Exhibit helps parents find drugs in their teen's bedroom
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- Опубликовано: 19 апр 2017
- Hidden in Plain Site is a traveling educational exhibit of a teen's bedroom designed to help educate parents about the places kids can hide drugs, drug paraphernalia and other contraband. (Video by Andre Malok | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com)
Every kid i knew growing up who had parents like this ended up doing more drugs than anyone else.
needsomekyle Come to think of it that seems generally true from what I've experienced. I wonder why this is.
αριστοτελική Φιλοσοφία i believe its because they are so sheltered that their experimental stage of life is crazy when they finally get that "release" from authority.
needsomekyle same actually
So true
like me haha
How to make sure that your kids do drugs: constantly search them, restrict them, and accuse them of doing drugs
john adams I feel bad for your son my man
john adams fully agreed
Brandon Rodriguez you just made my day
how to: destroy trust and personal space within parent-child relationships
Cats just stfu
Cats yea fair enough
This is so true, my parents have gone through my stuff multiple times and gone through my phone and at this point I have no trust for them or want to tell them anything about my life and they can’t seem to understand that I need privacy and a place where I can be alone.
@@lesbianlinguini8559 same bro
@@cats9654 I would tell you to shut the hell up but somebody already said that
I absolutely would not trust my parents if they went through my room like this. This is a total invasion. If you have a loving and trusting relationship with your children then things will be easier.
Yes I strongly agree with you
Just a little tip to any actual parents watching this. DO NOT do this. My mom did this to me all throughout my teenage years as my siblings were troublesome. She drug tested me 20+ times all negative except once. I told her it was a mistake and there is no way. She did not believe me and screamed at me and grounded me. She took me to get lab tested and what do you know. All negative. This destroyed every last bit of trust and respect I had for my mom. This doesn’t save lives. It destroys the trust and respect your kids have for you. Needless to say I moved in with my dad (my parents were divorced) and I stopped dealing with her tearing up my room and accusing me of things I did not do. I never cared to do drugs. I tried smoking once. I didn’t like it. This won’t stop kids from smoking. It seems like all the kids that have harder parents do the most drugs. Take my advice and steer clear of obliterating your kids trust. It won’t get you anywhere.
lol she screamed at you? trust ? how about your parents sending you to a long term rehab, and calling the police...? how about getting kicked out of school and having to get a g.e.d? your lucky that your mom only screamed at you
i had a good 3-4 years of my life ruined you were grounded for a month probably
du Bb if they called the police and you went to rehab then you probably actually DID do drugs.
Zodiac now this a is a good comment
This is happening to me but no drugs envolved
I had parents like this! It's been 15 years since I've seen them or spoken to them! REMEMBER THAT NEXT TIME YOU WANT TO TREAT YOU'RE CHILDREN LIKE INMATES!
Your*
I told my mom "if you act crazy about nothing I'm putting your ass in a home" and cannabis is legal here and she didn't take it well lol.
Anonymous Person lmfao you told her those exact words
Yea man she laughed and said ok.
Joey Johnson exactly.
Parent: **Takes drawers out of dresser and feels the bottom of all of them**
Parent: **Takes apart a bed for no reason**
Parent: **Takes lava lamp apart and tries to rip apart a water bottle**
Me: What are you doing....
Parent: **Shakes every pair of shoes in the house** i aM thE pareNt of this hOuse and i wiLL do whatevEr i wAnT
Me: Why are you cutting my jacket in half?
I walk in: looks like we're going clothes shopping now
I’m dead
I would move out and never come back
Yea same this seems very privacy breaking
my parents- *see this video* oh lets do this to bella’s room >:D
*thirty minutes later*
mom- where tf did she get so much chocolate
isabella w my parents would be like “how tf did this child hide so many dishes”
Haha 😂
Lol my name is Bella
Same
@@wintershock same lol and also beat my ass for having dip, weed, and sometimes alchohol 😂
'How to thoroughly go through your child's room and completely violate their privacy'
Shannon ok parents will just let there kids do drugs then
Sounds good to me 🙄
_flower_ Kinz_ exactly xD
_flower_ Kinz_ most of these people's poor teenagers have most likely never hid anythin other then a little weed 😂👌🏼 and not to mention this could completely ruin your relationship with your kid. Making a teen feel like you don't trust them and completely shitting on their privacy in the process, is never ganna help you help them.
