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Swoop!!! Seriously!!! U look GORGEOUS!!!! AND UR CHOCKER IS AMAZING!!!😳❤ and thank u for the little pep talk at 9:31 cuz I need it from time to time!!🤗❤
I'm curious about the viewers/stans/cult-like followers who defend people like James, Gabbie, David, Trisha, etc. that have long records of issues with lots of proof to back it up yet ignore and twist everything. I keep thinking about people who come forward as "former stans" and how they have been used for money and ego. You can even take it to a larger scale with mainstream celebs and politicians. I'm really struggling to wrap my head around people who voted for the most recent former President again and how they defend his heinous record, I truly can't understand it because I just keep thinking about all the people that's are being targeted, hurt, disregarded, and all the many contradictions they make (favorite is "pro-life" when it's reproductive health" aka anti-pro-choice yet with an actual pandemic that has a vaccine they are now saying "pro-choice" for doing what they want such as vaccines no matter what the government says which is clearly anti-"pro-life" because the virus is killing people especially those who are unvaccinated). Seriously whatever scale the approach or anything you make analyzing something I'm down to watch and always walk away learning something and thinking about something.
@@emizintriago8015 she isn't in therapy? 😳 Oh my, she is very unwell and needs absolute professional help. And that's not to be rude or entitled, my therapist saves me on a weekly basis 💚 at my sickest, I thought therapy was a sign of weakness and "I don't need it". Now that I'm growing and learning and healing in active therapy , it's the only way for me in my life 🙏🏻 Have a great Sunday ☀️
Oh wow, well I wasn’t expecting a shoutout, that’s very cool of you! Once again you did a fantastic job, especially with explaining the differences between disorders and traits in mental illnesses, it’s really important people know the differences, and very important to be able to recognize manipulation and toxic behavior. Looking forward to the next video.
*SA survivor get emotional* General public: it didnt happen! Look how emotional they're acting! It's just a sob story! *SA survivor stays calm and doesnt get emotional* General public: it didnt happen! Look at how calm they're acting! A real survivor would be emotional! Also general public: why didnt they just come forward about their abuse? I just.....I just cant.
You seriously worded it perfectly. It is so fucking terrifying to come out with your story, due to how this kind of stuff happens time and time again when we do.
@@Tw0DotsI mean, some girl from LA hardly invented the southern church lady line about the Lord testing her either. I bet she thinks it sounds natural when she peppers her speech with “y’all” too. 🙄
@@PettyUniversity his 'im exhausted face' mirrors so many of ours Every second of hearing her bull A moment of silence for everyone who has to deal with Gabbie Hannah 🏳️🏳️
I think Jessi even said in a video that she realised how manipulative Gabbie was after watching Trishas video on her and she realised how Gabbie had low key manipulated her into stop being friends with other people which is crazy
Some of the best advice I've ever recieved, and some that Gabbie NEEDS to hear. "IF IT SMELLS LIKE SHIT EVERYWHERE YOU GO, CHECK YOUR OWN DAMN SHOES BEFORE POINTING FINGERS."
@@BlueDevilll I love that one!! What country are you from? I hear lots of different iterations of this saying, from all over the world and it makes me so happy because it's just proof that it's a very good saying.
I have GH fatigue, I really dislike hearing her voice saying all her exhausting conflicting hateful lies and manipulation. But there’s no way I could miss your videos. The information, the very satisfying petty University and your perfectly articulated points calling her out just soothes my soul. I still never want to hear GH’s voice ever again.
I only know of this monstrosity of a person because, when I did a rabbit hole binge of writers-reacting-badly-to-reviews videos, I found Rachel Oates in my recommend bar. Gave her a try, which then brought up Jessi Smiles. "Hey," past me thought, "I've heard of Jessi Smiles before. She played Joan of Arc in the Epic Rap Battle series. I liked her presence, her flow was good, and she clearly won over 'Miley Cyrus'. Let's see what this is about." My life has never been the same. Add in a chance watch on a Cr**psh*w Art video and my ears have yet to recover. At least, through those horrors, I found Swoop, EmilyArtful, FatSajak, and HelloLeesh, along with Rachel Oates. My coffee-and-game daily/writing content lol.
Just a note on the toxic relationship portion: a lot of people hear "relationship" and think romantic partner. The example given is obviously a "friendship" and I can say for certain, having had a toxic friend who isolated me from other friends: it's not just romantic partners. A toxic friend isn't just one who's off putting, overtly mean, and dramatic, they can also be subtle and chip away at you for years. Look out for these signs with your friends too.
THIS!!!! it took me a long time (3 years) to realize how toxic a friendship was bc it was a slow descent BUT also people rarely talk about toxic relationships with friends. Going thro the list of signs one day for a psych paper made me realize how that friendship made me feel and it was the same feeling when Swoop was reading thro it too!
Yeah. It’s fucked up. My friendship with my high school bff left me with serious psychological bruises and problems when it comes to any sort of relationship. This is serious, I wish people could give toxic friendships the same attention.
Gabbie is the common denominator.....but she's still the victim in her own mind? What? She was so close to getting it and then went straight into a perpetual "UwU I'm the victim" mood? Gabbie has gone past the moral event horizon. She's not a nice, cool, or good person. At this point she's just a mean, bitter, nasty, awful person who can't deal with the consequences of her actions, her fading star, or the fact that she sucks.
That’s the thing with actual narcissists, when they victimise others and the others stand up and speak their story. The narcissist talks and talks at you about how they are the victim. Like, I can’t stand Gabbie Hanna, she’s the embodiment of someone I fell victim to 7 years ago. The narcissist radar is strong in one, and will not feed the troll narc/.
She’s constantly calling people “monsters” too, and she has an entire song calling herself one. Someday she’s going to look back on all of this, and she’s going to realize her lack of self awareness, and she’s not going to be able to do anything except cringe and regret it.
@@Hannah-nh5qj 💯💯 Yes ma’am!!! I have seen all about her through Alx James! I LOVE him and what she tried to say about him was ridiculous. I never listened to the song, and now I don’t want to.
All of her shirts are coordinated with her situation. You think she didn’t throw on that check on your friends shirt after her welfare check? She has no credibility.
As someone who was victim to a person very similar to GH, this video has really made me feel better. I felt like I was the only one seeing her nonchalant attitude as manipulation and though I was just hyper-sensitive to the issue given my history but you’ve articulated what’s made me uncomfortable better than I ever could! Thank you♥️
Narcissistic abuse is for real, and I'm so happy it's getting the attention it deserves. I guess that's one good thing to come from all this bs - awareness, education and good god, the warnings everyone needs. Hope you're doing ok and healing/healed up well.
@@lunacouer thank you so much, that means a lot! I think I'm over it as it's been five years but I'm nervous I'm actually not and fresh trauma I experienced is somehow related even though it was completely different
I am someone who's bottled up trauma because I feel like people think I am being overdramatic, so when people like Gabbie say things about manipulating others with sob stories, it just tells people like me that our brains are correct in processing our trauma by NOT processing it to protect others. everything that comes out of Gabbie's mouth is pretty disgusting and she is everything that a mental health advocate should NOT be.
I hope it helps to know that's she's an outlier. She accused Jessi of manipulation because that's how she uses her "sob stories". She wants attention, she's seen how other people get sympathy when they discuss their pain, so she uses it to get that attention. But she has zero awareness that's not why people share their pain. She doesn't understand that it's for healing, processing and connection, not for the reaction. So she thinks that anyone who shares trauma are doing it to manipulate people, because that's what _she_ does. That is *not* how most people view other people's pain. I hope you can get the help you need to process your trauma. It's exhausting to carry around. And I say that as someone who's carrying shit too and need to process it, lol.
@@KingOfGaymesit was because she said beyoncé was her spirit animal and people got mad at her for calling a black woman an animal so she apologized to beyoncé
If someone seems to be getting victimized by everyone, frequently making ex-friends and being involved in messy situations like Gabbie does but is also never seen to take responsibility for their part, they're almost always the root cause of it all. The common denominator is YOU baby.
