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Deep words, well said. Couldn’t agree more

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I truly love you. 🙏

Wait I’d love to figure out like head stuff like hair loss I’d love to look up a body chart of emotional awareness

So very true! It’s the law of being+ law of assumption!!!

Cartoon Wan Lin in action! 😂🔥 I love this!

I like magenta myself. Ever seen a sky of that color? I wish I’d seen that. Too much gall to be Libra 😛

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Wan Lin! Not too long ago I applied for a job at a local art gallery that turned out to be a vanity gallery. When I met with the owner, I immediately felt the icky feeling in my gut. When I was showing him my art he was barely even looking at it, he seemed pretty self-absorbed. While he didn’t even seem to be interested in my art, he offered the position (that turned out to be unpaid) & he also said things like, “You are my Guinea pig,” “I need you to work here for several years.” While introducing me to the other studio artist he addressed me as “she is not appreciating that I’m giving her access to the gallery for free.” One time I tried to stand up for myself and used the word ‘but’ as a contradictory statement addressing something incorrect that he said. To which he reacted with, “Not but, say ‘and’ instead. By saying but you totally discredited everything I just said. You do it all the time. Stop doing it. I am trying to teach you. I know how to talk to people, I’ve done it for many years.” This reaction made me feel small and I wanted to cry but instead, I THANKED HIM and APOLOGIZED. I then got a terrible headache and every time I would interact with him I would get this bad headache that I never get otherwise. I quit after 2 weeks and I’m thankful for this experience for teaching me to listen to my internal radar better.

Do you think man that never compliment or appreciate me can have affect?. I feel love deprived 🙃 because he just ignores me. I get strong headaches since i met him.

Many race horses don't live a glamorous life like you think they do. Many are sent to slaughter if they don't win including the Kentucky Derby winner named Ferdinand. Many of them who don't win at the track are sent to slaughter in Mexico or Canada to face an extremely painful death by being stabbed in the spine. Bob Baffert a very well-known trainer literally has had almost had 100 horses that he ran to death, including Kentucky Derby winner Medina Spirit. Then there's the numerous injuries on the track including the beloved Barbaro and the gorgeous Ruffian and thousands of others. Both of those beautiful horses were no more than 4 years old when they died because of the injuries they incurred on the track. HBO sports did a documentary called Running for Their Lives on the horrific side of horse racing. If these horses do not win at the track they are sent to be slaughtered and destroyed. You need to read up on the torturous ways they train these horses including running them in 100° weather when it's extremely humid to build up endurance. There's even a book on this called the Ugly Side of Horse Racing.. you're thinking about the champions that are beloved and care for the rest of their lives such as Secretariat. For each Secretariat there's a thousand hopefuls that never make it to the track

My friends say that you are a prostitute

May 29:02 I have the link for chart what emotions means on our body? Thank you ❤

who is on insta anymore… or tiktok…

I got sick all the time and had terrible, awful, painful scabs on my head and neck that came out of nowhere and would never heal when I was in a difficult workplace. My hair was also awful despite washing it all the time. 2 months after I quit, my skin healed completely and my hair is healthy and glossy and beautiful.

Halo 🧸 😎 👶

What? Man RUclips just gets weirder and dumber.😂😂😂😂 Hey I bet she only dates white. Some stereotypes good huh?😂😂😂😂

thx alot, I have been feeling like a best friend of mine isn't giving the same level of attention/fondness to me as to his other friends. Missing and forgetting my birthdays two years in a row, while writing happy to birthday on his IG story for another friend, even tho I made sure to wish him a happy birthday every single year at heart. I was like "ah yes, I see how it is haha". And also, I realized that he calls/hangout with some friends more than we do, and every-time whenever we hangout, it's just me who initiates. It kinda feels one sided, but also one thing is he only calls/talks to me when it's convenient, For example, like he is living with my other best friend rn, and he only greets me/converse with me when I'm on calls with that other best friend, but almost never initiates to call me. Maybe I'm at fault too for not initiating as much anymore, but it seems like he doesn't seek to talk to me as frequently as his other friends. Like yes, we don't share too many interests anymore, but that doesn't stop us from just talking/sharing about our struggles/general opinions on different things etc. I've healed a lot but idk why this best friend of mine (my first ever real best friend) has this grasp on me energetically. It makes me feel depleted sometimes. I've noticed this pattern for a over a year, and it does affect me when it comes to productivity, stopping me from staying peaceful, and occasionally making me feel lonely. Bc I wasn't able to make many friends growing up due to mental health issues/trauma, ppl who have wronged me-and not knowing how to release that negative energy, not knowing how to process my emotions, having mild adhd, and an upbringing of having introverted parents who had no time for me/ only gave me material goods but not meeting my emotional needs, and didn't know how to socialize with me properly. I became closed up at one point, and lack proper social skills, and becoming that weird kid whose "good at drawing". I know I'm innately a very social person who likes to joke around and connect with ppl but my past experiences has blocked this character of mine. But tbf I'm super glad I overcame these obstacles, healed a lot, and am looking to get what I want. It does feel like at times that I have to perform. But don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful to at least have friends, especially the other one who I have a deeper connection with. I'm just still grieving about this other best friend, and it's hard to digest what's going on honestly. I love this best friend but energetically, I cannot allow it to deplete me easily like that anymore.

