10 Parenting Tips to Calm Down Any Child In a Minute
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- Опубликовано: 29 июл 2024
- Tantrums are very common in kids aged 1 to 4. More than half of kids let their frustration out at least once a week, or more often.
Why do they do it?
By the time they turn 3 or 4, kids have much better language skills than babies, of course, but their vocabulary is still not advanced enough to describe everything they feel. So what can you do to prevent your kids from going crazy now and then?
TIMESTAMPS
Make your child feel comfortable 1:21
Let your toddler choose 2:08
Find out what's really bothering your kid 2:58
Distract your little one 3:40
Become a good teacher for your kid 4:23
Do not provoke tantrums 5:20
Use positive words 5:56
Keep a straight face 6:30
Give praise when the kid deserves it 7:00
Be smart about the pocket money 7:38
SUMMARY
- If you are going out for a longer time, take their favorite blanket with you. It will give them the feeling of home and safety. When you are a parent, you tend to take plenty of stuff with you even when you leave the house for an hour. If someone is making fun of you, let them.
- Start with little things, which will make him or her feel like they are in control. Control also means responsibility. They will of course not know it just now, but they will see how their choices affect what they do and how they feel.
- don’ta get the message; they don’t get the answer. What do they do? Throw a tantrum. Dr. Hoecker offers the following solution: try to create a sign language your kid will understand and remember. Teach them to show basic words like “food,” “milk,” “sleep” and so on.
- Your child will unlikely be getting over a breakup or job loss, but they have their own concerns, as we know. When you feel danger is coming, the baby’s face is reddening, or they are giving other signs of a tantrum to follow, distract them. “Let’s go for a walk,” “How about we read your favorite book” are all great ways to divert your child’s fleeting attention.
- Michele Borba, Ed.D., author of Parents Do Make a Difference, explains that kids really want to do what is right, but sometimes they just don’t know what that is. Explain your concerns and fears, never yell at or in front of your kid. You could even make up an “angry vocabulary” for your child. That would be a list of words to express negative emotions.
- Your kid doesn’t like to be forcefully interrupted, or feels uncomfortable about doing certain things? Give them warning before they have to do it and explain why it is necessary.
- Millions of people in 47 countries around the world love Supernanny. This modern-day Mary Poppins gives great parenting advice. One of the things she suggests is using positive instead of the negative. Every time you feel like screaming "no," "don’t" and "stop," don’t do it. “Don’t jump on the couch” could motivate your kid to do the opposite, especially if they are moody.
- Introduce the new family rule to your kid. When he or she starts whining, you have the right not to respond to them. If that happens, keep your face straight. You made a deal, right? Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., coauthor of Positive Discipline for Preschoolers recommends that you also introduce a warning sign which will show you are going to stop listening.
- We are not just talking about money here. Your baby will unlikely appreciate it, anyway. Thank the kids for doing something right. Doctor Michele Borba thinks it is a good idea to say things like "Thanks for using your normal voice" or "My ears love that voice."
- All families are different and have different income. There is no universal answer for “how much pocket money to give your kid” in numbers. Rooster Money, a resourcefully focused on how you should go about pocket money for your child, offers an Allowance Report. It says four-year-olds get an average of $2.82. This amount is slowly growing and doubles by the time the kid turns 9.
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“Even telling a joke or pulling a silly face will work”
Well, I tried that on my sister and she just went back to crying. It was like: 😭😭🤣😭😭
Lol 🎉
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whenever my daughter cries, I raise my arms for hug, then she comes running towards me everytime.
Do you give her what she cries for?
That means your child doesn't have behavior problems. Congratulations.
@@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 ok for me i would probably not but i would later
I have a brother and I care for him like l am his mother . He is very precious for me, I love him so much 🤗🤗
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Everything sounds Easy, until you deal with a Child
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Absolutely
I’m shivering already
Jeez when they said “We should know our enemy well enough to defeat it” I thought they were referring to the child. 😂
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BTW Are you a mom ?
@Emi 😂😂😂👍👍 me too! Sshhh
*defeat the child*
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XD LOL UWU
Parenting is the most important job you will ever have.
And it Doesn't pay you so don't have kids
Save the earth by not contributing to overpopulation
In all seriousness your choice I was saying what I think
That is so true
@@monicalal6575 "overpopulation"
Mhm try and tell this to indians or africans, watch reaction.
I am in my 33, and i have 4 wonderful blessed children, i am very proud of my self seeing this video, coz i apply some of this things to my kids, and i pray for God to help them live life in the right way Amen, coz some children have it all in life e.g. education and money, but some of them still mess up and live a bad choice of life, God help our children and the one's that are yet to come Amen
Bright side is horrible for advice.
