In other words my mom was right. Treat men like crap and they will worship the ground you walk on. Treat them like kings and they wipe the ground with you.
Sorry but your mom sounds like a bitter woman. Men suffer the same hurts we do. Treat him with love but don't be a doormat. The thing is what kind of person do you want to be..a loving soul or a bitch. Because which one you chose will make you either happy with yourself or bitter old woman.
Nooo she wasnt...It means do and lovebyou first before you be a big ass dummy for him..AND THEN WALKING AROUND LIKE A SADDD ASS PUPPY DOG WHEN HE DONT WANT YOUR CLINGY ASS NO MORE((DUUH!
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I tried ignoring him for 7 days he pulled me back close to him and confessed he can't take it no more and he said he love me alot and there can never be another for him thank you sir
Not necessarily, they're not mind games. Most men, they're designed for the hunt, the chase. Once they've got what they chased, sometimes they can get a little bored or take it for granted. Like cats when playing with a toy, they like to chase and catch it, like they do their prey. But if the toy or object the entertain themselves with, just sits there then they don't chase it anymore. Same in a relationship, if you're too available then they don't have to work for you or chase you. You have to make them work for it.
@@annarose.1321 That's all just GAMES. We'd only expect this behavior out of teens and young, immature men. If a grown man is acting this way, "cat & mouse", then you have a man-child on your hands. Period. No woman should have to exhaust herself by being "chase-able" at all times. FFS we have lives too. Grow up.
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I've been in a worst relationship. And I did some of the rules here. And it's effective. But after we've been together again I found he didn't really change. So I realized that you don't need to do something to make him changed or make him realized your worth. If he really loves you and you are important to him he will do something to make you feel love and important without doing anything
This is some serious moment guys! No matter how good you are, there'll be a time when he goes cold. Stay alert and remember you gorgeous! Make him feel he's not the only man out there, that you deserve better, and know that you can be happy without him. Go go people! It's like reverse psychology, when you seek on love, it won't show, but if you don't seek, it's like a magnet. Stay moisturize girls and boys! 🌸
Worked like a charm. Only he is proving though! He's been in relationships where women run after him. I want to change that mindset. I want him running after me
These are literally all things I do 😂😂 know your worth girls ! Always remember you deserve the best ! So don't loose hope & don't find happiness on boys ! You are the only one who can make yourself happy! Don't give your 100% to anyone! Be selfish sometimes so you will hurt less!
I say when you meet the right person for you everything will come about naturally. You will not need advice for a relationship and dating. When it is right person for you will have a connection that is for the both of you. You will know by the way you feel & the way he feels because everything will feel right. There will be no questions and excuses. You will not have to struggle and be frustrated. Thank you for this video because people need to be happy either by themselves or with someone in a relationship.
I once held her in my arms She said she would always stay But I was cruel I treated her like a fool I threw it all away Once I had mountains in the palm of my hand And rivers that ran through every day I must have been mad I never knew what I had Until I threw it all away Love is all there is, it makes the world go 'round Love and only love, it can't be denied No matter what you think about it You just won't be able to do without it Take a tip from one who's tried So if you find someone that gives you all of her love Take it to your heart, don't let it stray For one thing that's certain You will surely be a-hurtin' If you throw it all away If you throw it all away
Therefore the key to having a fun and healthy relationship is to primary LOVE YOURSELF and enjoy YOUR life!! not depending on other people always to have a "life"
These rules really work ! It makes so much sense what you are saying Anthony ! Once you lose your fear of rejection or losing the relationship, the steps you mentioned above just happen in a natural way . The bottom line is to never act out of fear ! Thank you so much 😊. Very helpful
Yes!!! Actually I v tried both. Being available and not being available. Both the times it's the same reaction from the guys. Either they get tired after they got me or B4 they even try. I m Soo confused on how and when it works. 😅😂
Thanks, Antonio, I was started following you since I was being broken hearted with a careless man, and am so thankful id overcome the depression and self-pity by being rejected, as he chose someone over me, I can't explain how he ruined my life and living it miserable everyday craving his attention, probably move on..and feel good now, after watching some of your videos.. Thanks a lot
lol you start following these rules.... then he starts following these rules... then you both stop talking forever just waiting on each other. The stubbornness 😂
I think when it's meant to be everything will just go smoothly. No trick. And no playing games. If you still have to follow these rules, may be he is not interested in you enough. That's IMO.
I've been married for 16 yrs and been with my husband for 20yrs but 3 were long distanced. I did all the steps mentioned not intentionally and all worked. I still do use these steps to this day. The difference for me it was not to play any games but it's me who hate to be sitting waiting on someone... that's all :-)
WoW!!! Just amazing! These tips really work! Sometimes I say no to my boyfriend when he wants to come over or take me out. He actually said to me, he was gonna have to start planning things for us, because he wants time with me🙌🏾 It shocks him totally when I do this, because he’s the type of guy most women don’t turn down. He says I’m different and I always stand out in his mind, because I don’t act the usual way. So he calls me all the time and text me periodically through the day and I love it!! Thank you so much for helping me be a stronger woman, and getting the things I need and want from my man ✌🏽🙌🏾💕
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You are the best thank you so much for your great advice on relationships, I had a bad break up but seeing your videos and how to get through a relationship that was not a healthy one helped me realize that if a person is not meant to be with you then it's okay to move on,,cause it's not the end of the world,,I am greatful that you explained those who play mind games and those who are narcissistic,,as well as abusive,,life is much better when you can tell how a person really is and not what he seems to be,,much love and respect for you Dr. Borello,,we need more angels like you!God bless! Much alohas,, Rose
Make any man miss you... 1. Start saying No. 2. Be mysterious. 3. Use social media to highlight your fun and independent life. 4. Stop initiating communication. 5. Put yourself first. 6. Connect with him on an emotionaly intimate level. 7. Give him something to miss.
