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Комментарии • 131

  • @keighhht
    @keighhht Год назад +241

    I find so much calmness watching Judy and Benji parent and being a couple. I will forever love and appreciate Judy's vlogs for being so real and being able to take lessons they share with us. Congrats on 12 years and many more! 💕

  • @KjungrlOR
    @KjungrlOR Год назад +83

    I did not fully appreciate single parents until my husband and I had our second daughter. Hats off to the solo parents and caretakers out there. It's hard work to do on your own.

  • @jackietran6856
    @jackietran6856 Год назад +61

    6:06 I love how Benji said this would be a chair to use if you need to defend yourself. Everyone using chairs as a weapon nowadays 😂 iykyk!!

  • @ikixazz23
    @ikixazz23 Год назад +24

    Lmao, “ it’s like the off brand cheezit” 🤣🤣🤣 I’m dying

  • @sameerahkhan5042
    @sameerahkhan5042 Год назад +49

    4:39 Leah is like imma just help myself 😂😂😂

  • @natchinvlogs8907
    @natchinvlogs8907 Год назад +15

    Always love the twins’ honest and hilarious comments

  • @jaco4341
    @jaco4341 Год назад +38

    Benji was so confident with that “when we’re outside she doesn’t need a bib” and then the next clip is her on Mommy with a bib. Immediately no. 🤣

  • @michelletran1185
    @michelletran1185 Год назад +6

    I love how Benji is your ying and you’re the Yang for him! Parenting is never easy. like the saying goes…a takes a village to raise a child! Its so true! I can relate in so many ways…I’m a single parent but I only have one child but my family are the backbone foundation. without them I’ll be so lost. Thanks for venting and sharing! 🥰

  • @RachaelDenise
    @RachaelDenise Год назад +53

    Y’all do it so well and parenting is hard! I only have one and it’s still hard. And congratulations on 12 years! We hit year 7 in November

  • @sameerahkhan5042
    @sameerahkhan5042 Год назад +21

    Youre doing a great job Judy bear sending so much of love and hugs!!
    You and Benji rock and are wonderul parents and we see this in the girls ALL of the time ❤

  • @WallFlower08
    @WallFlower08 Год назад +19

    Yes! Raising and taking care of babies and kids takes a whole village! I’m an Aunt and I’m already exhausted lol.
    Judy and Benji I don’t know how you both do it with 5 kids but y’all make it look easier lol.

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii Год назад +5

    The ooooooooo edit at 0:42 was 🔥.

  • @JodieBlimeyswife
    @JodieBlimeyswife Год назад +13

    Hey, Benji! Opaque means you can't see through it. The word you're looking for is transparent ☺

  • @baalynduh
    @baalynduh Год назад +15

    Benji makes the pizza making process look so easy ! The way I be fighting with the store bought dough i use 😅😅

  • @ElviePasco
    @ElviePasco Год назад +3

    I admire Ms. Judy’s patient, cool 😎 mom!

  • @paulinep6933
    @paulinep6933 Год назад +7

    Those recap moments are the best : we imagine the scene but we know what you were thinking.

  • @edzpolo-loremia9964
    @edzpolo-loremia9964 Год назад +4

    Bella eating pizza is sooooo cute ❤️

  • @Hairmakeupskin20
    @Hairmakeupskin20 Год назад +6

    i love that benji said sometimes those who live near him get a pizza. so sweet lol

  • @lookupinthesky3456
    @lookupinthesky3456 Год назад +5

    off brand cheez its LMAOOO

  • @abunchahooey
    @abunchahooey Год назад +10

    That pesto pizza looked so darn good! Great job, Benji. And Judy, coffee is full of antioxidants, so it’s really good for you. Added bonus: keeps you sane. 😂

  • @patbagnell721
    @patbagnell721 Год назад +9

    It seems to be Benji's job to make Pizza and compliment Judy's hair. Judy must rave about the coffee and pizza. lol

  • @maanmorelos0808
    @maanmorelos0808 Год назад +5

    You are good parents 💝

  • @morales5412
    @morales5412 Год назад +6

    Thank you for venting! sometimes it feels like if I vent it comes across as ungrateful or like I'm unhappy but it's a side of parenting too. I love my little one, I may not love it when I have a back and forth with my little one, but it's NORMAL. Even good parents have off days

  • @vickiemurph
    @vickiemurph Год назад +5

    You help each other out with the girls. Benji was so sweet giving the dinosaur a good night kiss. He allowed Judy to finish her hair and time in the bathroom. ❤️

  • @MiSsHuntah
    @MiSsHuntah Год назад +4

    Happy anniversary Judy and Benji!! 💕

  • @HeyJules
    @HeyJules Год назад +5

    Drinking coffee every day actually extends lifespan and it also has other health benefits. So keep drinking your coffee Judy! Cheers! ☕

  • @michaelastubson264
    @michaelastubson264 Год назад +10

    Aww Bella boo!!! She just knows she’s the baby!! One day y’all will miss having a little baby do hold. Cherish it ❤ my little one is Bella’s age and he’s the same way!! Some days I’m so exhausted but other times I’m so grateful that he wants me.

