advice since I was 17 and am on track to pay off all my student loans within 1 year after I graduated. I have my business plan ready and mentors who are invested in me. I’ve accomplished everything I’ve put my mind to, and I can honestly say that I won’t be working a 9 to 5 past 5 years from now. I’ll be living off my investments I’m planting now. So thankful to God, as well as men and women like Steve for BEATING this mentality into my head.
You’re a privileged man to get this information at your age. Stay up young king. 👑
I’m on the same boat brotha
@@dragonfist25 Appreciate that King 🙏🏽
@@enriquecipriano1346 We’re going to the top bro!
In my 20’s I was in the Marine Corps and graduated from college. I still accomplished nothing, especially with money and investing.
The same conventions that applied to young adults in the past don’t apply today. You used to have to stick it out, work overtime, really stretch yourself. People care more about your personal business, your digital footprint, and the older people are no longer leaders because you learn everything on the web.
There’s no such thing as a proper employer paid pension anymore. They’ll be no SSI soon. They distinction between skilled labor and general labor are no longer objective, mainly because of 3rd party and illegal immigration.
We should take a few steps back to regain the social structure we had before 2007.
Sometimes your bad habits are not your fault, but the result of the pressures of your environment, and you can only make a change when you become conscious of the flaws of it.
Javascript Kiddie that’s a very point bro kinda what happened to me
Thats an excuse
@@josephlungu8801 you didn't read carefully to what the man wrote, you just let it fly over your head.
@@josephlungu8801 No, it's a real problem actually, right up there with mental health. Anything can be dismissed an excuse when you're not willing to go outside of yourself and see things from the other side's perspective.
I’m 25 and work 2 weeks straight 12.5 hour days and one week off roster. Just bought my first home, and earn over $140 000 a year.
Now how'd you do that, do you work on your own business or you have a degree?
Stephans Zitha I did an apprenticeship as an electrician. And now I work on a minesite, mining for iron ore. Employed as an electrician/operator. The company put me through my tickets so I can now also drive front end loaders, skid steers and Manutius.
If anybody reads this, please listen to Steve and follow his advice. I know a lot of men/women that tend to live in the moment when they are in their 20’s and don’t buckle down and get their shit together until their late 20’s early 30’s because they did not have the maturity. I dropped out of high school on Feb 14th, 2007 which was the last day before break at the age of 17. My 18th birthday was on the 25th of Feb. I had my Daughter at 23 and by age 28 I made a goal for myself that by the time I am 30, I was going to have my GED and have completed an EMT course at my local community college to work as an EMT. I completed both of my goals before I turned 31. Now at 33, I still am working as an EMT with a goal of becoming an RN. Knowing that I could have been a DR or a flight nurse at my age now gets to me but knowing that I lacked the maturity to take on that challenge in my early 20’s definitely softens the blow. Knowing what I know now is what makes me a better person and better ready to take on the challenge of taken on higher education!
Honestly, 20’s is a learning experience and I would never regret what I did. the reason I’m smarter in my 30’s is because of my lessons in my 20’s. it’s never too late to start. you would not know better in your 30’s if you never threw away your 20’s. it’s a life lesson.
Exactly. I know people in their 30's who took Steve's advice...they regret it. There is no secret formula to living life "right". It's your life. Deep down we know what we want at a set time. All it takes is done introspection and honesty. It's also important to live life as much as possible, because thats life. A lot of men I know who were or are succesful regret working their life away. One man in particular always said he wished he spent more time living life instead of working all the time. He had the finances but worked a lot. He died leaving a legacy and is remembered for his accomplishments and beautiful soul but it will always resonate with me how much he wanted to enjoy life but never got to do so to the extent he wanted. Deep down he knew what he wanted and needed. There is no formula to life.
You don't truly know what you want until you let yourself live life on your terms. If you want to enjoy your twenties do it. Life is short. If you truly feel like working your butt off in your twenties is the way to go then do so. Neither is a good or bad choice. You won't know if it's the right choice until you do it but you'll sleep better at night if you lived a happy and peaceful life when you do what your soul truly wants.
Well said
This is true and is opposite side of the coin that Harvey is explaining
When you’re 20 that’s the only time you should be going out to bars every weekend etc. I pushed away all my high school friends to chase my dreams only to realize I have money but no friends to go out with and then you’re 35 and realize your too old to be doing those things 20 year old do.
