This goes out there to all the ladies out there,i know what it feels like to be played I have been down that road many times, it might help u out and yet it might sound silly but say something nice about yourself and remember someday your true love with come and save u love u all 😊
1 doesn't txt first 2 trying to make him like you 3 pretend they don't care(bad boy) 4 negativity backhanded compliments 5 so many options but I choose you 6 silent treatment game 7 jealousy game 8 don't ignore your intuition Don't play the game with him disengage asap
He only sat.. never wanted to do anything with me.. took me out to eat.. says it is my fault.. He always blam.. me.. I always tired of it.. I he did was called..
Fuck anyone and everyone that doesn’t feed your soul and raises it. Fuck em. You’ll never be alone because the whole universe is already inside you. Be your everything . You come alone in this world and you leave alone.
Thanks for the info. Another sign is when a guy shows connection and excitement at first. Once the female shares mutual feelings, the guy becomes distant, stops talking of feelings, withholds affection, texting becomes formal and flow of romance is disrupted.
lotus 07 that’s what happened with me..everytime he started being cold and mean, I pulled back..as soon as I’d pull back he’d pull me straight back in..
Thank you for sharing this. The exact same thing has happened to me. The sudden change has been completely confusing, but now I see it in a different light. Simply, it is manipulation and we all deserve better.
My ex did everything discussed in this video to me and I fell for it all, I never believed people when they warned me he was playing games. It really makes me realise how lucky to escape such a toxic relationship
yes, like my brother in law who's having an affair, and I know about it, but his wife doesnt. She has blinkers on, and family wont tell her, they think theyre protecting her, but they are harming her, wspecially when she finds out
More than likely, if or WHEN we leave them the only games they’ll have to play is ‘ALONE’ on the phone. That’s until they find their next victim. If EVER. They will die alone or still living on Mammies couch. Narcissistic A-holes
Stop telling women, "he's just Not that into you!" You give an individual too much power while taking power or self esteem from the other. Women have enough on their plate without feeling even lower when a double minded man is on the prowl! He's not that into you..should sound more like...He's not worth it!
Pandorafix you're entittled to your own opinion. This is not the video I committed on. Also, I don't argue with opposition. You voiced your thoughts...therefore this conversation should be concluded...great day!
It's A Love Thang! The conversation should be concluded when the natural momentum of the conversation has lead it to thus. And a reader can only assume this is the video you intended your comment for since its attatched to this video. Just a heads up its confusing to those who wanna contribute ! Shalom and have a great night too Jane
Pandorafix You stated the word Shalom...One can assume you may know God. Therefore, ask yourself if the statement I committed on does it line up with the word of God. Those of the Lord live, think and believe different. Hopefully, you now understand my comment. Eat the meat, spit out the bones. I did just that.😇
It's A Love Thang! My observations, if they made you uncomfortable, is a feeling Jesus Christ made many Pharisees feel. Gosh, furlongs beyond uncomfortable...he made them angry, murderously angry. That being said, you mention flesh...and bone. The truth is sharper than a two edged sword, it cuts to the marrow. Which parts made you feel uncomfortable? If they did, why? *Obviously you wish to try to make yourself sound superior with "you'll understand if you think as lofty as I do" of course I'm paraphrasing you ,but it does reminisce the pharasees doesn't it! You wanted to talk about the living Almighty God. The truth is simple, yes?. All I asked was a simple question about why was there confusion about which video you were commenting on...not that that even has anything to do with my comment. Was it my comment about when conversations, of an academic or philosophical air especially should resolve themselves on the basis of their own momentum? Your ego doesnt take correction well ? And you speak of the Lord? Do you humble yourself to the Lord who's name you conjured in this convo? Dig? Shalom (:
It's A Love Thang! Have you ever considered your tone of superiority doesn't match the quality of conversation you're capable of? Is that why you're so bothered and uncomfortable by anyone's comments that don't agree with yours ? Paper thin... I'd think about that one sweetie
Silent treatment is the killer, that's why I want to leave a dude. Given him time and if he doesn't come by my birthday, I win the game of it's a blessing to move on.
A person who plays mind games should not be stopped, their ass should be dumped. Aint nobody got time for that. Grow up or get gone. This is not Jr. High.
This video has helped me a lot. My ex did this to me. Especially the silent treatment after he ghosted me to go back to his ex wife. Now that they are no longer together I tried to reach out just as a friend but still the silent treatment. Guess I just need to believe what my gut told me he truly is and that is a narcissist psychopath. Thank you for you wisdom.
Kim Sikorski~ Yes he is (sociopathic~Narccisit ). ***From personal experience***: if you have escaped~ in a ANY ( voluntarily or involuntarily) way... Stay far Away. Do Not reach out. Because he will only use your want to be acknowledged/nice/loved against you. Embarrassing you, further alienating you from others via making work, exercise, or family time limited, WTF. (not to mention you even being alienated for yourself/your own thoughts/needs/desires. Please just stop calling him. Pray whenever you get the urge, or exercise... Anything- but communication. Remember, sometime we as the "insignificant others" can develop addictions/conditions tied to the manipulative behaviors/acquisitions of the Narcs we love/have loved. These behavior become chains that invisibly bind us* **And they MUST be broken by You and you alone. But if you don't break them all.. You mind as well have never even made the attempt. No offense~just love~ but it doesn't sound like you are over it or even want to be YET: and that describes who I was. I had a real choice. Stay and never complain- take it. Or leave: alone and scared- with the world your feet and the hurt at your back; With everywhere to go but back to an abyss you never ONCE belonged... I love you even though I don't know you. I'm also Praying for you. Hope you broke free!
Don’t get involved with him ever again. I left an abusive relationship and he still pursued me - I ended up in a wreck and am permanently disabled because of him. Please run like wind and don’t look back. Individuals like that have very poor self esteem and they like punish you for their bad behavior.
My ex used to talk about “her options” how she was always being hit on or that her ex still wanted her, I figured if you have so many people lusting for you call them. 😂 I’m glad my mom taught me right because I’ve always been too proud to fall for these games
Great video ☺ This goes both ways (as I'm sure you know). I actually recognised my OWN behaviour in some of those points 😮 Thank you for helping me be a better partner.
