The Justice Court EP 117 || THE MARRIAGE IS NOT WORKING

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Комментарии • 954

  • @vivianogochukwu5729
    @vivianogochukwu5729 2 года назад +90

    The upkeep of those children is so much important fullstop.

    • @ngozichy5276
      @ngozichy5276 2 года назад +3

      Exactly...children's upkeep is very important to us biko

    • @nnan6070
      @nnan6070 2 года назад

      @@ngozichy5276 As you use it to take care off yourself and forget about the children. Isn't why is so important?

    • @femilicious
      @femilicious 2 года назад

      @@nnan6070 how is it possible to "forget about the children" when they live with us. So we will be looking at them and not feed, clothe and educate them and use the "upkeep" for ourselves?

    • @nnajiugochukwu3810
      @nnajiugochukwu3810 2 года назад

      @@femilicious its not adding up💀

    • @nkolika271
      @nkolika271 29 дней назад

      GBAM….well said.

  • @johnm.3415
    @johnm.3415 Год назад +7

    Women stop involving another man when you have issues in your husband in your marriage . He’ll finally take advantage of you because he knows your a going through a troubled marriage . A word is enough for the wise women ! Period !

  • @emmanuellaadzaho1032
    @emmanuellaadzaho1032 2 года назад +27

    I need to thank God for my Father. He always said he doesn't have property to leave behind but he all give us the best of education to be able to take care of ourselves. In fact, he raised all his daughters Lil 'men'. Capable of taking care of ourselves.
    He gave us the mindset to never tolerate 'trash' from any man.

    • @oliveromeh2624
      @oliveromeh2624 Год назад +13

      My dear marriage is deep.
      Trained to take care of yourself is not enough.
      Pray to God to give you a responsible person that has fear God
      Thank you.

  • @edunnenna8625
    @edunnenna8625 2 года назад +57

    We Africans celebrate marriage more than our economic /personal growth. It's such a awkward mindset we suffer from.

    • @mopelolaegbewunmi7838
      @mopelolaegbewunmi7838 2 года назад +1

      Good intervention

    • @ngwaarnoldtumasang7004
      @ngwaarnoldtumasang7004 Год назад +4

      It's not an awkward mindset. Biblically, marriage was to be a forum for the perfection of the will of God. This is the only institution where people should offer their body and soul to each other, confide in one another and become prayer partners. Bitterness and divorce is so rampant because many do not first of all know what marriage is all about. Let's go back to the Holy Scriptures.

    • @judestephanie1130
      @judestephanie1130 3 месяца назад

      Pls how can I reach her please

  • @henryopiah3194
    @henryopiah3194 2 года назад +305

    My take on the issues of marriage and divorce, is that the law should strengthen the women and children bargaining power when it comes to the issue divorce. We as men,sometimes put up selfish claims and allegations in order to walk out of marriage.

    • @patzina1565
      @patzina1565 2 года назад +22

      God bless you sir for this naked truth

    • @janejeccyohams4664
      @janejeccyohams4664 2 года назад +12

      God Bless u God Bless u and Bless Ur Generation...

    • @federalmoney8795
      @federalmoney8795 2 года назад +22

      Women could exploit this power too remember? You just can't say that

    • @lovemi930
      @lovemi930 2 года назад +21

      It's very easy to recognize a great father 🙌may u live long enough to enjoy Ur children children sir 🙌 some of them don't even think or remember that is woman that gave to them 😢

    • @alinayili2199
      @alinayili2199 2 года назад +44

      @@federalmoney8795 granted but in the case of marriage, men have a upper hand because women are handicap because of their love for the children.
      My father kept us away from our mother after they separated just to spite her. knowing the anguish she would be going through not seeing her children.
      In his quest, he didn't care how it affected his own children. Our mom bought us toys one time and he gave them out but he never bought us a single toy till he passed 2007. I feel hurt just talking about this incident and it's over 20 years. She earned better but we couldn't receive anything from her nor see her until I went off to boarding school.
      We had a better life, food, and housing when my mom came home after he passed on.
      I know I'm still affected by this, I'm thinking of getting counseling.

  • @_Oluwayemisi
    @_Oluwayemisi 2 года назад +66

    Its a pity that innocent children always suffer for the sins of their irresponsible parents.

  • @ihemehelen1454
    @ihemehelen1454 2 года назад +40

    7:56 the judge been smiling all along till she heard, "you know as a man i over reacted that day i slapped her"😂... She no dey use ear hear domestic violence. I just love her❤️❤️

    • @atasteofchithel
      @atasteofchithel 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I rewind too to check.

  • @GoodLuck-cv6xk
    @GoodLuck-cv6xk 2 года назад +107

    Once there's infidelity in a marriage, it'll surely crash and it affects children. If you're not ready for marriage, don't get married

  • @franklynnwalieji2771
    @franklynnwalieji2771 2 года назад +42

    Judge Fumi please kindly advocate for such court as yours to be available in other states. People are really suffering over civil matters because of the delay, corruption and injustice in our justice system. Thank you madam for all you are doing for the downtrodden. We love you. God bless you.