The saying “if by noon you meet one asshole, they’re the asshole. If by the end of the day, you’ve met five assholes, you’re the asshole” totally applies to GH.
I had someone in my life like that. Never took responsibility and kept saying that it was everyone else’s fault for leaving and not being a good friend. If you ever find yourself in a situation like that, CUT THEM OUT! You’ll thrive without them
Yep, I had a friend like this. Nothing was ever their fault, everyone hated them and mistreated them, and was frequently reminded that I was their only friend (even though this wasn’t true at all, it was just a manipulation technique.) They frequently talked shit about me and their other friends behind their back or would be straight up mean. Any time I stood up for myself or disagreed with them, I was an enemy and would be accused of being “dramatic” or given the silent treatment. Meanwhile, they would write PARAGRAPHS of dramatic vent posts on FB and name people in the vent posts which caused actual drama. And if I reached out to them to comfort them, I was yelled at “for not caring enough” because I didn’t reach out before the vent posts (I did, they ignored me.) This went on for 5 years and clearly the friendship didn’t matter to them because a Twitter interaction that lasted 5 minutes ended our friendship. And I was so grateful it ended. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. I no longer had to walk on eggshells and agree with everything they said so that I didn’t anger them.
As a psychology major, hearing someone mention histrionic personality disorder cleared my skin, my nails are shiny I feel so ✨good✨. You never hear this disorder, no one does research and dumps stigma on other disorders hindering people’s progress and/ or seeking therapy. To me this shows research was done without suggesting that “this person definitely has this”; this is an example of “hey, other disorders exist, so diagnosing (and self diagnosing) doesn’t help anyone, here is an example of another disorder”. 10/10
Oh wow that’s right on the money lol I watch these videos because I’m psych major and I’m in the field like 5 years; I find these ppl’s psyche so interesting.
First thing that struck me! I’m applying for a clinical psych PhD this year and I know you’re not supposed to diagnose someone online, so I treat it as a case study with a very amateurish/probably not 100% diagnosis, but it ticks so many diagnostic criteria you just can’t help but wonder. I hope she gets the help so she desperately needs, it’s sad to see.
yup psych postgrad here 🤚🏼 i am curious about gabby having HPD as well but i’d be so careful w/ this kind of personality disorder. there’s still a lot of misogynistic rhetoric in this disorder, n i’d be really wary about diagnosing someone with this. i would still go towards bpd/npd myself, i dont think we have enough to go off to know if she has hpd!
@Di yeah, I also don’t really know most of them, I only saw Gabbie starring in other people’s vines and that’s how I know of her (I only found out about vine after it died lol, so my only experience is only a few people’s vines I found on RUclips and she was in a couple).
I hope Jessi Smiles sees this. So she knows there’s people that believe her, that validates her trauma and that being emotional while talking about your trauma is normal. Hugs for all the survivors ❤️
Yeah i feel so bad that shes had to deal with this especially while shes pregnant with her rainbow baby :( I'm glad shes taking a break to actually enjoy her pregnancy
@@skarletcharity LMAO!!!!! Gurlll, the way I spilled my coffee all over the place... You now owe me a phone 😂🤣 I got a mental picture of her just sitting there hitting her pipe all vigorously and mad as hell, getting manic, ready to shoot a docuseries. Because " sHe Is ThE vIcTiM" all these " HiGhScHoOl BoOliEs" coming for her in her paranoid @ss head.
It feels "chaotic" that she hasn't been given an apology but she's always giving them out?? Apologies aren't meant to be leverage over other people you think have wronged you. She wouldn't feel like that apology ratio was unfair if she genuinely felt sorry for the things she's apologized for. An apology to her is not a recognition of remorse, it is a tool to gain control or manipulate a situation.
I would never want an apology that I demanded be given to me. If you demand an apology… ya might get one, but it’s not going to be genuine. I would never want an apology from someone who isn’t sorry.
I don't think Gabbie realizes the harm she's causing people, and I don't even just mean Jessie and other people she talks about. As someone still coming to terms with my own trauma and struggling with allowing myself to believe it's happened, hearing her disgusting comments about Jessie and her blatant sympathy for Jessie's abuser (and allegedly saying she believes his story) has sent be into many breakdowns. It took me years to even realize what happened to me, and seeing her apologist behavior has made it a million times harder to speak up, because even before this she apologized to Jessie then called her derogatory things, talked to her abuser and tried to discredit her story while they were friends.
GH is the type of person to trigger someone who is freshly healing from trauma. Best to avoid this mess. Support Jessi, ofc, but you don't have to dive into GH's brand of abuse. It's even hard for me to listen to without saying something. I do hope you have a good therapist and aren't going through it alone. When I was working through my own trauma in my thirties, I stepped back and saw it as work as I came to terms with the rage I felt. My motto at the time was 'the only way through is forward, one step at a time'. Anger is your friend, fuck people like GH, and find a good counselor if you don't already have one. You have absolutely not one damn thing to be ashamed of. Shame is not yours, toss that shit at the feet of the person who hurt you.
I kinda feel like that GH does actually know what she's causing. Especially since she has said that she reignites fights or drama she had in the past so she can make money out of it. She's very aware of how much her name is being said and how much attention she gets. It's why I doubt that she doesn't know how much harm she's causing.
Really like how you mention a "spectrum" of narcissism and the difference between exhibiting traits vs. a full-blown personality disorder. I see so many people get called "narcissists" and "sociopaths" that according to the internet, the majority of humans fall under one of these categories (except for the "empaths" who call them out)
Gabbie has admitted to purposely lying or omitting certain things when she's in therapy to avoid being diagnosed. So, there's no doubt that her therapist has no idea how deep her issues go because she can never just be honest about anything. That in and of itself shows she's definitely got some personality disorder going on to act like that.
I’m sure her “narcissistic abusers” label she loves to use on other people is something she heard her therapist say as a product of her manipulating and twisting the narrative of her issues with these people. If she was honest I don’t think her therapist would’ve convinced her. Or maybe she diagnosed them with info from the internet since everyone uses the term like is nothing nowadays.
At first I wasn’t too excited about *more* coverage of Hannah and Paytas, but you really hold the issue to the, “It’s Not Drama, It’s Dangerous” mantra and go deep as always. Love you, your docs, your foster babies, and your aqua mermaid princess hair 💙 🧜♀️
Your unique perspective and talking about more than just what happened but the motivations behind it is so interesting. You're a very talented doc maker, Swoop!
"nobody would fvck with me because I stood by Jessi" that simply is not it. If I had a friend who was assaulted and nobody believed them and were calling them a liar, those would not be people that I would want to associate with to begin with, and I would not feel like I was losing anything by going no contact with those people. I would also support my friend because they were my friend and because by default I believe survivors, even if years down the line I ended up absolutely hating that person for some reason I would still not weaponize the fact that I supported them the way she does. I don't think any normal, not totally unhinged person whatever think the way Gabbie does.
This. Is. Priceless. For real, such a banger job, girl!! One of the best Gabbie videos I’ve watched. And I have never ever, not one single time, watched a video of hers, bought her music, listened to her music, nothing. She seems like she sucks. Lol. Glad I’ve never given her my time.
When she said “I was her ONLY fucking friend”…… she wasn’t a friend at all to be honest, cause no one treats a real friend the way she treated jessi. You smashed this Swoop, hit the nail on the head with this one! x
A good point about the power and control was the monster meme. She was so upset about it then spin it around and made merch off of it. Can’t make fun of me if I make fun of myself =control.
I dont think it s that deep. People always say it helps if someone s making fun of you, u make fun of urself. Then u feel better then just have all this hate on u. If gabbie wasnt in all this shit right now, yall would praise her for how she handled the monster meme
@@tynellesharratt463 Do u often taste the shit? Lol. I think Id be comfortable making that judgement call based on smell and appearance… At least you’re thorough, I guess… 🤷🏻♀️
Histrionic personality disorder is actually on its way out of the DSM because there is so much overlap with other disorders! To me personally it sounds very similar to borderline, which can come in all shapes and sizes basically.
