Accepting yourself and loving yourself is the most important thing anyone can do. When you learn to do that, you change your perspective on life and the troubles that life presents. You learn to reject negativity and take a more positive outlook. Everyone is capable of changing for the better and surrounding yourself with positive people who can help you when you need it. Your insights are helpful to others. Keep telling yourself every day that you are a good person and worthy of love and respect. When you help others, you also help yourself.
Hey Broski, acceptance is something that some people can't except. It takes practice and you have to change your frame of mind. I am happy that you are already at that stage. I didn't do this until I have much older. Once you accept anything that happens to you good or bad. It already happened, we can't change the past and just learn to live with it. No matter what you do in life, we won't be able to change the outcome. A lot of people lose years and years just because they couldn't accept the outcome of their life. We need to talk about it, I joke about it when the outcome is out of my control and people ask me why I am so calm after what happened. My experience anyway.
Life always brings many hurdles twists and turns we all get the blues ocassionly well spoken dude i think making best of what we have to deal with reach out to others with a positive attitude things always work out in the end
You did a beautiful job to talk openly about this subject man! I think this shall help a lot of people and even me as well. Because even though I know all these kinds of stuff you talked about, I'm still reflecting on myself. And yeah, it's so amazingly cool to see others of the same generation finally talking about this stuff, because it's pretty rare and we need to change that. So many thanks for this and nice to meet you Benjamin ;)
You have a great message here. Also, the music you chose for the background helps back up the mood. Beyond that, I wish it possible to learn what got you into that dark place.
Awwww, I am glad you are doing better. I have always thought that anyone, including myself, is one little circumstance away from being broke and homeless. Yet, I have always managed to find ways to make money through reinvention and hustling up work. My lifelong struggle has been acceptance.... self-acceptance. It is a tough one to conquer. Keep forging ahead and accepting each new challenge. You got it.
Good thinking. You are at an age when such perspective can make substantive and positive changes in your life. You are totally correct with your understanding. It seems that you did not experience very early trauma, which did, for me, indelibly imprint failure to my mindset. Options were torn from my young mind. It took a full lifetime for me to come to terms with my situation; and finally begin to seek change. I wrestle daily with these issues...and win now more often than not. I have just subscribed to your channel to do two things. To give you momentum and support...and to give myself the benefit of connection to a fellow traveler. Strength and good things to us both!
Thank you very much for the kind words, as a child I had lots of trauma, not on a level of say war torn countries but domestically lets say my early years weren’t very great. I would love to touch on the subject at some point because I feel by being open to the world I am open to myself, thank you❤
Hi. Im in my sixties. Sometimes its hard to know what is the right thing to do. There are no guarantees in life. I have often felt insecure in my life. I have navigated through my life on my own. No real support. We are all alone, even if you are in a good relationship you are your own person. Dont take life so seriously.
*took me a long time to accept i had to live in a tunnel behind a construction site. but then i found jesus.* busted open, in the gutter - like one of those 6 ft collection boxes for an event? ate like a KING OF KINGS. this moment is all we have. there is no tomo. a hopeful msg. _JC
Good advice, but I’d like to know what you did to improve your situation. I feel that you are repeating the same thing when you could be providing more specific examples. I think one of the things you are saying is that when times are rough, we only see the four walks around us, and forget that there may be a door which we can open that will lead us out of the place we are in and into a better situation. So being open minded can help us too see things from a wider perspective, and we may find that we have more options than we initially realize
Absolutely, I guess a major part was the realisation that something needed to change. That can motivate anyone to get to work. I explained this deeper on another video of mine called 'Im 21. I was nearly homeless" - hopefully that answers that question deeper for you :)
Muito bom o seu vídeo. Se você diz que sua conversa não é profunda... Eu realmente não sei o que ébprofundo :) Escutando você, lembrei-me de dois assuntos: SOLITUDE e ESTOICISMO. Mas cuidado e atenção se fizer pesquisas, estudos sobre isso; e também cuidado com as opiniões das outras pessoas. Na verdade sabemos nada ou muito pouco sobre o mundo e sobre a vida; e a filosofia, a teologia e a ciência - como nós -, também têm mais perguntas do que respostas. Você está no caminho certo !!!
This is great stuff
Appreciate it man🎉
@@BenjaminJWhittaker no worries i appriciate the fact that you post vids there very good for everyone to se thankyou 🇦🇺🇦🇺👍
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Accepting yourself and loving yourself is the most important thing anyone can do. When you learn to do that, you change your perspective on life and the troubles that life presents. You learn to reject negativity and take a more positive outlook. Everyone is capable of changing for the better and surrounding yourself with positive people who can help you when you need it. Your insights are helpful to others. Keep telling yourself every day that you are a good person and worthy of love and respect. When you help others, you also help yourself.
I appreciate you seeing my vision, I owe it to myself to serve a purpose bigger then me and that is this
self acceptance is where we need to be on a solid foundation 💯 ❤
100%
Please accept that you are beautiful.
