how I shifted my identity and transformed my life in 6 months... *and you can too*

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
  • HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! Welcome to the first video of 2023. In this video I'm sharing how I changed my life in 6 months and how you can too!
    CHAPTERS
    0:00 intro
    3:58 creating evidence for self belief
    8:06 building the pillars
    11:51 the excuses loop
    14:03 making irreversible decisions
    17:11 prioritise healing
    20:35 find a community that aligns with your identity
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    Montelle is a creative entrepreneur coach, travel influencer, and international retreat facilitator. She is also the founder of 𝗕𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗜𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲™. Her mission is to empower female entrepreneurs to tap into their unique abilities and build a profitable personal brand. Through her coaching, workshops and online content, Montelle provides actionable steps that help you break down limiting beliefs and go after the life you’ve always dreamed of.

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  • @CreativepreneurJourney
    @CreativepreneurJourney Год назад +65

    2 weeks ago, I personally need to slow down at work because of my mental health.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +3

      I hope you’re now feeling restored Damalie ♥️

    • @CreativepreneurJourney
      @CreativepreneurJourney Год назад +2

      @@MontelleBee I do feel much better

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa Год назад +2

      @@CreativepreneurJourney same here!! Working on taking that break

  • @Snow-fy5wv
    @Snow-fy5wv Год назад +108

    About a month ago I decided to slow down I only work 3 times a week instead of 5 and I find myself much more productive than ever because I know I only have 3 days I’ve been making more money feeling better and have been able to focus on my mental health which has been declining because I was overworked you are absolutely right mental health comes first if you don’t feel good nothing works !

  • @aamirakarimah5359
    @aamirakarimah5359 Год назад +182

    Your videos are seriously rebuilding me from an extremely dark and broken place in my life. It’s one thing to knowing I want to change, but learning how to really makes this an attainable goal for me. Thank you 🙏🏾❤️

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +12

      You are so welcome love! I appreciate your comment, and I’m so glad you’re finding value in my content. Happy new year love, wishing you an abundance of light & peace this year and beyond ✨🙏🏾

    • @patoupatrickpcc6377
      @patoupatrickpcc6377 Год назад

      ​@@MontelleBee Great work Montelle. Your videos are both great in content and context.👌🏿👏🏿❤️

    • @Jackthetraveller
      @Jackthetraveller Год назад

      Call me Mr 86 im subscribing to help you 💯✌️ im on 15 and 5 days in😂 lets meet at the top 💯💯👍 Wish u all the best in life 🎉

  • @GloryOkings
    @GloryOkings Год назад +11

    Taking a break really helps with seasonal depression. Just having the feeling of starting afresh, yes it's okay to feel sad and down, go through the process, rest and start again.

  • @tiffanypogue1190
    @tiffanypogue1190 Год назад +7

    Make irreversible decisions to launch you towards your goals. No one has ever shown me that perspective before. I feel like I just unlocked a new superpower.

  • @TheOneLifeSchool
    @TheOneLifeSchool Год назад +62

    Love this! Making an irreversible decision really hit home with me...2023 is the year of being bold!

  • @Gombakka
    @Gombakka Год назад +5

    ❤️Believe in yourself
    ❤️Don't look for evidence from others who picked a similar goal, be the evidence yourself
    ❤️Rate the areas in life and prioritize
    ❤️Identify barriers that hold you back, be solution oriented

  • @xenimolly
    @xenimolly Год назад +14

    I love this! I decided to grow and heal from a very toxic relationship that left me so broken that i lost myself. Making irreversible decisions is the way to go like I just walked into a gym and signed up and paid for 6months😂meaning i have to make use of my money and go to the gym. I have fallen in love with the gym in a month. I also stopped the negative self talk that I didn’t even realize was affecting me daily. Anytime i want to think something negative about myself I replace it with something positive and i feel more confident. Thankyou for the words of encouragement and advice

  • @jenniferanyanwu2292
    @jenniferanyanwu2292 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m going to come back to this exact video by this exact time next year and tell you “ I did it!” This is me putting my accountability in public and I have no doubt that I am capable of achieving it😊

  • @jasemedina
    @jasemedina Год назад

    The exact content that I needed! You confirmed a lot of what I thought I needed to do. Thank you!