    • @akandeblessing7174
      @akandeblessing7174 2 года назад +2

      Yes pls oyo state Ibadan especially

    • @justicecourtadmin3674
      @justicecourtadmin3674 2 года назад +2

      We take cases from all states of the federation and also in diaspora.

    • @eunicefatoberu1395
      @eunicefatoberu1395 2 года назад +1

      Yes, honestly we need it in Ibadan Oyo state. Bigger you Judge Funmi

    • @eunicefatoberu1395
      @eunicefatoberu1395 2 года назад

      @@justicecourtadmin3674 please how do I lodge my complaint ma, I lived in USA, but need an incorruptible Judge like you ma. God bless and keep you for us your honor

    • @justicecourtadmin3674
      @justicecourtadmin3674 2 года назад +1

      @@eunicefatoberu1395 kindly logon to the website to submit your case.

  • @edithoseyem1846
    @edithoseyem1846 2 года назад +11

    Mr perfect man....pay ur children upkeep period!!!

  • @victoriaawuletey7913
    @victoriaawuletey7913 2 года назад +18

    As a woman you really have to work on yourself.Never rely on anyone don’t ever go into relationship blindly.it’ll help you
    Hold whatever you hold holy before entering into this lifetime Agreement on marriage

  • @teeteeme5752
    @teeteeme5752 2 года назад +7

    This is why it's so important that women should be independent and have their own money. Her ex husband is an animal for even raising his hand to hit her. It seems these men have not been taught how to respect women. They only talk of their ego, pride and being a man. Being a man of what? To beat your wife?

  • @Freee479
    @Freee479 2 года назад +8

    Dear Parents, stop using your children as Pawn In your fights with your partner. It’s not okay pls stop

  • @NK-so8ep
    @NK-so8ep 2 года назад +71

    The fact that he's not feeling any remorse about beating her shows the type of man he is. She's better off without him

    • @pharrellblessing8355
      @pharrellblessing8355 2 года назад +11

      The only thing you saw in the whole show was him beating the woman

    • @midi6615
      @midi6615 2 года назад +16

      @@pharrellblessing8355 so what else did you focus on? No one has the right to hit another person

    • @victorianwaka6529
      @victorianwaka6529 2 года назад +5

      @@midi6615 do you know how it feels to know your legally wedded partner is cheating? I'm not in support of his reaction though

    • @adesanyaoduwole9625
      @adesanyaoduwole9625 2 года назад +1

      @@midi6615 so to you infidelity is OK right??? Not surprised..... Well domestic abuse is, wrong but let's not support bad attitude and infidelity in marriages

    • @midi6615
      @midi6615 Год назад +2

      @@adesanyaoduwole9625 so from my comment you already made a conclusion that I'm okay with infidelity? Ridiculous
      My point is no one should lay their hands on someone regardless of their gender unless that person is attacking them and they have to defend themselves. Simple

  • @atiribaakeju9505
    @atiribaakeju9505 2 года назад +41

    Hello my honourable judge Funmi, you make me laugh when you smile because I could tell exactly what you are thinking and what you will say next. Cases in your court helps me to analyse certain things psychologically. I am a graduate of Psychology Psychotherapy and Counselling at the University of Bolton, UK. God bless you ma.

  • @eberekoko4197
    @eberekoko4197 2 года назад +36

    God bless you Judge Funmi for this judgment. Samson is trying to run away from his responsibilities of taking care of his kids. He forgot that this children will not forgive him when they grow up if he doesn't show them adequate love and care.

    • @federalmoney8795
      @federalmoney8795 2 года назад

      How could you be so sure! I hate women like you

    • @joseph9531
      @joseph9531 2 года назад

      Yeah he bes take care dem chilren!

    • @abishagmusa8230
      @abishagmusa8230 2 года назад +1

      He hasn't been doing well for them even when he was together with the wife and now, he isn't ready for anything if not for the court ruling. He was even lying about his income, imagine.

  • @udoh356shine
    @udoh356shine 2 года назад +5

    Even though all this divorce whala scares me but then I still want to get married but not to be a full house wife. Both parties need to work. I can't imagine myself buying foodstuffs and waiting for hubby to come back home to pay everytime. Any decent work, beacuse love isn't enough and we can't tell who will change first, man or woman.

  • @adedoyinelusanmi1134
    @adedoyinelusanmi1134 2 года назад +8

    The justice court is my latest series program. I stumbled into it over a week ago and since been watching. Judge Funmi is indeed a judge. She's got passion for human rights and especially for children. I love her smile and she's doing a great job by avoiding to speak yoruba. Keep doing your good work ma.
    I pray your good work will publicize you and make ways for you at the top ma. God bless all the crew.

  • @_decktor
    @_decktor 2 года назад +45

    anytime Judge Funmi bows her head, raise it up and smile at couples, why do I feel like she thinks "awon omode yi sha" 😂😂

  • @olusholaolaleye4300
    @olusholaolaleye4300 2 года назад +98

    Divorcing is cheap in this part of the world and I see it strengthening irresponsible men. Once he knows he can pay N7,500/month, he walks away and leave the woman with the troubles! The court should make it more expensive. Make divorce seekers pay through their noses. Only when they are willing to pay in excess, would we realize they truly seek separation for what it is worth!

