Remi, you are truly amazing! Your understanding of people, compassion, energy, hard work and inspiration is so appreciated and recognized by so many. You are so kind to help your auntie and I just know that she truly does appreciate your help. I has hyperemmis with my pregnancies too, in the hospital for almost six months of the nine months and it was horrible ! Love your insight and humor❤❤❤. Debby, NY
I am a 70 years young lady. I didn't learn to clean until recently. I raised 4 children in a cluttered chaotic mess. Your videos help so much. I'm trying to forgive myself for living in a mess all those years and your insight and grace help me so much ❤
You’ve probably heard this hundreds of times but you are like therapy for me. I struggle with depression and apathy about my cleaning and listening to you has brought me to tears hearing your insight and compassion.
❤😂You’ve touched me so deeply. You are so sweet and understanding. I watched from start to finish. You were telling my story even down to losing my teeth later in life as a result of the sickness when I was expecting both my daughters. I’m 70 and am crippled by arthritis pain. I have no one to help me fix my house or clean and organize. My 38 year old unemployed daughter lives here but blames me for the mess and expects me to clean it. I get so depressed that I can’t move. I’m going to watch all your videos for inspiration and comfort. I’m having a good cry because of you kindness. God bless you and yours with love, good health the fulfillment of all your needs and dreams. Take care.
If it were me I'd be telling her to help out or get out! Contact your dr asap they can arrange social services to assist you. PLEASE ask for help, it IS out there.❤
I am so so sorry to read this! You should never ever be blamed, and I wish you had someone to help you. May I ask where abouts you live? Maybe there is someone close by in the comments who cleans for others in your area. Arthritis is horrendous, I’ve watched my grandma suffer with it. Sending so much love your way and I’m hoping things take an upwards turn for you!
I have trouble reading the fine print. It’s Janet I guess . I understand how you feel , but your daughter seems to not be very patient or understanding . Do you’think you could do things 1’bag to throw every day or maybe 1 bag in 2 days ? When I feel down I try half a bag per day and when i go dump it I feel really good about myself so the next day I want to feel good too so I am encouraged to grab a bag and do a little . 😊 A French 76 year- old
Janet please make a doctor's appointment right away, today, and ask them for help! They can get you on arthritis pain medication and an antidepressant. Explain to them about your house and your daughter, and that she is refusing to help while living rent free in your house, and ask for a social worker to come out and help you. Also ask your other daughter for help kicking her out; she needs to get her own place, she is a grown woman!
People who take advantage of elderly parents are the worst. If you were my sister,I’m 62,I would help you. And give your daughter her eviction notice. If you were my neighbor I’d help as well😊
Great job!!! I bet your Aunt loved all that you did!!! And YES!!! Please keep coming back to your Aunts and keep us updated!! It is going to be such a blessing to your Aumt and Grandma when they live together and we can't wait to see them THRIVING!! Praying it happens soon so your Auntie gets some hot water!!❤
Oh, dear, sweet Remi!! You are not a downer- just the opposite. Every time I watch one of your videos, I come away feeling more positive, understood, and motivated. That’s huge for me!! As I’ve said before, you are the Mother Teresa of struggling, messy housekeepers. I love seeing all you do for your family. Please keep us updated on their journeys. Yes you are awesome!!! Pirate or not!😂 I can’t wait for your next video!!!❤❤❤
Grannie Cyndy from South Australia here again after my little accident. I'm 72yrs old and have battled house tidying for my whole life. Nut it's never too late! Within the last 12 months or so, I have stopped visiting op shops and have been finally organising my storage spaces, getting rid of clutter and generally tidying up. I am realising that 6 is handy, but more than that is hoarding, something that happened to me over the last twenty years. Finally, with discipline, the order is coming, firstly inside the cupboards which gives me space to store what I choose to keep from what was becoming major clutter. I am so grateful to you for being one of my favourite inspirations. Thankyou Remi.
Hi Candy, I’m in South Australia too and I have given up the op shops as well. I seem to get overwhelmed and not know where to start. How are you coping with things?
@@suzannekershaw9435 Hi Suzanne. Yes, I know how overwhelming it can be. I don't function like Remi. Almost opposite in fact. I focus on small spaces but most importantly, I am trying to maintain them afterwards. I always used to reclutter spaces very quickly as I moved on to the next project. Now I maintain what I've already done, refusing to let it slip back. Then try to add a new little tidy space as often as I can. Don't give up. Keep up the good work. I 'm in the Adelaide hills, by the way. 😁👍
Thanks for the encouragement, I didn’t use to be so bad but the procrastination is out of control. I honestly intend to get things done but get waylaid. A new day , with new opportunities. I live north of Adelaide near the Barossa Valley.
@@suzannekershaw9435 Don't be hard on yourself. That just drains your energy. Don't look at the shoulda woulda's. Enjoy and be proud of what you do achieve each day, no matter how small. Guilt and shame just drain your energy and serve no good purpose. Have a lovely day. X
'we hold so much shame you would not believe how much' I had tears in my eyes when you said that. That's the worst part, the shame and the high level of stress that comes with it. The enormous pressure, the self-blame.
You’re a gem, Remi. I’ve been listening along while doing chores around my house, and the good energy you pour out into the world is such a gift. Thank you!
Hi Remi, I am Roxy from India. I have been watching your videos for a while now and I think you are absolutely amazing and a beautiful person inside and out. I have the privilege of having help at home and working with mentally challenged children for 43 years. In spite of having the help, I have done my own house work and my cooking as well as cleaning and I so enjoy watching you and the enthusiasm with which you go about your work and your beautiful family I absolutely admire you and your Waze. God bless you. Always love to you all Roxy
Remi, you would be awesome if you were absolutely toothless AND we’d still all watch your videos 😋❤️. The thing I like most about your videos, is how you make us love the person whose house you’re cleaning. When you told the story about how Rudy remembers his aunt reading him books with he was a toddler and how she provided child care when you most needed it, I felt in my heart what a kind soul your aunt must be. Thank you for sharing your loved ones with us through your words. Even if we never meet them, we see how everyone shaped the phenomenal woman that you are today.
