Woman Secretly Records Her Doctors Insulting Her During Surgery

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  • Woman Secretly Records Her Doctors During Surgery | Ethel Easter says she remains "distraught" by the comments recorded during a 2015 operation.
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Комментарии • 56 тыс.

  • @CodenameZoro
    @CodenameZoro 3 года назад +91014

    I'm a nurse. We were taught back in college that when talking in front of the patient to always assume the patient can hear you, whether you're in a coma, knocked out with anesthesia or even deaf. The fact that these licensed surgeons and nurses can't even follow basic education on patient's right to considerate and respectful care is a big disappointment.

    • @shihtzusrule9115
      @shihtzusrule9115 3 года назад +1548

      But not a surprise.

    • @Richard-lh3te
      @Richard-lh3te 3 года назад +1610

      Thank you for your service!

    • @ZoKitchen
      @ZoKitchen 3 года назад +387

      Awesome sir

    • @michaelmcguire2503
      @michaelmcguire2503 3 года назад +490

      Thank you for all that you have done and will do I know that it is a very difficult time for doctors and nurses right now but I just want to let you know it will get better soon.

    • @JasperDD
      @JasperDD 3 года назад +348

      Sad reality people are the way people are... sad to medical professionals who put so much time and energy into their work be so rude when they think no one is watching or their just hanging with their colleagues!

  • @cbryce9243
    @cbryce9243 2 года назад +18435

    All surgeries should be recorded by the hospital, just to keep medical staff professional.

    • @penguin2362
      @penguin2362 2 года назад +177

      Agreed

    • @PqKiller25ToLife
      @PqKiller25ToLife 2 года назад +516

      Damn right just like the police that have cameras too

    • @kalliet2390
      @kalliet2390 2 года назад +115

      @C Bryce, VERY good idea!!!!!! They should 100% do that!!!!!

    • @MareRS357
      @MareRS357 2 года назад +25

      Amen!

    • @yvette.3075
      @yvette.3075 2 года назад +188

      Audio only? What about video recording during a procedure, while you are naked?

  • @lisagardner903
    @lisagardner903 Год назад +1774

    I am a retired ICU nurse that has treated many patients that were in comas and I was always taught that they might be able to hear what I was saying. Indeed that was true because I had a patient tell me that I helped them live through the night because of how kind I talked to them and they heard me pray for them. The patient was intubated and put in a drug induced coma but could hear everything going on!

    • @everygirlmatters
      @everygirlmatters Год назад +70

      God bless you!!!!

    • @bumblebee4280
      @bumblebee4280 Год назад +49

      God bless you Lisa.

    • @TheTinFoilTiara
      @TheTinFoilTiara 9 месяцев назад +43

      God bless you for your empathy and compassion. ❤

    • @danjames4086
      @danjames4086 8 месяцев назад +24

      Yep. I used to do the same. I'd talk about the weather outside, their family, anything really. It's not just courtesy...it serves as a constant reminder that that it's not all about infusions and ventilator settings.

    • @blackredwhiteandblue1440
      @blackredwhiteandblue1440 8 месяцев назад +21

      I am an RN and I always talk to all of my patients alert, comatose, IDD, it don’t matter they do❤
      Some people only go into healthcare for the money so so sad😢

  • @Tigers_and_Tarot
    @Tigers_and_Tarot Год назад +1108

    My doctor wouldn't do anything to figure out why I was in pain. For 10 months she kept giving me different pills to mask the pain. I told her I needed actual tests done and she left the room for a minute. I heard her through a vent telling her co-worker I was a whiney bitch. I left and went to the ER. Told them what happened and they did an ultrasound and sent me for a scope and found out I had a bleeding ulcer. They moved me to a different doctor, thank God.

    • @rickyruiz9908
      @rickyruiz9908 10 месяцев назад +25

      😮😮😮😮😮

    • @logann7942
      @logann7942 8 месяцев назад

      I hope you went back to the first doctor and told her how much she sucked 😊 I hope you are feeling better.

    • @SretaLove
      @SretaLove 8 месяцев назад +13

      Damn...

    • @Datpart100
      @Datpart100 8 месяцев назад +121

      You should have gotten a lawyer and served her with a lawsuit.

    • @carolannecoad323
      @carolannecoad323 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@rickyruiz99082:18

  • @uxwxl3332
    @uxwxl3332 4 года назад +32814

    No matter what, never have beef with these people:
    1- your cook
    2- your barber
    3- your surgeon

  • @ChooseJoy7
    @ChooseJoy7 3 года назад +18437

    I'm not surprised. A lot of doctors are cold hearted. It's the whole "Your life depends on me" mentality that makes them have this arrogant attitude. I said a lot not all. It's unethical and dishonorable. If you have this little regard for a human life laying in your care. Just quit.

    • @SilverBackStacker
      @SilverBackStacker 3 года назад +365

      They're just normal people.

    • @aleisterhanley151
      @aleisterhanley151 3 года назад +283

      Lmao bitch you should do your own surgeries.

    • @sal-dq2uv
      @sal-dq2uv 3 года назад +1076

      @@aleisterhanley151, dumbass what are you so pressed about?

    • @aphradite321
      @aphradite321 3 года назад +784

      @@aleisterhanley151 Lol, no one can do their own surgeries unless they have superpowers, that's why we trust others and they end up doing this 🤢

    • @krashd
      @krashd 3 года назад +268

      @@aphradite321 Yes, they end up doing this, a successful surgery. They should sue her for eavesdropping - this is their job, that is their coworkers and this is what people do with coworkers. If surgeons now have to spend a 10 hour surgery in silence for fear of offending a comatose patient then they should all resign and let these whiny bastards perform their own surgeries.
      Honestly the world is turning into a cesspool of regulations.

  • @annachrisler8590
    @annachrisler8590 4 месяца назад +71

    "That just doesn't seem like the thing to say to the person that's going to do your surgery"
    -That sent fucking chills down my spine.

    • @evelynsaliba5399
      @evelynsaliba5399 Месяц назад +28

      I agree. It sounded predatory. Very creepy. It’s like he has a belief he is a god. Just gross.

    • @emsa5034
      @emsa5034 15 дней назад +16

      @@evelynsaliba5399it sounded like a legitimate threat. Absolutely psycho

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 8 дней назад +6

      Me too very scary and threatening 👁️

  • @_someone_somewhere
    @_someone_somewhere Год назад +212

    A doctor last year said about my dying mother in front of me (then 15 years old) that she doesn't care about her (mom) and her family and that she is done with her. After she died they left her... Without any professional steps to make sure she's actually dead. It breaks my heart, because my mom was a doctor too and she used to put so much love in her job.
    Not only this one doctors but many others, through my life I've been through so many stuff that made me hate doctors sooooo much

    • @rahmatullaahalqaasim5650
      @rahmatullaahalqaasim5650 Год назад +12

      Wow I'm so sorry about that dear.

    • @riyasingh2729
      @riyasingh2729 Год назад +17

      How can someone say that to amid infront her mother,let alone sick mother

    • @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb
      @CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb 7 месяцев назад

      Arching easy money through dishonest ways. They let the courts figure it out. LOL on jokers.

    • @fantasea114
      @fantasea114 3 месяца назад +6

      I'm very sorry for your loss ❤ You and your mother deserve better.
      If i were you i would send a very strongly worded letter to the medical board in charge of the doctor who said that to you, even nothing else that doctor needs to sincerely apologise to you. ❤

    • @_someone_somewhere
      @_someone_somewhere 2 месяца назад +1

      @@fantasea114 unfortunately in my country, that would count as a harassment and that am invading thier work privacy...

  • @13UB187
    @13UB187 2 года назад +17959

    The nurses made fun of my mother when she was dying of liver failure. They said she brought it upon herself by drinking alcohol. She never had a drink in her life. It was the pills they had been giving her for over twenty years. RIP mom

    • @sapphire2353
      @sapphire2353 2 года назад +388

      I’m so sorry 😔

    • @MUT3D_
      @MUT3D_ 2 года назад +277

      Damn man, make her proud lil bro

    • @mariejuana2993
      @mariejuana2993 2 года назад +494

      Thats disgusting.

    • @sapphire2353
      @sapphire2353 2 года назад +179

      @@mariejuana2993 yeah that’s honestly so rude

    • @BearyBoo-tv4vx
      @BearyBoo-tv4vx 2 года назад +141

      May she rest in peace im so sorry for your loss:((🙏🏽❤️

  • @connlee3279
    @connlee3279 3 года назад +16111

    As a nurse, this is true. Doctors and nurses are very cold hearted and many are in it for the status and money.

    • @-valmetal-
      @-valmetal- 3 года назад +29

      @Andy Goodman LMFAO

    • @kimberlyclark6326
      @kimberlyclark6326 3 года назад +488

      Yes! My Doctor is a cold one, too. He says such insensitive things. I'd love to have a Female GP, but, they're hard to come by in my County...those that aren't overbooked, already.

    • @-valmetal-
      @-valmetal- 3 года назад +212

      @Andy Goodman doctors don’t make the cure, genius scientists do.

    • @jonasstahl9826
      @jonasstahl9826 3 года назад +392

      They see blood, Dead and heavy injury every day no wonder there cold hearted.

    • @amberf.3577
      @amberf.3577 3 года назад +436

      Doctors and nurses are heroes right now. Please don’t profile huge groups of people based on your personal experience. Especially people that are vital in maintaining the wellbeing of others in the midst of a humanitarian crisis. It is really demeaning and ignorant to say this. I come from a family of doctors that are nothing like this. What happened in this clip was unprofessional and wrong, but it is not normal.

  • @One-Of-One_01
    @One-Of-One_01 4 месяца назад +52

    They should start recording every surgical procedure...it protects the staff and the patient.

  • @mr.whisper3338
    @mr.whisper3338 11 месяцев назад +182

    I worked in a hospital OR for over 10 years, and I can tell you for a fact that despite saving lives and being good at it, SOME doctors/surgeons are some of the worst human beings you will ever encounter. I've seen doctors launch instruments across the room and even at the surgical techs when an instrument breaks.