  • @seizetheday4937
    @seizetheday4937 Год назад +6

    Parenting is the hardest job!

  • @stephaniea1398
    @stephaniea1398 Год назад +2

    The most important thing to teach children is how to self soothe and frustration tolerance....if we give in to everything they ask for, they aren't learning how to cope with frustration and that is not good...it's better to say no and then show them how to cope with their feelings...

  • @elleairrrr2985
    @elleairrrr2985 Год назад +7

    Ohhhh how I would love to be a neighbor! Those pizzas make me drool every single time 😭

  • @tiffanypacheco_
    @tiffanypacheco_ Год назад +1

    Parenting is hard work. As a stay at home mom I always tell everyone that this is the hardest most rewarding job I’ve ever had!

  • @MM-619
    @MM-619 Год назад +2

    Thanks for sharing Judy! It’s what keeps us all coming back and so relatable 💜

  • @Sayla-lalalalala
    @Sayla-lalalalala Год назад +20

    You’re doing a fantastic/amazing job (Judy). I have two kids and one on the way. So, I truly inspire you cuz you have “5 girls” and I’m sure your girls appreciate everything you done for them! Mothers have a tough job. Parenting isn’t easy, it’s hard. But it’s very BLESSED 🥹!!! Who’s with me? Congratulations on 12 years. 💜🩷🧡

  • @msalexaa
    @msalexaa Год назад

    lmaooo the "ohhhhh" transition is Elite

  • @mrsasfar6663
    @mrsasfar6663 Год назад +9

    Eagerly waiting for mummy-Leah’s date❤️

  • @stephaniepaterno8764
    @stephaniepaterno8764 Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤ hugs..you're both doing great as parents..and you could see it how the girlzz are growing up beautifully 💯 so sure Mama is so happy seeing you all from above ❤❤❤

  • @jenniferd9719
    @jenniferd9719 Год назад +1

    Benji's love for food will never cease to amaze me 🤣

  • @janetsimpson2372
    @janetsimpson2372 Год назад +5

    I have 3 beautiful gurls. All grown up now ❤️ Single mum. Loved every minute of it not being dependent on ex. I never depended on him

  • @SuperTopaz23
    @SuperTopaz23 Год назад +11

    Okay, Benji. Please release a cookbook because those pizzas are 😮. Looks so good.
    Sending you lots of love Judy! You are a super mama ❤

  • @saphire60
    @saphire60 Год назад

    did benji dirty with the “off brand cheez-itz” comment 😂😂😭 4:50

  • @mavelinnunez9221
    @mavelinnunez9221 Год назад +2

    Congrats on ur 12 yrs n to many more. Love u guys n u guys r doing amazing! 😘😘

  • @Alex_South
    @Alex_South Год назад +4

    My mom makes homemade Calazone on the grill all the time in the summer. It’s really good.

  • @armaniblanco8166
    @armaniblanco8166 Год назад +1

    Can you imagine! You both do it so well together ❤️ but yes I feel for the single mom's unbelievable

  • @aliciasimoes9070
    @aliciasimoes9070 Год назад

    Miya, off brand cheezits! Lmao 😅😅😅 girl's got jokes! Okkkay Miya I see you lol 😅

  • @teyaellaf3992
    @teyaellaf3992 Год назад +3

    Congratulations ❤

  • @d8bn
    @d8bn Год назад +1

    Good rant and understandable. Happy to hear you two will get a couple nights together soon for your anniversary. 💝

  • @judithjones4291
    @judithjones4291 Год назад

    NO BENJI GOT YOU HOOKED ON HIS COFFEE LOL,

  • @Chillyen
    @Chillyen Год назад

    I love it how you guys help each other and anyways possible❤❤❤

  • @amyandfamily664
    @amyandfamily664 Год назад

    Happy Anniversary yall. My husband and I just celebrated put 11th! We're one year behind ya 😊

  • @Lc_786
    @Lc_786 Год назад +2

    I have 4 daughters and no help. It’s hard, I feel you.

  • @EssenceAlexis
    @EssenceAlexis Год назад +13

    How did Benji teach the breathing? Would love him to elaborate on that! 😍 such a great dad. Idk what I’d do without my husband also and we only have one so far 🥵

    • @stephaniea1398
      @stephaniea1398 Год назад

      You can look on youtube there are thousands of videos and apps on learning breathing techniques and teaching kids...