You are truly a genuine blessing to not only your own sweet family, but to your extended family as well. I know that your aunt was so pleased when she arrived home and saw all that you have done! I hope your tooth doesn’t have to be replaced, Going to the dentist is no fun task. Keep up your sweet spirit and continue to encourage. Just do what you do on a regular basis! May you be blessed in return!❤ Joy - Indiana
Funny enough I’ve just been doing cleaning while rewatching your old videos 😂 can’t tell you how happy I am you have just dropped this 😁🎉. Thank you Remi for your content, and the much needed motivation 😅
You seem like one of the most understanding, caring and compassionate people in the world. As someone who has adhd and is a mess and lives in a mess half the time, thank you for helping people, it isnt easy to ask for help ❤
You are such a special young lady. Family is everything and I'm certain they love you as much as you love them. Keep doing what you're doing. So glad I've found your channel, what a blessing you are to listen to.
Family that can help family is such a gift! Not all of us have this blessing in our lives. You are lucky to have your Auntie, and she's lucky to have you!.
Hi Remi, my name is Clare (this is my husbands account). Just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your videos, and love listening to all you have to say, your voice and conversation is so therapeutic. You have such a beautiful energy, such a beautiful kind person. I have autism and Executive dysfunction disorder and have always found it difficult and overwhelming looking after my home with my 3 children. Watching you has helped me so much, to motivate me to develop methods for clearing my space and feel more comfortable with just starting and to be kind and gentle with what I can do and achieve, and to know doing something, no matter how small is always going to make a difference. I'm very grateful. Thank you so much. 🥰💜✨️
In no way was this a 'downer discussion'. You have such an encouraging spirit. You are human dedication and sunshine all rolled into one. I clean homes as a short ministry in my church family for those who are ill or having a life situation that home care must be let go. Sometimes, I have found myself slipping into a judgemental attitude. But as I listen to you, I am uplifted and encouraged to continue to be helpful to others (and myself).
You are amazing, Remi. When I was your age, there would be no way I could do this much cleaning. 😢. I wish I had. When our beginner home became too small for our family of 5, my way of having more room, was to move to a 2600 sf home and 3 car garage 😮. As the children grew up and out, I was forced, and happily so, to get rid of a lot stuff because we moved. Since then, we moved 2 more times, each home smaller than the last. 😮.. Then RUclips brought me people like you, and minimalist videos. I am no longer overwhelmed and stressed.!❤ Even tho our home is now 1200 sf., with no garage 😮 I call it my tiny home, I absolutely love ❤❤ it!! I’m sorry for such a lengthy post, but you inspire me and for all those who are still young, they can learn from you! Thank you 🙏, Remi! And I thank God for you!
Oh Remi!I can't even move from the bed;legs having problem!lm so excited everytime seeing your video!keep going creating sentimental and practice art!l admire you Remi!
You are such a beautiful person inside and out! it warms the heart to see how much you love and care for your family. Please keep the videos coming of your aunties house. Praying the renovations happen soon . And thank you! Absolutely LOVE your videos!❤
I’m sure your Aunt was tickled pink to see her kitchen clean. Thanks for your hard work! Maybe a kettle of hot water would have helped with the pot scrubbing. 💙
Remi, I have such a strong feeling to tell you how much I've learned from your sweet Auntie and you. It is so hard to ask for help. Many of us would rather do anything but do that. However, your dear Auntie taught us to put the well-being of others ahead of our own pride. Your grandma needed a place to live and your Auntie knew she needed help in order to help your grandma. What a lovely family you have. Each one is so kind and thoughtful. As for you Remi, there are those of us who have the idea to help, but fewer still are the people who actually do it. Thank you for the lessons your dear family taught me. Thank you again for such a lovely video. Be well, dear friend!
I have just discovered you. I needed to find a way to get motivated and you did it. I am handicapped to a point and I have to work thru that to get anything done. It takes me longer than normal. I have watched and listened to you and fell in love with all you do and say. You are real!!!! If anyone takes offense it is because they don't like the truth. You have a big heart and you care about people. I am now addicted to you!! I really, really like your videos and how they help me. Thank you and God bless you and your family. I am from the US and of all the ones I looked at you stood out among them all!!!
You know of all the things we can watch on RUclips while we clean and tidy, I love and choose your videos. Ear phones in and Remi on. 😂❤ just your grown up take on life and wisdom. Such a beautiful girl you are. I'm having a very bad time with my mum's house atm. It's trashed top to bottom Remi and I'm overwhelmed. I come to your videos for that reassurance that there's light eventually through that tunnel. Thanks for all the videos. You're one subscription that I truly love! ❤
You did not cause any downer response whatsoever. In fact, I admire that you are able to be so helpful to other family members and are willing to do what you can to help them get better organized. I used to have a bad habit of leaving dishes in my sink, after the after supper snacks we often had, whether it be ice cream bowls and spoons etc. other dishes and utensils. I hated facing it in the morning and made a promise to myself that I would stop doing this and no matter what, I would do up the dishes from the night before. (these were not supper dishes - these always got done and put away) It was the beginning of a new year, so not a resolution, as much as a determination to change and I have done quite well for many years now. I might leave a spoon from getting cat food for our 4 felines, but everything else is washed and put away. Despite doing lots of decluttering, I still have places that are harder for me to face. No matter how successful one is, there can still be maintenance issues that are hard to deal with and get left until they become a much bigger issue. Your kindness must be very much appreciated. Your energy is something I wish I could bottle up for my own use. My chores get done slower and with lots of breaks, than when I was younger. It is what it is.
