Hey I just wanted to remind U that u are worthy and I hope u become the best version of yourself again! U deserve it. I was “that girl” too and fell into a deep depression and remained being a lazy bitch for 3 years now I’m finally reclaiming who tf I am ! I hope u decide to make the change too !
1. Sleep schedule 2. Wake up early + make bed 3. Skincare 4. Journal (gratitude, to do list) 5. Drink a lot (lemon water) 6. Morning walk + podcast 7. Workout 8. Get ready 9. Breakfast 10. Start work 11. Reading 12. Lunch (healthy, smoothie) Being “that” girl has a lot to do with your mindset:)
That girl according to me: 1) wake up at 4am 2) make your own healthy breakfast 3) go for a walk on the roof 4) workout 5) studying more 6) cleaning my room 7) learning a third language 8) reading 9) bathing everyday 💀 10) dressing up nice everyday 11) drinking a lot 12) cooking something at least once everyday
@@ilysm-i9g 😂 yeah, I noticed that whenever I go on the roof in the morning, I feel fresh. I just put on songs and eat something I make, roam here and there and sit when I get tired. It's like a place where I get my mind together and plan some things. And my roof is big enough for me to be able to walk a bit. Once a dog bit me and now I'm scared of them, so that's why I don't go out alone in the morning, and also because I'm young and my mom doesn't allow me to go out if she's sleeping
I've been ,,that girl" for 9 days now, I am so happy honestly :) I used to be on phone all day, eat unhealthy,snack a lot,sleep at 5am,never workout...now I fixed all these things, bit by bit and I am still starting my journey but so far, I have never been happier for myself than I am now :)
I think my version “that girl” is about implementing small habits that gradually add up, today I woke up at 11 am, ate instant ramen, in all scenarios this would be considered an unsuccessful day, but I also started exercising today and took a shower, it’s all about building these small habits that will help your physical and mental health, today wasn’t perfect, but it was better than yesterday and that’s all that matters :3
I feel like being “that girl” is really about you just getting your shit together, leveling up, and striving to be the best version of you. Whatever that may be!❤️
I do workout everyday I eat vegetables and have lemon drink everyday I do around 7k-10k steps ALMOST everyday And I also take care of my skin and complete my assignments This is my type of “that girl”
i love how you keep reminding us that being “that girl” doesn’t have to be aesthetic and it’s more about how you wanna feel or what you want to do while being productive. awesome video!!
I became ‘that girl’ about three months ago for a week, I was recovering from depression and told myself to take baby steps, at that time being ‘that girl’ for me was showering more often and brushing my teeth twice a day again and that sort of stuff. It helped SO MUCH setting up my routines again. Now I’m probably gonna try being that girl again but now focusing on productivity and health :)) being ‘that girl’ is just setting the first step to setting up good habits
I was becoming that girl before that girl trend lol It was after my break up in 2019. I used to wake up early do skincare Eat healthy fruits and vegetables also changing my mindset was best thing I did. But it was not that aesthetic like they show. Somedays I used to cry to heal and let out. Somedays I just used to stay in bed watch my fave movie and do nothing productive. But I felt better. I think balance is more important than being extreme.
“that girl” trend is actually the best trend i’ve seen on social media. it encourages people to eat healthy, work out, take care of yourself etc. people who bash on it just cant accept that there are better versions of themself they can strive for. edit: alright to be honest my original comment is a little harsh - I guess what I wanted to imply is that most people who criticize the trend don't seem to want to believe/or accept that there are different ways they can live their lives and things they can do that will make their health, mentally or physically better. I absolutely believe in doing whatever tf you want (be it play video games on your free time or eat ice cream when you want to) and you do you! We all deserve to take a breather for ourselves. However I notice how better I feel when I ""jumped"" into the trend (Which is basically just supporting a healthy lifestyle like eating greens, working out, wear lesser make up, read etc). Now I feel so much better since i'm eating healthier, working out often, taking care of my skin, etc. I just believe that out of the many trends that has ever come and go, the 'that girl' trend doesn't deserve as much criticism as it receives, because in the end of the day it really is just promoting wellbeing.
Not really, you could search up some videos on why people criticise the that girl trend. A lot of the criticism seems pretty valid to me. There are both good and bad sides to this trend, as with everything else.
@@chalkandrubble5702 to me honestly, taking care of yourself shouldn't even be a trend, or fashionable... Like brushing your teeth or washing... It should be natural. What else I don't like, is the genralisation. Like, all of these girls eat avocado, do yoga, drink a lotta water... No originality, no diversity... I just realized that I've been THAT girl for years, without it even becoming a trend. Plus, not everyone can afford avocado. In Russia for instance it's a pretty expensive and rare vegetable (yes scientists consider it a fruit, but idgad)
'taking care of yourself' isn't always waking up at 4 am to workout, eating a salad for lunch and being pressured into having a flawless lifestyle.. sometimes it's sleeping a little more and watching your favorite tv series while eating chocolate chip cookies, and that's honestly perfectly fine
@@krullewietje Wasting time watching TV, eating unhealthy food, not exercising and calling it self-care - sounds more like excuses for self-abandonment, escapism and recklessness to your onw life quality and wellbeing. There is so much tasty, healthy, vegan food, you'll feel and be better doing actual, healthy self-care and getting stuff done and relax in mindful, healthy ways, like walking, sports, meditation.