    • @randomdude1398
      @randomdude1398 3 месяца назад +19

      As a medical student, I also hate the toxic culture especially in surgery and OB. They are callous and rude people. They threw metal charts at us interns

    • @VivaLaVittoria
      @VivaLaVittoria 2 месяца назад +6

      @@randomdude1398 I am so sorry for that abuse and bullying you went through :( The toxic culture of med school and residency is actually WHY I didn't pursue that path- how sad it literally deters people. I became a nurse and then a nurse practitioner instead. Less pay, less prestige, but the culture in the NP world is so different. Patients feel it too ... I hear all the time "nurse practitioners listen better, my previous doctor was an arrogant jerk". It makes me so sad. There are fantastic doctors out there- I know tons of them! - but I think the culture of med school kinda sends some of them down a dark path that they never find their way from. It sounds like you have the gift of self awareness to know how to not end up like that!!! I wish you best of luck in the challenging time ahead and your patients will be lucky to have you. :)

    • @anonymous-rn9nm
      @anonymous-rn9nm Месяц назад

      @@randomdude1398 why?

    • @Fslove-zo4nk
      @Fslove-zo4nk 29 дней назад

      If they save lives they automatically can’t be “one of the worst human beings”. Those who take lives are the worst. You colleagues were just toxic and maybe tired of everything, maybe some mental issues (this work is tough for mentality, cutting people every day)

  • @arandomperson2522
    @arandomperson2522 7 лет назад +13091

    Immature on both sides

    • @mudsky
      @mudsky 7 лет назад +183

      DangoDaikazoku1776 sums it up

    • @nrgcloud5179
      @nrgcloud5179 7 лет назад +19

      gold lion m,,queen

    • @Scotian6444
      @Scotian6444 7 лет назад +293

      they still performed the job as expected.. who cares about the shop talk... one would have to prove they treated one case as non equal

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 6 лет назад +331

      DANGO, i was gonna say immature on both sides too, then i remember the principles of "Cause and effect" .... if she wasn't rude im sure she wont be insulted...
      plus, i hate how she quickly jumped to play the race card, like i was "RACIALLY PROFILED"

    • @ericar.7924
      @ericar.7924 6 лет назад +12

      Fedor Amuricano seriously! Cause and effect?! That's an excuse 😀 okay

  • @quentinwooten30
    @quentinwooten30 4 года назад +20070

    Whether she was a handful or not there's still a such thing as professionalism

    • @quentinwooten30
      @quentinwooten30 4 года назад +492

      @ronlovesit same reason ppl record cops when they get pulled over....she had a bad feeling about it

    • @quentinwooten30
      @quentinwooten30 4 года назад +101

      @Paul David I have but this doesn't have anything to do with me. Plus I wasn't caught lol 😂

    • @angelface8210
      @angelface8210 3 года назад +30

      @@quentinwooten30 I love how you brushed off the fact that you do the same thing.

    • @scott8713
      @scott8713 3 года назад +150

      Bullshit! She set them up! And I heard nothing racist in the recording........The word "clinic" mentioned in one of the discussions means this piece of garbage, low life, excuse for a woman, was a charity case. The doctor performed the surgery for nothing...that wasn't enough for her and her husband. She provoked disgust prior to the surgery with her attitude, baiting a response, and then setting a trap to catch aggravated human beings....Listen to the second case! Half a million pay out, a trap was set for a payday from an honest statement, made be an excellent anesthesiologist...( a woman of color, mind you ) about a piece of garbage man....I suggest you listen to the audio again, Quentin.

    • @thundorkat
      @thundorkat 3 года назад +69

      Scott this is this most fallacious, confirmation biased bullshit I've seen in about a year.

  • @twinqt578
    @twinqt578 2 месяца назад +47

    My son recently graduated and he is very disappointed with the disposition these medical professional have with their patients. He says they call it "compassion burnout" but some of them seem to never had any in the first place

    • @EVTD79
      @EVTD79 17 дней назад

      That part😐

    • @user-tv1xj5ji6x
      @user-tv1xj5ji6x 9 дней назад +1

      Hello Pretty, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??

    • @twinqt578
      @twinqt578 9 дней назад

      @@user-tv1xj5ji6x Thanks. 🙂 No rona over here. All good. Lol

    • @user-tv1xj5ji6x
      @user-tv1xj5ji6x 8 дней назад

      @@twinqt578Okay..
      Well I am happy to know you’re safe from the virus. Hope you’re having a nice and a wonderful day today??

  • @theakc3180
    @theakc3180 2 месяца назад +25

    That female anesthesiologist is🤢🤢 Think she's so pissed off with the patient just talking to him for 5mins! What if her anger leads to harm of patient!! She must be thrown out of practice!

  • @cnealz
    @cnealz 2 года назад +19230

    I’m just going to say…I’ve worked for doctors. This is nothing compared to some of the horrible things I’ve heard. Unfortunately, lots of doctors are awful.

    • @NB-nh2sf
      @NB-nh2sf 2 года назад +603

      Worked on Healthcare all my life. I admire doc was studying to be one. I've been in the OR and have heard things. This is mild

    • @jflsdknf
      @jflsdknf 2 года назад +760

      Doctors have been nothing but disappointments to me this doesn't surprise me one bit

    • @fuckyou96
      @fuckyou96 2 года назад +299

      Dentists too!!!!!!

    • @gabrielavelasquez711
      @gabrielavelasquez711 2 года назад +55

      Totally agree.

    • @heathercommonsense377
      @heathercommonsense377 2 года назад +78

      Totally agree, these comments were mild.

  • @darthfossil7072
    @darthfossil7072 2 года назад +16982

    “That doesn’t sound like something you should say to the person doing your surgery” is... is that a threat? Omg. This makes me terrified to have surgery.

    • @jay0726
      @jay0726 2 года назад +445

      This happens alot more than we know..

    • @XD2021
      @XD2021 2 года назад +290

      Overreacting be like:

    • @calistusjay60
      @calistusjay60 2 года назад +1610

      @@jow230 it’s called being unprofessional. Surgeons have the power to kill you. You trust them not to let their personal bias get in the way. That’s fucked up.

    • @sadsayeed
      @sadsayeed 2 года назад +897

      @@jow230 no it's not a "joke"... it's a threat. A very unprofessional unaccountable threat.
      Imagine if the pilots in mid-air saying to the passengers or a police pointing a gun at a random suspect saying something similar... “That doesn’t sound like something you should say to the person flying the plane or pointing a loaded gun to your head” ...it's not a "joke"!!

    • @aamir-khan
      @aamir-khan 2 года назад +114

      @@jow230 no, its not.
      The above comments have given a good response to your statement.

  • @JT-jh6go
    @JT-jh6go 8 месяцев назад +58

    as someone who has worked in healthcare, I couldn't imagine speaking about a patient like this. That is shameful, hurtful and very unkind. Patients put their trust in you, and are vulnerable. You aren't sitting on the playground at school, you are entrusted to take care of someone.

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 Месяц назад +1

      Sounds like in the first case, they should have referred her to a different doctor. She demanded to have the surgery within 2 weeks or she was going to sue them. Public or private, there's usually wait times based on urgency and availability. I certainly wouldn't be touching/operating on someone who's threatening me. It sounds like she put the recording device hoping to find something she could sue the doctors over too.

  • @alexlifeson8946
    @alexlifeson8946 9 месяцев назад +14

    As a nurse, I'll tell you, most doctors are that way. And you people take their advice to vaccinate and take pills. Unbelievable. I did 20 years and all I did was stand up for my patients and fellow good nurses time and again against these health care monsters. In the end. It was a losing battle. They were simply too many. And too powerful. I'm out, now. Regretting the day I will be a patient and at their mercy. Hopefully, there will be a few good nurses around.

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 7 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for being one of good ones and telling the truth x

  • @madsterification
    @madsterification 3 года назад +5677

    I was in a coma for two weeks, and as I came to I was terrified, disoriented, confused and in pain. I was way too weak to get up or move, and my speech was slurred. I know I was a handful, I remember constantly pressing the call button because I was terrified and didnt understand where I was or why I was there. The nurses in the ICU did not like me when I was like this. they made absolutely no effort to calm me down or reason with me. Instead they moved the call light out of my reach and closed the door and blinds and ignored me unless they had to see me.
    It was horrible to me and only made me even more terrified. I tried to tell my mom but she insisted I was just hallucinating.
    Some health care workers are simply cruel. The rotten few overshadow the true Angels.

    • @violahamilton782
      @violahamilton782 3 года назад +249

      How awful for you! You might benefit from hypnotherapy to overcome the trauma. Best wishes.

    • @francisbalfour1243
      @francisbalfour1243 3 года назад +189

      In your case yes, that's borderline neglect.
      But from what I know this woman's surgery was done well, was cared for well. The doctors kept their comments private and didn't say any of this directly to her. She basically eve dropped on their conversation.
      For sure what they were saying was pretty horrific. But that's why private convos exist.

    • @madsterification
      @madsterification 3 года назад +28

      @@violahamilton782 Thank you so much my friend

    • @bijoucelia8638
      @bijoucelia8638 3 года назад +107

      @@francisbalfour1243 wait for your turn...

    • @francisbalfour1243
      @francisbalfour1243 3 года назад +121

      @@bijoucelia8638 honestly I wouldn't care. I wouldn't be there to make friends or get praise, I'd be there for surgery and as long as it was done well I couldn't care what their superficial opinion of me is.

  • @cdr_902
    @cdr_902 4 года назад +11851

    What a set up... be confrontational in the pre-surgery meeting and then secretly record them talking shit, and then sue them.. genius.

    • @davidgwin4540
      @davidgwin4540 4 года назад +427

      Something tells me when she goes out to eat at a restaurant, her food might have a touch of saliva😬

    • @v0ucher
      @v0ucher 4 года назад +458

      David Gwin something tells me that she might curse at the waiter and then put a microphone into the food and send it back into the kitchen then sue them

    • @governorhunter734
      @governorhunter734 4 года назад +27

      Yeah. Genius ppl always in the hospitals. I always encounter that.

    • @marionp8897
      @marionp8897 4 года назад +44

      Imma go in high as hell...and record them talking shit...I'll own me a hospital

    • @pc8679
      @pc8679 4 года назад +443

      They delayed her operation by two weeks, she probably had already paid for it and was in alot of pain. Have some compassion.