When I looked up motivation to clean with depression and all the nice houses that isn't gonna help me but remi is so understanding I've been watching the one video for ages the way she explains it and motives us.. and no judgement
Hi Remi!!! You post at the best time! I'm in college and had 3 tests yesterday so I'm exhausted but me and my fiances apartment is a mess from our hectic week. I really needed this motivation and you absolutely make my day when I watch your videos💕😍 we're both also neurodivergent so your perspective really helps
Oh bless you!! I really hope those tests went well, and I hope you manage to get your apartment sorted as quickly as possible and have a well deserved rest, both of you ❤️
Good news, remembering that your Auntie was a bit depressed. Hoping that having Mommy living together will push her to do her best to keep well. What a task. You are precious. Many blessings 😍⚘💗
You are wise, understanding, passionate, caring and so much more. You stepped in to give a helping hand. You chose the be helpful and kind to someone card 💕Your Auntie must be so thankful for the help you given her. BRAVO Job well done. 💪💪
Hi Remi. Grannie Cyndy from South Australia here. You have such a wonderful kind and caring heart. What you said about comments which are judgemental is so true. Thing is, whether it's grief, trauma or brain glitch, we all have ways of mis-dealing with it. For some of us it's untidiness, clutter or hoarding etc. For others it's cultivating a sense of superiority by criticising others. It's all the same thing. But it's so much better to be empathetic, helpful and kind. Bless you for being all those thingsare , zRemi.
Remi you really are a wonderful person, I wish everyone on the planet watched you so they can see what a good person is like 💛 it's so nice that your grandma can move in with your auntie 😊 I really hope they can get the renovations started soon bless her.. can't wait for your next video 😊 sending love and positivity 🧡
Dear Remi you are amazing! I took one of your videos as a starting point to declutter my whole house! I sorted though every wardrobe, cabinet and piled up boxes. Got rid of SOOOO much un-needed and un-used stuff. Filled up the trash bin several times. There are still some small corners left... but I am getting there! I filled several boxes for donation. Even this makes me happy because someone else will really USE this things. And the money goes to the Animal Shelter. Win win for everyone 😊❤❤❤
Yay! Hey Remi! ❤️❤️❤️ I needed this motivation so much today, your positive words and encouragement! You are a rockstar, amazing mom, and an amazing woman! Love U Remi! ❤❤
Hey there. Awesome video. Your chat really makes a lot of sense and I’m happy you have family to help. You also help them back! Please consider getting your tooth checked out; an infection there can make you sick all over. They can fix you a little snap on tooth! No worries, you’ll be just fine.
I have never watched a video where it felt like someone was reading my own book to me. You are unique and an absolute gem for laying bare your very real life to help those of us who walk that same path. It’s exhausting. I’m much older than you and I’m never able to “keep it that way” even though I get my home looking great but it’s rarely more than 2 rooms at the same time and I’m sure I seem to work 10 times harder than my friends who make it look effortless. But we keep going because what else do we do! Thank you.
You’re so right, everyone is struggling in their own way and we can all learn something from your message of spreading kindness and compassion to others in whatever little ways that we can. Thank you for making such wonderful videos and yes, you are awesome with or without your front tooth!
Hi Remi! This video could NOT be more perfectly timed! I'm currently taking a break - aka, procrastinating - from sorting through clothes so I can load up my new wardrobe. I needed this kick in the pants to do the next bit, so that's exactly what I'm going to do now. Thank you 🥰
I’m always so excited when your longer videos come up! Excellent job on this one. I would be very interested to see more of the remodel when that happens.
You are “bloody awesome”! Your videos are such an inspiration and motivation that we can accomplish the impossible. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and stories while all the time, showing that nothing is too big or difficult to tackle.
I had hyperemesis in my first pregnancy, it's so bad i was on bed rest for three months. Couldn't eat,or sleep. Always vomiting, couldn't keep food down. So terrible glad i have my beautiful baby girl for all the stress and pain.
that's me. I can't ke3p ahead. I'm always behind with the mess. but I have decided that if my great grandmother lived with 4 dress most of her life. I can live with 7 of everything.b7 shorts 7 shorts 7 pants ect.
Just in case you need to do any more cleaning without hot water; I've found it handy to put the kettle on, or boil a saucepot of water and empty it into a sink you're not using, like the bathroom or laundry, then take out cupfuls to mix with the cold as needed.
You understand well. Don't please don't let them just cover up that black mold...it grows faster behind paint & such. You did a fantastic job for 1 day. I understand about sleeping well that night!!!
Rémi, tu es un exemple 👍🏻 ce que tu fais est généreux, et c’est fait avec tant de bienveillance 💕 C’est inspirant et encourageant 👍🏻 Prends bien soin de toi et de tes dents !!!! À bientôt ! 🌸🌸🌸
Wonderful work again! You are so inspiring with what you do. Your aunty is doing a good thing, moving her mum in. BUT it's a very hard thing to do. I've done it, but we had the space and she had the money, to convert, extend and repair a small very old stone barn in our garden so that she has her own kitchen, sitting room, bedroom and shower room, + an attic cupboard and boiler room all to herself with her own front door. And I STILL find it really quite hard. The amount of attention she needs, the fact I never feel I can just go and be in my garden without going in to see her first, the help she needs and her inability to keep her brand new home tidy even with a fortnightly cleaner, drives me a bit bonkers. I was facing the choice of selling her house and putting her into a home or doing what we did. It was the obvious thing to do, to keep her independence etc. But it is hard. And it will be much harder for your aunty with her living in the same house. Loosing rooms to accommodate her. Coping with the volume of stuff she will deem essential to bring with her. My hat is off to her for trying. But your aunty is going to need help to keep her own sanity. And that's not easy to find. Good luck to all involved. Never be afraid to ask for help.