@@user-xj4yv3qo3v im sorry but you're unknowingly proving how unnuanced the whole 'that girl' trend is..... Watching tv or doing anything merely for your own enjoyment = wasting time, eating a chocolate chip cookie = making an unhealthy food decision, sleeping a little more = time you could have spent on exercise or 'being productive'. How is any of this a healthy mindset? to me this way of thinking would fit more with extreme perfectionism and i doubt it could ever truly contribute to long term happiness. An actual healthy lifestyle to me is about balance and being able to enjoy certain things without guilt. This ain't it
honestly theres nothing wrong with that as long as you're getting enough sleep! 30 minutes is also definitely enough time to get ready for school, shower, eat breakfast etc.
Thank you for emphasizing that "that girl" is personalized and in different perceptions and that there are no set routines or aesthetic, this is honestly something I'm still struggling and figuring out - my personal aesthetic/preferences doesn't quite fit the normal image we see on tiktok or pinterest. "That girl" that we should aim to be is the best version of our own selves that we imagine for us. We can take inspiration and ideas from others, but we don't have to follow another person's routine or image to a T!
The "that girl" trend reminds me a lot of Aristotle's goal towards eudaimonia. A eudaimonistic lifestyle is one where you are constantly trying to improve yourself and learn new things. The only difference is portrayal. Eudaimonia is change within oneself, "that girl" is change for display. Of course, people interpret "that girl" differently, but since it is based in socials it is deeply intertwined with crafting aesthetic moments. Personally, I think that someone trying to be a "that girl" will be more dedicated at first (in comparison to a eudaimonistic strive) because they can clearly see life changes just in their camera roll. Though eventually, I would guess that eudaimonia wins out since, after all, "that girl" is a trend and trends fade.
I love how to added in how to make it plant-based, like you didn’t have to do that & yet you were being thoughtful. So sweet and helpful for plant based viewers !
so basically being "that girl" is just being the best version of yourself, the happiest and healthiest version u can be? i think ill start being healthier once college starts, I'm just going to enjoy lazy girl summer and going to sleep at 6 am waking up at 3pm for now 😌
I agree so hard with that! There's so much pressure to be your best self all the time but sometimes you just need to exist and enjoy the ride without all that pressure and guilt for not being 'that girl'
@@이지민-j5w that girl is just a phrase for girls who have a “healthy” life routine like eating fresh foods, going to sleep & waking up early, exercising/doing yoga/ mediating. It’s not an actual person !!
2 months. Consistent gym training, got a pt, doing good at work, finished uni year well, go sleep before midnight, clean room (5 months of a clean room now), no dating apps or pursuing anything im not ready for, skincare on point, growing out nails, hair and nail appointment booked, holidays booked and planned and ready as well as often going to cafés myself to relax with an americano and my drawing tablet and walk the 10k steps. Best time of my life, I want all my life to stay this way. I'm so proud and happy. Just started journaling again and everything is falling into place. Being 'THAT' girl is just finally focusing on pleasing myself and not everyone else. I need me time and that's more than okay. Loved the video might try waking p at 6am this summer? that'd be a real challenge for me
I am living this so called "that girl" lifestyle and it has improved my mental and physical health, my confidence and my overall life but I understand that it doesn't work for everyone specially if you have to force it, it should be natural and it shouldn't be seen as the ideal, everyone has a different routine, different jobs, financial and housings situations and overall different lifestyles so please don't compare and just enjoy your life as you please and let these types of videos just inspire you :)
for me it started out as an aesthetic but now i’m trying my hardest to become a version of myself i love, everyday gets better and better and i’m trying to discipline myself
I was already loving the video, but you won me over completely with the "afternoon-evening That Girl" at the end!! Because everyone IS different, and you can still have an enriching and productive day even if your schedule tends to happen later on, and that's something I've never seen anyone else mention before! Great video! 💕💕
As a teenage girl who is really invested into achieving this I feel like it's easy to look and and say "Oh yeah, i can do this for years" and then in the reality I only got through 3 days because of certain factors. I am a fit girl but I want to change my routine to better healthy habits. Anyone can do this. I spend most of my time looking at this videos. Not just motivation but knowing I can achieve this as a everyone schedule. Remember, it is not easy but it's possible to achieve for anyone just take steps :)
The "That Girl" trend encompasses yourself, and the people in your life. I just cut a toxic friend out of my life, who was constantly trying to mold me into a version of me that he approved of. I've been scared to do this for a year because I didn't have the confidence to stand up for myself. Now he's out, I feel relieved and like I've just taken a massive step towards improving my well being! Make sure your life is full of people who support you in being "That Girl" too ☺️
I was “that girl” early last year and depression hit me so hard (again) and I added a ton of weight and wasn’t taking care of myself spiritually nor physically. I’m trying to be that girl again now :)!
Unpopular opinion: “that girl” seems different to everyone and it could be a little bit toxic to people who are perfectionist or people who are always comparing themselves to others, remember that your best version is not the one that everyone shows on social media, your best version is the one when you can be at peace and balance in every part of your life, send you lots of love
Im a 16 year old girl, from today I am going to try my best to be 'that girl' for MYSELF and not for praise from others. No more sleeping at 1am and waking up at 6:30, no more irregular showering schedule, no more lack of exercise etc. I am going to start respecting my body for once!
if you see the THAT girl trend and actually works towards your better self, then it’s very beneficial. if you just consume the content and stay in inaction, that’s when useless comparison kicks in and it becomes detrimental. the trend in itself is not good or bad; it’s about your reaction to it
I was in these moments for months workin out....reading....wakin up early....having breakfast.....going to work early and so on and my daily life was boosting up....but now i became lazy and i feel my body also changing but i will start being "that girl" thank you sis🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
to me, being "that girl" is all about just doing whatever you can to make your mindset better. Take me for example, lately, I have not been the way I want to be. I have been not too happy and bubbly and that's because of my mental state. I have plans to begin being "that girl" on Thursday, (because I am moving soon and tomorrow is too hectic) but I have always wanted to try this. I just need someone to encourage me to do so.
