Postpartum Depression: How It Affects a Montessori mom with Two Kids (Feat. Robot mower)
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- Опубликовано: 4 мар 2024
- Postpartum depression VLOG
Postpartum depression is real and often silent. With my 9-month-old baby experiencing separation anxiety and teething, I've found myself extremely stressed and overwhelmed. So, I've begun exploring ways to navigate through this challenging period.
Personally, I've found solace in moments alone with a cup of tea and a good book whenever I get the chance. I deliberately avoid screen time and scrolling through reels on my phone.
I've also found relief by utilising technologies such as a robot vacuum cleaner, robot mop, and robot mower to assist with chores. Seriously, they took a lot off my shoulders and allowed me extra time to spend either quality time with the kids or have some alone time.
Seeking support from family and friends has also been immensely helpful. Slowly but surely, I'm starting to emerge from the shadow of postpartum depression. I felt compelled to share my story, as I know others may be going through something similar. Remember, you are not alone.
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Thank you for sharing. We just got through the first year with our first baby and wow, not only was I not expecting just how exhausting it is (no matter how many parents try to warn you!) but I wasn’t expecting how hard I would be on myself to be perfect. I cried when you said you feel like your constantly cleaning and preparing meals. I’m so glad you are posting realistic aspects of motherhood. You’re doing amazing things every day - including those moments of rest ❤️
Congratulations on making it through the first year! I can totally relate to being hard on myself to be perfect. I guess embracing imperfection is part of the journey... 🙂
Parenting is not easy, especially for kids under the age of 1. Sending lots of love and strength your way. And congratulations on reaching 100k. You deserve it.
Under the age of 1 ? You mean any age … my 2 and 1/2 year old is a testament to that statement
I have been going through the same thing since my little girl was born. There are days or weeks when I feel like I'm always doing the same thing over and over again in a loop. There have been days when I didn't feel like a person, but rather like another device in the house. And as you say, it is a phase, which will pass, that's for sure, but we have to take some time to breathe, to disconnect and ask for help if we need it. If we don't take care of ourselves we won't be able to take care of others as we would like.
Thank you for showing this video. I recently became a mum to a wonderful little baby but it is hard. And every other video i am watching they show only the good things and their baby never cries the house is always clean they are always in full make up happy and organised. I was keep wondering what am i doing wrong. You introduced me Montessori which i love. You are an inspiration and a hard working loving mum. You are strong and will fight through this phase . All the best to you and your family
Hazie, thank you for making this video. I know the feeling and I think sharing it can help mothers realize they aren't alone. I hope I can offer a small amount of uplift by telling you that I'm a first time mother and your videos have helped me, even before my daughter was born. Especially for practical life activities. Recently, during the transition to a floor bed, I was so nervous and stressed. Then, I saw the videos from your channel and it gave me the last bit of confidence I needed to make it happen. Now I can't imagine life without it.
You deserve a break, and I know it's hard to take one! Hopefully you will get some time soon to recharge and refresh 💕
Congratulations on 100k!
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! It means a lot to hear that my videos have been helpful to you on your journey into motherhood. Your encouragement and appreciation truly motivate me to keep creating content. thank you!!! 😊❤
I stopped making videos on RUclips right before having our child, to give all my strength and energy to my family and myself also. There were many moments of burn outs, but I feel like not having social media helped me stay in peace. You don’t have to quit it, that what worked for me, but make sure to take breaks when needed and ask for help from your husband. Your videos are wonderful and helpful, but your health and health of your family is a priority.
Aww love 😢 must be so hard with 2 … I had a phase like this with my daughter and it happened a couple of times , I was like who am I , I look old and put on weight and couldn’t find joy in things , but it does pass ❤ thank you for sharing and being honest , you are doing amazing ❤
헤이지님 힘내세요! 저도 세아이9살7살2살 보면서, 하루종일 날 위한 시간도 없이 힘들게 보낸 나날들이 많답니다ㅠㅠ
타국에서 아이둘 키우며 채널 운영하며 대단하신것 같아요! 힘내세요! 제가 응원합니다 ❤
i’m on the same journey my daughter is elijah’s age so you guys helped me through a lot. it definitely feels exhausting sometimes.. but it’ll get better soon. all the hard work to set up good habits for them will pay off 💜
Omg, you are doing an amazing job, juggling so much. I commend you to be able to keep your house so clean in between feedings, poor sleep, making lunches etc. I only have one kid (10 month old) and my house is a mess. Cooking all his solids takes ages. And then the clean up. Have you considered using a catchy? Very handy for all the things they throw off.
You are totally way more organised. To be able to film as you go is an extra layer of complexity and it would slow down your day for set up.
So I would say thankyou for taking all this time and sharing your daily bits and bobs to us viewers.
We just aren't organised ourselves
A catchy ?