It shares a lot with more vulnerable type narcissism as well, so it doesn't change the conversations around Gabbie too much. Plus, the word histrionic has sexist roots, so I'd be glad to at least have that changed lol
i have bpd and i was really surprised how many of the hpd symptoms i identified with, trying not to selfdiagnose here but yeah theyre very similar in many ways. its freakin me out a little bit
In a previous job a colleague and I had diagnosed one of our colleagues with HPD. Examples of things she’d do: -leave a collection of designer shoes under her desk so she could change into them when she left the office, making sure to let everyone know she was going to some lavish party -making a huge deal of letting everyone know that she was Canadian, not American, completely unprovoked and literally nobody cared -when she found out a colleague got engaged she brought her a HUGE bouquet of flowers and made a massive deal of congratulating her and letting anyone entering the office that the flowers were from her, for Mona who got engaged -crying when she found out about a colleague getting engaged, married or having a child because she really wanted this for herself but she hadn’t found “the one” yet -making a huge deal of her friendship with her (gay) coworker who was also an awful person, basically making them the mean girls in the office Ugh… I don’t miss her.
"i had diagnosed" uhh. the fuck ? if youre assigning stigmatized disorders to people just because you dont like them, youre not a very good person either lol
Gabbie hanna seems to always be trying to convince herself and others she’s a good person but seemingly never does anything to SHOW she’s a good person she just says she is and does nothing to prove it.
"she's not smart enough to be sociopathic" As a psyc grad student that just proved to me (like I needed it lol) that she knows absolutely nothing about the mental health issues she talks about. Funny; that sentence says a lot more subconsciously about how she feels about herself and her intelligence.
Would anyone apologizing to Gabbie even make her stop? Cause a part of me feels she'd literally just use it as more fuel for her bitter existence 🤷🏽♀️
THANK YOU! I very much feel like if someone apologized she would say something like "They just did it so I would stop" or "It's totally fake' or "They're just trying to be the nice guy to save face" or something else like that
i am LOVING these docs!! i am a teacher and having to return to the classrooms has made me v anxious so whenever i have to be mindlessly grading or working i put these on and they make the time bearable,, i have probably watched each of them 3 or 4 times (after intently watching their premiere obvi) thank you for covering these w the seriousness of the topic w out losing your charm💖
From the beginning of this nightmare I still haven’t figured out how in the hell Jessie’s trauma had anything to do with Gabbie. Gabbie put herself in the middle of all of this when she seriously had no business being involved.
I love bailey, I'm not even interested in true crime but bailey is my favorite youtuber bc of her personality, beautiful makeup looks, and storytelling
i would LOVE it if someone could explain to me why 5.5 MILLION people are still subscribed to GH? 🤔🤔 or how she still has platforms? 🤔 she's gotta go. blessed be, she has gotta go somewhere!
i LOVE how you use your coverage of internet drama to send truly important messages to your audience (RE: for survivors, signs of a toxic relationship, mental health stigma, victim blaming, and more). especially when the situation is serious like in this video. you manage to seamlessly blend real life examples and advice for your viewers into what is on surface level just a review of the latest youtube controversy. plus, you always treat it with the seriousness and respect these topics deserve. AND you somehow manage to be super charismatic and entertaining at the same time!! ABSOLUTE *QUEEN*
I feel like she doesn't get, you are not OWED as many apologies as you give, you cant be like "I give EVERYONE apologies but they never give ME one", it's not a gift exchange if you are apologizing you are doing that because you did something that required you to apologize....that doesn't make you a good person. It doesn't inherently make you a bad person, but if you are CONSTANTLY needing to apologize for your actions that's an issue, apologizing cant be what you use as proof of you being a good person, really good people don't have THAT much to apologize over. You can go to someone "I always apologize to you but you never apologize to me, that's not fair" like MAYBE that person didn't DO anything they need to apologize FOR and YOU DID. It doesn't have to be equal, I feel like her concept of accountability/apologies is stuck in preschool where they just make everyone apologize to each other no matter who was at fault, she really is just so stuck in "well I said sorry so now THEY have to say sorry too" like dude NOT how that works.
She had another channel that had a lot more subs. But due to a RUclips algorithm freak accident equivalent of being struck by lightening, that channel is basically dead. She has a video on this, I think her first vide on this channel :)
The Obsession towards Jessie is pointing towards narcissism. Histrionic personality disorder does change quickly - If it were her only disorder, she would "float" more. It is about Audition, the play is irrelevant. She is too focussed on controlling the narrative.
@@Raya-ir4tm Being neurodiverse myself I don't excuse her behaviour. I evaluate it. Everyone has the responsibility to learn about how our brains work and to learn how our behaviour effects others and how to help society to improve.
@@mica8701 Prof. Sam Vaknin knows about his Narcissism. He calls himself aware but never healed. Hurt people hurt people. We all need to learn how to hurt less. Describing & evaluating behaviour can make ourselves aware and work to change bit by bit. One is neither doomed nor excused with a correct diagnosis. One is responsible to know ones limitations.
@@ninaschust3694 what the hell are you even talking about lol. someone needs to log off the mental illness youtube. stop armchair diagnosing bad behavior as mental health issues
@@mica8701 I am talking about the ICD10 - F60.8 & F60.4 diagnosis. They both describe clusters of symptoms. Symptoms grouped together represent diseases. Both narcissic and histrionic behaviour can be observed and described as such. My OP states that Swoop in her brilliant documentary was hinting towards histrionic behaviour in Gabbie Hannas case. If Gabbie had had more histrionic traits than narcissistic traits, she would have been less obsessed with Jessie. Did you even watch the video? I was pointing out the difference between F60.8 and F60.4 in relation to Gabbies behavioural traits she has made sure to be in the center of attention... I was using words to describe a process. I know the difference between stigma and shame. Do you?
Im watching this over a year later and seeing where Gabbie is now is quite scary. She needs professional help and medication. Im no doctor or therapist but she has really bad mental issues. She just let some random guy, whom she does not know, come into her apartment. She was making videos with him, she had no who he was, she could have been killed or seriously injured. Or worse she could have a story like Jessie's.
Lol holy shit I’m still sitting in the intro and just blown away, as per usual, at how you have this undeniable talent in spotting these insane parallels/specific contradictions People spout. It’s fucking crazy!!! I rarely see them myself, but I’m sure grateful I’ve got your channel to show them to me.
God I needed this video. Listening to you explain toxic relationships confirmed that this is what I have with my sister and it truly is best to just cut her out of my life. I already did it with my abusive father, but I'm truly starting to get ruthless in cutting people out of my life. Luckily I have my furbabies to give me snuggles, hugs and kisses.
It’s surprising to watch someone who doesn’t waste time. She makes it easy to watch a 45 min video because she’s genuinely interesting. She makes perfect videos.
31:24 "I did the f* best I could to be the only person in her f* life" You know what Gabbie... I think you accidentally spilled some tea on yourself there. I think she literally did just that, try her absolute hardest to make Jessie not have any friends other than herself.
*pauses this video and waits for my alfredo to finish cooking so I can enjoy a piping hot meal with my piping hot tea* I know that you're not a tea channel but it was catchy and I just wanted to put that out there.
Great video ❤ about Histrionic Personality Disorder, I was actually diagnosed with this. Eventually, most of the disorder was able to be treated with therapy and medication. It IS possible to show some traits and not all of them to answer your question. Some people are theatrical and overdramatic but do not want to be the center of attention if that makes sense. It's also often grouped with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I'm at the 12 min mark and I am literally fuming. GH needs to be removed from the internet, post haste. She needs people in her life to force her off and keep her off.