OMG, my ex was all of these. It made it so hard to leave because he always made me think I was exaggerating and/or the problem, not him. I think what he loved the most was making me jealous (he'd talk about exes or flings, or tell me about a girl on the street that looked good, if he'd met a female friend while he was with me he would make me feel invisible for a while and then when I'd tell him how he made me feel he'd tell me that I'm overreacting, even if I never screamed and did my best to explain him my feelings in a calm and clear way) and I told him many times to stop that. Sometimes it was clear that he'd do it on purpose and when I didn't react to his actions or words he used to say that I don't care about him, and I just told him that I'm tired of his shit. I'm sorry that I haven't seen it all earlier on, or maybe the good just outweighted the bad for a while until I just couldn't take it anymore and walked away.
Good for you Corina. You sound like a smart, level headed, healthy woman. Not to mention patient. Your ex was emotionally barren, psychologically manipulative, and disrespectful of women in general. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Glad you walked away, now STAY away. Thank you for sharing your story. :~)
Yes, I found out now from a highscool colleague of his that he has always been like this, he continously cheated on and mistreated every girl that he's dated and they all were obsessed with him and came back every time. I'm not sure he even realizes what he's doing and how much he's hurting others...
Todd M. Yeah, I know, that’s not the only bad thing that someone’s told me about him but that’s not the reason I broke up with him anyway. I met up with him a few days ago and I asked him why he didn’t say anything after I left and he said that it wouldn’t have mattered cause he couldn’t change the past so he let me handle it on my own (those were the exact words he used). Yeah, more like “I didn’t give a damn weather you’re in my life or not”😂 I’m glad he proved me how much of a narcissist he is even after we broke up, it gave me closure
"there are plenty of other fish in the sea and fish who are entirely willing to say Hi first." Amen to this 🙌🏽 * its another year. More than ever, we have grown and know better. Say NO to settling for any less than you deserve.
Thank you for sharing your vid. I discovered that I was doing some things in my relationship that were wrong, just to get him to respond. I'm sick of his mind games also. My intuition has never steered me wrong, but I ignored it becuz I really wanted us to work...but now I'm brave enough to clearly see we aren't working. Thank you for being direct, open and honest. God bless you!
My intuition tells me you are giving very good advice that is presented in away that makes it easy to understand. It is a horrible thing to waste time on a guy who does not treat you as good as you do him. Life is much to important to waste it on someone who is always playing you. That gut feeling will trump your heart and your intelligence. Always listen to it. Take it from one who knows. If you sense you are being lied to and manipulated all the time and feel like you are losing your mind; that be your gut telling you something not right. LISTEN TO IT.
I have never been so confused 😲 he has gotten so mean lately but looking back this man has always displayed odd behaviors. I just didn't see them then 😥😥😥
Confusion used to be a big one for me... I've since come to realise that if I don't feel MORE around him - MORE clear, open, inspired, connected, at peace, relief, love, etc. - than I do on my own, then why the hell am I there? You know? If I'm confused, it's a no. A healthy relationship to me is based on clarify, openness and trust and nurturing that constantly. We're allowed to disagree or work through misunderstandings but if in any way any kind of confusion is being perpetuated, I find it's usually because they are trying to get the upper hand by destabilising the other. That's unhealthy. As they say, "if it's not a "fuck yes", it's a no." ;)
Great warning signs! I'm so glad to realize I walk at the first glimpse of any of these. It's a little discouraging that with age, the games don't change but easier to spot and shut it down.
I watched your video and then start crying. Thank you thank you. You just saved me by educating me and guided me the right path. I was in kinda toxic playing relationship until tonight that Finally I called him and broke up.I was so tired of this 2month play game story.I was scared of being alone and getting depression, however after this video, I feel strength and will power to stand up foe myself and move on. Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏
I've just watched a few videos for the first time a lot of things make good sense to me. I can really lack confidence and put other people first before myself
Thanku so much. My husband always makes me feel jealous on purpose to make himself feel good & its embarrassing & breaking me down to the point that I don't want to be out in public or even want to be near him. I'm soooooo disgusted, disappointed & hurt.
I just ended a relationship and I tell you, my ex boyfriend played 6, 7, and 8 to the tee...but number 8...that is the BIG one that everyone should always follow. If your gut keeps telling you that something isn't right, listen to it. Don't think it will get better nor it is all in your head..it's not. Although I knew my ex since we were in second grade and just started dating last October, the moment he "GHOSTED" me when I tried to confront him on issues I was feeling, I knew he would turn it around and tell me I am sensitive. When he did finally reach out, he told me I was acting "NEEDY" by these issues, I dumped him in like 2 seconds. That backfired on him real fast. He also tried to make me jealous during our relationship, that didn't work either! Always always listen to your gut though! Don't ignore it!
This is exactly what I just went through . You reinforced all my gut feelings . Thank you for this advice . Although I'm greiving the loss, I have to let go . 👍🏻💔
I’ve listened to several Relationship Channels and this one is hands down my favorite. You give Clear, Concise Examples and speak in such a way anyone could understand your counseling. I can see exactly where things are messed up in my situation and I can’t thank you enough Antonio. 🙂🦋💕
Oh my gosh!!! Watch the video at 6 minutes and 12 seconds through 7 minutes 13 seconds. My ex fiancé did this constantly whether he was at home with me, at work or away out of town or in town, with friends or family. Everything said in this section of the video was spot on what my ex would do. I saw it, but this video expresses it so clearly. Thank you! I am totally over him and this video put the last nail in that coffin, sunk it and buried it.
So true .. I’ve been chasing a man for 3 years. Every moment is mind playing. Silence and going awol was the biggest thing. His ego inflated by my chase every time .. broke my heart but not worth a tear.
Ladies it's time for all of us to love our self period.They think more of their fun friends ,spending all the money,then wanting your??? Hell To THE NO!!!!Save your energy ladies!!!😘😍🤗🤗🤗
Ladies.....let your call or text be a pleasant surprise! Last thing you want to do is bug aguy with too many texts/calls. Guys still like to pursue so...always be kind, always happy to hear from him, but let him call twice before u initiate communication. Think 'Morticia'.....don't wear him out.
Stacey Kersting is being happy all the time a realistic reflection of your authentic self? Wouldn’t you want a partner that sees you as a human being with a colorful range of emotions? I don’t think it’s healthy to attract someone who expects you to be happy all the time and eager to please all the time. Isn’t being in a relationship about balance?
Who said anything about 'eager to please all the time'? that's so not me. On the other hand, i'm always happy to see anyone I care for, including my mom and my 3 kids. they cd tell u i have a very colorful range of emotions, but I'm also known for my sunny disposition....life is short, ENJOY!