That said I didn't watch this video yet. Maybe I will. Or not.
Just an 11 year old lying in bed thinking, “Wow, I gotta remember this for my future kids!”
Same but im not 11
Actually my situation is the same but im 9
Same but not 11 10
@@wish1510 seriously 😮
I am 13
I always say 'I love you' whenever my child starts to cry, then he stop for a moment and say 'I love you so much, Love ( then he hug me)'.. I don't know when I started that trick but it's effective 😂
Jhean Regalado sometimes kids just need to know you’re there with love and support ❤️
Thanks for this tip, I'm going to try it on my 2 year old son.
It's nice when your child gives u a hug and shows appreciation
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that's beautiful!
TIMESTAMPS
Make your child feel comfortable 1:21
Let your toddler choose 2:08
Find out what's really bothering your kid 2:58
Distract your little one 3:40
Become a good teacher for your kid 4:23
Do not provoke tantrums 5:20
Use positive words 5:56
Keep a straight face 6:30
Give praise when the kid deserves it 7:00
Be smart about the pocket money 7:38
1 because I’m cool
Thank you
Love the stats to help parents know that tantrums are common and are to be expected. As parents we can shift our expectation to be more realistic about what we will have to deal with. Over the last 3 decades of raising my 6 kids, I’ve tried all of these things and more! I share my experiences and lessons learned on my channel. I agree with these tips - well said!
Actually most of the people who watch this have no parenting responsibilities, they seem to be older siblings wanting to figure out how to calm the younger siblings so they can stay on social media.
You are sooo true 💜
I am watching this just to calm my little sis 😌
Not to stay on social media but to raise them better than i been raised
Lol I don't even have any siblings and I'm watching this. Strange
I’m watching this as a kid I’m the youngest but I’m so mad how people are being a big mean to us 😭
i'm watching this to calm my brother and i'm a middle child but i'm the second mom.
I'm a kid.
Now I know my parents tricks
It'zYoBoiRay 😀😁😂
It'zYoBoiRay me too;-)
RNG ik
you've hacked the parent database of information. Next he will find our secret headquarters! Get him!
RNG , me too 😂😂😂😂
Funny
Preparation when going to the store
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“Don’t ask for nothing, don’t touch nothing”
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Amen
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Are you suspicious about your kids online activities?
Wanna find out what they have been doing all day staring at their phones screen?
Or wanna know if they communicate with people you won't approve if you knew about it?
Or are you just concerned about your child's security and want your child's online privacy safe simply message @cyber_0verid3 now to proceed.
**Watches the video**
Later: Oh wait, I don't have kids.
exactly- I turned 9 2 days ago- I
Caitlin Revell im 13
ZMysterious
Ok thanks
If you have a bratty sister (like I do) or a little cousin, this is helpful
True story!
These tips helped me a lot with my children, understand them and teach them to be better children.
who is already a parent and find this video very useful and true like this!
Be loving. “Do not be provoking your children, so that they do not become downhearted.”
One of the biggest ways to manage behavior is to avoid triggering it in the first place :-) Parents can help avoid tantrums and meltdowns by building a strong and positive relationship with their child, teaching emotional regulation skills in a fun way and practicing them regularly, and changing how they interact with their child. All this takes more work on the front end, but pays off in a big way pretty quickly.
Number ONE : do not put a child on this world if you don't intend to stop working. You can not be a parent for only eight weeks. Tantrums are often just a way to get your attention for at least a minute because mommy or daddy is always "busy" Children need a lot of time with relaxed parents.
I am in my 26, and i have 1 son, I am very proud of my self seeing this video. Thumbs up!
Working in childcare helped me with some of these. And it’s going to help for when I have kids. Sooner rather than later.
#1. A solid diet and avoid addictive substances such as sugar.
#2. A healthy sleep pattern.
#3. Don’t be so controlling, let them explore sometimes.
#4. Praise the good things they do.
My oldest has social anxiety, so generally her problem isn’t not getting what she wants, it’s too much unfamiliarity. So I keep her focused on me and objects around her.
David Whitfield great advice. Better than ignorant parents quickly whip out the belt
Warrior Lovato the sugar thing is so underrated. It really does help to decrease sugar intake. Thanks for your comment ☺️
These are huge! Sleep and Diet! Works wonders for humans, who would have thought that children are humans right? It's okay to make a mess and get dirty sometimes.
