Isn't it cool how cleaning for someone else lights up our brain because it's a PROJECT, not a chore? Love it! So satisfying and everyone gets blessed by it. 💝
Absolutely!!! I worked for 2 years as a live in carer for spinal injured (2004-2006), I was great at keeping those homes clean and tidy. My own house though.. 😮
@@kathryngardner9584 I’m in the states. Yes, it’s a vicious cycle. Depression causes mess, and mess causes depression. I’m slowly cleaning up as I can, with my husband’s help. But he’s a tiny bit of a hoarder, so that causes me anxiety. There are all kinds of psychological disorders that create this problem. For my husband and tween son, it’s ADHD. For me, it’s bipolar 2 and ADHD-inattentive type.
@Sarah Lund, I feel the same. She is just a lovely, accepting young woman who is "life" wise beyond her years. Her advice is so very important, we're all wired different. Don't beat yourself up over your short comings, we all have them. Instead take great pride in all you do well,. Ask for help where you need and offer your help when you know it's needed. Friendships and families thrive by living like this, in a community.
So kind and considerate of you. Depression is no joke. I'm a naturally tidy person but when my mental health took a nose-dive, my home really suffered. However, because I like things to be clean and tidy, I spent a lot of time thinking about tidying the mess but finding I had no energy to do anything other than lie in bed. It became a vicious cycle where I kept wanting to clean up but lack of energy would prevent me and so I'd then feel even more demotivated. I'm glad that you're understanding of your aunt's situation and are helping her with this clean- I'm sure this means a lot to her!
man that cycle of wanting to get it cleaned but basically being frozen in place is so draining. i feel like that in itself just makes mental health even worse.
Going through the same now. It pains me to see my "home" like this. Can't invite Family, Friends. Don't want to come through that front door if I've been out. So hard! Harder still because it's not me... God bless this dear lady for coming to her aunt's aid.❤❤❤
Remi, you are my favorite youtuber. I'm so happy I found your channel, you have helped me accomplish more in the last week, than I have in the last 12 months. I literally hear your voice in my head when I'm cleaning, telling me to keep going, telling me it's ok to break, & ok to stop & start again tomorrow, that was something I really struggled with, now I know it's not a race,& I don't have to be perfect. I watched the video of you cleaning your dad's place twice, you said a lot that really resonated with me, I'll probably watch it again today honestly lol. You are so inspiring & I can relate to so many things you talk about in your videos. Thank you so much!
As a retired mental health worker this warms my heart. So non-judgemental 😊. Also I have depression and ADHD so my home can look just like that at certain times. Thank you ❤
@@solangelalebron1348 I am a mental health worker, and no one can’t. The very words themselves are stigmatizing. “Lazy” can mean depression, executive dysfunction, procrastination for some reason you have no concepts of. It’s best no to judge nor use words like that, nor think you know.
@@occipitalneuralgia2339 Listen I was severely depressed AND injured, and I let my apart a mess in order to heal myself. But from time to time I had to just throw out the trash and pick up some stuff and do laundry. Also, it was messy but not dirty. Get it? When you throw the toilet paper that you just wiped yourself with on the floor over and over until it piles up into a mound of toilet paper or let animals like chickens roam around your home that is Laziness. There is a flaw with the character of the person. Because I know a lot of depressed people who don't let their homes look like that. Again, a mess, scattered items, laundry on the floor is depression. When you have Filth it is not, THAT is unhygienic, flaw in character, so EVEN IF that lady didn't happen to be depressed, she would STILL be dirty. Get it?
@@solangelalebron1348 you clearly don't understand the difference between being clinically depressed and feeling down because you are injured and can't do what you normally do. Clinical depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain that effects different people in different ways. Working in healthcare with those who are diagnosed as clinically depressed I've seen people so effected by the symptoms of fatigue that they couldn't summon the strength to eat, bathe or even get up to go to the bathroom. It's not unusual for people with major depression to find themselves surrounded by clutter including dirty dishes, clothes and even rubbish. Not only does depression make you fatigued but it also effects your memory, ability to focus, being easily overwhelmed, mood swings, anxiety and the feeling of despair. Any one or combination of those symptoms can paralyze a person. I pray you never have that experience.
Thank you for sharing the kindness and love you showed your Auntie. Depression mess is painful. I can picture her making a cuppa with a smile and snuggling up in her cozy new room . I adore the little corner! Thanks too for reminding me to be realistic about what can be achieved in the time you have to avoid overwhelm. Your videos are helping me face my own executive dysfunction. And your voiceovers are lovely x
What you and your cousin have done in SEVEN HOURS is truly AMAZING! Astonishing! I love your attitude with the muck and hard work, as well as how non-judgmental you are. The fact that you recognise that it won't be kept up like this... Thank you so much for sharing that you too were/are a messy person but have changed through having children and doing this on social media! We're HERE FOR IT! Keep going. You are doing SUCH GREAT WORK-- not just for your family here, but for all of us viewers who want that extra bit of motivation and inspiration! I'm gonna deal with at LEAST one box or table surface area I've been avoiding for literal months. Thank you. Thank you. THANK YOU! ~Aleif from India.
@Patty Wood Wow, Patty! Thanks ever so much! (Now, I'm slightly confused-- I don't know if your comment refers to my videos or this channel's. Hehe. But I feel and share my gratitude nonetheless.) ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing real life!! I laughed when you mentioned the music, my mother use to put the music from the radio on when we all cleaned on the weekend - each of us taking a room!! We’d dance as we worked and laughed - a lot ! I still listen to music today when I’m cooking or cleaning ! You are terrific!! God 🙏❤🫠Bless !!