I’m going to try to give “being that girl” a different perspective, many may say it’s toxic, but this trend started as a way for people to romanticize the healthy life style because it was seen as boring and associated negatively so people decided to shed light on the possible beauty and simplicity of it to make that life style approachable. Unfortunately it became a trend to the point where the concept itself became overwhelming and negative. But just try to remember where it originally came from, if you’re ever thinking badly about it and putting yourself down about not being able to have it this trend itself is not a lifestyle! Keep doing you.
I've been doing my own "that girl" routine for about 3 months now and I just adore it! Watching you do yours really inspired me, and it's helped mee find my best self. I wish you luck on your journey!
I read a quote that motivated me to workout more. it was, "in 2 weeks you will feel it, in 4 weeks you will see it, and in 8 weeks you will hear it." Totally got me motivated, and I hope it motivated you! you got this, and I believe in you!
I'm a boy fighting multiple disabilities. But I'm very inspired by things like these. I want to learn to take care of myself that well, with the aid of my smarthome (apartment). I want to finish my studying and try to open my own business.
I am entering my "that girl era" i just left my job, ive started going to therapy (i have a lot of savings rn) and im just trying to do little things to help me eat a little better and try and get a little exercise in each day :3 for me, i am much more motivated to do a little exercise if i have a cute workout outfit because then i feel good about how i look while getting exercise
I loved this video so much ... I saw this and got motivated, worked out after a long time, ate healthy and on time... Even went for a little essentials shopping, did self care... Tysm... I loved your vibe it's the first video I saw of your channel and now I'm binge watching all
Now you’ve said this, I realise how “white single 20-something girl” this routine is 😆 If it’s not rude to ask, what about being an Indian would especially make this routine harder? 🙂
It's totally normal and natural to go through periods in your life that inhibit you from living your optimal life, however, you shouldn't feel less than enough during these stages! Don't defer your happiness into the future just because you can't adhere to this or any other schedule, you can still be just as happy right now
i have been 'that girl' for almost all of my childhood til highschool, but when i got into college with covid going on, i felt really messed up from being down and anxious almost all of the time. I tried getting my shit together last week, and when I knew about 'that girl' yesterday, and how it received some negative comments, i felt attacked and made me felt like an imposter for being this someone that I was conditioned to be. This video made me realized again that it's okay to be 'that girl'. tbh, i felt a lot healthier back then and i wanted to do it again for myself. thank you for this video, this made me reassure myself that it's fine being 'that girl'.
i love being "that girl" i was it for like 2 months but just got reslly unmotivated so now i am trying to get back into that and i absolutely love it it just is amazing and its a better version of you!!
Aah I love this! In my case being that girl means: waking up at 6 am, eating healthy, studying, reading, practising the piano for at least 2h a day, meditating and spending as much time as possible in nature🌿
i love how you not make it one thing only. THAT GIRL can be honestly anything that make you feel good, thats importnant too underline that, i think you id it amazingly. it was such a great video
you seeing the positive in the "that girl routine" made me subscribe. too many people, in my personal opinion, are so sensitive and lazy that they think having a productive daily routine and eating healthier portions of good, non processed foods is toxic. don't be mad at the people who are healthy and don't be mad at yourself for not being like the "perfect picture" you see of someone, we all have bad days, so focusing on the good is what gets you through it.
Girl you are AMAZING! I always wanna be the best version of myself, but it is indeed rlly hard to follow the rigorous routine daily. Now u motivated me a lot, and I will defo try it. I hope all girls can be what they wanna be!!!!💗💗
This video is amazing! I love your energy and vibe. The fact that you compiled everything in one video instead of spreading it out is very helpful! The "that girl" is something I've always wanted to and you made it easier for me thank you again!
I love the that girl trend. I lot a lot from other people! I hate journalling and yoga and I skip that stuff but I got introduced to an awesome meditation night routine thanks to a that girl! ❤️
I beat my deppression after 3 years and I've realised that I'm just wasting my lifetime so I decided to change my lifestyle and become successful of course not everyday can be perfect but I'm trying as hard as I can to make them perfect.
I like “that girl” bc it’s adaptable to the individual. Waking up early doesn’t have to be a goal you need, but optimizing your sleep schedule benefits your overall health. Hydrating and eating foods that make you feel good and that you enjoy are very important too! Working out can actually give you a cognitive boost and help you get started on whatever work you do but it’s important not to set unrealistic goals. I have a Pinterest board on very low impact mobility workouts that suit my own needs. Reading and journaling are brain workouts and help you work things out for yourself, and you can read anything you want. But the most important thing is setting goals you can easily achieve and growing them gradually so you can maintain the momentum for yourself.
I believe being « that girl » is an idealization and a stereotype of that perfect girl who wakes up at 5 am, meditate, journaling.. and some people just don’t relate to it or don’t want to be her. What if instead we were just being ourselves ? Our own girl? With the routines, goals and mindset that relates to us without feeling any pressure to be perfect or any type of way. Remember that it’s ok to take breaks and nobody is perfect. Take care of yourself. ❤️
I am so subscribing. I watched like 50 videos and this was the only one that made sense. Thanks for going chronologically and making it so wonderful to watch.
"That girl concept is really good for those who practically want to see positive growth in their lives..not just in dream"...when i take care of myself...pamper myself...help needy , make my day absolutely productive i really feel so so satisfied and occupied...i just love that feeling ...its like spending a successful day💚💙
I’m my own “that girl” I do whatever I want, and wake up when I want to. My room aren’t always clean, and I don’t do my skincare everyday, and that’s the good way for me to live🙃🦋
Omgg!!! I have finished reading the throne of glass and ordered the court of throne and roses I just can't wait!!!! that one book in the video has given you a big like.