I am 31 and I did the same thing he is talking about. I spent 10 years worried about drinking smoking and spending all my money in the bars. Now that I am 31 I am doing the stuff I should have done 10 years ago. Because I wanted to drink and party now I just put my whole life 10 years behind. To all the young people out there please listen to this man he spoke nothing but truth.
Yes. Balance is the the key!
COC Noob 25 no kids I know I still got it made
+Rakim Dupree Same here nigga I just turned 25 and I ain't got no kids yet either.
Well 28 and thinking about how to do it the right thing but all that talk and will if you have no idea what business to start like me then you go to work and after work you think about how you would spend that couple of hours of the day working on your business if you had one haha
pepsicola What do you have a passion for? Whatever it is use that and make money off of it.
I am glad that I'm only 21. I haven't been to a club, strip club, bar etc... yet and really don't see the reason to go honestly. I don't see the value in blowing money on irrelevant things. I don't smoke, drink, or gang bang. I don't chase woman or start trouble with anyone. I have a vending machine business. I'm about to start flipping cars and start a clothing line soon. I feel like time is going to pass me by fast. I don't want any regrets. I want to look back at my life and say "damn I really made it".
Good mindset to hear! Wishing much positive on your journey.
I'm 21. I have a clothing line, starting an eBay and etsy business. Also hoping to go into a vending business, any advice? I'm from the UK
Multi Millionaire 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾rooting for you
If you need any designs for your clothing line hit me up on Instagram @nova.graphix_ 👊🏼 stay blessed
Multi Millionaire same age ...same mentality
I am 29 , im glad and so happy with my life choices! I graduated from college young at 21! I found a good government’s job , worked for 6 years! I got a scholarship to study in grad school, I am graduating soon. I have my own online small business, I have a loving bf. I got two promotions! All this happened because I experienced family problems very soon in my life, thats why I realized sooner than everyone in my age, that I will be left with nobody but myself! I am now planning to get my PHD as soon as I graduate, and after that I will marry to the love of my life. I know that I am not enjoying my 20’s because I am busy, but I will have the rest of my 30’s and my life to enjoy everything! Thank God for the early wake up call ❤️❤️
Facts.. My 20s flew by and didn't do anything. Now in my 30s im focused.
Great advice Harvey, wished i seen this when i was 20.
I feel fun is still needed in your 20s though. I spent first half of my 20s partying, travelling and trying a couple side hustles alongside my job then the 2nd half of my 20s I cut out the partying, friends and socialising and just focused on work. It was quite a lonely time as no one understood what I was doing and why but now I'm 30 and doing what I enjoy and working for myself.
Facts. It's all about balance
How's it going now?
@@michaelkariuki5350 Thanks for commenting for an update! So cool looking back at this comment now - I still stand by what I said back then.
I'm working for myself and couldn't imagine going back. I get to do things I want on my own time most of the time so I'm happy with that.
The only thing I regret is not learning about crypto and not buying Bitcoin & Ethereum 4 years ago when I made the original comment 😅😂😭😭
Would be cool if someone asked for another update in another 4 or 5 years
@@TheJCFiles Good to see you doing better... Check out "1 st man" on RUclips... He'll be your best friend... That's all I can leave to you
@@TheJCFiles if you were to go back, would you party even once,how would you make friends?(I need this advise)
Wise words, I’m so guilty of wasting my 20’s, woke up in my 30’s and doing great in my 40’s. I hope some young people see this video and really take it in. Thanks Steve.
You’re 40? You’re time is almost up. Why start now? It’s too late 😂
@@LilXancheX you're literally not going to amount to anything. your mom is a whore and took the risk without a condom and now the world is stuck dealing with you.
@@LilXancheX you sound so dumb
This is one of the best advise I've ever heard while I'm still in my 20s now. Never had a girlfriend cuz I'm trying to put myself first and chase my dreams to reality, although there were a lot of women chasing me but nah. One of the things I do take seriously is to create your life first before relationship, and I mean by settling yourself for your future life.
Same and never had a boyfriend. Love will come at right time but I’m focusing on me first 🤍
@@rendallsofia1194 stop it u know u romanticize over chick flicks 😂
@@patrickpatterson3735 what are you talking about
It’s ok to have a gf or bf but don’t let ‘em stop you from chasing your dream
True unless your lucky enough to come across someone focused on career and getting their life together first.
Steve Harvey is spitting some truth here. He’s a G who is doing pretty well with himself and doesn’t have to be giving this valuable advice to people. But he is. Take the advice.
what was the advice?
