Dealing With Friendship Breakups: Bitterness, Cutting People Off, Finding New Sisters

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 30

  • @mikangobeni2
    @mikangobeni2 Год назад +49

    Courtney looks gorgeous omg!! The hair, makeup and FACE😍😍

    • @tahanalove
      @tahanalove Год назад +1

      i was thinking the sameeee thing !

  • @tendizhou
    @tendizhou Год назад +26

    Second of alll Courtney!!!!!!!! We need a warning first because that hair , that face card you just know you look good !! You ladies look too good today. Now i can watch i needed to get that of my chest

  • @ToniArnay
    @ToniArnay Год назад +26

    Courtney: “God’s not done with us.”
    Renae: Looks at camera “Did you hear that?”
    I’m cracking up😩😂😂😂😂🤣

  • @st4rgirl251
    @st4rgirl251 Год назад +30

    came at a perfect time. I’m 17(f) and finally blocked my best guy “friend” after 4 years… realised that men + women can’t truly be close friends . Gonna try and navigate female friendships using your book as I find them very hard

  • @terimyermuchemi4800
    @terimyermuchemi4800 11 месяцев назад +9

    Absolutely loved this episode.
    In my experience, I think its important for friends who "drop" you because of "seasons or life" to realize that you're not obligated to take them back. Even if the reason is valid. My feelings of abandonment as the "left" friend are valid and I don't have to take you back. If I do, we are building a separate friendship.
    Secondly, mental health or "life going to shit" isn't an excuse for bad behaviour. Like as your friend I can understand jealousy, struggling to be happy for me cause life is hard,... Though when you are in a position to hear my shelfed feelings about some bitter words or actions said by you in your "down" state, you best receive them with the grace I took your sh**.
    Thirdly, I struggle with friendship breakups. I'm a communicator >>> ghosting. Though some friends confrontational nature has me rethinking this. Like maybe it's okay to just ghost her cause I'm not doing the back and forth. Also, the timing. I hate to do breakups when things are bad. Though the wrong time for her maybe the right to for me. Is there really a right time?

  • @dae1444
    @dae1444 Год назад +6

    Shout out to The Script!!😂 Got us through some ridiculous times back in highschool😂

  • @paaf4768
    @paaf4768 Год назад +5

    Please share the itinerary when yall come to Cape Town. I'm based here and would like to meet the sisters

  • @zanellemutoko4372
    @zanellemutoko4372 Год назад +3

    On a very SERIOUS note what Renee said at 27:23 happened word for word to my cousin. She gave a commentary n Facebook about a powerful person who was already exposed and died mysteriously day before yesterday. The narrative is that she had mental issues, depression and other chronic diseases. She was also kidnapped.

  • @khadrfarah4510
    @khadrfarah4510 Год назад +6

    Oh my god ! I am sleepless ,but anyway i have listened to the first nineteen minutes. Uare indeed awesome intellectual women by delivering each episode many insights and gems across ur incredible channel .i really got resonated by ""preconceived notions"" which pretty prevalent in our society to judge on people and issue some unfair judgments accordingly.

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 Год назад +3

    It’s the singing for me , in today’s episode.😂😂😂 excited for you guys to come down to South Africa 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

  • @naumeb5922
    @naumeb5922 Год назад +5

    Friendship break ups and bitterness 💜 defo needed because I’ve just gone through some of these topics you’ve covered recently. You both look gorgeous!

  • @danaitkidane9774
    @danaitkidane9774 4 месяца назад

    Powerful podcast, both nailed it in articulating & encompassing the nuances and beauties of friendships. While also providing insight on what reciprocation, the value of that friendship, capacity and commitment to growth/friendship. "Not operating in good faith." Gems throughout the whole episode!

  • @ZangieDoes
    @ZangieDoes Год назад +8

    BEEN needing this.

  • @sammie_dee
    @sammie_dee 11 месяцев назад

    To the sis in the dilemma, I really resonate! I just echo what the girls said, humanise everyone. For me being Christian has made this a priority for me, but I always try see the beauty in someone as an individual and extend patience to them also. I often bring this up to my boyfriend, there's been times when I'm like wow, you really are a *man* like you have that leg up, but taking in the wholeness of someone will make you more appreciative of people's beauty but also mean you can spot when someone is nonsense too, rather than writing good people off from the start

  • @AnstariaJones
    @AnstariaJones Год назад +1

    Not "The Man Who Can't Be Moved"!!! It's almost like a memory clicked into place and those lyrics came back to me!

  • @vegangardens308
    @vegangardens308 11 месяцев назад

    Friendship are like old music that keeps replaying with no new dance tone.

  • @terezakomugisha
    @terezakomugisha Год назад +2

    Perfect timing!!🙏🏾🤍

  • @AmuKaelo-f4k
    @AmuKaelo-f4k Год назад +2

    Hey Sisters, when you come to SA, will you be hosting a talk?

  • @blackbeaty1000
    @blackbeaty1000 Год назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🏾 I needed this today.

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee Год назад

    Courtney you look so pretty !!!!
    Go ahead drop a RUclips video redoing this look. You ate that up. Thanks in advance 🫶🏾

  • @mbalinzimande-kd8tl
    @mbalinzimande-kd8tl Год назад +1

    Not me here for the first time and you hearing that you coming to my country 🇿🇦 South Africa ❤

  • @aakshi.
    @aakshi. Год назад +1

    Loved this episode guysss❤

  • @dorm59
    @dorm59 Год назад

    Sisters wow! Looking over gorgeous!

  • @indymg4456
    @indymg4456 6 месяцев назад

    I’m blessed I have 3 besties and u just find out who is a Judas in your circle

  • @sorayaauguste
    @sorayaauguste 8 месяцев назад

    The fact tht I’m watching this now admin another Diddy scandal (With the FBI)

  • @chembenkonde31
    @chembenkonde31 Месяц назад

  • @whatnkhastosay
    @whatnkhastosay Год назад

    🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @tendizhou
    @tendizhou Год назад +1

    First of alll drag me !!!!!