When I started smoking weed, controversial I know but I just TOLD my parents...and guess what, my Dad disapproves and my Mum doesn't care but they both treated me like adults. If you think your child is on drugs, ask them. Don't be angry, because they probably don't want to hide it from you.
This is terrible parenting
It’s not terrible but they could potentially save their kids life just by looking for these kinds of things and personally yes I do think this was a tad too over dramatic with this whole stuff but in the long run they are just doing what parents normally do:keeping their children safe and hoping they don’t die from the drugs
eemily Louisee die from drugs? Most kids have weed and their not going to die from that their more likely to die from drinking too much water. The drugs in your drug cabinet is more dangerous than the drugs that a child is likely to have in THEIR room
For real all my mom would find in my room is really old candy rappers thats my dark secret
“This is terrible parenting” but your pic is a blunt in your nose 😂😂😂 omg ily
Whyld Katt that’s the picture from look at me it’s not him
What overthinking looks like.
If you're scared your kid is gonna take drugs, don't have kids or lock them inside until they're 18. A kid is going to get curious no matter what you show or tell them. They unfortunately have to find out themselves and either listen to what's been told them or come to their senses and understand they can hurt themselves and it's not worth the risk
They acting like teenagers are hiding crack and meth in their rooms lmao 99% of the time it's just weed
BUT GARY! WHAT ABOUT THE 1 PERCENT!? THE CHILDREN GARY! THINK ABOUT THE CHILDREN!
I'm saying leave the damn kids alone the beer wine and alcohol that parents do are more deadly then the kids THC products
Ender King will you be my dad?
Christian Okechukwu *gulp*😓😓
SRGNS but what about the amount of deaths each year caused by marijuana
I feel like this completely breaks the trust between parents and their children. Unless parents actually notice suspicious activity, there's no reason to be literally destroying their children's rooms.
Red Star Styles agreed but I mean that's me at least but she ripped apart the dang shoe
Are you freaking kidding me
Can you believe that parents won’t trust their kids enough that will tear their rooms apart
700
"ya wanna take all their clothes out touch everything,feel everything" yep cuz if your daughter walks into her room and sees her dad feeling her panties, shell be fine with that
When my parents do this to me I don't talk to them for weeks DON'T DO IT it does not help
i went 5 years without talking to mine
jvsd how?
jvsd how???? dude 5 years??
If they don’t suspect anything, that is REALLY invading privacy
If your gonna go through all of your child's stuff at least *put it back*
Exactly, if my parents went through my room and tore it apart they're gonna put EVERYTHING back. Don't dig through my Thin Mints and play scripts and then leave them everywhere.
ItzChristina exactly, like imagining coming home one day you go to your room and find it a mess like that, then you go ask your mom "hey mom what happend to my room" and then she tells you how she did it but she won't clean it because it's your room not hers, lmao that's honestly something my mom would do
If i ever come home and my room is all fucked up like that id be mad as hell i'd go into my moms room and do the exact same shit to her
ItzChristina CLEAN YO ROOM
ItzChristina right
This is why kids have trust issues
So happy I'm here for ideas on how to hide stuff better 😂👊
Lol same
And I have a lava lamp
A good suggestion someone said elsewhere is just to hide stuff in their parents' rooms.
Pro tip- hide the drugs in your parents room, now now hear me out if they find the dRuGs they be like BRYSO... Mom it was in your room Tf. hOP oFf.
The_4tH_HaLL I do this lmao
Fastest way to teach kids where to hide their shit.
NimbleTV u mean where NOT to hide your shit...
Also see 'how to ruin trust with your child 101'
Fickdich for fucks sake why so much? You must be trapping
Penny leigh I already don’t trust my parents because they already snooped through my laptop.
Penny leigh They still don’t know inside the Tv or under the floors
@@wintershock use incognito mode
@@nightbotproto_2751 I used to smoke hella and shit n my room used to smell n shit they you'll get caught eventually
Haha. If my mom did that to my room.. haha..
I’d move to my dads
Well my grandmas
whatup dawg I would move to my aunties house.