TOO LATE!!!! he wasn't there to give it when I was in my 20's 😂
I don't have any friends because they are ashamed of the videos I upload. Are they really that bad, dear lik3
So money makes him someone to listen to?
any older person gives the same advice, i was given to it 2 days before i saw this vid, "save your money while youre young" its not mind blowing likewise4gaming
I just almost cried. I learned my lesson at 26 and I'm 29 now. I'm paying for it! I hear you loud and clear! I'm trying to recover! Thank you for your words!!! Thank you!!!
You still young, you got this and keep grinding! Everything is possible 💪🏾📈💙✊️
I’m 37! Lived that decade liked a fool . You can turn it around and give back some !!!! Keep going !!!
Man I turned 25 in jail this year I’m trynna fix up cause I’m realizing I don’t have all the time I thought I did at 18-21. I think as long as you have the right intentions to change for the better, you should just keep working hard and praying on the daily. Eventually your life will change. Same way I put my mind to doing illegal shit and it worked until I got latched, I can put my mind to a legal business and make it work 💯
@@ztoronto5011 mad respect for that mentality and want to do better. I hear ya
@@ztoronto5011 wise words! Wish you the best , from a fellow Toronto native
This is 100% truth ... everyone looks at there 20’s as time to have fun and be free when we should be investing in our future.
Yep. People do life backwards as hell
It's time to have fun. If u don't have fun in your twenties,when are u going to do that? It's the time every organ in your body is working perfectly.No aches and pain. Have fun guys in your twenties. I love Steve Harvey but I ain't listening to this one !
The society made as think that money is equal to success. Nothing wrong with that making tones of money at your 20s just make sure by 35yo your all set to live a little and have fun.
Coz life is too short, if you gonna die by 60yo then you got 25years left to have fun or enjoyment, that is if your still healthy in between those decades.
@@alfredthullah3114 how old are you?
@@David-mf3bn 42
Remember this,
Everything has its own time!
Even if you had gotten these advices when you were in your young 20's (you sure did get 'em, but you didn't listen) it wouldn't change a thing, you can only change your life when YOU recognize and WANT that change. I usually say today that I should have studied at university in my early twenties as I'm doing now when I'm 30ish. If I had done that in the past it would have been the wrong decision because I didn't want it back then as I want it now.
I feel slightly behind in some ways and ahead in others, because I have gotten 10+ years of working experience, some traveling and learned a lot about relationships. Today I'm grateful for all the tools that I have in my toolbox, but if I could change one thing looking back it is that I should have gone through some kind of therapy and prioritize healthy relationships instead of money and my ego.
Truth. I’m sober in my beginning 30’s after drinking my 20’s away. It’s never too late till you’re dead.
Thanks Steve. Your positive message always means a lot to myself and I'm sure many others.
I spent my 20s in a relationship when I should of worked hard to build up my business empire.
me too brother amen
that's jus' too familiar.......
The people who were working hard building their business empire in their 20's get to their 30s and 40s and tell themselves that they should have invested more of their time in relationships. The grass is always greener!
Same here man 30 now had a relationship that pretty much took my 20s away and now im single but luckily i reached my career goal now just gotta continue
Jenny Titus so where are those relationships now? They don’t last
I am living proof Steve Harvey is right. Last year September I turned 40 and I wrote, directed, produced, and self-financed my first off Broadway play. My first. And I thought I would have directed my first film or play at 30! But what happened? Life.
I went through a quarter life crisis when I was 25. 9-11 happened when I was 23. I had a hard time finding work after that. My grandmother died. And then I fell into a depression. And then my parents didn't support my filmmaking dream. My father wanted me to be a nurse. My mother wanted me to be a teacher. When I tried teaching I got laid off. When I tried computers I had a useless degree when employers were looking for Microsoft certifications which are 2 different things. When I finally followed my dream in my late 30s, the right people came and blessings started to come.
So I just want to add what Steve said - find out what is God's purpose for your life is and get to work as soon as you find out. The sooner you find out what that is - and how you can make a living doing it, the less time you will waste. You are not going to be young forever. I'm going to be 41 and I am working on my 2nd play but I have arthritis in my knee and I'm in pain. So please. Be kind to yourself and don't make that mistake.