  • @jennibishop718
    @jennibishop718 Год назад +157

    If I had a "tense Convo" with my doctor before my major surgery (to the extent I felt the need to record), I don't think I would have trusted them with my life!

    • @petrasworld913
      @petrasworld913 9 месяцев назад +15

      I definitely don't agree with how the doctor handled himself. But I don't think the patient handled herself very well either by disrespectfully arguing with the doctor about having to wait to have surgery for 2 weeks. it can make a person wonder if the patient planned this.

    • @vtetrooo1312
      @vtetrooo1312 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@petrasworld913EXACTLY!!!! Nobody is pointing that out: she might be a very rude and demanding patient that wants to go before other patients. We don’t know!
      I don’t want to blame her for everything! I just saying she also might have a responsibility about their exchanges (we just don’t know!)

    • @condyland2630
      @condyland2630 9 месяцев назад +13

      @@vtetrooo1312 Then the doctors should have been venting about how they didn't like that she was trying to cut in front of other patients. Instead they made fun of her while she laid naked unconscious and vulnerable on the table. Honestly, if you hate your patient that much or if they're so much trouble, send them another doctors way.

    • @delayedcreator4783
      @delayedcreator4783 6 месяцев назад

      @@condyland2630 no doctors did the right thing , cope harder

    • @lamontjohnson5810
      @lamontjohnson5810 4 месяца назад

      100% agree.

  • @AdelGarvin
    @AdelGarvin 8 месяцев назад +9

    These kind of doctors can even fail your surgery on purpose if they don't like you at all from the looks of it.

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 7 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 7 месяцев назад +3

      Separate situation but relatable. I’m currently living in a temporary homeless hostel and the staff bully me. Everytime I go out (they do random room checks) I double bag/knot my open foods and video how I left my room before I go out. When people don’t like you or show hostility there’s no telling what they can do to your things

    • @denverguy68
      @denverguy68 14 дней назад

      Yes, exactly my experience.

  • @malum.2480
    @malum.2480 7 лет назад +2086

    trust no one. even salt looks like sugar~

  • @Javayba7
    @Javayba7 4 года назад +7471

    She had threatened to hire a lawyer before her surgery.

    • @Gurpefy
      @Gurpefy 4 года назад +351

      Ya. She might be a bitch, I don't know? But, that doesn't excuse the doctors behaviour. not at all.

    • @Gurpefy
      @Gurpefy 4 года назад +66

      Fun Pazion yeah they still shouldn’t make comments like that

    • @fpsfreak8295
      @fpsfreak8295 4 года назад +162

      Their comments during the surgery weren’t right but she had no business hiding a microphone in her weave.

    • @Gurpefy
      @Gurpefy 4 года назад +93

      @@animegrl207 That's not the point, It's unprofessional and just straight up rude.

    • @carmenuchennaokoye8593
      @carmenuchennaokoye8593 4 года назад +20

      @@animegrl207 not really..

  • @yankee081
    @yankee081 6 месяцев назад +16

    I've worked side by side with literally hundreds of doctors and nurses over the past 10 years and sadly almost all of them say mean things about their patients behind closed doors

  • @normalaurent4960
    @normalaurent4960 10 месяцев назад +22

    This is why I never leave a family member in the hospital alone. I stay and sleep on the recliner or whatever they have. I help them to the bathroom and do all the stuff the nurses are supposed to do. I listen carefully to drs instructions because a lot of times the patient can’t remember later.

    • @user-tv1xj5ji6x
      @user-tv1xj5ji6x 8 дней назад

      Hello Norma, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??

  • @kimberlywalkins771
    @kimberlywalkins771 4 года назад +12234

    You threatened to sue them right before surgery... then you expected them to be nice while you’re unconscious? I would’ve said some stuff too

    • @governorhunter734
      @governorhunter734 4 года назад +289

      Yeah. And imagine litting her hair on fire. She could have died or shock 🤯 genius

    • @BBeauty12
      @BBeauty12 4 года назад +34

      Me too!!!

    • @livelaughlove7940
      @livelaughlove7940 4 года назад +569

      Bitch shes having heart surgery tf thats serious dumbass they fucking DOCTORs bro

    • @ellanaleija1358
      @ellanaleija1358 4 года назад +486

      Goes to show you, you probably dont have a job where you had to learn that the doctors gossiping is unacceptable. For you to comment this is the reason you will never be a doctor, If you have studied anything major in your life you should know that doctors and judges should never be biased or take things to personally. They should always be mindful and stay respectfully even if there is someone who is even cussing at them. Why do you think Doctors can have dieing patients and don't take it 100 percent to hart when the dead patients family starts blaming the doctor. Because they are thought this you uneducated idiot

    • @ericmanget4280
      @ericmanget4280 4 года назад +190

      @@ellanaleija1358 Doctors and Judges aren't the Borg from Star Trek, this woman's an asshole.

  • @berifolden6973
    @berifolden6973 2 года назад +15663

    "that's not the type of thing you'd want to say to someone doing your surgery" wow they must feel SO much control.

    • @Wooptidoodoo
      @Wooptidoodoo 2 года назад +479

      Well it makes sense, even though it's fucked up. Think about it, you don't want to be screwing with people that make your food either, and this dude said it in a joking manner. Though I agree one could argue some of this isn't very "patient friendly".. People talking in a criticizing manner about other people and fooling around in what they think is a operation amongst trusted colleagues probably happens all the time. I've been operated on and I wouldn't be surprised if the people operating on me would've made some embarrassing/what I could interpret as insulting comments whilst I was out. Why the hell would you even look at this in a criticizing manner. The question is.. Did they do the operation successfully/did they behave in a acceptable manner when dealing within the patients direct awareness.. I can't say they have to be serious all the time. I'd rather have a surgeon that fools around and makes stupid comments whilst still doing their job then a surgeon that's stressed out, afraid of saying something that might be taken to damn seriously which in turn could hurt his reputation and possibly his performance. Also people of all races can make dumb ass comments about any other race.. taking such things seriously tends to be the issue. It's about intend, it's not about "just words". Black and white are not offensive in and of itself, making a joke is not offensive. Taking offense and expecting it to be meant as an insult when someone doesn't mean to be hateful at all is in fact offensive. Assuming the worst in a person without understanding intend is an insult. This world is becoming so backwards it's becoming ridiculous :/ Overemotional people brainwashed by MSM to take offense and see reason to be offended in everything they can. Supporting a dividing narrative when in reality what they really desire is joy and peace. People have just been programmed to continuously find reason for unrest which is very depressing to think about

    • @Isnt_She_Lovely_
      @Isnt_She_Lovely_ 2 года назад +212

      Even if she hadn't spoken those "choice words", Black people still have every reason to fear doctors. She was clear in understanding how healthcare works for our population and for all we know, that hernia surgery was purposely put off because she's black and her health isn't as important.
      Do some research on Black women's gynecological health and how often they die because of negligence from their doctors.

    • @OliverMichael7
      @OliverMichael7 2 года назад +73

      Doctors kill more people than any one Else, and who knoes how many was on purpose

    • @ivorymiller8757
      @ivorymiller8757 2 года назад +67

      Right. It sounds more like a threat.

    • @Wooptidoodoo
      @Wooptidoodoo 2 года назад +41

      @@pookie4288 I am the reason victims don't speak up? we're talking about a person that wouldn't even have been conscience. You can't play the victim of something that wasn't meant for your ears. People criticize others about all kinds of things. And it's not always pretty either. Also no one said this is anyone's fault, why do you even describe this as "always their fault" how about, it's nobody's fault and nothing much happened to begin with. I never said race has anything to do with speaking truth. If anything race is better left out, I just mentioned race because for some reason people like to make a point about something being an issue in relation to their race when all to often it shouldn't even be/isn't meant to be about race. If this pandemic has shown us anything it's that the people we trust in can do the most terrible things for personal gain. And yes, of course the only reason the doctors apologized is because they got caught. Like I said, they probably talk like this amongst themselves all the time without thinking much about it.. Maybe it's not meant to be a big deal to begin with :/ The reason they can talk like this behind someone's back instead of saying these things straight to someone's face is in fact because of sympathy and having a base understanding. So I guess you'd say she's a victim of people speaking their minds without the intention of actually hurting someone.... I can imagine worse things in life then this. I just gave myself as an example, this quite possibly happened with me as well when I was out for an operation. I can't be bothered though, unless they'd be like.. physically assaulting me :/

  • @Piratesof5677
    @Piratesof5677 5 месяцев назад +15

    Being a medical student in India , when we were on posting in labour room,, I heard our senior madam scolding a patient who was crying loudly during labour pain" what were you thinking while making this" meaning sexual intercourse. It was such a humiliation to a pregnant lady. Felt so sorry for her to went through it.

  • @HomeiraIzadi-kk6kn
    @HomeiraIzadi-kk6kn 8 месяцев назад +34

    I am a physician and ALWAYS have a lot of respect for all patients, in front of them, behind their back ( never talk about patients to others when it is irrelevant) and this is disgusting, No patient should go through this. This is against every morality not to mention that this does not meet the high standards for healthcare professionals !

  • @laurenj432
    @laurenj432 3 года назад +11984

    “Did you see that belly button” Why would someone join the medical field if different looking bodies amuse/shock them??

    • @LV2UJC-FM
      @LV2UJC-FM 3 года назад +794

      No Kidding, how immature was that statement!

