Thank you for your videos. At 73 years old I FINALLY found someone who I can relate to. I’ve also been a messy person and felt really bad about it my whole life. I lost my husband of 50 years 3 years ago and things have gotten even worse due to depression. I’m moving into a new place (first time on my own) and I am determined to keep this place uncluttered and clean. I understand that it will be a hard task for me, but I’m definitely eager to do it. You have been so inspiring and I love your honesty. Thank you
I can so relate. My husband had 2 strokes 3 years ago. He survived and I am his only caretaker. Everything he used to do he can no longer do and it’s all on me. I am 78 and work like I never did. I am overwhelmed but I do what I can. People say mean things and it’s heartbreaking but they don’t know what it’s like. Please people be kind. Love to all facing difficult times. You never know when bad things will happen
Bonnie, I relate so much to your story, since my husband passed my untidiness has become much worse. I’m moving as well. I’m only taking what I need, I’m taking things I use, not things I may use. I’m planning on keeping it simple, no clutter less is best so they say 🤷♀️ That way I may find it much easier to clean. I love Remi,she is who she, Remi is so honest.
And a big hug to Tenunsa and Wendy too❤ Caregivers at any age struggle to stay afloat and it's even harder once older because the physical body says no more frequently.
Your voice is comforting. You also are a real person, with real life issues. It is comforting to know there is someone out there going through the mental struggles I go through. I don't have kids in the house anymore, but even without them here, it is about me getting motivated to do the house work. Thank you for helping me look at life a bit differently and motivating me. Don't pay those haters any mind. You are such an amazing lady.
i really like hearing you chattering on, please don’t stop. Those haters stating you mess things up on purpose, should walk into my house unannounced, maybe then they would see these things happen
I love your videos especially the talking side to it!! Your home is refreshing to see that your actually cleaning it when it’s dirty and untidy. Keep these long talking videos coming I love them!! Xx
I love the way you talk all the way through them too. I imagine that's more work than sticking some music on, so thank you so much for making the effort to voice them 😊
Haters will always hate. Their reactions say more about their own struggles, than about you. What you're doing in your videos is awesome. So, whilst you're enjoying making them, we'll keep enjoying them. ❤
Oh it definitely does me too!! But sometimes when you’re doing it over and over again and you know it will be messy again very soon, you’re just like UGH, nope! 🤦🏻♀️
I can tell you aren’t messing your place up just to make content, I can tell because I’ve seen that same mess grow organically at my house. I just discovered you today and I’m binge watching. I feel like you are describing me when you talk about your struggles with clean and tidy. Thank you for making these videos.
Thank you! I’m a single man in a small house with several cats and a bird. It’s overwhelming trying to keep things up. I can’t imagine what you go through with children. You have given me hope and inspiration. I have trouble just doing my dishes for one.
Your a brilliant mum. From one to another. You’ve really helped me. Especially repetitive cleaning every single day it’s so draining 🥰 I watch you and do it too. ❤
Same when I watch the videos I get up half way threw qnd start it's refreshing to see a video we can relate to not a show house love remi.. ❤❤ keep your videos coming especially the mental health one ❤
"So I thought, d'ya know what..? - I've had my nap, I've had my sulk, and now I'm gonna get my bum up..." LOVE IT 😅❤ I've spent the morning in bed, I've been sulking and feeling sorry for myself too. Time for me to get my bum up too. Thank you so much for the motivation. We CAN do this 😊💪🙏💕
I LOVE your channel cause you mirror me. You have a very healthy acceptance of who and how you are. Unfortunately it took me 50+ years to come to that acceptance and be good with it.
The people that say it's staged either haven't had kids, they're Mary Poppins, or just plain rude! Love your channel and your voice-overs are better than the constantly interrupted music voice-overs!
You are my type, sweet girl! I LOVE your chatting and thoroughly enjoy your voice over, good common sense and wise advice for people struggling to find balance. You keep being YOU and those of us who appreciate you will keep coming back to encourage each other. Big hug from an older mum who sees what a WONDERFUL job you're doing. 🥰
I love that you talk for the videos. I can’t clean to the music cleaning ones. I prefer the talking videos because I feel like I’m cleaning along with you rather than cleaning alone. I struggle at motivating myself but talking videos keep my going!
Clearly, the people that think you mess your house up on purpose keep a perfectly tidy house 100% of the time and are afraid to sneeze or do anything in their own home. My house is exactly like this every day and I am very anxious about trying to keep it ““ picture perfect“ your videos have actually helped me a lot to let go of that, and spend more much-needed family time together.
Just wanted to boost your engagement because I find your long-form videos really comforting and motivating. Even though I live alone, I often look around at my space and wonder "what happened??" because it gets messy so quickly, and your blame-free approach is really helpful
It made me laugh that you get comments saying ‘there’s no way your house gets like that organically!’. 😮 I on the other hand find it perfectly easy to understand how your house gets like that. I have 4 pets and 3 teenagers and a job, and motivational issues. Those people ought to have a look round my place. 😅
We're definitely comforted and inspired by your videos! I watch them for motivation to clean and tidy up.Your voice and stories are awesome. Don't stop talking!!!