Filmmaking 100
Tell me how u like my port st lucie video and the october fest
Such an inspiration for sure
Thank you for sharing this. I am in my 20's and found something I feel like is my calling. How do you know if something is your calling? For me, I asked myself if I could see myself doing it for the rest of my life and I actually would feel comfortable if I could 😁
Haha you delusional…you work at Taco Bell
I just graduated from college and I really needed to hear this. I wanted to chill for part of this summer but part of me knew there was more I needed to work on. This just affirms that
Its okay to take a break i took a year off after college.
2 years out of college now, I've been working at an advertising agency since then, and I've been doing reasonably well. However, I graduated in one of the worst parts of the pandemic, shit was real, so I knew I either had to figure it out or move back in with my parents. Had to grow up real quick.
The reason I share that with you is because you don't get to choose the circumstances of when you step out into the "real world." And while I'm not gonna say things are much better now than they were then, if you think taking some time to yourself is what you need to do and you can afford to do it, then that's probably what you should do. But don't take that time to "chill." Take that time to put together a game plan and make sure your head is screwed on straight, and when it's time for you to start making moves, commit to it 100%
I definitely felt/feel so different to people who are my age. I'm 26 and instead of drinking or partying, I started 3 online businesses, worked on my mindset, physical health. I work for myself, have my own apartment, have my dream life, and continuing to build and scale them. I feel like I have just scratched the surface of my potential! I found it hard to find male partners around my age that compliment my drive, personality and lifestyle, so I mostly date older men. Not to say I didn't have fun in my 20's. I went out dancing, restaurants, travelling, meeting new people (I don't really drink). I didn't have any friends in high school or uni who were entrepreneurial or were ambitious to my level. Instead I listened to podcasts, read books, watched youtube videos and learnt from coaches all over the world. I honestly just had myself and the desire to learn. I spent over 40k of my own money to invest in coaches to teach me how to start my own businesses. I totally think it's possible to still have fun, be social and prioritise creating an empire for yourself. Surrounding yourself with high-level thinkers and performers were life-changing for me. I didn't have that in my physical reality, so I utilised the internet and went ham on podcasts and learning from people through social media.
Jeez, are you for real or a robot?
You scammer bot
I was the exact opposite of this. Got into the stock market at 19. Never went out...well worth it.
29 now and now I'm in the stock market and own several websites. Work from home and just do what I want all day. People would always ask me why I never went out and partied...now they see.
but do you go out now?
I am 18. I just started my portfolio 2 weeks ago. Do you have an advice for my portfolio.
@@BlindEyeTwist Every now and then.
Question, not to be personal but what is that salary look like ?
I'm 15, blew my fx account 3 days ago😂 but I'll be back with more wisdom and discipline
Man this is SOLID wisdom. I’m 27 and I deeply regret that I didn’t go to college after high school, and work on my degree and focus on building businesses. But I didn’t have the mindset that I do now. I was sooo focused on men and wanting to be married so bad… and it was all because of my childhood trauma. I never felt loved by my parents. They were both abusive. I didn’t have any guidance or positive influence. I tried to get a decent paying job so that I can move out from the abuse. I was 25 until I was able to find a decent paying job that would cover All of my living expenses. And after I finally moved out, I had a nervous breakdown from all of the abuse and suffering that I had been experiencing. I couldn’t even focus on bettering myself because I was so traumatized. I’m just now really getting my mental health together. It’s game time now.
I love this. I’m rooting for you! ✨
@@veeandola Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
You did the best that u could at that time to feel good, it was allthat mattered, your happiness. You re still on track, go for your dreams! Love
@@andreapaiano9724 Thank you 😊
I'm 18. Just graduated. Been working for 5 years have about 25k saved up. My mental health is horrible. Hate everything about my life. Health is bad all around. Doing community College. Doing better financially than most kids but feel empty and worthless.
I’m 16 years old and I’ve released what Steve said before the video. That’s why I got my own five figure business at this age, while my friends are out clubbing I’m focused on my goals.Keep grinding you will get what you deserve one day
This made me feel a little better about my current situation. I had 2 businesses that eventually failed in my 20’s now I’m becoming 31 soon, I now have a business with 2 partners which is taking off after lots of hardwork and setback during Covid.
The reality is it’s still hard. I just realized that I have no personal life outside of work, just broke up with my girl and looking at the long road ahead but I came all the way from 2 business failures. BUT, I would still choose this path over comfortable 9-5 job with unlimited pto because I know I am going to make it and that’s my purpose. Nothing is going to stop me.
i believe in u
@@lewisconnolly7449 thanks man believe in u too!
How can you know you are going to make it? You should probably relax a bit more and enjoy life instead.