  • @LavenderFieldsForever
    @LavenderFieldsForever Год назад

    I’m leveling up my finances this year!!! 💜💜💜👯‍♀️ let’s go

  • @TheColorDuchess
    @TheColorDuchess Год назад

    yes for your healing! much love to you on this next chapter

  • @leighhelesia
    @leighhelesia Год назад

    The point about making irreversible decisions is so good! I’ve never heard anyone share that advice before. Thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @withsherrymcmillan
    @withsherrymcmillan Год назад +4

    Yaaas!!! Prioritizing healing is top tier as you’re pursuing your desired life.

  • @jamzyy
    @jamzyy Год назад +2

    *Yessss. Absolutely feel this, sis. Thank you for sharing!* ♥

  • @Mbalenhlechrissie
    @Mbalenhlechrissie Год назад +2

    Happy new year Montelle it’s good to see you again, nothing has changed my life like your channel last year, you always talk to me, you are loved❤️

  • @allygy2004
    @allygy2004 Год назад +2

    Hello Monette, your videos are so refreshing, I see so much of myself in you and I feel encouraged to be better!!

  • @nicole.wacuka
    @nicole.wacuka Год назад +3

    What a beautiful video Montelle! Your healing comes through, hun. All the peace you speak with, it's beautiful. Thank you for sharing this. It's really blessed me

  • @abigailbrind6533
    @abigailbrind6533 Год назад

    Love this, especially like the irreversible decisions such a great idea. Thanks 🙏

  • @ericawatkins1714
    @ericawatkins1714 Год назад +3

    Amazing advice! Just what I needed! Also very glad to hear you've overcome your seasonal depression.

  • @rebeccap2719
    @rebeccap2719 Год назад +4

    Your channel is quite new to me. I watched one other of your videos from 8 months ago on the 12 week challenge. You're right, I could hear a difference in your voice in this video from that one. You sound so calm and serene in this video, it's so easy to listen to and it's lovely to see how relaxed you are.

  • @kubiatakpanusong
    @kubiatakpanusong Год назад +6

    I love this so much!! Every point hit home! Making irreversible decisions, prioritizing healing and building pillars really did it for me! Thank you so much and I wish you a very wonderful year ❤

  • @Zinayahh
    @Zinayahh Год назад +2

    You explained this perfectly, exactly what I needed to hear !

  • @lisaLisa-qq2ss
    @lisaLisa-qq2ss Год назад +1

    I want to give this video a million likes. This was truly a answer to my prayers. Thanks so much for sharing!❤

  • @TanyaRoseCoach
    @TanyaRoseCoach Год назад +3

    Thanks Montelle really enjoyed this video and love how grounded you are! Thank you 🙏🏽 thank you ☺️ thank you 🙏🏽

  • @aridjaandadam
    @aridjaandadam Год назад

    Happy for you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lindapowell4433
    @lindapowell4433 Год назад +1

    Praying for your continued success in all areas of your life!!! Peace and Blessings, to you love.....

  • @Memkoh
    @Memkoh Год назад +3

    Amazing video, Montelle. Thank you!! “Boldly step into your next level” I felt that.
    Also agree with you 100% about healing over productivity. You described what I’ve been experiencing so perfectly and watching this reaffirmed it. We are so wired to feel guilty for taking breaks to heal but sometimes that’s all we need.

  • @lirekoqhobela4439
    @lirekoqhobela4439 Год назад +2

    I'm so happy for you! The last time I saw your videos you were working towards 100k subs! If memory serves me correctly, you were around 24k subs. What?! 😊😁. Really inspiring girl. Thank you.
    Ok, now I'm gonna watch the rest of the video.
    May God keep blessing your journey.

  • @EllenMcDermott
    @EllenMcDermott Год назад +1

    You have another subscriber in me. Loved your idea or writing down my excuses and then my solutions and also taking irreversible action!!! Thank you sooo much ❤❤❤

  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 Год назад +4

    New Sub here, and it's a miracle how this vlog came into my feeds right after having a dream about Transformation.. I am glad I found you, I needed this! Especially healing
    You're truly Godsent, bless you

  • @simplycherry23
    @simplycherry23 Год назад

    Thank you love the part making irreversible decision ❤❤…..really resonated with me

  • @imjessiara
    @imjessiara Год назад +2

    Girl you have no idea, this video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🤍

  • @happygolucky6284
    @happygolucky6284 Год назад +1

    So motivating. Love your honesty and realness!

  • @aurora-jp4ck
    @aurora-jp4ck Год назад +4

    You are so right about the big leapsー I am currently in the process of going to a different country and studying abroad. It was a very big decision but pushing myself was really eye opening and it has made me way calmer when facing other challenges. I am currently in a process of also getting rid of stuff and just reinventing myself. Thank you so much for your insights!

