I was married to a narcissist for 9 years. Let’s just say I’m grateful to have gotten out of that horrible relationship and am making strides toward healing. I’m not ready to date I’ve been isolating myself since I’m not yet confident that I can trust myself because I still feel vulnerable and shaking the victim mentality. I have been watching your channel and learning a lot and feeling more hopeful ❤️
Takes years… some things doesn’t change like not trusting yourself. Just when you get back to yourself that’s when another one shows up. 😂 I refused to change my loving on ppl that’s how we are supposed to be and eventually we find our way
I just had a lucky escape from one. He was a real Jekyll and Hyde character. Dr Jekyll was impressive. Thankfully I asked the Lord if this was someone I should be involved with and if he wasn’t , please reveal the truth to me. My prayer was answered quite spectacularly. I said no to something he proposed then Mr Hyde revealed himself. We hadn’t even got to the first date, I’ m grateful that I dodged a bullet.
@@danicaharley6273 I asked him for a quote for work I needed and was shocked to find he wanted to charge me far more than other contractors. The other contractors told me the price he offered me was a rip off! He got very offended when I told him I would not be using his service. What followed were very patronising and bitingly sarcastic text messages. He was even goading me to respond negatively. I found the stark difference in the tone of his messages quite startling, it was clear I was dealing with someone who was very dysfunctional and unstable.
@@danicaharley6273 I asked him to give me a quote for some work I needed done. He initially told me that he did not have the time to do it so I asked another contractor. As they were dragging their heels in getting back to me I asked him again as by now we were texting each other daily and flirting. Eventually the other contractor got back to me with their quote. He then gave me his quote which was far more than the other contractor. I asked other contractors what their price would be, they all gave me roughly the same price, one of them told me that the price this guy had quoted me was a blatant rip off! When I told him that I was going with the other contractor he became quite unpleasant - completely different to the person I had encountered. He decided that he did not want to go on the date we had planned that weekend. I was disappointed but also realised that I had been spared a lot of grief.
You want to fight with a narc as a woman they will make sure you don’t win. You may think you won but they will launch an attack on your property that you can’t prove that will be worse than the use of the credit card. No contact is the only way. Take a loss and move on would be more painful to them and more beneficial to you.
I was married to a narcissist for 9 years. Let’s just say I’m grateful to have gotten out of that horrible relationship and am making strides toward healing. I’m not ready to date I’ve been isolating myself since I’m not yet confident that I can trust myself because I still feel vulnerable and shaking the victim mentality. I have been watching your channel and learning a lot and feeling more hopeful ❤️
Takes years… some things doesn’t change like not trusting yourself. Just when you get back to yourself that’s when another one shows up. 😂 I refused to change my loving on ppl that’s how we are supposed to be and eventually we find our way
I just had a lucky escape from one. He was a real Jekyll and Hyde character. Dr Jekyll was impressive. Thankfully I asked the Lord if this was someone I should be involved with and if he wasn’t , please reveal the truth to me. My prayer was answered quite spectacularly. I said no to something he proposed then Mr Hyde revealed himself. We hadn’t even got to the first date, I’ m grateful that I dodged a bullet.
Can I ask you, what did he propose ?
@@danicaharley6273 I asked him for a quote for work I needed and was shocked to find he wanted to charge me far more than other contractors. The other contractors told me the price he offered me was a rip off! He got very offended when I told him I would not be using his service. What followed were very patronising and bitingly sarcastic text messages. He was even goading me to respond negatively. I found the stark difference in the tone of his messages quite startling, it was clear I was dealing with someone who was very dysfunctional and unstable.
@@danicaharley6273 I asked him to give me a quote for some work I needed done. He initially told me that he did not have the time to do it so I asked another contractor. As they were dragging their heels in getting back to me I asked him again as by now we were texting each other daily and flirting. Eventually the other contractor got back to me with their quote. He then gave me his quote which was far more than the other contractor. I asked other contractors what their price would be, they all gave me roughly the same price, one of them told me that the price this guy had quoted me was a blatant rip off! When I told him that I was going with the other contractor he became quite unpleasant - completely different to the person I had encountered. He decided that he did not want to go on the date we had planned that weekend. I was disappointed but also realised that I had been spared a lot of grief.
When they set their love bomb in place and you say anything negative to get around their plan will cause them to drop their mask
I was married to a narcissist for 25 years. She was an absolute nightmare.
With your client that had the credit card issue, it's fraud and she could have pressed charges against him.
You want to fight with a narc as a woman they will make sure you don’t win. You may think you won but they will launch an attack on your property that you can’t prove that will be worse than the use of the credit card. No contact is the only way. Take a loss and move on would be more painful to them and more beneficial to you.