@@caha9583 i do, also enjoy being the best i can be and bringing up others to do the best they can
@@lewisconnolly7449 how can you say you believe in him when you have no f*ing idea what he is up to with his businesses?
I think this idea of "making it" at all costs is malicious for a lot of young people. Because if you dont have your own fucking "business" when you are getting older you will then feel like a total loser.
Spending my 20’s working hard nearly every day, because building an art/ designing career is NOT easy.
I watch your motivational videos almost every day Steve. Thank you for keeping me going, man 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
If you tell yourself it’s not easy it will be not easy
I was a bit lost in my 20’s making ok money. Then I met my wife when I turned 30 and we have built multiple six figure businesses. Not only is it important to be focused but to have the right partner if your thing is being in a relationship. Steve Harvey is right; the sooner you start the better!
What changed? How did you decide to stop making just okay money and with what did you start in order to get there to make a 6 figures business?
Trader ?
@@andzelaa1 He met his wife. Not everybody is motivated to do these things by/for themselves.
@@andzelaa1 what? you think someone would go on the internet and lie?
This is me to a "t", the homelessness, drugs, partying, all of it. Im 29 now and finally starting to wake up. I also find myself discouraged too cuz even though im still young it feels "to late". This is something i needed to hear to keep on that path to better myself. Its never to late make positive changes and build something for yourself and knowing you, a hot shot tv personality didnt start taking off til your 30s gives me hope that i can still achieve my goals and dreams. Much love
Bruhh I think it’s too late and I’m 19 going to be 20 in 1 month
28 just now trying to get my life straight. It’s the truth y’all.
Get yourself together for YOURSELF.
Relationships and all that, just chill out..
YOURSELF is what matters.
steve is on fire right now
I feel like an old lady 😂 I'm 22 and I never liked partying. I go to the club maybe once a year. All I do is study all day, work and help out with the cleaning. I don't even have time for anything else
loveiseverything003 I’m 23 and I wish there were girls like you In my hometown. All they do is drink, smoke and fuck
DUMBEEZY what town is that
wavyboyo why haha
Man, I'd take you over a hot girl who's rated a 12 on 10.
Sad existence if you ask me
Yep. My pops taught me this. Looking back at what I thought I was missing out on in my 20s, I'm glad I did!
Steve Harvey you being real about life and the decisions we make means something
I’m 20 Years Old Solid I need God More Than Ever I know I can Prevail !
Myles Dabney come to god he love you. Stop running away from him
God is bullshit. He doesn't exist. Live life, learn, teach, grow.
Creativemind23 god don’t exist lol you crazy. The media and tv got another person. Look at your arm ,your skin and your body. If god so fake why do movie, tv and music video talk about him so much??? The Bible if the Bible was a man write think why is every prophecy true?? Not 1 be wrong??? Bad thing happen to everybody so do bring that crap up.
Ace Degenerate lol I would rather be a idiot then a fool tht don’t kno god
Ace Degenerate it’s funny I guarantee when you die you goin to really ask yourself if god really was real.
So right I'm 27 about to be 28 thanks this is so real starting now time for a change
Gladys Boyd me2
Much positivity to you.
Now you 28
😂😂😂👆👆
Ur 30 now how are u getting on? Lol
Imma watch this every day, I think it will help keep my mind in the right place. Thanks for sharing Steve
You are so right Steve! I spent my time doing and helping for other people.
I’m 2 years old. So happy that I’m watching this video now! Really enlightening
Lie lol
I’ve been using my 20s to build myself mentally physically and emotionally, financially trying to become the best version of myself day in and day out I’m a High performance person my future is bright just staying focused and being patient keeping the faith while in the process 850 credit score otw this year 💯
Gonna turn 20 this month. Time for life to actually begin, I’m excited💯
Most people venture into crypto to be millionaires, meanwhile i just want to be debt free
That's very practical and smart goal, a wise man once said do everything you can to get outta debt, one of his tips to getting rich
Just do the right thing, by trading with an expert, I trust me you will be a millionaire and debt free
When you invest in crypto you are buying days you don't need to work..
Now is the best time to purchase and invest in bitcoin, stop procastinating..
Crypto is the future, investing in it will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise..
23, finishing college this year, looking for internship, started a small business last year, no bad habits like smoking drinking foolish spending, still have a long way to go but this video helps me out when i need. God bless!