@@VanessaTiiu I am so excited!! I even read rick Riordan books they r so amazing.. you should try them start with Percy Jackson and the Olympians series.. 😊👍
@@VanessaTiiu If i could give a hundred more likes i surely would.. just you being a huge fan of these books makes me wanna do it.. love your channel and you! 💖❤
I am so glad that this "that girl" trend exists. People say tik tok is toxic but for me its not, I choose what to watch. I changed a lot, am happier, kinder, more positive because of this trend. Journaling, working out, being active does wonders.
I’m glad I clicked on this video. It inspired me to become a better version of myself…starting from tomorrow! I subscribed and really am hoping to see your channel grow 🙂
SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE!!! What's something you're looking forward to? ☀️🌊
What i eat in a day!
swimming in water all day!! and having a summer routine :))
Becoming that girl and changing my clothes style
OMG I was searching for a video like this wow congrats❤
Sleeping
i feel like "that girl" is definitely a mindset. if you are glowing from the inside, people will see that
yes!! i completely agree!
Trueeee, if you love yourself on the inside.. .it will definitely reflect on the outside
I love this comment so much
Yes ma’am 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
My dad is living "that girl" life on a budget without instagram, photos or socal media
I used to be "that girl" and then I got burnt out. Now I am fighting depression. Please remind yourself that you are worthy in spite of your failures.
Hey I just wanted to remind U that u are worthy and I hope u become the best version of yourself again! U deserve it. I was “that girl” too and fell into a deep depression and remained being a lazy bitch for 3 years now I’m finally reclaiming who tf I am ! I hope u decide to make the change too !
me as well. we got this bestie
@@kaitlynloucks1097 I 2nd that and same 2 u
@@kaitlynloucks1097 thanks so much for your support ❣️ wishing you the best 🙏
Let's keep on fighting!
true, "THAT GIRL" perception is different for different people, and it also motivates one to work towards the best version of themselves.
Yes exactly!! 🥰🥰
This is definitely me ❤️
But it shouldn't be a trend.
@@aimeejane_writings to work towards the best version of yourself?
Jesus loves you!
them: * wakes up at 5am *
me: * *sTILL AWAKE AT 5AM, WATCHING VIDEOS ON HOW TO BE "THAT" GIRL* *
me right now😭
me toooooooooo girl haha
Ah yes, 5:25am. Better watching this that actually ending myself
It's 2a.m and yes same sis 😭
Hahahah me
1. Sleep schedule
2. Wake up early + make bed
3. Skincare
4. Journal (gratitude, to do list)
5. Drink a lot (lemon water)
6. Morning walk + podcast
7. Workout
8. Get ready
9. Breakfast
10. Start work
11. Reading
12. Lunch (healthy, smoothie)
Being “that” girl has a lot to do with your mindset:)
thank u for writing it down
More like having a lot of free time and being rich
That girl according to me:
1) wake up at 4am
2) make your own healthy breakfast
3) go for a walk on the roof
4) workout
5) studying more
6) cleaning my room
7) learning a third language
8) reading
9) bathing everyday 💀
10) dressing up nice everyday
11) drinking a lot
12) cooking something at least once everyday
@@anniemannie6 walk on the roof??? 💀💀
@@ilysm-i9g 😂 yeah, I noticed that whenever I go on the roof in the morning, I feel fresh. I just put on songs and eat something I make, roam here and there and sit when I get tired. It's like a place where I get my mind together and plan some things. And my roof is big enough for me to be able to walk a bit. Once a dog bit me and now I'm scared of them, so that's why I don't go out alone in the morning, and also because I'm young and my mom doesn't allow me to go out if she's sleeping
I've been ,,that girl" for 9 days now, I am so happy honestly :) I used to be on phone all day, eat unhealthy,snack a lot,sleep at 5am,never workout...now I fixed all these things, bit by bit and I am still starting my journey but so far, I have never been happier for myself than I am now :)
Congrats! I hope you can keep that up :)
Yay!! You're killing it queen 🥰
Proud of u
CONGRATSSS !!! UHM if it's ok to ask, what is ur routine or maybe what things do u do in the day
You go girl!!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Honestly for me being "that girl" is just taking care of myself and do what's best for my wellbeing
Get it girl, and keep doing that!!
same!
RIGHT, people keep saying it’s toxic, but it’s only toxic if you make it toxic! All it is is bringing out the ultimate version of you, nothing else!
@@sapphodil3154 true
Describe the best.
Finally a trend that’s not toxic
it might not be toxic but it is definitely not attainable for most women that have to work / have children etc.
@@marleneknits no but that’s the thing it is attainable... that mindset hinders a lot of people
@@marleneknits being that girl is a mindset it’s about self care, improvement, and loving yourself!!!
For real tho
F I N A L L Y
I think my version “that girl” is about implementing small habits that gradually add up, today I woke up at 11 am, ate instant ramen, in all scenarios this would be considered an unsuccessful day, but I also started exercising today and took a shower, it’s all about building these small habits that will help your physical and mental health, today wasn’t perfect, but it was better than yesterday and that’s all that matters :3
How does one climb a mountain? The same way he learned to walk. One step at a time.
y'all r so inspiring 😭 indeed, we should strive to be the best version of ourselves one day at a time ❤️
Jesus loves you❤️ruclips.net/video/vCoDTUXHMeg/видео.html❤️
If you simply manage to eat, that is a successful day
i love this comment omg
I feel like being “that girl” is really about you just getting your shit together, leveling up, and striving to be the best version of you. Whatever that may be!❤️
good luck to everyone on their journey to becoming “that girl” you can do it!
