Always Putting Others First? Try This Now

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  • @marieforleo
    @marieforleo  10 месяцев назад +9

    Need help making time for yourself? Grab my free tool, The Ultimate Guide to Saying No, with word-for-word scripts to help you set loving boundaries → www.marieforleo.com/blog/how-to-say-no-ultimate-guide

  • @jbsllearn8061
    @jbsllearn8061 9 месяцев назад +13

    This is my chat with Marie! Such a privilege to get to discuss my question - and to receive such care with Marie's response and suggestions. 'Observe, don't absorb' has helped me many times this year, both with clients and myself. Timely to see this now as we come towards the end of 2023. Great time to reflect on things and shape how we approach 2024. Take care everyone!

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад +2

      We're so grateful you're here. Thank you for sharing your love and light with us and the world - you're an inspiration! Keep up the amazing work. 💖💪

  • @noral8788
    @noral8788 10 месяцев назад +10

    Completely agree. In my sea of grief, the ones who helped me the most were the ones who were grounded and strong - and not absorb my own heavy emotions. Let's hope we can all carry ourselves with intention without the emotional heaviness

  • @caroleseens607
    @caroleseens607 9 месяцев назад +5

    Number 1 Observe - don't absorb........ I can get entangled in sadness at the state of the world ...... also try to over help those I see needing help. I become an enabler. So now learning to hold space with compassion and just listen but not offer advice unless asked to. Now I send distance Reiki to ALL every morning which uplifts myself and I feel uplifts those it lands on. Thank you Marie for these 3 suggestions you gave.

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад +1

      Always. Thank you for watching! 💜

  • @Taylor11_11
    @Taylor11_11 10 месяцев назад +9

    Thank youuu so much for this question ❤❤❤❤❤
    I’ve been struggling so much with the wording of what to do, how to ask for help, and lost in the process of trying to understand how to get through the thresh hold of even knowing where to turn for advice.
    For me, the light really shines on the reminder to prioritize my responsibilities, and “observe don’t absorb”.
    It’s refreshing to know there are others that care about a community like this one. Also, “every day” stood out to me along with health and the gym. ❤ I’m so grateful. ❤

  • @ariairida
    @ariairida 10 месяцев назад +8

    That was a truly beautiful conversation. Loved how deep and meaningful it was. Thanks so much.

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад +1

      💖💖💖

  • @bukowski33
    @bukowski33 10 месяцев назад +2

    I LOVE THIS! Thanks Marie! As a bonafide people pleaser, I will use the Observe not Absorb. Thank you!

  • @marie-reinekabis1515
    @marie-reinekabis1515 10 месяцев назад +3

    Such a POWERFUL talk thank you for this share and remember to be HUMAN...OMG! Observe don't obsurb /Joy / Prayer / Such wisdom...And prayers are the strongest energy EVER....Love you Marie and your team xooX God bless...

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      We love you too! Thank you for being here. 💖

  • @TruthParadise-vg6hl
    @TruthParadise-vg6hl 10 месяцев назад +2

    I usually don't watch anything that begins with a negative focus but I love you so I wanted to tune into your message and you as usually do, delivered an important reminder

  • @colorandmica
    @colorandmica 10 месяцев назад +2

    Oh, I love you both, ladies. Thank you for this episode ❤️

  • @sterlingmichaels
    @sterlingmichaels 9 месяцев назад +1

    "Observe - don't Absorb!" Great Words of Wisdom. ❤🙏✨️💓😉

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      So happy you're here! 😊

  • @suzyliller9081
    @suzyliller9081 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for saying hen we make time for ourselves we are helping those we’re trying to help

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      It's so true and so hard to remember sometimes. Taking care of you is just as important as taking care of others. 💗

  • @evastum5765
    @evastum5765 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am an Observer, not an Absorber.
    A new thought that I will affirm.
    Thank you!

  • @SangeetBachanKaur
    @SangeetBachanKaur 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you dears for all the love and intention share with your work and content! Big hugs and love!

  • @aklitmark
    @aklitmark 9 месяцев назад

    I felt a lot of resonance and remembering of self-care practices.

  • @vickid3081
    @vickid3081 10 месяцев назад +1

    Empowering advice for givers. Self-care sustains impactful service. Thank you, Marie!

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      What a fantastic summary. Grateful for you and your voice, Vicki! 💪

  • @skerplatd
    @skerplatd 10 месяцев назад +3

    So timely! This is the season when self care is vital.

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад +1

      SUCH a wonderful reminder. 💪

  • @andreavarano7297
    @andreavarano7297 5 месяцев назад

    Where do you purchase your clothes ? I love them!

  • @BeautyNeedsAWitness
    @BeautyNeedsAWitness 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @Moastaylimelightlovesbl564
    @Moastaylimelightlovesbl564 10 месяцев назад

    This something i was struggling with for a long time,so very much glad to find this video today. Indeed #Observe not absorb

  • @pemmafox9953
    @pemmafox9953 10 месяцев назад

    This was a beautiful and truly helpful conversation! Thank you 🙏✨♥

  • @1960genius
    @1960genius 7 месяцев назад

    Marie! This was such helpful advice ♥️🤗🤗

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 7 месяцев назад

      We're so happy to hear it. And so happy you're HERE! Thank you for watching with us 💖

  • @davidkohre1712
    @davidkohre1712 10 месяцев назад

    😊

  • @anitawilliams22
    @anitawilliams22 8 месяцев назад

    I will be using all of this. ❤ love to you both and the Community at wide ❤

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 8 месяцев назад

      You're so very welcome, Anita. We're happy you're here. Sending you so much love! ❤

  • @DrBernadetteDulawan
    @DrBernadetteDulawan 10 месяцев назад

    prayer... liftimg a prayer fro my mum. whose bday 89 today ad so too fro peace in the world.

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      Sending you and your mom so much love and light. Happy Birthday to her! 🍰🎈

  • @oceanbreeze1873
    @oceanbreeze1873 10 месяцев назад

    Prayer in whatever way it helps me give that situation or person/ppl the time and space to acknowledge the struggle and to honor them. To send them healing energy and serves me to stay humble and grateful.

    • @TeamForleo
      @TeamForleo 9 месяцев назад

      We love this share so much. Your loved ones are so very lucky to have you! (And so are we.) 💜