I already have
Ha
Hispabic parents always do that
Ur lucky ur not hispanic
this is a big mood
I don’t want my dad to go through my room because the first place my dad would look is my nightstand, and in there I have tons and tons of candy lmao.
"PrIvAcY iS nOt An IsSuE"
tearing up a teenager room won't stop them from doing drugs it will just ruin the relationship between the parent and the teen this is a total violation of privacy parents when you were younger would you want this to happen to you... no so don't do it to us it won't fix anything it will only make it worse this is a horrible idea thank you and goodnight
Mickey Mack not until your 18, and by doing weed or drugs already looses the trust between a teenager and the parents.
After getting popped being around your parents is horrible
It's actually morning
preech
Mickey Mack at Least you understand
The host lady is like peel things apart! Take apart the water bottles!! Go through the trash and I'm like, If I was doing drugs I'm too lazy to take out my clothes in the drawer, pull out the drawer, tape something to it, put it back in, fold all my clothes back inside the drawer. I'm too lazy for that ish!!
How to overreact should be the name or how to make your kids hate you or how to make your kids room more messy
the fact that this was held in a church does not surprise me
Michell_3_ Hhahhahajjahahaha omg I can't. Like this is just pure cringe
Michell_3_ How spiritual..lol
It literly said this was at a high school
im christian but i cant stand people like this lmao
michelle lmwo
Who else clicked this video to find out where not to hide ur shit 😂😭
Gta gaming breh
Says "Gta gaming"
Gta gaming ya
Me lmao
Gta gaming lol me😂🙋
teens: vape pens and juuls in their backpacks
parents: okay lets search the bottom side of the thir drawer in the dresser
Am i the only one with some hard seltzer or a bottle of vodka in my backpack???
This is absolutely ridiculous
I feel like more kids/teens watched this than parents.
yup
CreeperTech yea
CreeperTech same
I watched this to step my game up😂
CreeperTech and when they know where the parents look they hid them somewhere else
I would feel violated if someone did that to my room
No shit
Brynuga Whale I wouldn't trust my parents anymore.
In my country that is illigal
Teis van Zanden where do u live
Denmark hehe
I mean I'm smart enough to hide drugs in an actually decent place, so if you want to tear apart my room you can, but when you don't find anything your putting everything back how I want it.
Where
@@hyperasf5392 somewhere that isn’t in your room. Hide it somewhere smart.
Imagine a parent finding their daughter's sex toys.
*Seinfeld bass line*
Exactly, that’s why these damn parents need to give their kids sum privacy 🙄😤
Alexia Robinson that place is too obvious, my chair has a little zipper on the back that’s nearly invisible... lmao
lol nope I ripped a small whole in my bed and hid my stuff in there
These parents trippin
Teflonhoncho fr
They rippin that room apart so much they finna look literally inside the phone for drugs
"Or even if they don't suspect it we should also check our kids rooms" yeah. We should still put our kids on edge 24/7 and make them hate and distrust us for the rest of their life.
theyre not just gonna search their rooms regularly lol theyre gonna have a reason
this comment was dumb af because i was like 12 when i said it so i'm deleting it 😇
Karamel Plays you do realize anxiety is a thing, right?
Karamel Plays but is still is an invayion of privacy
@VVoOꟻF bruh that comment is three years old 💀
Ripping a clapper while watching this
Wow this is so extra like are you really gonna tear up a room just to see if your child has drugs? What about instead actually paying attention to your child instead of assuming
I don't do drugs but if my mom ever went through my room and invaded my privacy like that I would leave.
Evangeline Page You'd come crawling back though don't act all high and mighty.
Ivan Martinez I really wouldn't, I have no dad left and my mom's boyfriend is a piece of shit so there would be no reason too besides my sister.
hahaha
Evangeline ASMR until you realize living on the street sucks.
i would do the same i love my mum but i can't trust someone who feels the need to controlle and search through my privacy i would leave i'm 17 i do have a job and couple friends who need students to share the house
I think the parents are on the drugs not the kids
Fishin Freak that's not even true at all you dumb fucktard
Fishin Freak and you don't understand a joke.
