Dealing With Friendship Breakups: Bitterness, Cutting People Off, Finding New Sisters
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- Опубликовано: 10 июл 2024
- Friendships with the girlies isn’t always a bed of roses - we go through it with each other too, and that includes friendship breakups. Resentment, drama, restoration and more, the girls talk about the real behind maintaining the friendships that need to stay, and breaking the ones that need to go.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Welcome & House Keeping Annoucements
04:07 Ding Ding Ding Dilemma: I HATE MEN!
23:36 The Diddy & Darius Situation
31:02 Experiencing the end of a friendship
34:49 Adult friendships are hard!
37:22 How do you know when to LET GO or FIGHT?
47:19 Healthy conflict in friendship
57:29 Restoring a broken friendship
01:02:58 Grieving & heartbreak post-breakup
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Courtney: “God’s not done with us.”
Renae: Looks at camera “Did you hear that?”
I’m cracking up😩😂😂😂😂🤣
Courtney looks gorgeous omg!! The hair, makeup and FACE😍😍
i was thinking the sameeee thing !
Second of alll Courtney!!!!!!!! We need a warning first because that hair , that face card you just know you look good !! You ladies look too good today. Now i can watch i needed to get that of my chest
Absolutely loved this episode.
In my experience, I think its important for friends who "drop" you because of "seasons or life" to realize that you're not obligated to take them back. Even if the reason is valid. My feelings of abandonment as the "left" friend are valid and I don't have to take you back. If I do, we are building a separate friendship.
Secondly, mental health or "life going to shit" isn't an excuse for bad behaviour. Like as your friend I can understand jealousy, struggling to be happy for me cause life is hard,... Though when you are in a position to hear my shelfed feelings about some bitter words or actions said by you in your "down" state, you best receive them with the grace I took your sh**.
Thirdly, I struggle with friendship breakups. I'm a communicator >>> ghosting. Though some friends confrontational nature has me rethinking this. Like maybe it's okay to just ghost her cause I'm not doing the back and forth. Also, the timing. I hate to do breakups when things are bad. Though the wrong time for her maybe the right to for me. Is there really a right time?
Shout out to The Script!!😂 Got us through some ridiculous times back in highschool😂
Please share the itinerary when yall come to Cape Town. I'm based here and would like to meet the sisters
came at a perfect time. I’m 17(f) and finally blocked my best guy “friend” after 4 years… realised that men + women can’t truly be close friends . Gonna try and navigate female friendships using your book as I find them very hard
Not "The Man Who Can't Be Moved"!!! It's almost like a memory clicked into place and those lyrics came back to me!
It’s the singing for me , in today’s episode.😂😂😂 excited for you guys to come down to South Africa 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼
Oh my god ! I am sleepless ,but anyway i have listened to the first nineteen minutes. Uare indeed awesome intellectual women by delivering each episode many insights and gems across ur incredible channel .i really got resonated by ""preconceived notions"" which pretty prevalent in our society to judge on people and issue some unfair judgments accordingly.
Friendship break ups and bitterness 💜 defo needed because I’ve just gone through some of these topics you’ve covered recently. You both look gorgeous!
BEEN needing this.
Hey Sisters, when you come to SA, will you be hosting a talk?
On a very SERIOUS note what Renee said at 27:23 happened word for word to my cousin. She gave a commentary n Facebook about a powerful person who was already exposed and died mysteriously day before yesterday. The narrative is that she had mental issues, depression and other chronic diseases. She was also kidnapped.
Friendship are like old music that keeps replaying with no new dance tone.
Perfect timing!!🙏🏾🤍
To the sis in the dilemma, I really resonate! I just echo what the girls said, humanise everyone. For me being Christian has made this a priority for me, but I always try see the beauty in someone as an individual and extend patience to them also. I often bring this up to my boyfriend, there's been times when I'm like wow, you really are a *man* like you have that leg up, but taking in the wholeness of someone will make you more appreciative of people's beauty but also mean you can spot when someone is nonsense too, rather than writing good people off from the start
Loved this episode guysss❤
Thank you 🙏🏾 I needed this today.
Not me here for the first time and you hearing that you coming to my country 🇿🇦 South Africa ❤
Sisters wow! Looking over gorgeous!
Courtney you look so pretty !!!!
Go ahead drop a RUclips video redoing this look. You ate that up. Thanks in advance 🫶🏾
I’m blessed I have 3 besties and u just find out who is a Judas in your circle
The fact tht I’m watching this now admin another Diddy scandal (With the FBI)
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First of alll drag me !!!!!