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this today. My baby hasn't stopped crying all day except when she crashed put for an hour this morning and I took the chance for a sleep whilst my other 3 were at school. The house is a huge mess. My stairs look just like yours too. Managed to get the washing up done and I already feel so much better for it so I completely relate to how your mood changed. Your the most relatable youtuber I've come across because your so real and honest and it honestly nearly made me cry today because I felt understood, all be it by someone who doesn't know me. Thank you so much. And ignore the haters, why bother hating on someone, just watch a different video and move on.
Ive just found your account and been binge watching it while doing some cleaning and cooking dinner this evening. And I LOVE that you talk all through your videos! That is what I find motivational and uplifting. If I just wanted background music I could turn on spotify 😉 And it is so refreshing to see real people sharing real life messes and ways to tackle them on social media. My house is messy 90% of the time... no matter how much I clean and tidy! Watching your channel and listening to your stories makes me feel so much more accepting of myself. Im really glad I've found you on here! X
Remi I am 70 years old our 3 children are grown and moved out on their own. DO NOT let anyone shame you for co-sleeping we slept with our babies and then toddlers eventually they moved out to their own bed and room. No, I do not regret one minute of it!! I am a messy person I wish I had someone to just help me get things organised and cleaned up just once. I am one of those that keeps something "just in case" then when I need it I can't find it. I need your videos they inspire me I am binge-watching them and I love your voice. I am into listening to the stories on Ytube I wish they had someone like you to read them. Your voice is so comforting.....
You are amazing Remi, I used to watch your videos, here and TikTok before doing cleaning to motivate myself. This time I thought I'd try having you on in the background while I was cleaning and wow, it almost felt like you were here as a friend spurring me on as you were doing yours. Will definitely be doing that again!!
Today was not a good day. I needed to hear someone who understands that cleaning up my mess can improve my mood & spin the day into at least more functional and less chaotic one ❤ thank you for being authentic and helping me feel less alone. It’s like you’re calm in a storm
As a mum of a 2 year old girl, a very energetic jack russell and a newborn coming soon, ive just discovered your channel and i feel so encouraged watching the videos:) thank you for being so reslsitic and down to earth about what its like trying to keep a house running when there are several little beings wanting your attention all the time! Xx
I have been watching your videos since I ran across you, I think 4 days ago..thing is, I LOVE your chats because for your relative youth, you display a vast amount of wisdom, you have a soothing voice and although I know nothing of you, your patience and compassion comes through in your voice over..and in the last four days because of the video where you make the list as you go, I’ve taken that list onboard and oh the difference to me! I went through the house just picking up cloths and getting them washed and managed the first three items on that list, at the end of the day the improvement to my home was massive! The second day I did the bins and hoovered and the house became manageable because for me then all that was left was the specifics; cleaning fixtures and wiping down cabinets..four days on my house has stayed clean and I’ve been able to focus on arranging the pantry.. My gratitude for you and your video content is SO much more than words could express.. Thank you!
Hi Remi, thank you for your honesty, authenticity and humor. You are an amazing mom. I know what a struggle it can be to clean with little kids around. You clean, you turn your back, and it's dirty again 😅
You're a lovely person and I think you're not talking too much. You're so wise in what you say and not just blabbering away..! I'm 64 now and I'm still learning ...from you! Keep up the good work dear Remy! Watching you from the Netherlands😊
Hello there! As a wife to a husband with ADHD and 2 kids having the same, I can tell you that you are not alone. I live in a neuroatypical bubble and lots of my friends are talking about the same issues you experienced. People who think you mess things up on purpose can't imagine how distracted someone can really become, and that what you show could possibly be real! I live with 3 messy people and can swear our house looks the same as yours often, and I can't tidy up all the time. Being messy doesn't make you a failure and people with this mindset need to get their priorities straight. You overcame executive dysfunction and tiredness today to get things done, and I am proud of you for putting in the effort!!! Greetings from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
Bloodliriel- OMG same here! I have an ex- husband with ADHD and my two kids both inherited it. I don't know anyone else with two kids who both have it, so I was surprised to see your comment. Also some of my ancestors are from Luxembourg! 😂 Greetings from Arizona, USA
I love how much you talk in your videos! Thank you for representing all of us out here who struggle with the same issues. I've used your vids to help motivate me to tidy up several times now after just finding your channel recently and I appreciate all you do!
Please let yourself know the haters are not worth your time. Ran across this comment recently….. Don’t pay attention to advise from those you would not go to for advice… Says it all. Gentle Hugs💕 from an 83 yr old grandmother. You are doing fine…you can’t know the good you are doing for so many folks dealing with so much. Thank you dear.
I love cleaning and organizing and when I came across ur channel I really enjoy how ur videos are different because u actually talk through them instead of music. I like to hear what u have to say and all the encouragement u give to others.
I just discovered your videos today, and I just want to say thank you thank you. I love your honesty, your chat, and your refreshing attitude. So glad I found you today - you helped me tackle some jobs in the house I’d been putting off and they had really been getting me down. You’re an inspiration, thank you
You are doing great! As mom of 3 boys that mess is absolutely organic. It's a home full of love. I love how you let your kids be kids and just pick up when they are done. And I could listen to you talk all day.