Thank you
I’m starting a channel to share ideas for self care and tips to be “THAT GIRL” best version of yourself!! Support!!
Thank you so so much
TANKS!!!!
Thank you yes we can do it !
I do workout everyday
I eat vegetables and have lemon drink everyday
I do around 7k-10k steps ALMOST everyday
And I also take care of my skin and complete my assignments
This is my type of “that girl”
YASS GIRLL GO
im so happy for you :) keep being the best version of yourself!!
How old are you?
@@helenoftroy6650 I'm turning 15 this October
@@aarnachopdekar9490 oh nice
the intro was EVERYTHING omg
Ah thank you!! ❤️❤️
Literally made me so happy
What is the music
what is the song?
@@thomasgirls9074 ‘The King’ Sarah Kinsley
i love how you keep reminding us that being “that girl” doesn’t have to be aesthetic and it’s more about how you wanna feel or what you want to do while being productive. awesome video!!
Thank you!! I really tried to emphasize that and that it’s the habits you do and what makes YOU feel like that girl that makes you THAT girl ❤️
I became ‘that girl’ about three months ago for a week, I was recovering from depression and told myself to take baby steps, at that time being ‘that girl’ for me was showering more often and brushing my teeth twice a day again and that sort of stuff. It helped SO MUCH setting up my routines again. Now I’m probably gonna try being that girl again but now focusing on productivity and health :)) being ‘that girl’ is just setting the first step to setting up good habits
I was becoming that girl before that girl trend lol
It was after my break up in 2019. I used to wake up early do skincare Eat healthy fruits and vegetables also changing my mindset was best thing I did. But it was not that aesthetic like they show. Somedays I used to cry to heal and let out.
Somedays I just used to stay in bed watch my fave movie and do nothing productive. But I felt better. I think balance is more important than being extreme.
“that girl” trend is actually the best trend i’ve seen on social media. it encourages people to eat healthy, work out, take care of yourself etc. people who bash on it just cant accept that there are better versions of themself they can strive for.
edit: alright to be honest my original comment is a little harsh - I guess what I wanted to imply is that most people who criticize the trend don't seem to want to believe/or accept that there are different ways they can live their lives and things they can do that will make their health, mentally or physically better. I absolutely believe in doing whatever tf you want (be it play video games on your free time or eat ice cream when you want to) and you do you! We all deserve to take a breather for ourselves.
However I notice how better I feel when I ""jumped"" into the trend (Which is basically just supporting a healthy lifestyle like eating greens, working out, wear lesser make up, read etc). Now I feel so much better since i'm eating healthier, working out often, taking care of my skin, etc.
I just believe that out of the many trends that has ever come and go, the 'that girl' trend doesn't deserve as much criticism as it receives, because in the end of the day it really is just promoting wellbeing.
Not really, you could search up some videos on why people criticise the that girl trend. A lot of the criticism seems pretty valid to me. There are both good and bad sides to this trend, as with everything else.
@@chalkandrubble5702 to me honestly, taking care of yourself shouldn't even be a trend, or fashionable... Like brushing your teeth or washing... It should be natural. What else I don't like, is the genralisation. Like, all of these girls eat avocado, do yoga, drink a lotta water... No originality, no diversity... I just realized that I've been THAT girl for years, without it even becoming a trend. Plus, not everyone can afford avocado. In Russia for instance it's a pretty expensive and rare vegetable (yes scientists consider it a fruit, but idgad)
'taking care of yourself' isn't always waking up at 4 am to workout, eating a salad for lunch and being pressured into having a flawless lifestyle.. sometimes it's sleeping a little more and watching your favorite tv series while eating chocolate chip cookies, and that's honestly perfectly fine
@@krullewietje Wasting time watching TV, eating unhealthy food, not exercising and calling it self-care - sounds more like excuses for self-abandonment, escapism and recklessness to your onw life quality and wellbeing. There is so much tasty, healthy, vegan food, you'll feel and be better doing actual, healthy self-care and getting stuff done and relax in mindful, healthy ways, like walking, sports, meditation.
@@user-xj4yv3qo3v im sorry but you're unknowingly proving how unnuanced the whole 'that girl' trend is..... Watching tv or doing anything merely for your own enjoyment = wasting time, eating a chocolate chip cookie = making an unhealthy food decision, sleeping a little more = time you could have spent on exercise or 'being productive'. How is any of this a healthy mindset? to me this way of thinking would fit more with extreme perfectionism and i doubt it could ever truly contribute to long term happiness. An actual healthy lifestyle to me is about balance and being able to enjoy certain things without guilt. This ain't it
i'll definitely try be a "that" girl in summer break but for now its waking up 30 minutes before school🥴
same hun, same
sameeee
Same girl
I think I’m gonna have to shoot for next school year, I’m not doing to well 😟
honestly theres nothing wrong with that as long as you're getting enough sleep! 30 minutes is also definitely enough time to get ready for school, shower, eat breakfast etc.
HER SMILE IS SO ATTRACTIVE 🌙
Thank you for emphasizing that "that girl" is personalized and in different perceptions and that there are no set routines or aesthetic, this is honestly something I'm still struggling and figuring out - my personal aesthetic/preferences doesn't quite fit the normal image we see on tiktok or pinterest.
"That girl" that we should aim to be is the best version of our own selves that we imagine for us. We can take inspiration and ideas from others, but we don't have to follow another person's routine or image to a T!
The "that girl" trend reminds me a lot of Aristotle's goal towards eudaimonia. A eudaimonistic lifestyle is one where you are constantly trying to improve yourself and learn new things. The only difference is portrayal. Eudaimonia is change within oneself, "that girl" is change for display. Of course, people interpret "that girl" differently, but since it is based in socials it is deeply intertwined with crafting aesthetic moments. Personally, I think that someone trying to be a "that girl" will be more dedicated at first (in comparison to a eudaimonistic strive) because they can clearly see life changes just in their camera roll.