Same...6 yrs of silent treatment and manipulation that drained me financially...impulsive spendings and only cares when he needs money. I am waking up and not taking his bs any more.
love is the best and worst thing that could ever happen to someone. i've been through everything you mentioned, it sucks! thanks God i'm in the no contact period finally my heart is broken though...
I’d love to hear a counterpart correctional lesson from you on how best TO react to each of these different types of mind games. I understand the key is to not reinforce their behavior by providing them with the fuel that they are seeking, that is clear. But what are some good high value ways of counter acting each of these scenarios. I guess confrontation could be one of them but that to me would also serve as fuel that could very likely perpetuate this unhealthy and potentially damaging dynamic.
I experienced #4 and #5 with a man I met online. So grateful for this vid....4 dates in and I knew it didn't feel right and kicked him to the curb. This video really validated that something was not right and he didn't make me feel good when I was with him with backhanded compliments and I had so many options but I choose you phrases then would tell me how much he liked me and on and on. Thanks for the clarity and validation that this was not ok!
I learned these lessons this year! Wow, just wow! Men play games because it's how we as moms raise them. They grow up with a sense of scoring points, eg. sports! In men world scoring points, measuring or comparing themselves with other men. Its a constant battle/struggle they deal with everyday.
I realise this is advice for the ladies. I'm a man, and what this video portrays is exactly how my former girl friend was like. I was falling in love with her, loved her company, but she was constantly testing me, playing the silent treatment. Playing mind games etc.etc. to the point where enough was enough and I ended the relationship. I didnt want to, but i was so stressed out by it all.
I subscribed immediately, Thank-you for telling it like it is. Its so hard for people to tell the truth these days. So refreshing. So helpful. You are freaking awesome.
Thanks you helped me block an emotionally abusive guy. I’m so glad i took my time and never slept with him cause he’s been giving me the silent treatment even when i adressed the issue of him not communicating. After we started dating he left for a month to go to his country. He didn’t even bother to call me once. Then he joined another country to work there without even giving me a call. He then told me that he lost my number at some point and that his phone got hacked. Now he’s based in his new country and i have to force him to communicate with me. He takes days to reply to a simple message and try to flip it on me when i complain. Last time i called him and he refused to pick up my phone call even tough he was online... its been days im asking myself what’s going on... and he doesn’t even apologize. He just tells me that the lockdown is making me nervous. Before he left i had the upper hand in the relationship and now i feel like he wants me to pursue him. He complained about always texting first. I also noticed in the beginning he was lurking on other women. He likes to be seen and I don’t have the strength to play mind games and expose myself to toxicity. I want things to flow naturally. Something is telling Me things aren’t right or he was only with me for sex. When you like and value a girl you make things easy for her and you want to follow through with her. You wouldn’t even treat a friend like that.. He will wake up to a surprise tomorrow. I’m done.
I am at least guilty of one of these. I once gave my boyfriend the silent treatment while we were having a disagreement; I wanted him to listen to me, so the silent treatment is how I got him to validate me.
I have been seeing a guy for almost a year.....a stressful year because he does all these things and others I am now realizing. Thanks for opening my eyes!
Thank this is so much agreed with especially the intuition part. you hit the nail on the head. That's why I know its time to end a crappy relationship that came to an end at the end of summer.. I was and am still being manipulated by someone that is becoming dead to me. It's time to do spiritual house cleaning. Removing the spirit that moved into my body and mind through sexual relations from a lover. "CLEANING HOUSE".
My ex fell under many of those... Nice to know im not crazy. I felt so insignificant within the relationship and it didn't make sense because I didn't feel insignificant around others. Only around him.
Thank you for making this video, I recently broke up with my Boyfriend and he was doing everything you said he was ,and the back of my mind I kept feeling something isn't right about him,......💖💖
17 yrs of this BS you'd think after 12 yrs apart he realized or learned something. He still plays these mind games, so i told him hay loser loose my number.
I didn’t know about these games until after the loss of my husband of 20 years. Just getting back into dating is challenging when your dealing with these old ass joker 63 and older who want to play games. I’m a little to young for this BS. No contact and you have been block.
This is reassuring. I thought he was playing mind games. He doesn't text first but responds immediately once I text. If I don't text he'll hit a like to one of my Facebook pages to remind me of him. I've tried so hard to make him like me but he plays it cool. . He pretends he doesn't care ( maybe he doesn't!). He does negative back hand compliments but very subtle - it seems like a compliment but it makes me feel anxious instead of good. I've never had the 'so many options' but he has deliberately made me jealous. I've had the silent treatment. My intuition is screaming at me but I make excuses that I am being too negative or suspicious. One further thing he does is "fake apologies". A profuse apology that if anyone else read it would think it is genuine but you know it is embedded with subtle untruths and that he is enjoying the lies and game. Like the lyrics "I apolgoise it's all lies" in Eminem's Love the Way you Lie song.
You just described my boyfriend!! He also loves playing the game of asking me when was the last time I spoke to another man and insists I'm lying. He went an a business trip last week and wasn't happy I couldn't go with him. He told me women in New Orleans think he's handsome and that he was going to stay two extra days paying 600.00 a night! I think he may have met someone in those nine days because he's been acting funny. I told him that I will not be in his way if he's met someone. I wanted to talk about it but he just told me he didn't want to talk about it and for me to focus on getting better from my pneumonia. I haven't spoken to him since Friday. I think I'm done!
He's 10 years older than me and tries to manipulate me. He tells me I think I'm a man and I "mistreat" him but he's the one who doesn't care if something is bothering me because of statements he makes and unacceptable behavior. I never dated an order man before. I thought it would be different but this is also my last time even giving my phone number to someone that much older than me. I'm extremely disappointed.
There's a second reason for.. " The silent treatment." When a partner comes on too heavy and too strong in a stelth kind of way.. and you explain to them that you have other thing's going on in your life that are just as important to you.. EG : (family..work..friends etc) and they deliberately ignore the conversation had.. It's difficult because you don't want to be flat out rude to them because their demands are frustrating..so you hope they get it after you've explained things to them and how you feel.. The difficult part is that they have some really great qualities about them..hence the attraction in the first place..therefore you can't justify dumping their ass to the curb. When they constantly ignore the honest conversations had about wanting to fullfil your other commitments.. obligations etc as mentioned earlier..then who in their sane mind wants a person that doesn't respect the other important area's of your life..?? Then they come at you with the guilt trip of you having ignored them and how they wouldn't do it to you and all that stuff..(Victim Mentality) Then somehow you have become the bad person in the scheme of it all..and they appear to everyone else as though they've been hard done by and your the asshole..WOW !!! Where does this shit stop ??? !!! It doesn't stop until you kick their sorry manipulating insecure needy ass to the curb..block them and then they contact your family..work colleques..friends. Somehow they become successful at painting you as the Narc... The truth is...they stop at nothing to silently destroy you if they can't control you..and that's the truth !!!
