Father Knows: Updates! || Father Knows Something Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Welcome back to Father Knows Something! Real People. Real Stories. Real Dad advice with a dash of ADHD, and maybe a couple of millennials chiming in from time to time to add their takes.
This weeks episode has dad, sidekick daughter, and adopted son reading updates! We always tell you guys to keep us posted, so this week we're delivering some positive updates your way. What message are you taking away from these updates? Can't wait to hear your thoughts.
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Story 1: OP you are amazing to stand up to your abuser and making him face the consequences of his actions. Please keep speaking with a counsellor as it will help you deal with everything you've been through and hidden. Share with your dad when you're stronger if you want to share.
Time stamps 🎉
1st: 2:30
2nd: 9:20
3rd: 16:30
4th: 21:30
5th: 27:40
6th: 36:36
7th: 42:50
8th: 45:00
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Im on back to back meetings until noon, but just want to say hi before listening 😊 hope everyone is doing well
I'm glad the first OP left, and I'm glad this podcast had a good impact in her life.
The fact I can remember each original story makes it feel like a close community 🥰
I felt that first one, especially the part where you've covered up for years for your partner, because you know that any sane person would tell you to break up if they found out everything going on. Its been 6 months, and I still catch myself mentioning things to our mutuals or my parents, they look shocked, and I go "oh, I never mentioned that part?" Or things that I realize now that I'm out of it, how fucked up it was. Good on you, girl.
Same girl 😭😭 it’s been 6 years and I’m like that was fucked up. My husband now is amazing and I never knew I could have a love like this
Same. I've been divorced since 2019 and ppl are still shocked by the things I tell them now bc I hid it in the past.
I’m 3.5 years out of it and just now revealing a lot about who he is and what happened. It’s rough. We have a child together and that makes it so complicated.
Story 1: oh do I relate to this. I left my abusive ex towards the end of last year for good. And the first bit truly is fucking rough. It feels you’re sad because it’s a breakup, and your so damn angry because it was abuse. It’s gonna be a process for you OP. Ride the waves as much as you can, and give yourself plenty of grace to be sad, to miss him, and to hate and be angry with him. But don’t let the hate and anger and sadness control you. You will be thriving. And honestly the hardest part I’m learning is how to accept healthy love. The hardest part is unlearning everything the toxicity and abuse taught you. I’m so flipping proud of you. I know you’re gonna kick ass at life, and I know you’re gonna have the life you deserve. I must say, the guy I have now, is absolutely wonderful and so kind and patient with me. I’m learning so many GOOD things with him and on my own through therapy, I wish nothing but the best for you.
The girl who’s bf is moving for grad school, I think she’s over thinking it. You do not have to move at the same time. Long distance isn’t the end of the world. Your cat will be fine with your sister for a couple months if necessary, my cat has something analogous to OCD (does repeated compulsive behaviors when stressed/ triggered by something that can be harmful) and she still did just fine staying with family for a few months while I figured things out. Moving can be stressful but it’ll be fine, even if you have to go long distance for a bit until you can move there with him. Just take a bit and breathe.
Even if she has to move back home with her parents for a little bit, it's annoying but the cat can live in her bedroom separate from the dogs for the short period of time. Keeps the cat with her and safe from non-cat-friendly dogs. The annoying bit is living in a bedroom with a litter box, but there are ways around that.
Writing this as Jerry said he sees the first few comments sometimes! Thank you for providing us with the perspective of a truly great father in so many situations, we appreciate your energy and outlook!💗
Wow. Morgan gave the absolute best advice on beating depressive episodes or anxiety. I loved what she had to say so much. It really does help to just get up and take a walk, get your brain out of it. You can do it.
This is a real therapy technique from DBT called opposite action. It really works AND is hard.
@Audrey Meach well, I'm sure it is, but it's also science. We create endorphins in our brains by going on a walk. Instantly, we fire up our brains, and it makes us feel better and takes us out of a funk.
Forcing yourself to just do what you need to do or 'fake it till you make it' really does work.
We're in control of our own brains and bodies. We have to do whats best for them and not listen to negative thoughts we may have. It's a choice we all can make, for the most part.
One of the most simple and practical things a therapist ever said to me was, "Movement is the cure for depression."
It's so very true! While not always easy to get yourself going it's a must for healing and self-care.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATT! Hope Amy and him are having a kid free night celebrating! :)
I like the updates- I prefer when you reread the original story !
I loved the train noise Jerry made! hhaaha very unique special personality! Endearing! Reminds me of my dad
To the second update: I get wanting to take care of your mom. Alcoholism can be terrible, but especially when you are in an toxic family: TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST!
I get how the writer must be feeling, and I am not saying they should get out of there immediatly but you should definetly be your first priority.
Awe it’s my birthday too Jerry ☺️💕🥳 Happy Birthday Matt 🥳
35:31 to this story, my boyfriend and i went long distance after a year. We were on different coasts. Originally i was okay being long distance for a year or so (i was the one with commitment issues) but found myself ready to move after 6 months.
Now, we’ve just recently celebrated 3 years of being together. Also, he just told me to start looking for rings to give him ideas 🥰 things will workout! Long distance definitely can be an option, especially if it’s a drivable distance!
yay I’m so glad we updates! You bring light to situations and I’m so happy to see how you guys have helped people
Story 1 gave me goosbumbps. Ive been there, its hard but like OP said you will be thriving!! im so proud of you!