Though eventually, I would guess that eudaimonia wins out since, after all, "that girl" is a trend and trends fade.
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this was a joy to read! 💕
@@annajamal781 Truly!
Thanks for posting this. It was a good read, and there aren't as many of those in youtube comments as one would hope.
Agree 100%!!! Let’s also remember to help others! That will help us to become the best version of ourselves too🥰🥰
I love how to added in how to make it plant-based, like you didn’t have to do that & yet you were being thoughtful. So sweet and helpful for plant based viewers !
Of course!! I always get questions on plant based meals/recipes that now I always try to give the alternative if my recipe isn't plant based!
so basically being "that girl" is just being the best version of yourself, the happiest and healthiest version u can be? i think ill start being healthier once college starts, I'm just going to enjoy lazy girl summer and going to sleep at 6 am waking up at 3pm for now 😌
I agree so hard with that! There's so much pressure to be your best self all the time but sometimes you just need to exist and enjoy the ride without all that pressure and guilt for not being 'that girl'
@@lucymalpas1221 what's that girl? Am I the only person who don't know?
@@이지민-j5w it honestly doesnt even matter or really exist-being healthy isnt a personality anyway, the only girl u need to be is u
@@이지민-j5w that girl is just a phrase for girls who have a “healthy” life routine like eating fresh foods, going to sleep & waking up early, exercising/doing yoga/ mediating. It’s not an actual person !!
Nah, u won’t
2 months. Consistent gym training, got a pt, doing good at work, finished uni year well, go sleep before midnight, clean room (5 months of a clean room now), no dating apps or pursuing anything im not ready for, skincare on point, growing out nails, hair and nail appointment booked, holidays booked and planned and ready as well as often going to cafés myself to relax with an americano and my drawing tablet and walk the 10k steps. Best time of my life, I want all my life to stay this way. I'm so proud and happy. Just started journaling again and everything is falling into place. Being 'THAT' girl is just finally focusing on pleasing myself and not everyone else. I need me time and that's more than okay. Loved the video might try waking p at 6am this summer? that'd be a real challenge for me
I am living this so called "that girl" lifestyle and it has improved my mental and physical health, my confidence and my overall life but I understand that it doesn't work for everyone specially if you have to force it, it should be natural and it shouldn't be seen as the ideal, everyone has a different routine, different jobs, financial and housings situations and overall different lifestyles so please don't compare and just enjoy your life as you please and let these types of videos just inspire you :)
ive been lovinngggg watching these “that girl” videos!! i might just have to film one too haha
right!! i'm obsessed
Yesss do it I will watch it
Do it please I swear I will watch it!
Do it!
I just post my Becoming that girl if you want go cheek it.
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for me it started out as an aesthetic but now i’m trying my hardest to become a version of myself i love, everyday gets better and better and i’m trying to discipline myself
I learned that I literally am THAT girl and I didn't even know it 💁🏻♀️✨
Tell us your secret🥴😂
Same
We just need to be the best of ourselves
Yeessss you are Queen
Congratsss
Yayy that's the spirit queen🍓✨
I was already loving the video, but you won me over completely with the "afternoon-evening That Girl" at the end!! Because everyone IS different, and you can still have an enriching and productive day even if your schedule tends to happen later on, and that's something I've never seen anyone else mention before! Great video! 💕💕
As a teenage girl who is really invested into achieving this I feel like it's easy to look and and say "Oh yeah, i can do this for years" and then in the reality I only got through 3 days because of certain factors. I am a fit girl but I want to change my routine to better healthy habits. Anyone can do this. I spend most of my time looking at this videos. Not just motivation but knowing I can achieve this as a everyone schedule. Remember, it is not easy but it's possible to achieve for anyone just take steps :)
The "That Girl" trend encompasses yourself, and the people in your life. I just cut a toxic friend out of my life, who was constantly trying to mold me into a version of me that he approved of. I've been scared to do this for a year because I didn't have the confidence to stand up for myself. Now he's out, I feel relieved and like I've just taken a massive step towards improving my well being!
Make sure your life is full of people who support you in being "That Girl" too ☺️
i’m tryna become that girl and it’s almost summer. i’m so excited i start tomorrow and i’m gonna wake up at 5:45am💕
Yesssss go kill it queen!!
@@VanessaTiiu i did it!!!❤️
Same..!
@@barbzcult Wowww I'm so proud of youu
I was “that girl” early last year and depression hit me so hard (again) and I added a ton of weight and wasn’t taking care of myself spiritually nor physically.
I’m trying to be that girl again now :)!
Good luck cutie 🤍
Unpopular opinion: “that girl” seems different to everyone and it could be a little bit toxic to people who are perfectionist or people who are always comparing themselves to others, remember that your best version is not the one that everyone shows on social media, your best version is the one when you can be at peace and balance in every part of your life, send you lots of love
Honestly, that's my least favorite trend.
"That" girl looks like a soulless machine that only cares about superficial things.
"Being in PEACE and BALANCE in EVERY part of your life" well said👏👏👏
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Im a 16 year old girl, from today I am going to try my best to be 'that girl' for MYSELF and not for praise from others. No more sleeping at 1am and waking up at 6:30, no more irregular showering schedule, no more lack of exercise etc. I am going to start respecting my body for once!
as soon as the video started i just knew it was going to be good, your personality is so bubbly and this really inspired me!
ah thank you so much!!
"Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."