17 minutes in, I think I'm here pretty dang early, but there are already 70 comments. I'm so glad your channel is blowing up though because you are one of the best RUclipsrs making good contents ❤️❤️❤️
Wow the histrionic definition is spot on. “Overwhelming desire to get noticed” check “Behave dramatically to get attention” check “Thinks relationships are closer than they are” check “Self esteem depends on the approval of others” CHECK!
Your discussion on toxic relationships was really interesting and helpful - it definitely struck a chord and was really clear and compassionate. Thank you for including that. Also, your makeup is amazing!
40:45 This sounds exactly like the relationship I have with my dad that lives with me, my husband and my 9 year old son. I always feel like I'm doing everything wrong. And trying to communicate is out of the question it always ends in an argument and I always end up giving in. He's constantly invalidating my feelings. There are times when I feel that he's slowly draining the life out of me. I'm starting to think I'm the victim of a narcissistic parent. I looked it up and it is my relationship to a t. I always knew I had a toxic relationship with my dad but to hear someone else say it other than me is in a way comforting. It means I'm not loosing my mind. Thank you Spanky❤
I love watching SWOOP'S videos. I always feel so validated as an ab*se and ass*ult survivor :) Back to SWOOP talking about toxic behavior, I want to emphasize boundaries. A few weeks ago, my therapist explain to me when someone tries to shift your boundaries, they are trying to gain control over the relationship. I hope this helps someone out there :)
From the beginning when I first heard this story I still haven’t figured out why Gabby got involved with this when it had absolutely nothing to do with her. Why did she feel the need to insert herself in Jessie’s trauma? Gabby needs some seriously help
Wait, wait... I really wanna be at Petty University so next time you're "talking to imaginary people" can you name one of em Jasmine? 😂😂😂 🥺PLEEEEEEASE!!!
32:00 Another way she tries to use this manipulation tactic was with the Escape The Night situation, where she brings up that "Colleen also had a problem with the call-time". Daniel Preda points out how she picked the wrong person because Colleen is actually one of his closest friends, and calls her out for lying through her teeth.
Thank you so much for your videos, the way that you don’t just talk about drama, but actually talk about the dangers of “tea” and use it to teach life lessons is amazing hearing your words of affirmation and encouragement are genuinely more helpful than you could ever imagine :)
it just scares me how Gabbie laughs in her vlogs at her own behavior as if it's quirky, like "omg I'm the common denominator, haha just Gabbie things 🤪"
seeing as you where confused with gabbie's patreon you may not be aware she threatened CHILDREN with a lawsuit to not talk about her and my boy cid on youtube covered it and investigated her patreon
The bit where you talked about the traits of a toxic relationship made me realize I got out of a relationship that was becoming toxic before it truly came to fruition... Omg
when i see people defending GH or spreading her lies it makes me feel like im in another universe, your videos help remind me there’s someone else that sees it for what it is including this comment section. my sanity thanks you. 🙃
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Swoop!!! Seriously!!! U look GORGEOUS!!!! AND UR CHOCKER IS AMAZING!!!😳❤ and thank u for the little pep talk at 9:31 cuz I need it from time to time!!🤗❤
ANNA CAMPBELL
Rooster Teeth?
Could you make a video about Eugenia Cooney?
I'm curious about the viewers/stans/cult-like followers who defend people like James, Gabbie, David, Trisha, etc. that have long records of issues with lots of proof to back it up yet ignore and twist everything. I keep thinking about people who come forward as "former stans" and how they have been used for money and ego. You can even take it to a larger scale with mainstream celebs and politicians. I'm really struggling to wrap my head around people who voted for the most recent former President again and how they defend his heinous record, I truly can't understand it because I just keep thinking about all the people that's are being targeted, hurt, disregarded, and all the many contradictions they make (favorite is "pro-life" when it's reproductive health" aka anti-pro-choice yet with an actual pandemic that has a vaccine they are now saying "pro-choice" for doing what they want such as vaccines no matter what the government says which is clearly anti-"pro-life" because the virus is killing people especially those who are unvaccinated). Seriously whatever scale the approach or anything you make analyzing something I'm down to watch and always walk away learning something and thinking about something.
I feel like Gabbie’s therapist may have said to her “I believe you have a victim complex” and Gabbie took that as “I am a victim”
That wouldn’t be surprising since she thinks she can traumatize whoever she wants because “she has adhd”
She doesn't even go to therapy since she said felt like she's holding back a thought that speaking to a camera was better
@@emizintriago8015 she isn't in therapy? 😳 Oh my, she is very unwell and needs absolute professional help. And that's not to be rude or entitled, my therapist saves me on a weekly basis 💚 at my sickest, I thought therapy was a sign of weakness and "I don't need it". Now that I'm growing and learning and healing in active therapy , it's the only way for me in my life 🙏🏻 Have a great Sunday ☀️
@@amandam.7520 She ain't ready for a therapist to professionally challenge her thinking
@@ashleywalters2336 that's absolutely true, so she will unfortunately continue to destroy, blame, and break down others 😔
Oh wow, well I wasn’t expecting a shoutout, that’s very cool of you! Once again you did a fantastic job, especially with explaining the differences between disorders and traits in mental illnesses, it’s really important people know the differences, and very important to be able to recognize manipulation and toxic behavior. Looking forward to the next video.
Thank you so much! And I just saw your Murder She Wrote videos, that show is my guilty pleasure while editing! 🤣
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Omg I love your channel!!!!
Hey Roses! I didn't know you watched SWOOP! This is so cool!
@@PettyUniversity It is also my guilty pleasure, so I edit Murder, She Wrote videos while watching Murder, She Wrote. This is the life. XD
*SA survivor get emotional*
General public: it didnt happen! Look how emotional they're acting! It's just a sob story!
*SA survivor stays calm and doesnt get emotional*
General public: it didnt happen! Look at how calm they're acting! A real survivor would be emotional!
Also general public: why didnt they just come forward about their abuse?
I just.....I just cant.
OMG THANK YOU!!!!!!
OMG you said it perfectly!!!!!
This embodies my experience
You seriously worded it perfectly. It is so fucking terrifying to come out with your story, due to how this kind of stuff happens time and time again when we do.
Don't forget:
*SA suvivor gets emotional*
General public: OMG STOP OVERREACTING!!! I doubt it was *THAT* bad!
"the lord is testing me and i didn't study" is one of my favorite lines from Bailey Sarian!
It's excellent! 😂
sameee. I love Bailey
I find myself saying "suspish," "nay nay," and humming the MMM theme on the daily lately 😂 Love her, hope she's enjoying her well deserved break!
@@LilKinglershe didnt invent suspish lmao
@@Tw0DotsI mean, some girl from LA hardly invented the southern church lady line about the Lord testing her either. I bet she thinks it sounds natural when she peppers her speech with “y’all” too. 🙄
The comparison of Gabbie to a pair of tangled up headphones was literally so good!! Alx had me laughing so hard during his video!
I was cackling at that visual!
@@PettyUniversity 😂😂 right!
@@PettyUniversity his 'im exhausted face' mirrors so many of ours Every second of hearing her bull
A moment of silence for everyone who has to deal with Gabbie Hannah 🏳️🏳️
@@PettyUniversity 😹😹😹😹😹😹I cackled at it
I know, Alx is hilarious
I’m paraphrasing but, “I tried my best to make sure I was [Jessie’s] only friend” ??? That’s a hell of a Freudian slip, Gabz.
Yeah that one really made me think the same thing. A slip of the thought pattern perhaps?
Yes, coming to this from Jen Dent's video on GH, she was trying to isolate Jessi from her other female friends, I'm betting.
She said she tried to be the only PERSON in Jessie's life. This is a classic abuse tactic: isolate the victim.
I think Jessi even said in a video that she realised how manipulative Gabbie was after watching Trishas video on her and she realised how Gabbie had low key manipulated her into stop being friends with other people which is crazy
As a survivor this is chilling
Some of the best advice I've ever recieved, and some that Gabbie NEEDS to hear.
"IF IT SMELLS LIKE SHIT EVERYWHERE YOU GO, CHECK YOUR OWN DAMN SHOES BEFORE POINTING FINGERS."