Saying NO and stop initiating communication are for me the basics when you want your man to miss you. But most people find it hard to these especially when they are so into the person they are dating. Been there actually. xD
Good advice but why is it so hard to LOVE a man.? So many rules to follow. Playing "mind games" is a Waste of time.During d Time when utube advice was not yet popular... I wonder how relationships last long in d year 1960s, 70s, 80s, 90s , etc. It is better to wait for d Right man, NO PRESSURE.!
7. if you say no. they find someone who is available🤣 6.) if you keep a secret it leads to jealous. 5.) if you show you ate happy without them. they started to look for someone else. 4.) relation without communication they think you are not interested anymore. 3.) having a relationship is being one with them. that means putting your partner as your priority. 2.) if you let out your dippest secret and weeknesses you are puting your self in danger it may lead that they may take advantage. 1.) if you leave them craving they look for someone else. same like food if your not full you look for something more to eat. diferrent taste. this may all lead into breakup.
This is what I'm thinking. Because all this can be pointless. However my best advise is to be yourself. If you have plans stick to them, be considerate of your partner. Be honest and try to be sure your partner is doing the same. The thing is playing games can sometimes have the opposite effect of what you were hoping
@anthony sibog - ....and if you don't proofread your comment and can't spell words like "weaknesses or "deepest" then your comment looks less reliable.
So true about telling them everything you’re doing down to detail. I did this way too much and it made him uninterested somewhat because he had a pretty good idea of what I’d be doing. This was my husband but it doesn’t matter, don’t tell them everything
When a man sees that your too much into him and you show your love they will take that as weakness and to me they become bored as if they've conquered you so now you become less interesting until they do see you not caring and moving on
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I love this! This works with men who are serious about growth and really do not want to miss out and being with their women; men who like women that are self-reliant and have created a life of their own and it works for people who are compatible - you are right. Many people are truly not compatible with their partners so then this becomes a waste of time for them. Truth! I just came across your video but I recently began doing some of these things prior to seeing your video and I can attest they do work. So this is just confirmation for me. You are right on point. If a man or woman was not meant to be - then when he or she do this, it is an open door for the other partner to leave - which would have happened eventually {thumbs up). This also helps women from being too needy and acting too clingy always wanting to be around their men. Men and women who are serious about making their relationships work will make it work - so it takes two to tango. This really is not a game. For the ladies this means putting yourself first and spending time with self instead of being so absorbed with him. For the men, it means seeing his woman live a fulfilled life and making her life count, then he genuinely wants to be a part of what she is doing - living her life like its golden - whatever that means for her. This only work between two people who genuinely care about each other.
This is manipulation. If you have to do these "tricks" to make your man miss you, then maybe he is not into you after all! Been with the same man for 13 years since I was 21 and I don't have to do these things to keep our relationship exciting and miss each other.
Clefarie AC A lot of people are shallow these days. It's hard to find a good, genuine person that's not always looking for something better. Just a sign of the times. Mostly a product of Hollywood and social media. I feel bad fo the upcoming generations.
The whole time I was thinking of the risks, and when u said them at the end. Took the words right out of my mouth. Loved this video. Need to try this !
i cry a lot then because my bf start cold relationship... when i ask him ' u still want me?' he said ' dont think to much'... he still want me, but treated me like this... im releave listening to this video... i will try your tips... tq
I did this to my ex of 14 yrs and he started spreading rumors on social media telling everyone I was cheating, on drugs, prostituting blah blah all of that immature bitter angry shit lol. But really I was working and taking care of my kids not going out not talking to anyone. Long story short he moved on to 6 other relationships and I have yet to talk to any guy. Don’t want to either. Not him or anyone. Focused on my self and kids
I realize that I was wrong. He doesn’t love me, Just desired to use me. Always saying he found someone else and explicitly says sexual details. I don’t want anything to do with this nonsense/garbage!!! He has No status as far as I’m concerned, whether I’m out or not. The heck with this garbage!!!
1) Give him something to miss 2) connect with him on emotionally intimate level 3) put yourself first 4) stop initiating communication 5) use social media to highlight ur fun life 6) Be mysterious 7) Start saying NO My life saving relationship hacks! Hats off🐼🔥
I know for a fact the stop initiating the communication thing works....its hard for me, but after some time, they start wondering where u are, and blow up your phone
I think you have the best relationship advice on here. This is what I have been implementing with my guy. We broke up and are trying this again. I have been doing alot of you've said and it is working. Now I'll implement more
I just did your tips, before i watched your video.. Haha.. Means i did something new in my life. I dont even care if i've been rejected. Cause he only knew me only for 3 days. But i live with by myself for 33yrs. Thank you Antonio.. Regards from Malaysia.