Sweet, Sweet Remi, you are AWESOME! What a wonderful job you did at your Auntie's home. I had that same condition when I was pregnant with my son, which is why he is an only child. Such a miserable experience and same thing with my front teeth in that they are kind of chipping away but at the bottom. Any who thank you again for another enlightening video about what others have to cope with on a daily basis. God Bless you and your family.
Thank you so much for your videos. I am cleaning my long-neglected house and slowly making it a home. You are an inspiration and great company as I work.
Never cast aspersions, always cast nasturtiums and the world would be a better place. Thank you for reminding people not to judge. Most people are doing the best they can with the mental and physical recourses they have.
I had a lot of gum problems when I was pregnant. By the end, my gums ended up massive from being inflamed constantly. Nothing helped. I eventually, a couple of years ago had to get braces to fix my teeth that had moved out of place and t.a.d's to fix my very gummy smile. It really put me off having anymore kids 😂. Great job on the clean and tidy as always ❤
You're the only channel I watch twice ... First while I am cleaning I am listening ( you helped me sooo much specially as a parent and in parenting) second when I am done so I can relax and watch it
What an enlightening video Remi. You mentioned something about “Anthropomorphic “. I have never heard that word before. But oh my gracious. Seeing human qualities in an object. I have experienced that. I do remember times as a young child and as a young adult where it was near to impossible to get rid of something. And the sentimental value. I am nearing 73 and just in this past year, I have started getting rid of things that belonged to my mother. I never even came close to hoarding. But, with decluttering, I came to the realization that my memories of my mom, are enough for me. Thanks Remi. You might want to think about developing your own podcast.
I just want to sit down and have a chat with you, you are so lovely. Thanks for visiting with me in your video. I've been flat today but now I'm going to go and fix up my study to make it fully usable again for work tomorrow. Love you xx
Remi, you're such an inspiration to me. I'm so overwhelmed but need to tackle my basement. I've been putting it off for almost 4 years now! Apparently I'm a level 2 hoarder, according to my husband. 🤣🤣
You are a wonderful person to help your aunt with love, kindness and compassion. I hope she get all the renovations done especially the boiler. Get up the courage to go to the dentist and if you can take your eldest so he doesn’t have a fear of dentists (like I did when I was a child). Hopefully it won’t be as bad as you think. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏💪👍🙏💐
Thank you for talking about Hyperemesis Gravidarum, and the knock on effects it can have post pregnancy. This video is a prime example of community and its importance. ❤
Remi, you are truly amazing! Your understanding of people, compassion, energy, hard work and inspiration is so appreciated and recognized by so many. You are so kind to help your auntie and I just know that she truly does appreciate your help. I has hyperemmis with my pregnancies too, in the hospital for almost six months of the nine months and it was horrible ! Love your insight and humor❤❤❤. Debby, NY
Oh this is the loveliest thing to read, thank you so much! ❤️
I am a 70 years young lady. I didn't learn to clean until recently. I raised 4 children in a cluttered chaotic mess. Your videos help so much. I'm trying to forgive myself for living in a mess all those years and your insight and grace help me so much ❤
So well said. I agree with all you said. ❤
I agree you were awesome!
Very well said and so true. ❤
I don’t know how you manage it! You’re so kind helping your relatives in this way! Thank you for another uplifting video. ❤😊
Thank you so much! Pleased you enjoyed watching ☺️❤️
i know! you are so amazing😘🐴
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Ecstatic to see this pop up while watching shorts 😁 I love your content, your voice, your positive words! Please keep up your wonderful work 🙏
Ahh thank you so much!! I really hope you enjoy this one 😊❤️
You’ve probably heard this hundreds of times but you are like therapy for me. I struggle with depression and apathy about my cleaning and listening to you has brought me to tears hearing your insight and compassion.
Small steps..one box one bag one section...no matter how long it takes...its all forward progress. #hugs. Glad Remi inspires you.
❤😂You’ve touched me so deeply. You are so sweet and understanding. I watched from start to finish. You were telling my story even down to losing my teeth later in life as a result of the sickness when I was expecting both my daughters. I’m 70 and am crippled by arthritis pain. I have no one to help me fix my house or clean and organize. My 38 year old unemployed daughter lives here but blames me for the mess and expects me to clean it. I get so depressed that I can’t move. I’m going to watch all your videos for inspiration and comfort. I’m having a good cry because of you kindness. God bless you and yours with love, good health the fulfillment of all your needs and dreams. Take care.
If it were me I'd be telling her to help out or get out! Contact your dr asap they can arrange social services to assist you. PLEASE ask for help, it IS out there.❤
I am so so sorry to read this! You should never ever be blamed, and I wish you had someone to help you. May I ask where abouts you live? Maybe there is someone close by in the comments who cleans for others in your area. Arthritis is horrendous, I’ve watched my grandma suffer with it. Sending so much love your way and I’m hoping things take an upwards turn for you!
I have trouble reading the fine print. It’s Janet I guess . I understand how you feel , but your daughter seems to not be very patient or understanding . Do you’think you could do things 1’bag to throw every day or maybe 1 bag in 2 days ? When I feel down I try half a bag per day and when i go dump it I feel really good about myself so the next day I want to feel good too so I am encouraged to grab a bag and do a little . 😊 A French 76 year- old
Janet please make a doctor's appointment right away, today, and ask them for help! They can get you on arthritis pain medication and an antidepressant. Explain to them about your house and your daughter, and that she is refusing to help while living rent free in your house, and ask for a social worker to come out and help you. Also ask your other daughter for help kicking her out; she needs to get her own place, she is a grown woman!