    • @laurenj432
      @laurenj432 3 года назад +239

      @@LV2UJC-FM Yeah, it’s really worrisome😔

    • @crowofjudgment1743
      @crowofjudgment1743 3 года назад +139

      Actually it was funny. Their job is very stressful can they not have a little fun when nobody was supposed to be offended

    • @laurenj432
      @laurenj432 3 года назад +870

      @@crowofjudgment1743 Maybe I’m boring but I never find criticizing people’s bodies funny-well that’s a lie, I probably would have found it funny when I was a toddler, but now I just can’t seem to find the fulfillment. I’m jealous of the people who never matured past kindergarten, life must be so damn easy when you lack empathy and self awareness😩

    • @crowofjudgment1743
      @crowofjudgment1743 3 года назад +70

      ​ @Lauren J lady no one is above being laughed at, we all have our defects, stop being pretentious and acting like you care all the time, and instead direct your empathy where it really matters

  • @frostedwarhead
    @frostedwarhead 3 года назад +2808

    Imma record school if we getting this much money for being insulted

    • @badtaste5944
      @badtaste5944 3 года назад +151

      I'd be a millionare

    • @frostedwarhead
      @frostedwarhead 3 года назад +64

      @@badtaste5944 who wouldn’t lol

    • @not.ordinary
      @not.ordinary 3 года назад +7

      Duh😂

    • @craerae
      @craerae 3 года назад +4

      You'll get fooled.

    • @breannaleach1919
      @breannaleach1919 3 года назад +11

      @@badtaste5944 add a couple more digits on to that million for me please

  • @GombeGuido
    @GombeGuido 4 месяца назад +6

    I work at a hospital and I can tell you I’ve heard the most disgusting things come out of doctors and nurses mouths and they face no repercussions after due to their occupation.

  • @bforman1300
    @bforman1300 8 месяцев назад +9

    Refused sedation for a spinal injection. The staff was joking and having a great time, and I joined in, even answered a riddle the doctor asked and the others didn't get.
    At the end the doctor commented that I handled it very well and asked what I was on. The nurse looked and said she couldn't find that i was on anything. When I said, "Nope," you could have heard a cricket fart.
    I didn't have an issue with the OR staff. I DID raise hell about one of the nurses using my cell phone while I was undergoing the procedure. She was apparently expecting me to be too confused by the sedative to figure out what happened, but the phone was NOT where I left it and my last call was to the taxi, NOT to her gossip buddy in the clinic front office. (And yes, this was back in the stone age. Phones have locks now. Use it!)

  • @auntihooha
    @auntihooha 3 года назад +5315

    My sister was an ICU nurse for 14 years, and after hearing her talk about work, I believe this happens all the damn time.

    • @cgcompton6980
      @cgcompton6980 3 года назад +104

      It shouldn’t...

    • @siddhant...
      @siddhant... 3 года назад +49

      @@deepakgorantla1012 yeah you’re a “student”, students are taught every rule in the book. But no one follows everything especially these stupid things.

    • @ivy5023
      @ivy5023 3 года назад +4

      @john america yawn

    • @sunghoongf3141
      @sunghoongf3141 3 года назад +124

      @@siddhant... but you still should never talk about them like that specially for the racist part. this is just disgusting.

    • @sunghoongf3141
      @sunghoongf3141 3 года назад +75

      @David Winehouse or maybe just have human decency, right david?

  • @K9_Queen
    @K9_Queen 3 года назад +11641

    You’d think as surgeons they’d behave PROFESSIONALLY. This is disturbing

    • @lkb-il8iy
      @lkb-il8iy 3 года назад +79

      Thank you! Totally uncalled for

    • @8dholland
      @8dholland 3 года назад +52

      Did you say because they were doctors? You don't know how snooty and previlaged they act. Lol, good one.

    • @SilverBackStacker
      @SilverBackStacker 3 года назад +173

      You'd think they were normal people talking to their coworkers. You want them to watch their tongues around people who are unconscious and not even a part of the conversation?

    • @aleisterhanley151
      @aleisterhanley151 3 года назад +9

      That picture hella disturbing

    • @krashd
      @krashd 3 года назад +54

      @@SilverBackStacker Thank you, at least some folk still have common sense in the world.

  • @IZAYIN
    @IZAYIN Год назад +108

    Imagine a doctor that does tummy tucks and C-sections. Purposely messing up your stomach. didn't get the Tummy tuck but he left me scarred as hell. My body is literally ruined.

    • @calvinschlesener6289
      @calvinschlesener6289 Год назад

      Don't worry about what men think of your body. Its just in women's DNA to want to look pretty so a man will want to have sex with them. This isn't meant to be offensive. It goes for men too. The only reason men like big boobs is because they can produce more milk for their offspring. And they only reason they like big ass is because bigger hips have a better chance of not dying in child birth. It's all very primitive if you ask me.

    • @jaywellington6504
      @jaywellington6504 Год назад +6

      See if a plastic surgeon can help with that. Otherwise, and I don't mean to minimize your situation, but many people live with body issues and manage.

    • @ashleyb119
      @ashleyb119 Год назад +4

      A small c-section scar doesn't ruin your body...and I didn't get a tummy tuck after my c-section...that's plastic surgery

    • @blixkyjr.254
      @blixkyjr.254 Год назад +5

      @@ashleyb119of course she’s lying, her body was ruined before and after surgery 😂

    • @undignified2843
      @undignified2843 Год назад +3

      It's OK. As long as yall make sure to listen to the tik tok dancing nurses and get your jab. Go jab now.

  • @alisastokes3399
    @alisastokes3399 5 месяцев назад +12

    I worked in the OR as a surgical tech and let me be very clear when I say that most of these doctors talk about patients a lot and it's totally disrespectful and sickening.

    • @user-tv1xj5ji6x
      @user-tv1xj5ji6x 9 дней назад

      Hello Alisa, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??

  • @user-dd2nd3uz9r
    @user-dd2nd3uz9r 3 года назад +6200

    Why is everyone getting angry about the woman? The doctors were supposed to be professionals not talking behind her back while in surgery. PERIOD.

    • @rhyfelwrDuw
      @rhyfelwrDuw 3 года назад +157

      I know a former anesthetist who said the Drs would make comments/disparaging remarks about their patients while operating on them quite often. She hated it and left her medical job!

    • @oiputthatback7361
      @oiputthatback7361 3 года назад +48

      CerddWen that’s why we were told to “ pray over and for the person “,whilst operations were being carried out. I know some people don’t believe in the Bible , but it works. 😊

    • @rhyfelwrDuw
      @rhyfelwrDuw 3 года назад +8

      @@oiputthatback7361 she is a Christian, but I doubt a secular hospital would encourage prayer!

    • @oiputthatback7361
      @oiputthatback7361 3 года назад +7

      CerddWen I understand , but I meant friends , family or church who would take it in turn to pray throughout the duration, not the hospital staff .That is how we did it in my fellowship. 😊

    • @rhyfelwrDuw
      @rhyfelwrDuw 3 года назад +3

      @@oiputthatback7361 Oh I see - sorry I thought you meant in the hospital! Good idea to pray throughout the whole duration :D

  • @ekofrendli8327
    @ekofrendli8327 3 года назад +4640

    “doesnt seem like the thing to say to the person whos doing your surgery” 😃 excuse me WHATTTT

    • @katiemilady197
      @katiemilady197 3 года назад +324

      Surgeon think he's such a high up entitled person. Ugh.

    • @vidascupcakes
      @vidascupcakes 3 года назад +28

      Hopefully you don't work in a place where you have to pretend you have good morals. Lol. Mc Dees for you Sir.

    • @cvn6555
      @cvn6555 3 года назад +207

      @@katiemilady197 No. He's pointing out what an idiot a person has to be to threaten the person that will be operating on them. It's like telling your waiter that you're not tipping them while ordering your meal. Expect a healthy dose of saliva on your food. Entitled? To what? To remark to the other people in the OR what a difficult person they have that day? Then they can be on guard, watch what they say and know in advance what a jerk the patient is.

    • @aaronmichael9788
      @aaronmichael9788 3 года назад +91

      Right? And people are so dumb. These people TAKE AN OATH that no matter what they will preserve life. Thats scary for him to even joke about these things.

    • @alisonalman7877
      @alisonalman7877 3 года назад +93

      Technically that's a threat to your life, sick psychopaths, this world is full of satanic egotistical freaks

  • @Nogi520
    @Nogi520 2 месяца назад +6

    As someone who works in oral surgery. In a setting where patients are out 90% of the time. I like to pretend its my Mom or a family member who I am working on. So i treat the patient with the upmost respect and give them the best possible care I can. No matter how difficult or different the patient is. You never know what they are going through

  • @Ty-wy9he
    @Ty-wy9he 8 месяцев назад +7

    Don’t think we’re getting the full story here. I think she might have been confrontational and rude to the staff before the surgery. Still, what they said during the surgery was very unprofessional.

  • @kanyewest9756
    @kanyewest9756 7 лет назад +11646

    *wait you can sue somebody for insulting and offending you. i should be a billionaire already. where's my mulla?*

  • @dollydeparee21
    @dollydeparee21 2 года назад +5984

    When he said, "that's not the type of thing you'd want to say to someone doing your surgery " I was scared for her life, honestly it's like a scary movie.

    • @stephencalder8357
      @stephencalder8357 2 года назад +160

      @@FeelTheLack Exactly? What kind of damn fool would insult and threaten with legal action the person soon to be applying a scalpel to their inner organs??

    • @iCOOKIEmischief
      @iCOOKIEmischief 2 года назад +341

      @@FeelTheLack um... does, does that matter? That's not reason or excuse to abuse your power and position. If you or anyone else thinks it is, please re-evaluate.

    • @FeelTheLack
      @FeelTheLack 2 года назад +88

      @@iCOOKIEmischief It's not an excuse to do something bad to them hon, but it is human nature to treat others how they have treated us. It is a sad fact of life that most of us can't rise above when given the opportunity.

    • @trishale1373
      @trishale1373 2 года назад +52

      If the surgeon was professional, they shouldn’t have said that in the first place. And I bet they know now, that they are very sorry for saying that.

    • @trishale1373
      @trishale1373 2 года назад +25

      Well, still very unprofessional.

  • @silhoggan1281
    @silhoggan1281 4 месяца назад +6

    I had a motorcycle accident and I was in coma for almost 2 mos and I recall several conversations going in and out of consciousness, specifically the one where my 3 Drs called my parents into my room, away from my family, to tell them to say their goodbyes as they couldn’t do anything else for me, besides keeping comfortable. That devastated me and in “my mind” I tried to yelled for them to please don’t give up on me. 😢 it was pure desperation and sadness
    My parents refused to believe them and they took me home and with guidance from another Dr, I was up and jumping in less the 2 weeks, like nothing happened.
    Never assume that because someone is sleeping, in coma or under anesthesia that they can’t hear you.

