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You are fine just the way you are and when you can, progress even an inch. Wisdom from you! Indeed, just being in the process will make a difference.

Truly said. We all go through different phases in our lifetime. We all try to fit in, when we don’t. If we don’t fit in, may be we’re not meant to be part of the group, and it’s okay. I’ve always felt like this. Always thought I was a misfit. And I’ve accepted it, cause we can’t try to force ourselves to be a part of a group, in this short life.

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Had to upload this one again AHAHA

I mean any content creation is adding to useless scrolling even if you have a good message,no shade just saying. I was born wayyy before the internet or even generally used cellphones. You know what I did in the 1990s as a teenager and young adult when I woke up...normally I got up turned on the tv,maybe played video games, maybe ate breakfast. Occasionally drawing a dream idea so heres the thing humans waste their time its kinda always been a thing since the industrial complex took over "living off the land" balance,you can scroll but do other things too and you should be ok in the long run

Thankyou for posting this

"You can never reduce how much time you've wasted" daamn 😢

I felt so calm throughout the video, you seem so kind and thanks for that! I'm going through a period in my life where I'm questioning everything and I'm having a hard time seeing any sense. This video was a nice escape. Take care of yourself.✨ greetings from Czech.

Thanks for the insight man! Keep it up and greetings from The Netherlands

Great video bro, dont stop putting yourself out there man, this was fantastic

thank you for that

well put!

300-1000 friends? I have only had 3-10... (22y)

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Great video and insights. If your goal was to better at least one person from this then you've achieved it. Greetings from Norway.

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Hey, Benjamin! Thanks for your video! You’ve earned a new subscriber for sure)

For fourty eight years I been good on my own. Ya it is up to fifty know ya. It's up to our fifth brithday know ya ok four fourty nine years this year ya ok ya ok for fourty nine years OK laters

thank you

nice video bro, greeting from australia

You look like Holger Rune

nice video bro, greeting from austria

Thanks for sharing your story! It takes balls for a man to take a risk and start fresh with something new.

what is the song :')

Mad respect to you for having the balls to share something so incredibly personal

Bro we are the same and I’m so happy when listening to you

😂dude thinks he’s on “I shouldn’t be alive”

Thanks

ben...good? _JC

love you benny ❤️

:) Bom dia pra você.

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Uma semana abençoada pra você meu amigão 👀👍

You could learn brazilian portuguese ???🇧🇷👍

😁 Muito bom ver você feliz. É assim que devemos viver , com muita alegria e poucas tristezas.

Feliz Sábado pra você.

Smart title

you know only the success when you fail

you know only the success when you fail

Nice water sounds!

Banger

Hi Benj. Reckon that it was a bit of perfectionism as I can tell. I know that, somehow similarly, but I shared the mechanism, and am sharing up until now. Racking my brains how to improve and very often analysing what has been. I must admit it is very often of no use whatsoever. Probably we may call it an illness from some extent. To my mind at least. Endless loop, you summarised spot on. Well, that is truly tough. Harsh when you demand from yourself, even ruthless when you start judging your fellow mates, the ones around you, closest. I regret each and every thought, but they come unintentionally. Each individual needs a rest. We are not ones to question that. But I compared, am prone to doing so. That brings your spirits low. Especially when deep in the heart you feel it’s unhealthy to do it. Introverts keep things so to themselves, so to anyone reading- better talk that over with the other person. Tell first how you feel about that. It brings the issue to a more human surface, more sympathetic. From then onwards, you will feel relief. You may solve the problem, though. If not mutually, then internally. The must-have goal is to crack that open in you, so that you do not stay as one-rotten-apple-barrel. Talking ‘bout the stepping stone. I cannot run as far as an eye can see now. My fav place is serene mountains. Love that. That pulse in my forehead blotting every worry that stumbles upon. But yeah, I’ve not been to mountains for almost a year now due to workload. Places like B.J.W. brickwall lounge, or sunset watery scenery is a kind of equivalent to that. Looking forward to finally reaching beloved hills, come what may, lone or accompanied, I need to be there again. Rethink, freaking spend some time doing stuff I adore not peeping at the hand of wrist watch. There are issues I loose control over. That follows exhaustion- that’s my personal observation. When down, and lonely, tired and clutching at straws, the tricky little demon comes beside. And then failure is tying yours’ palms. Well, nothing to be done. No regrets, just don’t hurt others at any time. Time heals all wounds. You’ll get over that one too. I can assure you, I’ve tried thousands of times. I still fail. Having only one (of many) issue on my mind. I’ve been working over that little prick for years. Still not there. I am not stopping. Not in this life. Probably one day I will cast victorious. I stay hopeful for your dealing with your little pricks too. Everybody reading- U’ll get there. Just grab it by horns and fight. Fight with tears on your cheeks. Sweat on your hand. As Publilius Syrus said: “He conquers twice who conquers himself in victory.” Keep safe, Li.

I'm 27 now, when I was exactly 21 I had a breakup which turned my life upside down, probably the lowest point I've ever been in, this was in late 2018. I agree with pretty much everything you've gone through in the video, that breakup was a huge catalyst in my life, 6 years after and I can say that without that I would be nowhere near where I am now, they say you have to know hell in order to get to heaven and heaven is fucking beautiful bro, I hope your journey is as wonderful and priceless as mine was 6 years ago, peace from Portugal.

Definitely subbing thanks for the video dude

I loved that video, I think that a lot of guys tend to think that they are not good enough/not in the right place right now so they shouldnt be in a relationship and thats alright! But if you want to thats not a right reason. Thinking like that you will never be „good enough”. Improving yourself is the best but remember that you already are the best version of you at the moment. There is noone like you, you are special :) And i dont think that she was better than you, you were just thinking badly of yourself. Dont let your thoughts drag yourself down - they are just thoughts after all :D Anyway love your honesty Sorry for bad grammar or anything. English is not my native language :)