People who take advantage of elderly parents are the worst. If you were my sister,I’m 62,I would help you. And give your daughter her eviction notice. If you were my neighbor I’d help as well😊
You have the most compassionate and calming voice ever. I absolutely love your tik toks but never long enough so love that you do RUclips as well! xx
Great job!!! I bet your Aunt loved all that you did!!! And YES!!! Please keep coming back to your Aunts and keep us updated!! It is going to be such a blessing to your Aumt and Grandma when they live together and we can't wait to see them THRIVING!! Praying it happens soon so your Auntie gets some hot water!!❤
This means the world!! THANK YOU!! 🥰❤️
Oh, dear, sweet Remi!! You are not a downer- just the opposite. Every time I watch one of your videos, I come away feeling more positive, understood, and motivated. That’s huge for me!! As I’ve said before, you are the Mother Teresa of struggling, messy housekeepers. I love seeing all you do for your family. Please keep us updated on their journeys. Yes you are awesome!!! Pirate or not!😂 I can’t wait for your next video!!!❤❤❤
This makes me so happy, thank you so much! I will absolutely do my best to keep everyone updated! ❤️
I saw this yesterday and thought YES!
If you fill your mind with instant judgment there is no room for empathy or curiosity.
Grannie Cyndy from South Australia here again after my little accident. I'm 72yrs old and have battled house tidying for my whole life. Nut it's never too late! Within the last 12 months or so, I have stopped visiting op shops and have been finally organising my storage spaces, getting rid of clutter and generally tidying up. I am realising that 6 is handy, but more than that is hoarding, something that happened to me over the last twenty years. Finally, with discipline, the order is coming, firstly inside the cupboards which gives me space to store what I choose to keep from what was becoming major clutter. I am so grateful to you for being one of my favourite inspirations. Thankyou Remi.
Hi Candy, I’m in South Australia too and I have given up the op shops as well. I seem to get overwhelmed and not know where to start. How are you coping with things?
@@suzannekershaw9435 Hi Suzanne. Yes, I know how overwhelming it can be. I don't function like Remi. Almost opposite in fact. I focus on small spaces but most importantly, I am trying to maintain them afterwards. I always used to reclutter spaces very quickly as I moved on to the next project. Now I maintain what I've already done, refusing to let it slip back. Then try to add a new little tidy space as often as I can.
Don't give up. Keep up the good work.
I 'm in the Adelaide hills, by the way. 😁👍
Thanks for the encouragement, I didn’t use to be so bad but the procrastination is out of control. I honestly intend to get things done but get waylaid. A new day , with new opportunities. I live north of Adelaide near the Barossa Valley.
@@suzannekershaw9435 Don't be hard on yourself. That just drains your energy. Don't look at the shoulda woulda's. Enjoy and be proud of what you do achieve each day, no matter how small. Guilt and shame just drain your energy and serve no good purpose.
Have a lovely day. X
'we hold so much shame you would not believe how much' I had tears in my eyes when you said that. That's the worst part, the shame and the high level of stress that comes with it. The enormous pressure, the self-blame.
I have to be honest when you do these cleans for those who need your help, it gives the warm hugs feelings along with the cleaning inspiration ❤
Ahh what a lovely thing to read! So pleased to hear that! Thank you! ❤️
The world needs more people like you. Words of wisdom and great understanding of human nature. Love your videos.
You’re a gem, Remi. I’ve been listening along while doing chores around my house, and the good energy you pour out into the world is such a gift. Thank you!
Thank you so much! ☺️❤️
Exactly what Sarah said. Always a joy to have you on while I work on my home and my daughters.
Awesome video. Great job helping your family. Little something for you. Bless you
Oh wow! Thank you so so much!! I’m so grateful ❤️
Hi Remi, I am Roxy from India. I have been watching your videos for a while now and I think you are absolutely amazing and a beautiful person inside and out.
I have the privilege of having help at home and working with mentally challenged children for 43 years.
In spite of having the help, I have done my own house work and my cooking as well as cleaning and I so enjoy watching you and the enthusiasm with which you go about your work and your beautiful family I absolutely admire you and your Waze. God bless you. Always love to you all Roxy
Remi, you would be awesome if you were absolutely toothless AND we’d still all watch your videos 😋❤️. The thing I like most about your videos, is how you make us love the person whose house you’re cleaning. When you told the story about how Rudy remembers his aunt reading him books with he was a toddler and how she provided child care when you most needed it, I felt in my heart what a kind soul your aunt must be. Thank you for sharing your loved ones with us through your words. Even if we never meet them, we see how everyone shaped the phenomenal woman that you are today.
You are so sweet to help your Auntie. I am sure she and your Grandma will be a great comfort to each other. Blessings to you.
Remi, you should be a writer. Your storytelling ability is outstanding. Love your channel and your message. ❤
Thank you so much! That’s such a compliment. Glad you’re enjoying the channel 😊❤️
@@remiclog so true remi u need to consider putting pen to paper and writing a book or starting a podcast px
You are truly a genuine blessing to not only your own sweet family, but to your extended family as well. I know that your aunt was so pleased when she arrived home and saw all that you have done! I hope your tooth doesn’t have to be replaced, Going to the dentist is no fun task. Keep up your sweet spirit and continue to encourage. Just do what you do on a regular basis! May you be blessed in return!❤ Joy - Indiana
Funny enough I’ve just been doing cleaning while rewatching your old videos 😂 can’t tell you how happy I am you have just dropped this 😁🎉. Thank you Remi for your content, and the much needed motivation 😅
Ah you’re so welcome! I hope you enjoy this one! 😁
I find if I have LESS STUFF, keeping clean & tidy is SO much easier ! Peace 🕯
100%!
