Having a Miscarriage
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2024
- With everything we've shared with you guys so far: our infertility, Jessi's endometriosis, our IVF... it felt appropriate to also share our miscarriage experience. It's another thing that so many people go through, yet there's a huge lack of information and support out there. It's always expected that these are things you must suffer through in silence, but we disagree. So we wanted to share our experience with you and let you know, if you're going through something similar, you are never, ever alone.
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I love you saying that "this baby deserves to be celebrated no matter what happens ".❤
What a wonderful way to look at it. My Mom had at least 10 pregnancies-7 children. & 3 miscarriages ( she’s not sure-might have been more). Her Ob/Gyn told her that in a way it was a blessing, as perhaps the baby had a birth defect that would have been difficult. Our position as Catholics is that every child I’d a gift-there would have ever been. a decision to not go ahead with the birth. But maybe it was a small comfort. And the aftermath is still hard-her OB/Gyn 35 yrs experience told her to try to get pregnant asap
b/c 17:36 a woman goes thru the hormonal fluctuations as if still pregnant. He had a tremendous amount of experience in miscarriages to be a subject matter expert and it’s now been validated scientifically.
So it’s not only the psychological issues, communicating the loss to others, but also the hormonal changes beyond your immediate control .
I have had three miscarriages. all at the tenth week, all with curettage. it was devastating. I felt responsible for everything: yet I was in bed all the time, but my body rejected this little being in my uterus. my relationship has undergone many shocks, if it hadn't been for my partner who is very stubborn and madly in love with me, today perhaps I would be single and depressed. we decided not to try anymore. in August 2023 my partner says to me why don't you take a test before leaving for holidays? so out of nowhere. "It's fine" I tell him, to leave calmly but I never expected something positive. I didn't react well. I was afraid of losing him again, of suffering physically like the previous times. we didn't tell anyone because I didn't want people to look at me with pity after my fourth miscarriage. Today I'm 32 weeks. it's a real miracle, we still don't know why three pregnancies were lost and this one wasn't. but miracles sometimes happen. I hope that your heart can receive everything it desires. I pray for you and for your two little ones who await you ❤️ a hug from Italy
I agree that announcing the pregnancy before 3 months is better than not telling…
Nothing to be ashamed.
I think it depends, really. I had a loss on my 4th pregnancy. I found out super early since i would test all the time. I announced with my older three wearing big sister shirts. I lost the baby a week later. I wish i wouldn't have told everyone just because i had people asking me how the pregnancy was going, and i broke down. Our 4 year old at the time would talk about the baby all the time. We didn't tell her we lost the baby since we were going to keep trying, and she didn't know how long a pregnancy was. We ended up telling her after our youngest was here and when she could understand more.
I am glad my close family knew, but I wish i had kept it at that. I think it just depends on the person.
True, really depends on who you will want to have the support specially after more than one.
I had 2 miscarriages and went through that alone.
I cannot agree with you enough about telling people you are pregnant right away. The first time, I didn't tell anyone, and had to go through a miscarriage silently. The second time I did the same, but had severe hyperemesis... alone. For the third pregnancy I told all my closest friends and family right away, and it was so much better to have support.
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I had 11 miscarraiges and a full term stillbirth. I found out i have MTHFR. My daughter also has it andhas lost 3. Please look into MTHFR.
I wanted all the prayers and shared joy from the word go. And then the support when I miscarried our son. 😢
@@susansteele687I have this and don't hear a lot of people talk about it.
@@susansteele687I have Antiphospholipid Syndrome and lost my daughter at 36 weeks. I actually just wrote a long comment about it and how I blamed myself before knowing I had APS . I wish the tested everyone for clotting disorders. It could save so many lives
I love that you don't talk over each other! You listen and let the other finish speaking. Respect!
I understand, I had 2 miscarriage. I was devastated. The physical pain was awful as well. I delivered at home. I was 4 months. The doctors office experience is awful as well. Separate rooms are necessary. The staff is insensitive too. But 3 years later I got pregnant again. They prepared me to lose the baby but I made it. Don't lose hope.
It's probably for the best .
Don't breeders understand the world is overpopulated ?