Thank you and I found I made a few mistakes myself by making myself too available and letting him know I miss him. That was a mistake I let my world go when I fund sketchy,one who takes internet in me that is a mistake I think from having low self esteem.
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that shows if he truly loves you or not. If he does he will try to win you back if he gives up getting you then my friend you are wasting your time being with him.
It's reasonable but if a guy loves me, he'll respect and appreciate me if he loves me too. He'll never take me for granted cos he loves me and if I act that way as you suggested, Don't you think I'll end up loosing him because he may think I'm not that into him?
So true, if he is not the one for you or if his feelings are not true to you then there is no reason to worry that he will replace you because weather you do these things or not he could still afford to loose you.
so what if you keep making other plans & he starts to think youre not interested anymore so he gives up completely & doesnt care about what you're doing bc he thinks you just don't care either but thats not the message youre trying to give?
XO Yenny Then he was never yours If never valued you then what is the reason of following him. I think he is Wright the message he is trying to give might be respect yourself and value yourself first then he will start respecting you
You have to remember he did say on #2 CONNECT WITH HIM on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL. This is the key for the other rules to fall into place. However if he isn’t reaching out to u after executing each step, well then iAgree with XO Yenny He isn’t for you. It will sting if you’re really into him, however just think about all the new guys that will be falling over u when u implement this wonderful tool. Remember humans actually don’t like to be blown off or ignored. So if u make yourself unavailable at there DEMAND well think of how you’ll have them at YOUR disposer not theirs. 😘
Before I watch this video. I already done this. He broke up with me a year ago. He throw all of my stuff outside his apartment, by that time I don't know where to go or what to do but I decided to leave him because that's what he wanted to. I remove all of our connections. Phone and social media. I stop communicating with him for 2 months until one day after he saw me that I'm enjoying my life with new friends. He seeing me happy in my ig. He saw me getting fat ang more prettier than before. He started texting and calling me again more than he did before. He always call even during my work time. 😂 it's very effective I swear
Thank you very much all your tips is working for me, mine is a cheater but now since I started follow your tips and a little bit of mine he's getting himself back on track with me , thanks once again ANTONIO B
The man I'm dating is not into games. He said he was interested in a committed relationship. We speak honestly and truthfully to one another about everything eating/bathroom habits to bad relationships. He was not a phone person, but I told him to call me because I like hearing his voice. He calls me everyday and we text multiple times throughout the day. When he wakes he texts me good morning and he always tells me good night and texts good night again before he closes his eyes. If I cook, he cleans, etc. We are just two adults trying to make our relationship work without games.
Isn't this the same game everyone is playing that's made dating nowadays such a nightmare? It's all game and fake. How about we all be our true authentic selves? These all assume the other person is a robot and is clueless about these games.
My boyfriend literally said “is their a point in even dating since we never text each other” but I always text him but he never answers me :( Someone remind me about this comment and I’ll tell u what happens Update:so he broke up with me 💀
There is only one answer to all these tactics.. evryone has their own thoughts and mind sets.. there is no permanent solution for any relationship problems.. it purely depends on the man you choose to be with.. you are the one who chose and you are the one who loose.
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I tried this last year to my bf and it works, he’s the one who’s initiating to call me, texting me, and I keep on ignoring him, pretending that I’m busy. 😀😀😀He missed me so much.
I'm about to try - Don't communicate first. Great video! I'm in a long-distance texting and calling sort of connection. He's going to be here relatively soon, and I can't wait. The anticipation is killing me, but I'll manage. I'm going to pull back a tad and see what happens. Thank you for your suggestions. I'm 68 - divorced 18 years. You'd think I'd get it by now! LOL
Rita G. Bowman: Just reading your comment and have a response. What do you think about finding interesting stuff to do in your town in the meantime? This way, you'll have fun and interesting things to introduce him to, once he arrives. This will serve a few purposes I'm thinking... 1: Will occupy your time. 2: You won't be so available when he calls/texts. 3: He'll realize that you won't necessarily stop living your life to make it all about him. 4: But! That you will include him at times. Whatd'ya think?
I am in a long distance relationship and he does not call or text unless i do or he shows he is too busy. I f i am not available we do not talk for days and if there is anything urgent or i need some urgent information then we talk. I have stopped initiating conversation , texts or not even as k for calls. But nothing seems to work out. I know he loves me but, I somehow feel it is too tough to crack him.
Poushali Dutta am so sorry to hear that! How do you know if he really loves you when he doesn't even call you nor texting! It sounds like one side love! Am in the same situation but its not LDR we just arguing now and he stopped calling even to text if I'm quiet he is quiet but he will send only good nyt text, that shows me that he at least expect my text somehow So I would just say "thus a hardest situation for you to handle but if you sit down make a list of the precious things he is done to you and again what has hurt you then you have an answer if he loves you or not Am sorry for everything but good luck to you
Poushali Dutta so sorry dear,, same here I'm in long distance relationship bt he calls me text me everytime.. I'm the one who always says I'm super buys yet I'm still in love with him. as they said doesn't matter heart want what it want
In other words my mom was right. Treat men like crap and they will worship the ground you walk on. Treat them like kings and they wipe the ground with you.
