If a person cannot accept you for who you are, then it is they who have the problem. As long as you are a good person, then that statement holds true always. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you Ben. There is absolutely nothing wrong with most of us who watch this video too. We are all different. That's what helps make the world to be such a dynamic place to be in.
I'm 27 now, when I was exactly 21 I had a breakup which turned my life upside down, probably the lowest point I've ever been in, this was in late 2018. I agree with pretty much everything you've gone through in the video, that breakup was a huge catalyst in my life, 6 years after and I can say that without that I would be nowhere near where I am now, they say you have to know hell in order to get to heaven and heaven is fucking beautiful bro, I hope your journey is as wonderful and priceless as mine was 6 years ago, peace from Portugal.
I loved that video, I think that a lot of guys tend to think that they are not good enough/not in the right place right now so they shouldnt be in a relationship and thats alright! But if you want to thats not a right reason. Thinking like that you will never be „good enough”. Improving yourself is the best but remember that you already are the best version of you at the moment. There is noone like you, you are special :) And i dont think that she was better than you, you were just thinking badly of yourself. Dont let your thoughts drag yourself down - they are just thoughts after all :D Anyway love your honesty Sorry for bad grammar or anything. English is not my native language :)
Wow thanks so much for this, yeah I agree. I think there are moments in every mans life where he has a major learning point. For me I dont think it was her being better but at the time she was definitely more intellectually gifted. Thank you ❤️
Não tenha pressa pelas coisas futuras , viva um dia de cada vez. A felicidade está nas coisas simples da vida. Tudo tem seu tempo certo pra acontecer. Você é uma pessoa simples e verdadeira. Gosto muito do seu bom humor. Seja sempre assim.
Hey Broski, I never want to be in a relationship again. The last relationship I was in broke me so much that I never trusted anyone anymore. The betrayal wounded me so bad that it took me several years to get over it. I was happy being single and I almost went into another one and the abuse happened again and I just gave up. I sometimes miss it but I put up my walls so high that I can't even take them down anymore.
I know it seems there isnt someone out there but eventually we all do meet someone, I believe that when the time is right, I will meet the person of my dreams, but I will work hard to become the man I need to be to do that! thanks again!
If a person cannot accept you for who you are, then it is they who have the problem. As long as you are a good person, then that statement holds true always. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you Ben. There is absolutely nothing wrong with most of us who watch this video too. We are all different. That's what helps make the world to be such a dynamic place to be in.
Its all part of learning, I am in a position where I felt talking about how I delt with it might help someone 🙃
I'm 27 now, when I was exactly 21 I had a breakup which turned my life upside down, probably the lowest point I've ever been in, this was in late 2018. I agree with pretty much everything you've gone through in the video, that breakup was a huge catalyst in my life, 6 years after and I can say that without that I would be nowhere near where I am now, they say you have to know hell in order to get to heaven and heaven is fucking beautiful bro, I hope your journey is as wonderful and priceless as mine was 6 years ago, peace from Portugal.
Wow Portugal 🔥🌎 thanks brother, everything you said is 100%. We definitely have that in common. Well done getting through it too ❤️
Definitely subbing thanks for the video dude
Thanks for the sub! You are most welcome 🔥🔥
Mad respect to you for having the balls to share something so incredibly personal
Thanks bro, really took my all to convince myself to
let it out ❤️🔥
I loved that video, I think that a lot of guys tend to think that they are not good enough/not in the right place right now so they shouldnt be in a relationship and thats alright! But if you want to thats not a right reason. Thinking like that you will never be „good enough”. Improving yourself is the best but remember that you already are the best version of you at the moment. There is noone like you, you are special :)
And i dont think that she was better than you, you were just thinking badly of yourself. Dont let your thoughts drag yourself down - they are just thoughts after all :D
Anyway love your honesty
Sorry for bad grammar or anything. English is not my native language :)
Wow thanks so much for this, yeah I agree. I think there are moments in every mans life where he has a major learning point. For me I dont think it was her being better but at the time she was definitely more intellectually gifted.
Thank you ❤️
Não tenha pressa pelas coisas futuras , viva um dia de cada vez. A felicidade está nas coisas simples da vida. Tudo tem seu tempo certo pra acontecer.
Você é uma pessoa simples e verdadeira.
Gosto muito do seu bom humor.
Seja sempre assim.
Just being myself ☺️🌎
Hey Broski, I never want to be in a relationship again. The last relationship I was in broke me so much that I never trusted anyone anymore. The betrayal wounded me so bad that it took me several years to get over it. I was happy being single and I almost went into another one and the abuse happened again and I just gave up. I sometimes miss it but I put up my walls so high that I can't even take them down anymore.
I know it seems there isnt someone out there but eventually we all do meet someone, I believe that when the time is right, I will meet the person of my dreams, but I will work hard to become the man I need to be to do that! thanks again!
@@BenjaminJWhittaker always broski, I will keep sharing what I know and from my life lessons