Wow, you deserve the "Niece of the year" award! That was a lot of work! What a kind, thoughtful thing to do. I'll bet she was absolutely thrilled with her newly clean home. 💝
Your enthusiasm is contagious. I’m a wheelchair user, full time, and it takes me centuries to clean. It’s like a slow motion film. It’s so annoying! But when I see your videos, I feel motivated to have a different attitude towards the house chores. Thanks so much ❤
You and your cousin came through like a breath of fresh air and made your aunties home look cozy and lovely. I have no doubt she really appreciated the effort. And thank you for not putting expectations on her to keep it up and tidy. Even if it goes off in 24 hours, so what. She enjoyed it nevertheless ❤
I love your videos and all that you have to say-I could listen to that “luvly” accent of yours all day! I am 72 years old and live in Pennsylvania in the U.S. I found you on RUclips because I have a bunch of chronic health issues and can really get behind on my housework and feel overwhelmed. You’re such a sweet encourager and encouragement-keep up the good work! Sending hugs from America! 🤗
What an amazing human you are (not forgetting your cousin)! I don’t know too many adult kids who’d help their parents out let alone extended family! And your wisdom at such a young age is wonderful! Well done you 👍🏼👌
Please thank your aunt for letting us see you work and clean. Your heart and vulnerability is a breath of fresh air. I so relate with you and your auntie. I’m naturally a messy person too. I didn’t understand what Decluttering was. I didn’t see it was a mess til it was totally out of control with piles everywhere. My home is far from what I’d consider neat and tidy, but it’s finally getting there, the more I learn to have strategies in place. My goal is for a 5 minute tidy, to get everything back in place per room. Cleaning and Decluttering is like peeling layers off an onion. It takes time. We will all get there though!! So glad I came across your channel. Look forward to seeing more from you ❤
Bless you for not making your auntie feel badly if it gets messy again. My in-laws have helped me before and then guilted and shamed me when it didn’t stay clean and organized to their standards. It hurt me so much.
My mother suffered from depression and as children my father would tell us to clean up but we had no training as to what to do first! I learned from observation when I would visit my friends, this was way before social media! My sister joined the military and thus we learned from others. Thank you for sharing this wonderful video!
I recently just found you & this is the 2nd video I've seen. Your a person that shows love thru your actions, your honest about your weaknesses or perceived faults and because of this you are showing your true beauty. I just feel better listening & watching you. You understand the struggles so many have yet your a giving, hard working soul just trying her best with what she has...your right on sooo many things you touched on in this video, to many to mention. Thank you & I look forward to seeing you again🌻🌺🌷
It’s the 2nd video I’ve watched too. I have multiple medical issues as well as depression, anxiety, ADHD and got told 2 years ago at an autism specialist clinic that I was more autistic than my daughter that they were working with. I love Remi’s heart and honesty, and she is a person I could comfortably let into my house.
This is beautiful! I felt emotional watching! The transformation you achieved is amazing - and I so love your outlook on life! You are kind, caring, unselfish and hard working. I’m sure your channel will go far. Thanks so much for sharing ❤️
Dearest Remi. I watch your videos over and over again because I love them that much. You are an amazing woman, and especially a wonderful mum. I love how you allow your children to play, play, play, regardless of the mess that's made. Please don't let the negative comments get you down. You are doing a fantastic job managing your life and your executive disorder. When your children are older, you will have no regrets about the way they were raised, and that's so very important. You never rank a clean house over happy children and that's such a wonderful quality.
You are a real inspiration, I love the way you are realistic about what can be done and that it doesn’t have to be perfect. You made such an improvement here and I actually did some tidying and cleaning today when often I feel so depressed and stuck. I think I have executive dysfunction too and you have really helped so thank you x
I hear you on the sensory issues with dishes! I have to really prepare myself for it oftentimes. My tricks (so far) are to wear t-shirts (this has saved me on so many occasions from feeling overwhelmed. This way I don't have to continuously pull my sleeves up while my hands are wet) and only doing a small amount at once. I also tend to use warm water instead of hot. This helps a lot with the weird texture on my hands. I usually just use hot water if I need to soak something for a bit. I love your videos!
You rock young lady!! I subscribed to your channel after seeing you clean your Dad's kitchen. I love your discussion of why these things happen to some of us. I have had depression problems plus health problems and when you are alone it can get out of hand. You hate it and it's embarrassing to have people come in. I am laid up at the moment with a broken bone, but when I heal and can bear weight again, I intend to start decluttering a bit each day. I do not want my home like this, and at the moment I am feeling so motivated to get it done. For a while though, I had no energy to do anything. So glad I found your channel!!
I have stumbled across your channel and love your kind nature and understanding of mental health and how it affects daily activity. I genuinely feel you have helped your aunty to recognise how so much better she will feel coming home to a lovely, tidy and clean home.
You're a lovely person with a lot of love in your heart for service. You did an amazing job. I wish you lived here in San Antonio TX USA, I would hire you weekly. LOL Love you voice and your editing also.
Posting this before watching the video: thank you so much! I went scrolling through videos trying to find a “cleaning your way out of depression” video in hopes it would motivate me and I’ve found your channel. This is the third video I’ve started watching and I can’t wait to see how you transform this home 😊 a “depression mess” is no joke for sure! It sucks. I’ve been in a pretty severe episode for almost four months and my house is a mess (mostly junk and misplaced stuff) but the first video I watched of yours gave me a kick in the bum to start cleaning 😊 you’re awesome!!!!!!
I love love love your spirit. So good of you and your cousin to help your Aunt. Great job. You also read my mind about the flowers- what a thoughtful gift. I look forward to more of your videos. Keep on keeping on. God bless you and your family.
That is so very kind of you to do this for her with limited time and with compassion. I loved how you spoke about executive dysfuction and how all of us are wired differently: what is easy for someone may not be as easy for another. Compassion goes a long way. For many people with ADHD or other executive dysfuction disorders, cleaning up someone else's space is much easier than cleaning their own. I'm sure your auntie was so, so very happy when she came home to this. Sometimes you just need a fresh start and to know someone cares.