    • @EssenceAlexis
      @EssenceAlexis Год назад

      @@stephaniea1398 I’m aware... Google is a free resource. Tik tok, Reels and RUclips have also been helpful. Was wondering what technique BENJI used since I’ve watched them for ages and I appreciate their parenting style. But thanks.

  • @everg14
    @everg14 Год назад +1

    Crazy I’ve been watching y’all for 12 years

  • @sincerelylexis9288
    @sincerelylexis9288 Год назад +1

    Bella is held up so much she probably knows how to make sinigang. Lol

  • @perdedoronline
    @perdedoronline Год назад +7

    Bella's one of those diva babies that likes to be held 😂

  • @sailing1stwatch
    @sailing1stwatch Год назад +14

    Leah has definitely been cottled and a wee bit spoiled since a baby because it was harder for Judy to bond with her in the first few weeks. It was something worked thru and over compensated for but now boundaries are definitely necessary

  • @d8bn
    @d8bn Год назад +1

    Keira: "Off brand cheese-its" 🤣

  • @Diane8172
    @Diane8172 Год назад

    they need one more. 3 olders and 3 littles! CMON one more :) LOL

  • @kingterry2020
    @kingterry2020 Год назад

    I could listen to you talk all day 🤗

  • @lolaa5762
    @lolaa5762 Год назад +1

    My baby is the same way… has to be held! Driving me nuts but I also love it hahah

  • @foldstudios_
    @foldstudios_ Год назад

    my favourite benji teaching moment was when the three big girls were smaller and he was explaining the rules to the girls before heading out, which lead to the girls behaving whenever you were in the hotel hallways or walking outside. kudos!

  • @lorrainecortes7296
    @lorrainecortes7296 Год назад

    I enjoy watching your beautiful family.

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Год назад +1

    Hi Judy happy Saturday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter

  • @rachaelgonzales2513
    @rachaelgonzales2513 Год назад +3

    Don't worry about ur pillows Judy I'm pretty sure all of our pillows look the same...lol

  • @Tuti-of2xg
    @Tuti-of2xg Год назад +4

    I live and California but I would totally fly to Washington just for a slice of Benji's pizza 🍕

  • @calltothesky2880
    @calltothesky2880 Год назад

    I love this one on one conversations with you. Even though it's one way lol but I love it.

  • @angelasacris7303
    @angelasacris7303 Год назад +1

    We have to be patient , like a circle. 😅

  • @sherryrose4427
    @sherryrose4427 Год назад

    Best couple❤ best family❤

  • @JoannBasilio
    @JoannBasilio Год назад +6

    off brand cheez its 😂😂😂

  • @gayanichampika9842
    @gayanichampika9842 Год назад +1

    God bless you love ❤️ family

  • @ashes2beauti
    @ashes2beauti Год назад +1

    If you buy your cases larger than the pillow you can envelope them like in the hotel😊

  • @KayMarieee123
    @KayMarieee123 11 месяцев назад

    LOL at the off brand cheez it’s

  • @dms_25
    @dms_25 Год назад

    I had to rewind 3X to listen to what Benji said regard coffee... 😂

  • @ANA.sees.the.World12
    @ANA.sees.the.World12 Год назад

    0:44 i see you Judy with a new effect. Cute!

  • @owemeanthropology
    @owemeanthropology Год назад +1

    happy anniversary! my anniversary is tomorrow.

  • @Christinenaly
    @Christinenaly Год назад +1

    She doesn’t need a bib when she outside, cut to her wearing bib. Classic mom and dad conversations.

  • @mimin_carlyk
    @mimin_carlyk Год назад

    benji also patient with making pizza.. LOL it is just who he is..

  • @allnaturalmusicfan
    @allnaturalmusicfan Год назад +1

    I got amazing memory foam pillows from costco for under $40

  • @EGYPTIANEYES76
    @EGYPTIANEYES76 Год назад

    MY FAVORITE WORD IS ANNOYING 😂😭😅

  • @judylee6812
    @judylee6812 Год назад

    I live in Vietnam. Follow your life for long time. How can you treat your life and your children. I have only one child but really stressfull on my journey. What to do with my anxiety and insecurity

  • @victoriaharris8543
    @victoriaharris8543 Год назад +6

    He actually is the best father !!!!

  • @loreni491
    @loreni491 Год назад +1

    You are so bless to have benji in your life.

  • @emcmo103092
    @emcmo103092 Год назад

    Judy I live in Connecticut, the pizza capital of the U.S.A, Benji needs to come to Connecticut!!! I'd give you a list of the top pizza restaurants here 🙏🏻❤️

  • @EGYPTIANEYES76
    @EGYPTIANEYES76 Год назад

    8:47 you guy's are ❤ too cute!