Sleep is more important. Let her sleep longer, don't send her to public schooling. She won't learn anything.
My 4 year-old daughter has always had, and still has, crying/tantrum episodes every single day. it’s humiliating. Bedtime is so stressful EVERY DAY! And this is not the only time she is out of control. I have tried it all; routine, stories, positive reinforcement, games, etc., still, nothing works. We can't figure it out...we would appreciate your input... I'm all ears!!! Thanks!!!
We raised three children in the 1980's. Yes, I did a lot of these things. Good advice!
I'm so glad to found this video, can't wait to try this awesome advices.
I taught primary, middle, and hush school and sign language worked wonders...at as my age I say use it 👍🏽
Thank you so much my imaginary kids just would not stop screaming
Naruto Fan why is this so true 😂 literally came to this video because of the only idea I have of kids . Just tantrums .
Same bro
Watching these to successfully succeed in raising my toddler
It’s so funny when I wasn’t a parent. I was the best parent in the world 😂. Parenting is hard work but so worth it! I love my son more than anything I could ever imagine, and love him more and more daily ❤️
It has worked for me without a doubt I have been able to calm my son, it works very well
I wish my parents knew this when I was a child
Hey atleast u can use these now!
I hope you are doing okay now ❤
I always try not to repeat my parent's mistakes when it comes to parenting my own child
Me too
Whenever I see a kid throwing a tantrum in public, I say, "Don't be a grouch!"; in sign language! It works wonders! The kids stop the tantrum to try to figure out what I'm doing.
that's so smart!
Are you suspicious about your kids online activities?
Wanna find out what they have been doing all day staring at their phones screen?
Or wanna know if they communicate with people you won't approve if you knew about it?
Or are you just concerned about your child's security and want your child's online privacy safe simply message @cyber_0verid3 now to proceed.
loved the video thanks for the guidance I have a small son and I really needed it. I will be aware of your content
Love the token ideas as it is safe that they wont buying anything without parent;s knowledge. Thank you Bright side
Why Am I , a 15 year old, who is not even an adult or a Parent watching this video? Strange...
Same lol
I am 13😂
i only cry when i miss someone and not even that loud!
Love this advice !!!❣️
Thought I'd check this out to see if there's anything different from when I brought my kids up. Nope! Lots of love and attention it's not difficult!
As I see parents nowadays will give their child an IPad then boom! You can't hear anything from them until you keep the IPad
JordanJcv Gaming
Same
JordanJcvヨルダン correct and its pretty difficult to keep them away as we ourselves use cellphones too much
But it's not a good idea to always give them the ipad
Michelle Jung Agree
I'm married but I don't have a child still . I'm watching this video to get prepared when he or she comes... 😊😊😊
hopefully
I feel blessed that my daughter doesnt demand she asks questions a lot of them. I thank her mother for that. I take my daughter out on walks on my days off and teach her not to be scared. To climb a hill and at the end look over the hill and see how far she's Come. She's now almost eight. I still ask myself if Im doing the right thing she doesn't ask for anything. She's just Curious. Never sulks. I'm blessed but I wonder if she's too sheltered
That was my first time I heard a woman speaking in Bright Side. The Woman's voice is awesome. I wish she make another video with her special voice
the 10 Parenting Tips to Calm Down Any Child In a Minute
video is very nice I love this video
I always say 'I love you' whenever my child starts to cry, then he stops for a moment and say 'I love you so much, Love ( then he hug me)'. I don't know when I started that trick but it's effective
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thank you bright side
Great list. Almost everything is Attachment Parenting style, which is already scientifically proven to raise a child that is more positive and happier. (Except #3 and #1)
When I was 4 I was thinking about stuff you wouldn’t imagine 4 year olds to think about and yes I can remember
As a parent unknowingly im doing all of them. 😊😊
Thank you for sharing this video. Keep doing more videos.
Thanks for sharing this
Super job
Excellent tips @BrightSide
The most important thing is to understand why your child is crying or throwing tantrums. There may be many reasons behind this. But to start with, you need to start communicating with your child on a daily basis. Communication doesn't necessarily happen verbally but by also showing your warmth and love towards your child.
Sometimes the child doesn't know.
A child can be childish.
ya its nice video. many children have difficulty regulating their emotions. Tantrums, outbursts, whining, defiance, fighting: these are all behaviors you see when kids experience powerful feelings they can’t control. While some kids have learned to act out because it gets them what they want - attention or time on the iPad - other kids have trouble staying calm because they are unusually sensitive.