Or your kids will be without jobs thanks to AI
The " Luddites " where ahead of their times on these matters .😊
From one silent miscarriage couple to another still hoping for their first successful pregnancy, my husband and I are praying for you, in Jesus’ name
I'm praying for you! I lost my uterus at age 23 due to tumors. No chance of giving birth. In my late 30s, I decided to adopt a daughter. She just graduated with her Master's degree. Even if the IVF doesn't work, don't give up!
My parents (Italian dad and British mum) during their first 10 years of marriage had several miscarriages before I was born. They had almost given up hope that they'd ever have children. I have a close friend who went through the same thing before giving birth to two strong healthy children. Wishing you all the best on your journey towards parenthood. I know you'll make wonderful parents. ♥
Thank you, Jessi and Alessio! Being an old obstetrician in Sweden, I of course know about the medical background to miscarriages, but I think your video was very important for the sake of the general public. Insightful and very mature views you are promoting.
Yes, in Sweden, we say that around one pregnancy in five, when you knew you had been pregnant ends in a miscvarriage. And also yes, the by far most common cause are chromosomal abberrations (we think) - and thus a random thing that can happen to anyone. And the risk is always the same (unless you first do preimplantation diagnostics, which still is not a common thing).
In the same manner, the REAL frequency of conceptions not leading to a pregnancy presumably is around 50 % actually.
Interestingly enough, it's always more problematic getting pregnant the first time, as opposed to later on. Also, we have noted that people giving up, getting a dog or signing up for adoption have a tendency of getting spontaneously pregnant. Stress hormones surely plays a big role here.
My son and his wife had difficulties at the start, resorting to IVF and by now have two three year old twin boys (from one reimplanted egg).
However this January 5th they got their third son after a spontaneous pregnancy. And this is quite a common phenomenon.
So, all the best of luck to you both! You seem to be in extremely good hands!
Yes after 7years of 7 miscarriages my mother finally carried to full term. After that my mother had two more full term carriages. I guess your body remembers how to work after the first one.
2 things:
1. Alessio, your English is top tier!!!
2. You are AMAZING to tell people to drop their questions, and say maybe you can do a live with the expert. SO many people don't have the money, time, or opportunity to consult such an expert. God will bless you both for being open, helpful, and generous!
I’m so sorry you went through that. I had two back to back miscarriages (one at 13 weeks December of 2019 and one at 8.5 weeks (twins) March of 2020). It was the worst time of my life but I now have my rainbow baby girl who will be three in June. I pray you all get your rainbow baby as well. Many blessing you all love you guys.
We are praying for you guys! We know that pain all too well. Have been trying for 3 years, also had a miscarriage. In my case, I had to deliver opening remarks for an art show at the Governor’s residence in front of hundreds of people while I was actively miscarrying and had been told by the doctor that morning that it was not a viable pregnancy after my progesterone dropped. I too, had told most people because it didn’t feel right to hide it or to have to be alone in that grief and I’m so glad we had that support. We are with you and wishing you strength in the journey ahead.
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how hard that was. ❤
It’s so strange you say that because I was watching Teal Swan this morning and she was talking about the exact same situation happening to women and being told to keep a stiff upper lip and do the things they agreed to.
Awe. Love you guys. I have had miscarriages as well. Broke my heart for you guys! I am praying that you guys will soon have a beautiful tiny human. Maybe I'll pray you have twins. You will be wonderful parents! Sending you both love and positive energy.
Giving birth to twins is not a piece of cake.Twins are also a lot of work, especially in the first 4 years. 😦
I was diagnosed with PCOS. We were trying for 1,5year to stay pregnant. I found a good doctor that told me that I was misdiagnosed and I have endometriosis. I stayed pregnant naturally 1 month before starting treatments! My boy is 9years old now. My doctor helped me a lot during my pregnancy. I had vaginal hormones during the first months of pregnancy to “keep” the baby. I thank him from my heart. When I saw the positive test first I told my husband and my mother! Sometimes I believe it is a dream!!
I was too.
How do I know for sure if it's PCOS or not.
1. I never had inconsistencies with my period 2. I had very painful periods 3. My cysts were not filled with fluid and were not dissolve naturally. I had 2 labaroscopic surgeries, in the second surgery we did a biopsy that confirmed I had endometriotic cyst.
After going to 5 doctors the last one told me from the first 5 minutes that this is endometriosis!!! I had the surgery after the birth of my child that confirmed his was right. Find a good doctor!!