It's really amazing to see someone so non-judgemental! So rare! My clutter and house, and yard make me feel so ashamed. You are a wonderful role model!
This is a brilliant video! Thanks for talking about executive dysfunction I have ASD adhd inattentive and an acquired brain injury. I can’t manage to get on top of my house and yes the guilt was awful. My mum was like yours. And could do the cleaning easily and made me feel inadequate. Shoutout to everyone who struggles like this much love from Edinburgh ❤🤗🤗
This was both wonderful and satisfying. The love you two have and poured into the project made it all the more pleasing to watch as well as inspiring for me to get up and clean. Thank you for doing this “chore” for your much loved auntie. You also did a fantastic job filming with what you had and I certainly hope you get the filming equipment you desire and deserve.
You're an absolute sweetheart....I was so obsessive about cleaning.....until the pandemic.....then the isolation and depression floored me. Now I'm just too overwhelmed and exhausted....I m ho ping that watching you will motivate me to get moving. Well done to you for helping others xx
I'm happy I stumbled onto your channel. Seeing this transformation and hearing you talk about your aunt in such a loving and non-judgemental way has been a gift. You are a gem and I wish you all the best.
I agree on the hand feeling after washing up and am inspired by your ability to prioritise to reach your goal (not doing the inside of the drier). Since I found you about a week ago I am constantly reminding myself to aim for imperfect but get things done. Another amazing video, Remi, thank you for being you 🙏🏻🧡
This video was on auto-play as I sat down to eat my breakfast so I just watched. What a lovely person you are - kind, generous, thoughtful, considerate. I subscribed just for that! I love that your aunty saved the hens too.
Bless you, such a big heart with no judgement. My auntie is exactly the same. Some people just are not wired to be tidy and that’s fine. Whatever we can do to help is worth it for a few days of peace for them. I hope that your channel grows and you get your filing equipment :)
I can't thank you enough for your wonderful videos. I've started a collection of Remi Clog quotations. "I love cleaning, but I don't like tidying" is absolutely me, and so is "I adore my little life". Keep 'em coming and thanks again! 🌺🌺🌺
I just found you today. You are so relatable and real. I struggle with depression and my house also reflects how I feel. The more overwhelmed I get, the more depressed I get. I get stuck in that cycle. I’m hoping to get motivation from watching you. Thank you for sharing!
Im so glad that you are doing these videos. I have bad depression and anxiety its good to show people what we go through with mental desese plus your voice is so soothing.
What a sweet and beautiful thing you've done for your Auntie! I'm sure she was so pleased when she got home. Great job you and your cousin did! Beautiful flowers 💐
I went on Utube TV to watch house cleaning videos and you are my favorite 💕. I have always been one to keep my house clean until I started going through depression I stopped cleaning my house 😢. I feel it's making my depression worse. I'm trying so hard to push myself 😞 into cleaning like you. You are a beautiful person ❤️. I watched the one of you cleaning your house while you were sick with a cold. Bless your ❤️ and now you're aunt's house. I used to be on Tik-Tok but I am not on it anymore so I'm glad I was able to find you I live in Orlando Florida you have a new subscriber keep making those videos and I'll keep watching❤
Wow Remi! That’s amazing 😍 I relate to you soooo much. Right now as we speak I’m watching this video sorting through all the clean washing dumped on my bedroom floor because I have the best intentions but can never finish a job or follow through on anything 😩 whenever I need to ne motivated I find your tiktoks and RUclips videos and it helps massively 🫶🏼
This makes me so happy! I’m exactly the same with finishing anything, I find it SO difficult 🤦🏻♀️ the amount of unfinished projects I have lying around my house! X
Dear Remi, thank you so much for your videos. I have been struggling a long time for my house to get clean. And I have seen many videos of women cleaning their houses, but their houses were spotless. And I was so trying to get to that standard.When I saw your video for the first time. I was relieved that you have a normal house. Since I have seen your videos, I have done my kitchen. And now I am washing my pots in washing machine. You really made the change. Thank you. Greetings from Croatia.
I'm glad they are people out there who is not ashamed of being depressed, I'm a mess too and I'm constantly judged by the people who caused my depression and they literally watch my every move even evade my privacy
I know this is an older video so I hope you still see comments! One of the best tips I ever read for children's artwork is to take a picture of them holding it when they bring it home. What you're keeping is the memory of how proud they were of their creation, not necessarily every single drawing. The blogger who shared the tip then made a book later on with pictures + some treasured artwork all in one place and it was so sweet.
Hahah thank you for saying this!! I always wonder whether a lot of people find it annoying! But I talk here like I talk to friends, and sometimes it’s “and yeah” and “anyway” 😂
Girls, you are just wonderful 🙏🏼 Your Aunt is blessed to have your help. I'm 60 and suffer from depression and health issues too. My family is four states away. Friends and neighbors say they'll help me, but put me off. The clutter attracts mice. Overwhelmed and don't know where to start. Bone on bone hips makes cleaning extremely painful and beyond slow. Fixed disability income. 10-12 bags of recycle to go to landfill dumpsters and bags of donation for Goodwill but no one will take it for me. So it's taking up space too. Feel helpless 😔 Who can I call that's trustworthy and can help me clean?
I really appreciate your compassion for your aunt, not expecting payback bc you understand her limitations. I never heard of executive dysfunction before, but I’m eager to hear more from you.
I binge watch your videos because it gives me motivation to clean. But its also comforting to hear you tell stories, I can relate to you in so many ways
You are an amazing woman who can step in to help your aunt. Your braided hairstyle looks really nice. Again, your aunt will thank you for your hard work and love.