I was looking for the answer that would give me peace on why my relationship failed. You said it all Dr Antonio. Thank you so much for that last paragraph. May God bless you for me!
I found out that two men started a smear campaign & of course, adults love to gossip. One thing, you must do, if you suspect a narc is after you, never show fear & do not let on you know. You are right Jen! Run!!
Everything you said is the truth ...a man that loves a Woman respect her ...i learn from my ex Who is a mind player..i have ti say thanks because now i am strong enough to say no and move on...i don t want to waste time with anyone that doesnt appriciate me and love me....thanks a lot for supporting Women in this video ....
Thank you for this healthy advice. So much love advice on the internet is about how to play the game. This is about how to create something healthy and mature, and I appreciate it!!
The one more thing that they are doing is when they hurt you alot pretend like you hurt them and will push you away instead of apologize they want you to say sorry
For me, I don't think they are normal! Their behaviour may be cause by psychology problems or spiritual problems. Don't even get mad at them. Just forgive them!
If you feel confused and unsure about their feelings for you, then they are playing with your mind and confusing you. If someone genuinely wants you, you 'll know. Either they are shy or not, you 'll somehow know. And yes about intuition!!! Energy doesn't lie! My intuition is always on point, but I never give it the credit it deserves. If you don't want to stop dating someone "just" because of your intuition, then at least be extra cautious with them and observe carefully about the other red flags.
This video confirmed things for me... even though it's been a week since I left, I don't feel so crazy and confused...I was right the whole time... thank you.
Guilty of at least one item here myself. I thank you for my better grip. Lol. I see my errors, someone else's too BUT I'm not here to dwell on the errors of others, just my own now that I've watched this bitter sweet message. Thanks for this. Anything I can do to improve and let go of the bs i kept on with that comes from and ego based place insidse and these are absolutely fear based behaviours. No fear!! Haha!! Hugs and gratitude to you sir. 🤔😇👼
Yeah my soon to be ex is a prick. So done with it all now. It will be hard but i do deserve better. The main thing that upsets me is wasting 6 years out of my life. The thing is life does goes on... This vid confirmed what i already knew & i'm ready now. My life will get better as soon as he's cut the F out of it. Ladies it's hugs from me X
RUclips Bopperette DeepThoughtX I know exactly how you feel, this is what I'm going through now. Married two years, been together 4 and a half, it's been hell. The emotional manipulation is the worst, especially the love bombing. It makes you feel guilty for wanting to leave. Trust your intuition! You know when things aren't right, don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.
I like at the end when he says “congratulate them on winning their game and manipulating you right out of their life..” that’s a player move 👌🏽💯
Agree with his ending comment totally, because that is exactly right!
✊🏼 mhmm!
Love this. Haha!!
lol 😂 good one! How fucked up is this! Test to you if you’re going to kill the kids. What about him taking care of them?
This goes out there to all the ladies out there,i know what it feels like to be played I have been down that road many times, it might help u out and yet it might sound silly but say something nice about yourself and remember someday your true love with come and save u love u all 😊
Silence treatment is emotional abuse - Thank YOU👍
Fuckin A it is. Love shouldn't be hoarded, withheld or used as a "reward ". Sick petty people.
1 doesn't txt first
2 trying to make him like you
3 pretend they don't care(bad boy)
4 negativity backhanded compliments
5 so many options but I choose you
6 silent treatment game
7 jealousy game
8 don't ignore your intuition
Don't play the game with him disengage asap
Cherell B I hate the silent treatment so I from now on I will ignore it
Cherell B thank you.
cherell B Great advice
Cherell Bozeman total mistake has occurred their is no abuse intended. Please call 279455539
Cherell Bozeman i am no player
Any guy who plays mind games is not worth my time. Next.
He only sat.. never wanted to do anything with me.. took me out to eat.. says it is my fault..
He always blam.. me.. I always tired of it.. I he did was called..
No need to reverse the game playing on the game player, just leave if YOU got to figure out EVERYTHING!!!!!
Guys love to play mind games. I think it's fun for them. Sometimes they need a little taste of there own medicine. If you know what I mean.
It’s passive aggressive and narcissistic. Know your value and run away. Run don’t walk!
Totally... sprint
Fuck anyone and everyone that doesn’t feed your soul and raises it. Fuck em. You’ll never be alone because the whole universe is already inside you. Be your everything . You come alone in this world and you leave alone.
Jen C. Yes i agree narcs love to do this as i know!
Antonio Borrello wow I have a lot to learn
Got damn Libra
Girls listen to Antonio ...intuition is our most powerfull protection....trust trust what you hear inside in everything in life ...❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for the info. Another sign is when a guy shows connection and excitement at first. Once the female shares mutual feelings, the guy becomes distant, stops talking of feelings, withholds affection, texting becomes formal and flow of romance is disrupted.
lotus 07 thts so true same happened with me 😢
Now, its happening to me. And thanks Ill walk away...next!
lotus 07 that’s what happened with me..everytime he started being cold and mean, I pulled back..as soon as I’d pull back he’d pull me straight back in..
sarah p same problems right now o_O i‘m tired of this seriously stupid games
Thank you for sharing this. The exact same thing has happened to me. The sudden change has been completely confusing, but now I see it in a different light. Simply, it is manipulation and we all deserve better.
I wish I knew this 40 years ago...young ladies listen and learn.:)
Juana Palacios same here! I’ve lost 20 years of my life! Pig disappeared on me this weekend!
You all still have hope. Persons can find love at any age.❤
Totally true😢. It makes me sad but i think i need to move on.
My ex did everything discussed in this video to me and I fell for it all, I never believed people when they warned me he was playing games. It really makes me realise how lucky to escape such a toxic relationship
Thanks Dr. Antonio! Priceless advise!
Megan Jeffery it's a learning experience...we've all been their...over time you get ovet it but you're much wiser 💟
Kudos . Be your everything and be whole on your own because only you can make you happy and meet all of your needs .
yes, like my brother in law who's having an affair, and I know about it, but his wife doesnt. She has blinkers on, and family wont tell her, they think theyre protecting her, but they are harming her, wspecially when she finds out
Tania K Excellent advice!!