Hey Broski, acceptance is something that some people can't except. It takes practice and you have to change your frame of mind. I am happy that you are already at that stage. I didn't do this until I have much older. Once you accept anything that happens to you good or bad. It already happened, we can't change the past and just learn to live with it. No matter what you do in life, we won't be able to change the outcome. A lot of people lose years and years just because they couldn't accept the outcome of their life. We need to talk about it, I joke about it when the outcome is out of my control and people ask me why I am so calm after what happened. My experience anyway.
Life always brings many hurdles twists and turns we all get the blues ocassionly well spoken dude i think making best of what we have to deal with reach out to others with a positive attitude things always work out in the end
New subscriber today. I wish I had my act together as much as you appear to when I was your age. You are a winner.
You are loved, stay around a while if you want :)
Great job on thinking these things through and the wise advice. Hugs
Thank you, hope I helped touch something inside ❤
Loved
Thanks man
You did a beautiful job to talk openly about this subject man! I think this shall help a lot of people and even me as well. Because even though I know all these kinds of stuff you talked about, I'm still reflecting on myself. And yeah, it's so amazingly cool to see others of the same generation finally talking about this stuff, because it's pretty rare and we need to change that. So many thanks for this and nice to meet you Benjamin ;)
Really appreciate it man, as I said the least I can do is talk about the things we don’t often mention. Much love ❤
You have a great message here. Also, the music you chose for the background helps back up the mood. Beyond that, I wish it possible to learn what got you into that dark place.
Thanks heaps for the feedback, I’ll definitely tell that story in the next few days
Awwww, I am glad you are doing better. I have always thought that anyone, including myself, is one little circumstance away from being broke and homeless. Yet, I have always managed to find ways to make money through reinvention and hustling up work. My lifelong struggle has been acceptance.... self-acceptance. It is a tough one to conquer. Keep forging ahead and accepting each new challenge. You got it.
You'e a legend, keep hustling 🔥
Good thinking. You are at an age when such perspective can make substantive and positive changes in your life. You are
totally correct with your understanding. It seems that you did not experience very early trauma, which did, for me, indelibly imprint failure to my mindset. Options were torn from my young mind. It took a full lifetime for me to come to terms with
my situation; and finally begin to seek change. I wrestle daily with these issues...and win now more often than not. I have just
subscribed to your channel to do two things. To give you momentum and support...and to give myself the benefit of connection to a fellow traveler. Strength and good things to us both!
Thank you very much for the kind words, as a child I had lots of trauma, not on a level of say war torn countries but domestically lets say my early years weren’t very great. I would love to touch on the subject at some point because I feel by being open to the world I am open to myself, thank you❤
Thanks for sharing your story! It takes balls for a man to take a risk and start fresh with something new.
Your welcome, Im happy I talked about it more openly 🔥
Great message.
Thank you friend 😊
Hi. Im in my sixties. Sometimes its hard to know what is the right thing to do. There are no guarantees in life. I have often felt insecure in my life. I have navigated through my life on my own. No real support. We are all alone, even if you are in a good relationship you are your own person. Dont take life so seriously.
Thanks for jumping on. Always love new perspectives. 🔥🔥
i think you have the power and can contol YOUR life and make it positive
100%🎉🎉
*took me a long time to accept i had to live in a tunnel behind a construction site. but then i found jesus.* busted open, in the gutter - like one of those 6 ft collection boxes for an event? ate like a KING OF KINGS.
this moment is all we have. there is no tomo. a hopeful msg. _JC
Haha you are always so randomly detailed 😂
Good advice, but I’d like to know what you did to improve your situation. I feel that you are repeating the same thing when you could be providing more specific examples. I think one of the things you are saying is that when times are rough, we only see the four walks around us, and forget that there may be a door which we can open that will lead us out of the place we are in and into a better situation. So being open minded can help us too see things from a wider perspective, and we may find that we have more options than we initially realize
Absolutely, I guess a major part was the realisation that something needed to change. That can motivate anyone to get to work. I explained this deeper on another video of mine called 'Im 21. I was nearly homeless" - hopefully that answers that question deeper for you :)
like the stoics teach us to focus on what we can control, not what we can't.
Muito bom o seu vídeo.
Se você diz que sua conversa não é profunda... Eu realmente não sei o que ébprofundo :)
Escutando você, lembrei-me de dois assuntos: SOLITUDE e ESTOICISMO.
Mas cuidado e atenção se fizer pesquisas, estudos sobre isso; e também cuidado com as opiniões das outras pessoas.
Na verdade sabemos nada ou muito pouco sobre o mundo e sobre a vida; e a filosofia, a teologia e a ciência - como nós -, também têm mais perguntas do que respostas.
Você está no caminho certo !!!
Thank you very much, i love that you were able to make a definition of my video 🎉🎉 I definitely want to keep doing these!