Saffron Jones hihihihihi funny ryt
Sorry but your mom sounds like a bitter woman. Men suffer the same hurts we do. Treat him with love but don't be a doormat. The thing is what kind of person do you want to be..a loving soul or a bitch. Because which one you chose will make you either happy with yourself or bitter old woman.
But he likes to talk about feminity, i always turn him down and he started to go far from me
Nooo she wasnt...It means do and lovebyou first before you be a big ass dummy for him..AND THEN WALKING AROUND LIKE A SADDD ASS PUPPY DOG WHEN HE DONT WANT YOUR CLINGY ASS NO MORE((DUUH!
Sharon you are right
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Screenshot! Exactly
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And if he wants to be kept and you want to keep him for good, take the tips then.😅
Very true...
7.Start saying NO.
6. Be a little mysterious
5.Use social media to highlight your life and fun
4. * Stop initiating communication
3. Put yourself first
2. Connect to him on emotionally intimate level
1.Give him something to miss
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Thanks for listing all 7.....
My god i try and i apply it
Ther is nothing wrong just try
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Treat me like a queen, I will treat you like a King. Treat me like i'm a Game and i'll show you how it's played.
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7. Start saying no
6. Be mysterious
5. Use social media to high light ur life
4. Stop initiating communication
3. Put urself 1st
2.connect with him on an emotionally intimate level
1. Give him sometg to miss
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Kidist Aynalem all of these are called playing games. Not all men will chase you. Some will go find another woman who is giving him more attention.
Pebles25
I agree
Oh thanks honey 😘
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Wlkm bae
Pebles25
So true
Men have too many options to play this game with women. A waste of time. Ladies, trust me on this... If a man really wants you, he comes for you!!
true hey... if u are the one that drives him wild.. he will come eventually
GIRL THAT IS SO TRUE!!! THEY WILL COME FOR U, THE DOG CHASES THE CAT,NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND FLAT OUT
Bt honestly some women are too desperate.... I think these rules are good.
True
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Ladies, just have a fun and interesting life, be yourself, use your intuition and be open for new experiences. Good things will come with a good attitude and a lot of brain.
Antonio Borrello hi antonio
Andrea Martínez true
I tried ignoring him for 7 days he pulled me back close to him and confessed he can't take it no more and he said he love me alot and there can never be another for him thank you sir
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This is literally what I'm going through now and honestly it's hurts
Same ╯﹏╰
Nchangwi Judith same
Same
Nchangwi Judith sammeeee
Oh no that sucks. But remember to focus on yourself first, then you will eventually forget to miss him.
I'm going to keep Quiet and start dating Jesus. Christ .
Christine Musana lol
Yes for sure Jesus will never let you down or break your heart.
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Lol😂😂
Lol
If he's into you, you won't have to play psychological games
Not necessarily, they're not mind games. Most men, they're designed for the hunt, the chase. Once they've got what they chased, sometimes they can get a little bored or take it for granted. Like cats when playing with a toy, they like to chase and catch it, like they do their prey. But if the toy or object the entertain themselves with, just sits there then they don't chase it anymore. Same in a relationship, if you're too available then they don't have to work for you or chase you. You have to make them work for it.
@@annarose.1321 That's all just GAMES. We'd only expect this behavior out of teens and young, immature men. If a grown man is acting this way, "cat & mouse", then you have a man-child on your hands. Period. No woman should have to exhaust herself by being "chase-able" at all times. FFS we have lives too. Grow up.
I agree with you
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If a guy is not into you .. ur wasting your time
Absolutely
How to know it?
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I've been in a worst relationship. And I did some of the rules here. And it's effective. But after we've been together again I found he didn't really change. So I realized that you don't need to do something to make him changed or make him realized your worth. If he really loves you and you are important to him he will do something to make you feel love and important without doing anything
well said 🤗
Richelle Haynes preach sister
Yup both should show some interest.. thats are the true love. If they dont show interest to us, just forget about them 😑😑😑
Sometimes, all a guy needs is a shock that makes him see what he's got and what he'd be losing . That's the whole thing out of this.
Richelle Haynes - How about changing yourself for a man for so long you loose yourself!! But he plays games and acts like a child
This is the guy behind my girlfriends silence. 😡😡😡
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Loll
Ha ha ha..gotchaa!
manoj basnet ahahaha😂
Lol
This is some serious moment guys! No matter how good you are, there'll be a time when he goes cold. Stay alert and remember you gorgeous! Make him feel he's not the only man out there, that you deserve better, and know that you can be happy without him. Go go people! It's like reverse psychology, when you seek on love, it won't show, but if you don't seek, it's like a magnet. Stay moisturize girls and boys! 🌸
if a man want to be by your side he will no matter what but if he doesn't he will find his way to leave you ladies!
1)be yourself lady.
2)be yourself lady.
3)be yourself lady.