    • @strawpiglet
      @strawpiglet 17 дней назад

      Wow, two weeks. That's an important story. I thought doctors knew that people in comas can often hear you. I'm glad you pulled through.

  • @susanvirginialee2297
    @susanvirginialee2297 Год назад +9

    One other thing. You should have someone advocating for you when in a healthcare environment. You can legally appoint a family member to advocate for you when you are receiving care. Talk to a lawyer to reset up such a document. For example, recently my husband underwent a test in a faith based hospital. When the tech came in, he did not introduce himself either to myself or my husband. He then removed part of my husband's hospital gown, again without saying what he was doing. I was there. I very politely asked the techs name, which he begrudgingly gave. Then when he touched my husband without asking, removed an area of clothing. I spoke up and said to the tech, you need to ask to touch the person and asked why he was removing my husband's clothing without asking. The tech didn't like that, but had I been the patient, I would told the tech to not touch me without permission ( Yes, they are supposed to ask!) I then reminded the tech that my husband was not a Medical cadaver. They did stop treating husband with disrespect. Also, if you are being examined by a medical provider, you have the right to tell them to wash their hands and put on sterile gloves before examining you. And they may not touch you without your express permission.

  • @Sebastian_Michaelis
    @Sebastian_Michaelis 7 лет назад +2252

    Fuck, high school students say worse shit to me than this. Where's my fucking $500,000 in damages...

    • @FallingGalaxy
      @FallingGalaxy 7 лет назад +125

      You clearly don't grasp the concept of someone having power over you and your body while you're laying there vulnerable, helpless and unconscious and putting your trust in them. To have THAT violated is on a different level to being picked on by your peers. Grow up or learn fast, or you will have a really hard time at life with that attitude and lack of empathy.

    • @Sebastian_Michaelis
      @Sebastian_Michaelis 7 лет назад +54

      FallingGalaxy Number one, it was a joke. Number two, what you don't know can't hurt you. Not even a week after her surgery the doctors would have completely forgotten her. (If she hadn't made a fuss, of course.)

    • @dhbedard420
      @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +9

      thats what i was thinking lol my siblings and i said worse things to eachother.... lol

    • @bleachwaterhydration1048
      @bleachwaterhydration1048 7 лет назад +6

      denae bedard
      That's for your shitty parents to sort out.

    • @liyahStarlight1122
      @liyahStarlight1122 7 лет назад +7

      Sebastian .Mel. Michaelis you can't buy a new life with 500,000 dollars

  • @thealleys
    @thealleys 6 лет назад +19469

    She hid a recorder.....in her hair extensions.

    • @princejoy9053
      @princejoy9053 6 лет назад +164

      the alleys Nick K whats hair extensions? Weave?

    • @josephjohnson5589
      @josephjohnson5589 6 лет назад +663

      Prince Joy look it up. It wouldn’t hurt to be a little less ignorant.

    • @1handsmoke565
      @1handsmoke565 6 лет назад +138

      Prince Joy
      STOP being a SMART ASS!

    • @Angeltitsss
      @Angeltitsss 6 лет назад +8

      Prince Joy no

    • @RS-pe9wn
      @RS-pe9wn 6 лет назад +55

      I know right that got me dead

  • @GoodWolfWonRocky
    @GoodWolfWonRocky Год назад +6

    This is exactly why I quit working in the medical vocation. They hire too many unprofessional personel. This is very serious!!

  • @gothicaBby
    @gothicaBby Год назад +49

    Just had a surgery recently and this really didn’t help but definitely brought awareness. I feel sorry for those who do get insulted while unconscious and unable to defend themselves.

  • @jAe-zi1xk
    @jAe-zi1xk 3 года назад +3785

    “Doesn’t seem like the think you’d tell the person who’s doing your surgery”
    first of all, That raises some flags

    • @ghostlylover99123
      @ghostlylover99123 3 года назад +78

      I've never spoken to my surgeons disparagingly, just seems so rude to speak to some one rudely who is doing your surgery.

    • @ghostlylover99123
      @ghostlylover99123 3 года назад +19

      @@Citariss that's a red flag too

    • @ghostlylover99123
      @ghostlylover99123 3 года назад +2

      @Evelyn Zlon BINGO!

    • @purplegirl1152
      @purplegirl1152 3 года назад +111

      @@Citariss seriously, he literally threatened her, why is no one picking up on that?

    • @lesley1876
      @lesley1876 3 года назад +37

      I agree. I would never allow a surgeon to operate on me after there being so much conflict previously

  • @mrbriscoe2001
    @mrbriscoe2001 3 года назад +4093

    For $500, 000, my doctor can call me every name in the book...

  • @logann7942
    @logann7942 8 месяцев назад +8

    Some doctors forget they are working on human beings. They have no humility and are unable to understand the true weight of their responsibility. They’re only worried about the weight of their wallet. Disgusting people.

    • @starwarscrazy4540
      @starwarscrazy4540 4 месяца назад

      O they do understand. Everyone is worried about the weight of wallet medical feild just worked hard and spent hours in learning and training for it and deserve the money for it. Without them you would all be dead because no doctors surgeons exist to fix you.

    • @logann7942
      @logann7942 4 месяца назад

      @@starwarscrazy4540 learn some punctuation please.

  • @jessicanielsen6134
    @jessicanielsen6134 8 месяцев назад +4

    Dude, I'm a nurse, and health care "professionals" who behave this way are not only irreparably disgusting humans, but they undermine aaaany trust the public has in the rest of us who take our professions seriously. Being in the hands of a surgeon/doctor/nurse/etc is an incredibly vulnerable position, and for these "professionals" to BETRAY that trust makes me feel literally sick to my stomach.
    Just so y'all know, most of us work hard to show our patients the respect that they deserve, and fortunately it's rare for me to catch a fellow health care worker being so flippantly unprofessional. Generally speaking, the folks who have busted their butts building a career in caring for others take that honor seriously (but, yeah-- every once in a while you find a real turd in the punch bowl, and I'm thankful to patients like this one who blow the cover on crappy providers. That surgeon doesn't deserve the priviledge/responsibility of having those who are vulnerable in his care)

    • @enumaelis1448
      @enumaelis1448 Месяц назад

      How exactly did they “betray” her trust. They did their job and performed the procedure successfully and sent her on her way despite clearly finding her to be an insufferable patient to work with. The “betrayal” in this instance was them hurting her fragile feelings, boo hoo.

  • @nyk3334
    @nyk3334 3 года назад +4629

    Why on earth do people do this? It’s disgusting. She knew.

    • @jamesbooth1109
      @jamesbooth1109 3 года назад +96

      I think she is a karen

    • @rennisdodman8739
      @rennisdodman8739 3 года назад +47

      only in america.
      lol
      police. teachers, store managers, now doctors. who next?
      hhahahahaha
      fcking america.

    • @maxteis5006
      @maxteis5006 3 года назад +52

      She threatened him with lawyers before surgery cuz she couldnt do it sooner

    • @maxteis5006
      @maxteis5006 3 года назад

      @@rennisdodman8739 you

    • @jamesbooth1109
      @jamesbooth1109 3 года назад +20

      @@maxteis5006 there are more important people who are dying faster I know cuz I just recently had surgery they put you at a level my mom is also a medical director so I would know she is a karen if your not dying it is not a priority 😂

  • @nashuaandrews4410
    @nashuaandrews4410 7 лет назад +2985

    My thing is she had problems with them before the surgery and she still went to them

    • @roadrunner40
      @roadrunner40 7 лет назад +87

      Nashua Andrews Has to be the most sensible comment here.

    • @foreversimgirl828
      @foreversimgirl828 7 лет назад +95

      Nashua Andrews right. If she they had a tense meeting then I don't think I'll go or trust them with my surgery

    • @kierancoghlan
      @kierancoghlan 7 лет назад +68

      Nashua Andrews - It's now become every Americans inalienable RIGHT to behave like an ass, and then demand money if they feel the slightest bit offended people's reaction to their behaviour.

    • @nashuaandrews4410
      @nashuaandrews4410 7 лет назад +59

      Yeah if I was the lawyer of the doctor, I would use this recording against her. because if i was in a law suit with someone, i would not be going on tv saying that we got into it and then i came back for your services. technically, she can't sue for words spoken badly against her. SHe chose to continue with their services and so that's the price she will have to pay. That's shame on her, because they fooled her twice.

    • @kitanajadefrost4663
      @kitanajadefrost4663 7 лет назад +36

      Nashua Andrews What if there was no other hospital she could go to that specializes in removing hernias? I work in the medical field and where I live only certain hospitals specialize in certain things 💁 also as a professional woman like you stated in the comments since when was it okay to lack professionalism I wasn't aware it was their jobs as medical professionals to make someone uncomfortable before and during surgery it's their job's to be rude? I've never did anything like this nor have I seen it working under the doctors where I work rather the patient was rude or not

  • @trailsoftrials9080
    @trailsoftrials9080 5 месяцев назад +9

    When I had attempted to overdose on my antidepressants back when I was 17, I always remember the nurses addressing me at the counter as suicide girl. Given the fact I had just attempted to take my life on purpose - it definitely wasn't the best thing to hear. I was already hurting and alone ... and scared ...

    • @rileyf4312
      @rileyf4312 2 месяца назад +2

      So sorry girl. Not exactly the same thing, but I attempted to overdose a while ago and in the ambulance one of the paramedics kept scolding me for being ungrateful for life, asking what I was trying to do to my family, if it was my goal to go to hell, on and on. I know with the job he had and maybe in his personal life he could have lost people the same way. I wasn't in my right mind at the time though and saying those things weren't motivation to get better, they made me feel awful. But at least he was trying to get through to me? It's such appalling form for nurses to refer to you that way so carelessly, like just a hospital bed and not a human. Shame on them

  • @kalasatwater2224
    @kalasatwater2224 Год назад +5

    I woke up midway during my hernia surgery and the doctor was smoking lol

  • @deborahmaza6722
    @deborahmaza6722 3 года назад +3024

    I wouldn't want that energy while my body is open.