I'm a mom of 3. I had 3 kids by the time I was 23. I am early 40s now. Its can be so hard to juggle everything. My suggestion to people is always remember whenever you say yes to one thing you say no to something else. An example might be if you say yes to cleaning house you will be saying no to playing a card game with children. If no to cleaning house you may be saying yes to mental breakdowns. Gauge where you are at and choose the yes and no wisely depending on the day's situation. God does not call us to worry about tomorrow nor does he want us heaped with guilt from yesterday. He wants us living in the moment and giving it our best. It's ok to plan for the future but we must flexible for the moment we are in. I love your channel. Be blessed!❤
I am surprised people criticise you. Don't people know that if they don't gel with something they can just stop and move on? I really enjoy your chats as you clean. Thanks for sharing xo
Don't you dare listen to any idiots. You are literally such a comfort to me because you sound just like me. I can tell your house is exactly like mine. Lived in and loved in and that means organic mess we have to clean up. You are brilliant and don't ever go changing
Balance helper: Have your kids help you . Your older boy can help you. I was a single mom of 4 and worked full time. They all had chores to do on the weekend (By Thursday our house was trashed!). When they were young they had chores like putting silverware away, cleaning appliance doors (fridge, microwave etc) pick up garbage, wipe off tables and toys away, help set table. My kids are adults now and laugh about the "chorelist". They all keep nice neat homes. Give yourself the gift of help and give your kids the gift of learning how to help. Have a fabulous day and thank you for your transparency!
@@TT-yv3dw she's not talking about turning them into full-time slaves. She's talking about giving them each age appropriate jobs that would take maybe 15 or 20 minutes a day. The children learn discipline and tidiness and these really help when they come to leave home. My mum didn't teach me anything. I left home unable to clean, cook, do laundry. It was hard.
Thank you so much, Remi! I love hearing you talk and share during your videos. I feel like you're telling my story. I'm struggling right now with cleaning and mental health. I've been trying to remind myself to do what a can every day, even if it's a little bit. And not assign judgement to myself because of the clutter in my house and how long it's been there. I'm not a bad person. So watching your vids give me hope.
You do not talk too much. I love hearing you talk while you clean. Better than listening to music while someone cleans the tub that looks clean to start with! -Your videos are way better and more motivating. You keep it real. Keep right on being you!! Glad your little one felt better after a bad night.
Remi, I can’t tell you what a blessing you are with your videos❗️ I have shared them with my daughter and we both find you to be so authentic and it’s so helpful for us who have the same problems as you with clutter and not be able to keep everything together all times. (Understatement ) ❤❤❤
I grew up in a messy house and I struggle with self judgement and the judgement of others who I let in my house. I’m trying really hard to get into a routine which I struggle with. I think you’re doing a great job and I find these videos really motivating. Don’t let the haters get you down.
Your doing great, I'm on my own with a teenager and a two year old both being diagnosed with Autism and sometimes it were so overwhelming that I would just throw up! I have started to make mini task lists with 2 or 3 jobs to complete each day and try to add or subtract tasks according to my energy levels and how the kids are doing on the day! I have stopped guilt tripping myself for not having a shining sparkling house 24 7 it's just never gonna happen. I try to get out to the park each day to get fresh air and reset this massively helps my mind and is great for the kids.
I have just come across your video’s am 63 and discovered Utube during lockdown I have watched quite a few cleaning videos both American and Uk ones and in my opinion yours is the one I have found to be down to earth and what you see is what you get good on ya lass anyone with any sense can see the mess is real you just keep on doing what you are doing when you can good on ya xx😊😊
Remi, Life takes balance. We definitely need to prioritize our family time. You are a great mother and spouse. I don’t understand the need that people have to criticize other people. You are awesome! Don’t let the hateful comments get you down. I love watching your videos. It reminds me of when I was a young mother raising a family and trying to keep up with everything. Don’t be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤❤
I can't believe someone complained that you talk too much! I love listening to you; it really is like listening to a friend vent & chat. Please, keep up the conversations :-)
I love that you talk in your videos. I listen while I clean so I like the conversation. Many cleaning channels play music so if you are listening while cleaning rather than watching then one may as well listen to the radio. So I appreciate that you talk.
For the past 18 mos l was only functional in what l was doing. I took care of my Mom for 5 yrs after my Dad passed. Them 18 mos ago she went to join him. But watching you has helped me get moving and thinking about my home. Took me 3 days just reorganize my kitchen, got a donation box made from the kitchen. Then today it took me all day just cleaning my livingroom. Had planned to shampoo the carpet. But was to chilly and damp to do it today. And got another donation box made up. Shredded a lot of paperwork that needed to be done.
How ridiculous that you would mess up your house to make videos! I raised 6 children and know how quickly a house can get messed up. Its very satisfying to see your home come together. I love your talk overs . You say so many things that resonate with me. Keep up the good fight. Your awesome! ❤
100% get how a house can get so messy in so little time. There is never a day when every single room in my house is clean at the same time. I can get half of the house clean and the other half is still messy. And I just have to alternate which half is clean. And that’s as good as it gets. ❤
Were have you been my whole life..lol. I thought I was the only one who lived like this. Just watching you gives me great hope with my mess. You have no clue how much this helps.