  • @valeriearthur7322
    @valeriearthur7322 Год назад +3

    Hy montelle, i love your videos and how you integrate your faith into your videos and emphasize on doing the inner work. This is my favorite video from you and i will be applying these steps to my life asap. Thank you soo much.

  • @gabrijelabosnjak1648
    @gabrijelabosnjak1648 Год назад

    You are such a beautiful soul! May God give you all the blessings you need to continue following your path. ❤ And you are making an impact and thank you for that 🫂

  • @_the.encourager
    @_the.encourager Год назад

    Yes! Yes! You transformed so much! Your previous videos are amazing but indeed I see the difference. Its beautiful. You encourage me Montelle❤. Praying I will be able to really grow with your guidance through your lovely videos. I'm so thankful I found you❤

  • @agirl2094
    @agirl2094 Год назад

    Great video 💓 glad to see something useful on socials in a space that is often full of 🗑️

  • @moni28b90
    @moni28b90 Год назад

    First time listening to you. You have a calling on your life. Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @_highlytransplanted
    @_highlytransplanted Год назад +3

    I’m so excited to see your content this year Montelle! 🎉 glad you took a break and reset before the New Year I think we all needed one at the end of Q4 😅
    After watching your last video (telling me to get out of my own way) I bought a tripod so I can continue my own content creation journey in 2023!

  • @raihana.onfilm
    @raihana.onfilm Год назад +1

    Thanks for the great content! You're definitely inspiring me. 🧡

  • @ashleynikkolex
    @ashleynikkolex Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this! I watched this while working on my vision board.... I found this exactly when I needed it!

  • @noramosesgoddey
    @noramosesgoddey Год назад +1

    Taking 'inner work' and 'making irreversible decisions' as the strongest shots for me🥰❤️

  • @missmo-be7636
    @missmo-be7636 Год назад +3

    Wonderful tips! Thank you for sharing and being unapologetically honest. We're human beings afterall and taking to decompress is 100% necessary when transforming. Good for you and the time away has you glowing...you look AMAZING.🌞

  • @blvckszn5377
    @blvckszn5377 Год назад

    Currently in the process of reinventing myself, it has been a blast so far and getting better everyday

  • @cocofecoco
    @cocofecoco Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for being so transparent. Your videos are always so helpful and encouraging. 🙏🏾

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      You are so welcome!! I’m so glad you enjoy my content ♥️

  • @jenniferanyanwu2292
    @jenniferanyanwu2292 7 месяцев назад

    I was looking for a video to help this start off this year and I saw yours and I just knew it was exactly what I needed!

  • @sofiamoilanen
    @sofiamoilanen Год назад

    Great video!!😍

  • @Londoloza031
    @Londoloza031 Год назад

    love this 🤍

  • @Mutsa_c
    @Mutsa_c Год назад

    this was very much needed thank you sis!!!!

  • @catherinekayy
    @catherinekayy Год назад +4

    Wow this is so motivational thank you so so much for sharing this, I had gastric bypass last year, and Im really trying to grow and talk to myself differently and change my life! This is so inspiring thank yo uso much for sharing

  • @lalanicole.
    @lalanicole. Год назад +6

    This is my first video of yours I’ve watched and I appreciate it so much. You have realistic tips and I just want to say thank you. You definitely have a new subscriber ❤️ bless you!

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      You are so welcome! Thank you for subscribing. I’m glad my content resonates with you ♥️

  • @jenniferanyanwu2292
    @jenniferanyanwu2292 7 месяцев назад

    You have no idea how much this video helped me! Thank you thank you thank you ❤️

  • @Ttashja
    @Ttashja Год назад

    Hahaha when you busted yourself saying trying. Thank you for this powerful wisdom 💗

  • @yolandmcleod
    @yolandmcleod Год назад

    Amazing video...I really needed this x

  • @JenniferKristin888
    @JenniferKristin888 7 месяцев назад

    Thank for your transparancy ❤

  • @chanelhart4353
    @chanelhart4353 Год назад +9

    OMG I just found your channel, and two minutes into the video, I subscribed! You have such a beautiful and authentic energy and are such an inspiration. Thank you for being you! Also, not me seeing this at 111K subscribers ahhh I love

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much loveee ♥️♥️♥️ so happy you enjoy my content 🤗

  • @justbeingoctavia
    @justbeingoctavia Год назад

    Happy New Year Montelle 💐🎊🎉
    This video has been very therapeutic to the soul! As I unpack my children clothes from our holiday, you have reaffirmed the importance of working on my inner me and I’m so excited and ready to be consistent and dedicated to improving myself this year and beyond 🙏🏾
    Thank you for your transparency and I look forward to implementing the wheel spreadsheet which you mentioned ❤️

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      Happy new year love!!!
      Aw I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Wishing you an abundance of success and personal growth in 2023 and beyond! ✨

  • @Dasjustmyblenderart
    @Dasjustmyblenderart Год назад +9

    I'm glad you took some time off to get better. Seasonal depression hit me HARD this december too! I am sure you are going to achieve great things this year. You deserve it.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much love ♥️ I’m sorry to hear that it hit you hard last month. I pray you’ve been restored and feeling better this month!