    • @frankmangan2113
      @frankmangan2113 3 года назад +1

      Where you from?

    • @TexasBread
      @TexasBread 3 года назад +15

      I was like what's the big deal before I read your comment. Energy is everything

    • @venitamosley8504
      @venitamosley8504 3 года назад +1

      They do record surgeries where I had an ablation surgery

    • @911amossadvanbomberplotaip9
      @911amossadvanbomberplotaip9 3 года назад +16

      many doctors and nurses and their staff are arrogant, medical fireld is streaming with lobby payouts...

    • @bricemzn
      @bricemzn 3 года назад

      Truth

  • @msbuta3148
    @msbuta3148 3 года назад +4026

    I had a tech in the hospital make horrible comments about my daughter. The hospital has placed the case under investigation, what pisses me off is my kid is a minor. I was shocked beyond belief that adults would be behaving this way.

    • @aerionarodgers3353
      @aerionarodgers3353 3 года назад +119

      I am so sorry that happened to you and your daughter :( I hope they get into alot of trouble for that.

    • @msbuta3148
      @msbuta3148 3 года назад +152

      @@aerionarodgers3353 It's still affecting her and makes her question herself instead of having that beautiful confidence that was instilled into her.

    • @milamcdonald7142
      @milamcdonald7142 3 года назад +43

      Horrible, rude medical personnel, I experience myself, and not just ones.

    • @stephanier6783
      @stephanier6783 3 года назад +28

      You may want to start reading about Cluster B disorders. Once you read about these disorders, which are personality disorders, there will never be a time when any human behavior in the world surprises you. You will understand why murderers murder, con artists con, why people are "addicts", serial killers, cult leaders, Trump, Kanye, Russel Brand, and must about any other noticeably f'ed up human being behaves they way do and why they're like toddlers in adult bodies.

    • @tcd807
      @tcd807 3 года назад +5

      It’s not adult it’s just men :(

  • @gramgramsgarden8513
    @gramgramsgarden8513 9 месяцев назад +3

    I am a retired registered nurse and health care professionals should not be talking derogatory remarks about patient even they thought she is under the anesthesia. Very unprofessional conduct. 😢

  • @UFCtrumpsboxing
    @UFCtrumpsboxing 7 месяцев назад +7

    Cowardice ... say it in front of her face when she's awake and lucid

  • @toriannalanam5341
    @toriannalanam5341 3 года назад +5521

    "That just doesn't seem like the thing to say to the person that's going to do your surgery." That sounded kinda like a threat. Like if he wanted to, he could harm her during surgery.

    • @mosamosa4693
      @mosamosa4693 3 года назад +24

      Yeah 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

    • @JuqiterXx
      @JuqiterXx 3 года назад +135

      @Arthur james cant you be quiet and stop causing a riot?

    • @Fahad-bk9pc
      @Fahad-bk9pc 3 года назад +109

      @Arthur james That seem like a joke to you. The doctor operating you and meanwhile making a comment like that.

    • @samarai5494
      @samarai5494 3 года назад +52

      If he did, he would be charged with malpractice and be in deep trouble. He wouldn't dare even if he wanted to. It was a joke anways.

    • @vocter1110
      @vocter1110 3 года назад +26

      Bruh that isn’t a threat. A threat is “imma kill you” and trust me I’ve gotten a considerable amount of them. Did they kill me? No

  • @andreareynolds6143
    @andreareynolds6143 7 лет назад +757

    It was not racially profiling you. They were calling you fat because Precious is fat.

    • @beckwilde
      @beckwilde 7 лет назад +14

      Andrea Reynolds so? its still rude and disrespectful

    • @chalandlerbong217
      @chalandlerbong217 7 лет назад +8

      Rebecca Chen but do the doctors really need to lose their jobs over some words that she wasn't meant to hear? Everyone talks shit about you at one point

    • @beckwilde
      @beckwilde 7 лет назад +4

      ChalandlerBing yea they dont have to lose their jobs. They just need to watch themselves lmao. Theyre in a professional work place

    • @1995Rebel
      @1995Rebel 7 лет назад +1

      First off to the guy above me why don't u apply those stupid opinions to cops and allow them to execute any dick they come across. Second why didn't he call her Melissa McCarthy or Rosie o donel or something. It HAD to be precious? A fat black girl?

    • @1995Rebel
      @1995Rebel 7 лет назад +1

      lunar1745 idgaf what he said tbh I'm telling you that it was obviously race related however. The arguments not about me, When my friends say something about precious I usually laugh. I'm giving facts rather than a dumb opinion like yourself. Back to the point, don't act as if being a good person is a chore or something.

  • @dianalynnelizabeth780
    @dianalynnelizabeth780 Год назад +5

    The problem isn’t that these “healthcare professionals” got caught, the problem is that they should NOT BE WORKING IN HEALTHCARE IF THEY ARE THE KIND OF PEOPLE WHO CAN SAY THESE THINGS. There is a lack of quality of care epidemic going on all over the world and none of these “healthcare professionals” are ever held accountable or responsible considering “justice systems” are literally set up to protect “doctors” at all costs.
    It’s not enough to be able to afford healthcare, the healthcare needs to be superb. Every single human being deserves quality healthcare. These “doctors” & “healthcare professionals” think they’re gods and can get away with anything. they are far too privileged and protected by society & the system. THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE SO IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF NEGLIGENT HEALTHCARE, YOU NEED TO SPEAK UP AND TRY TO FIGHT BACK OR ELSE THINGS WILL NEVER CHANGE AND JUST GET WORSE. End of story.

  • @lenikastalbert5649
    @lenikastalbert5649 Год назад +26

    This happens everyday especially when serving certain populations. We live in a country where your position & expertise in a field means more than your ethics or morals. This is what happens when they believe no ones looking. The second you try to defend yourself, you’re crazy or you’re looking for a lawsuit. It can’t possibly be trying to hold people accountable & ensure change. Language matters & bedside manners too. As a collective, we MUST do better.

    • @blackfeel9172
      @blackfeel9172 Год назад

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    • @Goorood
      @Goorood 6 месяцев назад

      And it should be so, knowledge expertise and experience are the only qualities a patient should worry about his doctor. Better have a cynical doctor that knows whats he doing than one who's nice with ethics and morals, unless you have a death wish of course. 🤣Almost all doctor turn cynical and have weird jokes among self about patients, you will lose sanity if being empathetic and connected with each human being. Sometimes they die, and doctors and nurses have to cope with that somehow or else PTSD is a given

  • @rachelwyatt6030
    @rachelwyatt6030 2 года назад +11360

    When I worked in the emergency room for a while, I could NOT believe the way patients were talked about and mocked behind their backs. Everyone assumed most were lying , embellishing their problems or just drug seeking. It was awful to see how they judged every person coming in.

    • @jaclynlockwood1234
      @jaclynlockwood1234 2 года назад +552

      That’s something I’m witnessing as an x ray tech student. They’re so disrespectful and callous. It makes me hate being there and it’s sad cause I thought I would love it.

    • @inmyownwords9798
      @inmyownwords9798 2 года назад +242

      You're exactly right. I was in x-ray school and saw it first hand. Don't come to the er with a serious issue even without insurance 😒 the staff will talk badly about you and not give the best care. They might even ridicule you to your face.

    • @inmyownwords9798
      @inmyownwords9798 2 года назад +156

      @@jaclynlockwood1234 I was in x-ray school and was dismissed the semester before graduation.... it was all unethical and I witnessed the most of it. I'm a black woman and often would be the only one in my area. It didn't bother me one iota. What did bother me was when someone would slip up and say something like yeah but not a black girl.. in any case I'm no longer there & what a reality check to be behind the scenes.

    • @missydonald6381
      @missydonald6381 2 года назад +84

      Did you ever say anything? These things need to be reported it’s not right…

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 года назад +25

      horrid

  • @Pikachu-qr4yb
    @Pikachu-qr4yb 2 года назад +4342

    I still can't get over "she hid a recorder in her hair extensions" 😂

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 2 года назад +161

      Where else could you hide it! They won't even let you keep your underwear on because it "might catch fire", gee why on earth would it catch fire? What are they doing!

    • @donnie_deadite
      @donnie_deadite 2 года назад +272

      I don't see how people can get in trouble for this, regardless. The fact that she hid the recorder is proof that she was fishing for a lawsuit. People are entitled to their opinions, people are entitled to free speech. Just because you don't like what they say doesn't mean you should be awarded millions of dollars for "damages". What damages? The fact that this practice is a thing in this world is ridiculous. People can sue for anything.

    • @Pikachu-qr4yb
      @Pikachu-qr4yb 2 года назад +5

      @@donnie_deadite....where did I say I don't like it?

    • @Skxtra.
      @Skxtra. 2 года назад +16

      @@Pikachu-qr4yb Don't think they were referring to you.

    • @RJ-mh3ox
      @RJ-mh3ox 2 года назад +78

      @@donnie_deadite the girl was saying you shouldn’t talk about someone who’s doing your surgery thats an extremely dangerous and evil way of thinking that’s practically threatening to kill someone that specific person should get sued not for anything over like 10k though

  • @nforne
    @nforne 3 месяца назад +3

    Being a jerk to the people providing you with a service then secretly recording them discussing you sounds like a great business plan. $$$

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 7 месяцев назад +3

    Good for that patient. She was very wise. I’m going to be doing that.

  • @katararose8724
    @katararose8724 2 года назад +3611

    This happened to me when I was in my 20's in surgery. They were talking together and said I would never remember because of anesthesia. But I heard them bad mouthing me on the table and I remember. You come to these people for help and they stand there judging you. If your a professional act like one.

    • @cyberpleb2472
      @cyberpleb2472 2 года назад +41

      *you're

    • @mjshaheed
      @mjshaheed 2 года назад +20

      @@cyberpleb2472 lmao

    • @penpinson12882
      @penpinson12882 2 года назад +142

      @@cyberpleb2472 if you get the point, why correct it?

    • @cyberpleb2472
      @cyberpleb2472 2 года назад +17

      @@penpinson12882 Why are you so keen to accept laziness and sloppiness?