Congratulations on your 100k milestone! I starting watching your channel very early and remember watching the episodes repeatedly ☺️you are amazing!!
thank you so much for sharing. your honesty is so generous. watching you have the same thoughts and feelings helps me feel seen and know that this is all just a phase xxx love your channel, massive congrats on the 100k followers!
Also congrats on 100k! I remember watching ur videos when you first started and you had a couple thousand 😮
Thank you for sharing your journey in such an open and honest way. I suffered with severe PND and anxiety after my first baby and it went on for a year before I got treatment. It does get better once you start taking active steps to manage it (this video shows that you are!). I hope you are feeling better soon 💕
Hazie, a big warm hug for you from Austria! 💗 You're amazing and very creative, so you'll definitely find a way to go through this stage as smooth as possible with valuable insights! 🌸🌸🌸
Sending love and prayers your way. 🙏 Parenting is the hardest job and you are a wonderful Mom!
Post partum depression can hit anyone - thank you for being so real in your videos. In solidarity 🫂
Thank you for your honesty. It's hard sometimes. Also incredibly beautiful, but some days are just hard. ❤
Hazie, I am totally relating to this.. my baby boy is 5 months old. I got my hair cut short because it was all falling out (it didnt help bubs was using it like rope..) but I'm kind of regretting it and it's knocked my confidence a little. Some days I wonder if I was feeling sad and depressed because of the lack of sleep or if it was just the daily routine... Everyday is a new day though and I tell myself this time spent with bubs won't be forever. Thanks for posting honestly and sharing something so personal it's nice to know us mama's are all going through this together!
That's what I am trying to remember too; this time with my kids won't last forever. 😊
hi Hazy, first of all you aren’t alone! Thank you for your contents! love watching them.
I totally feel you.. also have a 9 month old baby boy and he’s really active and most of the time clingy. Our days at home are so monotonous like yours.. Not really sure if we have postpartum depression or this is just prolly a phase. They advice us to enjoy every moment although it’s kinda hard bec triggers come attacking everyday. More power to you!
Thank you for your honesty. I struggled in the same way and I felt so alone in it. I look at your other videos and thought maybe I created the issue by introducing screens too early, or it was Covid isolation, questioning all my decisions as a mother. I feel like watching you struggle too makes me blame and resent myself less because in my mind you look like you do everything perfectly.
Thank you for sharing so candidly.
Looking after young children is intense, and can feel sooo tough (and triggering, especially when sleep deprived).
Yes, it's all 'just' a phase, but when you're in the midst of it, it can seem like you'll never feel like yourself again.
Sending love to all exhausted parents everywhere.
You are so incredible and amazing and have helped me so much !!!! So much love to you Hazie
Hi Hazie! You inspired me and I love your style of editing and information you shared in your videos. Please keep it up :)
I can relate to this feeling! I have a 3 yr old and a one month old. Even though my newborn naps for a large chunk of the day, I feel so sleep deprived since he is not sleeping through the night. I don't have that expectation at his age, but it's very tiring. Luckily my daughter has been going to a Montessori school since 18 months and she is well behaved for her age. I don't think i could do it otherwise. I love the Montessori philosophy and your videos are really great resources to learn more about it. As you know, things will get easier after the age of one, so let's both think of that as a milestone! Wishing you the best.
Thank you so much for this video. I'm going through the same thing, having 2 kids, a 8 months old girl and a 2 and a half years old girl. And the food on the floor thing, when will they invent something for that ??!! It's soooo frustrating. Good luck with this. If anything helped me it's reading, writing and seeing a therapist.
I'm so sorry you're battling PPD. I had PPD after my first and suffered through it during the pandemic shut downs. I felt so isolated and didn't recognize the thoughts in my mind. 🩵 Sending prayers and good vibes your way. I finally started to see a light at the end of the tunnel when I was able to be around other moms again and after taking some supplements that helped my adrenal glands. 😊
me too!! I always feel so much better when i talk to other moms too!
아기 낳고 처음 채널 접했는데 이제 저희 아기가 20개월이 되었어요…! 출산후에 제 부모님, 시부모님, 하다못해 지나가는 행인들까지도 한마디 참견하시고… 조언아닌 조언 해주실때 아… 나는 부족한 엄마인가… 아무도 내가 잘하고있구나라는 느낌을 주는 사람이 없네… 이런 생각으로 힘들어할때 Hazie님 영상을 보면서 엄마로써 어떻데 해야겠다라는 core를 다졌어요.
워킹맘이라 진짜 하루하루가 치열하면서 긴데요… 아이가 칭얼거리거나 잠투정하는날엔 진짜 너무 힘들어서 왜 안자나…. 얼른 자야지 생각하다가도 잠든 아이를 만지작거리면서 엄마가 짜증내서 미안해…. 내일은 더 좋은 엄마가 될게… 이러면서 혼자 눈물을 훔치고… 다음날에 코워커들이랑 이런 대화하면서 또 울고 그랬어요….