Sweetheart❤ what a blessing you are. I am depressive and disorganized and have timing issues. You are so open, sweet and honest. Take care of your hands by reducing the heat of the water when you wash dishes etc. So much steam coming up means the water is too hot and is burning your skin. The washing up liquid will clean the dishes even in cold water, so just reduce the heat ❤❤❤❤❤
You have such a good grasp of the human psyche for one so young. No judgement or belittling of others. So don't u dare let negative comments make u feel less than what you are........Amazing!!!!! Great job!!!!
I am so like you Remi.. I loved your episode on kids learning to clean up after themselves.. my now 23 year old son who had a very messy room and would only get a burst of energy to organise things once every cracker night has his own house now and keeps it spick and span.. we are who we are.. xx😊
You really are. A special young lady. I can just imagine your aunties face when she came home. It’s sounds like she deserves 2 wonderful nieces. This video and your others have really cheered me. You are sweet , wise and real and caring. What a lovely combination 🙏🙌👏😻💫✌️✨
You are an awesome woman, always trying to find different ways to find what works for you. It's so nice of you to help your aunt like that. It will likely really brighten her world for some time. I struggle with depression and anxiety, so I know what it's like. As far as driving is concerned, it took me 3 tries too. With what happened as you're pulling out of the lot, it's likely to do with nerves relating to the previous time that you weren't able to pass the test. You're strong & determined. You've got this!
You are a beautiful soul. How very kind and compassionate you are to help your Auntie. Depression is a very horrible ugly disease that is extremely crippling. You will get your license and your finances will improve one day. God Bless you.❤
I admire your 'real life' attitude. Family first and kindness mean so much. Great to see UK content. Little trick for cleaning the cooker- the knobs pull off so they can be washed and you can clean underneath- just done the same for a family member with similar problems.💐
Wow!!! You have a gift when you dont get totally stuck by the feeling overwhelmed. I live in Sweden and since I got diagnosed with autism and ADHD I get help from social services with dishes and vacuuming that is my hate areas. You are also a huge inspiration in being so generous and helping someone. ❤
Remi, you’re a good person with all you deal with personally. In the past I’ve helped family in the same ways, Because they just couldn’t, weren’t really able to. But that was in the long gone past I’m 73 now & then somehow you find yourself in the same type of spot & it seems no one’s there to help, all you can do I guess is the best you can.Thank you for your videos & encouragement. It helps.
Your videos are so loving and delightful to watch and listen to. Thank you, from a fellow woman who struggles with focusing on how to go about the mess, you bring a smile to my overwhelm. God bless you. 🐓 also love the chicken!
I hate doing dishes so much! I feel you. I always wear rubber gloves when I do dishes to save my hands. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul with us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
what a wonderful thing youve done for your auntie, it looks like a different house and you can really see what youve done for your auntie in love and help. very kind woman you are.. xx
Greetings from South Africa. Your accent and the words you use make me miss the UK girls I used to work with years ago on cruise ships. Lovely people. It is also refreshing to see normal homes here on your channel.
I hear ya! I'm naturally a slob and I hate that! Working on decluttering things i inherited from All my deceased relatives and that'll help me dig out.
🦋My precious niece failed her driver's test 3 times as well. She failed her first backing out of the parking space🦋 You are so inspiring for my neuro divergent brain. I am also a recent widow so everything overwhelms me. You give me hope 💜
I absolutely love your attitude! I’m the same I learned so much from others through the internet simply cuz I wasn’t taught it growing up. Im grateful that people in situations like yourself have the power to film and show a little corner of their life on here. I love how real your content is and I wish nothing but the best for you 😊
Isn't it cool how cleaning for someone else lights up our brain because it's a PROJECT, not a chore? Love it! So satisfying and everyone gets blessed by it. 💝
One hundred percent!!! ❤️
Absolutely!!! I worked for 2 years as a live in carer for spinal injured (2004-2006), I was great at keeping those homes clean and tidy. My own house though.. 😮
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I thought it was just me
This video taught me that there are people who are out there that understand a depressed mess
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I can only thank her for this. 😊
@@kathryngardner9584 I’m in the states. Yes, it’s a vicious cycle. Depression causes mess, and mess causes depression. I’m slowly cleaning up as I can, with my husband’s help. But he’s a tiny bit of a hoarder, so that causes me anxiety.
There are all kinds of psychological disorders that create this problem. For my husband and tween son, it’s ADHD. For me, it’s bipolar 2 and ADHD-inattentive type.
@Sarah Lund, I feel the same. She is just a lovely, accepting young woman who is "life" wise beyond her years. Her advice is so very important, we're all wired different. Don't beat yourself up over your short comings, we all have them. Instead take great pride in all you do well,. Ask for help where you need and offer your help when you know it's needed. Friendships and families thrive by living like this, in a community.
Hallelujah,yes!!
So kind and considerate of you. Depression is no joke. I'm a naturally tidy person but when my mental health took a nose-dive, my home really suffered. However, because I like things to be clean and tidy, I spent a lot of time thinking about tidying the mess but finding I had no energy to do anything other than lie in bed. It became a vicious cycle where I kept wanting to clean up but lack of energy would prevent me and so I'd then feel even more demotivated. I'm glad that you're understanding of your aunt's situation and are helping her with this clean- I'm sure this means a lot to her!
man that cycle of wanting to get it cleaned but basically being frozen in place is so draining. i feel like that in itself just makes mental health even worse.
Going through the same now. It pains me to see my "home" like this. Can't invite Family, Friends. Don't want to come through that front door if I've been out. So hard! Harder still because it's not me... God bless this dear lady for coming to her aunt's aid.❤❤❤
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I feel like this every day
Omg!!!!I. That's me!!!!