    • @penpinson12882
      @penpinson12882 2 года назад +114

      @@cyberpleb2472 I’m not. I just dont reply with unnecessary things.

  • @bathingapes112
    @bathingapes112 2 года назад +6078

    One of my best friends is a traveling RN. She’s real young too. She told me “I will always be loyal to my patients but I will NEVER be loyal to a hospital” and she shared with me how greedy & neglectful hospitals are and how verbally abusive doctors can be. Disgusting

    • @Broken_Helix
      @Broken_Helix 2 года назад +165

      It's ridiculous! You would think that those "prestigious" universities should teach those doctors some manners

    • @exquisite921
      @exquisite921 2 года назад +24

      It’s very true i work behind the scenes and everyday it’s something

    • @optimusprime5166
      @optimusprime5166 2 года назад +5

      That reminds me of a anime called tenjou tenge. It was a small clip from a wrestler character back story.

    • @phandanouvong_1975
      @phandanouvong_1975 2 года назад +51

      @@Broken_Helix It is often the most "presitgious" in our day and age that lack basic humanity. Too busy boasting about their PhD or whatnot.

    • @nuubier8911
      @nuubier8911 2 года назад +1

      @@phandanouvong_1975 You seem to have a misbelief of what humanity is

  • @kierrabrossette2117
    @kierrabrossette2117 Год назад +10

    This is the reason why, no matter where I am I WILL NOT ALLOW INJUSTICE TO TAKE PLACE INFRONT OF ME. Idgaf if your a doctor, nurse, police officer, my boss whoever you will be corrected. Y’all allow people to get away with whatever and never stand up for yourselves or others and it’s completely sad

    • @Katch.22
      @Katch.22 5 месяцев назад

      😢👏👏👏 Thank you! I will join you!!

  • @CringerKitty
    @CringerKitty 5 месяцев назад +3

    Regarding a colonoscopy, a lot of people don’t know this, but you can have them done without sedation. I know a lot of people that don’t want one without sedation, but this is yet another reason to not go under if possible.

  • @alphamail8974
    @alphamail8974 3 года назад +3158

    I never wanna go into surgery. Shittalk is NOT the worst thing that can happen.

    • @addison7624
      @addison7624 3 года назад +29

      Unless you actually need it?

    • @carolyncj2448
      @carolyncj2448 3 года назад +7

      Truth.

    • @Natboi19
      @Natboi19 3 года назад +68

      *starts dying and needs surgery*

    • @gamechange2635
      @gamechange2635 3 года назад +11

      I hope u need surgery in 2 days

    • @Natboi19
      @Natboi19 3 года назад +3

      Yeah I hope you need surgery normie

  • @dhbedard420
    @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +1144

    how did a comment about her weight turn in to racial profiling? it was rude and unprofessional but not racial profiling....

    • @dhbedard420
      @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +46

      yah i picked up on that Niki..... doesn't change the fact they were commenting on her weight and not her skin color......

    • @dhbedard420
      @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +41

      And if precious is black and so was the lady, then thats not only an accurate but a valid statement.. hurtful, yes ... but not fucking racial profiling...

    • @Utada379
      @Utada379 7 лет назад +48

      then you didn't pick up on anything. Weight, the mammy stereotype, and now Precious conflate weight and the troupe of the fat Black woman. So once again, you didn't pick up anything. Critical Thinking is essential. Racial profiling isn't limited to skin color.

    • @dhbedard420
      @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +11

      hah stop commenting then Niki, you keep pointing out the obvious and stating it as if i'm not aware, your wasting your own time.

    • @dhbedard420
      @dhbedard420 7 лет назад +5

      and to utada, you stating i didn't pick up on anything, does not in fact infer i didn't. sorry to burst your bubble.

  • @kellydesilva6733
    @kellydesilva6733 8 месяцев назад +1

    It is absolutley unprofessional and shameful that these people would talk about anyone in this way. It is unfathomable that they could think that this juvenile derogatory banter is ok under any circumstances. Patients have a right to dignity!

  • @VivaLaGlamXOXO
    @VivaLaGlamXOXO 5 месяцев назад +4

    Why would you even trust someone with your health after an exchange of words?

    • @user-tv1xj5ji6x
      @user-tv1xj5ji6x 9 дней назад

      Hello Ashley, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??

  • @zeldax3kid
    @zeldax3kid 7 лет назад +2109

    The doctors should've been more professional than that, however it was dumb of her to pull the race card. This had nothing to do with race.

    • @nobody5463
      @nobody5463 7 лет назад +11

      You talk shit like everyone else does at your job no one is professional among coworkers or friends.

    • @Jml615
      @Jml615 7 лет назад +9

      Paul George I would completely agree with that comment

    • @Jayjen35
      @Jayjen35 7 лет назад +31

      No Body This is true if the professional was a mechanic, a cab driver or a waitress. But these are people that literally hold individuals' lives in their hands. This woman literally trusts these people with her life as all patients do. Would you want to hear the person performing surgery on your mother or father talking about them while they are on the operating table?
      It is not out of order to expect that surgeons and operating room staff show reasonable respect for their patients and are mindfull of what they say while they are in surgery..
      If they want the respect and trust given to those in their profession it would pay them not to treat their clients the same way a fast food worker would or store clerk would.

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 7 лет назад +15

      She was looking for approval and didn't get it. Matter of fact, she underhandedly tried to secretly listen to private conversations in hopes to get praise. Serves the fat bitch right.

    • @bestoutcomes
      @bestoutcomes 7 лет назад +5

      yes, not smart to pull race ... race is rarely involved, but folks create it into one, but all that said I do not hold this woman responsible in the least, she didn't deserve to be bullied especially while in that position of vulnerability and undergoing a surgery, the medical/ surgical team were not only unprofessional, they violated care standards, state and federal laws ... but what do I know, all I have is 30 years in healthcare risk management

  • @ashleycole6498
    @ashleycole6498 6 лет назад +8215

    That was really unprofessional and rude of the doctors but it worries me that the women felt the need to hide the recorder in her hair.

    • @shayestewart4429
      @shayestewart4429 6 лет назад +413

      Ashley Cole well it's illegal to record someone without consent.

    • @maplehockeylove6339
      @maplehockeylove6339 6 лет назад +971

      space girl If it was illegal to talk during surgery you'd find the death rate ridiculously high

    • @davidcopperfield-notthemag397
      @davidcopperfield-notthemag397 6 лет назад +374

      It can't' be illegal to talk during surgery. The doctor has to ask for tools, wraps, etc. Plus the anesthesiologist has to tell the doctor if things aren't working safely.
      I wondered about the safety of someone putting a recorder in their hair before surgery. That is a lot of hair!

    • @maplehockeylove6339
      @maplehockeylove6339 6 лет назад +204

      space girl They're allowed to talk about patient information (they need to, anyways) and anything too private(exact address, background, etc) wouldn't be available to them in the first place. Things like talking about "Oh she was so rude" or "Why are all my patients like this" are not restricted at all. It's common sense not to say it to the patient's face, after all, and doctors need *some* sort of conversational outlet other than "Yo can you hand me the scalpel" or "So uh... nice weather we're having? Not that I've gone outside in the last 12 hours or anything"

    • @Misscaliswag
      @Misscaliswag 6 лет назад +17

      Ashley Cole obviously that was the reason...and she was obviously right....duhhh....she also said that they had a lil disagreement involving her case not being booked within the two weeks prior to her surgery....

  • @spac18
    @spac18 10 месяцев назад +9

    Who threatens to sue the surgeon if the, surgery isn't booked within rwo weeks? I have zero sympathy for her.

  • @ReservedGeo
    @ReservedGeo 2 года назад +5279

    I've lost trust in doctors ever since they ignored my grandma's continuous calls for help when she couldn't breathe. I had to call up there and demand that they give her a treatment for them to do something.

    • @Amberxxbbunni
      @Amberxxbbunni 2 года назад +89

      Sue them!!

    • @mohammadalikarimi8055
      @mohammadalikarimi8055 2 года назад +213

      @@Amberxxbbunni it's sad but something that needs to be spot lighted. Older people do not get treatment at hospitals because they are "old" so they act like it's wasted resources to try to add 10 years to someone who is 70. Versus giving treatment to add 60 years to someone who is 20. Their logic makes no sense. These are our grand parents and parents for gods sake. The people we love and who raised us.

    • @MrHippo08
      @MrHippo08 2 года назад +30

      @@mohammadalikarimi8055 I don't know how it works in other countries. But where I live we exercise palliative care. It is inserted into a patients careplan when there's only unnecessary suffering to try to extend a person life and all care given is only to increase quality of life until the end.
      There are also things that a person have to consider. A weakend body might not be able to take all kinds of medicines, under go major surgeries, partake in intense rehab plans, etc. compared to a young healthy body (which is always taken into consideration when deciding care for a person). There's of course the factor of people getting weakend by age, however the number itself isn't what decides a persons care, a patients physical evaluation does (which is what weakens with age).

    • @lordium1848
      @lordium1848 2 года назад +60

      @@mohammadalikarimi8055 actually, their logic makes sense, but it’s still a wrong thing to do. 🤷‍♂️

    • @mohammadalikarimi8055
      @mohammadalikarimi8055 2 года назад +59

      @@lordium1848 it does make sense. Just doesn't seem humane.. it's right and wrong at the same time.

  • @mariazahedi7444
    @mariazahedi7444 2 года назад +5444

    I have worked in the medical field before. I used to think it was a professional and honourable career until I started working with them, but I have never met people that are more disrespectful and entitled. No matter what your work is, if you don't have the person's best interest in hand-do not do the job. I'm glad she recorded it, and I hope she sues the crap out of them.

    • @anh7807
      @anh7807 2 года назад +159

      I have to agree. After nearly 4 years in the medical field, most of the healthcare workers shouldn't be in the field.

    • @anh7807
      @anh7807 2 года назад +109

      @@Mai-lh3xc honestly, healthcare can be one of the most frustrating places you'll ever work. The stuff you see is of nightmares. People dying all the time, feces, vomit, physical assault that you can do nothing about. The public has no clue... it can be like a horror movie. You also are always facing a lawsuit. The stuff in the video is the way workers unload from all the stress... although it's not the right way.