I also have pcos. and I now have a beautiful 25 year old daughter. and unfortunately she also has pcos, luckily she can deal with it well. Her husband did allow himself to be helped, because the doctor told me that my daughter does not want children because of PCOS, it is hereditary. and because she has autism and developmental delays. I asked my GP and the doctors at the hospital and it is indeed hereditary. I'm not going to be a grandmother, but I don't mind that, as long as my daughter is happy, so am I.
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and after many treatment methods I was cleared, but I have to return to the gynecology department every 5 to 6 years for a check-up.
@@silentscreams2842 discuss this with your GP and ask for a full examination in hospital. I have known about it for about 10 years now because I had cervical cancer, this also seems to be part of it. PCOS involves hair on the face, legs and abdomen, etc., diabetics, inability to lose weight or very difficult to lose weight, no or almost no period and if you do, a lot of pain and bleeding, no eggs on your ovaries but fluid blisters. and there are even more indications of PCOS. I can recommend that you visit your doctors quickly. much success and strength
Please note that every body is different and every woman has different symptoms. i.e. your PCOS is different from mine or any other woman's.
I am sitting here sobbing, one of my best friends has been trying IVF and just had a positive pregnancy test and found out yesterday she's miscarrying again because of her levels and I live across the country and I just want to hug you both so much. I don't know if anyone has told you how important these stories are, to bond women, to make us women stop blaming our bodies, to talk about the unspoken stupidity of having these "unwritten rules" or methods. I have followed you guys since your silly olive garden outing and I hope you know I am praying and rooting for you. I am SO SORRY you had this experience, especially with medical you have the right to have a painless experience- and as someone who's worked in healthcare having a separate space/area makes so much sense. There's so many easy ways to accommodate this even in small offices.
You two have everyone rooting for you! Absolute strangers are pouring love and hopeful wishes and good karma your way! I imagine your future child watching these videos one day and feeling incredibly loved and wanted and so special ❤️
Praying for the both of you! i have had 2 miscarriages both at 5 months. After the first a very wise older lady told me not to put a question, where God put a period. This helped me tremendously in not playing the blame game. I have two wonderful daughters, today and I wish you all the best!
I love that you’re using your channel to get the word out about miscarriages and infertility. I have four children but it was a very difficult road to have them. I lost six pregnancies and had four children over a 10 year period of time. My body finally said you’re done having babies and I had a hysterectomy a couple of years ago. My doctor said that having miscarriages was a type of infertility that is not talked about enough. Thank you for sharing your story.
My Sicilian Grandma was always upset if we announce before 3 months. Thank you for sharing! God Bless you for your vulnerability in sharing your lives
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will light a candle for you two in church. 🕯️🕯️🕯️
I agree about letting people know, too! It isn't just your loss, it is a loss to your family. People tend to go on quickly, but at least initially you aren't going through it alone. No one should grieve alone. Also, it was amazing how many women with the same experience came out of the woodwork to tell me they'd been through it. Community and not feeling alone is vital.
Love you guys! I'm SO touched by your willingness to share your intimate & personal experiences in your IVF journey. I hope & pray we'll all be celebrating your "little lion 🦁" in the coming months! ❤
100% agree! 😭❤ beautiful words from Alessio - there’s life there, a part of him and a part of you, Jessi! Praying for you both as well, sending love from northern AZ
Thank you guys for sharing your beautiful story of commitment to each other and your journey in creating a family together-in both the moments of joy and pain-your love for each other shines thru it all and your videos never fail to touch my heart. May God continue to Bless You in Your Lives Together 🙏🏻
I agree with telling those you want to celebrate with early, also those are the same I needed when I experienced my miscarriage. Thank you for sharing your journey, I’m praying for you during touring your journey.
My heart goes out to you. Having experienced 10 miscarriages myself, I know the heartache you go through. Keeping both of you in my prayers.
My heart is with you guys. I have many friends who miscarried several times before having their babies and it’s heartbreaking. I’m thankful that you guys are being so open and vulnerable during this process. I think you’ll be helping a lot of women and couples who are going through this or have been through this. My best wishes to you both. Grateful to keep following along this journey with you both. Love!