  • @luceroalmaraz92
    @luceroalmaraz92 Год назад +2

    I’d pay for your pizza!! 😩 and I live in the area! You guys are amazing at parenting, I wish I could get at least half of the help you get with kids! 😅

  • @EGYPTIANEYES76
    @EGYPTIANEYES76 Год назад

    Our home is in probate here in Topock Arizona. My husband and I are anxious on where we will end up. Any advice would be wonderful! I'd love to get a PIZZUH 😂🎉❤❤

  • @dandelionsdandelions1517
    @dandelionsdandelions1517 Год назад

    I'm sorry, what did Benji say when the vlog zoomed out at the start? I really couldn't make it out haha.

  • @patriciameagher9162
    @patriciameagher9162 Год назад +2

    I think Bella just likes to see what's going on and by being picked up she can do this.

  • @ambergromero
    @ambergromero Год назад

    I would love to see you make your grandpas spaghetti someday. I remember when he visited and made it with you.

  • @matthewwhittington-jk9ep
    @matthewwhittington-jk9ep Год назад

    Happy friday judy

  • @jennm6986
    @jennm6986 Год назад +1

    Benji!! can we get that pizza dough recipe 😬

  • @EGYPTIANEYES76
    @EGYPTIANEYES76 Год назад

    Neh na neh na neah 😂

  • @omegachan9430
    @omegachan9430 Год назад +1

    Benji, do you ever flavor your crust with garlic or parmesan?

  • @kellyclaire1650
    @kellyclaire1650 Год назад +1

    Is the pesto from costco?

  • @sammorshedy1118
    @sammorshedy1118 Год назад

    For both of you, my deep respect. This is how its supposed to be🙌. What you said judy, doing this by youself you would go crazy. I can assure you will. Im doing this semi by myself. Husband workaholic and nog involved with dag to day routine.. so its all me.
    BTW i have an idea and please think about it.. hear me out oke;
    You and benji should do maybe once a week after hours episode and answer questions regarding marriage and parenting. You guys are really qualified to give advise.
    🙏pls consider it 😅
    I know you guys are very busy

  • @maanmorelos0808
    @maanmorelos0808 Год назад

    How lucky the girls to have pizza all day erryday 😍😍😍

  • @EGYPTIANEYES76
    @EGYPTIANEYES76 Год назад

    0:46 😂❤🎉

  • @Eva89076
    @Eva89076 Год назад

    I first watched you when I was like 9 years old

  • @amyjane8536
    @amyjane8536 Год назад +4

    When does Leah start nursery? X

    • @bubblegum082
      @bubblegum082 Год назад +2

      She’s still on a baby bottle and in diapers, so I don’t think anytime soon as the child has to be at least potty trained. They act like Leah and Bella are the same age 🫠🙃

    • @Noneyabizzness1985
      @Noneyabizzness1985 Год назад

      @@bubblegum082she can start daycare

    • @bubblegum082
      @bubblegum082 Год назад +1

      @@Noneyabizzness1985 No she cannot, she’s not potty trained at all.

    • @Noneyabizzness1985
      @Noneyabizzness1985 Год назад

      @@bubblegum082 yes she can daycares potty train kids she’d be put in a 2 year old classroom because she’s not potty trained unless it’s a big daycare where they have 2 classes for each age group then she’d be put in the younger 3 year old class Daycares run from ages 6 weeks to 12 years, I’ve worked at daycares since 2019 she won’t enter pre k until next year when she’s 4 that’s when she would need to be potty trained and off the bottle.

    • @bubblegum082
      @bubblegum082 Год назад

      @@Noneyabizzness1985 That’s where you are, where my husband and I live no where does it like that, at all. Leah is done over 3 years old and they act like she’s the same age if not younger than Bella, they’ve always favored her. She’s even still having trouble with her speech, for the sake of their child and her development they need to get her off the baby bottle, stop babying her so much in the ways they do because let’s face it, her and Bella are NOT the same age, get her potty trained and get her speech therapy along with the twins. It’s clear Judy is annoyed and overwhelmed, especially with Leah and Bella screaming, but a lot of the reason she does that is because she can’t communicate properly and they just enable it. They give in and give her what she wants like a warm baba as Judy told her in one of the latest vlogs to stop her from screaming instead of dealing with it. This is their fault, not Leah’s, she’s a child. This is on the parents.

  • @camalana9703
    @camalana9703 Год назад +8

    I wanna taste Benji’s Pizza 🍕😋

  • @everg14
    @everg14 Год назад +2

    Idk if I want kids 😅 as a 30 yo oldest daughter Im trying to take care of myself and my husband which is enough for me