Hazie님은 구독하는 모든 엄마들에게
좋은 에너지와 motivation 을 주는 좋은 롤모델이세요. 오늘도 수고 많으셨고 잘 하셨어요. 화이팅!
첫째 30개월 미운 3살 + 둘째 4개월 원더윅스라 거의 정줄 놓고있었는데 영상에서 말씀하시는 부분이 정말 요즘 제가느끼는 것과 똑같은 감정이라 너무 공감하면서봤어요. 모든 엄마들이 비슷한 과정을 겪는 것 같아요. 저도 아이둘과 지지고볶다가 감정의 구렁텅이 속에서 슬퍼하고 자책하다가도 이게 모두 너무 좋은 엄마가 되려고 해서 그런걸거라고 생각하며 마음을 좀 놓으려해요ㅠㅠ 우리 모두 힘내요ㅠㅠ 금방 이 힘든시기가 지나가고 육아 황금기가 올거예요 ! 참 그리구 10만 축하드려요❤❤❤❤ 멀리 한국에서 항상 영상 기다리고있어요!🥹🥹🥹
+ 마지막 부분에서 눈물 쥬르륵 흘렸네요
감사합니다ㅎㅎ 우리모두 힘내요!!!
All what I can say is that you did extraordinary work regardless the inner state you’re in! Sending you lots of love and hugs!
I love your videos so much
Congratulations! You’re doing amazing
Thank you for sharing ❤ sending you lots of courage and strength and you will get though this. If you feel worse please see specialist. Two of my friend were in a very dark place but this is all in a past now !
Congrats Hazie with 100k! You're doing an amazing job! I'm a mom to 1 year old baby boy and I bought a washable table cloth to put it under the feeding table. It saved lots of my energy and nerves. After feeding my baby I take this cloth and shake out all left over crumbs into a parcel and then we give them to birds.
Oh that's a great idea!! i'll definitely give it a go, except for feeding birds because they will bring friends of their friends and there will be too many 😆
Thank you for sharing this realistic process! I’m a first time mum and this is really not easy. I feel lonely all the time, my baby is currently 5 months old 🥲 nevertheless take care Hazie!! I love watching your videos 💕
Thank you, I needed this. I have a 7mo and my baby is the same as Elijah, he's been sleeping so bad lately and he has been extremely clingy, it can be overwhelming some days.
Elijah is 10 months old now, and his clinginess has already improved, along with his sleeping habits. This is really just a phase! You've got this, Mama!
Thank you for sharing. I’m mom of my first baby aged 1 in one week. I feel so bad sometimes, especially when waking up at 6am and have no opportunity to get a nap during the day. Exhausting. Hope it will be better with the sleep someday.❤
Motherhood is so hard. I am on the other side, I was raising 2 kids under 2 during covid lock downs. It tipped me over into a headspace I don’t want to ever experience again. Now my kids are 4 and almost 3 and I am pregnant again ready for another season lol. I promise you will get through it all and you will find yourself again. You’re doing so well!! God bless and take care x
It's heartwarming to hear that despite the difficulties, you're preparing for another season with positivity and hope. Blessings to you and your growing family, and take care as well! 💖
You’re doing so great without much help from others and doing it all on yr help! 🩷🩷 cleaning and tidying is something definitely to lower the bars after having kids - prioritise rest!!
Thankyou for sharing the hard parts your not alone ❤️❤️❤️
영상 너무 재밌게 봤어요~ ❤그리고 실버버튼 진심으로 축하해요 🎉🎉
Omg I would never ever be able to live with a lizard like that under my roof no way. The moment you thought it was gone 😱😱😱
Moms! Please look into wearing ear plugs it helps limit overstimulation and saved me many times.
헤이지님 영상을 통해 정보뿐 아니라 여러가지를 배우고있는 이제 7개월 첫째를 키우고 있는 초보엄마입니다 10만 축하드려요! 우리모두 힘내요! 헤이지님이 나름대로의 방법으로 산후우울감을 극복하시는것 보고 공감도 되구 힘 얻고 갑니다❤ 이미 너무 잘 하시고있다는거 알아두세용!!
감사합니다 ^^
구독자 1000명대이실 때부터 봤어요. 항상 어떻게 이런 컨텐츠를 준비하지? 놀라워하며 신랑한테도 툭하면 헤이지님이~ 헤이지님이~ 그랬네요. 꾸준히 달려오신만큼 지치실 법도 합니다. 게다가 두 아이 육아...ㅠ ㅠ 그래도 헤이지님이라면 항상 잘 해내실 거라 믿습니다!