    • @awahmonika670
      @awahmonika670 2 года назад +4

      Thank you, you've said it all👏

    • @aliyuyahaya2100
      @aliyuyahaya2100 2 года назад +3

      So you will seek to stay in a domestic relation than separate in peace right.

    • @labigold6893
      @labigold6893 2 года назад +5

      Infidelity kills marriage,not only separate

    • @Cryptophonetics
      @Cryptophonetics 2 года назад +1

      They both are to blame
      What u saying is just support the woman which is unfair
      Life as a man is already hard enough...

    • @AJ-ls7tn
      @AJ-ls7tn 2 года назад +1

      This is very sensible

  • @laurittanoumen5582
    @laurittanoumen5582 2 года назад +12

    This man is lying , he doesn’t want to take responsibility for his children.

  • @ArikePosh
    @ArikePosh Год назад +20

    I'm always puzzled when a man comes out with bold lies about infidelity when he wants to walk away from the marriage to run to the hands of another woman. I sensed insecurity from the man's side.

  • @umarizuafah9479
    @umarizuafah9479 2 года назад +6

    Adults who are married should never put their differences in the ways of their children for any reason. Never abandon the children.

  • @goldiiilocks5491
    @goldiiilocks5491 2 года назад +38

    Cheaters always reveal themselves via their insecurities! And men who hit women are cowards. Period!

  • @carmanlewis3594
    @carmanlewis3594 2 года назад +42

    each time I watch a broken marriage series, I get discourage to get married.

    • @talktotaiwo
      @talktotaiwo 2 года назад +9

      I'm sorry for the experience. But please be assured that marriage is beautiful. Have a spouse who fears God. That's all you need

    • @jameslamptey9057
      @jameslamptey9057 2 года назад

      That's your bad

    • @sakayunusaolalekan1394
      @sakayunusaolalekan1394 2 года назад +2

      Dear ,be prayerful and look for a responsible partner by firstly being a right person , God will guide you aright

    • @Faithful25
      @Faithful25 2 года назад

      I swear

    • @blackdiamond7956
      @blackdiamond7956 2 года назад +1

      People are still balling in marriage believe me,I'm speaking from experience

  • @Cath.Spirituality
    @Cath.Spirituality 2 года назад +38

    This is the type of initiative someone will see and become inspired and comforted. Not some sort of useless and immoral reality show called bbnaija.
    Thanks to everyone that put this together

  • @tolagee1497
    @tolagee1497 2 года назад +7

    It's really tough out there , well-done MA

  • @AuntyKarena
    @AuntyKarena Год назад +1

    Thank you for imparting some knowledge and words of wisdom. Hopefully, those who need to hear will take heart.

  • @joseph9531
    @joseph9531 2 года назад +26

    These women go through soo much 😩 I hope there's a lasting resolution for this woman.

    • @truthforetold893
      @truthforetold893 2 года назад +3

      So what did the man go through. Listen to him carefully and feel his pain. They had it good until the woman started rigmarolling around promiscuity

    • @joseph9531
      @joseph9531 2 года назад +1

      @@truthforetold893 what pain?? The pain of having to take care of his children which was really the point 👉 👈

    • @truthforetold893
      @truthforetold893 2 года назад +3

      @@joseph9531 There is a case of alledge promiscuity on the part of the lady, on several occasions he had caught the lady with evidences of meeting up with the lover .The emotional pain of someone else banging your wife, and possibility of the children not being yours. It's painful. From all indication she had something up her sleeve

    • @joseph9531
      @joseph9531 2 года назад +2

      @@truthforetold893 if he were not sure they weren't his he'd do a DNA test but because he didn't contest or allege that then he's responsible to take care of his chilluns. This is the main subject not this side foolishness. They can do as they please with their personal lives but the children must be taken care come hell or high water 💧 Oga!

    • @knix9014
      @knix9014 2 года назад +1

      you will meet such woman and breed her as a wife ijn ,since you don't wanna have sense 😝,you go learn am by force .

  • @obedorji2456
    @obedorji2456 3 месяца назад

    Thank you immensely his honourable for this very intelligent judgement.

  • @heroesmissionagency9284
    @heroesmissionagency9284 2 года назад +34

    Am very grateful judge Funmi for your human efforts in this generation. God bless you and your legal officers

  • @DrBee85
    @DrBee85 2 года назад +13

    Thank you Akin
    You are welcome
    #Legends

  • @ebukaisrael5358
    @ebukaisrael5358 2 года назад +5

    Judge pretend as if she doesn't know that this woman wants to settle with her husband... and this is a nice development since she is claiming that she is done with the marriage

  • @joseph9531
    @joseph9531 2 года назад +6

    The judge is smirking 😏 in disbelief over this guy. He is evading the question of the main topic of the upkeep of the children.

  • @antnam4406
    @antnam4406 2 года назад +3

    It's quite irresponsible to abandon your children because the marriage/relationship failed.