4)be yourself lady.
5)be yourself lady.
6)be yourself lady.
7)be yourself lady.
than he will run...lol
Blinkeu shut up
this reminds me of "when's the funeral lady l" by a unknown number. he said "sorry wrong number"
Yeah....because THAT works. Stellar advice. Thanks.
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Just go be with someone who doesn’t play with mindgames .
Sadly, there is always a game involved. Small or big. Infrequent or often....
Whene i put a comment not aswer but i read the commentes and its not a video 4 them . Whats the problem?
Thats ok want ask you?
As a very attractive guy I agree!!!
All his tips seem evil
I’m not initiating any calls or texts because I deleted his phone number
charlita25 girl I been there 😂
hahahaha
HAHAHHA 😂
charlita25 me too
charlita25 girllll tell me bout it..
I think my boyfriend watched this video before me.
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I fucking feel the same manh
Feeling the same too.
lol haha same thought
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If you have to learn how to make someone miss you . Then they're not worth you to begin with 😂😂😂
So true 😊👍🏻
I wonder ooo
Should not try this with African men,this men will think you are seing someone else and end up moving on with their life🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Facts lol
too true lol
Very true oh
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Worked like a charm. Only he is proving though! He's been in relationships where women run after him. I want to change that mindset. I want him running after me
Miss Blessings Then don't run after him.
We r on the same road
Miss Blessings giiiirrrlll, you deserve to have him running after you! Don't settle for anything less! Xoxoxo from SC!
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MEN ARE WEIRD. THEY WANT TO USE YOU AND PLAY ALL THE WOMEN . THEY FEEL THEY ARE ARE IN CHARGE. MEN ARE USERSER.
let it free...somebody needs u, will definitely come bak.
if doesn't, then tel urself its not your's n jus move on n b happy
Exactly
These are literally all things I do 😂😂 know your worth girls ! Always remember you deserve the best ! So don't loose hope & don't find happiness on boys ! You are the only one who can make yourself happy! Don't give your 100% to anyone! Be selfish sometimes so you will hurt less!
Antonio Borrello you are very kind ❤️
little cat .i see
Very well said
little cat
agree !
On point my dear
None of this would work on a narcissist person! They don't miss you or anyone else. Sadly
So true narcs dont operate like us normal people
Yes you are right. They are on a whole new level of understanding.
True.. but you're better off without someone like that
My ex of 6 years is a narcissist and that is so true. Only misses me when he needs me for something.
I agree with you..
I say when you meet the right person for you everything will come about naturally. You will not need advice for a relationship and dating. When it is right person for you will have a connection that is for the both of you. You will know by the way you feel & the way he feels because everything will feel right. There will be no questions and excuses. You will not have to struggle and be frustrated. Thank you for this video because people need to be happy either by themselves or with someone in a relationship.
I once held her in my arms
She said she would always stay
But I was cruel
I treated her like a fool
I threw it all away
Once I had mountains in the palm of my hand
And rivers that ran through every day
I must have been mad
I never knew what I had
Until I threw it all away
Love is all there is, it makes the world go 'round
Love and only love, it can't be denied
No matter what you think about it
You just won't be able to do without it
Take a tip from one who's tried
So if you find someone that gives you all of her love
Take it to your heart, don't let it stray
For one thing that's certain
You will surely be a-hurtin'
If you throw it all away
If you throw it all away
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These rules really work ! It makes so much sense what you are saying Anthony ! Once you lose your fear of rejection or losing the relationship, the steps you mentioned above just happen in a natural way . The bottom line is to never act out of fear ! Thank you so much 😊. Very helpful
I did all these things and then when he fell in Love with me, I got bored. The thrill is in the chase 🙈😂
Yes!!!
Actually I v tried both. Being available and not being available. Both the times it's the same reaction from the guys. Either they get tired after they got me or B4 they even try. I m Soo confused on how and when it works. 😅😂
I love my guy but his marriage what should I do
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This was a little easier when there were no cell phones lol!
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Thanks, Antonio, I was started following you since I was being broken hearted with a careless man, and am so thankful id overcome the depression and self-pity by being rejected, as he chose someone over me, I can't explain how he ruined my life and living it miserable everyday craving his attention, probably move on..and feel good now, after watching some of your videos.. Thanks a lot
Being married for 32 years, your advices are SO right!!!! Some apply to marriages too. Great video!
wow .. how do you manage to be married for 32 years.. i am married for almost 4 months and i feel like am his rice cooker and washing machine..
My husband misses me so much when I travel for work. A little absence makes the hard grow fonder.
Remi Adejobi Hey, Remi Was that a Freudian slip? 😂
Feli Gangte lots of patience and compromise 😊
lol omgg....
Let it end. Rejection, come at me! Don't fear rejection. It's seldom personal. So let it end and let's move on to better things!
I 'm just being myself and that is what special about me , I'm just myself and that was more than enough to get him attached
Wow - I was just about to text him that I miss him when I watched this video. So glad I watched till the end!
lol you start following these rules.... then he starts following these rules... then you both stop talking forever just waiting on each other. The stubbornness 😂
Lol yes i was thinking the same thing 😂
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That’s what I mean (stubbornness and Pride)!!! Walk on by!