YES! The toxic relationship I entertained for years caused me to lose so much weight from stress! People around me were genuinely concerned for my wellbeing. Now that it's over I have gained so much weight back, fat yes, but specifically muscle mass! I'm not 100% happy with my body but I am just so glad my appetite came back and I am in much better health overall, I'm back to being strong, my energy increased, and my mental health is in much better condition. I was even breaking out into rashes!!!! It was like clockwork, the further I got from this person, my weight and appetite went back to normal. I'm excited to go to the gym for myself and even though I'm struggling consciously with my appearance, NOTHING would make me go back to being thin under those circumstances. You are so spot on La Princesse! <3 Much love

Can we all be race horses? Who will plow the fields?

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Immigrants, especially chinese, come from a culture of complete subservience and slavery to a ruling class that treats and considers them as nothing more than useful idiots. As a canadian, ive seen so much pressure from parents put towards their children that it is straight up abuse. They put so much attention and energy into stupid degrees and titles only to end up working like a slave for big corporations only to end up being overworked and end up in bad health. Schoool school school, work work work, take music classes, extra curricular activities non stop. Ive always found these parents to be completely wack narcissistic abusers that treat their children like their some sort of cattle or property. Thats not true love.

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💡 Such valuable insight! Understanding how toxic relationships affect us physically is eye-opening. Thank you for helping us recognize these signs and protect our well-being! 🙌❤

I am notorious for going against my gut… ! My instincts have always been on point. My body reacts distinctively to people that don’t have good intentions: my arm hair raises however slightly or sometimes very significantly (dangerous). I also exhale a lot whenever I’m around the wrong person. And a person only has to speak to me as one normally would but my body lets me know who’s good or not. Nowadays I listen. But sometimes I like to engage just to learn more about people. I’m an observer and I find myself, like you, am able to read a person and understand their behaviors and thought process based on observing and listening to a person talk/ behave. Recently I gave my contact to someone I’ve been seeing on my walks lately and I wasn’t exactly interested. He also didn’t really engage and try to actively reach out to me. Then, the exact moment I was playing your video “a quality person can afford not to give a second chance” specifically about saying no and how God is testing you before an upgrade.. This person literally sent me pictures of himself and his family out of nowhere lol as you talked about this upgrade. I thought the timing was hilarious haha. And then you posted this current video about toxic relationships and I’m fooling myself to think that me and this person would have much in common based on the brief convo we had. But we perhaps maybe could be friends but depends if he’s a generous friend lol. My question to you is, do you think this is just a coincidence or are you and I karmic sisters lol. I really resonate with your mind. ❤

Them: “What are you doing in this place where you’re not valued or appreciated?” Me: “Winter Arc.” 🎼 🎵 🤭

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Great 👍 Advice , I stopped ✋️ working 💪 👷‍♂️ 🙄 at a Restaurant (2016-2022) run by a Korea 🇰🇷 Family and had employees from Mexico 🇲🇽 💩 and the level of toxic 🙄 behavior 🙄 and attitude was terrible 🙄 I am glad I left, still looking for a job in order to make more money 💰 🤑 💸 👍 😀 Greetings 🙏 from Raleigh North Carolina 🙏 😀 👍 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🎉❤

When I was in a toxic relationship and also working in a correctional facility. I went to get acupuncture and I always had teeth marks on my tongue which means low liver qi. I was literally being drained of my qi. Im still recovering from this 2 years later.

Most immigrant families do this which is why many of their kids struggle. The few that got parents that assimilated the kids did better.