  • @omooluwacorner
    @omooluwacorner 2 года назад +12

    I don’t wish to talk about their marital breakup but what tears me up is the welfare of the children. Hey man you have to step up as even 30k can’t feed two kids for a month.

  • @tolulopeidowu7216
    @tolulopeidowu7216 2 года назад +4

    Very selfish man... When they ask him to pay all the fee he wants to change the school

  • @lil4613
    @lil4613 2 года назад +14

    Justice Funmi is strong oh!! She didn't even laf or finch at the man's narration.
    Me..i was laughing so hard 😃 with tears here 🤣 😂 😆 😄 oh God

    • @lil4613
      @lil4613 2 года назад +3

      Women are going through so much in homes........when they re-act or complain, they perpetrators twist truths with so much lies and domestic violence.....most times.

    • @kay_baba9643
      @kay_baba9643 2 года назад +1

      I can't even look his face because i feel ashamed listening to him

  • @yomiolayinka8754
    @yomiolayinka8754 2 года назад +6

    Judge Funmi turned to mama Peace 🤣🤣🤣🤣”will you keep quiet”!!

  • @getenlightened5871
    @getenlightened5871 2 года назад +5

    If you and you wife separates if she has full custody you have to pay child support and share their tuition fees. Simple

  • @folakeomowumi7164
    @folakeomowumi7164 2 года назад +14

    Oga samason just appreciate that you are in Judge Funmi court.
    You kept saying your take home is low but you have other wife and you did not consider the fact that the responsibility will be high🤔
    Please note; if you can marry more than one wife then check your income. Abeg do your responsibility as my Lords said period,I come in peace ✌

    • @cleverjay286
      @cleverjay286 2 года назад +1

      Even the judge didn't say he has more than one wife. It could be allegations. Didn't u hear when he said the friend was dead for a year now? What's ur problem?

    • @blessingajayi9672
      @blessingajayi9672 2 года назад +1

      @@cleverjay286 but the wife talked about more than one woman, so if one is dead there are still others. Kids are expensive to take care of, if you have more children, you should have more money especially when you and the kids mother are separated

    • @cleverjay286
      @cleverjay286 2 года назад

      @@blessingajayi9672 Do u know what allegations are?

    • @blessingajayi9672
      @blessingajayi9672 2 года назад

      @@cleverjay286 what is your point? All what the man said were merely allegations without any tangible prove

  • @augustinboston2936
    @augustinboston2936 2 года назад +1

    I love how that judge headly her self in her judgements she use wisdom

  • @aaa-pp
    @aaa-pp 2 года назад +11

    Don't they have to show proof of income, not by hear say? Good job Judge Fumi.

  • @oliveromeh2624
    @oliveromeh2624 Год назад +1

    It’s a disaster when you lack trust in a marriage.

  • @julietjuliet8083
    @julietjuliet8083 2 года назад +5

    God please i need this court but my problem is i don't know how to start talking
    My Mum use to slap me many things because my husband know how to talk than me
    Until my Mum caught my husband many times without number and my husband don't feel remorse
    He has gut to call my Mum that my sweat is not in his house he build
    Thank God have built many houses than him and his salary is not half to mine
    I please him with everything but his not ready to take any responsibility, he always tells everyone around that his salary is thrice mine
    I think is jealousy and envyness ooo... I need divorce

  • @mercyokogbe5312
    @mercyokogbe5312 9 дней назад

    See how he is running away from responsibility??? Later he will be claiming “father”
    God will judge irresponsible father!!!

  • @charlesmartins01
    @charlesmartins01 2 года назад +8

    I swear this man is a disgrace seriously, if you can't avoid the bills of your family why did you marry, all these excuse is an inability not to take care of your family though the woman might be cheating but the husband contributed to the woman's unfaithfulness which I don't blame her because she have tried.

  • @danielokechukwu6515
    @danielokechukwu6515 2 месяца назад

    Where are all of you on comment section via other cases saying she is always bulling ladies. She is just good with her judgment and never biased God bless you ma for always educating us here the men to always take full charge over our home.

  • @jummysfamily2227
    @jummysfamily2227 2 года назад +19

    Some men are so wicked, how can you treat a women you've once said you love, i wept for this lady. Men can you be responsible for once , tears of women is a curse for any men that make them cry. God bless all women that's going through tough time .

    • @bro_chukzy
      @bro_chukzy 2 года назад +2

      Why judging from one angle? Are you truly normal?

    • @olasunkanmiolayinkasamson6139
      @olasunkanmiolayinkasamson6139 2 года назад +2

      All blame on the man. No one talk about the woman infidelity

    • @jummysfamily2227
      @jummysfamily2227 2 года назад

      @@olasunkanmiolayinkasamson6139 am not supporting infidelity, both of them cheated, so no comment.