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I think when it's meant to be everything will just go smoothly. No trick. And no playing games. If you still have to follow these rules, may be he is not interested in you enough. That's IMO.
So true. I always had success with these tricks until a mature, loving man stepped into my life. These tricks did not work on him nor was the need.
veetha29 Exactly! If y'all into each other you WANT to talk and see one another a lot lol.
I've been married for 16 yrs and been with my husband for 20yrs but 3 were long distanced. I did all the steps mentioned not intentionally and all worked. I still do use these steps to this day. The difference for me it was not to play any games but it's me who hate to be sitting waiting on someone... that's all :-)
WoW!!! Just amazing! These tips really work! Sometimes I say no to my boyfriend when he wants to come over or take me out. He actually said to me, he was gonna have to start planning things for us, because he wants time with me🙌🏾 It shocks him totally when I do this, because he’s the type of guy most women don’t turn down. He says I’m different and I always stand out in his mind, because I don’t act the usual way. So he calls me all the time and text me periodically through the day and I love it!! Thank you so much for helping me be a stronger woman, and getting the things I need and want from my man ✌🏽🙌🏾💕
Just make sure the dude isn't a narcissist, or a psychopath because then he really won't give a shit.
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I tried these steps and now I'm the one who miss him even more....
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I agree. These are healthy for almost any relationship.
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You are the best thank you so much for your great advice on relationships, I had a bad break up but seeing your videos and how to get through a relationship that was not a healthy one helped me realize that if a person is not meant to be with you then it's okay to move on,,cause it's not the end of the world,,I am greatful that you explained those who play mind games and those who are narcissistic,,as well as abusive,,life is much better when you can tell how a person really is and not what he seems to be,,much love and respect for you Dr. Borello,,we need more angels like you!God bless! Much alohas,, Rose
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Make any man miss you...
1. Start saying No.
2. Be mysterious.
3. Use social media to highlight your fun and independent life.
4. Stop initiating communication.
5. Put yourself first.
6. Connect with him on an emotionaly intimate level.
7. Give him something to miss.
Thanks I've tried these. It did make him miss me we have been together for years! Its time to reinforce them again!
thanks you lighten me up... I love the phrase..." rejection doesn't mean something is wrong with me but he's just not the right person.":)
Saying NO and stop initiating communication are for me the basics when you want your man to miss you. But most people find it hard to these especially when they are so into the person they are dating. Been there actually. xD
It's so hard for me to say "no" and not be helpful -but the rest I can do in my sleep.
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Katy Wright lol, it's a smiley face sideways
Good advice but why is it so hard to LOVE a man.? So many rules to follow. Playing "mind games" is a Waste of time.During d Time when utube advice was not yet popular... I wonder how relationships last long in d year 1960s, 70s, 80s, 90s , etc. It is better to wait for d Right man, NO PRESSURE.!
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7. if you say no. they find someone who is available🤣
6.) if you keep a secret it leads to jealous.
5.) if you show you ate happy without them. they started to look for someone else.
4.) relation without communication they think you are not interested anymore.
3.) having a relationship is being one with them. that means putting your partner as your priority.
2.) if you let out your dippest secret and weeknesses you are puting your self in danger it may lead that they may take advantage.
1.) if you leave them craving they look for someone else. same like food if your not full you look for something more to eat. diferrent taste.
this may all lead into breakup.
This is what I'm thinking. Because all this can be pointless. However my best advise is to be yourself. If you have plans stick to them, be considerate of your partner. Be honest and try to be sure your partner is doing the same. The thing is playing games can sometimes have the opposite effect of what you were hoping
This is the reality or he's just a player or not that serious.
@anthony sibog - ....and if you don't proofread your comment and can't spell words like "weaknesses or "deepest" then your comment looks less reliable.
So true about telling them everything you’re doing down to detail. I did this way too much and it made him uninterested somewhat because he had a pretty good idea of what I’d be doing. This was my husband but it doesn’t matter, don’t tell them everything
Falling in love with the wrong guy can obviously lead to many regrets later.
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When a man sees that your too much into him and you show your love they will take that as weakness and to me they become bored as if they've conquered you so now you become less interesting until they do see you not caring and moving on
Just realised that actually these are all what he is doing to me!!!
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Thanks Antonio. I was tempted to call him this am but didn't. Then he texted me and I didn't respond immediately . So glad I didn't
I love this! This works with men who are serious about growth and really do not want to miss out and being with their women; men who like women that are self-reliant and have created a life of their own and it works for people who are compatible - you are right. Many people are truly not compatible with their partners so then this becomes a waste of time for them. Truth! I just came across your video but I recently began doing some of these things prior to seeing your video and I can attest they do work. So this is just confirmation for me. You are right on point. If a man or woman was not meant to be - then when he or she do this, it is an open door for the other partner to leave - which would have happened eventually {thumbs up). This also helps women from being too needy and acting too clingy always wanting to be around their men. Men and women who are serious about making their relationships work will make it work - so it takes two to tango. This really is not a game. For the ladies this means putting yourself first and spending time with self instead of being so absorbed with him. For the men, it means seeing his woman live a fulfilled life and making her life count, then he genuinely wants to be a part of what she is doing - living her life like its golden - whatever that means for her. This only work between two people who genuinely care about each other.