In my country we say “if it smells like shit everywhere you go maybe you shitted yourself?” 🤣
@@BlueDevilll I love that one!! What country are you from?
I hear lots of different iterations of this saying, from all over the world and it makes me so happy because it's just proof that it's a very good saying.
@@pyromaniacalmagpie3198 in my country we say something along the lines of "if you hear/smell sh*t everywhere you go, close your mouth" 😂.
@@eduardaarrais 😂😂 That is brilliant! I love these so much. No matter how you say it it's still amazing advice though.
Agreed 🙌 someone told me once to step outside of seeing myself as the victim, and as much as I didn't WANT to hear that I freakin needed to
I have GH fatigue, I really dislike hearing her voice saying all her exhausting conflicting hateful lies and manipulation. But there’s no way I could miss your videos. The information, the very satisfying petty University and your perfectly articulated points calling her out just soothes my soul. I still never want to hear GH’s voice ever again.
Same! If I wasn't attending classes at Petty University, I wouldn't be looking at anything else with her name on it. She is exhausting
Same. I cannot stand GH and her manipulative BS
I only know of this monstrosity of a person because, when I did a rabbit hole binge of writers-reacting-badly-to-reviews videos, I found Rachel Oates in my recommend bar. Gave her a try, which then brought up Jessi Smiles. "Hey," past me thought, "I've heard of Jessi Smiles before. She played Joan of Arc in the Epic Rap Battle series. I liked her presence, her flow was good, and she clearly won over 'Miley Cyrus'. Let's see what this is about."
My life has never been the same. Add in a chance watch on a Cr**psh*w Art video and my ears have yet to recover.
At least, through those horrors, I found Swoop, EmilyArtful, FatSajak, and HelloLeesh, along with Rachel Oates. My coffee-and-game daily/writing content lol.
I get you, her voice and hearing her talking is like nails on a chalkboard for me.
that 1st minute intro of Gabbie contradicting herself over & over & over & over again LOL holy shit that was too perfect
Right?? That was a flawless opener
That's like a trailer for Gabbie Hanna's controversys
Her introduction too!
Just a note on the toxic relationship portion: a lot of people hear "relationship" and think romantic partner. The example given is obviously a "friendship" and I can say for certain, having had a toxic friend who isolated me from other friends: it's not just romantic partners. A toxic friend isn't just one who's off putting, overtly mean, and dramatic, they can also be subtle and chip away at you for years. Look out for these signs with your friends too.
THIS!!!! it took me a long time (3 years) to realize how toxic a friendship was bc it was a slow descent BUT also people rarely talk about toxic relationships with friends. Going thro the list of signs one day for a psych paper made me realize how that friendship made me feel and it was the same feeling when Swoop was reading thro it too!
Yeah. It’s fucked up. My friendship with my high school bff left me with serious psychological bruises and problems when it comes to any sort of relationship. This is serious, I wish people could give toxic friendships the same attention.
I had a friend like that who was my friend for 11 years, since middle school 🙃
Gabbie is the common denominator.....but she's still the victim in her own mind? What? She was so close to getting it and then went straight into a perpetual "UwU I'm the victim" mood? Gabbie has gone past the moral event horizon. She's not a nice, cool, or good person. At this point she's just a mean, bitter, nasty, awful person who can't deal with the consequences of her actions, her fading star, or the fact that she sucks.
That’s the thing with actual narcissists, when they victimise others and the others stand up and speak their story. The narcissist talks and talks at you about how they are the victim. Like, I can’t stand Gabbie Hanna, she’s the embodiment of someone I fell victim to 7 years ago. The narcissist radar is strong in one, and will not feed the troll narc/.
@@Eccentric_Villain Amen 🙌🏻
Shes off the deep end!! Doesn't she have "people" to make her stop??
Gabbie: "Leave me alone. Why can't everyone just leave me alone?"
Also Gabbie: "Why is everyone not talking about me? Why does no one care?"
She's talking about how "awful" people are yet she's wearing a hoodie that says "AWFUL"! I can't get over that!
She’s constantly calling people “monsters” too, and she has an entire song calling herself one.
Someday she’s going to look back on all of this, and she’s going to realize her lack of self awareness, and she’s not going to be able to do anything except cringe and regret it.
@@Hannah-nh5qj 💯💯 Yes ma’am!!! I have seen all about her through Alx James! I LOVE him and what she tried to say about him was ridiculous. I never listened to the song, and now I don’t want to.
@@Hannah-nh5qj your hopes for her are quite optimistic lol
All of her shirts are coordinated with her situation. You think she didn’t throw on that check on your friends shirt after her welfare check? She has no credibility.
Yeah she has another saying “attention seeker”
As someone who was victim to a person very similar to GH, this video has really made me feel better. I felt like I was the only one seeing her nonchalant attitude as manipulation and though I was just hyper-sensitive to the issue given my history but you’ve articulated what’s made me uncomfortable better than I ever could! Thank you♥️
Narcissistic abuse is for real, and I'm so happy it's getting the attention it deserves. I guess that's one good thing to come from all this bs - awareness, education and good god, the warnings everyone needs.
Hope you're doing ok and healing/healed up well.
@@lunacouer thank you so much, that means a lot! I think I'm over it as it's been five years but I'm nervous I'm actually not and fresh trauma I experienced is somehow related even though it was completely different
I am someone who's bottled up trauma because I feel like people think I am being overdramatic, so when people like Gabbie say things about manipulating others with sob stories, it just tells people like me that our brains are correct in processing our trauma by NOT processing it to protect others. everything that comes out of Gabbie's mouth is pretty disgusting and she is everything that a mental health advocate should NOT be.
I hope it helps to know that's she's an outlier. She accused Jessi of manipulation because that's how she uses her "sob stories". She wants attention, she's seen how other people get sympathy when they discuss their pain, so she uses it to get that attention.
But she has zero awareness that's not why people share their pain. She doesn't understand that it's for healing, processing and connection, not for the reaction. So she thinks that anyone who shares trauma are doing it to manipulate people, because that's what _she_ does. That is *not* how most people view other people's pain.
I hope you can get the help you need to process your trauma. It's exhausting to carry around. And I say that as someone who's carrying shit too and need to process it, lol.
I hope you find a really great therapist. One saved me
The only extent to which Gabbie is a "mental health advocate" is when she advocates that her mental health is a valid excuse for her bad behavior lol
"I gave Beyonce an apology." is the funniest sentence I've ever heard.
can someone explain why she said that 😂
@@whatkaishasays because she somewhat claimed Beyoncé “copied” her music video I think? 💀
@@KingOfGaymesit was because she said beyoncé was her spirit animal and people got mad at her for calling a black woman an animal so she apologized to beyoncé
@@reillyschimmel9323huh i mean im black & donr like gabbie even but clearly knew what she meant
If someone seems to be getting victimized by everyone, frequently making ex-friends and being involved in messy situations like Gabbie does but is also never seen to take responsibility for their part, they're almost always the root cause of it all. The common denominator is YOU baby.
👀...😏
Jesse is definitely the victim here tho.
The saying “if by noon you meet one asshole, they’re the asshole. If by the end of the day, you’ve met five assholes, you’re the asshole” totally applies to GH.
I had someone in my life like that. Never took responsibility and kept saying that it was everyone else’s fault for leaving and not being a good friend.
If you ever find yourself in a situation like that, CUT THEM OUT! You’ll thrive without them
Yep, I had a friend like this. Nothing was ever their fault, everyone hated them and mistreated them, and was frequently reminded that I was their only friend (even though this wasn’t true at all, it was just a manipulation technique.)
They frequently talked shit about me and their other friends behind their back or would be straight up mean. Any time I stood up for myself or disagreed with them, I was an enemy and would be accused of being “dramatic” or given the silent treatment. Meanwhile, they would write PARAGRAPHS of dramatic vent posts on FB and name people in the vent posts which caused actual drama. And if I reached out to them to comfort them, I was yelled at “for not caring enough” because I didn’t reach out before the vent posts (I did, they ignored me.)