    • @olowoseluvictoria5461
      @olowoseluvictoria5461 2 года назад +1

      What lead to beating? Was it not bcos she cheated

    • @sirbold3497
      @sirbold3497 2 года назад +3

      Tears is another way of deceit crying does not mean she’s innocent alway find a better way to get the truth

  • @osas3857
    @osas3857 2 года назад +23

    Thank God for justice court...children can now go to school and be taken care of

  • @godstimejackson140
    @godstimejackson140 2 года назад +4

    This man is selfish and greedy even to he's own children it's not even remorseful of what he did accusing his woman of seeing another man, when he's own is worse too bad 😩

  • @patrickagori3537
    @patrickagori3537 2 года назад +2

    For me this two people still love themselves. Especially the wife, they should try and sort things out, after all they have children together. To the man stop misbehaving everytime you meet a new woman, they are not better than your wife. And stop the unnecessary jealousy

  • @MrHelkeys
    @MrHelkeys 2 года назад +13

    Very complicated case. Insecurity and infidelity are their biggest problem.

  • @isiakaraimi4656
    @isiakaraimi4656 2 года назад +6

    Unfaithful couples that's complete unfortunate for the both abandoned their goals

  • @lydiaeffa2123
    @lydiaeffa2123 2 года назад +7

    Kola has disappointed her, she's just looking 4 way to come back to Mr Samson. Forget the crocodile tears on her face.

    • @ifeyinwaezeh
      @ifeyinwaezeh Год назад

      You think d man is not cheating hmm. Na him push d woman

    • @TMS26164
      @TMS26164 Год назад +2

      @@ifeyinwaezeh as an African a man have an affair doesn't give the woman the authority and right to do the same, the question is who married who, did the man marry the woman or the woman married the man, so it means the woman has a seed of infidelity in her, by nature the reality is that men can be polygamous

    • @lucytekoe6562
      @lucytekoe6562 Год назад

      @@TMS26164 u are sick african man my foot, because of ur 6 cloths n drinks so u think she doesn't have feelings ? Nonsense who married who, so marrying her she's having diesel in her body !

    • @falidisu2139
      @falidisu2139 Год назад

      @@TMS26164Will you shut up there?

    • @ifeanyiokorie9487
      @ifeanyiokorie9487 5 месяцев назад

      Crocodile tears indeed

  • @daughterofelohim7
    @daughterofelohim7 2 года назад +4

    Some Men sha. You have children you can't take care of but you have energy to carry other women.

  • @franciscatrinityboaresah5740
    @franciscatrinityboaresah5740 2 года назад +8

    Marriage! I always tell God to bless me with peaceful man, who will always understand me😢

  • @tochukwuezenwanne3912
    @tochukwuezenwanne3912 2 года назад +1

    When they told you to leave ex, ex will scatter your home but you didn't hear.

  • @aworunseiwa1790
    @aworunseiwa1790 2 года назад +4

    both are not faithful to their marriage and they lack respect and trust .That crack led to more UNCONTROLLED problem

  • @estherskytv1675
    @estherskytv1675 2 года назад +11

    This man is lying. He’s adding pepper and salt. He isn’t saying about he’s own cheating

    • @norbertteco9904
      @norbertteco9904 2 года назад +1

      he is cheating yes that is right but that does not give the woman a reason to cheat too if she is a Christian when she sees that she would have done it in a better way rather than paying back with cheating she is lucky it is not some family that has some deadly oath like my family if the wife u paid on her head cheats she falls sick in less than one week and if she does not confess what she has done she dies in 7weeks and if the man supports him by not allowing her to do the normal tradition he will be the first to die that was what that killed my uncle who is pastor. they are no problem without a solution and the woman would have reported her husband for beating her it is a criminal offense for beating your wife

    • @blessingajayi9672
      @blessingajayi9672 2 года назад +1

      @@norbertteco9904 this one na long story, the damage has already been made. The man shouldn't have cheated and the woman shouldn't have cheated as well but the bone of contention now is for the man to take care of his children

    • @yhiontop
      @yhiontop 2 года назад +3

      @@norbertteco9904 so the man is not a Christian and heaven is only for women.... listen to yourself. You acted as if its ok for him to cheat. If you see nothing wrong in a husband cheating, then keep quiet when the wife cheats. The Bible said, thou shalt not commit adultery, it didn't say it to women only.

  • @pascalaigbokhan6995
    @pascalaigbokhan6995 2 года назад +3

    The woman still wants her marriage back, that was why she was emphasising on the pregnancy results

  • @okunlegbejohntee9589
    @okunlegbejohntee9589 8 месяцев назад +1

    If anyone is close to Olatunbosun Jeremiah Olaniran, please tell him to get ready,even to the Court level!

  • @chinedunwaka244
    @chinedunwaka244 2 года назад +4

    This woman didn’t help her marriage even though the guy has his own fault.

    • @ojoolukunle2151
      @ojoolukunle2151 2 года назад

      How?

    • @chinedunwaka244
      @chinedunwaka244 2 года назад +1

      @@ojoolukunle2151 You are asking why knowing fully well that while in the marriage she was seeing other guys which no man will take unless a dead man 👨.

    • @victoriaokafor1490
      @victoriaokafor1490 2 года назад

      You're a pretty lier

    • @OluwatoyinAdepiti
      @OluwatoyinAdepiti 18 часов назад

      Thank you

  • @maureenodionye6353
    @maureenodionye6353 2 года назад +7

    I was very serious watching this until the man asked her "Is she not late" I burst out in laughter everyone around me is looking at me😀

    • @oluomalocs4964
      @oluomalocs4964 2 года назад +1

      I thought it was only me o. Imagine! Someone that was pregnant with his child. And he was even smiling saying it. What a cold-hearted soul.