If you are reading this you are amazing keep smiling💜
#wise
“That girl” is based on perspective. But being that girl does help us in the long run as long as it’s healthy for you mentally and physically
I'm a 27 year old guy and I have no idea why I'm watching this
😂😂😂😂
To become "that boy"
you don't need to be a girl to be the best version of yourself 😀
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girl you are a ray of sunshine you project so much positivity energy the world needs more people like you
Aw wow thank you!
if you see the THAT girl trend and actually works towards your better self, then it’s very beneficial. if you just consume the content and stay in inaction, that’s when useless comparison kicks in and it becomes detrimental. the trend in itself is not good or bad; it’s about your reaction to it
Yess love that hot take
I love how positive this is and that being “that” girl has mostly to do with your mindset
ok but this is like the first time i've seen her in my life and i absoloutly love her
I was in these moments for months workin out....reading....wakin up early....having breakfast.....going to work early and so on and my daily life was boosting up....but now i became lazy and i feel my body also changing but i will start being "that girl" thank you sis🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
omgggggg UR EDITING AND FILMIMNG SKILLS IS JUST CHEF KISS
Ah thank you!!
@@VanessaTiiu 🥰🥰🥰
being “that girl” is literally one of the best mindsets i could’ve asked for✨🍃.
to me, being "that girl" is all about just doing whatever you can to make your mindset better. Take me for example, lately, I have not been the way I want to be. I have been not too happy and bubbly and that's because of my mental state. I have plans to begin being "that girl" on Thursday, (because I am moving soon and tomorrow is too hectic) but I have always wanted to try this. I just need someone to encourage me to do so.
Go for it bestie and update us
You can do it !!
Definitely up for 'afternoon - evening' "that girl" routine 🖤🖤love your videos✨
Thank you girl!! 🥰
Saaaame. My “that girl” ain’t doin shit at 6am but sleeping 😂 If the sun isn’t up, neither am I!!
I’m going to try to give “being that girl” a different perspective, many may say it’s toxic, but this trend started as a way for people to romanticize the healthy life style because it was seen as boring and associated negatively so people decided to shed light on the possible beauty and simplicity of it to make that life style approachable. Unfortunately it became a trend to the point where the concept itself became overwhelming and negative. But just try to remember where it originally came from, if you’re ever thinking badly about it and putting yourself down about not being able to have it this trend itself is not a lifestyle! Keep doing you.
I've been doing my own "that girl" routine for about 3 months now and I just adore it! Watching you do yours really inspired me, and it's helped mee find my best self. I wish you luck on your journey!
this is the best one of these vids I've seen yet, I feel so motivated
Aw thank you!!
I read a quote that motivated me to workout more. it was, "in 2 weeks you will feel it, in 4 weeks you will see it, and in 8 weeks you will hear it." Totally got me motivated, and I hope it motivated you! you got this, and I believe in you!
I'm a boy fighting multiple disabilities. But I'm very inspired by things like these. I want to learn to take care of myself that well, with the aid of my smarthome (apartment). I want to finish my studying and try to open my own business.
I am entering my "that girl era" i just left my job, ive started going to therapy (i have a lot of savings rn) and im just trying to do little things to help me eat a little better and try and get a little exercise in each day :3 for me, i am much more motivated to do a little exercise if i have a cute workout outfit because then i feel good about how i look while getting exercise
Just a reminder that its okay to not always be "that girl", you deserve the break as well from time to time :)
Tbh for me being "that girl" is knowing I can do anything and not caring what others think.
I loved this video so much ... I saw this and got motivated, worked out after a long time, ate healthy and on time... Even went for a little essentials shopping, did self care... Tysm... I loved your vibe it's the first video I saw of your channel and now I'm binge watching all
Aw wow thank you so much!! And so proud of you, keep it up ❤️
this routine is so hard to follow when you live with your whole family and on the top of that you're an Indian 😭
I can feel you girl, living with a joint family you have whole different lifestyle.
I am only child but my parents always wake up at 7:30 so they switch off the alarm and I always wake up at 9 😂😂
I can also relate as an african woman/girl who also lives with her entire family !!😪
Now you’ve said this, I realise how “white single 20-something girl” this routine is 😆 If it’s not rude to ask, what about being an Indian would especially make this routine harder? 🙂
@@lizziewalker7844 joint family?
Vanessa, you're that humble and nice friend everyone deserves, you have those positive vibes. I'm glad i found you. Love.
this trend is honestly the best thing to hit in internet and im living for it
It's totally normal and natural to go through periods in your life that inhibit you from living your optimal life, however, you shouldn't feel less than enough during these stages! Don't defer your happiness into the future just because you can't adhere to this or any other schedule, you can still be just as happy right now
I'll try this lifestyle "that boy" version 😄
yes, go for it!!!
amazing, you can do it
same
@Team Tempo it’s literally the same content and concept
@Team Tempo Look at the RUclips channel „Artsy“
I literally screamed out loud when you showed the book on camera. I love the ACOTAR series!
i have been 'that girl' for almost all of my childhood til highschool, but when i got into college with covid going on, i felt really messed up from being down and anxious almost all of the time. I tried getting my shit together last week, and when I knew about 'that girl' yesterday, and how it received some negative comments, i felt attacked and made me felt like an imposter for being this someone that I was conditioned to be. This video made me realized again that it's okay to be 'that girl'. tbh, i felt a lot healthier back then and i wanted to do it again for myself. thank you for this video, this made me reassure myself that it's fine being 'that girl'.
i love being "that girl" i was it for like 2 months but just got reslly unmotivated so now i am trying to get back into that and i absolutely love it it just is amazing and its a better version of you!!
this was so relaxing
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I ALSO SUBSCRIBED TO U !!!!