    • @z3rl905
      @z3rl905 2 года назад +12

      Like you always do your work for the interest of others and not buy a new car, phone, get a house etc. You guys are probably cursing at your home office right now and judging these guys, who never thought the patient was going to listen any of that, by doing the same, hypocrites

    • @cjc4426
      @cjc4426 2 года назад +68

      I started working for the law enforcement and also thought it was a professional, honorable career. Some are legit professionals but others ones are egotistical assholes who take advantage of their authority

    • @nagratna793
      @nagratna793 2 года назад +13

      @@anh7807 being racial can't have any better excuse

  • @CountryKyle007
    @CountryKyle007 5 месяцев назад +6

    Sorry but I don’t think they really did anything wrong. Not like they said it to her face. Recording people without letting them know is wrong

  • @roythousand13
    @roythousand13 3 месяца назад +2

    There is more to this story than what is being reported. Especially the first story! Why did the patient threaten to sue her surgeons before the surgery?

  • @iigo0diyt68
    @iigo0diyt68 7 лет назад +2381

    it wasn't anything racist, they just thought you were fat

    • @original2539
      @original2539 7 лет назад +147

      she talked shit and she's surprised they commented back

    • @brandon2932
      @brandon2932 7 лет назад +61

      Chemistry Modz ^TRIGGERED

    • @Max-nu1bd
      @Max-nu1bd 7 лет назад +11

      Chemistry Modz Broken glass? Why don't you eat broken glass next time you make a mistake little miss perfect sunshine?

    • @dr.gonzo4205
      @dr.gonzo4205 7 лет назад +4

      brandon2932​ The only trigger I fuck with is the one behind a chamber. 🔫 I'd split that fuckin clown wig. 

    • @napoleoncontreras4184
      @napoleoncontreras4184 7 лет назад +2

      Chemistry Modz woah

  • @winsterphilipp347
    @winsterphilipp347 4 года назад +4617

    Let's be real people, persons talk behind people back,we are only offended because they got caught

    • @earthangel6858
      @earthangel6858 4 года назад +17

      True

    • @gent0069
      @gent0069 4 года назад +82

      @EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Nah you most definitely have said something behind someones back at some point in your life that you wouldnt dare say to themselves.

    • @gent0069
      @gent0069 4 года назад +63

      @EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS There is no grown adult who has not done it. Unconciously we as humans do it. Thats just the truth, you might not want to do it which is good, or you try your best not to do it, but you definitely did it at some point in your life. To say that you never talked behind someones back in your life is a pretty bold and ridiculous statement.

    • @gent0069
      @gent0069 4 года назад +16

      @EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Definitely but human nature is the same wherever you go.

    • @gent0069
      @gent0069 4 года назад +18

      @EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Who the hell would talk behind someones back in their home lmao? People do it in secret.

  • @kamalionify
    @kamalionify 9 месяцев назад +3

    Wtf man! Sue the hell out of them! Teach them a lesson

  • @MissTJ516
    @MissTJ516 2 месяца назад +4

    Lots of people on this world are mean spirited and disgusting I am not surprised! And they’re all doctors, lawyers, teachers etc!

    • @ematise
      @ematise 2 месяца назад

      Why does this mean spirited people are clumping in the positions of power?

  • @redhedhik-chik2510
    @redhedhik-chik2510 3 года назад +1947

    When I was a nursing student in 1991, I witnessed an 18 year old Mom give birth to a perfect little baby girl.
    However, the medical staff belittled the Mom while she was under anesthesia joking that the doctor should 'tie her tubes'. I was horrified and made my feelings known. Never will I forget that day.

    • @erasedkarma
      @erasedkarma 3 года назад +12

      Unless it was after the delivery that didn’t happen. Also tie her tubes is a weak ass joke.

    • @redhedhik-chik2510
      @redhedhik-chik2510 3 года назад +127

      @@erasedkarma huh?

    • @erasedkarma
      @erasedkarma 3 года назад +16

      You don’t give anesthesia to moms because it would slow down the heartrate of the baby which is extremely dangerous.

    • @redhedhik-chik2510
      @redhedhik-chik2510 3 года назад +168

      @@erasedkarma this was 1991. C- section. Trust me, I was there.

    • @erasedkarma
      @erasedkarma 3 года назад +4

      @@redhedhik-chik2510 oh that was a while ago idk what it was like back then but now they def don’t do it.

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 2 года назад +7436

    I’ve said it a million times, and I’ll say it again... it’s hard to find an employee who really cares!! Wether it’s retail, the medical field, or any job for that matter. To have empathy, compassion and professionalism is a rare find.

    • @lordzooq8987
      @lordzooq8987 2 года назад +83

      That is actually a good point

    • @shaimbayise3245
      @shaimbayise3245 2 года назад +26

      Retail people em so moody or rude to costomers..

    • @Uranianth
      @Uranianth 2 года назад +78

      because most humans are narcissistic. antinatalism is the way

    • @alanamechling
      @alanamechling 2 года назад +63

      At least in my case it's hard to be too much of the first two items because you have both management and patients being rude to you. I had a patient scream at me for 30 minutes because I told him I can't fax him his results when they come back the next day. So between that, other people being mean and management saying you have to be faster and handle more and more? It's easy to bite back any empathy and compassion you have

    • @yaadi876
      @yaadi876 2 года назад +3

      I swear

  • @rae6555
    @rae6555 29 дней назад +2

    Isn't it disrespectfull to just record people who are supposed to save your life without their permission?

  • @pharmatrix14singer
    @pharmatrix14singer Год назад +6

    I’m very sorry for the patient. She shouldn’t experienced that kind of treatment from medical professionals. As a health ally myself, I am ashamed with these doctors and nurses who comment badly on their patients. That is horrible. Girl, you should sue them. I’m with you.

  • @angelanymom6992
    @angelanymom6992 4 года назад +2764

    What's crazy is she feels the need to secretly record her surgeon whom she obviously does not trust yet she's putting her life in his hands during the time she's recording him. Makes no sense to me. If I had some issue with my Dr, I'd go and find a new one.

    • @karen_louvor9348
      @karen_louvor9348 4 года назад +23

      angela nymom I was thinking the same thing!

    • @lilyheartfilia7744
      @lilyheartfilia7744 4 года назад +90

      Yea she do that on pupose to get money

    • @melissafasheh3530
      @melissafasheh3530 4 года назад +9

      Agreed!!!!!

    • @Medschoolsurvivor2022
      @Medschoolsurvivor2022 4 года назад +33

      People will do anything for money these days.

    • @1cole256
      @1cole256 4 года назад +65

      You act like she forced the doctors to talk shit about her 😂😂 people get exposed like this Bc they literally talk shit all the time

  • @Undrept
    @Undrept 2 года назад +8834

    I've had the unpleasant experience of witnessing my coworkers and other hospital staff members make fun of the way a mother reacted who just lost her daughter. I was the only one to comfort her while everyone else laughed. I no longer work there.

    • @geechyguy3441
      @geechyguy3441 2 года назад +93

      Honestly whenever something gives you a lot of stress you use humor as a way to cope with it. They’ve seen hundreds of mother’s lose their daughters so at that point it wasn’t such a big thing to them anymore. All the stress of working in a high-pressure job can really only be combatted with humor. I know cause I worked one myself. As long as you still get the job done effectively it doesn’t really matter.

    • @triplebeans4159
      @triplebeans4159 2 года назад +1455

      @@geechyguy3441 foolish attempt at excusing vile behavior.You need to get your head checked.

    • @zexelflame
      @zexelflame 2 года назад +304

      @@geechyguy3441 u sound dumb as hell

    • @ericwillingham6956
      @ericwillingham6956 2 года назад +453

      @@youtubepremium2152 How is being a doctor or not being a doctor relevant 2 the expectation of professional behavior??

    • @peeweepixie3655
      @peeweepixie3655 2 года назад +107

      I hope you called those horrible coworkers out.

  • @VivaLaVittoria
    @VivaLaVittoria 2 месяца назад +1

    When I had surgery a few years ago I found a surgeon who I felt REALLY comfortable with. I was seeing her for care for a while before, and then ongoing for months after, the surgery and I know she's the nicest person ever. I was worried because the day of the surgery I found out she'd have another doctor who was doing a fellowship working alongside her and I hadn't met him before that day. He seemed ok though. Later I saw him for care a couple times for a bit of an emergency when my primary doctor was out of town, and he was a total angel. I feel blessed to have had good people working over me when I'm unconscious, laying there totally vulnerable. But I'd had a bad experience in the past so I knew how important it was to me to find a doctor I was REALLY comfortable with to do my surgery. If I had a single reservation with them, I would have switched doctors. There are some gems out there, just gotta dig.

  • @Muhabbatik
    @Muhabbatik Год назад +5

    Imo her bringing the recording device was already planned to phish for a cause to sue the hospital for settlement $$ I bet there isn't she went to the media because hospital didn't pay anything nor suspended the doctors I'm glad hospital didn't do that people like that deserve what they get...

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 Год назад

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured

    • @blackfeel9172
      @blackfeel9172 Год назад

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @nonyabiznes1176
    @nonyabiznes1176 3 года назад +4004

    Maybe all operations should be recorded. Then they would be straight up professional.

    • @brandoncook3158
      @brandoncook3158 3 года назад +28

      There is "MUST BE PROFESSIONAL" language vs "BUSSINESS/CASUAL" language. You should not get paid for spying on "BUSSINESS/CASUAL" language.

    • @brandoncook3158
      @brandoncook3158 3 года назад +26

      Whats next? Cameras in the breakroom?

    • @nonyabiznes1176
      @nonyabiznes1176 3 года назад +10

      @@brandoncook3158 Nah

    • @1988jeffy
      @1988jeffy 3 года назад +95

      @@brandoncook3158 This isn't "business/casual" medicine doesn't neatly fit into that simplistic category. You are entrusted with someones health. You don't make disparaging remarks while performing surgery.

    • @1988jeffy
      @1988jeffy 3 года назад +55

      @@brandoncook3158 Are you entrusted with the care of someone in the breakroom? These things are not the same.