  • @Thelifeofamom494
    @Thelifeofamom494 Год назад

    I love how you mentioned the enemy soo true

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Год назад +3

    yes to shifting & peeling off those old layers!! i definitely agree with you and your boyfriend have noticed how you've changed and you're glowing so keep it up! 💖

  • @jenniferanyanwu2292
    @jenniferanyanwu2292 7 месяцев назад

    This is by far one of the most practical videos I have watched. Thank you montelle!

  • @silentlyflourish
    @silentlyflourish 8 месяцев назад

    This was a good talk. Wow, to focus on one area at a time is the most sound advice I've heard

  • @amandamovio
    @amandamovio Год назад +2

    I love the structure of the video - and the fact that you mentioned healing. Healing is what rebirths us and slingshots us toward our greatest achievements. Loved the video Girl!!! Listened to you while I was working on my site ❤❤

  • @taisha5985
    @taisha5985 Год назад +1

    I didn’t know I needed this video
    Thank you❤️

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      You’re so welcome love! ♥️

  • @Ninglor888
    @Ninglor888 10 месяцев назад

    this is a great video. I love how you talk about prioritizing healing

  • @MiaNebo
    @MiaNebo Год назад

    Thanks for this important message ❤

  • @RebecasBeautifulEnterprise
    @RebecasBeautifulEnterprise Год назад

    This video was beautiful and inspiring. I relate to taking a break to heal, as I also had to go on a long mental health leave from my 9-5 teaching job.... However, had I not made that decision to take a break and heal my mind, body, and soul, I would not be in a good place right now. Thank you for sharing your story...

  • @AlyciaBoutte
    @AlyciaBoutte Год назад

    I've been missing your videos, so glad you're back! Excellent tips as always!

  • @wendyogano5553
    @wendyogano5553 Год назад

    This is the best video on this topic I have seen. I definitely took heed of everything and I want to test myself for two months

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾 please keep me updated with how it goes for you!

  • @e-bedai
    @e-bedai 3 месяца назад

    Great video, thank you 👍

  • @itspearlineslife86
    @itspearlineslife86 Год назад

    Love this for you ❤️

  • @adenkifle649
    @adenkifle649 Год назад

    Don't usually comment on yt videos but I Loved this video and the way you break down things, very inspiring to make decisions and real change in my life, and loved your 12 week year plan . God bless you ❤

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      Aw thank you love! I appreciate your comment. Happy new year, wishing you much success this year and beyond 💕

  • @BethanyRuby
    @BethanyRuby Год назад +3

    Happy new year beaut 🎉💜🥰 and so happy you're back and thriving 💜 sorry you had a bad time last month xx

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      Happy new year love!! Thank you so much ♥️ wishing you an amazing 2023 and beyond!

  • @DiamDot
    @DiamDot Год назад

    The part about watching old videos and thinking "who is she?!" FELT lol

  • @AmberB
    @AmberB Год назад +7

    Definitely missed your videos but glad you were able to take some time off. Loved this video because I feel like I am going through a transformation with my content and my identity / mindset has been a big thing! (Just not being that person i know i can be) “You can’t fall back into your old ways” this resonated with me soo much! I’m so ready to be all in and commit to changing my life and living the life i deserve .✨💕

    • @Memkoh
      @Memkoh Год назад +1

      Just followed your channel from this comment. Wishing you so much growth💕

    • @AmberB
      @AmberB Год назад

      @@Memkoh aww thank you❤️🥹

  • @rushaunmcintosh439
    @rushaunmcintosh439 Год назад +1

    😁🙏🏾❤Woow Montelle! This is the exact video I needed to hear its crazy you did this video at the time I was actually thinking on improving myself last year for me 2022 was not my year at all have had alot of set backs which have affected me big time but towards the end of that year I was starting to progress to where I want to be so hearing this is what I need to work on certain areas of my life so I want to thank you for doing this video!! Your killing it by the way 🙏🏾😁keep putting in that grind as I know 500k subs will be on the way soon for you.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      Thank you Rushaun, I’m so glad this video resonated with you ♥️♥️ I pray this year is powerful and prosperous for you!