I love you call the lizard Susie 😂
❤️❤️❤️❤️ a big hug from a fellow mama. Sending love and a hug and prayers.
aww thank you ❤
I’m feeling he same at the moment, my 7 month old has always worked up 2 during the night. Now he has also stared waking up early in the morning like 5 😢
Suzie part was so funny. Reminds me of when I see lizards running on ceilings and walls when I first moved to Singapore. Small and fast and poop on my wall 😨
Hazie, Thanks for sharing this, I also gave birth to my third son last year close to Elijah, and went thru postpartum with my second and third births. Understand your feelings well. Comforting to hear we are not alone thru this season of our lives.
8개월 초보맘이에요~ 요즘 저도 하루가 이유식만들고 기저귀갈고 치우고 재우고 늘 똑같은 일상에 지치려하는 찰나 이걸 봤네요^^
늘 좋은 영상 만들어주셔서 공감도 하고 배우며 갑니다^^
Isolation 😢 thank you so much for being so vulnerable and imitate in sharing your journey. God bless you and your vocation :)
Oh no Susie 😂 she is creepy!
너무 부지런하세요~ 저랑 둘째 비슷한 시기에 낳아서 공감도 가고 그래요 바쁜중에도 유튜브도 하고 살림도 하시고 본인에게 칭찬 많이 해주세요~ 정말 애쓰고 수고하셨어요
실버버튼 받으신거 축하해요 앞으로도 자주 뉼러올께요❤
당신은 사랑받기위해 태어난 사람❤
Hi there,
Where did you get the 3 large picture frames for your kids to enjoy?
the frames are from IKEA!
Going through same thing but it does get better. The house need not be perfect... its done even if its only 50% done lol. My cleaning standard have dropped but it made life easier 😅
잘하고 있다❤ 토닥토닥! 10만도 축하🎉
갑자기 찐친등장!ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 고맙닼ㅋㅋㅋ
I'm in the thick of it with you! 4 months pp with baby 2, and back to full time work. Mon-Fridays feel like a blur, and the weekends are too short to fit in catching up on chores, and spending more quality time with the littles. 😢 But my kids, my husband and my village keeps me sane. ❤ We got this, Mama!
Вы супер! Спасибо за ваш огромный труд!
Hi hazie can you share the link of your vacum robot and robot mop
○ ROBOT MOP: amzn.to/431B1Bo
○ ROBOT VACUUM: amzn.to/3T1wrP6
😉
I don't know if what I have counts as postpartum depression, I think its a side effect from the contraceptive, because I feel bad since I started it, I'm mostly like shut down and don't manage stress well.
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time. It's important to address how you're feeling and find the right support to help you feel better. You deserve to feel your best!!
@@hazieandmotherhood I hope you get to feel better too. Lots of love.
Bandicoots ❤
You know it actually is A LOT harder than a paid job? You have to do a lot more hours a day. Also, you don't get to sleep through the whole night. What's that system we live in?
You deserve additional support from the grown-up that is closest to you. With this, I am not saying they aren't doing anything. What I am saying is: you are currently doing far more than is humanely healthy. Please do realize that your job is as much of a job as any other and that you deserve breaks and should not be working overtime EVERYDAY. Maybe look at how you can come to a better workingshare (count it by hours)?
Btw, have you considered "slowing down the process" by working less?
Motherhood is hard
We do not have to live with depression or anxiety or anything bad like that God can heal you God can help you , He is truly the Greatest Father and the Bestest Friend who always knows and wants what is best for us Jesus loves you ,you should get to know Him 😊❤
it doesn’t last forever
The only way it got easier for me is when I started doing everything for the glory of God. It doesn’t matter what we do day to day, but whatever we do, but or small, it’s all for the Lord and that made it so much easier and more comforting for me. We don’t have to do it all. Even God didn’t finish everything in one day! You are doing great mama 💞
Yes, there is an aging process at your age too, but it can not be so serious at the age of cca. 30. You should be greatful for your life you have - healthy kids, your healthy and young body, husband/ father of your children, lots of useful, helpful devices in and around your house! Stop complainig about your life - you should see how nice it is! You are lucky!
If you do videos you have to keep it in mind you are influencing with them other people/young moms! It is a great responsibility, don‘t forget it!
Motherhood is not easy, but full of beautiful moments, try to enjoy it! 😊
Everyone has difficult moments, no need to jugde just become they also good things in their life. Talking about it helps other people feel like they are not alone. This is not "complaining" .
She does say that she is thankful for the devices. Her video influences are far better than any RUclips mum who is trying to paint this picture perfect life. And devices are not what makes us happy and everyone can have a bad phase.
What not to say to a person with (postpartum) depression
That's a comment you really should have kept to yourself mate.
Very arrogant and immature comment. 🤦♀️