Leave game players ALONE. Let them game someone else.
i love you right now lol 🙏🏽💪🏽
More than likely, if or WHEN we leave them the only games they’ll have to play is ‘ALONE’ on the phone. That’s until they find their next victim. If EVER. They will die alone or still living on Mammies couch. Narcissistic A-holes
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Stop telling women, "he's just Not that into you!"
You give an individual too much power while taking power or self esteem from the other. Women have enough on their plate without feeling even lower when a double minded man is on the prowl! He's not that into you..should sound more like...He's not worth it!
Pandorafix you're entittled to your own opinion. This is not the video I committed on. Also, I don't argue with opposition. You voiced your thoughts...therefore this conversation should be concluded...great day!
It's A Love Thang! The conversation should be concluded when the natural momentum of the conversation has lead it to thus.
And a reader can only assume this is the video you intended your comment for since its attatched to this video.
Just a heads up its confusing to those who wanna contribute !
Shalom and have a great night too
Jane
Pandorafix You stated the word Shalom...One can assume you may know God. Therefore, ask yourself if the statement I committed on does it line up with the word of God. Those of the Lord live, think and believe different. Hopefully, you now understand my comment. Eat the meat, spit out the bones. I did just that.😇
It's A Love Thang! My observations, if they made you uncomfortable, is a feeling Jesus Christ made many Pharisees feel. Gosh, furlongs beyond uncomfortable...he made them angry, murderously angry.
That being said, you mention flesh...and bone. The truth is sharper than a two edged sword, it cuts to the marrow.
Which parts made you feel uncomfortable? If they did, why? *Obviously you wish to try to make yourself sound superior with "you'll understand if you think as lofty as I do" of course I'm paraphrasing you ,but it does reminisce the pharasees doesn't it!
You wanted to talk about the living Almighty God.
The truth is simple, yes?. All I asked was a simple question about why was there confusion about which video you were commenting on...not that that even has anything to do with my comment. Was it my comment about when conversations, of an academic or philosophical air especially should resolve themselves on the basis of their own momentum? Your ego doesnt take correction well ? And you speak of the Lord? Do you humble yourself to the Lord who's name you conjured in this convo?
Dig?
Shalom (:
It's A Love Thang! Have you ever considered your tone of superiority doesn't match the quality of conversation you're capable of?
Is that why you're so bothered and uncomfortable by anyone's comments that don't agree with yours ?
Paper thin...
I'd think about that one sweetie
Silent treatment is the killer, that's why I want to leave a dude. Given him time and if he doesn't come by my birthday, I win the game of it's a blessing to move on.
A person who plays mind games should not be stopped, their ass should be dumped. Aint nobody got time for that. Grow up or get gone. This is not Jr. High.
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He hit everything with a nail .. it hurts but he told me everything I was going through was right ..now got to re evaluate
it's emotional abuse
If you live in UK it can be a crime. Cohersive abuse is evidence in domestic violence cases.. BEWARE!
Can you pick me up in downtown at 750 or 800
I came to drop off something to my dad..
Yup
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It's not right
Mind games helped me to understand what they are and to be alert and protect myself. Bumble bee.
This video has helped me a lot. My ex did this to me. Especially the silent treatment after he ghosted me to go back to his ex wife. Now that they are no longer together I tried to reach out just as a friend but still the silent treatment. Guess I just need to believe what my gut told me he truly is and that is a narcissist psychopath. Thank you for you wisdom.
Kim Sikorski~ Yes he is (sociopathic~Narccisit ). ***From personal experience***: if you have escaped~ in a
ANY ( voluntarily or involuntarily) way... Stay far Away. Do Not reach out. Because he will only use your want to be acknowledged/nice/loved against you. Embarrassing you, further alienating you from others via making work, exercise, or family time limited, WTF. (not to mention you even being alienated for yourself/your own thoughts/needs/desires. Please just stop calling him. Pray whenever you get the urge, or exercise... Anything- but communication. Remember, sometime we as the "insignificant others" can develop addictions/conditions tied to the manipulative behaviors/acquisitions of the Narcs we love/have loved. These behavior become chains that invisibly bind us* **And they MUST be broken by You and you alone. But if you don't break them all.. You mind as well have never even made the attempt. No offense~just love~ but it doesn't sound like you are over it or even want to be YET: and that describes who I was. I had a real choice. Stay and never complain- take it. Or leave: alone and scared- with the world your feet and the hurt at your back; With everywhere to go but back to an abyss you never ONCE belonged... I love you even though I don't know you. I'm also Praying for you. Hope you broke free!
Don’t get involved with him ever again. I left an abusive relationship and he still pursued me - I ended up in a wreck and am permanently disabled because of him. Please run like wind and don’t look back. Individuals like that have very poor self esteem and they like punish you for their bad behavior.
Lisa Rice oh my Gosh! I never saw it that way. For their bad behavior.. Wow... Boom!!
My ex used to talk about “her options” how she was always being hit on or that her ex still wanted her, I figured if you have so many people lusting for you call them. 😂 I’m glad my mom taught me right because I’ve always been too proud to fall for these games
Yes, keep being smart. Avoid the trash...
Great video ☺ This goes both ways (as I'm sure you know). I actually recognised my OWN behaviour in some of those points 😮 Thank you for helping me be a better partner.
Awesome comment. I’m so proud of you!
Maybe it's an "Amanda thing" lol because ditto..
Wow... What a big person of you to say this ....trying to recognize things in my own self as well :)
OMG, my ex was all of these. It made it so hard to leave because he always made me think I was exaggerating and/or the problem, not him. I think what he loved the most was making me jealous (he'd talk about exes or flings, or tell me about a girl on the street that looked good, if he'd met a female friend while he was with me he would make me feel invisible for a while and then when I'd tell him how he made me feel he'd tell me that I'm overreacting, even if I never screamed and did my best to explain him my feelings in a calm and clear way) and I told him many times to stop that. Sometimes it was clear that he'd do it on purpose and when I didn't react to his actions or words he used to say that I don't care about him, and I just told him that I'm tired of his shit. I'm sorry that I haven't seen it all earlier on, or maybe the good just outweighted the bad for a while until I just couldn't take it anymore and walked away.
Good for you Corina. You sound like a smart, level headed, healthy woman. Not to mention patient. Your ex was emotionally barren, psychologically manipulative, and disrespectful of women in general. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Glad you walked away, now STAY away. Thank you for sharing your story. :~)
Yes, I found out now from a highscool colleague of his that he has always been like this, he continously cheated on and mistreated every girl that he's dated and they all were obsessed with him and came back every time. I'm not sure he even realizes what he's doing and how much he's hurting others...