  • @auduaminat5222
    @auduaminat5222 2 года назад +3

    May Almighty Allah continue to bless judge fumi asolu, walahi she a great judge dt alimighty God sent and delivered d messages ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💋💋 for judge fumi.

  • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
    @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 2 месяца назад

    Every failed marriage is a disaster. God help us.

  • @ngoeemail3068
    @ngoeemail3068 2 года назад +7

    As a married woman welcoming canal chats from another man it's shameful and what do you expect your husband to do after that?? Not having another woman?
    A man respect and honors you as his wife to put you in his house then another man takes you like his side chick with 2kids till you are crying in court, let the man marry you now nah. God punish the devil with his entire agents.

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 2 года назад

      There is more their story i think '

    • @kiss-so7ty
      @kiss-so7ty 2 года назад +2

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣but men can texts other women???

    • @ngoeemail3068
      @ngoeemail3068 2 года назад

      @@kiss-so7ty it’s wrong but when comparison come in between a man and a woman then the problem never stops. The man is the hunter and a woman is always the victim, a man can get a child outside and take care of but very and almost impossible for a woman to get pregnant in her matrimonial house by another man then she is still there if the husband is aware. Taaaahhhhhh

    • @ngoeemail3068
      @ngoeemail3068 2 года назад

      You see some women with children but different fathers means the woman is there for experimental purposes, the men have seen that she is good to taste their fertility and move on elsewhere. Women should just respect themselves and stop comparing men because they are always the victims.

    • @kiss-so7ty
      @kiss-so7ty 2 года назад

      @@ngoeemail3068 this mentality right here is the problem, another human is experimental purposes??? Im glad women are being defended now from men like these...

  • @felixoluchukwu582
    @felixoluchukwu582 2 года назад +3

    This judge is a legend

  • @scolineojunga9353
    @scolineojunga9353 2 года назад +3

    I like how calm everyone is.

  • @pharrellblessing8355
    @pharrellblessing8355 2 года назад +18

    She came, talked about the man's infidelity. But she got history of infidelity too. Women sha. Men take care of your kids, it's your responsibility

    • @funtvwithmrimarhiaugueghos143
      @funtvwithmrimarhiaugueghos143 2 года назад

      Is a pity all this is taking place in Nigeria married women sleeping with other men outside their home what a pity

    • @itz_peatah9931
      @itz_peatah9931 2 года назад

      @Citrus Fruit he didn't bring the case up she did?

    • @ojoolukunle2151
      @ojoolukunle2151 2 года назад

      Infidelity or no infidelity, take care of your children, be responsible to care of them. Unless you didn't called for them into this world. If it's blood that's flowing in his vein, he should know that no matter what, they are his children and he should make living for them. Fact.

    • @pharrellblessing8355
      @pharrellblessing8355 2 года назад

      @@funtvwithmrimarhiaugueghos143 and she even started the infidelity she was talking about

    • @pharrellblessing8355
      @pharrellblessing8355 2 года назад

      @@ojoolukunle2151 yeah men should take care of their kids no matter what happened in their marriage

  • @chiamakacynthia1484
    @chiamakacynthia1484 2 года назад +8

    as a married women, u have to stay away from extra marital affair, give ursef some self respect abeg, if he is abusive then better divorce him rather than messing around

    • @isiomaajufo3046
      @isiomaajufo3046 4 месяца назад

      Are you serious at all??? If itwas true won't he be here with the proof as his wife just did here with his numerous girlfriends even sending her messages to taunt her???? He is just an irresponsible and insecured man. Who tells his wife that another man should cater for his own biological children when he is still alive??? Later they will say the wife has poisoned the mind of the children. When a child can in actual fact remember how their mother was treated. Nonsense!

  • @godschild5189
    @godschild5189 2 года назад +1

    There are so many cases where the fathers are not providing upkeep for the children.

  • @obiomatv8583
    @obiomatv8583 2 года назад +8

    Thank you mummy fumi ,I love this justice court

    • @tosinotufowora6717
      @tosinotufowora6717 Год назад

      I just love the way mummy funmi smile and listen iriri lagba, weldone my lord.

  • @tu6166
    @tu6166 Год назад +1

    Women!!! Stop loosing yourself all in the name of marriage. If a man cannot provide for you and 💯 don’t leave your job or source of income for him….

  • @greatexploitsmedianetwork5497
    @greatexploitsmedianetwork5497 2 года назад +7

    I'm surprised that in this comment section, everyone is talking about the irresponsibility of the man but no one is talking about the infidelity charges against the woman, all the sex out of marriage chats that man claimed to see on her phone.

