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    ☯️ WU WEI WISDOM LIFE LESSONS EPISODE # 286
    A victim mindset often starts with negative self-talk, such as "I'm not good enough," "I can't cope," or "I'm unlovable." This mindset can lead to seeing the world as an aggressive place set up for you to fail. In this episode, we explore overcoming the victim mindset and aligning with your true self. This alignment brings emotional wellbeing and a sense of security in your capabilities. You become resilient, strong, and authentic, ready to embrace life's changes and lessons.
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Комментарии • 21

  • @CorneliaPayne-fv7ih
    @CorneliaPayne-fv7ih Месяц назад +3

    Another great talk to ponder. I have a friend who lives on the victim carousel. Forwarding your life lessons to her, she does not want to hear the message but I keep on sending them on. May be one day she will be ready to listen.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi Cornelia,
      Thank you for your kind words and for sharing Wu Wei Wisdom with your friend. It’s a wonderful act of care to gently offer guidance, even if they’re not ready to hear it yet. Sometimes, planting a small seed of truth is all that’s needed-it may take time, but when the moment is right, they might reflect on what you’ve shared.
      Remember, the best way to support others is by embodying the balance and harmony you wish for them. Your actions and calm presence can often speak louder than words. 😊 Never give up on her, always being open, truthful and living from integrity.
      If you or your friend would like, our supportive community is always here, with different poits of view that may conincide with her point on the journey: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @jelenaivanovic5639
    @jelenaivanovic5639 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for everything that you are doing😇🙏💞You are both AWESOME❤️❤️🍀✨

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi Jelena,
      Thank you for your kind words and wonderful energy! Your encouragement means so much. Keep embracing your journey with Shen spirit and positivity-you're truly amazing too.
      If you'd like to connect further, join our free community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @superhydrayt2631
    @superhydrayt2631 Месяц назад +1

    I have been watching all these videos for almost 1 year. Both David & Alex are doing fantabulous work to help so many people worldwide. I luv the way how David makes us understand & speaks sooo calm, clear & yet so Powerful.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi,
      Thank you so much for your kind words and ongoing support! It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve been part of our community for a year. Both Alex and I are truly grateful to share these teachings with you. Your encouragement means so much-it’s the Shen spirit of viewers like you that inspires us to keep creating content that brings clarity and balance to people worldwide.
      If you’d like to deepen your connection with us and others who resonate with these teachings, you’re warmly invited to join our free Wu Wei Wisdom community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      P.S. Exciting News!
      I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
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      Looking forward to continuing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @TimC-Cambridge
    @TimC-Cambridge Месяц назад +1

    Hi. Thank you for this. As I was raised in a Christian family, the notion " born in sin " is a core belief that suggests I am not good enough unless I conform. Now, having studied Eastern beliefs and the inspiration of Taoist illumination, I see that the instructions of my Christian past still has influence on me. Centering myself in this present moment I am aware of old patterns and directions that point to me, comparing, criticizing and judging me with " am I good enough? ". There is still a clash to some degree between my " Western " belief and my realised understanding of Taoist revelation. I wonder if this is a common struggle that others feel?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад +2

      Hi Tim,
      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. The inner clash you describe is one many experience when integrating differing belief systems. The message of "born in sin" can often create a foundation of self-doubt, but Taoist illumination reminds us that we are already part of the natural flow of life, whole and complete. The concept of "good enough" dissolves when we stop comparing and instead align with the truth of who we are-free from judgment and conditions.
      It’s natural for old patterns from past teachings to resurface, but awareness is the first step to resolving them. By centering yourself in the present moment, as you’re doing, you can observe these influences without attaching to them. Over time, this practice allows the harmony of Taoist wisdom to gently guide you beyond judgment and into acceptance of your Shen spirit.
      You’re not alone in this journey.
      Kind Regards,
      David

    • @TimC-Cambridge
      @TimC-Cambridge Месяц назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom Thank you.

  • @lozb1631
    @lozb1631 Месяц назад +1

    Sending healing hugs to David

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi Loz,
      Thank you for your kind and supportive message! I truly appreciate your care and good wishes. Remember, Wu Wei Wisdom is about living in balance and harmony-something we can all aspire to each day. 😊
      If you’d like to connect further, feel free to join our community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @FktGT
    @FktGT Месяц назад +1

    Thanks

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi,
      Thank you so much for your kind and generous donation-it’s truly appreciated! Your support helps me continue sharing Wu Wei Wisdom and reaching more people on their journey to balance and harmony.
      If you’d like to connect further, feel free to join our supportive community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi,
      Thank you for your kind message and support! ❤ Your engagement and presence in this community mean so much to me. I hope you continue to find inspiration and guidance through Wu Wei Wisdom.
      If you haven’t already, join our supportive community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @spiritfilled5758
    @spiritfilled5758 Месяц назад +1

    I sure have been in this mind sense I lost my son then health, and then my home. However, I also imagine this can be seen as an end to one is the start of the next. I'm learning that life is a continuum, lol. Perspective is what we have to research. There are many. The great realization is we choose

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi,
      Thank you for sharing your profound perspective. It’s true-life is a continuum, and with every ending comes the seed of a new beginning. Choosing your perspective is one of the most powerful realizations you can have, as it places you back in alignment with your Shen spirit and the flow of life.
      Your journey, despite its challenges, is a testament to your strength and wisdom. By embracing each moment with curiosity and openness, you’re already walking the path of Wu Wei-living in balance and harmony with life’s unfolding. Becoming a profound teacher for others on their unique journey.
      If you’d like more support or connection, join our free community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
      I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
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      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline Месяц назад +2

    Thank you, I do want to get tot his point of innate value but I just don't "feel" it. How do I get to feel it?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi Malemaline,
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Understanding your innate value isn’t about "feeling” but believing in it as an undeniable truth. Value is not a gift from external sources; your Shen spirit already knows you are valuable; the challenge lies in uncovering and questioning the beliefs that tell you otherwise and create doubt.
      Start by asking yourself:
      - What beliefs or experiences taught me to doubt my value?
      - Are these beliefs based on truth, or are they old stories from my past that have morphed into my current identity?
      When you shift your focus from chasing a feeling to living with truth, honesty and integrity, you naturally align with your Shen spirit and begin to see your innate worth more clearly. With consistent practice and clear focus, this truth will grow stronger.
      For extra support, consider joining our free community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
      P.S. Exciting News!
      I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
      Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com
      Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @bubbles.stu26
    @bubbles.stu26 Месяц назад +1

    I found a lot of value in this and I found a lack of compassion. Simplification can be beneficial, harmful, and both.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Месяц назад

      Hi,
      Thank you for your thoughtful reflection. I appreciate your insight-simplification is indeed a double-edged sword. It can help us cut through unnecessary complications, but if it lacks compassion or depth, it might seem dismissive of the nuances of life.
      Wu Wei Wisdom encourages clarity with compassion, recognising that each person’s journey is unique. True understanding arises when we simplify without losing empathy, balancing directness with kindness. Your observation is a valuable reminder to always approach simplification mindfully.
      If you'd like to connect further with like-minded individuals exploring these teachings, you’re warmly invited to join our free Wu Wei Wisdom community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
      P.S. Exciting News!
      I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
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      Looking forward to sharing more with you!
      Kind Regards,
      David