Fishin Freak : i think my mom and dad needs to stop thinking im smoking behind there backs. Bc im smokeing on the roof not my room
Fishin Freak 😂😂
This literally gave me the best ideas to hide my weed dawg
Don’t hide it in your room. Thats the one place that parents look. There are much better places to hide weed.
i just cannot understand how so many parents are so disconnected from their experience as a teenager after only 10 or 20 years, how are you so incapable of communicating with your children that you view them like this? it's like they just manifested at age 30 and nobody noticed
This should be called how to break your kids trust.
Or “where not to hide your drugs”
Hide your drugs in your parents room. They’ll never think to look there
Ryan Park ty
I did this before
grand daddy purp howd it end up
ya Boi What’s bud?
ya Boi I thought it was something that has ethanol in it like bud light or some like that.
i never did drugs as a teen in the late 90s and early 2000s. I would have been so hurt if my parents had gone though my room like that. I am 35 years old now but, as a teen I took pride in the fact that my parents could trust me. It would have really really hurt me if I had given my parents no reason to check my room and they did something like that. I know for some kids this needs to be done but, other times just having an emotional connection with your child and knowing that child is honest with you and isn't wanting to do that stuff also matters too. Think about it, even now as an adult...wouldn't you be very hurt if your partner took the bedroom appart to look for signs that you were hiding things. Trust is very important. Parents need to really have a reason before they start doing this kind of thing- this behavior ruins trust.
Essentially "How to treat your child like an inmate and run your home like a prison" because this is EXACTLY how cops run prisons and treat inmates. They do that to inmates because they've committed crimes, so to do this to a kid just because is likely to mess them up and also keep them from wanting to interact with you in the future.
And what happens if you tear their room apart and don’t find anything? Your kid doesn’t think you trust them anymore and then you’re gonna have real problems
If my parents ever did something like this I would pack my bags and leave
Ya
Same
Hedvig Sylwan do it then
Hedvig Sylwan same
Straight up after wit ya
Am I the only one that thought it was xzibit finding drugs
Haywood Jablowme hard I thought it was the rapper too
Destroy their room just to find there's no drugs
It just makes kids rebel and be even more sneakier
Victor Lopez agreed
Learn to respect your teens privacy
Trippy Stoner Learn to respect your elders
Respect is earned, not just givin out to people because they are older. Same for teens. Gotta earn respect before expecting it.
Coming from an account named Trippy stoner “respect my privacy” lmao
Trippy Stoner I though the same
Ben Maclellan but why do teens have to give respect to people automatically, respect is earned but it isn’t given automatically to people either.
As a teen, I had no clue I could get all these compartments to hide my drugs in. Thank you, I’ll be ordering some!
Mom: tears apart child’s room
-finds nothing
Kid:good thing I brought my glock home from school today
Actually relatable.
I hate that all these Adults are saying that it's the parents right but like...... WOULD YOU WANT YOU PARENT TO DO THIS WHEN YOU WERE YOUNGER????
Sara._.Hanson lmao you search my shit best believe your coming home to your room destroyed see how you like it xD thats how I see it atleast
Jadon Brandt ikr
Agreed
Jadon Brandt same
Forrrealllllllll they saw the 80’s they should know. Also love your profile pic
Biggest snitches ever
Damn i feel bad for these peoples kids.
Bro y’all hide weed I hide my moms credit cards
Kid smokes weed once “Our children’s lives are at stake”
Cnm 3443 exactly what I was thinking
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cnm 3443 helllll noooo
duh they get addicted
I am a confuse
Inaccurate. If a teens room was this clean they prolly wouldnt do drugs
Ikr, I’m 12 and I’m turning 13 in a few months also I have OCD.
If anyone ripped my shoes apart I WOULD GO CRAZY ON YOU
I can say that too because I only have one pair of shoes, but if they rip apart my bedroom because “i have a bad feeling” is downright disgusting.
These types of programs and stuff are more creative than actual teens hiding drugs
bruh if my dad peeled my shoe id be pissed lmao
kiera malhi lmaoo
Me too 😂lmao
You have an easier time telling your kids on drugs or not by spending time with them . Looking at behaviour and inconsistencies. My parents never found my stuff growing up. Lol
When he said the lives of their children are at stake, I couldn’t help but giggle. If your child is 21+ weed can’t hurt them that much.