I love that you talk the entire time. I watch alot of cleaning videos and I would rather hear the person talking than some of the music some play. So I absolutely love yours. Im so glad I happened across your videos. Not to mention I just feel you are realistic for all moms out there trying to do their best everyday. Thank you for being so refreshing everytime.
I am a messy person too - thanks for setting yourself out here for others to be encouraged not to give up. I do training and I do cover the difference between messy people and neat people - we do not understand each other. Those that accuse you of doing this deliberately is obviously neat people and have never faced a messy person challenges. Be encouraged that you are helping others and your monologue helps us understand what is running through your mind - to few people actually are aware of their inner voice until the wheels come off.
Your videos are so good, and I love to hear you chat to us. Anyone who says negative things to you hates themselves, and needs for everyone to feel the same way. Ignore them. Don't read that crap. Read our comments. You are awesome!❤
We all have a choice to be positive or negative, you have chosen the better of the two. Let’s all pray for those who see things so poorly, it must me an awful life. You are truly connecting with people.
I’m currently 12 years old and I struggle to tidy my bedroom but as soon as I saw your video it made me want to tidy my room more than ever thank you and I hope this helps me to be tidy so it doesn’t get in the state it is in now xx
I love listening to you "waffle on" while I am tidying the table to transition from "brainy work" time (aka summer learning for the 5 and 8yo's, food inventory and prep for me) to meal time, or switching or folding laundry, or tidying my kitchen, or cooking. You body double for me, and I stay on task a bit better because you are calm, non judging, encouraging, and timed!
I love listening to you talk, it's like we're sitting together having a cup of tea & then doing some work on our houses together. As for people who think you create a mess to tidy up - well, I think they've lived very sheltered lives if they think none of us have messy houses! They've certainly never been to my house. And deciding that they can judge others for having different lives from their own is just sad.
I actually like cleaning the kitchen. Seems like it and the bathroom are the only rooms I don’t struggle to clean. I think it’s because I know exactly what needs put up, and what stays out. And the actual cleaning and scrubbing part has always been easy and fun for me! And I’m one of your people! My house can get totally destroyed so easily. My mom says it’s because I’ve got too much ‘stuff’ and that’s probably right, but I’m not a hoarder, so oh, well! I also love my plants, so I have a lot of them and plant supplies in the house. Thank god plants never clutter, but the supplies, eh they do.
I’m in love with you Remi!! Thank you thank you thank you for all your videos! I’m 46 and never thought people like me existed I thought I was alone in my messy misery. I’m not diagnosed with anything but I suspect something makes me different. No one in my friends or family understands my mess , so thank you for making me feel like I’m not alone 😊
I enjoy listening to your videos while I tidy up. Cleaning is overwhelming sometimes and you’re really inspiring and calming. Thank you for all you do! ❤
I love your chatty videos 🥰 you are amazing. Being an adult is definitely extremely hard. Getting a balance is so hard. I was so happy to find one of your videos that I haven’t seen before. Perfect motivation while my kids are at their dads xx
Thank you for your videos. At 73 years old I FINALLY found someone who I can relate to. I’ve also been a messy person and felt really bad about it my whole life. I lost my husband of 50 years 3 years ago and things have gotten even worse due to depression. I’m moving into a new place (first time on my own) and I am determined to keep this place uncluttered and clean. I understand that it will be a hard task for me, but I’m definitely eager to do it. You have been so inspiring and I love your honesty. Thank you
I can so relate. My husband had 2 strokes 3 years ago. He survived and I am his only caretaker. Everything he used to do he can no longer do and it’s all on me. I am 78 and work like I never did. I am overwhelmed but I do what I can. People say mean things and it’s heartbreaking but they don’t know what it’s like. Please people be kind. Love to all facing difficult times. You never know when bad things will happen
Bonnie, I relate so much to your story, since my husband passed my untidiness has become much worse. I’m moving as well. I’m only taking what I need, I’m taking things I use, not things I may use. I’m planning on keeping it simple, no clutter less is best so they say 🤷♀️ That way I may find it much easier to clean. I love Remi,she is who she, Remi is so honest.
Big hug, Bonnie ❤
And a big hug to Tenunsa and Wendy too❤ Caregivers at any age struggle to stay afloat and it's even harder once older because the physical body says no more frequently.
I hear ya sister. Getting old ain’t for sissies.
Your voice is comforting. You also are a real person, with real life issues. It is comforting to know there is someone out there going through the mental struggles I go through. I don't have kids in the house anymore, but even without them here, it is about me getting motivated to do the house work. Thank you for helping me look at life a bit differently and motivating me. Don't pay those haters any mind. You are such an amazing lady.
i really like hearing you chattering on, please don’t stop. Those haters stating you mess things up on purpose, should walk into my house unannounced, maybe then they would see these things happen
I love your videos especially the talking side to it!! Your home is refreshing to see that your actually cleaning it when it’s dirty and untidy. Keep these long talking videos coming I love them!! Xx
Thank you so much!! This has made my day! 🥰 xx
Ditto! And I love the accent!
I love the way you talk all the way through them too. I imagine that's more work than sticking some music on, so thank you so much for making the effort to voice them 😊
I love that you talk through you videos. I can listen even when I'm out on a walk x
Haters will always hate. Their reactions say more about their own struggles, than about you. What you're doing in your videos is awesome. So, whilst you're enjoying making them, we'll keep enjoying them. ❤
Love the "woffle" and the sound of your voice
I find that a clean house helps my anxiety but sometimes it is so hard to get motivated. Great job!!!