Remi, you are my favorite youtuber. I'm so happy I found your channel, you have helped me accomplish more in the last week, than I have in the last 12 months. I literally hear your voice in my head when I'm cleaning, telling me to keep going, telling me it's ok to break, & ok to stop & start again tomorrow, that was something I really struggled with, now I know it's not a race,& I don't have to be perfect. I watched the video of you cleaning your dad's place twice, you said a lot that really resonated with me, I'll probably watch it again today honestly lol. You are so inspiring & I can relate to so many things you talk about in your videos.
Thank you so much!
As a retired mental health worker this warms my heart. So non-judgemental 😊. Also I have depression and ADHD so my home can look just like that at certain times. Thank you ❤
There is a difference because messy and filthy. I can tell who are the ones with real depression, who has mental illness and the ones who are lazy.
@@solangelalebron1348 I am a mental health worker, and no one can’t. The very words themselves are stigmatizing. “Lazy” can mean depression, executive dysfunction, procrastination for some reason you have no concepts of. It’s best no to judge nor use words like that, nor think you know.
@@occipitalneuralgia2339 Listen I was severely depressed AND injured, and I let my apart a mess in order to heal myself. But from time to time I had to just throw out the trash and pick up some stuff and do laundry. Also, it was messy but not dirty. Get it? When you throw the toilet paper that you just wiped yourself with on the floor over and over until it piles up into a mound of toilet paper or let animals like chickens roam around your home that is Laziness. There is a flaw with the character of the person. Because I know a lot of depressed people who don't let their homes look like that. Again, a mess, scattered items, laundry on the floor is depression. When you have Filth it is not, THAT is unhygienic, flaw in character, so EVEN IF that lady didn't happen to be depressed, she would STILL be dirty. Get it?
@@solangelalebron1348 you clearly don't understand the difference between being clinically depressed and feeling down because you are injured and can't do what you normally do. Clinical depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain that effects different people in different ways. Working in healthcare with those who are diagnosed as clinically depressed I've seen people so effected by the symptoms of fatigue that they couldn't summon the strength to eat, bathe or even get up to go to the bathroom. It's not unusual for people with major depression to find themselves surrounded by clutter including dirty dishes, clothes and even rubbish. Not only does depression make you fatigued but it also effects your memory, ability to focus, being easily overwhelmed, mood swings, anxiety and the feeling of despair. Any one or combination of those symptoms can paralyze a person. I pray you never have that experience.
@@ajourneywithmyfather1980. Thank you for your kind response to the person. ❤
Remi you are the most kindhearted and loving person! The hardwork shows and spreading kindness is so lovely! Absolutely love watching these videos! 💕💕
Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it 🥰💗
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Thank you for sharing the kindness and love you showed your Auntie. Depression mess is painful. I can picture her making a cuppa with a smile and snuggling up in her cozy new room . I adore the little corner! Thanks too for reminding me to be realistic about what can be achieved in the time you have to avoid overwhelm. Your videos are helping me face my own executive dysfunction. And your voiceovers are lovely x
What love drive 🚗
What you and your cousin have done in SEVEN HOURS is truly AMAZING! Astonishing! I love your attitude with the muck and hard work, as well as how non-judgmental you are. The fact that you recognise that it won't be kept up like this... Thank you so much for sharing that you too were/are a messy person but have changed through having children and doing this on social media! We're HERE FOR IT! Keep going. You are doing SUCH GREAT WORK-- not just for your family here, but for all of us viewers who want that extra bit of motivation and inspiration! I'm gonna deal with at LEAST one box or table surface area I've been avoiding for literal months.
Thank you. Thank you. THANK YOU! ~Aleif from India.
I am so glad I came across your videos. They are so inspiring, and you are so down to earth and honest about everything. Thank you so much!!
@Patty Wood Wow, Patty! Thanks ever so much! (Now, I'm slightly confused-- I don't know if your comment refers to my videos or this channel's. Hehe. But I feel and share my gratitude nonetheless.) ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing real life!! I laughed when you mentioned the music, my mother use to put the music from the radio on when we all cleaned on the weekend - each of us taking a room!! We’d dance as we worked and laughed - a lot ! I still listen to music today when I’m cooking or cleaning ! You are terrific!! God 🙏❤🫠Bless !!
Wow, you deserve the "Niece of the year" award! That was a lot of work! What a kind, thoughtful thing to do. I'll bet she was absolutely thrilled with her newly clean home. 💝
Your enthusiasm is contagious. I’m a wheelchair user, full time, and it takes me centuries to clean. It’s like a slow motion film. It’s so annoying! But when I see your videos, I feel motivated to have a different attitude towards the house chores. Thanks so much ❤
You and your cousin came through like a breath of fresh air and made your aunties home look cozy and lovely. I have no doubt she really appreciated the effort. And thank you for not putting expectations on her to keep it up and tidy. Even if it goes off in 24 hours, so what. She enjoyed it nevertheless ❤
I love your videos and all that you have to say-I could listen to that “luvly” accent of yours all day! I am 72 years old and live in Pennsylvania in the U.S. I found you on RUclips because I have a bunch of chronic health issues and can really get behind on my housework and feel overwhelmed. You’re such a sweet encourager and encouragement-keep up the good work! Sending hugs from America! 🤗
You guys did an awesome job!!🎉🎉🎉 Your auntie is so lucky to have you both!! 😇💐🤗💝 That was such a beautiful gesture of kindness and empathy.
What an amazing human you are (not forgetting your cousin)! I don’t know too many adult kids who’d help their parents out let alone extended family! And your wisdom at such a young age is wonderful! Well done you 👍🏼👌
Please thank your aunt for letting us see you work and clean. Your heart and vulnerability is a breath of fresh air. I so relate with you and your auntie. I’m naturally a messy person too. I didn’t understand what Decluttering was. I didn’t see it was a mess til it was totally out of control with piles everywhere. My home is far from what I’d consider neat and tidy, but it’s finally getting there, the more I learn to have strategies in place. My goal is for a 5 minute tidy, to get everything back in place per room. Cleaning and Decluttering is like peeling layers off an onion. It takes time. We will all get there though!! So glad I came across your channel. Look forward to seeing more from you ❤
Bless you for not making your auntie feel badly if it gets messy again. My in-laws have helped me before and then guilted and shamed me when it didn’t stay clean and organized to their standards. It hurt me so much.