Corina Pavel sounds like what my experience said. I do believe she exaggerated and you can't always take somebody's word about it past.
Todd M. Yeah, I know, that’s not the only bad thing that someone’s told me about him but that’s not the reason I broke up with him anyway. I met up with him a few days ago and I asked him why he didn’t say anything after I left and he said that it wouldn’t have mattered cause he couldn’t change the past so he let me handle it on my own (those were the exact words he used). Yeah, more like “I didn’t give a damn weather you’re in my life or not”😂 I’m glad he proved me how much of a narcissist he is even after we broke up, it gave me closure
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"there are plenty of other fish in the sea and fish who are entirely willing to say Hi first." Amen to this 🙌🏽
* its another year. More than ever, we have grown and know better. Say NO to settling for any less than you deserve.
I needed to see this! When ya know better ya do better! Recognize the game...
Thank you for sharing your vid. I discovered that I was doing some things in my relationship that were wrong, just to get him to respond. I'm sick of his mind games also. My intuition has never steered me wrong, but I ignored it becuz I really wanted us to work...but now I'm brave enough to clearly see we aren't working. Thank you for being direct, open and honest. God bless you!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. this is awesome
My intuition tells me you are giving very good advice that is presented in away that makes it easy to understand. It is a horrible thing to waste time on a guy who does not treat you as good as you do him. Life is much to important to waste it on someone who is always playing you. That gut feeling will trump your heart and your intelligence. Always listen to it. Take it from one who knows. If you sense you are being lied to and manipulated all the time and feel like you are losing your mind; that be your gut telling you something not right. LISTEN TO IT.
I have never been so confused 😲 he has gotten so mean lately but looking back this man has always displayed odd behaviors. I just didn't see them then 😥😥😥
Antonio Borrello me 2 😳
Your intuition probably flew some red flags in the beginning...
Confusion used to be a big one for me... I've since come to realise that if I don't feel MORE around him - MORE clear, open, inspired, connected, at peace, relief, love, etc. - than I do on my own, then why the hell am I there? You know? If I'm confused, it's a no. A healthy relationship to me is based on clarify, openness and trust and nurturing that constantly. We're allowed to disagree or work through misunderstandings but if in any way any kind of confusion is being perpetuated, I find it's usually because they are trying to get the upper hand by destabilising the other. That's unhealthy.
As they say, "if it's not a "fuck yes", it's a no." ;)
Jo Friedman that's a good rule to live by and I'll use it myself 💕
could have narcissistic personality disorder
Great warning signs! I'm so glad to realize I walk at the first glimpse of any of these. It's a little discouraging that with age, the games don't change but easier to spot and shut it down.
My intuition is always right. 😥
I watched your video and then start crying. Thank you thank you. You just saved me by educating me and guided me the right path.
I was in kinda toxic playing relationship until tonight that Finally I called him and broke up.I was so tired of this 2month play game story.I was scared of being alone and getting depression, however after this video, I feel strength and will power to stand up foe myself and move on. Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏
Antonio Borrello 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
So helpful and on point! Thank you Dr. Antonio! Our intuition is our best friend, listen to it :)
I've just watched a few videos for the first time a lot of things make good sense to me. I can really lack confidence and put other people first before myself
Thanku so much. My husband always makes me feel jealous on purpose to make himself feel good & its embarrassing & breaking me down to the point that I don't want to be out in public or even want to be near him. I'm soooooo disgusted, disappointed & hurt.
Damn how they do that
There are too many things in life to enjoy and experience a person who invests time in playing games must be a real bum... who has that kinda time?
I just ended a relationship and I tell you, my ex boyfriend played 6, 7, and 8 to the tee...but number 8...that is the BIG one that everyone should always follow. If your gut keeps telling you that something isn't right, listen to it. Don't think it will get better nor it is all in your head..it's not. Although I knew my ex since we were in second grade and just started dating last October, the moment he "GHOSTED" me when I tried to confront him on issues I was feeling, I knew he would turn it around and tell me I am sensitive. When he did finally reach out, he told me I was acting "NEEDY" by these issues, I dumped him in like 2 seconds. That backfired on him real fast. He also tried to make me jealous during our relationship, that didn't work either! Always always listen to your gut though! Don't ignore it!
When I said I want a prayerful good man I'm ghosted
When you realize, that YOU were the one playing mind games... Out of your own insecurities... Not the other person you suspected to play with you :D
I was thinking the same
I think this is my exs problem. He thought I played games but i didn't.
This is exactly what I just went through . You reinforced all my gut feelings . Thank you for this advice . Although I'm greiving the loss, I have to let go . 👍🏻💔
I’ve listened to several Relationship Channels and this one is hands down my favorite. You give Clear, Concise Examples and speak in such a way anyone could understand your counseling. I can see exactly where things are messed up in my situation and I can’t thank you enough Antonio. 🙂🦋💕
You're awesome Antonio, thank you for this. I needed to hear it!
Me earlier today: please send me a sign if he isn't the right guy for me.
*this video pops up later*
Me: uhhh send me another sign
Dani 18 That part.
Dani 18 hahaha...yep
Lmao.. I've been playing that same game myself 😞
That cat face tho lol
Dani 18 😂😂😂
Oh my gosh!!! Watch the video at 6 minutes and 12 seconds through 7 minutes 13 seconds. My ex fiancé did this constantly whether he was at home with me, at work or away out of town or in town, with friends or family. Everything said in this section of the video was spot on what my ex would do. I saw it, but this video expresses it so clearly. Thank you! I am totally over him and this video put the last nail in that coffin, sunk it and buried it.
Love your vids, Antonio! Thanks!
So true .. I’ve been chasing a man for 3 years. Every moment is mind playing. Silence and going awol was the biggest thing. His ego inflated by my chase every time .. broke my heart but not worth a tear.
Ladies it's time for all of us to love our self period.They think more of their fun friends ,spending all the money,then wanting your??? Hell To THE NO!!!!Save your energy ladies!!!😘😍🤗🤗🤗
I can smell a mind game miles away . I get to stepping before the mind games even start!!!!
Ladies.....let your call or text be a pleasant surprise! Last thing you want to do is bug aguy with too many texts/calls. Guys still like to pursue so...always be kind, always happy to hear from him, but let him call twice before u initiate communication. Think 'Morticia'.....don't wear him out.