Oh it definitely does me too!! But sometimes when you’re doing it over and over again and you know it will be messy again very soon, you’re just like UGH, nope! 🤦🏻♀️
I can tell you aren’t messing your place up just to make content, I can tell because I’ve seen that same mess grow organically at my house. I just discovered you today and I’m binge watching. I feel like you are describing me when you talk about your struggles with clean and tidy. Thank you for making these videos.
Exactly the same thoughts here!
So yes, the people whom you are doing it for, they know it's real, because they've seen it 'organically grow' into it.
Tbh I find your voice and videos very comforting! You keep doing you
I’m so pleased, thank you ☺️
Thank you! I’m a single man in a small house with several cats and a bird. It’s overwhelming trying to keep things up. I can’t imagine what you go through with children. You have given me hope and inspiration. I have trouble just doing my dishes for one.
Your a brilliant mum. From one to another. You’ve really helped me. Especially repetitive cleaning every single day it’s so draining 🥰 I watch you and do it too. ❤
Honestly this makes me so happy, I’m so pleased to be able to help ☺️
Same at least starting to get motivated so excited for newer beginnings. 😊
Same when I watch the videos I get up half way threw qnd start it's refreshing to see a video we can relate to not a show house love remi.. ❤❤ keep your videos coming especially the mental health one ❤
"So I thought, d'ya know what..? - I've had my nap, I've had my sulk, and now I'm gonna get my bum up..." LOVE IT 😅❤
I've spent the morning in bed, I've been sulking and feeling sorry for myself too. Time for me to get my bum up too. Thank you so much for the motivation. We CAN do this 😊💪🙏💕
I LOVE your channel cause you mirror me. You have a very healthy acceptance of who and how you are. Unfortunately it took me 50+ years to come to that acceptance and be good with it.
The people that say it's staged either haven't had kids, they're Mary Poppins, or just plain rude! Love your channel and your voice-overs are better than the constantly interrupted music voice-overs!
You are my type, sweet girl! I LOVE your chatting and thoroughly enjoy your voice over, good common sense and wise advice for people struggling to find balance. You keep being YOU and those of us who appreciate you will keep coming back to encourage each other. Big hug from an older mum who sees what a WONDERFUL job you're doing. 🥰
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I love that you talk for the videos. I can’t clean to the music cleaning ones. I prefer the talking videos because I feel like I’m cleaning along with you rather than cleaning alone. I struggle at motivating myself but talking videos keep my going!
Clearly, the people that think you mess your house up on purpose keep a perfectly tidy house 100% of the time and are afraid to sneeze or do anything in their own home. My house is exactly like this every day and I am very anxious about trying to keep it ““ picture perfect“ your videos have actually helped me a lot to let go of that, and spend more much-needed family time together.
"It's the best feeling when the sink's all nice and shiny - doesn't last five seconds, but still" - aaaah, spoken directly from my heart🥰
I love your chatty videos. They're so wholesome and comforting. Thank you.
Just wanted to boost your engagement because I find your long-form videos really comforting and motivating. Even though I live alone, I often look around at my space and wonder "what happened??" because it gets messy so quickly, and your blame-free approach is really helpful
Remi, you inspire me. Thanks for all your kindness and positivity. Just lovely
It made me laugh that you get comments saying ‘there’s no way your house gets like that organically!’. 😮 I on the other hand find it perfectly easy to understand how your house gets like that. I have 4 pets and 3 teenagers and a job, and motivational issues. Those people ought to have a look round my place. 😅
We're definitely comforted and inspired by your videos! I watch them for motivation to clean and tidy up.Your voice and stories are awesome. Don't stop talking!!!
I love your chatting while I watch you clean. I find it comforting.
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this today. My baby hasn't stopped crying all day except when she crashed put for an hour this morning and I took the chance for a sleep whilst my other 3 were at school. The house is a huge mess. My stairs look just like yours too. Managed to get the washing up done and I already feel so much better for it so I completely relate to how your mood changed. Your the most relatable youtuber I've come across because your so real and honest and it honestly nearly made me cry today because I felt understood, all be it by someone who doesn't know me. Thank you so much.
And ignore the haters, why bother hating on someone, just watch a different video and move on.
What a lovely kind thing to say, Natalie.
Ive just found your account and been binge watching it while doing some cleaning and cooking dinner this evening. And I LOVE that you talk all through your videos! That is what I find motivational and uplifting. If I just wanted background music I could turn on spotify 😉 And it is so refreshing to see real people sharing real life messes and ways to tackle them on social media. My house is messy 90% of the time... no matter how much I clean and tidy! Watching your channel and listening to your stories makes me feel so much more accepting of myself. Im really glad I've found you on here! X
Remi I am 70 years old our 3 children are grown and moved out on their own. DO NOT let anyone shame you for co-sleeping we slept with our babies and then toddlers eventually they moved out to their own bed and room. No, I do not regret one minute of it!!
I am a messy person I wish I had someone to just help me get things organised and cleaned up just once. I am one of those that keeps something "just in case" then when I need it I can't find it. I need your videos they inspire me I am binge-watching them and I love your voice. I am into listening to the stories on Ytube I wish they had someone like you to read them. Your voice is so comforting.....