3 years later revisiting this video - finished school working as mortgage banker, that business unfortunately didnt workout, have a good amount of savings enough to buy a house but saving for investing in real estate. still have over 3 yrs in my 20s and def a way to go! love this video tho man.
Absolutely agree. I'm 34 now. I regret so much wasting my entire youth on bullshyt. This [regret] has been a recurring theme throughout my 30's. In my defense, I didn't have a good foundation growing up and I can't blame my parents for it giving that they themselves weren't properly educated or well founded either. And in the midst of my poor life choices I thank God that I awoke. But for the past 4 years now I've been diligently trying to build my life up. 4 years in and on the outside looking in I'm static. But it couldn't further from the truth. I've grown so much as a person and my dominos are aligned. Soon the domino effect will start and I have faith that my life will only get better. But I do realize that I have a late start in life therefore it's not gonna be an easy journey. But I have faith that in the end it'll all be worth it.
I feel yah.. I didn't have a good foundation with my parents either. My Dad was always verbally abusive towards everyone in the family ever since i was a kid and maybe even before i was born. He also didn't like my middle sister and I's chosen career paths either via Art and Photography so he decided to yell and not even help us achieve our dream. Now he is in his 80s and i do not really feel like speaking to him about what i do anymore even if he asks i will just give him a general answer. I'm 26 soon to be 27 now and despite being lazy and introverted, I am just trying to better myself by learning new skills for personal development one step at a time.
I'm 29 right now and everything he is saying, im feeling it so hard.
I just got my first 6 figure job and I’m 25. Part of me feels like I’ve missed out on a lot of fun and key moments in my life trying to be successful, but this makes me feel better.
Well deserved man. Congratulations. You have my word that time will prove to you that you didn't miss out on anything at all. I'm 22 and working hard to get to your success
@@ahmedalrasheed7938 I appreciate that man. If I were to give any words of advice I would suggest Cybersecurity. There’s a lot of up side in terms of job growth considering that we are going into a more automated market. Compliance jobs/ cloud security jobs pay extremely well and it only goes up with experience. Doesn’t hurt to learn code if you have the time, but it’s not necessary.
Appreciate your advice but I'm already doing med school and just about two years to graduate. Wanaa excel in it and I'm really enjoying it.
@@Anosrecords wish you best of luck.
@@ahmedalrasheed7938 Congratulations bro, we definitely need more great doctors in the world. Just hang in there, I wish you all the best as well.
I’m 26 years old now, I see myself doing this right now and will do all my best to make it happen and don’t waste no more chance, time,opportunity and future good life 💪🏾✌️
So touching 😇 thank you Steve ❤️
26 here too. Scratching the things I can do to make it.
Another piece of advice is always look for opportunities. If an opportunity presents itself you better jump on it and make it happen. You only get a few lucky breaks in your life and if you can’t see it or hesitate to take advantage, then it’s gone. This advice from a 40 year old man 😂.
Anybody else over 30 watching this video like dang?
You still have time
In one decade you can do triple what other people can do in their lifespan, especially in your 30’s you are wiser and still young and energitic. Just be smart and utilize technology only to your own benefit.
Inspiration Station I'm 11 LOL
Hahaha 🙋🏽♂️
Inspiration Station i just turned 30s
Listened to this while smoking a cigar. I just turned 40. I look back at all the wasted time and have to agree. It’s sad, really. The truth is, each day we have a decision to change it. That’s the thing I hold onto.
I would absolutely love to sit and have a conversation with Steve, I feel like just sitting and listening to him speak. Man this is what I needed to hear today.
I just turned 24 a couple of weeks ago. I’ve dedicated the past 2-3 years manifesting my soccer dream. It’s a lot of work, sacrifices and the feeling of loneliness but I refuse to go down a road just to fit in. I’m authentic to myself and the things that I like. I’ll walk down my road alone. If I have to sacrifice another 5-10 years to get to where I want to be in life, let’s do it!
I don’t mean to be that guy but 24 is too old to go pro. Most pros were already in a club has young has 16. Also, if you’re in the United States you might has well give up on that… but I do have a suggestion. Why don’t you mic up and have someone film your games ? And post highlights/heated interaction on tiktok ? Kinda like those internet basketball players like ballislife theprofessor. Then you can build a brand around the sport and eventually be in the same space has the pros.
@@lepiee I’m never gonna be too old for what God has in His storage for me. I’ll make something out of myself through football even if it’s 5 years from now.