My mother suffered from depression and as children my father would tell us to clean up but we had no training as to what to do first! I learned from observation when I would visit my friends, this was way before social media! My sister joined the military and thus we learned from others. Thank you for sharing this wonderful video!
I recently just found you & this is the 2nd video I've seen. Your a person that shows love thru your actions, your honest about your weaknesses or perceived faults and because of this you are showing your true beauty. I just feel better listening & watching you. You understand the struggles so many have yet your a giving, hard working soul just trying her best with what she has...your right on sooo many things you touched on in this video, to many to mention. Thank you & I look forward to seeing you again🌻🌺🌷
It’s the 2nd video I’ve watched too. I have multiple medical issues as well as depression, anxiety, ADHD and got told 2 years ago at an autism specialist clinic that I was more autistic than my daughter that they were working with. I love Remi’s heart and honesty, and she is a person I could comfortably let into my house.
This is beautiful! I felt emotional watching! The transformation you achieved is amazing - and I so love your outlook on life! You are kind, caring, unselfish and hard working. I’m sure your channel will go far. Thanks so much for sharing ❤️
I could feel the love you have for your aunt coming through this video. Thank you so much for sharing. It has inspired me greatly!
Wish we could have seen your Auntie when she came home !!
Dearest Remi. I watch your videos over and over again because I love them that much. You are an amazing woman, and especially a wonderful mum. I love how you allow your children to play, play, play, regardless of the mess that's made. Please don't let the negative comments get you down. You are doing a fantastic job managing your life and your executive disorder. When your children are older, you will have no regrets about the way they were raised, and that's so very important. You never rank a clean house over happy children and that's such a wonderful quality.
You both did a wonderful job!! Looked beautiful!!! Thank yoir aunty for saving the chickens!! 🐔 🐔 Also, yes I love that emerald green chair!!😍💚
Oh Remi, you are such an amazing, kind person. Your family are lucky to have you ❤️ xx
Thank you so much 🥺❤️
I failed my driving test 3 times too. Passed on the 4th.. keep going you can do it. X
I'm a minimalist so watching these videos almost shocks my system..But the fact you helped her is such a blessing.
You are a real inspiration, I love the way you are realistic about what can be done and that it doesn’t have to be perfect. You made such an improvement here and I actually did some tidying and cleaning today when often I feel so depressed and stuck. I think I have executive dysfunction too and you have really helped so thank you x
Love this, please never stop making these videos you’re making a difference and you deserve nothing but best ♥️
You’re so so kind! Thank you! ❤️🥰
I hear you on the sensory issues with dishes! I have to really prepare myself for it oftentimes. My tricks (so far) are to wear t-shirts (this has saved me on so many occasions from feeling overwhelmed. This way I don't have to continuously pull my sleeves up while my hands are wet) and only doing a small amount at once. I also tend to use warm water instead of hot. This helps a lot with the weird texture on my hands. I usually just use hot water if I need to soak something for a bit.
I love your videos!
You rock young lady!! I subscribed to your channel after seeing you clean your Dad's kitchen. I love your discussion of why these things happen to some of us. I have had depression problems plus health problems and when you are alone it can get out of hand. You hate it and it's embarrassing to have people come in. I am laid up at the moment with a broken bone, but when I heal and can bear weight again, I intend to start decluttering a bit each day. I do not want my home like this, and at the moment I am feeling so motivated to get it done. For a while though, I had no energy to do anything. So glad I found your channel!!
I have stumbled across your channel and love your kind nature and understanding of mental health and how it affects daily activity. I genuinely feel you have helped your aunty to recognise how so much better she will feel coming home to a lovely, tidy and clean home.
What a wonderful job! I know your auntie must be so grateful for you both! 🎉
Thank you 😊 x
You're a lovely person with a lot of love in your heart for service. You did an amazing job. I wish you lived here in San Antonio TX USA, I would hire you weekly. LOL Love you voice and your editing also.
Aww you’re so kind!! Thank you so much! ❤️
Posting this before watching the video: thank you so much! I went scrolling through videos trying to find a “cleaning your way out of depression” video in hopes it would motivate me and I’ve found your channel. This is the third video I’ve started watching and I can’t wait to see how you transform this home 😊 a “depression mess” is no joke for sure! It sucks. I’ve been in a pretty severe episode for almost four months and my house is a mess (mostly junk and misplaced stuff) but the first video I watched of yours gave me a kick in the bum to start cleaning 😊 you’re awesome!!!!!!
I love love love your spirit. So good of you and your cousin to help your Aunt. Great job. You also read my mind about the flowers- what a thoughtful gift. I look forward to more of your videos. Keep on keeping on. God bless you and your family.
That is so very kind of you to do this for her with limited time and with compassion. I loved how you spoke about executive dysfuction and how all of us are wired differently: what is easy for someone may not be as easy for another. Compassion goes a long way. For many people with ADHD or other executive dysfuction disorders, cleaning up someone else's space is much easier than cleaning their own. I'm sure your auntie was so, so very happy when she came home to this. Sometimes you just need a fresh start and to know someone cares.
Only found you today. (24/06/23) Your video has so much heart, I had to subscribe. Watching you inspires me. Thanks. 😊
Thank you so much for subscribing ☺️
It's really amazing to see someone so non-judgemental! So rare! My clutter and house, and yard make me feel so ashamed. You are a wonderful role model!