You two have thousands of people praying for you! You are not alone in this journey, may God Bless you with a precious child! ✝️🙏❤️
Praying for you! It’s a blessing you are being so open with your journey; happiness and pain. I’m so sorry you have gone through this. I’m excited for you and your new journey. 🙏🏻
You have such a healthy attitude. Thank you for sharing. Well done for doing the emotional and spiritual work to be in that place. May God bless you in this season.
Aww I am so sorry you guys had to experience the loss of a pregnancy. I can’t imagine what you both went through!
Hopefully, this IVF journey will be successful and you don’t have to endure another loss.❤🤞🏽
Aw, praying for you both! I can see the pain and emotion on your face, Jessi. I had a miscarriage almost 16 years ago. I think about that little one still, but not as often as I used to. The pain does fade. And I know I will meet that baby one day and he/she will be with Jesus until then. Same goes for yours. ❤
So loving, kind, and brave of you two to tell about your miscarriage and its effect on you both. You are generous souls and may God Bless you!
Thank you so much for sharing your physical and mental woes… we are here to pray and listen
I will being praying for you and your journey. One of my 4 pregnancies was a miscarriage, so I empathize with what you went through. It is one of the worst things I’ve gone through and the grief is indescribable. But you are correct that you are not alone and we should be able to process our grief and sadness with other humans who have suffered the same. I am wishing you a textbook safe and healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery and praying that you get to experience the joy as you create the new addition to your family. Much love to you both.
Hugging y’all with my heart . Yall are so sweet .
Praying and hoping yall have a blessed year .
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The waiting room comment is real, and painful! 😢 Had two miscarriages myself before we had my beautiful daughter. We had given up completely no Doctors, planned a trip to Greece and here she came. My progesterone levels were low, so they had me taking some to improve my levels for a short time. Hope you both the best of luck in the future.
You guys are so open, so sincere and honest. You are truly providing such a blessing by sharing your story. God's got you, I believe that
I know exactly how Jessie was feeling when you were waiting in that doctor's office during your miscarriage. There were so many times during our infertility journey that I sat amongst happy pregnant couples and it was tough on my heart. I didn't begrudge their happiness, but the struggle with all the issues we had was so tough mentally and emotionally. No one talks about it or prepares you for what you will endure. You both are amazing for sharing your stories and your journey. 💜
Ohhh, Jessi & Alessio...
I felt this post to my core! It took me back to all the emotions I felt when I went through my miscarriage. It was one of the toughest times in my life.
I'm praying that this time around, after freshly having your surgery, I pray that you will have a blissful experience with a beautiful little one to share your abundant love with. That precious baby will be sooooo loved!!
Thank you for sharing your journey. 🥰
Jessi, your comments about telling family before 3 months were really insightful. I'm sorry you learned it the hardest way, but you will be blessed for sharing your painful experience to help others.
You are so brave and honest to share of this journey here. You don’t have to do this but by doing it you are helping so many people. Wishing you and everyone watching that is sharing the same journey love, hugs and prayers (please substitute whatever you need to if prayers are not part of your life). They’re part of mine and they’re all I could think to offer you from far away. ❤️🙏🇨🇦🤗
I will hold you both in my ❤. Thank you for sharing your pregnancy journey. The ups and downs and the pains, both physical and mental. And the fact that approx. 1 in 4 pregnancies miscarry. I wish id known this originally over 30 years ago. I had 2 miscarriages and the 1st one i was shown little or no compassion by the Dr. She just acted like it was the 1 in 4 so no big deal. But i hurt in my heart and mind. Thank you again! Much love to you and all the women here who have gone through these sad difficulties.
You two have such a beautiful marriage and will get through the journey of life, it’s joys and pains. Personally believe that stress can play a role in conception as have heard so many people became pregnant after not trying due to adoption or changing their focus. That’s the only comfort I can offer you other than so many of us care about you and support you!
Thank you for giving hope and comfort to others by sharing something so personal!!
Just continue to nurture the love you two have for each other! That is such a huge blessing!