This went on for 5 years and clearly the friendship didn’t matter to them because a Twitter interaction that lasted 5 minutes ended our friendship.
And I was so grateful it ended. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. I no longer had to walk on eggshells and agree with everything they said so that I didn’t anger them.
Say that to my mother in law 😒 lol
“I literally texted her like a thousand times to leave me alone”
Uhhhh what if you just didn’t message her and ignored her??
omg i can't believe i made it to class on time i'm ready
Notebooks out!
@@PettyUniversity IM ALL READY!!!
I’m late lmao
Oh shit i was late lol
I'm late. My alarm broke, ma'am.
As a psychology major, hearing someone mention histrionic personality disorder cleared my skin, my nails are shiny I feel so ✨good✨. You never hear this disorder, no one does research and dumps stigma on other disorders hindering people’s progress and/ or seeking therapy. To me this shows research was done without suggesting that “this person definitely has this”; this is an example of “hey, other disorders exist, so diagnosing (and self diagnosing) doesn’t help anyone, here is an example of another disorder”. 10/10
Speaks to the facts always rational, sensitive, questioning... love you so much Spankie. You are truly a light!
Oh wow that’s right on the money lol I watch these videos because I’m psych major and I’m in the field like 5 years; I find these ppl’s psyche so interesting.
First thing that struck me! I’m applying for a clinical psych PhD this year and I know you’re not supposed to diagnose someone online, so I treat it as a case study with a very amateurish/probably not 100% diagnosis, but it ticks so many diagnostic criteria you just can’t help but wonder. I hope she gets the help so she desperately needs, it’s sad to see.
yup psych postgrad here 🤚🏼 i am curious about gabby having HPD as well but i’d be so careful w/ this kind of personality disorder. there’s still a lot of misogynistic rhetoric in this disorder, n i’d be really wary about diagnosing someone with this. i would still go towards bpd/npd myself, i dont think we have enough to go off to know if she has hpd!
@Di yeah, I also don’t really know most of them, I only saw Gabbie starring in other people’s vines and that’s how I know of her (I only found out about vine after it died lol, so my only experience is only a few people’s vines I found on RUclips and she was in a couple).
I remember back when Gabbie used to do story times all the time she would talk about how she has a control complex so I find that interesting.
I was so fooled at how self aware she seemed….
@@jessica23claire literally same!
@@jessica23claire I think that's how she all got us
@@jessica23claire sheknows what she is doing and she looks like a full narcissist
I hope Jessi Smiles sees this. So she knows there’s people that believe her, that validates her trauma and that being emotional while talking about your trauma is normal. Hugs for all the survivors ❤️
Yeah i feel so bad that shes had to deal with this especially while shes pregnant with her rainbow baby :( I'm glad shes taking a break to actually enjoy her pregnancy
I’m sure Gabbie is currently screaming watching this on her sock accounts😩😭😭😭
Gabbie's doing her fake bro laugh in the corner and hitting the meth pipe while feverishly refreshing socialblade
Writing in her burn book lol
Oh she won’t even take the time to watch but will post a response video about it😂
@@skarletcharity LMAO!!!!! Gurlll, the way I spilled my coffee all over the place... You now owe me a phone 😂🤣 I got a mental picture of her just sitting there hitting her pipe all vigorously and mad as hell, getting manic, ready to shoot a docuseries. Because " sHe Is ThE vIcTiM" all these " HiGhScHoOl BoOliEs" coming for her in her paranoid @ss head.
“jessi was just someone I hung out with for a few months years ago”
but in the DMs to the 15 year old it’s, “jessi broke my fucking heart dude”
what
The compilation of derogatory mental health terms has me ROTFLOLINGGGG
saaaaaaaame
It feels "chaotic" that she hasn't been given an apology but she's always giving them out?? Apologies aren't meant to be leverage over other people you think have wronged you. She wouldn't feel like that apology ratio was unfair if she genuinely felt sorry for the things she's apologized for. An apology to her is not a recognition of remorse, it is a tool to gain control or manipulate a situation.
I would never want an apology that I demanded be given to me. If you demand an apology… ya might get one, but it’s not going to be genuine. I would never want an apology from someone who isn’t sorry.
Yeah and when has she actually truly apologized either?!
I don't think Gabbie realizes the harm she's causing people, and I don't even just mean Jessie and other people she talks about. As someone still coming to terms with my own trauma and struggling with allowing myself to believe it's happened, hearing her disgusting comments about Jessie and her blatant sympathy for Jessie's abuser (and allegedly saying she believes his story) has sent be into many breakdowns. It took me years to even realize what happened to me, and seeing her apologist behavior has made it a million times harder to speak up, because even before this she apologized to Jessie then called her derogatory things, talked to her abuser and tried to discredit her story while they were friends.
GH is the type of person to trigger someone who is freshly healing from trauma. Best to avoid this mess. Support Jessi, ofc, but you don't have to dive into GH's brand of abuse. It's even hard for me to listen to without saying something. I do hope you have a good therapist and aren't going through it alone. When I was working through my own trauma in my thirties, I stepped back and saw it as work as I came to terms with the rage I felt. My motto at the time was 'the only way through is forward, one step at a time'. Anger is your friend, fuck people like GH, and find a good counselor if you don't already have one. You have absolutely not one damn thing to be ashamed of. Shame is not yours, toss that shit at the feet of the person who hurt you.
I kinda feel like that GH does actually know what she's causing. Especially since she has said that she reignites fights or drama she had in the past so she can make money out of it. She's very aware of how much her name is being said and how much attention she gets. It's why I doubt that she doesn't know how much harm she's causing.
I believe you 💯 @trin and bless you on your journey
Really like how you mention a "spectrum" of narcissism and the difference between exhibiting traits vs. a full-blown personality disorder. I see so many people get called "narcissists" and "sociopaths" that according to the internet, the majority of humans fall under one of these categories (except for the "empaths" who call them out)
I wish I could watch Gabbie in her therapists office. There’s no telling how she’s spun this entire situation. I feel bad for her therapist.
That's why they make the big bucks. 😂
Gabbie has admitted to purposely lying or omitting certain things when she's in therapy to avoid being diagnosed. So, there's no doubt that her therapist has no idea how deep her issues go because she can never just be honest about anything. That in and of itself shows she's definitely got some personality disorder going on to act like that.
I’m sure her “narcissistic abusers” label she loves to use on other people is something she heard her therapist say as a product of her manipulating and twisting the narrative of her issues with these people. If she was honest I don’t think her therapist would’ve convinced her. Or maybe she diagnosed them with info from the internet since everyone uses the term like is nothing nowadays.
At first I wasn’t too excited about *more* coverage of Hannah and Paytas, but you really hold the issue to the, “It’s Not Drama, It’s Dangerous” mantra and go deep as always. Love you, your docs, your foster babies, and your aqua mermaid princess hair 💙 🧜♀️
Gabbie using her neurodivergence as a shield and proceeding to make ableist statements bothers me soooo much.
I’m not even into the drama, but to be honest, I watch you to not feel crazy, because you always validate abuse victims. Thank you.
Your unique perspective and talking about more than just what happened but the motivations behind it is so interesting. You're a very talented doc maker, Swoop!
"nobody would fvck with me because I stood by Jessi" that simply is not it.
If I had a friend who was assaulted and nobody believed them and were calling them a liar, those would not be people that I would want to associate with to begin with, and I would not feel like I was losing anything by going no contact with those people.
I would also support my friend because they were my friend and because by default I believe survivors, even if years down the line I ended up absolutely hating that person for some reason I would still not weaponize the fact that I supported them the way she does. I don't think any normal, not totally unhinged person whatever think the way Gabbie does.
This. Is. Priceless.
For real, such a banger job, girl!! One of the best Gabbie videos I’ve watched. And I have never ever, not one single time, watched a video of hers, bought her music, listened to her music, nothing. She seems like she sucks. Lol. Glad I’ve never given her my time.