If you child is 21+ they are not a child and you really really don't have the right to go through their stuff.
@@flitter5400 exactly.
Checkmate I hide money so my parents don’t steal it.
This is a good way to lose contact with your kids.
I love how there's not a single supportive comment here 😂
Thomas Hand ikr its great
Thomas Hand did it feel good tho?
Thomas Hand and the like dislikes ratio says it all
Thomas Hand V
I know right
Tell me you didn’t have a childhood without telling me you never had a childhood
My mom said i have no privacy til im grown and out her house
"Even if you don't suspect it" wtf? That's just going to put a block of judgement and lack of trust between you and your kids
How to invade privacy
Unyt until you pay bills AND turn 18 you dont have privacy butt the bathroom.
Shellby Barajas Well you're supposed to be able to spell but before 18, but I'll let that pass. Just because you don't have legal requirements for privacy doesn't mean you shouldn't have it. Only a bad parent would do this, unless they really do suspect something dangerous or suicidal.
Shellby Barajas I'll just do drugs in the bathroom then... shooting heroine on the toilet is all the range for kids these days
Shellby Barajas everyone has privacy its a right lol
KMoney privacy is not a right
As someone who had super strict privacy-invading parents, constantly invading your kids privacy just makes them hate you more and just makes the kids more sneaky. This isn’t the answer, trust your kids.
How to destroy a room and ruin a parent-child relationship 101
Honestly this video literally taught me where to hide drugs BUT I DONT DO THEM
Kelly Martinez not yet
thinking the same thing 🤣
Kelly Martinez it taught me where to hide my guitar picks and capo so my brother doesn’t steal them.
Yesss
Same
Pretty disgusting that parents can be that untrusting that they will literally tear apart their kid's room to find drugs (which is weed 99.9% of the time) that they sometimes don't even suspect. There is no easier way to lose the trust of your child and raise awful kids than to do this stuff.
Ass Tumor and they’re not gonna clean the room up afterwards
Most kids who's parents do this end up raising the child doin more drugs than what they ever had previously
Yeah I'm not letting my parents find acid, dmt or shrooms that shit is too expensive
its usally weed or molly and weed is def not worth tearing up their room when weed dosnt even clasify as a “real” drug in most states. u cant even overdose on it
*Yeah because a 14 year old is gonna do drugs without their parents smelling it on them.* _I honestly think it's the person who made this is high_
If my parents ever did this I would completely lose trust that they even valued my privacy
jesus they're kids not prisoners
WHERRE E AHH COOOACH Real shit
Unless the parents have an absolute real good reason to suspect their kids are doing drugs they should not be invading their lives like that it makes the relationship between the kid and the parents weak so there's more fighting more stress and that's what makes kids snap
Good idea about not doing it unless if they have a reason to, but if they do, this is a good thing to know
GhostRider2224 Vlogs Of course. Still just wait until you have a reason.
Katelyn Shake they are doing this to protect you smh.
Alexander 'The Wall' Fuller I literally agreed to doing it if they have a reason.
GhostRider2224 Vlogs My fault man, misread your comment.
What happens when the dad/mom finds condoms that would be so weird.😂😂
RC BOY mine found one when i was 14 and said i dont want grandchildren but congrats😂😂😂
Not so weird in these days.
This is something that my mom would do and post publicly, when she knows 100% I don't do drugs
Lol this taught me how to hide drugs
Not drugs but now I can hide cash from Asian parents who take it from me
Tell me your ways
I have a phone charger that I hollowed out and I can hide weed in it. (I hollowed out the plug in not the cord)
Same
Angel Prado best place is if you have deodorant that’s almost empty you take out the stick of deodorant, put the weed in and put the stick back in
Bro, whenever my mum went through my room it made me feel like I couldn't trust her anymore, and it just made me find spots harder for her to find and made me not want to tell her stuff. If you don't want your kids to do drugs talk to them about like an adult rather than treating them like kids, chances are if ur kids are doing drugs they're teenagers and are just gonna be pissed off if you treat them like kids.
Imagine having your parents go through your shit like this
I love how all of this can be countered by just hiding the drugs in the parents’ own room
Literally the only thing I hide is chocolate
A Bird Lover
This is my favorite comment.