“ You’ll never walk alone “
Just wanted to say a massive thank you for talking so honestly about your experience. My husband and I are going through our own IVF journey and about to start our second cycle your videos have given me so much support. I cannot agree more to celebrate every positive moment and not let them pass by with fear of the unknown. Wishing you all the best on your IVF journey x
With my 2nd pregnancy I thought I was going to miscarry, cramping and spotting. I went to the Dr right away. He suggested I have a DNC but I wanted a 2nd opinion for whatever reason. I saw another Dr that same day. She examined me, she told me to go home stay in bed, no lifting no housework NOTHING. The symptoms subsided 7mos later I delivered a healthy baby boy. I was lucky and blessed. You will also be blessed with a child. 🙏🙏
I appreciate the fact that you two share so much and I know it will help others; I think it also helps you to be honest, especially with your family. Their support and love is the best. I’m hoping for the best in a few months.
Thank you so much for being willing to share your miscarriage journey with others. I’ve had 3 miscarriages myself, 7, 10 & 27 weeks along. Each one is so painful in different ways. Having the support of family and true friends is so vital. Much love to you guys from a perfect stranger 😊💕
More of us need to share our stories to make miscarriage less mentally and emotionally stigmatizing. I never knew how many mommas around me have experienced miscarriages as well.
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. I have had two miscarriages (only been pregnant twice) and it is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. Wanting and praying for something for so long...and then going through something so terrible. I wish more people spoke about about it. It is such an isolating and painful experience.
Praying for you! Thank you for being such a positive light.
I totally agree on sharing a pregnancy earlier rather than later. It builds your support group that way. Also, what a raw and heartfelt video. Thank you for sharing.
I have just recently started watching your videos and I have enjoyed them so much! I am so sorry to hear about your loss. If I was given the option to either never exist, or to not be able to live life here on this earth but to enjoy eternity and everlasting Love, to only know heaven I would choose heaven. I know how hard it is….. I will be praying for the two of you as I would for my own brother and sister! Much love!!!
I’m so proud of you as a couple facing all of this as a team. Your hope becomes the hope for so many other couples trying. Your grace and courage becomes inspiration for others.
I will continue to send my thoughts and prayers for your health and mental fortitude.
Jessie, your advice to share from the beginning is wonderful advice. ❤️ We pray for you.
Wow.How impactful hearing your story.You articulated it so well and so insightful.I so wish you the best moving forward ❤
Big prayers, thoughts and love are with you, Jessie and Alessio. ❤😊
You two are such an inspiration. I hope many couples are listening to your story and finding hope 🙏🏼🥰
Thank you for talking about it. You are helping normalize this experience, amd take the stigma away. If everyone was so brave and open, then we could support one another and it wouldn't be so isolating in a time where someone needs love and support the most.
I'm so sorry you went through all of that, Jessi, especially on the day your family was gathering for your grandmother.
I've had a miscarriage too. I gotta tell you, from my experience, should it happen to you again, get the D&C. Physically, it is so much easier and makes the process not last as long.
While it does stink to lose the pregnancy, you now know that your uterus can handle implantation. Hopefully, that can give you both a little peace of mind when it is time for the embryo transfer.
My prayers and fingers are crossed for y'all. Thank you both for sharing this challenging journey. I think it really does help many couples who are struggling with similar situations and don't have a good support system or can't share their battles with those around them.
Thank you for sharing your story. I also suffered a miscarriage and you expressed those emotions precisely.
Been there, such a heartbreaking experience! Luv on ya’ll and good luck!❤️
Praying for you both. You two are so loving and kind. Thank you for sharing with us all.
I agree- because I tried to get pregnant for most of last year, finally did after 2 months of letrozole. I couldn't wait to tell a few close people because of course it's so exciting! I knew I would have support if anything bad were to happen.
It's so nice to share your experience with others. I work in medical field and see these situations every day and always have been aware of what can happen with pregnancy. Love the honest, mature approach- Keep going, Keep trying.
I just can't put into words how amazing and inspiring and uplifting you two are .
You are so brave to share this with us! It’s so hard! When we were starting out, I had two miscarriages before our daughter was conceived! I’m still praying for you two!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You two are so smart. I totally agree with you on sharing baby news , if you are comfortable, when u wish. Prayers and support for the parents is so important. Praying you get that beautiful baby. I can’t wait to hear your happy news when it does! 🙏
I wish you both all the best and send prayers for you throughout this process. I couldn’t have children, but I ended up with an amazing stepson and fostered two wonderful boys that filled my heart with joy.