When she said “I was her ONLY fucking friend”…… she wasn’t a friend at all to be honest, cause no one treats a real friend the way she treated jessi. You smashed this Swoop, hit the nail on the head with this one! x
A good point about the power and control was the monster meme. She was so upset about it then spin it around and made merch off of it. Can’t make fun of me if I make fun of myself =control.
I dont think it s that deep. People always say it helps if someone s making fun of you, u make fun of urself. Then u feel better then just have all this hate on u. If gabbie wasnt in all this shit right now, yall would praise her for how she handled the monster meme
@@katarinajargasova7637 but it feels better, because it is regaining control over situation. Wanting control isn't bad in itself, but can be toxic.
"If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, it probably is a duck."
-Emil Mazey
Oooh...I have a version of this one, I like to use:-
If it looks like shit, smells like shit, tastes like shit.....it's probably shit!?!
@@tynellesharratt463 Do u often taste the shit? Lol. I think Id be comfortable making that judgement call based on smell and appearance… At least you’re thorough, I guess… 🤷🏻♀️
I was in a toxic relationship. Took me 5 years with him to realise this. Took me another 5 years to get out. Thank you for putting this out there
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Histrionic personality disorder is actually on its way out of the DSM because there is so much overlap with other disorders! To me personally it sounds very similar to borderline, which can come in all shapes and sizes basically.
It shares a lot with more vulnerable type narcissism as well, so it doesn't change the conversations around Gabbie too much. Plus, the word histrionic has sexist roots, so I'd be glad to at least have that changed lol
i have bpd and i was really surprised how many of the hpd symptoms i identified with, trying not to selfdiagnose here but yeah theyre very similar in many ways. its freakin me out a little bit
It's why its on the way out
D'Angelo and SWOOP are the King and Queen of presenting straight facts. And that choker is ✨goals✨💚
In a previous job a colleague and I had diagnosed one of our colleagues with HPD. Examples of things she’d do:
-leave a collection of designer shoes under her desk so she could change into them when she left the office, making sure to let everyone know she was going to some lavish party
-making a huge deal of letting everyone know that she was Canadian, not American, completely unprovoked and literally nobody cared
-when she found out a colleague got engaged she brought her a HUGE bouquet of flowers and made a massive deal of congratulating her and letting anyone entering the office that the flowers were from her, for Mona who got engaged
-crying when she found out about a colleague getting engaged, married or having a child because she really wanted this for herself but she hadn’t found “the one” yet
-making a huge deal of her friendship with her (gay) coworker who was also an awful person, basically making them the mean girls in the office
Ugh… I don’t miss her.
"i had diagnosed" uhh. the fuck ? if youre assigning stigmatized disorders to people just because you dont like them, youre not a very good person either lol
I’m offended that you didnt say “mama Mia, here we go again” at the beginning. Idk why but i expected it 😂
Gabbie hanna seems to always be trying to convince herself and others she’s a good person but seemingly never does anything to SHOW she’s a good person she just says she is and does nothing to prove it.
"she's not smart enough to be sociopathic"
As a psyc grad student that just proved to me (like I needed it lol) that she knows absolutely nothing about the mental health issues she talks about. Funny; that sentence says a lot more subconsciously about how she feels about herself and her intelligence.
Would anyone apologizing to Gabbie even make her stop? Cause a part of me feels she'd literally just use it as more fuel for her bitter existence 🤷🏽♀️
THANK YOU! I very much feel like if someone apologized she would say something like "They just did it so I would stop" or "It's totally fake' or "They're just trying to be the nice guy to save face" or something else like that
i am LOVING these docs!! i am a teacher and having to return to the classrooms has made me v anxious so whenever i have to be mindlessly grading or working i put these on and they make the time bearable,, i have probably watched each of them 3 or 4 times (after intently watching their premiere obvi)
thank you for covering these w the seriousness of the topic w out losing your charm💖
Bless you for teaching! I can't even imagine the challenges you face, but am grateful to you :)
I do that with cleaning and putting on these videos🤣
From the beginning of this nightmare I still haven’t figured out how in the hell Jessie’s trauma had anything to do with Gabbie. Gabbie put herself in the middle of all of this when she seriously had no business being involved.
I wasn’t expecting Bailey and it literally took me out💀💀💀💕
I love bailey, I'm not even interested in true crime but bailey is my favorite youtuber bc of her personality, beautiful makeup looks, and storytelling
@@kyra6744 I’m not really into true crime that much either but she talks like she’s talking to a friend and I love it🥰
i would LOVE it if someone could explain to me why 5.5 MILLION people are still subscribed to GH? 🤔🤔
or how she still has platforms? 🤔
she's gotta go. blessed be, she has gotta go somewhere!
i LOVE how you use your coverage of internet drama to send truly important messages to your audience (RE: for survivors, signs of a toxic relationship, mental health stigma, victim blaming, and more). especially when the situation is serious like in this video. you manage to seamlessly blend real life examples and advice for your viewers into what is on surface level just a review of the latest youtube controversy. plus, you always treat it with the seriousness and respect these topics deserve. AND you somehow manage to be super charismatic and entertaining at the same time!! ABSOLUTE *QUEEN*
Here here!
“What in the AirWick Swiffer Duster hell” needs to become a thing people say.
Your videos are honestly so addictive I can watch you talk for hours😅😍
Ahhhhh thank you!!!
@@PettyUniversity Of course! Hope u have a fantastic day😉
I feel like she doesn't get, you are not OWED as many apologies as you give, you cant be like "I give EVERYONE apologies but they never give ME one", it's not a gift exchange if you are apologizing you are doing that because you did something that required you to apologize....that doesn't make you a good person. It doesn't inherently make you a bad person, but if you are CONSTANTLY needing to apologize for your actions that's an issue, apologizing cant be what you use as proof of you being a good person, really good people don't have THAT much to apologize over. You can go to someone "I always apologize to you but you never apologize to me, that's not fair" like MAYBE that person didn't DO anything they need to apologize FOR and YOU DID. It doesn't have to be equal, I feel like her concept of accountability/apologies is stuck in preschool where they just make everyone apologize to each other no matter who was at fault, she really is just so stuck in "well I said sorry so now THEY have to say sorry too" like dude NOT how that works.
I don’t understood why you don’t have millions of subscribers. You’re brilliant.
She had another channel that had a lot more subs. But due to a RUclips algorithm freak accident equivalent of being struck by lightening, that channel is basically dead. She has a video on this, I think her first vide on this channel :)
i cannot physically comprehend how someone can delude themselves this much to being this level of hypocritical. mind blowing
She'd deadass be a serial killer if she could get away with it and thats even worse 😳
The Obsession towards Jessie is pointing towards narcissism. Histrionic personality disorder does change quickly - If it were her only disorder, she would "float" more. It is about Audition, the play is irrelevant. She is too focussed on controlling the narrative.
this is such a stigmatizing statement. you can be a bad person and NOT fill the diagnostic criteria for personality disorders
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Being neurodiverse myself I don't excuse her behaviour. I evaluate it. Everyone has the responsibility to learn about how our brains work and to learn how our behaviour effects others and how to help society to improve.
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Prof. Sam Vaknin knows about his Narcissism. He calls himself aware but never healed. Hurt people hurt people. We all need to learn how to hurt less. Describing & evaluating behaviour can make ourselves aware and work to change bit by bit. One is neither doomed nor excused with a correct diagnosis. One is responsible to know ones limitations.
@@ninaschust3694 what the hell are you even talking about lol. someone needs to log off the mental illness youtube. stop armchair diagnosing bad behavior as mental health issues
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I am talking about the ICD10 - F60.8 & F60.4 diagnosis. They both describe clusters of symptoms. Symptoms grouped together represent diseases.
Both narcissic and histrionic behaviour can be observed and described as such.
My OP states that Swoop in her brilliant documentary was hinting towards histrionic behaviour in Gabbie Hannas case. If Gabbie had had more histrionic traits than narcissistic traits, she would have been less obsessed with Jessie.