A Bird Lover same
Lmao 😂
A Bird Lover: Same. Lol.
I hide the chips that me and my sister are obsessed with
Just imagine this you're just a normal teen. You're going through puberty and you want your privacy. Yesterday you cleaned and organized your room, and you are now satisfied with it. The next day, after a long stressful day of school, you plan to watch RUclips and eat popcorn by yourself. After making the popcorn you head to your room just to find a horrible scene. Your perfectly made bed has been destroyed. All of your clothes have been scattered across the floor. Your dresser has been torn apart. All of your favorite shoes are now ruined. And lastly, in the center of the room, there is a broken lamp with shattered pieces of glass surrounding it. You drop your popcorn in complete shock. The hot popcorn lands on your foot and now you have burned your foot.
Happy Hamburger not the popcorn that was lcd laced
Your mother appears behind you. “I know it’s there, somewhere..” she whispered.
Happy Hamburger i would leave a note telling my parents off over ransacking my room and say goodbye, there ain’t any reason to stay when they can’t give u any form of trust and just run away.
This made me laugh when it said that the popcorn burned ur foot lmao
So when they check your room, they don’t put things back?
Hay teens!
Step 1: Hide the stuff they don't want you to have away from the house and leave your cell phone(tracking device) at a friends house so they can't find your stash. I wasn't allowed to have a phone until I was 17 so that wasn't an issue for me thankfully.
Step 2: start your life asap and try to forget all the horrible shit they put you through. Do not speak another word to them unless they apologize for being authoritarian shits.
Step 3: don't expect an apology. They will always blame you for their shit decisions.
Ohh shit I found a place to hide my chips from my siblings
Lol, thanks mom you just spilt water all over my carpet.
you spilt a bit on your silver shoe
“The lives of their children are at stake” lmao god forbid they find a gram of weed. That would definitely have killed them.
i've had chronic pain and awful anxiety all my life, started smoking a gram or two a day and it's almost completely gone. these parents need to learn their facts man, weed is medicine not a drug,, opioids, crack, etc. i can understand but weed shouldn't be punished imo. i smoke and still maintain school, chores, and relationships.
Man people die cuzz of weed every day weed is worse than heroin dont do weed it is worst drug you will die rather smoke cigaretes or drink alchocol
Maybe cuzz i was joking as shit while telling this (i smoke weed too...)
And yeah read my name so you can see that my comment was fully joke
Fickdich How yall young niggas get so much money for weed wtf lmao I couldnt even really smoke til I got a job
Is it coincidental that this video was uploaded on April 20th 😂😂😂😂
“You know it’s really important to check their phones, invade their privacy and ruin your relationship” how about a simple, ‘hey I noticed that you aren’t home often and you don’t have a job, anything going on?’
Thanks now I know where u gonna look so I can hide it even better 👏
kyranoscopy i was botta say that
kyranoscopy I put my weed in my ceiling fan
Facts 😂😂
kyranoscopy I put my weed behind a painting on the wall in my room lmao
Join the club
“Check their phones, check their rooms. It could save a life”
What the hell a kid isn’t gonna die from weed
jack leavell Exactly (I personally won’t do it unless it’s legal and my brain has completely developed (the only way it can actually cause some kind of damage), the only way it has killed was driving while high. That’s it, even the people that had come to my school in health science class to teach teens drugs and their dangers told us that. But as adolescents it’s not great for brain development. It causes no damage to adults outside of maybe social issues (parents getting angry, etc.)
It has even saved lives, my mom has a friend in Arizona who’s kid has epilepsy, she tried medical marijuana, it has made a huge difference. Of course a neighbor had called CPS on her, but she has it legally and was fine. Weed isn’t perfect, but I don’t think it should only be legal in a few states.
I keep going on and on, but I also feel like drug use distanced me from my parents, especially my dad. I had to be sneaky and ended up not spending much time with them. I know it seems like I'm against bud, really not. Just trying to let people (hopefully teens) understand this.
You need to smoke a yachts worth of weed to die or more so government is stupid
jack leavell there is something called smoke and other drugs. Also vape
*mom starts peeling my shoes apart, chucking my bed, opening my lamp, feeling bottoms of drawers* i’d feel so invaded of privacy id walk out
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“My way”
*”h i g h* way”