❤️ I am so sorry you went through this, Jessi. I know how you have felt. 🥺
You both are so nice, guys, I'm hoping for the best and praying. A hug from Treviso. 🥰
Been there, very awful thing to experience, I lost my son when I was 4.5 months along, and lost another early on. Wouldn’t wish this heartache on ANYONE!!! Hope you’re doing okay
Dear Jessi and Alessio, you are terrific examples of hope and courage. Both of you are giving us life lessons through your actions and relationship♥️ Wishing you every possible positive outcome 🥹♥️
I’ve had two miscarriages and I totally agree that sharing the pregnancy and celebrating that life from the beginning is so important! We are praying for you during this time and asking for a successful pregnancy ❤
I am so sorry for your loss… the love that you have for each other is so beautiful and I am glad you have each other for support during hard times. I know some that have had to face this alone… and although this is not anyone’s fault (I’m many cases) the guilt, pain and shame can be immense. Tragedies happen, sadly, this was one of them… we need to celebrate life, however brief it is… I will be praying for you both and hopefully soon there will be another life in your hands…
This post is monumental. This is so important. So many people need to know this. Because SO MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH THIS....and they feel so alone and isolated and afraid when it happens to them.
And it is not discussed enough, so many of the people who go throught it think it is only them :-(
Praying for you. We went through infertility time. My twins now turning 17. Keep faith.
I can't imagine what you have been through and I can only send love and kind thoughts, I'm lost for words when people are left in these situations. Love to you both. xo
You two are really brave and level-headed about this process. Wishing you the best from Oregon!💖
Oh, you guys. Thank you for sharing. I had a missed miscarriage in July and chose to complete it naturally at home too. I can't begin to describe the heartbreak. My little baby should have been due next week. And earlier this week I found out I'm expecting baby #2 - it's an anxious time but I agree with you about celebrating this new little life for however long they're here. Praying so hard for a smoother journey for you both from here on. 🙏💕
I’m sorry, it can crush your soul, been there. Seeing your husband support I know he will see you through it, just like you will him. You will never forgot this little one. Some doctor do separate, even my doctor back mid 70’s on different floors.
Praying for your new family of three with blessings and perfect health ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great point about having the support of your loved ones. So sorry for your loss. Sending you a big hug. ❤
God bless you…. Thank you for allowing some to revisit and give permission to grieving loss. Such a difficult thing emotionally but we need to grieve. You are generous people
There's a huge amount of bravery here from both of you, to share all of this so openly. Thank you. Good luck to you both xx
I recently found you and I just love you both. Your love is obvious, you two respect and truly care about each other and it really comes through.
I'm so sorry about your loss, my son's wife had a few miscarriages and they were heart breaking. Today their son, my grandson is 13, but his father (my son) is no longer alive and I thank God for his son.
You will get the baby you want, I know you will. You both have so many people who care and are praying for you ss I will be doing. Buona Fortuna ❤️
I have been praying for you for months and will continue to pray for you.
Thank you so much in sharing about your miscarriage. I did it naturally as well. It’s been 47 years ago and I too can share with you how intense the pain was. It is very hard physically and emotionally. I’m so sorry in this happening. Prayers for you both and sharing my faith as you journey thru this time. ♥️🙏
You guys are such an amazing couple. Love your videos and your genuine love for each other. I had a doctor mention diet is extremely important during pregnancy for people who’ve had miscarriages. That having the right vitamins, macros, fruits, vegetables, protein and eating enough food. I’m sure you’re all meticulous about it but just wanted to cover bases for y’all. Wish you both all the very best and really hope this happens for you someday! Having a lil’ Alessio or Lil Jesse running around would warm all our hearts. ❤️
You two shine so much light and love into this world. Chosing to celebrate life - no matter how short - is such an offering of love and grace. Praying for y'all, always. Shalom 🤍🙏🕊
I’m so sorry you guys had to go through this. It happened to me and it was one of the most horrible things I’ve ever felt. My prayers are with you guys. ❤
You’re both so brave for sharing your story. Thank you.