So true and the saying “ a place for everything, and everything in its place” !
The way you described your Aunt, she really does sound like a wonderful person. The apples don't fall far from the tree in your family, clearly ❤
If i manage to live through one day being as outspoken, honest,brave, kindhearted and selfless as you, I've made it. I bow to you.
Yikes.
You seem like one of the most understanding, caring and compassionate people in the world. As someone who has adhd and is a mess and lives in a mess half the time, thank you for helping people, it isnt easy to ask for help ❤
You are such a special young lady. Family is everything and I'm certain they love you as much as you love them. Keep doing what you're doing. So glad I've found your channel, what a blessing you are to listen to.
Family that can help family is such a gift! Not all of us have this blessing in our lives. You are lucky to have your Auntie, and she's lucky to have you!.
Hi Remi, my name is Clare (this is my husbands account). Just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your videos, and love listening to all you have to say, your voice and conversation is so therapeutic. You have such a beautiful energy, such a beautiful kind person. I have autism and Executive dysfunction disorder and have always found it difficult and overwhelming looking after my home with my 3 children. Watching you has helped me so much, to motivate me to develop methods for clearing my space and feel more comfortable with just starting and to be kind and gentle with what I can do and achieve, and to know doing something, no matter how small is always going to make a difference. I'm very grateful. Thank you so much. 🥰💜✨️
In no way was this a 'downer discussion'. You have such an encouraging spirit. You are human dedication and sunshine all rolled into one. I clean homes as a short ministry in my church family for those who are ill or having a life situation that home care must be let go. Sometimes, I have found myself slipping into a judgemental attitude. But as I listen to you, I am uplifted and encouraged to continue to be helpful to others (and myself).
Good god I’d love you to do a podcast! Could listen to you for hours! Thank you for being a shining light for so many of us ❤️
You are amazing, Remi. When I was your age, there would be no way I could do this much cleaning. 😢. I wish I had. When our beginner home became too small for our family of 5, my way of having more room, was to move to a 2600 sf home and 3 car garage 😮. As the children grew up and out, I was forced, and happily so, to get rid of a lot stuff because we moved. Since then, we moved 2 more times, each home smaller than the last. 😮.. Then RUclips brought me people like you, and minimalist videos. I am no longer overwhelmed and stressed.!❤ Even tho our home is now 1200 sf., with no garage 😮 I call it my tiny home, I absolutely love ❤❤ it!! I’m sorry for such a lengthy post, but you inspire me and for all those who are still young, they can learn from you! Thank you 🙏, Remi! And I thank God for you!
AAw it looks fabulous!!! I just love the way you squidge all the soap suds on the top!...You're so kind being so helpful!
Hello Remi - thank you so much, listening to you is like chatting to a trusted friend x
Oh Remi!I can't even move from the bed;legs having problem!lm so excited everytime seeing your video!keep going creating sentimental and practice art!l admire you Remi!
Oh bless you! I’m really sorry to hear that! I hope you’re feeling better very soon. ❤️
You are such a beautiful person inside and out! it warms the heart to see how much you love and care for your family. Please keep the videos coming of your aunties house. Praying the renovations happen soon . And thank you! Absolutely LOVE your videos!❤
I’m sure your Aunt was tickled pink to see her kitchen clean. Thanks for your hard work! Maybe a kettle of hot water would have helped with the pot scrubbing. 💙
Remi, I have such a strong feeling to tell you how much I've learned from your sweet Auntie and you. It is so hard to ask for help. Many of us would rather do anything but do that. However, your dear Auntie taught us to put the well-being of others ahead of our own pride. Your grandma needed a place to live and your Auntie knew she needed help in order to help your grandma. What a lovely family you have. Each one is so kind and thoughtful. As for you Remi, there are those of us who have the idea to help, but fewer still are the people who actually do it.
Thank you for the lessons your dear family taught me. Thank you again for such a lovely video. Be well, dear friend!
You are a beautiful person! We all need a little help sometimes. So thankful you are able to assist your family. Blessing.
I have just discovered you. I needed to find a way to get motivated and you did it. I am handicapped to a point and I have to work thru that to get anything done. It takes me longer than normal. I have watched and listened to you and fell in love with all you do and say. You are real!!!! If anyone takes offense it is because they don't like the truth. You have a big heart and you care about people. I am now addicted to you!! I really, really like your videos and how they help me. Thank you and God bless you and your family. I am from the US and of all the ones I looked at you stood out among them all!!!
I love watching these. Especially. Your aunts house. You are such a wonderful person
You know of all the things we can watch on RUclips while we clean and tidy, I love and choose your videos. Ear phones in and Remi on. 😂❤ just your grown up take on life and wisdom. Such a beautiful girl you are. I'm having a very bad time with my mum's house atm. It's trashed top to bottom Remi and I'm overwhelmed. I come to your videos for that reassurance that there's light eventually through that tunnel. Thanks for all the videos. You're one subscription that I truly love! ❤
Having a close family still connected is a blessing.....
Been waiting all week! Thank you!