    • @ayokotosin968
      @ayokotosin968 2 года назад

      The women in the comment section are acting as though it's normal for the woman to cheat because the guy acted irresponsible. No excuse to cheat wives

    • @odetundetobi1566
      @odetundetobi1566 2 года назад

      God bless you for saying this, I was surprised too😮

    • @joyceboluwatife1342
      @joyceboluwatife1342 2 года назад +2

      Great Exploits , Tosin Ayoko and rest . Are you really believing his watery lies . He’s just Narcissistic ; Projecting his wrongs on his wife . Why didn’t he say the kids belong to the guys mentioned . The main thing is that he’s irresponsible . And a mad person that detest his lies cos it too obvious . May you all never meet this kinds as a brother - in law .

    • @EuniceNSarki
      @EuniceNSarki 2 года назад

      They both cheated on each other but like the judge has been saying....it is not about the couple but the welfare of the children. As such, the man has to take responsibility for them.

    • @yhiontop
      @yhiontop 2 года назад +1

      About the infidelity charges against him or you had selective hearing....

  • @irenepearse430
    @irenepearse430 Год назад

    I am Nigerian American, l am watching the program from Florida, these men beat the women, the women should start defending themselves get your friends together beat the shit out of these men, so she is having affairs, you too, love you judge, keep up the fantastic work you do

  • @tria2156
    @tria2156 2 года назад +30

    When a man easily accepts signs of infidelity from his wife, he's acknowledging he did something bad enough to push his wife into someone else's arms. I'm guessing he did some horrible things making her confident enough to acknowledge stepping out. He started the crack in the marriage.Oga do your duty as husband and father, earn the right to be called head of household. Looks like they both want their home but matters snowballed to quickly.

    • @skybench100
      @skybench100 Год назад +1

      How do you mean? Are you justifying infidelity?

    • @adeolaoke4165
      @adeolaoke4165 Год назад

      No excuse for infidelity…. she should respect herself and kids and walk out first

  • @danielokechukwu6515
    @danielokechukwu6515 2 месяца назад

    May God almighty help and keep proving for all responsible men and strength all responsible women marriage no be here oh.

  • @abdulkadimosenye5050
    @abdulkadimosenye5050 2 года назад +3

    Infidelity in a marriage relationship is a No go area

  • @donking1579
    @donking1579 Год назад +1

    This Lawyer is just too soft on Men who are making excuses not to take care of their responsibilities.

  • @deboti1822
    @deboti1822 2 года назад +8

    The two of them are not ready for marriage! Take care of the kids together in peace... They didn't ask to be born! Period

    • @pammy22
      @pammy22 2 года назад

      Thanks

    • @pammy22
      @pammy22 2 года назад +1

      It is not fair on the kids

  • @i_am_adaiah1341
    @i_am_adaiah1341 Год назад

    It is how people who don’t have financial capacity to maintain one woman and their children find it wise to take up another woman.

  • @obinna6345
    @obinna6345 2 года назад +4

    I love this judge

  • @aaptuff125
    @aaptuff125 5 месяцев назад

    This your take is funny, water will always find its level. In my experience it's the greed of women that makes then get into bad marriages, but character and should be a priority.

  • @edwinosunde660
    @edwinosunde660 2 года назад +5

    HON.JUDGE FUNMI should also have referred this matter to MARRIAGE COUNCILLOR. The court declined TALKING about RECONCILIATION which I believe the LADY wanted. Not only the CHILDREN WELFARE. The WIFE will not be pls with this judgement.

    • @oyebodestephenoyetoro8911
      @oyebodestephenoyetoro8911 2 года назад +1

      Infidelity is already involved. Reconciliation and counseling is hard.

    • @blessingajayi9672
      @blessingajayi9672 2 года назад +1

      The woman clearly stated she was in court to compel her ex husband to provide for the kids not reconcile the marriage

  • @Chiomasignatures
    @Chiomasignatures 2 года назад +33

    It’s funny how men that once knelt down to propose..we wake up one morning and say they’re no longer interested..💔

    • @davidajoku5245
      @davidajoku5245 2 года назад

      Very true

    • @federalmoney8795
      @federalmoney8795 2 года назад +6

      Just shut up na! Stop! This is a failing marriage! Stop attacking the man! Hush it!

    • @kimmie2679
      @kimmie2679 2 года назад +1

      You are right: once the juju leave their eyes, wahala deh!

    • @chijindu
      @chijindu 2 года назад +4

      It's funny how you missed her consistency in cheating

    • @kimmie2679
      @kimmie2679 2 года назад +3

      @@chijindu cheating does not give the husband the right to physically her…. Or is that your consensus?

  • @christob5658
    @christob5658 2 года назад +5

    The woman really look a nice person and you can see the truth on her , madam Fummi God bless you for all the peaceful settlements

  • @delegreatness
    @delegreatness 2 года назад +12

    Sometimes some women/wife destroys young men life’s with good potential… all i see is a responsible man trying to build a good family but the wife is not ready to settle down her eyes is still outside But because of the law the right judgment needs to be giving wish will definitely affect the man .. God save us from cheating wife

    • @teenuharde5440
      @teenuharde5440 2 года назад +17

      If that is all you see then you need glasses

    • @delegreatness
      @delegreatness 2 года назад +4

      @@teenuharde5440
      You clearly can’t understand the words been said here 👍 you need ear drops 💧

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp 2 года назад +8

      "A responsible man", why are they there, because he's not supporting his children. He abandoned his children and started another family. Are you ok??