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Yeah , you’re right 👍
You're absolutely right. Try this methods on a playboy,and watch them happily disappear.
This is manipulation. If you have to do these "tricks" to make your man miss you, then maybe he is not into you after all! Been with the same man for 13 years since I was 21 and I don't have to do these things to keep our relationship exciting and miss each other.
Clefarie AC A lot of people are shallow these days. It's hard to find a good, genuine person that's not always looking for something better. Just a sign of the times. Mostly a product of Hollywood and social media. I feel bad fo the upcoming generations.
Clefarie AC teasing is fun i dont think he wanted to play games just show that the woman has other things happening no one likes clingy
100% True. Everything spot on.. and it works. It's almost like doing the opposite of what your first thought tells you to do.
According to this. I’ll be single forever. I’m not good at doing any of this because I am used to a guy wanting to reach out to me etc....
Take your time, that can't be EMPHASISED enough!
The whole time I was thinking of the risks, and when u said them at the end. Took the words right out of my mouth. Loved this video. Need to try this !
THANk you! Please more videos
Like this
i cry a lot then because my bf start cold relationship... when i ask him ' u still want me?' he said ' dont think to much'... he still want me, but treated me like this... im releave listening to this video... i will try your tips... tq
I do this my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating
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Yeah you're right
The pull away always works. Men are weird.
Jas We are all weird be strong in yourself and don't depend on a man for all your.happiness.
Soo weird
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Honestly I love men who are straightforward as an engineering student,I'm not sure if I can play all these games(except flirting ofcourse)....
I did this to my ex of 14 yrs and he started spreading rumors on social media telling everyone I was cheating, on drugs, prostituting blah blah all of that immature bitter angry shit lol. But really I was working and taking care of my kids not going out not talking to anyone. Long story short he moved on to 6 other relationships and I have yet to talk to any guy. Don’t want to either. Not him or anyone. Focused on my self and kids
I realize that I was wrong. He doesn’t love me, Just desired to use me. Always saying he found someone else and explicitly says sexual details. I don’t want anything to do with this nonsense/garbage!!! He has No status as far as I’m concerned, whether I’m out or not. The heck with this garbage!!!
Barbara Bale Good luck you don't need to.listen to him talk about his sexual affairs. Tell him to.get.lost and you move on girl you deserve better.
Barbara Riley No, because I want us to work out, somehow. They say, don’t let go until you’re absolutely sure
Barbara Bale you are too pretty to be treated like that. I hope you dumped it out with garbage. No one needs narcs in their life.
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Barbara Bale The explanation "Scent of Attraction" @pyratesmak on RUclips
1) Give him something to miss
2) connect with him on emotionally intimate level
3) put yourself first
4) stop initiating communication
5) use social media to highlight ur fun life
6) Be mysterious
7) Start saying NO
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I know for a fact the stop initiating the communication thing works....its hard for me, but after some time, they start wondering where u are, and blow up your phone
THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION PERIOD.
I think you have the best relationship advice on here. This is what I have been implementing with my guy. We broke up and are trying this again. I have been doing alot of you've said and it is working. Now I'll implement more
The guy like to bully me, so I said no to the guy pull away yesterday. That guy is playing mind games with me.
Make sure you don't do this to much cause it could turn him off and it could show you're not interested. It could work the opposite....
Antonio Borrello Well thank you...I'm happy to be here....Thank you for your response. 😊🦋
your videos are marvelous! I'm putting all these tips and the guy is head over heels for me!! He won't stop texting me and seeking me. I love it!!
I just did your tips, before i watched your video.. Haha.. Means i did something new in my life. I dont even care if i've been rejected. Cause he only knew me only for 3 days. But i live with by myself for 33yrs. Thank you Antonio.. Regards from Malaysia.
Hi like it but I'm scared maybe he will leave me
I want to try this but I forgot I dont have any man 😔
Jeninamae Santos hehehee hahahaaa
Jeninamae Santos when you get a man as he suggested hopefully you won't have these issues.
Jeninamae Santos same here
I will use this when I start dating
Me too girl me too
Thank you and I found I made a few mistakes myself by making myself too available and letting him know I miss him. That was a mistake I let my world go when I fund sketchy,one who takes internet in me that is a mistake I think from having low self esteem.
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Have used some of these tips and YES... they work!
Thank you for the nice video.
At this time i have to be available to u than playing hard to get. Thank you
Antonio Borrello Yes... Especially always initiating first contact. Once I stopped that... oh man did he take notice! Lol
that shows if he truly loves you or not. If he does he will try to win you back if he gives up getting you then my friend you are wasting your time being with him.
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It's reasonable but if a guy loves me, he'll respect and appreciate me if he loves me too. He'll never take me for granted cos he loves me and if I act that way as you suggested, Don't you think I'll end up loosing him because he may think I'm not that into him?
This was posted 2 years ago but still helpful and golden. Thanks, Doc! :)
So true, if he is not the one for you or if his feelings are not true to you then there is no reason to worry that he will replace you because weather you do these things or not he could still afford to loose you.