You are amazing Remi, I used to watch your videos, here and TikTok before doing cleaning to motivate myself. This time I thought I'd try having you on in the background while I was cleaning and wow, it almost felt like you were here as a friend spurring me on as you were doing yours. Will definitely be doing that again!!
Oh this makes me so so happy! 🥺🥰 I’m sorry I didn’t see this comment until now! Thank you! X
Today was not a good day. I needed to hear someone who understands that cleaning up my mess can improve my mood & spin the day into at least more functional and less chaotic one ❤ thank you for being authentic and helping me feel less alone. It’s like you’re calm in a storm
As a mum of a 2 year old girl, a very energetic jack russell and a newborn coming soon, ive just discovered your channel and i feel so encouraged watching the videos:) thank you for being so reslsitic and down to earth about what its like trying to keep a house running when there are several little beings wanting your attention all the time! Xx
I have been watching your videos since I ran across you, I think 4 days ago..thing is, I LOVE your chats because for your relative youth, you display a vast amount of wisdom, you have a soothing voice and although I know nothing of you, your patience and compassion comes through in your voice over..and in the last four days because of the video where you make the list as you go, I’ve taken that list onboard and oh the difference to me! I went through the house just picking up cloths and getting them washed and managed the first three items on that list, at the end of the day the improvement to my home was massive! The second day I did the bins and hoovered and the house became manageable because for me then all that was left was the specifics; cleaning fixtures and wiping down cabinets..four days on my house has stayed clean and I’ve been able to focus on arranging the pantry..
My gratitude for you and your video content is SO much more than words could express..
Thank you!
Hi Remi, thank you for your honesty, authenticity and humor. You are an amazing mom. I know what a struggle it can be to clean with little kids around. You clean, you turn your back, and it's dirty again 😅
5 stars to you for getting yourself motivated after a sleepless night and with 2 young children at home.!!!!!!
A memory of tomato soup, chip sandwich and the sound of music at your grandma's house...it's truly something money just can't buy!
You're a lovely person and I think you're not talking too much. You're so wise in what you say and not just blabbering away..! I'm 64 now and I'm still learning ...from you! Keep up the good work dear Remy! Watching you from the Netherlands😊
Hello there! As a wife to a husband with ADHD and 2 kids having the same, I can tell you that you are not alone. I live in a neuroatypical bubble and lots of my friends are talking about the same issues you experienced. People who think you mess things up on purpose can't imagine how distracted someone can really become, and that what you show could possibly be real! I live with 3 messy people and can swear our house looks the same as yours often, and I can't tidy up all the time. Being messy doesn't make you a failure and people with this mindset need to get their priorities straight. You overcame executive dysfunction and tiredness today to get things done, and I am proud of you for putting in the effort!!! Greetings from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
Bloodliriel- OMG same here! I have an ex- husband with ADHD and my two kids both inherited it. I don't know anyone else with two kids who both have it, so I was surprised to see your comment. Also some of my ancestors are from Luxembourg! 😂 Greetings from Arizona, USA
@@customer5032 oh wow, what a coincidence! Greetings back!
The little one is like your shadow. He really loves your attention. I don’t know how you get so much done!
I've watched cleaning videos for a while now and you are THE most relatable! It's so reassuring I can't tell you!! Thankyou for doing this for us!! X
You have really inspired me. I have learned i am not alone. Thank you for your narration and honesty.
Keep it up
I love how much you talk in your videos! Thank you for representing all of us out here who struggle with the same issues. I've used your vids to help motivate me to tidy up several times now after just finding your channel recently and I appreciate all you do!
You talk exactly the amount you need to. Your words are meaningful and your words are inspirational because you're so hopeful.
Please let yourself know the haters are not worth your time.
Ran across this comment recently….. Don’t pay attention to advise from those you would not go to for advice…
Says it all.
Gentle Hugs💕 from an 83 yr old grandmother. You are doing fine…you can’t know the good you are doing for so many folks dealing with so much. Thank you dear.
I love cleaning and organizing and when I came across ur channel I really enjoy how ur videos are different because u actually talk through them instead of music. I like to hear what u have to say and all the encouragement u give to others.
Oh this makes me so happy, thank you! 😊
You are not too chatty. I love the conversation. It really helps me knowing we think a lot alike and I’m not alone in those thoughts 🥰
I just discovered your videos today, and I just want to say thank you thank you. I love your honesty, your chat, and your refreshing attitude. So glad I found you today - you helped me tackle some jobs in the house I’d been putting off and they had really been getting me down.
You’re an inspiration, thank you
You are doing great! As mom of 3 boys that mess is absolutely organic. It's a home full of love. I love how you let your kids be kids and just pick up when they are done. And I could listen to you talk all day.
Oh my dear - cleaning the house when the children are there is like shoveling the snow while it's still snowing!