Hope you enjoy it! ☺️
What a lovley person ❤
You’re very kind, thank you ❤️
You did not cause any downer response whatsoever. In fact, I admire that you are able to be so helpful to other family members and are willing to do what you can to help them get better organized. I used to have a bad habit of leaving dishes in my sink, after the after supper snacks we often had, whether it be ice cream bowls and spoons etc. other dishes and utensils. I hated facing it in the morning and made a promise to myself that I would stop doing this and no matter what, I would do up the dishes from the night before. (these were not supper dishes - these always got done and put away) It was the beginning of a new year, so not a resolution, as much as a determination to change and I have done quite well for many years now. I might leave a spoon from getting cat food for our 4 felines, but everything else is washed and put away. Despite doing lots of decluttering, I still have places that are harder for me to face. No matter how successful one is, there can still be maintenance issues that are hard to deal with and get left until they become a much bigger issue. Your kindness must be very much appreciated. Your energy is something I wish I could bottle up for my own use. My chores get done slower and with lots of breaks, than when I was younger. It is what it is.
When I looked up motivation to clean with depression and all the nice houses that isn't gonna help me but remi is so understanding I've been watching the one video for ages the way she explains it and motives us.. and no judgement
Hi Remi!!! You post at the best time! I'm in college and had 3 tests yesterday so I'm exhausted but me and my fiances apartment is a mess from our hectic week. I really needed this motivation and you absolutely make my day when I watch your videos💕😍 we're both also neurodivergent so your perspective really helps
Oh bless you!! I really hope those tests went well, and I hope you manage to get your apartment sorted as quickly as possible and have a well deserved rest, both of you ❤️
@@remiclog thank you so much!! We plan on having a cozy evening of video games and donuts😂
@@leahbrigeman9252 that sounds like the perfect evening! ☺️
Good news, remembering that your Auntie was a bit depressed. Hoping that having Mommy living together will push her to do her best to keep well.
What a task. You are precious. Many blessings 😍⚘💗
The kitchen would change a lot if you stick on the countertop one of those papers simulating marble, and new silicons ❤
You are wise, understanding, passionate, caring and so much more. You stepped in to give a helping hand. You chose the be helpful and kind to someone card 💕Your Auntie must be so thankful for the help you given her. BRAVO Job well done. 💪💪
Hi Remi. Grannie Cyndy from South Australia here.
You have such a wonderful kind and caring heart. What you said about comments which are judgemental is so true. Thing is, whether it's grief, trauma or brain glitch, we all have ways of mis-dealing with it. For some of us it's untidiness, clutter or hoarding etc. For others it's cultivating a sense of superiority by criticising others. It's all the same thing. But it's so much better to be empathetic, helpful and kind.
Bless you for being all those thingsare , zRemi.
Remi you really are a wonderful person, I wish everyone on the planet watched you so they can see what a good person is like 💛 it's so nice that your grandma can move in with your auntie 😊 I really hope they can get the renovations started soon bless her.. can't wait for your next video 😊 sending love and positivity 🧡
Dear Remi you are amazing! I took one of your videos as a starting point to declutter my whole house!
I sorted though every wardrobe, cabinet and piled up boxes. Got rid of SOOOO much un-needed and un-used stuff. Filled up the trash bin several times. There are still some small corners left... but I am getting there! I filled several boxes for donation. Even this makes me happy because someone else will really USE this things. And the money goes to the Animal Shelter.
Win win for everyone 😊❤❤❤
that's a lovely room for your nan with the window and fireplace. the floor is beautiful!
You are so kind if everyone was like you what a lovely place the world would be brilliant video ❤ from Julie
Thank you so much! ❤️ Pleased you enjoyed the video 😊
Yay! Hey Remi! ❤️❤️❤️ I needed this motivation so much today, your positive words and encouragement! You are a rockstar, amazing mom, and an amazing woman! Love U Remi! ❤❤
Oh wow! Thank you so so much!! I hope this one gives you a boost! ☺️❤️
Hey there.
Awesome video. Your chat really makes a lot of sense and I’m happy you have family to help. You also help them back!
Please consider getting your tooth checked out; an infection there can make you sick all over. They can fix you a little snap on tooth! No worries, you’ll be just fine.
I have never watched a video where it felt like someone was reading my own book to me. You are unique and an absolute gem for laying bare your very real life to help those of us who walk that same path. It’s exhausting. I’m much older than you and I’m never able to “keep it that way” even though I get my home looking great but it’s rarely more than 2 rooms at the same time and I’m sure I seem to work 10 times harder than my friends who make it look effortless. But we keep going because what else do we do! Thank you.
You’re so right, everyone is struggling in their own way and we can all learn something from your message of spreading kindness and compassion to others in whatever little ways that we can. Thank you for making such wonderful videos and yes, you are awesome with or without your front tooth!
No you just make me feel better and kind of give me some more energy❤😊
I’m honestly so pleased to hear this! 😁❤️
Hi Remi! This video could NOT be more perfectly timed! I'm currently taking a break - aka, procrastinating - from sorting through clothes so I can load up my new wardrobe. I needed this kick in the pants to do the next bit, so that's exactly what I'm going to do now. Thank you 🥰
I’m always so excited when your longer videos come up! Excellent job on this one. I would be very interested to see more of the remodel when that happens.
You are “bloody awesome”! Your videos are such an inspiration and motivation that we can accomplish the impossible. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and stories while all the time, showing that nothing is too big or difficult to tackle.
Remi you are an absolute breath of fresh air! Feel like you're a virtual best friend to so many. You're amazing!
I had hyperemesis in my first pregnancy, it's so bad i was on bed rest for three months. Couldn't eat,or sleep. Always vomiting, couldn't keep food down. So terrible glad i have my beautiful baby girl for all the stress and pain.
Just love your voice overs 🥰
Thank you 🥰❤️
You have done such a kind and wonderful thing here, Remi. ❤
Thank you 😊
that's me. I can't ke3p ahead. I'm always behind with the mess. but I have decided that if my great grandmother lived with 4 dress most of her life. I can live with 7 of everything.b7 shorts 7 shorts 7 pants ect.