I'm a kid and I watch these and I think the token thing is a good idea
Fun fact : most of the people watching this are not actually parents, there older siblings trying to find out how to calm down there younger sibling so they can get there phone back.
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😂😂😂I'm only 12 lol
@@Criselle307 i am 14
Bright side is the brightest channel! :D
Love this advice !!!
I don't have kids, But I do have a Sister who's throwing tantrums every single DAY!
And I'm so glad I found this video!
To be honest
The most hurtful and moooooossst painful and emotional thing that your parents can say is that
"You where a mistake"
I'm not a parent trying to deal with kids, more like trying to calm my own childish random tantru-
😂
Ahahahah sa-
Great video! My family fun kits are another great way to turn a child’s plight into play! They are filled with fun but educational games and toys that will have your child distracted in minutes! ❤️
I have 2 toddlers and I needed this video so badly. Helppppp !!!!! 🤣🙄🙄
My mom never thanked me for anything! As she saw it she didn't need to say thank you so as a result I stopped doing things for her.
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I got 20 ct a week as a 6 year old😂 and I loved it😉
Bright side always has bright ideas☄☄
Thanks
Why am I watching this in still to Young to have kids 😁 I am in my mid teens
It could help with siblings or if you babysit, though, right?
I’m 13
you won't regret taking notes.
You're also to young to make a coherent sentence
Gracie Jones same
I’m 10 and I’m watching this to calm my sister down
Oooo
really if it work then it's very helpful to parents. awesome way . I hope it's work. thank you.
"Tantrums are very common in kids aged 1 to 4." And also among adults. They just act up in more subtle ways, e.g. loud talking, pointless bickering, endless B.S., etc.
Like I say..
"We were all once our enemy"
I can’t believe I have to watch this video !! My 3 year old is driving me crazy !
Thank you
1:00 me when the WiFi goes down or doesn’t work lol
Stop spoiling them and saying yes to everything, my kids are good
wow excellent recommendations, I have a small child and these tips help me, I prodre them in practice, thanks
Great video thank you very much for sharing
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I don't have any kids most definitely will keep this in mind for the future
6:33 Whaaat. How do you do that. I have a baby sister when I keep a straight face she makes a cute, innocent face and I start laughing.
Frooty Ahmed no one can keep a straight face while a child is being silly in front of you 😊
It's called being a mature adult
I’m 15 why tf I’m I watching this 😂
So you can be prepared for a spawned demon child
Im 9
Because u r arse hole
I'm 13
10
Amazing video... As see parents nowadays will give their child an IPad then boom! You can't hear anything from them until you keep the IPad
Thank you for sharing this video with us ❣️
"If you get out of the middle of the 4 lane highway, I'll give you a cookie. Pretty please!"
who are kids and watching this
Me
Half these comments are like " Hah here's the solution : don't have kids!" Bruh why are you talking because you don't even know where kids come from ur like 5
This is so true. Try to give them a healthy diet and foods without red dye.Cut out caffeine. Plenty of rest helps as well.
very true information thanks
Why am I watching this? I don't have kids or even younger siblings
Elis Sweet someone got plans :p
Elis Sweet idk I have the same reason not to watch this
Elis Sweet me too
Elis Sweet same
I'm watching for my imaginary kids 😀
Not spoiling them
Having children is great... As long as you treat the with respect... Love..... Honesty.... And teach them how to be kind, Care, love and respect other. And Never Ever spoil them ...... Because if you just cave and give them whatever just get your children to stop crying..
Think acting is ok.....No..... parenting is not easy all admit...but it is important to Kwon it can get better
Belt time baby
This helped me a lot
Hello
0:14 me when my phone dies.
You need Duracell power bank.
Thanks for sharing this video
Why do i feel like more kid's are watching this than parents?
Serious question, why do children watch this?
೦ because we are bored
Maybe they want to know if their parents way is correct or not towards themselves or their siblings.
Got no idea
I’m bored
Honestly for me I watch these so when I’m a dad I’m not going in headfirst and clueless. I’m 16 btw
Let’s all be real.....
No adults are watching this🤣
I'm watching it n I'm an adult
I am 🤔
Adult here :)
I'm 26 and I have a 2 year old daughter, so I'm clearly an adult
I just login on my kids roblox and spend all their money and rearrange their house then go into their Minecraft world and go to town with some lava buckets and a diamond pickax
I'm not a parent but still watching.
Nah! I can't even distract her sometimes, so I let her cry for awhile. Thank you for this video it is helpful to me. I'm a mom of a 23 months old daughter. ☺