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 2 года назад +7

      God also save us from cheating irresponsible husband 🙏

    • @victoriaayilara7849
      @victoriaayilara7849 2 года назад +3

      Responsible man indeed
      He couldn't even defend any of the cheating allegations. They are both guilty of the same thing. Both of them are irresponsible abeg

  • @michgh2735
    @michgh2735 2 года назад +6

    Always watching from 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @omobolaoguntayo9570
    @omobolaoguntayo9570 2 года назад +19

    Highly irresponsible father running away from your fatherly role as if the children were those that offended you.

  • @mrmike9652
    @mrmike9652 2 года назад +12

    The Man is highly irresponsible and he doesn’t have any shame attached to his personality

  • @tokunboakinsara7915
    @tokunboakinsara7915 2 года назад +2

    I really love this Judge. God bless u and your household. I pray greater wisdom for u to help humanity.

  • @sabuaspiller3935
    @sabuaspiller3935 2 года назад +30

    The guy is accusing her of what is his doing. The guy is the cheat, his doing that to cover up. Beating her should be addressed too not just the welfare of the children. The woman should move on. Think deep before judging, never jumped to conclusions. Thank you judge. 🙏

    • @kahurastephen8161
      @kahurastephen8161 2 года назад

      you must be a cheat too for passing such judgement

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 года назад +12

      Don't mind him. His phone is always going bad. His daughter came to him to say she knows mummy's password, like he didn't ask for the password, abi? Mr. surely cooked up stories!

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 года назад +3

      I think the beating wasn't addressed by the Judge because they've both decided to move on and not live together anymore.

    • @sabuaspiller3935
      @sabuaspiller3935 2 года назад +6

      @@Trendinggist247 she should have warned him for the future and let him know how bad it's to beat a woman. Thank you!

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 года назад +1

      @@sabuaspiller3935 yea, you got that right ✅️

  • @lindaoffor8560
    @lindaoffor8560 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Judge Funmi for your fair Judgment.

  • @sijisiji8100
    @sijisiji8100 2 года назад +7

    Many of you condemning the man...... what can a man with a take home salary of #30k p/m do for 2 kids and a wife? The man was honest and said he could not afford to pay for private school. The woman was caught based on telephone chat talking romance with another man......the whole problems is due to economic hardish in the country. If the man earns a good and the wife also take home good money, things will be different. Above all, family is the responsibility of both parties to care for the children. The pressures of finance has sent many young men to the grave. A wise woman will support her partner in all areas to make their home a better place for kids. We Africans are coping marriage systems that we don't understand. Marriage is contract.... check with any European.

    • @omowunmikuponiyi1189
      @omowunmikuponiyi1189 2 года назад

      You forgot to say he has a dry cleaning business too

    • @sijisiji8100
      @sijisiji8100 2 года назад

      @@omowunmikuponiyi1189 he also took out loan and set up business for the woman which he's also paying back.

    • @omowunmikuponiyi1189
      @omowunmikuponiyi1189 2 года назад +1

      @@sijisiji8100 paying his kids school is abt the children it’s a duty ,like the judge said all those shop thgs were issues when the going was fine.now can we ask the kids to suffer cause the love failed btw both of them?

    • @sijisiji8100
      @sijisiji8100 2 года назад

      @@omowunmikuponiyi1189 it is absolutely wrong to put all the bills on a man especially the ones with a low income. It's the duty of both of them. That's why I said as Africans we copy wrong systems from the West. If our nation is functioning like in the time of Awolowo, you don't have to pay school fees for kids up to secondary school. My father withdrew me from private school in early 80's when he couldn't afford it anymore with distance problems. Guess, if this guy pass on tomorrow due to stress, that's when the woman will appreciate his little effort while alive. The dynamic in present day required woman to contribute in the house when you know the one you married is not very good financially.

    • @vivinwa9657
      @vivinwa9657 2 года назад +1

      @@sijisiji8100 he did that out of jealousy because he is suspecting his wife, she was doing something before he met her. Men with unnecessary Jealousy

  • @obedorji2456
    @obedorji2456 3 месяца назад

    Queen Barr FUNMI you said it all. No more no less. Love you dear .

  • @omololaodusanya6658
    @omololaodusanya6658 2 года назад +6

    Does anyone talk about how Akin is courteous?.
    Thank you Akin
    You're welcome ma.

  • @outrightjoe
    @outrightjoe 2 года назад +5

    Her body language says alot.

    • @isiomaajufo3046
      @isiomaajufo3046 4 месяца назад

      Yet the proof in court are against him. If it was true don't you think he will come with proof? You have not met men that will tell lies as an excuse just because of a new woman.

  • @aurorafeliciano3202
    @aurorafeliciano3202 2 года назад +4

    please take care of the children 🥺

  • @omailtheresia
    @omailtheresia 2 года назад +1

    Men has the right to die young, while all this entanglement in life, take care of your kids, as a responsible father and stay calm.