Stacey Kersting is being happy all the time a realistic reflection of your authentic self? Wouldn’t you want a partner that sees you as a human being with a colorful range of emotions? I don’t think it’s healthy to attract someone who expects you to be happy all the time and eager to please all the time. Isn’t being in a relationship about balance?
Who said anything about 'eager to please all the time'? that's so not me. On the other hand, i'm always happy to see anyone I care for, including my mom and my 3 kids. they cd tell u i have a very colorful range of emotions, but I'm also known for my sunny disposition....life is short, ENJOY!
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this is the video about manipulative behavior that wasn't deserved, not about female being a nag. maybe you should listen and try again
I also teach my clients to know their worth.
Wowwwwwwwww ! 11 years of being w my husband and I never saw this
Sweetness Heals same here :( 9 years. I never felt more free when it was over!
11 years with my hubby also and I finally woke up to the game. I'm done!!!
Same...6 yrs of silent treatment and manipulation that drained me financially...impulsive spendings and only cares when he needs money. I am waking up and not taking his bs any more.
@@RubyDoodleArt wow! So the mind games continue even after marriage?
Excellent advice! Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge!
Antonio Borrello You're most welcome! I really appreciate your videos. :)
love is the best and worst thing that could ever happen to someone. i've been through everything you mentioned, it sucks! thanks God i'm in the no contact period finally my heart is broken though...
DrEaM CaTcHeR first sentence So true
I’d love to hear a counterpart correctional lesson from you on how best TO react to each of these different types of mind games. I understand the key is to not reinforce their behavior by providing them with the fuel that they are seeking, that is clear. But what are some good high value ways of counter acting each of these scenarios. I guess confrontation could be one of them but that to me would also serve as fuel that could very likely perpetuate this unhealthy and potentially damaging dynamic.
I experienced #4 and #5 with a man I met online. So grateful for this vid....4 dates in and I knew it didn't feel right and kicked him to the curb. This video really validated that something was not right and he didn't make me feel good when I was with him with backhanded compliments and I had so many options but I choose you phrases then would tell me how much he liked me and on and on. Thanks for the clarity and validation that this was not ok!
I learned these lessons this year! Wow, just wow! Men play games because it's how we as moms raise them. They grow up with a sense of scoring points, eg. sports! In men world scoring points, measuring or comparing themselves with other men. Its a constant battle/struggle they deal with everyday.
Nope it's in their DNA
I realise this is advice for the ladies. I'm a man, and what this video portrays is exactly how my former girl friend was like. I was falling in love with her, loved her company, but she was constantly testing me, playing the silent treatment. Playing mind games etc.etc. to the point where enough was enough and I ended the relationship. I didnt want to, but i was so stressed out by it all.
I subscribed immediately, Thank-you for telling it like it is. Its so hard for people to tell the truth these days. So refreshing. So helpful. You are freaking awesome.
Great compilation of tips! Thanks for your advice
Thanks you helped me block an emotionally abusive guy. I’m so glad i took my time and never slept with him cause he’s been giving me the silent treatment even when i adressed the issue of him not communicating. After we started dating he left for a month to go to his country. He didn’t even bother to call me once. Then he joined another country to work there without even giving me a call. He then told me that he lost my number at some point and that his phone got hacked. Now he’s based in his new country and i have to force him to communicate with me. He takes days to reply to a simple message and try to flip it on me when i complain. Last time i called him and he refused to pick up my phone call even tough he was online... its been days im asking myself what’s going on... and he doesn’t even apologize. He just tells me that the lockdown is making me nervous. Before he left i had the upper hand in the relationship and now i feel like he wants me to pursue him. He complained about always texting first. I also noticed in the beginning he was lurking on other women. He likes to be seen and I don’t have the strength to play mind games and expose myself to toxicity. I want things to flow naturally. Something is telling Me things aren’t right or he was only with me for sex. When you like and value a girl you make things easy for her and you want to follow through with her. You wouldn’t even treat a friend like that.. He will wake up to a surprise tomorrow. I’m done.
I am at least guilty of one of these. I once gave my boyfriend the silent treatment while we were having a disagreement; I wanted him to listen to me, so the silent treatment is how I got him to validate me.
And it certainly got his attention. Loll
Yes heard it all, he was cheating and kept telling me well who do I come home to,I told him go have her
Fuck that guy! You made the right choice Brenda
I always think, mental illness or drug addiction, when guys do stuff like this, I guess I'm not wrong? 🤔
I have been seeing a guy for almost a year.....a stressful year because he does all these things and others I am now realizing. Thanks for opening my eyes!
Thank this is so much agreed with especially the intuition part. you hit the nail on the head. That's why I know its time to end a crappy relationship that came to an end at the end of summer.. I was and am still being manipulated by someone that is becoming dead to me. It's time to do spiritual house cleaning. Removing the spirit that moved into my body and mind through sexual relations from a lover. "CLEANING HOUSE".
Wow! He just described everything I went thru for 8 yrs! Finally I got away from him; been separated for almost 6 months now. Feel Soo much better.
My ex fell under many of those... Nice to know im not crazy. I felt so insignificant within the relationship and it didn't make sense because I didn't feel insignificant around others. Only around him.
Thank you for making this video, I recently broke up with my Boyfriend and he was doing everything you said he was ,and the back of my mind I kept feeling something isn't right about him,......💖💖
Hope your holding up well Natasha
"Congratulate them for winning their game and manipulating you right out of their life". Awesome ending!
17 yrs of this BS you'd think after 12 yrs apart he realized or learned something. He still plays these mind games, so i told him hay loser loose my number.
I'm pretty convinced that 99% of men don't change... not because they don't want to but bc they choose not to
salsa queen Shawn Kemble
I didn’t know about these games until after the loss of my husband of 20 years. Just getting back into dating is challenging when your dealing with these old ass joker 63 and older who want to play games. I’m a little to young for this BS. No contact and you have been block.
U are right on all 8! Good video!!
Theres always another way.... I 'watched''listened to your video with my eyes closed. Thank you for sharing and showing me love. I get it now. Peace 💓
This is reassuring. I thought he was playing mind games. He doesn't text first but responds immediately once I text. If I don't text he'll hit a like to one of my Facebook pages to remind me of him. I've tried so hard to make him like me but he plays it cool. . He pretends he doesn't care ( maybe he doesn't!). He does negative back hand compliments but very subtle - it seems like a compliment but it makes me feel anxious instead of good. I've never had the 'so many options' but he has deliberately made me jealous. I've had the silent treatment. My intuition is screaming at me but I make excuses that I am being too negative or suspicious. One further thing he does is "fake apologies". A profuse apology that if anyone else read it would think it is genuine but you know it is embedded with subtle untruths and that he is enjoying the lies and game. Like the lyrics "I apolgoise it's all lies" in Eminem's Love the Way you Lie song.