@@gp-footy9319 God can only get you so far. If your soccer dream hasn’t happened yet. That in itself is God telling you you’re going in the wrong direction. No one saying you can’t make something out of yourself through soccer you just have to take a different route/ approach. Im gona be blunt and real because I care… you not going to play for a pro club it’s too late bro. Stop wasting your time. These pros you see on tv were already in those clubs has teenagers you just didn’t hear about them untill they debut. Messi joined Barcelona when he was 13 come on now be realistic.. Ronaldo went pro at 17… open you eyes man don’t get clouded by that nonsense
Im glad I spent my 20s hustling in my field, I’m still in my 20s, working at a big tech company and creating generational wealth for my family. I wish I got through some of my friends and shown them by example, but no one wants advice till they see you shining
Hi Sturdy . I’ve got a similar story. Mind if I connect ?
Tech company eh , IT ? Computer science ? Looking to get into those fields is that what your doing cause you did say tech company
@@itzmanny9358 Yea sure
@@adrian21o I studied computer science, and yes I work at a big tech company as a software engineer
@@sturdycode7265 how do I ?
I am 25 right now, and I will take this piece of em of as advice and work hard to make my family proud.
Thank you, Steve, alhamdulillah (praising God for the blessings).
Never heard Steve speak like this. I wish more of this type of content was out there for us on TV. Thanks for this video.
Makes me remind myself I'm on the right track!..thanks Steve u the best!
I'm 28. I have a house, a truck, a wicked awesome sports car that actually gains value per year. I did some solo traveling and some exploring. Been heartbroken once. I been working full time since I was 20. Saved my money. Wasn't to foolish with it. Best advice, work hard, don't doubt yourself to much, don't listen to everyones advice, listen to yourself and don't justify bad decisions just own up to them. Learn to cut your losses and move on.
Learn to cut your losses and move on is a good one
Congratulations bro
Great story, congrats.
Awesome, keep on doing well. It's a blessing 🙏🏿
gold:
work hard, don't doubt yourself to much, don't listen to everyones advice, listen to yourself and don't justify bad decisions just own up to them. Learn to cut your losses and move on.
I wish this video was out when I was in my 20s. Man just thinking of this, you hit it on the nail with me. I’m not ashamed and blessed to be in a great position now in my 30s but you are correct about my 20s. Blessings to you💯💯💯🙏🏾
Thank you Steve you just change the way we think towards life.
Steve you're soooo right! I was 19 years old, when I joined the Army and then after I screwed off my 20s, 30s and then 40s and 50s. And now in my 60s I am just starting to get stuff my together. Please young people, listen to us OGs, we've down the stupid path that you're heading. Get it right, now, while you have the chances that weren't available to the older generations.
Im 17 and this was pretty eye opening. I will take this advice into my 20s. Thanks Steve!
Take it from now
Perfect time to hear it, I was 17 when the switch went off in my head.
Good for you!!!! I’m so glad you are taking this in now.
How is it
how is it going for you?
I’m 16 and feel like it’s already over. Nice to know there’s always still time to be who you want to be.
You are only 16,\; BELIEVE IN YOU. If you want to get started, start with a podcast, or self development on youtube, look for the valuable information, look for the truth and you'll be just fine, I'm 25 now in 2023 and there was so much I wanted to do in HS, but waited to finish. Everybody talk about what you should do in your 20's, No, work on the thing work you need to do EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE!! Never take life for granted, just get to work and the rest will follow. Hope this helps.
It’s nothing wrong with living “wild and free” in your 20’s. Life isn’t all about work and trying to live up to society’s version of success. I’ll be 30 this October and look back and see that I lived in my young life. Simply put. Of course if I stayed dedicated to “the American dream” then I’d be “in a better position in life” and I’ll live the same way if I got to do it all over again because I love who I am and what life (including traumas) has made me. Let’s just move on. We lived the way we wanted to. All we can do is what we can now and allow the younger ones to be young as we were.
Balance is most important I guess. I'm 20 currently, hopefully I make it big!
Wild and free is some dumb term that enables dumb decisions being wild and free is a state of mind
Bro u missed the point . Point is u can live how u want but if u want to be free later u gotta work now . I’m 19 just got a career job like bro most mfs my age thirsty to find the next party
@@tguyton01 what job did you get you barely got out of your mother
Unfortunately it's a give or take.. I did what steve Harvey said... sacrificed fun and relationships and now I'm in my mid 30s, financially independent.. single and carefree. However, I do think i missed out on the fun of life and the relationships I could have had. If I had to do it all over again, it would be a hard choice but if I could take my wisdom along, then I would have done both. Its possible.