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so what if you keep making other plans & he starts to think youre not interested anymore so he gives up completely & doesnt care about what you're doing bc he thinks you just don't care either but thats not the message youre trying to give?
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Then he was never yours
If never valued you then what is the reason of following him.
I think he is Wright the message he is trying to give might be respect yourself and value yourself first then he will start respecting you
XO Yenny ......smh......I don't think anyone could have put that in better words...sooo truee!
You have to remember he did say on #2 CONNECT WITH HIM on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL. This is the key for the other rules to fall into place. However if he isn’t reaching out to u after executing each step, well then iAgree with XO Yenny He isn’t for you.
It will sting if you’re really into him, however just think about all the new guys that will be falling over u when u implement this wonderful tool. Remember humans actually don’t like to be blown off or ignored. So if u make yourself unavailable at there DEMAND well think of how you’ll have them at YOUR disposer not theirs. 😘
Im sorry, iMeant then iAgree with Neeta
XO Yenny you need to watch the whole video
Before I watch this video. I already done this. He broke up with me a year ago. He throw all of my stuff outside his apartment, by that time I don't know where to go or what to do but I decided to leave him because that's what he wanted to. I remove all of our connections. Phone and social media. I stop communicating with him for 2 months until one day after he saw me that I'm enjoying my life with new friends. He seeing me happy in my ig. He saw me getting fat ang more prettier than before. He started texting and calling me again more than he did before. He always call even during my work time. 😂 it's very effective I swear
Thank you very much all your tips is working for me, mine is a cheater but now since I started follow your tips and a little bit of mine he's getting himself back on track with me , thanks once again ANTONIO B
The man I'm dating is not into games. He said he was interested in a committed relationship. We speak honestly and truthfully to one another about everything eating/bathroom habits to bad relationships. He was not a phone person, but I told him to call me because I like hearing his voice. He calls me everyday and we text multiple times throughout the day. When he wakes he texts me good morning and he always tells me good night and texts good night again before he closes his eyes. If I cook, he cleans, etc. We are just two adults trying to make our relationship work without games.
Isn't this the same game everyone is playing that's made dating nowadays such a nightmare? It's all game and fake. How about we all be our true authentic selves? These all assume the other person is a robot and is clueless about these games.
Penileola I couldn't agree more. These calculated moves make dating exhausting and miserable.
Is LOVE a competition or movie ? all this are fake because our forefathers married without all this tips
Jasmina Memic I’m agree with you I’m so EXHAUSTED. .
My boyfriend literally said “is their a point in even dating since we never text each other” but I always text him but he never answers me :(
Someone remind me about this comment and I’ll tell u what happens
Update:so he broke up with me 💀
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Did yall get back together?
I’m sorry :(
There is only one answer to all these tactics.. evryone has their own thoughts and mind sets.. there is no permanent solution for any relationship problems.. it purely depends on the man you choose to be with.. you are the one who chose and you are the one who loose.
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I tried this last year to my bf and it works, he’s the one who’s initiating to call me, texting me, and I keep on ignoring him, pretending that I’m busy. 😀😀😀He missed me so much.
I'm about to try - Don't communicate first. Great video! I'm in a long-distance texting and calling sort of connection. He's going to be here relatively soon, and I can't wait. The anticipation is killing me, but I'll manage. I'm going to pull back a tad and see what happens. Thank you for your suggestions. I'm 68 - divorced 18 years. You'd think I'd get it by now! LOL
Rita G. Bowman: Just reading your comment and have a response. What do you think about finding interesting stuff to do in your town in the meantime? This way, you'll have fun and interesting things to introduce him to, once he arrives. This will serve a few purposes I'm thinking... 1: Will occupy your time. 2: You won't be so available when he calls/texts. 3: He'll realize that you won't necessarily stop living your life to make it all about him. 4: But! That you will include him at times. Whatd'ya think?
I am in a long distance relationship and he does not call or text unless i do or he shows he is too busy. I f i am not available we do not talk for days and if there is anything urgent or i need some urgent information then we talk. I have stopped initiating conversation , texts or not even as k for calls. But nothing seems to work out. I know he loves me but, I somehow feel it is too tough to crack him.
Poushali Dutta am so sorry to hear that!
How do you know if he really loves you when he doesn't even call you nor texting! It sounds like one side love! Am in the same situation but its not LDR we just arguing now and he stopped calling even to text if I'm quiet he is quiet but he will send only good nyt text, that shows me that he at least expect my text somehow
So I would just say "thus a hardest situation for you to handle but if you sit down make a list of the precious things he is done to you and again what has hurt you then you have an answer if he loves you or not
Am sorry for everything but good luck to you
Rita G. Bowman I know exactly what you are saying. I'm with you. Girl, good point. Thanks.
Poushali Dutta so sorry dear,, same here I'm in long distance relationship bt he calls me text me everytime.. I'm the one who always says I'm super buys yet I'm still in love with him. as they said doesn't matter heart want what it want
ALONENESS dos'nt necessarily mean that you're Lonely .
How do people end up in relationships well guys play all these mind games? Where are the genuine guys?