You just described my boyfriend!! He also loves playing the game of asking me when was the last time I spoke to another man and insists I'm lying. He went an a business trip last week and wasn't happy I couldn't go with him. He told me women in New Orleans think he's handsome and that he was going to stay two extra days paying 600.00 a night! I think he may have met someone in those nine days because he's been acting funny. I told him that I will not be in his way if he's met someone. I wanted to talk about it but he just told me he didn't want to talk about it and for me to focus on getting better from my pneumonia. I haven't spoken to him since Friday.
I think I'm done!
He's 10 years older than me and tries to manipulate me. He tells me I think I'm a man and I "mistreat" him but he's the one who doesn't care if something is bothering me because of statements he makes and unacceptable behavior. I never dated an order man before. I thought it would be different but this is also my last time even giving my phone number to someone that much older than me. I'm extremely disappointed.
There's a second reason for..
" The silent treatment."
When a partner comes on too heavy and too strong in a stelth kind of way.. and you explain to them that you have other thing's going on in your life that are just as important to you..
EG : (family..work..friends etc) and they deliberately ignore the conversation had..
It's difficult because you don't want to be flat out rude to them because their demands are frustrating..so you hope they get it after you've explained things to them and how you feel..
The difficult part is that they have some really great qualities about them..hence the attraction in the first place..therefore you can't justify dumping their ass to the curb.
When they constantly ignore the honest conversations had about wanting to fullfil your other commitments.. obligations etc as mentioned earlier..then who in their sane mind wants a person that doesn't respect the other important area's of your life..??
Then they come at you with the guilt trip of you having ignored them and how they wouldn't do it to you and all that stuff..(Victim Mentality)
Then somehow you have become the bad person in the scheme of it all..and they appear to everyone else as though they've been hard done by and your the asshole..WOW !!!
Where does this shit stop ??? !!!
It doesn't stop until you kick their sorry manipulating insecure needy ass to the curb..block them and then they contact your family..work colleques..friends.
Somehow they become successful at painting you as the Narc...
The truth is...they stop at nothing to silently destroy you if they can't control you..and that's the truth !!!
Im glad i stumbled upon this one i have all these problems with my relationships
Thank you for this information, it was very useful. I love it.
I was looking for the answer that would give me peace on why my relationship failed. You said it all Dr Antonio. Thank you so much for that last paragraph. May God bless you for me!
I finally get it forget my emotions and just realize what he did. Thank you Dr. Antonio
I found out that two men started a smear campaign & of course, adults love to gossip. One thing, you must do, if you suspect a narc is after you, never show fear & do not let on you know. You are right Jen! Run!!
Everything you said is the truth ...a man that loves a Woman respect her ...i learn from my ex Who is a mind player..i have ti say thanks because now i am strong enough to say no and move on...i don t want to waste time with anyone that doesnt appriciate me and love me....thanks a lot for supporting Women in this video ....
Thank You so much for this video! Intuition is very powerful (women's instincts). You told the truth and mailed it right to the tee.
Thank you for this healthy advice. So much love advice on the internet is about how to play the game. This is about how to create something healthy and mature, and I appreciate it!!
I appreciate that you offer cogent examples of each mind game
Actually, this is helpful in evaluating any relationship
This is great information. Thanks for making this!!
The one more thing that they are doing is when they hurt you alot pretend like you hurt them and will push you away instead of apologize they want you to say sorry
Why do such people exist in life
For me, I don't think they are normal! Their behaviour may be cause by psychology problems or spiritual problems. Don't even get mad at them. Just forgive them!
8)Your intuition tell you something is wrong .. it’s really true 😘😘😘..... guts feeling never lie!!!!!
So true hun
They started talking about someone that liked them..he said he wasn't interested in them though..yeah right😭
Wow!!! This was awesome. Thank you so much for sharing. Look forward to viewing your other sessions. Lauren
If you feel confused and unsure about their feelings for you, then they are playing with your mind and confusing you. If someone genuinely wants you, you 'll know. Either they are shy or not, you 'll somehow know. And yes about intuition!!! Energy doesn't lie! My intuition is always on point, but I never give it the credit it deserves. If you don't want to stop dating someone "just" because of your intuition, then at least be extra cautious with them and observe carefully about the other red flags.
Thank you! I keep watching this video because it gives me clarity
Excellent advise, I will pass it on at every opportunity. Thank you so much!
Describes scorpio nature ! Omg
Very helpful video.
Thank you so much for this video.
He ALWAYS does it. I know. It's funny. But what he doesn't get. I am playing him as well. LMAO
Tracey Owen Hughes you should find someone you don't have to play games with. Trust me I wasted 11 years doing that.
(Unless it makes you unhappy mad sad) this so a boss move 😂 I love it.
This video confirmed things for me... even though it's been a week since I left, I don't feel so crazy and confused...I was right the whole time... thank you.
Great presentation, appreciate your clear sight on this topic! Bravo
Guilty of at least one item here myself. I thank you for my better grip. Lol. I see my errors, someone else's too BUT I'm not here to dwell on the errors of others, just my own now that I've watched this bitter sweet message. Thanks for this. Anything I can do to improve and let go of the bs i kept on with that comes from and ego based place insidse and these are absolutely fear based behaviours. No fear!! Haha!!
Hugs and gratitude to you sir.
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I like that ... Congratulations you win the game and Manipulating me right out of your life .... 👊
Yeah my soon to be ex is a prick. So done with it all now. It will be hard but i do deserve better. The main thing that upsets me is wasting 6 years out of my life. The thing is life does goes on... This vid confirmed what i already knew & i'm ready now. My life will get better as soon as he's cut the F out of it. Ladies it's hugs from me X
You sound like you're not sure and are forcing yourself to believe something to be honest.
I'm not forcing anything Zayan.
Thanks Antonio
RUclips Bopperette DeepThoughtX I know exactly how you feel, this is what I'm going through now. Married two years, been together 4 and a half, it's been hell. The emotional manipulation is the worst, especially the love bombing. It makes you feel guilty for wanting to leave. Trust your intuition! You know when things aren't right, don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.
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