This is a brilliant video! Thanks for talking about executive dysfunction I have ASD adhd inattentive and an acquired brain injury. I can’t manage to get on top of my house and yes the guilt was awful. My mum was like yours. And could do the cleaning easily and made me feel inadequate. Shoutout to everyone who struggles like this much love from Edinburgh ❤🤗🤗
You both did amazing work 👏. I hope your Auntie was tickled pink when she saw her home! You're an angel 😇 💓
This was both wonderful and satisfying. The love you two have and poured into the project made it all the more pleasing to watch as well as inspiring for me to get up and clean.
Thank you for doing this “chore” for your much loved auntie. You also did a fantastic job filming with what you had and I certainly hope you get the filming equipment you desire and deserve.
Agree, I'm sure Remi's step dad must be chuffed with the great work his old phone is being put to as well!
You made such a lovely difference at your aunties.. You are a sweet kind young lady 💗🙏
You're an absolute sweetheart....I was so obsessive about cleaning.....until the pandemic.....then the isolation and depression floored me. Now I'm just too overwhelmed and exhausted....I m ho ping that watching you will motivate me to get moving. Well done to you for helping others xx
I'm happy I stumbled onto your channel. Seeing this transformation and hearing you talk about your aunt in such a loving and non-judgemental way has been a gift. You are a gem and I wish you all the best.
Yes I have also stumbled across your channel, you are a lovely caring young lady. Your aunt is very lucky to have you. I enjoyed your video. 😀
This was so heartwarmingly motivating, I hope you had a good time filming this!
We actually had the best time! It was good to spend some quality time with my cousin too ☺️ x
I agree on the hand feeling after washing up and am inspired by your ability to prioritise to reach your goal (not doing the inside of the drier). Since I found you about a week ago I am constantly reminding myself to aim for imperfect but get things done. Another amazing video, Remi, thank you for being you 🙏🏻🧡
So kind and lovely. Your Auntie is blessed to have two beautiful nieces who love her well.
This video was on auto-play as I sat down to eat my breakfast so I just watched. What a lovely person you are - kind, generous, thoughtful, considerate. I subscribed just for that! I love that your aunty saved the hens too.
Bless you, such a big heart with no judgement. My auntie is exactly the same. Some people just are not wired to be tidy and that’s fine. Whatever we can do to help is worth it for a few days of peace for them. I hope that your channel grows and you get your filing equipment :)
I found this from your tiktok and loving these long form videos, really motivates me and love your positive attitude while bring realistic
Thank you so much! ☺️
I can't thank you enough for your wonderful videos. I've started a collection of Remi Clog quotations. "I love cleaning, but I don't like tidying" is absolutely me, and so is "I adore my little life". Keep 'em coming and thanks again! 🌺🌺🌺
You are a credit to humanity. Your children are lucky to have you as a mama.
If my nieces or nephews ever gave me half of the time and beautiful attention that you’ve given yours, I’d be blown away.
I just found you today. You are so relatable and real. I struggle with depression and my house also reflects how I feel. The more overwhelmed I get, the more depressed I get. I get stuck in that cycle. I’m hoping to get motivation from watching you. Thank you for sharing!
You are the sweetest to help your aunt and understand what shes going through without critizing her!!!
You and your family seem to have generosity of heart! Blessing others come back to you on every wave! The love DOES show!
You’re such a gem 💎 I love how you love other people ❤
This is just the loveliest thing to read! Thank you! ❤️
You two poured your hearts out! I really love that you understand not all people are minimalists or clean freaks. Keep up the great work.
What a lovely thing to do for your aunt! We all need help sometimes. Hugs to you all.
Im so glad that you are doing these videos. I have bad depression and anxiety its good to show people what we go through with mental desese plus your voice is so soothing.
Thank you for what you do! You’re reaching and helping more people than you realize. ❤
What a sweet and beautiful thing you've done for your Auntie! I'm sure she was so pleased when she got home. Great job you and your cousin did! Beautiful flowers 💐
I went on Utube TV to watch house cleaning videos and you are my favorite 💕.
I have always been one to keep my house clean until I started going through depression I stopped cleaning my house 😢.
I feel it's making my depression worse.
I'm trying so hard to push myself 😞 into cleaning like you.
You are a beautiful person ❤️.
I watched the one of you cleaning your house while you were sick with a cold.
Bless your ❤️ and now you're aunt's house.
I used to be on Tik-Tok but I am not on it anymore so I'm glad I was able to find you I live in Orlando Florida you have a new subscriber keep making those videos and I'll keep watching❤
Wow Remi! That’s amazing 😍 I relate to you soooo much. Right now as we speak I’m watching this video sorting through all the clean washing dumped on my bedroom floor because I have the best intentions but can never finish a job or follow through on anything 😩 whenever I need to ne motivated I find your tiktoks and RUclips videos and it helps massively 🫶🏼
This makes me so happy! I’m exactly the same with finishing anything, I find it SO difficult 🤦🏻♀️ the amount of unfinished projects I have lying around my house! X
Dear Remi, thank you so much for your videos.
I have been struggling a long time for my house to get clean. And I have seen many videos of women cleaning their houses, but their houses were spotless. And I was so trying to get to that standard.When I saw your video for the first time. I was relieved that you have a normal house. Since I have seen your videos, I have done my kitchen. And now I am washing my pots in washing machine. You really made the change. Thank you. Greetings from Croatia.
I'm glad they are people out there who is not ashamed of being depressed, I'm a mess too and I'm constantly judged by the people who caused my depression and they literally watch my every move even evade my privacy
You're a lovely niece! Your family is lucky to have you. 😃
Ahh thank you so much! ☺️❤️
You are such a beautiful, precious niece to do this for your aunt! I wish you much joy and happiness!
I know this is an older video so I hope you still see comments! One of the best tips I ever read for children's artwork is to take a picture of them holding it when they bring it home. What you're keeping is the memory of how proud they were of their creation, not necessarily every single drawing. The blogger who shared the tip then made a book later on with pictures + some treasured artwork all in one place and it was so sweet.