You’re incredible and a light in this world. Love the videos, super insightful 💕

I almost died from legitimate narcissistic abuse. To anyone reading this here is my extremely wise advice to you: If you get a bad icky feeling in your gut when near someone or about to be near them, listen to it and act on it and trust it. Even before your mind tries to understand exactly why. Listen to it instantly. And walk the hell away. And GTFO. Don’t second guess. And you will save yourself a nightmare. And even your life.

of course, what else they know? 😂😂😂😂😂

Working hard and saved is admirable but being a 996 person is not totally healthy part of living the dream means actually living your life. What I mean by this is that you can bust your butt to live in a beautiful house but if you are never home what good is it? Honesty a good work ethic and good values should be respected but I do agree about how legal immigrants should not be exploited

The parents fears are to a certain extent justifiable. After all no one wants to see their children starve or feel the cold or get sick without being able to take their children to the doctor.

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Love this video! I am a child of immigrants too and they think EXACTLY as you described! The so-called "you have to work hard to earn a good living" is FEAR-BASED and low-vibrational. I sing, record rare cover songs and original songs, self-published a book of poetry and write screenplays, I take on part-time/seasonal jobs till I get to my goal, and I have put my works out there in my regional community for show!

I am currently watching your videos and I enjoy to listen to them while I am drawing. There was one point you touched upon that I did not agree with. The idea of you being able to tell how someone feels and feels about themselves by the way they dress. I find it extremely difficult- if not problematic, for someone to believe that they can know someone, especially if they don't even know a person's name. "If you don't dress beautifully, you have no respect for yourself and you don't see any value in yourself". Okay. But who made up the idea that you have to dress like that in order to feel like that? I walk around in old old oversized joggers from my brothers because I feel the most comfortable in them. I wear them because I like them and I don't care if someone might think that I don't have my life together or look ugly. This in my eyes is true love and confidence in yourself. To be able to wear whatever the fuck you feel the best in without caring an ounce of shit of how someone might perceive you to be. What you are saying is "You need to value yourself by wearing elegant nice stuff so that other people can see that you are 'valuing' yourself by basically doing whatever society is telling you to do in order to come off as confident" which is everything but what you are trying to sell here. ** About me saying it's problematic to claim to be able to tell how someone feels and values themselves. Everyone human is as complex as it can be and if you go deep into your heart you will find out that you don't even know yourself truly. You will figure that out quiet easily by asking yourself, "Would I eat a human if I was starving to death?" "Would I act heroic in a life or death situation". This si why I never dare to claim to know how someone feels.

You’re so wrong. I’m the first generation immigrant and sacrifice everything to build the new life in the states, same like your parents. So that my children can build a better life. One thing people forget in this country is no pain no gain. I’m grateful of opportunities here. I keep teaching my children to work hard and harder. So that we can preserve the opportunities for more generations including new immigrants. If you find your life is not successful that’s because you’re not working hard enough. Entitlements are your real enemy that will rot you inside.

Prolly why Romanians are widely discriminated against - growing up in a communist dictatorship doesn’t do wonders for self respect 😫 Apparently the definition of ‘manage’ is to put a horse through its paces (iirc) 😖

Monetize your sufferings 🎉

Your vlogs are amazing ❤

lol it only happens when you are capable of making more without listening to your parents or else you are just a wanna be and self hating banana girl.

I come from an immigrant family and honestly whatever my mom believes in when it comes to success like graduating and working a desk job does not work. It’s not sustainable long term and is a byproduct of getting by. It might’ve worked back 20-40 years ago when a degree meant something. Now unless you have a master or phd, it doesn’t mean anything and even they are not having any luck. I also thought what you said about having certain gifts and going against god is spot on. I’m blessed that my immigrant parents migrated to America. If there’s one thing I know at a young age, America is the land of opportunities built on dreams and innovation. We fought for our independence, discovered uncharted territories, dive the deepest depths, to going further outer space. Built the tallest buildings, and trained the most successful people. By not committing to your dreams, talents, and gifts because of immigrant parenting ideology is a slap in the face to everyone. Sorry for yapping.

This is so true, I love giving thoughtful gifts but I often get discouraged by 'friends' who don't give back. I gifted my bicycle to a so-called friend because she needed. When my birthday came, she didn't even bring a drink to share, let alone gifted me anything, she just brought some ice (and she came with her boyfriend) because I asked her to bring something :') that's when I knew my place in her heart

I'm Asian, my grandma washed the dishes at night in the dark. She didn't want to turn on the light because it costs money. My cousins opened the car windows always and never used the AC on us. Because they didn't want to "Waste the Freon." It's sickness and ignorance.

2nd vid i watched i love them its like going on a date with crazy without having to get dressed. im subbed❤

I have been binge watching your videos for like a day and a half now ❤ btw you have such a lovely laugh!

i swear i built my algorithm brick by brick

Call me crazy but I think the racism/power imbalance that led to the dysfunctions being discussed cannot be forgotten about. Otherwise we’re just talking symptoms not root cause. But much respect to the OP for addressing this important topic.