Amazing Jesse!! Celebrate your journey!!! 🤍 I have been on your journey! I tell people if you could tell yourself 5, 10, 15 years ago where you are today. You wouldn't have worried. . Bc you knew everything turned out okay. I know the tests, the loss, the journey. . But i also know that HE is not finished with you!! You will triumph! For HE has plans to prosper you. . Not to harm you. And you sharing of your journey is going to touch sooo many peoples lives. One day when you get home you will no only be reunited with those babies but you will get to see the ripple effect of allllll the lives you two are touching, effecting, educating. And you would do it all again. .
I pray for the peace that passes allll understanding. . And i pray that you two have the most amazing experience. 🫂🙌🤍🙏
Just to add some context. . We got pregnant not trying too.. we were dancing and dreaming about this life change. . And we lost him/ her. So we went through months of tests and trying and failing. So I understand not even wanting to look at the test. I took one and didn't even look. . And my husband ran outside (bc I was looking at a full blue moon) and yelled is positive it's positive! I couldn't believe it! We went through all 9 months. . And 2 weeks before I had him I found breast cancer in my right breast that had spread to my lymphnodes. (Triple negative the most deadly type) Had a healthy boy and have been going through chemo, radiation, double mastectomy, and am having my second surgery Tuesday. As far as they can tell I do not have any cancer left! Sooo I say all that to say (close to the end of the journey) that I wish I wouldn't have worried as much as I did. I tortured myself with fear. . And here I am. Here is my little boy. I just wanted to tell you I understand. And when the fear comes. . Comfort each other. . That you are not alone. . And that you are there for each other. I pray for your journey! 🫂🙌🤍🙏 I understand the fear, pain, and frustration. But those words do not define you Jessie. They are feelings. . That you have come. . And you tell them NOT TODAY! NOT ME! Draw close to me Lord! I need you. Knock and the door will be open, seek and you shall find when you search for Him with your whole heart. I'm saying these things from love sweet sister in Christ. I believe you will be blessed! 🙏🤍
Thank you for talking about miscarriage! They happen and are heart breaking… and can be a way for us to connect during a time of grief.
When I miscarried at 16 weeks I told everyone about it…. It was how I processed. And you know what I found? More often than NOT the people I spoke with had had been thru a miscarriage too.
I pray that you both have faith and patience for God to pave your path to parenthood, however and when ever that is 🙏 His plan is good ❤
My husband and i conceived our first try. I got a positive test a week before my birthday. 2 weeks after my birthday i had a miscarriage. I would not wish the feeling on anyone.
I hope you guys are doing good and wish you all the best and baby dust on your ivf journey ❤
It is great to see the love and support that you have for each other. Can see that Alessio was holding back tears towards the end. The 2 of you are such a great couple so wishing you much success in your IVF journey.
You two, are people who would raise an amazing human. Fight! Fight against the hurdles! I'm praying for u guys❤
I LOVE YOU GUYS! thank you for sharing something so raw and personal and your beautiful experiences. I'm praying for you guys to have a happy healthy pregnancy
Thank you guys for sharing your story on this. I am so sorry for your loss, I completely understand how it feels to go through something such as this. I have had many miscarriages after my very first pregnancy was ectopic. It was the scariest, most painful thing I had ever experienced in my life because my right tube had ruptured and almost lost my life. I've had many miscarriages after that and just went through another one a few nights ago. I didn't even realize I was pregnant but I had my suspicions. It is so devastating and I keep blaming myself and wondering what went wrong but I know I can't keep doing that. My husband and I have been trying since 2018 after my ectopic and sometimes I just want to give up. It's just so so hard mentally and emotionally, it takes a toll because I feel like I just suffer in silence most of the time. We turn 37 this year and feel like we are getting too old to be able to have any so it's just devastating. He has a son but I don't have any children of my own, it is just very hard. I do wish you both a safe and successful journey in this, I'm sending love to you both all the way from Texas! Keep being you!
I have been through this many times and my heart mourns for you both. I am so sorry. God Bless you both and peace be with you.
Oh gosh😢. I am so sorry y'all! I too chose to announce my pregnancies when we found out too- I think we need to celebrate this life no matter what happens- the power of prayer is real and the more prayers for both Baby and Mama the better. I am praying for your sweet family! Sending love, prayers and good vibes!! #teambaby
I found your channel from one of your post-miscarriage videos. I wept for all three of you. I’m not a particularly prayerful person, but you have ALL of my good wishes, prayers, and hopes. ❤❤