Why I permanently block people who stealth unfollow me on Instagram: Social Media Hygiene!!!

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

Комментарии • 35

  • @niratomas579
    @niratomas579 3 месяца назад +15

    I left IG because it was such a distraction while in grad school but I honestly don’t miss it! I feel SO MUCH lighter without it! It’s so freeing!

  • @fwefhwe4232
    @fwefhwe4232 3 месяца назад +12

    Love your videos ! I recently got a huge job offer and showed it to my uncle which made him quite jealous. His behaviour towards me changed completely after that.
    I notice that ppl like when broke college students struggle, but dont like when we finally start to make some money (in 30s atlast).
    I had a lot of respect for him, its so sad to see family not being happy for me. Sometimes I feel what's the point ? (ofcourse money is a great thing, I enjoy swiss chocolates and good food and save for rainy days)

  • @marykellysantos8532
    @marykellysantos8532 3 месяца назад +19

    Ngl, I literally did this a couple days ago with a girl I know. And I agree, why would I follow you when you unfollow me for no reason.

  • @EekZombies
    @EekZombies 2 месяца назад +6

    I must be old. I dont keep track who follows or unfollows me.. 😳

  • @alwaysyouramanda
    @alwaysyouramanda 3 месяца назад +9

    Not a lot of people followed my art account and now it’s all I have and I’m blocking everyone 😌 peace of mind is priceless. They had their chance!

  • @emblackbird
    @emblackbird 3 месяца назад +5

    While it’s true that we live in this energy vampire ecosystem, I don’t think we should continue enabling it and act like it’s just an inevitable condition we must adhere to. It’s definitely something the majority of us will have to navigate for the rest of our lives, but we should work to dismantle this way of living. Idk what your views are, I just found your channel and overall like the couple videos I’ve watched, but I just wanted to note this. Past that, def agree about blocking

  • @ChoclateGeek
    @ChoclateGeek 3 месяца назад +3

    from personal experience, there have been moments i’ve met someone at a party or event and seen ppl follow themselves through my phone.
    it feels quite abrasive and forced but I there’s this unspoken obligatory energy that in order to ‘stay connected’ we MUST mutually follow eachother. I can count on many times this has happened only for us to never see eachother again and feel tethered to their profile coz I follow them and I feel rude/shady forcing a mutual unfollow. it feel like dead weight

    • @la_princesse_des_beauxarts
      @la_princesse_des_beauxarts  3 месяца назад +2

      Energetic connections form your entire life. Optimize them and you can set yourself up to win

  • @gounch.1186
    @gounch.1186 3 месяца назад +6

    you are just the best

  • @Jennie-w6n
    @Jennie-w6n 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for the profound lesson! 🙏 We definitely need to remove all the energy vampires from our lives and protect our positive vibes! ✨💖

  • @korochka_ot_hleba
    @korochka_ot_hleba 3 месяца назад +1

    What if the person you no longer interested in, but they still have interest to you, so if you unfollow them from your page, is it will be not considering as rude behaviour?

    • @la_princesse_des_beauxarts
      @la_princesse_des_beauxarts  3 месяца назад +9

      It is rude to yourself to live life avoiding hurting people, which ends up hurting both them and you in the end.

  • @snowyskylar8821
    @snowyskylar8821 3 месяца назад +2

    I did this recently. Just this past week. However, i blocked phone numbers of energy vampires. A long time coming. As most are family members. Many thanks. Bisous ❤

    • @la_princesse_des_beauxarts
      @la_princesse_des_beauxarts  3 месяца назад +2

      Same!!! Omg my fingers got tired but my soul is refreshed

    • @snowyskylar8821
      @snowyskylar8821 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@la_princesse_des_beauxartsYes..I'm a Capricorn ASC..and Pluto is leaving my first house after 16 years!! It's been one hell of a ride to hell and back. Love your channel..❤❤❤

  • @AswinMS-g6k
    @AswinMS-g6k 3 месяца назад

  • @appleheaddefender
    @appleheaddefender 3 месяца назад +1

    I also hate stealth unfollowers

  • @expensivenoodle
    @expensivenoodle 2 месяца назад

    💯 % You are so right! I can’t avoid social media for work but focusing on what we can control is essential. I like this term energy hygiene. Very fitting.

  • @homiekeen23
    @homiekeen23 3 месяца назад +1

    I do that but not to have an extra follower, it's just so that they don't find out 😅 because they probably check your page and will realise you removed them (I have a private account), and I'm trying to avoid drama 🙈 sorry

  • @OneMountainNine
    @OneMountainNine Месяц назад

    Why not cut the cord and go offgrid with social media. No scrolling. No wasting time. Make an authentic URL for commercial purposes. Think of the past as wasted thought. Let your creative output grow organically. Kings blaze new paths as lone wolves.

    • @la_princesse_des_beauxarts
      @la_princesse_des_beauxarts  Месяц назад +1

      Social media is a tool. I can choose to use it for me, or as distraction

    • @OneMountainNine
      @OneMountainNine Месяц назад

      @ see vvundertone talk about using promo. I believe if you’re not learning and instead you’re doomscrolling the time could be better spent. And there is automating tasks of promo on socials with AI now. Try not to get addicted to the up and down of dopamine. Trump is a master at the absurd and then currying favor and pandering. Roy Cohn taught him. Like Malcolm McLaren and The Sex Pistols? Even the worst promo is good promo. Lean into the bad reputation smd double down. You do it with you feminine wiles? I’m not ad susceptible to hips, tits and lips. But it’s only because I’ve had my share of “groupies” when I was in a couple of bands. 🙈Take care 🕊️🔥

  • @dsrtsnw
    @dsrtsnw 2 месяца назад

    who is on insta anymore… or tiktok…

  • @BusyBee-b3e
    @BusyBee-b3e 2 месяца назад

    I just don’t understand people. For example, they start following you and expect you to follow them back, and when you don’t, they unfollow you! Like, I didn’t ask you to follow me in the first place! 😡😤

    • @chillblue1650
      @chillblue1650 2 месяца назад +1

      Maybe because it's common etiquette to follow back someone you consider a friend. When they see that you haven't followed them back, maybe it made it clear to them that you don't value them enough.

    • @BusyBee-b3e
      @BusyBee-b3e 2 месяца назад

      @@chillblue1650 But I don’t know them. Instead of unfollowing me, they could write me a message and introduce themselves if they truly care about my friendship. If not, it means they just want something from me: my follow back. It’s dull and meaningless.