    • @rushaunmcintosh439
      @rushaunmcintosh439 Год назад

      @@MontelleBee no problem Montelle you deserve it! Keep up the good work cant wait to see you get to your next milestone and wish you nothing but success for this year too 🙏🏾❤

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Год назад +1

    Girl you are literally GLOWING! Loved these tips as I am currently in the process of identity shifting also! Thank you for your tips and Happy New Year! 🙏🏻💞✨

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so much Jackie! Happy new year to you love! Wishing you an abundance of success for this year and beyond ✨♥️

    • @jackiek4159
      @jackiek4159 Год назад

      @@MontelleBee Thank you so much beautiful girl!! Same to you!! 😍💞✨

  • @mathumcube2202
    @mathumcube2202 Год назад +35

    Hey, sis hey! I missed you so much! So glad to see you're back and doing better🤍. Your 12 week year video was really life-changing for me. My life looks completely different compared to the past 6 months, so yes at any moment in your life, you change your life completely. It is so possible.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +2

      Awww thank you love!! I’m so glad my videos have been transformational for you 💕

  • @lyssathemuse
    @lyssathemuse Год назад

    'making irreversible decisions' was the best tip I've heard in a while!

  • @ValentinaGulpe
    @ValentinaGulpe Год назад

    Love this channel :) I am new here :) from one creator to another ! Good job ! We all need a break sometimes :) fantastic work !!

  • @meronitanat8062
    @meronitanat8062 Год назад

    Its good to have you back.

  • @taraready657
    @taraready657 Год назад

    Every time I have a set back my come back always has to be different so I understand this completely

  • @noramosesgoddey
    @noramosesgoddey Год назад

    Hnmm, so insightful and encouraging video ❤️, thanks

  • @zaliecannonier
    @zaliecannonier Год назад

    Love this Montelle 🤍 your voice is also so soothing in this video! 😅🤗 x

  • @rowzaylove
    @rowzaylove Год назад

    “We create the evidence” powerful statement!
    The Bible describes faith as the evidence of things not seen. You’re so right, by believing that we can we are quite literally “creating” the evidence.

  • @drucilaalisson3804
    @drucilaalisson3804 Год назад

    Hi Montelle, love your videos as always they helped me so much ! I think you should put your videos sound into podcast 😍

  • @Neesha242
    @Neesha242 Год назад

    I’m tired of pretending that I’m ok. I’m trying to fight for my life by not giving up

  • @ROBERTDAVis2271
    @ROBERTDAVis2271 Год назад

    Great video 👍🏿

  • @EllenMcDermott
    @EllenMcDermott Год назад +1

    Oh wow you’re stunning ….had to comment that and I haven’t even watched all your video yet hehehehehe

  • @RoyaltyRoots
    @RoyaltyRoots Год назад

    Happy New Year and congratulations on hitting 100k

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад

      Happy new year love!!! And thank you🥰♥️

  • @maxicathnry
    @maxicathnry Год назад

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @tt56565
    @tt56565 Год назад

    Love your content! You also sound just like Mel b from spice girls, i love it!! x

  • @carlygreen2293
    @carlygreen2293 Год назад

    Mocktails and no alcohol beers! Giving up drinking in a world that loves a drink is super hard; give yourself lots of grace. Sounds like you will, tho. Lol as I appreciate the advice on healing first, and really just everything here! Great video!

  • @thenaturalgrowthsecret
    @thenaturalgrowthsecret Год назад

    Love this ❤

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +1

      Thank you love!! Happy new year to you! ♥️

  • @ayoadeyo
    @ayoadeyo Год назад +56

    Hi Montelle, I haven't watched the video in full yet but wanted to send love your way

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  Год назад +8

      Thank you love!! And yes I watched her video - it was very encouraging ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ElenaDenisaOfficial
    @ElenaDenisaOfficial Год назад +1

    SHE IS BACK!!

  • @sharonjohns1686
    @sharonjohns1686 Год назад

    Your beautiful. Love your style. Pls do videos on your hairstyles. I love them❤️

  • @nzuzothwala9683
    @nzuzothwala9683 Год назад

    Montelle, you definitely should double up on your meditation girl. You're a star 🌟 you grind, girl, but you are all the same even if you are enjoying benefits of your grind and resting.