...when you've done all you can do and you cant do no more, do some more!!! Sooo true!!! Thanks Steve!
Mr. Harvey, I sincerely appreciate your wisdom and faith.
I'm 34 and this is very true. I just clowned around and did f all during my 20s. Now I feel like I'm catching up to what I should have been doing 10 years ago.
My 20s was what it was. I’ve made peace with it. The only thing I wish I started in my 20s was a consistent meditation practice. It would have given me the wisdom and strength to wake up and walk away. It took until my early 30s to follow through. Then until my 40s to fully recover. But I’m grateful. ❤️
I have this conversation with myself daily. Spent my whole 20z tryna maintain a relationship..now I’m 28 I feel 50 and I can’t look in the mirror.
@@moritz_schadt im happy for you
Almost 19 thank you Steve !!!! Saved one young black man
Thank you for this video! I love listening to Steve Harvey! He always gives good advices.
Thank god I got this Recommended when I’m 20 still live with my dad but I’m working and saving up 💯💪🏾
this scene would be perfect to put in GTA story mode, especially the last part when he smoked the cigar.
I'm 19 and this video was just an appreciation that I'm on the right path on building businesses and self improvement. Steve is the man. God bless!
Good for you!!!
I’m 25 coming up on 26 this year. This this thought always floats around in my head, but hearing it from someone who’s successful, and then to add that he did it too, just made me refocus on my goals
Agreed !!!!!
Thank you Steve for this advice. Wish me the best.
In my late 20’s and i can absolutely relate that to my life. I waste my time partying, drinking, and having relationships that were not worthy. If i could just bring back my time i will focus more in business and continue educating myself without wasting time destroying my health.
I'm in my 20's. Will turn 22 this May.
I must stop destroying my health and wasting time and start focusing on my business, continuously educating and improving myself.
I'm 20, been working with my CDL for 3yrs now..I have $ saved & a vision 🙏🏼 I plan on having a trucking biz by 25 or 26. By 30 I wanna be self employed.
Exactly the same thing with me, I Hope your dreams come true one day.
Checkup, I hope you are doing well with your life!
These videos definitely keep me motivated, I’m 19 years old GRINDING working for myself running my own landscaping business.🎊
I needed to hear that. I’m 35 and I’m still living with my parents with little money in my pocket. This year I’m making a change and I’m putting in the work to accomplish my life long goals. I’m going to make it happen 😊.
Being a 50 year old man, so very true Steve! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Thank you for sharing important knowledge and keeping bringing it.
I love Steve Harvey’s wisdom! It’s been 2 years now and I get my ass up to listen to his show at 6AM!
Wow I needed to hear this. Thank you
This advice is so damn raw and real. Exactly what I needed today. Thanks Steve!
One of the best speeches I've ever heard.
SNOOpi DoOPs! Me to
True
Seriously, I'm 14 working on myself lol. No time for games, the earlier you start the better.
Same this really hitting different right now
I know you will probably never read this Steve but I wanted to thank you. Steve I'm in my 20s now. I messed up in college when I was 17 and is hard to bounce back. my parents instilled a work ethic me. you don't work you don't eat. I'm trying to better myself because I want to be more than I am part time work at part time doesn't pay the bills. in fact I look at you and see your life and think that man has lived. it might not be the way you should have been but I do respect your wisdom. thank you for being honest in a world full of fake people that are to worried about offending people. a lot of us don't have parents and grandparents and I'm sad to say a lot of us don't have parents that PRAY anymore or even believe in the power of prayer anymore.i am thankful to say this is not my story. I have two wonderful parents who have posted for me everyday in my past 23 (soon to be 24) years. and I am thankful for my second family who had taken me in to help me in my journey know God more and better myself. I thank you for stepping up and I admire you sir and respect you.
I’m 25 and trying this right now .. it definitely ain’t easy. Haven’t been to a club since 21. Just been working and grinding now so I don’t have to later
Your the best Steve always motivation from what you lived to show us young ppl to do the right thing god bless you love you 🙏
I call you the "Knowledge Dropper". Thank you so much...you are helping the young and the young at heart. Love you Sir.
He's speaking. LISTEN!
Wise advise. Be a serious person starting at 18. Work hard. Be honest. Be grateful. Be kind. Forgive and forget. = Success
Preach King You Not Lying Man, This Is Facts Needed To Hear This!!!!