I'm a mom of 3. I had 3 kids by the time I was 23. I am early 40s now. Its can be so hard to juggle everything. My suggestion to people is always remember whenever you say yes to one thing you say no to something else. An example might be if you say yes to cleaning house you will be saying no to playing a card game with children. If no to cleaning house you may be saying yes to mental breakdowns. Gauge where you are at and choose the yes and no wisely depending on the day's situation. God does not call us to worry about tomorrow nor does he want us heaped with guilt from yesterday. He wants us living in the moment and giving it our best. It's ok to plan for the future but we must flexible for the moment we are in. I love your channel. Be blessed!❤
I am surprised people criticise you. Don't people know that if they don't gel with something they can just stop and move on? I really enjoy your chats as you clean. Thanks for sharing xo
Don't you dare listen to any idiots. You are literally such a comfort to me because you sound just like me. I can tell your house is exactly like mine. Lived in and loved in and that means organic mess we have to clean up. You are brilliant and don't ever go changing
Balance helper: Have your kids help you . Your older boy can help you. I was a single mom of 4 and worked full time. They all had chores to do on the weekend (By Thursday our house was trashed!). When they were young they had chores like putting silverware away, cleaning appliance doors (fridge, microwave etc) pick up garbage, wipe off tables and toys away, help set table. My kids are adults now and laugh about the "chorelist". They all keep nice neat homes. Give yourself the gift of help and give your kids the gift of learning how to help. Have a fabulous day and thank you for your transparency!
Let them be children pls! 🙏
@@TT-yv3dw she's not talking about turning them into full-time slaves. She's talking about giving them each age appropriate jobs that would take maybe 15 or 20 minutes a day. The children learn discipline and tidiness and these really help when they come to leave home. My mum didn't teach me anything. I left home unable to clean, cook, do laundry. It was hard.
Thank you so much, Remi! I love hearing you talk and share during your videos. I feel like you're telling my story. I'm struggling right now with cleaning and mental health. I've been trying to remind myself to do what a can every day, even if it's a little bit. And not assign judgement to myself because of the clutter in my house and how long it's been there. I'm not a bad person. So watching your vids give me hope.
You do not talk too much. I love hearing you talk while you clean. Better than listening to music while someone cleans the tub that looks clean to start with! -Your videos are way better and more motivating. You keep it real. Keep right on being you!! Glad your little one felt better after a bad night.
Remi, I can’t tell you what a blessing you are with your videos❗️ I have shared them with my daughter and we both find you to be so authentic and it’s so helpful for us who have the same problems as you with clutter and not be able to keep everything together all times. (Understatement ) ❤❤❤
I love your chatting! Don't stop! Your voice and descriptions make your videos! Don't let anyone tell you different ❤️
I grew up in a messy house and I struggle with self judgement and the judgement of others who I let in my house. I’m trying really hard to get into a routine which I struggle with. I think you’re doing a great job and I find these videos really motivating. Don’t let the haters get you down.
I think you chat the perfect amount! You are lovely to listen to. So encouraging and real.
You're doing amazing. Don't listen to negative self talk.
Your doing great, I'm on my own with a teenager and a two year old both being diagnosed with Autism and sometimes it were so overwhelming that I would just throw up! I have started to make mini task lists with 2 or 3 jobs to complete each day and try to add or subtract tasks according to my energy levels and how the kids are doing on the day! I have stopped guilt tripping myself for not having a shining sparkling house 24 7 it's just never gonna happen.
I try to get out to the park each day to get fresh air and reset this massively helps my mind and is great for the kids.
I listen while I clean and I really appreciate the positive messages and motivation. Don’t let the haters get you down you truly help so many of us
I have just come across your video’s am 63 and discovered Utube during lockdown I have watched quite a few cleaning videos both American and Uk ones and in my opinion yours is the one I have found to be down to earth and what you see is what you get good on ya lass anyone with any sense can see the mess is real you just keep on doing what you are doing when you can good on ya xx😊😊
I’m here to hear you “chatter on and on”. That’s why I love your channel! I’m so glad I found you!❤
Thank you so so much! 🥺❤️
Remi, Life takes balance. We definitely need to prioritize our family time. You are a great mother and spouse.
I don’t understand the need that people have to criticize other people. You are awesome! Don’t let the hateful comments get you down. I love watching your videos. It reminds me of when I was a young mother raising a family and trying to keep up with everything. Don’t be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤❤
I can't believe someone complained that you talk too much! I love listening to you; it really is like listening to a friend vent & chat. Please, keep up the conversations :-)
so glad you hear you had a nap when the younger one was asleep.
You are perfect the way you are.
You are real, honest and no false pretenses. Thank you for helping me.
I love that you talk in your videos. I listen while I clean so I like the conversation. Many cleaning channels play music so if you are listening while cleaning rather than watching then one may as well listen to the radio. So I appreciate that you talk.
I like your chatting on the videos,I am 52 and I have a 8 yr old with Autism, I really struggle to keep house clean as I just want to chill out.
For the past 18 mos l was only functional in what l was doing. I took care of my Mom for 5 yrs after my Dad passed. Them 18 mos ago she went to join him. But watching you has helped me get moving and thinking about my home. Took me 3 days just reorganize my kitchen, got a donation box made from the kitchen. Then today it took me all day just cleaning my livingroom. Had planned to shampoo the carpet. But was to chilly and damp to do it today. And got another donation box made up. Shredded a lot of paperwork that needed to be done.