I've become pretty obsessed with this show and THT. I love Jerry because he's so calm and rational. I also love his spiritual ways. I grew up in toxic household and had toxic relationships my whole life because it's what I knew. I'm trying to break that cycle, and I love these shows because you guys help me learn what healthy thinking looks like. Listening to Jerry is like reparenting myself. Thank you.
Such a great podcast! Just wanted to comment that dad Jerry looks like spider mad from afar
I've been waiting for this one. I love updates and seeing good outcomes.
Omg I love the opening! It’s so cute and fits Jerry so well!
YESSS UPDATES!!😬😁
happy birthday matt!!! so excited for this episode!
OMG I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! Yayyyyyyyyy
i love dnd i started around when it became popular and im in love with it
This is the perfect upload time for me, thank you for the midnight release❤from the Netherlands🇳🇱
I wanted to be a dental hygienist and ended up being a nurse because I got accepted into a nursing school before dental hygiene school. It’s crazy because I was sooo set on it.
If I had gotten in, I wouldn’t have met my two best friends or worked in an icu and seen that during Covid. I’ve made some very core memories this way that are a huge part of who I am. Nursing also has so many open doors for me I can’t believe I even thought about anything else and spent so much of my life trying to force a route that wasn’t for me 😅
My advise for people is what will be WILL be! It doesn’t have to be the fairytale in your head!
such a good episode, updates are a great reminder of how powerful community can be :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATT oh my gosh I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE IT WAS A NEW FATHER KNOWS YAAAAASSSSSS🖤🖤🖤🖤
I love the intro haha it’s so cute.
I love the update episodes!
Gosh what a nice surprise for the day!
Happy birthday Mat(Matt)!!😃
This is so cool! Love the updates
Yey! I've been refreshing RUclips for the past one hour to see the update 😂
Cant listen yet, but liked and saved. You guys are the best!
That first story hit me so hard 🥹
Wow..
In here early for the episode! Have a nice week!!
Story 1: know you need to learn who you are and that will help you find the right fit for you
I’ve finally subscribed! I have been listening since episode 1 but have never been an official subscriber. 😅
Welcome!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Whohoo
Subscribed!! So excited for these updates!
Starting homework, happy (late) bday Matt!
I literally kicked my mom out of the room at the hospital because right after birthing my son she started shit talking my step mom to me. And my step mom was in the room🙃
Not to mention i warned her as soon as I found out i was pregnant that my step mom would be apart of all of it and be in the hospital room and she needed to get over it by then or not show up. Because this was about me and my family
Happy birthday Matt! It's also my brother in-laws birthday
Girl, Ride out the lease and then rent month-to-month for 2 months. Most landlords would be open to that if you've been a good tenant.
That gives your sister a few extra few months to find a place and you & kitty can pack up the car and start a new chapter in your life.
LOVE THE INTRO 😍❤
15 minutes late but I'm here good morning from Cali
Fuck yes my day is about to be so good!
Work can wait this is more important
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Helllllyea
Mwah, chef’s kiss
HEYYYY TO ONE OF MY FAV TRIOS :)
Where can I send you a story I just came across on AITA (family related, posted 8h ago) ??? It is not mine but I think it’s worth a segment on this podcast for sure because it’s absolutely outraging and I want your opinion on it 😂😂😂
I did subscribe in my last account but forgot to subscribe on FKS again Sorry
The person contemplating moving with their boyfriend, could move before he moves in may after their lease is done in march. They could establish themselves a bit, and then be waiting for their partner to arrive.
Re Autism: austic brains don’t prune neural pathways as much or in the same ways allistic brains do! Morgan thought you’d be interested- google autism neural pruning and you’ll find some new research
Mine didn't come on till noon
Update 2 - I say this as an addict in recovery, time for you to find a different caregiver for your mother and leave that housing situation. She will use you until her crutch kills her & then you'll be left with nothing but broken pieces. You are 20, you deserve to be young & selfish. Please, at least look into Al-anon so you can find healthy support.
This comment is for Morgan and has nothing to do with the episode… this is a msg from a mom of a 4 month old who’s currently teething, in a sleep regression, reverse cycling (eating more at night than during the day so up all night), and separation anxiety (so very clingy). I know how much your naps mean to you so just know if you do decide to have a kid you will not nap for many many years 😂 I am a big nap gal myself and I am struggling lol
I have a 19month old still get naps in here and there! I like to TRY to lay down same time as babe to get some rest. Not always possible but I definitely do still get some naps!
@@sydneylittle9822 I wish, nap time for babe is dishes, cleaning, and laundry time for Mom lol
@@samanthapadgett2594 girl we gotta make your partner do some chores. Naps are life 😅 you’re scaring me
@@TwoHotTakes haha my husband helps out a ton but unfortunately he’s not home much working two jobs. Honestly it depends on the kid though my best friend and his wife have a baby that has slept through the night since she got home from the hospital, I hate them for it 😂
Just know you’re valid either way but I totally get why people don’t end up having kids lol
Okay il watch 😂
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