Remi if no one has told you lately - YOU ARE A GODSEND!!!!!
I love how you say “and yeah” all the time. It’s what spins your voice and attitude into a positive vibe for me 🌷
Hahah thank you for saying this!! I always wonder whether a lot of people find it annoying! But I talk here like I talk to friends, and sometimes it’s “and yeah” and “anyway” 😂
Girls, you are just wonderful 🙏🏼 Your Aunt is blessed to have your help. I'm 60 and suffer from depression and health issues too. My family is four states away. Friends and neighbors say they'll help me, but put me off. The clutter attracts mice. Overwhelmed and don't know where to start. Bone on bone hips makes cleaning extremely painful and beyond slow. Fixed disability income. 10-12 bags of recycle to go to landfill dumpsters and bags of donation for Goodwill but no one will take it for me. So it's taking up space too. Feel helpless 😔 Who can I call that's trustworthy and can help me clean?
I really appreciate your compassion for your aunt, not expecting payback bc you understand her limitations. I never heard of executive dysfunction before, but I’m eager to hear more from you.
I binge watch your videos because it gives me motivation to clean.
But its also comforting to hear you tell stories,
I can relate to you in so many ways
You are an amazing woman who can step in to help your aunt. Your braided hairstyle looks really nice. Again, your aunt will thank you for your hard work and love.
Sweetheart❤ what a blessing you are. I am depressive and disorganized and have timing issues. You are so open, sweet and honest.
Take care of your hands by reducing the heat of the water when you wash dishes etc. So much steam coming up means the water is too hot and is burning your skin. The washing up liquid will clean the dishes even in cold water, so just reduce the heat ❤❤❤❤❤
You have such a good grasp of the human psyche for one so young. No judgement or belittling of others. So don't u dare let negative comments make u feel less than what you are........Amazing!!!!! Great job!!!!
I am so like you Remi.. I loved your episode on kids learning to clean up after themselves.. my now 23 year old son who had a very messy room and would only get a burst of energy to organise things once every cracker night has his own house now and keeps it spick and span.. we are who we are.. xx😊
You really are. A special young lady. I can just imagine your aunties face when she came home. It’s sounds like she deserves 2 wonderful nieces. This video and your others have really cheered me. You are sweet , wise and real and caring. What a lovely combination 🙏🙌👏😻💫✌️✨
You are an awesome woman, always trying to find different ways to find what works for you. It's so nice of you to help your aunt like that. It will likely really brighten her world for some time. I struggle with depression and anxiety, so I know what it's like.
As far as driving is concerned, it took me 3 tries too. With what happened as you're pulling out of the lot, it's likely to do with nerves relating to the previous time that you weren't able to pass the test. You're strong & determined. You've got this!
You have such a kind heart,we all like a mop we are comfortable using,I bet your Aunt was so pleased when she got home ❣️
You are a beautiful soul. How very kind and compassionate you are to help your Auntie. Depression is a very horrible ugly disease that is extremely crippling. You will get your license and your finances will improve one day. God Bless you.❤
Great family Remi your Auntie is so blessed! 🙏 most people shame others you are just a sweetheart ❤
I admire your 'real life' attitude. Family first and kindness mean so much. Great to see UK content. Little trick for cleaning the cooker- the knobs pull off so they can be washed and you can clean underneath- just done the same for a family member with similar problems.💐
That cozy corner you made in the living room is lovely! And yes, that green chair is great. Love the color.
Wow!!! You have a gift when you dont get totally stuck by the feeling overwhelmed. I live in Sweden and since I got diagnosed with autism and ADHD I get help from social services with dishes and vacuuming that is my hate areas. You are also a huge inspiration in being so generous and helping someone. ❤
Remi, you’re a good person with all you deal with personally. In the past I’ve helped family in the same ways, Because they just couldn’t, weren’t really able to. But that was in the long gone past I’m 73 now & then somehow you find yourself in the same type of spot & it seems no one’s there to help, all you can do I guess is the best you can.Thank you for your videos & encouragement. It helps.
Your videos are so loving and delightful to watch and listen to. Thank you, from a fellow woman who struggles with focusing on how to go about the mess, you bring a smile to my overwhelm. God bless you. 🐓 also love the chicken!
You’re an absolute star, you worked so hard and made a real difference for you Auntie.
I hate doing dishes so much! I feel you. I always wear rubber gloves when I do dishes to save my hands. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul with us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh my, Remi! What a difference! I bet your auntie loved it.
I love your commentary. You are so easy to listen to and learn from. Bravo!
what a wonderful thing youve done for your auntie, it looks like a different house and you can really see what youve done for your auntie in love and help. very kind woman you are.. xx
Greetings from South Africa. Your accent and the words you use make me miss the UK girls I used to work with years ago on cruise ships. Lovely people. It is also refreshing to see normal homes here on your channel.
Thank you for this video. I also have mental health issues and I feel better knowing I’m not alone in this house work struggle
I wish I had a family like this. Just beautiful.
WHAT A LOVELY PERSON YOU ARE WHO was helping you
I hear ya! I'm naturally a slob and I hate that! Working on decluttering things i inherited from All my deceased relatives and that'll help me dig out.
🦋My precious niece failed her driver's test 3 times as well. She failed her first backing out of the parking space🦋
You are so inspiring for my neuro divergent brain. I am also a recent widow so everything overwhelms me. You give me hope 💜
I absolutely love your attitude! I’m the same I learned so much from others through the internet simply cuz I wasn’t taught it growing up.
Im grateful that people in situations like yourself have the power to film and show a little corner of their life on here.
I love how real your content is and I wish nothing but the best for you 😊
You are so sweet. What a wonderful gift you gave to your aunt to brighten her day.