Did you even watch the video?
I was pointing out the difference between F60.8 and F60.4 in relation to Gabbies behavioural traits she has made sure to be in the center of attention...
I was using words to describe a process. I know the difference between stigma and shame. Do you?
Waitaminute I can't be the only person that caught on to the fact that Gabbie said she tried hard to be the only persom in Jessie's life right?
Nope, you're not. ;)
Huge manipulation red flag!
Swoop, you’re the cool friend from college I always wish I had met!! I just had to share.. hope you’re having an amazing day today! 💙😃
Awww that's so sweet... listen... we're all in Petty University so technically, we are online college friends :)
@@PettyUniversity Oo I see what you did there!! Haha, thanks Swoop! 😆😃💙
Im watching this over a year later and seeing where Gabbie is now is quite scary. She needs professional help and medication. Im no doctor or therapist but she has really bad mental issues. She just let some random guy, whom she does not know, come into her apartment. She was making videos with him, she had no who he was, she could have been killed or seriously injured. Or worse she could have a story like Jessie's.
I would love for swoop to make a rap video called "bitch lissen" she should use that to make a song. Lmao
Swoop is awesome
Swoop your whole personality alone makes your channel a safe space for me, thank you for talking about all these sensitive topics it means a lot :)
Lol holy shit I’m still sitting in the intro and just blown away, as per usual, at how you have this undeniable talent in spotting these insane parallels/specific contradictions People spout. It’s fucking crazy!!! I rarely see them myself, but I’m sure grateful I’ve got your channel to show them to me.
God I needed this video. Listening to you explain toxic relationships confirmed that this is what I have with my sister and it truly is best to just cut her out of my life. I already did it with my abusive father, but I'm truly starting to get ruthless in cutting people out of my life.
Luckily I have my furbabies to give me snuggles, hugs and kisses.
Thank you for your effort and hard work. It’s appreciated!
Thank you for the thank you! Very appreciated
The reason Trasha And Grabbie do not like each other, because when they see each other, it’s like looking in the mirror!!!! Lol
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Love it when swoop drops a video, I always know every min is not wasted and every minute is worth 1000 words.
except for the 'swoop-swoop-swoop' intro? hmmm.
nope, that's a banger too.
It’s surprising to watch someone who doesn’t waste time. She makes it easy to watch a 45 min video because she’s genuinely interesting. She makes perfect videos.
31:24 "I did the f* best I could to be the only person in her f* life" You know what Gabbie... I think you accidentally spilled some tea on yourself there. I think she literally did just that, try her absolute hardest to make Jessie not have any friends other than herself.
She did put Jessi and Jen against each other at some point… so, valid point.
*pauses this video and waits for my alfredo to finish cooking so I can enjoy a piping hot meal with my piping hot tea* I know that you're not a tea channel but it was catchy and I just wanted to put that out there.
Loved it
Honestly Swoop’s documentaries somewhat contains tea with facts. I can get behind this comment.
Great video ❤ about Histrionic Personality Disorder, I was actually diagnosed with this. Eventually, most of the disorder was able to be treated with therapy and medication. It IS possible to show some traits and not all of them to answer your question. Some people are theatrical and overdramatic but do not want to be the center of attention if that makes sense. It's also often grouped with Borderline Personality Disorder.
Omg girl I’m tipsy and just made popcorn and opened youtube to THIS? Thank you. Perfect timing. 🙌🏻
"I censored you and oppressed your voice FOR YOU!" Says ALL oppressors.
I'm at the 12 min mark and I am literally fuming. GH needs to be removed from the internet, post haste. She needs people in her life to force her off and keep her off.
She has chased most of her friends away.
The fact that gabbie has no idea she's the actual narcissist that is ruining her own life is just fascinating.
I can admit that I am sick and tired of Gabbie Hanna but you had to post a three part serie on her. Damn Swoop, I wish I could quit you 😂
17 minutes in, I think I'm here pretty dang early, but there are already 70 comments. I'm so glad your channel is blowing up though because you are one of the best RUclipsrs making good contents ❤️❤️❤️
Wow the histrionic definition is spot on.
“Overwhelming desire to get noticed” check
“Behave dramatically to get attention” check
“Thinks relationships are closer than they are” check
“Self esteem depends on the approval of others” CHECK!
Sounds just like Trisha.
Your discussion on toxic relationships was really interesting and helpful - it definitely struck a chord and was really clear and compassionate. Thank you for including that. Also, your makeup is amazing!
40:45 This sounds exactly like the relationship I have with my dad that lives with me, my husband and my 9 year old son. I always feel like I'm doing everything wrong. And trying to communicate is out of the question it always ends in an argument and I always end up giving in. He's constantly invalidating my feelings. There are times when I feel that he's slowly draining the life out of me. I'm starting to think I'm the victim of a narcissistic parent. I looked it up and it is my relationship to a t. I always knew I had a toxic relationship with my dad but to hear someone else say it other than me is in a way comforting. It means I'm not loosing my mind. Thank you Spanky❤
sorry you’re dealing with that! you might want to look up Dr Ramani’s videos, she has a lot of information about narcissistic parents.
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Spankie, I am so disappointed in you that you didn't include a Monster meme scream! IT WAS RIGHT THERE!
I love watching SWOOP'S videos. I always feel so validated as an ab*se and ass*ult survivor :) Back to SWOOP talking about toxic behavior, I want to emphasize boundaries. A few weeks ago, my therapist explain to me when someone tries to shift your boundaries, they are trying to gain control over the relationship. I hope this helps someone out there :)
I’ve said “welcome back to my channel” and literally don’t have a channel…. At all…..
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From the beginning when I first heard this story I still haven’t figured out why Gabby got involved with this when it had absolutely nothing to do with her. Why did she feel the need to insert herself in Jessie’s trauma? Gabby needs some seriously help
Wait, wait... I really wanna be at Petty University so next time you're "talking to imaginary people" can you name one of em Jasmine? 😂😂😂
🥺PLEEEEEEASE!!!
32:00 Another way she tries to use this manipulation tactic was with the Escape The Night situation, where she brings up that "Colleen also had a problem with the call-time". Daniel Preda points out how she picked the wrong person because Colleen is actually one of his closest friends, and calls her out for lying through her teeth.
Daniel really came for her soul in that video. And good! No one wants her manipulative and fake narratives.
Thank you so much for your videos, the way that you don’t just talk about drama, but actually talk about the dangers of “tea” and use it to teach life lessons is amazing
hearing your words of affirmation and encouragement are genuinely more helpful than you could ever imagine :)
it just scares me how Gabbie laughs in her vlogs at her own behavior as if it's quirky, like "omg I'm the common denominator, haha just Gabbie things 🤪"
Swoop: *reads the definition of hpd*
Me: oh.. Oh dear... Oh dear me
I love when people get all mad and rant while saying "I don't care". Clearly you do, or you wouldn't be so angry about it.
"thinks relationships are closer than they are" oh... lols reminds me of the gabby trisha fiasco
I never knew a goat could express my feelings better than I could myself
Can we crowd fund legal fees to get her to leave Jessi alone?
I love your docs!!!
I'm having to avoid everything about Gabbie Hanna now because it's so triggering but I'm making an exception, your videos are always fascinating
Your documentaries are amazing. They're researched very well, and I love your compassion and validation for survivors of all kinds of abuse.
seeing as you where confused with gabbie's patreon you may not be aware she threatened CHILDREN with a lawsuit to not talk about her and my boy cid on youtube covered it and investigated her patreon
I love how she doesn't care about what people think but has the comments and likes turned off on certain videos....
The bit where you talked about the traits of a toxic relationship made me realize I got out of a relationship that was becoming toxic before it truly came to fruition... Omg
when i see people defending GH or spreading her lies it makes me feel like im in another universe, your videos help remind me there’s someone else that sees it for what it is including this comment section. my sanity thanks you. 🙃