Aah I love this! In my case being that girl means: waking up at 6 am, eating healthy, studying, reading, practising the piano for at least 2h a day, meditating and spending as much time as possible in nature🌿
Being 'That Girl' is such a positive trend!
i love how you not make it one thing only. THAT GIRL can be honestly anything that make you feel good, thats importnant too underline that, i think you id it amazingly. it was such a great video
you seeing the positive in the "that girl routine" made me subscribe. too many people, in my personal opinion, are so sensitive and lazy that they think having a productive daily routine and eating healthier portions of good, non processed foods is toxic. don't be mad at the people who are healthy and don't be mad at yourself for not being like the "perfect picture" you see of someone, we all have bad days, so focusing on the good is what gets you through it.
I love that you remind us that you don’t need a matching outfit to be that girl haha. Atomic habits is so good
can we appreciate her editing skills❤ INSANE🤍❕
ahh thank you so much!!
Girl you are AMAZING! I always wanna be the best version of myself, but it is indeed rlly hard to follow the rigorous routine daily. Now u motivated me a lot, and I will defo try it. I hope all girls can be what they wanna be!!!!💗💗
This video is amazing! I love your energy and vibe. The fact that you compiled everything in one video instead of spreading it out is very helpful! The "that girl" is something I've always wanted to and you made it easier for me thank you again!
I love the that girl trend. I lot a lot from other people! I hate journalling and yoga and I skip that stuff but I got introduced to an awesome meditation night routine thanks to a that girl! ❤️
Personally I think being "that girl" is being the best version of yourself
Yup exactly queen!! ❤️
I beat my deppression after 3 years and I've realised that I'm just wasting my lifetime so I decided to change my lifestyle and become successful of course not everyday can be perfect but I'm trying as hard as I can to make them perfect.
You can and you will!!!!
Your failures only mean you have made progress - a quote from someone I love dearly
I like “that girl” bc it’s adaptable to the individual. Waking up early doesn’t have to be a goal you need, but optimizing your sleep schedule benefits your overall health. Hydrating and eating foods that make you feel good and that you enjoy are very important too! Working out can actually give you a cognitive boost and help you get started on whatever work you do but it’s important not to set unrealistic goals. I have a Pinterest board on very low impact mobility workouts that suit my own needs. Reading and journaling are brain workouts and help you work things out for yourself, and you can read anything you want. But the most important thing is setting goals you can easily achieve and growing them gradually so you can maintain the momentum for yourself.
I believe being « that girl » is an idealization and a stereotype of that perfect girl who wakes up at 5 am, meditate, journaling.. and some people just don’t relate to it or don’t want to be her.
What if instead we were just being ourselves ? Our own girl? With the routines, goals and mindset that relates to us without feeling any pressure to be perfect or any type of way.
Remember that it’s ok to take breaks and nobody is perfect. Take care of yourself. ❤️
I’m dying at one of the CCs saying “batgirl” 😄 totally who I’m trying to become
haha stoppp love it 😂❤️
you are legit one of my fave youtubers, you have inspired me to do this and it has made my life so much more organised!! xx
Wow thank you so so much!! Ilyyyy❤️
@@VanessaTiiu ilyyy ❤❤
This is the most honest and humble 'that girl' videos I have seen. So unpretentious, very real. Hitting subscribe and can't wait for more videos.
i’m Brazilian girl but i love your videos, your energy and everything is so so good
would love to see an afternoon "that" girl routine
girl- this is so good. thank you for always motivating me
Ah thank you!!❤️
Girl I love this video so much omg! The editing was amazing
Ah thank you!! ❤️
I am so subscribing. I watched like 50 videos and this was the only one that made sense. Thanks for going chronologically and making it so wonderful to watch.
"That girl concept is really good for those who practically want to see positive growth in their lives..not just in dream"...when i take care of myself...pamper myself...help needy , make my day absolutely productive i really feel so so satisfied and occupied...i just love that feeling ...its like spending a successful day💚💙
I’m my own “that girl” I do whatever I want, and wake up when I want to. My room aren’t always clean, and I don’t do my skincare everyday, and that’s the good way for me to live🙃🦋
as a vegetarian, i love how she showed how to make the lunch plant based even if she is not a vegetarian herself
Absolutely LOVING these "That girl" videos and your intro was amazing!! 😍🙌🏻
Thank you!!
Omgg!!!
I have finished reading the throne of glass and ordered the court of throne and roses I just can't wait!!!!
that one book in the video has given you a big like.
Ah haha love itttt! TOG is on my tbr but ACOTAR literally has my heart forever, you’ll love it 🤍
@@VanessaTiiu I am so excited!! I even read rick Riordan books they r so amazing.. you should try them start with Percy Jackson and the Olympians series.. 😊👍
I read all of them when I was younger! ❤️❤️
@@VanessaTiiu If i could give a hundred more likes i surely would.. just you being a huge fan of these books makes me wanna do it.. love your channel and you! 💖❤
I am so glad that this "that girl" trend exists. People say tik tok is toxic but for me its not, I choose what to watch. I changed a lot, am happier, kinder, more positive because of this trend. Journaling, working out, being active does wonders.
OMG UR EDITING IS AMAZING
Ah thank you!!
AHH!!! It's herreeeee getting my pen and paper to take points😁 your vids motivates me sm!!!
Yay!! So glad!! 🥰🤍
This is motivating me to start doing it, since Im not on a really good place. This is a good video I love it 💗
i love this video but your backyard girl!! its literally the cutest thing ever
To me being “that girl” is pampering yourself. Putting you first. Loving and accepting people. And just being you
I’m glad I clicked on this video. It inspired me to become a better version of myself…starting from tomorrow! I subscribed and really am hoping to see your channel grow 🙂