I genuinely think this is the way to go, I wish I had the strength to dial back my clothes this way. Maybe one day 😊
Just in case you need to do any more cleaning without hot water; I've found it handy to put the kettle on, or boil a saucepot of water and empty it into a sink you're not using, like the bathroom or laundry, then take out cupfuls to mix with the cold as needed.
Your Auntie is lucky to have you as much as you were lucky to have her help with Rudy.
You understand well. Don't please don't let them just cover up that black mold...it grows faster behind paint & such.
You did a fantastic job for 1 day. I understand about sleeping well that night!!!
Thanks for helping to remi d us as to what is most important sweet girl lucky aunt
you are so sweet. lucky aunt, she will be so grateful to come home to a clean kitchen. thanks for sharing. I love watching your videos ❤
Love your down to earth approach.
Rémi, tu es un exemple 👍🏻 ce que tu fais est généreux, et c’est fait avec tant de bienveillance 💕
C’est inspirant et encourageant 👍🏻
Prends bien soin de toi et de tes dents !!!!
À bientôt !
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Wonderful work again! You are so inspiring with what you do.
Your aunty is doing a good thing, moving her mum in. BUT it's a very hard thing to do. I've done it, but we had the space and she had the money, to convert, extend and repair a small very old stone barn in our garden so that she has her own kitchen, sitting room, bedroom and shower room, + an attic cupboard and boiler room all to herself with her own front door. And I STILL find it really quite hard. The amount of attention she needs, the fact I never feel I can just go and be in my garden without going in to see her first, the help she needs and her inability to keep her brand new home tidy even with a fortnightly cleaner, drives me a bit bonkers. I was facing the choice of selling her house and putting her into a home or doing what we did. It was the obvious thing to do, to keep her independence etc. But it is hard. And it will be much harder for your aunty with her living in the same house. Loosing rooms to accommodate her. Coping with the volume of stuff she will deem essential to bring with her. My hat is off to her for trying. But your aunty is going to need help to keep her own sanity. And that's not easy to find.
Good luck to all involved. Never be afraid to ask for help.
Sweet, Sweet Remi, you are AWESOME! What a wonderful job you did at your Auntie's home. I had that same condition when I was pregnant with my son, which is why he is an only child. Such a miserable experience and same thing with my front teeth in that they are kind of chipping away but at the bottom. Any who thank you again for another enlightening video about what others have to cope with on a daily basis. God Bless you and your family.
Real topics are appreciated! I always enjoy the story time. If you started a fundraiser for your aunt to pay to fix the boiler I'd donate ❤
Remi, you are such a beautiful light in a dark world ❤.
Thank you so much for your videos. I am cleaning my long-neglected house and slowly making it a home. You are an inspiration and great company as I work.
Never cast aspersions, always cast nasturtiums and the world would be a better place. Thank you for reminding people not to judge. Most people are doing the best they can with the mental and physical recourses they have.
So wonderful, Remi! Thank you!
Thank you! ☺️
Great job. I bet your aunty's was so pleased with what you did to help. Sometimes we just need a kick to help us out. We all slip sometimes
Absolutely love your content, your voice overs are like listening to a self help audiobook
I had a lot of gum problems when I was pregnant. By the end, my gums ended up massive from being inflamed constantly. Nothing helped. I eventually, a couple of years ago had to get braces to fix my teeth that had moved out of place and t.a.d's to fix my very gummy smile. It really put me off having anymore kids 😂. Great job on the clean and tidy as always ❤
You're the only channel I watch twice ... First while I am cleaning I am listening ( you helped me sooo much specially as a parent and in parenting) second when I am done so I can relax and watch it
❤ so happy your Auntie is helping her mom and you are helping them both!
The cleaning and the narrative are both so wonderful.
You are so right.thats why people have taking to declutter people to help them.
What an enlightening video Remi. You mentioned something about “Anthropomorphic “. I have never heard that word before. But oh my gracious. Seeing human qualities in an object. I have experienced that. I do remember times as a young child and as a young adult where it was near to impossible to get rid of something. And the sentimental value. I am nearing 73 and just in this past year, I have started getting rid of things that belonged to my mother. I never even came close to hoarding. But, with decluttering, I came to the realization that my memories of my mom, are enough for me. Thanks Remi. You might want to think about developing your own podcast.
I just want to sit down and have a chat with you, you are so lovely. Thanks for visiting with me in your video. I've been flat today but now I'm going to go and fix up my study to make it fully usable again for work tomorrow. Love you xx
Remi, you're such an inspiration to me. I'm so overwhelmed but need to tackle my basement. I've been putting it off for almost 4 years now! Apparently I'm a level 2 hoarder, according to my husband. 🤣🤣
You are a wonderful person to help your aunt with love, kindness and compassion. I hope she get all the renovations done especially the boiler. Get up the courage to go to the dentist and if you can take your eldest so he doesn’t have a fear of dentists (like I did when I was a child). Hopefully it won’t be as bad as you think. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏💪👍🙏💐
You are a saint, Remi! A blessing to your family❤
You are a ray of sunshine on a rainy day Remi. 💛
I believe your kind words teach us to have grace and mercy as we walk this life , blessings to you and yours THANK YOU ❤
Na eight minutes in and I’m crying from how much I relate to what she said❤
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Thank you for talking about Hyperemesis Gravidarum, and the knock on effects it can have post pregnancy. This video is a prime example of community and its importance. ❤
Big hugs from Ohio USA. I wish we were neighbors!! ❤
Fair play to you Remi, great work. Look forward to seeing before, during and after the renovation and maybe Grandma's moving in.