How ridiculous that you would mess up your house to make videos! I raised 6 children and know how quickly a house can get messed up. Its very satisfying to see your home come together. I love your talk overs . You say so many things that resonate with me. Keep up the good fight. Your awesome! ❤
100% get how a house can get so messy in so little time. There is never a day when every single room in my house is clean at the same time. I can get half of the house clean and the other half is still messy. And I just have to alternate which half is clean. And that’s as good as it gets. ❤
Hi, I love your videos just becouse you talking a lot through it.Nothing worse than boring cleaning videos.
Keep doing your amazing work.xx
Thank you, Remi. Always feel better after one of your videos.😊
Were have you been my whole life..lol.
I thought I was the only one who lived like this. Just watching you gives me great hope with my mess. You have no clue how much this helps.
You are MY type of people! Love your posts!!
Oh this makes me so happy! Thank you so much 😁
I love that you talk the entire time. I watch alot of cleaning videos and I would rather hear the person talking than some of the music some play. So I absolutely love yours. Im so glad I happened across your videos. Not to mention I just feel you are realistic for all moms out there trying to do their best everyday. Thank you for being so refreshing everytime.
I find you so enjoyable, honest, and incredibly refreshing, never change.😊
I am a messy person too - thanks for setting yourself out here for others to be encouraged not to give up.
I do training and I do cover the difference between messy people and neat people - we do not understand each other.
Those that accuse you of doing this deliberately is obviously neat people and have never faced a messy person challenges.
Be encouraged that you are helping others and your monologue helps us understand what is running through your mind - to few people actually are aware of their inner voice until the wheels come off.
I think youre doing a great job ! Your children look happy and healthy. Everything cant be picture perfect all the time
I find your videos easier to relate to than people posting from my own country. Thanks for being you. 😊
I love your videos, they bring me such joy and comfort. I love that you speak to us so please never stop, thank you
You are my kind of people.... yes rewatching and relistening, while looking forward to your next one. Don't stop.
Your videos are so good, and I love to hear you chat to us. Anyone who says negative things to you hates themselves, and needs for everyone to feel the same way. Ignore them. Don't read that crap. Read our comments. You are awesome!❤
We all have a choice to be positive or negative, you have chosen the better of the two. Let’s all pray for those who see things so poorly, it must me an awful life. You are truly connecting with people.
The fact you talk is what has drawn me to your videos. This is what I’ve been searching for to help motivate me. Thank you so much!!!
Love the title of your video post .. organising is so peaceful and removing the clutter lifts the spirit ..❤
I’m currently 12 years old and I struggle to tidy my bedroom but as soon as I saw your video it made me want to tidy my room more than ever thank you and I hope this helps me to be tidy so it doesn’t get in the state it is in now xx
Love the honesty. I'm the same way.
I love listening to you "waffle on" while I am tidying the table to transition from "brainy work" time (aka summer learning for the 5 and 8yo's, food inventory and prep for me) to meal time, or switching or folding laundry, or tidying my kitchen, or cooking. You body double for me, and I stay on task a bit better because you are calm, non judging, encouraging, and timed!
I just found your channels - and am really enjoying your cheerful attitude ! I need all the motivation I can get. Thank you
So glad I found your videos. I share them with my grand daughter who can relate with you. So Thank You. From America.
My favorite part of your videos is the chat. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and ideas ❤ Kansas 🇺🇸
I love listening to you talk, it's like we're sitting together having a cup of tea & then doing some work on our houses together.
As for people who think you create a mess to tidy up - well, I think they've lived very sheltered lives if they think none of us have messy houses! They've certainly never been to my house. And deciding that they can judge others for having different lives from their own is just sad.
I actually like cleaning the kitchen. Seems like it and the bathroom are the only rooms I don’t struggle to clean. I think it’s because I know exactly what needs put up, and what stays out. And the actual cleaning and scrubbing part has always been easy and fun for me!
And I’m one of your people! My house can get totally destroyed so easily. My mom says it’s because I’ve got too much ‘stuff’ and that’s probably right, but I’m not a hoarder, so oh, well! I also love my plants, so I have a lot of them and plant supplies in the house. Thank god plants never clutter, but the supplies, eh they do.
You're my kind of people! I love watching and listening it gives me motivation too.
Thank you so much! 🥰
I’m in love with you Remi!! Thank you thank you thank you for all your videos! I’m 46 and never thought people like me existed I thought I was alone in my messy misery. I’m not diagnosed with anything but I suspect something makes me different. No one in my friends or family understands my mess , so thank you for making me feel like I’m not alone 😊
Don't be so hard on yourself we as mothers don't give ourselves a break. You are a great mother. My mental health is suffering atm due to guilt 😢
I LOVE your voiceovers I literally just listen to the video I barely watch but I like your voice and stories and your positivity!!
I love your chatting. You have a cute accent and I love how you call your vacuum “hovering” 💗💗💗
It's seems healthier that your first priority is time focused on the children than on the house.
I enjoy listening to your videos while I tidy up. Cleaning is overwhelming sometimes and you’re really inspiring and calming. Thank you for all you do! ❤
I love your chatty videos 🥰 you are amazing. Being an adult is definitely extremely hard. Getting a balance is so hard. I was so happy to find one of your videos that I haven’t seen before. Perfect motivation while my kids are at their dads xx